Fell in love with this PRC KTV girl who hurt me real bad

[DunhillSmooth]

Hi Bros,

looking for sincere advice, and expecting to be flamed for being stupid.

Long story short. I fell for this KTV girl who hurt me conning me my tips and my feelings of course. , She went with another guy, and now staying with him.

Now she says she needs help, and only messages me only when she needs help. She told me many stories which I found out to be untrue, like she already went back China, she no longer with that guy, she is now studying in China. Every time she only messages me, but ignores me when i message.

I stll have strong feelings for her and now she's asking me for help.

Should I help her?

[CoolBlack]

NO!! The signs are crystal clear! There wont be any happy ending!

[Joverick]

We all can tell you not to help her but will you listen?

If won't listen, then only thing left is for you to get hurt by her again and again until one day you wake up from the lies she fed you

[Tai_zi21]

Hi Bros,

looking for sincere advice, and expecting to be flamed for being stupid.

Long story short. I fell for this KTV girl who hurt me conning me my tips and my feelings of course. , She went with another guy, and now staying with him.

Now she says she needs help, and only messages me only when she needs help. She told me many stories which I found out to be untrue, like she already went back China, she no longer with that guy, she is now studying in China. Every time she only messages me, but ignores me when i message.

I stll have strong feelings for her and now she's asking me for help.

Should I help her?

Just start to chiong? Lol ok serious answer here to u

U know why u think she is special to you? Cos you haven’t meet someone even prettier than her boobs bigger than her figure better her and KC u better than her…

Many fishes in the pond… trust me after a year u look back and think why are u so foolish

[ilovepantyhose]

dun be carrot

dun be robert

dun be simp

dun be atm

[fbtogo888]

Red flags everywhere in your story. You are nothing to her. Wake up. This applies to any girl who behaves in this way to you, not just KTV girls. Please learn to love yourself before you even think about loving someone else. Enough said.

[Topper]

Hi Bros,

looking for sincere advice, and expecting to be flamed for being stupid.

Long story short. I fell for this KTV girl who hurt me conning me my tips and my feelings of course. , She went with another guy, and now staying with him.

Now she says she needs help, and only messages me only when she needs help. She told me many stories which I found out to be untrue, like she already went back China, she no longer with that guy, she is now studying in China. Every time she only messages me, but ignores me when i message.

I stll have strong feelings for her and now she's asking me for help.

Should I help her?

Looks like you are in too deep like tio gong tao already.

It's human to have some feelings or like a FL/WL/KTV girl, but never get too serious.

Always remember, a man's objective and mindset when go to such places is to find sexual solace while having fun by acting out your fantasies with the ladies to ensure you get value for money with good ROI. Key thing is never stick to one lady, always go for the thrill of finding new and better ones with multiple standbys. This should be the way. Such skills can be mastered quite easily.

But once your direction is wrong, which is to go there and find love, then Hong Kanz already. These girls have 6th sense and can spot such kum gong guys easily and will sharpen their knives sharp sharp for the kill.

Since now although you still 'have strong feelings' and yet know you are stupid, I believe you still can be saved.

There is a saying by Li Ao which still rings true: " 中国人深不可测，台湾人可爱，新加坡人笨 “, if you get the drift.

It is not that there is no love in such places. There are stories of local men marrying a nice KTV/WL/FL girl after their contract here expires. But these cases are very rare. Key thing is, such ladies have good character are really kind-hearted after passing through many tests by the guy. So such ladies are worth to fall for and marry even.

For your case is a total opposite, the lady you describe seems like a habitual liar with deep character flaw who is out to pwn you. She also seems like an expert to toy with your feelings so definitely not worth for you to develop any feelings at all.

Unless you wish to be eventually squeezed dry and siphoned of all your monies and become bankrupt with debts some more which she will suddenly MIA, pls move on and wake up before it's too late.

If I were you and encounter such KTV ladies, she will not get an additional single cent from me except those standard rates and if she tries to be funny, I will just play along to extract maximum fun and pleasure from her without getting burnt. This should be the way. Why get so serious for fiak? LOL.;)

You may wish to read up my post reply to a similar case like yours involving a WL: https://samsforum.com/showpost.php?p=23740984&postcount=31

[titan]

strong feelings will die off over time. go meet someone new, hangout with that person/group of people. dont let yourself be alone or u will start to think too much

[DunhillSmooth]

NO!! The signs are crystal clear! There wont be any happy ending!

Bro, you're right. Damn... but keep looking at handphone and her wechat moments just trying to figure out how she is... stop messaging her but the heart is feeling the tinge

[DunhillSmooth]

We all can tell you not to help her but will you listen?

If won't listen, then only thing left is for you to get hurt by her again and again until one day you wake up from the lies she fed you

Bro, you're right. The big head keeps telling me "wake the f*ck up!", but the heart keep feeling the ache... like keep asking to get hurt like that... damn stupid I know

[DunhillSmooth]

Just start to chiong? Lol ok serious answer here to u

U know why u think she is special to you? Cos you haven’t meet someone even prettier than her boobs bigger than her figure better her and KC u better than her…

Many fishes in the pond… trust me after a year u look back and think why are u so foolish

No leh bro, actually there are prettier fishes out there. But somehow my heart only tinge for her. I got girls that like me... but just i can't let her go. A friend told me, it's not that you like her... you are mmm gam wan (cannot take it) that she went for a pai kia (bad boy) and you are just the loser standing there sucking thumb

[DunhillSmooth]

dun be carrot

dun be robert

dun be simp

dun be atm

Bro, well said... I think i should change my nick to Simp_Rob_ATM.. you hit the nail with every quote there

[DunhillSmooth]

Since now although you still 'have strong feelings' and yet know you are stupid, I believe you still can be saved.

There is a saying by Li Ao which still rings true: " 中国人深不可测，台湾人可爱，新加坡人笨 “, if you get the drift.

It is not that there is no love in such places. There are stories of local men marrying a nice KTV/WL/FL girl after their contract here expires. But these cases are very rare. Key thing is, such ladies have good character are really kind-hearted after passing through many tests by the guy. So such ladies are worth to fall for and marry even.

For your case is a total opposite, the lady you describe seems like a habitual liar with deep character flaw who is out to pwn you. She also seems like an expert to toy with your feelings so definitely not worth for you to develop any feelings at all.

Unless you wish to be eventually squeezed dry and siphoned of all your monies and become bankrupt with debts some more which she will suddenly MIA, pls move on and wake up before it's too late.

If I were you and encounter such KTV ladies, she will not get an additional single cent from me except those standard rates and if she tries to be funny, I will just play along to extract maximum fun and pleasure from her without getting burnt. This should be the way. Why get so serious for fiak? LOL.;)

You may wish to read up my post reply to a similar case like yours involving a WL: https://samsforum.com/showpost.php?p=23740984&postcount=31

Bro, thanks for the sincere words. I love the story you share, and thank you for encouraging me saying that acknowledging that I am stupid there's still hope for me.

Maybe I watch too many Stephen Chow movies that he could have been with Zhu Ying, but he gave up the chance... I am no Stephen Chow, but I could learn to be like him, to be a man to be strong and make a strong choice and move on.

Love that you share your wisdom with me. Much appreciated, got chance would love to meet you for a beer or a drink of your choice.

:)

[DunhillSmooth]

strong feelings will die off over time. go meet someone new, hangout with that person/group of people. dont let yourself be alone or u will start to think too much

Bro, you can be a psychiatrist siah! you're right. Time will wash all the pain and feelings away... you know what's the funny thing? I know the answers, but the heart still sibeh KNN...
got any advice to make the heart feel less pain?

[loneyheart]

What is " Love " or is it a moment of urge n temptation of lust tat her svc is sooo good ?
Giving $$$ to MLs /FLs / KTV girl r like throwing $$$ into the black hole as they never get enough
She will only be yours when u r with her maybe 1 or few hrs when u engage her svc .. even on phone with u she may have another daring beside her ... then she will be having tens / or more customers tats so call hers " Only One "
Tats why PRCs like to moan " Lao Gong " when she is FxxKing U

U joined in 2007 should be a exp chionger
There r terms like ..KCed ... Gongtao ... Whores r for Fxxking ... Horny / urge / lust ... addicted ... for a same reason but still many fall into it

No one can really be specially escape even if they said he will never ... only too early tat he hasn't meet 上得山多终遇虎 :) 。。。Should he be lucky / unlucky tat never meet the Special Sooo Good One :p

U should fell blessed tat u met a good one may in terms of look .. fig .. svc .. GFE tat let u asking for more
But u should know how to control yrself n her too in terms of fav / $$$
Always bare in mind working ladies r here for only $$$ ... enjoy yrself while she is still around but in the 1st place know how to " TaiJi" / control $$$ ... unless u have a very big n deep pocket

Bare in mind u never be the " Only One "
99.99% 欢场无真爱 。。只是一场游戏一场蒙 :)
Its just a mind game ... so r u game ? ... not for the weak hearted one pls :D

Don't worry bro ... yr heart ache will not last too long if u just move on n may meet another as good svc or even better :) Good luck bro

[loneyheart]

Just stand up from where u fallen bro ... u will be ok bro :D:)

[titan]

Bro, you can be a psychiatrist siah! you're right. Time will wash all the pain and feelings away... you know what's the funny thing? I know the answers, but the heart still sibeh KNN...
got any advice to make the heart feel less pain?

been that done that, bro. but your case, u are like her handyman. i rather u spend money for FL/ML for time being. if money is a issue then go JB. go travel and meet new friend. I met my current gf during a trip.

[Adler]

But you have at least bang her before ? More than once.
Right ?

[Filipe]

Use half or less than half the money she is asking for and go whoring.
Will make you forget her at least for a while, get to screw more girls and get actual value for the money.

[fxty1989]

Come on, the answer is very clear, just black list all her contact, then you will find out it’s pretty easy to forget this kind of person.

[Saxan]

Simping -

“Simp” is both a noun and a verb (to “simp over” or “simp for” someone is to engage in simp behavior). These days, the most common definition of the noun “simp” seems to be this:

a man who throws money or attention at a woman in order to gain her affection, even when his tactics aren't working.

" a silly or foolish person "

You decide if you want to continue being one.

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[henrikh]

dun be carrot

dun be robert

dun be simp

dun be atm

Fully agree with you

[nasdaq]

Simping -

“Simp” is both a noun and a verb (to “simp over” or “simp for” someone is to engage in simp behavior). These days, the most common definition of the noun “simp” seems to be this:

a man who throws money or attention at a woman in order to gain her affection, even when his tactics aren't working.

" a silly or foolish person "

You decide if you want to continue being one.

回头是岸

Thanks for sharing.

[meshpenstand]

Hi Bros,

looking for sincere advice, and expecting to be flamed for being stupid.

Long story short. I fell for this KTV girl who hurt me conning me my tips and my feelings of course. , She went with another guy, and now staying with him.

Now she says she needs help, and only messages me only when she needs help. She told me many stories which I found out to be untrue, like she already went back China, she no longer with that guy, she is now studying in China. Every time she only messages me, but ignores me when i message.

I stll have strong feelings for her and now she's asking me for help.

Should I help her?


To summarized, you know you got KC and you are okay with it. Despite some frustration about no reciprocation of feelings, it is acceptable to you that you're simping over her.

Now, the help you asked, are you able to afford comfortably? Since, most help is in term of $$$.

If it's not making a hole in your pocket, continue simping away. Sometimes,
it's just a nice feeling staying in the simping zone.

But, for any working lady (any lady in fact, but more for WL), stay away from her. Block her on wechat/whatsapp. Fap more often to get the lust out of your mind, go hang out with other girls more. out of sight, out of mind.

Good luck bro!

[JasonJG]

Just delete her WeChat and block her. You'll feel a sense of emptiness for a couple of weeks. After that, it will all be fine. Both of you will still be alive. You can go on with your life, and she'll probably be hunting for her next sponsor.

[xnarsilx]

Hi Bros,

looking for sincere advice, and expecting to be flamed for being stupid.

Long story short. I fell for this KTV girl who hurt me conning me my tips and my feelings of course. , She went with another guy, and now staying with him.

Now she says she needs help, and only messages me only when she needs help. She told me many stories which I found out to be untrue, like she already went back China, she no longer with that guy, she is now studying in China. Every time she only messages me, but ignores me when i message.

I stll have strong feelings for her and now she's asking me for help.

Should I help her?

Bro, i wouldnt say stupid but its just not worth it. The money could be better spend else where. Spend it on other hookers, food, yourself, your family. Dont waste it on her.

[Lennyberg]

spend the money she asking from you on another few more KTV sessions. you will find yourself having more feelings with other ladies.

Its a phase you are going through... Don't succumb. Tahan and go see swim more to find more fishes.

[DunhillSmooth]

Just stand up from where u fallen bro ... u will be ok bro :D:)

Thank you Mr Lonely Heart, your nick describes my feelings now. But yes, like what Denzel Washington says "Fall forward"

[DunhillSmooth]

spend the money she asking from you on another few more KTV sessions. you will find yourself having more feelings with other ladies.

Its a phase you are going through... Don't succumb. Tahan and go see swim more to find more fishes.

Bro, the advice sounds good. Yes, time cures all heart aches. Thank you. Kinda lost the feel for KTV now though... it's really stupid of me, listening the same songs again and again and again... and again..

[DunhillSmooth]

Bro, i wouldnt say stupid but its just not worth it. The money could be better spend else where. Spend it on other hookers, food, yourself, your family. Dont waste it on her.

Well said, Sir. Like my friend said to me "笨是没有药救的“

[DunhillSmooth]

Just delete her WeChat and block her. You'll feel a sense of emptiness for a couple of weeks. After that, it will all be fine. Both of you will still be alive. You can go on with your life, and she'll probably be hunting for her next sponsor.

Bro Jason, yes, worth considering to go cold turkey on her. And yes, sadly, she'll be looking for another sponsor... sad but true.

[DunhillSmooth]

Just stand up from where u fallen bro ... u will be ok bro :D:)

Bro, you sound like my muay thai coach after he kicked me in the balls... You rock!

[DunhillSmooth]

been that done that, bro. but your case, u are like her handyman. i rather u spend money for FL/ML for time being. if money is a issue then go JB. go travel and meet new friend. I met my current gf during a trip.

Wah bro, that sounds like a cool idea... i always like Malaysian girls, never had one as a GF though.

[DunhillSmooth]

But you have at least bang her before ? More than once.
Right ?

Yes bro, more than once... I'm a funny guy, once I bonged, i feel more for the girl... should castrate myself siah!

[DunhillSmooth]

Use half or less than half the money she is asking for and go whoring.
Will make you forget her at least for a while, get to screw more girls and get actual value for the money.

Well said. This is great wisdom from some guru like you and Warren Buffett

[DunhillSmooth]

Come on, the answer is very clear, just black list all her contact, then you will find out it’s pretty easy to forget this kind of person.

Bro, you are right. This is like multiple choice question, but the answer is all the same.. COLD TURKEY

[DunhillSmooth]

Simping -

“Simp” is both a noun and a verb (to “simp over” or “simp for” someone is to engage in simp behavior). These days, the most common definition of the noun “simp” seems to be this:

a man who throws money or attention at a woman in order to gain her affection, even when his tactics aren't working.

" a silly or foolish person "

You decide if you want to continue being one.

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Thank you Sir, my Ang Mo teacher never taught me the word. I blame her.

[DunhillSmooth]

To summarized, you know you got KC and you are okay with it. Despite some frustration about no reciprocation of feelings, it is acceptable to you that you're simping over her.

Now, the help you asked, are you able to afford comfortably? Since, most help is in term of $$$.

If it's not making a hole in your pocket, continue simping away. Sometimes,
it's just a nice feeling staying in the simping zone.

But, for any working lady (any lady in fact, but more for WL), stay away from her. Block her on wechat/whatsapp. Fap more often to get the lust out of your mind, go hang out with other girls more. out of sight, out of mind.

Good luck bro!

Great Wisdom and Great advice bro... cut her off my life, that's what a lot of wise bros here say too.

I shall call you Mr Zhuge Liang

[ceeko]

Whores are for fucking

[nkyc]

Dunno if this helps.... Look at her like how u look at actresses... They fuking convincing and gd at their job.

Just pay her for sex and nothing else pls

[DunhillSmooth]

Yeah, you are so fucking stupid. HAHAHA.

Bro, you're right! I so deserved that.. I got fucked stupid by the girl

[DunhillSmooth]

Whores are for fucking

Indeed. 4 words of wisdom. Just says it all doesn't it?

[DunhillSmooth]

Dunno if this helps.... Look at her like how u look at actresses... They fuking convincing and gd at their job.

Just pay her for sex and nothing else pls

Good thoughts, never thought of it that way. Then i'm the calefare in the movie. "Cut!" my time is over, move on to the next scene

[Kennzo]

Splash the money on yourself instead and take a holiday to chill and relax. The heavier the fall , the pain will make you more awake. especially you are in SB, when all the fun are here!

为了一颗树不值得, 要玩就去森林玩 lol

[fxty1989]

Bro, you are right. This is like multiple choice question, but the answer is all the same.. COLD TURKEY

At the end of the day, it’s just a deal of money, never put in extra feelings in it. Haha.

[Saxan]

I stll have strong feelings for her and now she's asking me for help.



Curious, how much you have given her and how much she is asking for this time ?
How did she repay you the last time, by sleeping with you ?

[s9963c]

[QUOTE=DunhillSmooth;23764386]Hi Bros,

looking for sincere advice, and expecting to be flamed for being stupid.

Long story short. I fell for this KTV girl who hurt me conning me my tips and my feelings of course. , She went with another guy, and now staying with him.

Now she says she needs help, and only messages me only when she needs help. She told me many stories which I found out to be untrue, like she already went back China, she no longer with that guy, she is now studying in China. Every time she only messages me, but ignores me when i message.

I stll have strong feelings for her and now she's asking me for help.

Should I help her?[/QUOT

Don't be silly. She is probably living happy in China and milking u at the same time.

[s9963c]

Don be silly. She is probably living happily in China and milking u at the same time.

[xangelx]

Hi Bros,

looking for sincere advice, and expecting to be flamed for being stupid.

Long story short. I fell for this KTV girl who hurt me conning me my tips and my feelings of course. , She went with another guy, and now staying with him.

Now she says she needs help, and only messages me only when she needs help. She told me many stories which I found out to be untrue, like she already went back China, she no longer with that guy, she is now studying in China. Every time she only messages me, but ignores me when i message.

I stll have strong feelings for her and now she's asking me for help.

Should I help her?

i used to be like you bro. i chiong every single day running from siamdiu to ktv. multiple times kena gongtao , everybody around me telling me im stupid. but you will never learn until one know someone knocks you in the head, or maybe when you wallet is empty. thats when you will wake up. i hope this helps man, just block her, move on and find a different girl.

[Adler]

Yes bro, more than once... I'm a funny guy, once I bonged, i feel more for the girl... should castrate myself siah!

In that case, at least not complete goondu.
Up to you dude, things are not going to change with her, nor are you going to change her.
You are banging against of wall of thorns, and when you break through that wall, going to be a long fall off the cliff beyond.

I believe it was Walt Disney who said something like -

" Insanity is doing the same things again and again and expecting a different result. "

[klkk555]

she just treat you like a 工具男, only contact you when need you. other then that you don't exist at all. you somehow have to retain a bit of your male pride. don't let yourself be looked down and taken advantage of. alot of times is like we think she is so special and will not find another one, or we think she and i have so much chemistry when we see her but it's all fake and all a show. i used to like 1 FL also like that, give tips buy her things but outside of me texting her she never texted me once, even when i last minute had to cancel for an emergency she never asked about me. that woke me up.

i hope you wake up soon brother, as I've heard before somewhere 需要花钱的东西，放少一点感情。不需要花钱的东西，放多一点感情。good luck bro, hope you wake up soon.

[donut88]

Hi Bros,

looking for sincere advice, and expecting to be flamed for being stupid.

Long story short. I fell for this KTV girl who hurt me conning me my tips and my feelings of course. , She went with another guy, and now staying with him.

Now she says she needs help, and only messages me only when she needs help. She told me many stories which I found out to be untrue, like she already went back China, she no longer with that guy, she is now studying in China. Every time she only messages me, but ignores me when i message.

I stll have strong feelings for her and now she's asking me for help.

Should I help her?



The answer is so obvious, bro.

She's treating you like a ATM.

[DunhillSmooth]

Yeah, you are so fucking stupid. HAHAHA.

Bro, I deserved that. Thanks for your fine sharing

[Twa_Kee]

Bro, I deserved that. Thanks for your fine sharing

Bro, just forget the past, take it as a lesson learned and move forward …

Like your nick said, go smoke a Dunhill cigarette and everything will be Smooth …

Cheers

[WinterMelonTree]

Hi Bros,

looking for sincere advice, and expecting to be flamed for being stupid.

Long story short. I fell for this KTV girl who hurt me conning me my tips and my feelings of course. , She went with another guy, and now staying with him.

Now she says she needs help, and only messages me only when she needs help. She told me many stories which I found out to be untrue, like she already went back China, she no longer with that guy, she is now studying in China. Every time she only messages me, but ignores me when i message.

I stll have strong feelings for her and now she's asking me for help.

Should I help her?

unlike your name, you are not smooth at all lol you know perfectly well what's the real answer.

[DunhillSmooth]

unlike your name, you are not smooth at all lol you know perfectly well what's the real answer.

Nice one bro!! Yes, think the cigi flavour also no longer in production... sobs!:(

[DunhillSmooth]

Bro, just forget the past, take it as a lesson learned and move forward …

Like your nick said, go smoke a Dunhill cigarette and everything will be Smooth …

Cheers

Bro, well said! Yes, smoking does help to relieve the pain and the sad memories.

Thank you for the kind advice!

[oxeso]

May the force be wif u. :D

https://youtu.be/KHltd3iuMAw?si=tvH6J-LsQ2o9SWyA

[AaronLeeKwok]

The answer is so obvious, bro.

She's treating you like a ATM.

Agreed with this bro. KTV women and MLs are eyeing money money only.

[10019999]

Recently my friend also got KC. Lol, he knows he got KCed but still couldn’t help himself out. Sometimes it really depends when the hit smack your face then you will wake up. I also had similar experience when I just started to chiong. Till I met this girl in ktv. We did nothing sensual but her words just keep me sober whenever I go to ktv or ML place.

Her words: “Do you think we come here work is to find true love? Most of us were hurt in relationship and we definitely won’t trust men who visited us here. We only here for money. Nothing else. Guys who play “love” game are just boys who have not grown up.”

The way she put it across to me, really keep me away from unnecessary trouble.

[Moshimosh]

Take a break from ktv, delete her wc and prob go for a holiday it helps as long as you stop receiving message from her. These girls are here to have fun and earn money while they still can.

Girls age fast and once we see their wrinkles we will drop them fast too. There are always younger and prettier cai around. Never be stupid to give in to this kind of demand, you will definitely regret it.

[PeteLove]

Recently my friend also got KC. Lol, he knows he got KCed but still couldn’t help himself out. Sometimes it really depends when the hit smack your face then you will wake up. I also had similar experience when I just started to chiong. Till I met this girl in ktv. We did nothing sensual but her words just keep me sober whenever I go to ktv or ML place.

Her words: “Do you think we come here work is to find true love? Most of us were hurt in relationship and we definitely won’t trust men who visited us here. We only here for money. Nothing else. Guys who play “love” game are just boys who have not grown up.”

The way she put it across to me, really keep me away from unnecessary trouble.

Thanks for sharing info.

[Dusty]

Take a break from ktv, delete her wc and prob go for a holiday it helps as long as you stop receiving message from her. These girls are here to have fun and earn money while they still can.

Girls age fast and once we see their wrinkles we will drop them fast too. There are always younger and prettier cai around. Never be stupid to give in to this kind of demand, you will definitely regret it.

Agree with you.