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Cherrypink4940
02-09-2024, 10:52 PM
I kept thinking about going to Spa for massage and happy ending all the time. During work I also will think about which spa I will visit after work, during break time will search Facebook of the Spas and see which ML chio. Everyday i am thinking about this things. How to stop it? I am going to Spa everyday so far. I can't focus on my work in office.

SGBJ2016
02-09-2024, 11:16 PM
I kept thinking about going to Spa for massage and happy ending all the time. During work I also will think about which spa I will visit after work, during break time will search Facebook of the Spas and see which ML chio. Everyday i am thinking about this things. How to stop it? I am going to Spa everyday so far. I can't focus on my work in office.

Bro

You can decide about which spa to visit previous night and in the morning before coming to work send message to book her. For the rest of the day while at work keep the phone away from your desk (in locker or car). Check messages only during lunch.

SuperHumJiKid
03-09-2024, 12:04 AM
I kept thinking about going to Spa for massage and happy ending all the time. During work I also will think about which spa I will visit after work, during break time will search Facebook of the Spas and see which ML chio. Everyday i am thinking about this things. How to stop it? I am going to Spa everyday so far. I can't focus on my work in office.

put all ur money in FDs, bonds, or insurance etc.
left with the bare minimum to payoff loans, utilities, and daily necessity.
when no momey in pocket, won't even think about going to chiong.

Vortex
03-09-2024, 08:50 AM
You have been visiting spas for the past 6 years and still going strong.
Nothing or no aspirations on relationships side ?

dman19
03-09-2024, 09:01 AM
Bro

You can decide about which spa to visit previous night and in the morning before coming to work send message to book her. For the rest of the day while at work keep the phone away from your desk (in locker or car). Check messages only during lunch.

Great advice. Pre-plan your spendings and your activities and you should be fine. You need to bring back the focus to your work because after all, this generates the income you need to sustain your x drive.

Hurricane88
03-09-2024, 11:46 AM
I kept thinking about going to Spa for massage and happy ending all the time. During work I also will think about which spa I will visit after work, during break time will search Facebook of the Spas and see which ML chio. Everyday i am thinking about this things. How to stop it? I am going to Spa everyday so far. I can't focus on my work in office.

Find a gf(s) to bonk.

SirLance
03-09-2024, 11:56 AM
I kept thinking about going to Spa for massage and happy ending all the time. During work I also will think about which spa I will visit after work, during break time will search Facebook of the Spas and see which ML chio. Everyday i am thinking about this things. How to stop it? I am going to Spa everyday so far. I can't focus on my work in office.

Good job and pls keep it up.

ineedfriends
03-09-2024, 11:56 AM
i curious on average how much u guys spent monthly?

vyvyv
03-09-2024, 12:40 PM
I kept thinking about going to Spa for massage and happy ending all the time. During work I also will think about which spa I will visit after work, during break time will search Facebook of the Spas and see which ML chio. Everyday i am thinking about this things. How to stop it? I am going to Spa everyday so far. I can't focus on my work in office.

I know a cost efficient way. PCC every time you had the thoughts, in office toilet, at home or on the bed when you wake up at night. This won't solve the root of your addiction but treat your symptoms.

My suggestions, solving the root of your addiction :

1. Exercise EVERYDAY (go gym, swim, jogging), this will rewire your brain. Happy hormones come from exercising and not going spa.

2. Talk to a friend who understands. If not, write a journal. Its like confessing to a priest, will give you comfort and motivate you more.

3. Make sure you drink enough plain water and treat yourself to good food (e.g. steaks, buffets).

4. Go for legit massages at established massage chain shop. Your body is mixing the pleasure signal from a good massage and the happy ending. Separate them.

5. lastly, the hardest I feel. Pick up a hobby, interest or do a side hustle. An empty mind is the devil's playground.

fxty1989
03-09-2024, 01:51 PM
I know a cost efficient way. PCC every time you had the thoughts, in office toilet, at home or on the bed when you wake up at night. This won't solve the root of your addiction but treat your symptoms.

My suggestions, solving the root of your addiction :

1. Exercise EVERYDAY (go gym, swim, jogging), this will rewire your brain. Happy hormones come from exercising and not going spa.

2. Talk to a friend who understands. If not, write a journal. Its like confessing to a priest, will give you comfort and motivate you more.

3. Make sure you drink enough plain water and treat yourself to good food (e.g. steaks, buffets).

4. Go for legit massages at established massage chain shop. Your body is mixing the pleasure signal from a good massage and the happy ending. Separate them.

5. lastly, the hardest I feel. Pick up a hobby, interest or do a side hustle. An empty mind is the devil's playground.

This might be the right solution.

ulysses84
03-09-2024, 02:15 PM
I know a cost efficient way. PCC every time you had the thoughts, in office toilet, at home or on the bed when you wake up at night. This won't solve the root of your addiction but treat your symptoms.

My suggestions, solving the root of your addiction :

1. Exercise EVERYDAY (go gym, swim, jogging), this will rewire your brain. Happy hormones come from exercising and not going spa.

2. Talk to a friend who understands. If not, write a journal. Its like confessing to a priest, will give you comfort and motivate you more.

3. Make sure you drink enough plain water and treat yourself to good food (e.g. steaks, buffets).

4. Go for legit massages at established massage chain shop. Your body is mixing the pleasure signal from a good massage and the happy ending. Separate them.

5. lastly, the hardest I feel. Pick up a hobby, interest or do a side hustle. An empty mind is the devil's playground.

This are some possible means and ways to consider, end of day boils down whether TS have the willpower & discipline to change his current lifestyle.

The Old Nite
03-09-2024, 02:26 PM
before u wan go massage, u hj urself, shoot out liao ask urself still wan go massage???

Mr Banana
03-09-2024, 04:12 PM
before u wan go massage, u hj urself, shoot out liao ask urself still wan go massage???

Yes!! Worked for me several times and save so much money.
Another way is, get a game console and be addicted to that. Better if you like RPG type of games. Sometimes too bored at work, I keep reading Frs and MR here until I tempted, after work cheong GL or find ML.
After I got a Nintendo switch and a couple of games, free time at work become reading game FAQs and watching game tutorials. Finish work, go home cheong game.
It's really a money saver for me, although still got ML msg me to support, I managed to ignore and continue play game and no reply then.

sammybigfan
03-09-2024, 04:15 PM
stop visiting sbf and Facebook is a good start ;)

Alantino
03-09-2024, 05:52 PM
Left hand hold 50, right hand fap.

Cum piao 50 still in your hand.

Repeat for better effect.

rogertks
04-09-2024, 10:09 AM
Left hand hold 50, right hand fap.

Cum piao 50 still in your hand.

Repeat for better effect.

Cum liao left hand pass $50 to right hand.

Peacekeeping
04-09-2024, 02:30 PM
Yes!! Worked for me several times and save so much money.
Another way is, get a game console and be addicted to that. Better if you like RPG type of games. Sometimes too bored at work, I keep reading Frs and MR here until I tempted, after work cheong GL or find ML.
After I got a Nintendo switch and a couple of games, free time at work become reading game FAQs and watching game tutorials. Finish work, go home cheong game.
It's really a money saver for me, although still got ML msg me to support, I managed to ignore and continue play game and no reply then.

Playing games doesn’t get rid of loneliness. Maybe massage is a way to cope with feelings of loneliness?

darklordV
04-09-2024, 06:51 PM
Me too bro. I usually pcc then release liao can tahan 2-3 days then I will go back to checking which spa to go lol. In that 2-3 days I will usually do my usually activities to keep myself occupied

Nekofear
04-09-2024, 07:54 PM
Maybe after got a GF or a FWB, you won't be gg to spa so much becos u don't have energy/money to chiong.

Currently, I chiong together with waxing, which is once a month. Also I think if your body less tired frm work, u chiong less too

Vias
05-09-2024, 10:36 AM
A gf is a viable solution.
Another way is to save up the money to chiong overseas.
That is one of my regrets, have not chiong overseas, 95% in sgp.
Go read the international, thailand, jb forums.

Mr Banana
05-09-2024, 11:15 AM
Playing games doesn’t get rid of loneliness. Maybe massage is a way to cope with feelings of loneliness?

I think TS issue is not loneliness, more horny than lonely.
Exercise, as mentioned by other samsters, can help lower testosterone and also maybe pick up other hobbies can distract ba.
In my situation, gaming helped me a lot. If lonely, can try play those team games on mobile like MLBB or MMORPG. Got community in these games. Can interact with other players.

Life6666
05-09-2024, 04:29 PM
I kept thinking about going to Spa for massage and happy ending all the time. During work I also will think about which spa I will visit after work, during break time will search Facebook of the Spas and see which ML chio. Everyday i am thinking about this things. How to stop it? I am going to Spa everyday so far. I can't focus on my work in office.

Bro, transfer all your $ to me then you got no money to think for that, jkjk :D:D

WinterMelonTree
06-09-2024, 01:08 PM
I kept thinking about going to Spa for massage and happy ending all the time. During work I also will think about which spa I will visit after work, during break time will search Facebook of the Spas and see which ML chio. Everyday i am thinking about this things. How to stop it? I am going to Spa everyday so far. I can't focus on my work in office.

such an obsession is either clinical disease of the mind or you have underlying issues.

maybe family, work, society hasnt been kind to you. can try working on yourself.

stevez
07-09-2024, 10:30 AM
Go fuck and fuck and fuck.
Keep fucking until you run out of money. That's the spirit. HAHAHA.

Yes, the most effective method to cure this is poverty :D