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pokemonlugia
11-11-2024, 08:47 PM
Any bros know of any MP, that you able to hear beside having sex (curtain joint), while you are enjoying too.
I only know upper serangoon joint have
kumweng
11-11-2024, 09:00 PM
I also wan to know. Pls PM me. thks
yumihisoka
11-11-2024, 09:10 PM
Any spa in balestier. Go during lunch time and you have a marathon session.
ahball
11-11-2024, 09:16 PM
Any bros know of any MP, that you able to hear beside having sex (curtain joint), while you are enjoying too.
I only know upper serangoon joint have
upper serangoon have meh? YZM ah
Baldiebro
11-11-2024, 10:32 PM
Can try 333 KA/Chinatown.
Newsasap
11-11-2024, 11:51 PM
Any bros know of any MP, that you able to hear beside having sex (curtain joint), while you are enjoying too.
I only know upper serangoon joint have
First time you felt embarrassed when people hears you,
As time goes by you getting use to it and felt proud showing others when U gets gutsy.
ihavenonick
12-11-2024, 12:07 AM
At Syed Alwi road there is one, was offered FJ but I politely declined. You can try your luck there.
javasql
12-11-2024, 02:57 AM
Sounds interesting. I recently encounter a curtain joint (not even curtain, its just partition). Not even full height. Basically the ML can see each other while standing. I though this joint surely a clean joint coz her massage is so damn legit, suddenly she started massaging my inner thigh and move towards my balls and gave me a massage for good 15 mins. Without warning, she gave me a nice HJ to end it off while she looked left and right to make sure no one sees her. Tip her $30 but she gladly accepted. Guess business is hard? Lol. But the feeling damn exciting la. Btw, my ML is not syt, she is already milf. I can share with bros who willing to exchange ctcs.
Xgenre
12-11-2024, 05:32 AM
Sounds interesting. I recently encounter a curtain joint (not even curtain, its just partition). Not even full height.
Because it's not full height, you better check if the cctv installed on the ceiling can see what's happening. I have been in a shop where the cctv can see and any guy taller than 1.8 m can see if he walks past. ML explained that the shop was originally a curtain shop but forced to remove curtains and install low partition
rundevilrun87
12-11-2024, 07:55 AM
Interesting... always felt a bit more risky and scared for curtain set ups, but can see how it be an additional thrill :cool:
HeyHo
12-11-2024, 08:49 AM
upper serangoon have meh? YZM ah
YZM’s Baby still there anot?
superstiffy
12-11-2024, 08:51 AM
wah lao eh... u all dun think until so simple can.... u go these kind of spa sure will kenna those kind talk and talk and talk ah lao trying to dua kang the ml..
talk here talk there always the same topic..
1) china expert because join tour to china 2 times and watch china video...
2) rich business man because got sell thing on carousell..
3) property tycoon because got 1 hdb spare room to rent to ml..
if u all can tahan the whole time they talk and talk then ok lor.. if not dun bother la... :rolleyes:
superstiffy
12-11-2024, 08:53 AM
Because it's not full height, you better check if the cctv installed on the ceiling can see what's happening. I have been in a shop where the cctv can see and any guy taller than 1.8 m can see if he walks past. ML explained that the shop was originally a curtain shop but forced to remove curtains and install low partition
i got go one the ending is do under the towel.. cannot see the kkj but can see the hand moving la... actually everyone also know so no need shy :D
NottyMonkey
12-11-2024, 09:10 AM
ALL FJ massage joints have la
it just depend on how loud only :D:D:D
Blackboy95
12-11-2024, 09:12 AM
I went to one thai. Open concept 2 beds behind the lady boss gilf just walk to and fro when the ML playing 😆
eugenetan80
12-11-2024, 09:56 AM
yzm is a fj joint?
orangeredyellow
12-11-2024, 10:02 AM
no FJ but knn my mood Abit ruined by this guy next to me keep on moaning while DATY-ing the very famous K*mm* in west. But ok la I got the better deal I was dining on M** lol
KT3248
12-11-2024, 10:32 AM
I went to one thai. Open concept 2 beds behind the lady boss gilf just walk to and fro when the ML playing 😆
That one I recall one MP in Goldmile does that before they closed down.
ahball
12-11-2024, 11:18 AM
how about the one at crawford lane?
omg888
12-11-2024, 12:02 PM
wah lao eh... u all dun think until so simple can.... u go these kind of spa sure will kenna those kind talk and talk and talk ah lao trying to dua kang the ml..
talk here talk there always the same topic..
1) china expert because join tour to china 2 times and watch china video...
2) rich business man because got sell thing on carousell..
3) property tycoon because got 1 hdb spare room to rent to ml..
if u all can tahan the whole time they talk and talk then ok lor.. if not dun bother la... :rolleyes:
Haha, very astute observations
danilov
12-11-2024, 01:20 PM
Those kreta ayer massage parlour near Maxwell food centre.
Curtains and can hear next cube piak piak and wet sucking sounds
Haven't been there for a few months and wonder how it is now.
Xgenre
12-11-2024, 02:39 PM
wah lao eh... u all dun think until so simple can.... u go these kind of spa sure will kenna those kind talk and talk and talk ah lao trying to dua kang the ml..
No need to listen to their conversation to determine next door is Ah Lao. Dunno why Ah Lao tend to have deep booming voice. Like those BMT Hokkien Peng Encik. Bad memories.
Shoot sperm during HJ/BJ need to concentrate and enjoy a bit. Quite hard to cum when Ah Lao cannot stop talking. 我的小红跟别人跑了。她找到新欢。。我的心太软烂。。然后。。(My gf found someone new) Knn... no matter how sexy my ML is, it's still a challenge to cum. 他说他心太软,我的弟弟跟着一起软 :D (when he says he is too soft hearted, my cock also turned soft) then the smarter ML will hint to the other ML by saying 小声点。 (speak softer)
Whenever the other side of the curtain is Ah Lao, my side of the curtain I will always go (the first 2 words in your comment).
Mobile88
12-11-2024, 03:23 PM
Those kreta ayer massage parlour near Maxwell food centre.
Curtains and can hear next cube piak piak and wet sucking sounds
Haven't been there for a few months and wonder how it is now.
Last time good and fun. Fresh faces. Now standard cannot already.
And I heard prices went up
SoftRiceKing
12-11-2024, 03:24 PM
Any bros know of any MP, that you able to hear beside having sex (curtain joint), while you are enjoying too.
I only know upper serangoon joint have
Wow, like a competition or tournament, see who can make the ml moan louder
Mobile88
12-11-2024, 03:26 PM
If go on weekend quite alright. Not much people going for these curtain places.
Usually will hear the music louder than anything
wahhero
12-11-2024, 03:57 PM
Got one ml at amk keke place also moan quite loud even got door close...when grab her pussy through her pants, she moan like kenna poke , then suck her nipple also the same..quite loud and for a long time...people beside the room thought got fuck job...
TheWalkingMan
12-11-2024, 04:00 PM
Got one ml at amk keke place also moan quite loud even got door close...when grab her pussy through her pants, she moan like kenna poke , then suck her nipple also the same..quite loud and for a long time...people beside the room thought got fuck job...
Colleague of AMK KeKe is PRC XiXi. But she is not known to moan that way, when I knew her since her days at TB.
Riverwalk
12-11-2024, 11:49 PM
Sounds interesting. I recently encounter a curtain joint (not even curtain, its just partition). Not even full height. Basically the ML can see each other while standing. I though this joint surely a clean joint coz her massage is so damn legit, suddenly she started massaging my inner thigh and move towards my balls and gave me a massage for good 15 mins. Without warning, she gave me a nice HJ to end it off while she looked left and right to make sure no one sees her. Tip her $30 but she gladly accepted. Guess business is hard? Lol. But the feeling damn exciting la. Btw, my ML is not syt, she is already milf. I can share with bros who willing to exchange ctcs.
Seems like Crawford area
I never hear others moaning. Sianz. Even those places that supposedly can hear like upper Serangoon or upper Thomson also never hear anything before. Must go during their peak hour but I dunno when. Lol
Powderpack
14-11-2024, 10:27 AM
RTM twice Master Masseuse A**** at Crawford in 2weeks.
Location was easy to reach by mrt or bus. It was a curtain shop and was fine for me. A**** was very bubbly and we chatted alot. Her massage strength was strong and able to release my tight muscle.
Really wanted to highlight her HDLY, because it was quite unique and it more to JG style. After that, HJ with a few pattern with she moan near my ear. Total damage was very affordable, really definetly will return when I need a strong massage to relive my tight muscle. Highly recommend you all to try out if you haven't.
omg888
14-11-2024, 12:45 PM
There’s a thread in the JB section, MILF Haven Johor Jaya, many curtain joints there.
I been to EK before. If u are into the thrill of hearing what your neighbours are up to in a curtain joint, that’s one of the best places to experience it.
ssd3469
14-11-2024, 04:40 PM
I have a bad review to share.
I went to a spa with rooms with walls but door is curtain.
Name: Xiao Fei, she is the highest ranking, in charge of the branch there it seems.
Location: X* Spa, Chinese garden MRT
Looks: photos is syt but filter gao gao, turn out to be late 30s. C to D cup, but turn off liao cos not syt.
Massage: solid strength
Damage: $58(inclusive of oil)+ $50
I reached at 2.19pm, took cheapest massage at 58 per hour for 1 hour. I went to the washroom first after that, so earliest timing that massage could have began was 2.30pm cause she was busy with other stuff before coming into room .
When I flipped over it was 3pm, I know the time because there was a clock in the room. She only got GFE when asking gq. When texting she could not care less. After massaging my hands she popped gq. Initially she quote $50, but I negotiate to $30, but back to $50 again because I wanted autoroam. I thought it was worth it because normally $50 does not include autoroam at some places. Please advice if this is a price that is worth or not. Does anyone know if hj is always include using oil?
Initially she don't want to lift up bra but finally relented. She also don't allow sucking of nipples cause too itchy supposedly.
Took very long to cum cos she could not find the rhythm plus she didn't know my sensitive spot was balls. When I finally left the place it was only 3.18pm. can you imagine if I had cummed fast? I would have been cheated of at least 20 minutes of session time. I was her first customer of the day somemore, she whole morning doing nothing, yet her service so lackluster.
I don't think I will be returning cos of heavy filter photo plus cheating of time. Overall I might quit chionging altogether also cause it is very expensive.
This ML is quite jialat, use her ps pics to lure bookings then last min switch with her shop MLs to give them sales.
Was previously in charge of xi spa boon keng before they chnanged owners
ssd3469
14-11-2024, 05:09 PM
This ML is quite jialat, use her ps pics to lure bookings then last min switch with her shop MLs to give them sales.
Was previously in charge of xi spa boon keng before they chnanged owners
Ya she was previously in boon keng. But why is giving other ml sales a bad thing? Please explain.
Ya she was previously in boon keng. But why is giving other ml sales a bad thing? Please explain.
You initially book her and when you reach the shop during appt time you find out she already went home and her colleague will be massaging you instead.
You wont be pissed?
ssd3469
14-11-2024, 05:25 PM
You initially book her and when you reach the shop during appt time you find out she already went home and her colleague will be massaging you instead.
You wont be pissed?
Why like that ah? Like that she cannot earn from extra. Please note that I edited the time cheated from 15 to 20 minutes, cause she was "busy" with other stuffs before coming into my room to begin massage. Today $108 I can go Malaysia buy the most expensive Nike soccer boots. Still got spare change. Pui.
ssd3469
14-11-2024, 05:28 PM
You initially book her and when you reach the shop during appt time you find out she already went home and her colleague will be massaging you instead.
You wont be pissed?
I think she used her phone once during session also. I am not sure because I was faced down. I also am not sure if she tried to avoid my roaming of her legs at the start of massage.
ssd3469
14-11-2024, 05:33 PM
You initially book her and when you reach the shop during appt time you find out she already went home and her colleague will be massaging you instead.
You wont be pissed?
I ask you, I want to find a gf, but because I keep on unable to find one that is why I am forced to resort to ML and prostitutes, any ideas on how to resolve this problem?
piichai
17-11-2024, 09:07 PM
I ask you, I want to find a gf, but because I keep on unable to find one that is why I am forced to resort to ML and prostitutes, any ideas on how to resolve this problem?
Hi Bro
Do you know why you cannot find gf?
Work on that area first. There are many reasons and only you know.
Finding ML and pros to replace gf is not a long term solution.
This type of relationship is commercial and fragile and can be costly.
A right GF can be your life time partner or a companion suppose to be with you through thick and thin, sharing beautiful moments tgt
Please be clear about this
pii
SoftRiceKing
17-11-2024, 09:52 PM
I ask you, I want to find a gf, but because I keep on unable to find one that is why I am forced to resort to ML and prostitutes, any ideas on how to resolve this problem?
Hi Bro
Do you know why you cannot find gf?
Work on that area first. There are many reasons and only you know.
Finding ML and pros to replace gf is not a long term solution.
This type of relationship is commercial and fragile and can be costly.
A right GF can be your life time partner or a companion suppose to be with you through thick and thin, sharing beautiful moments tgt
Please be clear about this
pii
Second to this bro. Bro ssd3469 may broaden your social circles, joining some interest group or hobby group or outing may increase the chance of meeting a like-minded partners.
Don’t forget that you are not the only one looking for gf. There are many girls looks for bf too. Cheer up bro!
ssd3469
18-11-2024, 08:32 AM
Hi Bro
Do you know why you cannot find gf?
Work on that area first. There are many reasons and only you know.
Finding ML and pros to replace gf is not a long term solution.
This type of relationship is commercial and fragile and can be costly.
A right GF can be your life time partner or a companion suppose to be with you through thick and thin, sharing beautiful moments tgt
Please be clear about this
pii
Firstly, ty for replying and for your advice.
Secondly,I know that prostitute is not a substitute for gf but because I am 34 with little savings(due largely to secondary four and NS bullying) that's why I say I am forced to. If I had a choice or was able to find a gf do you think I would want to go? I know you had my good intentions at heart and I am not angry. I just hope that you are able to see the situation by clarifying.
As for reasons I am not able to, do you all think that increasing Instagram followers would help? Because I only have 25 followers. But I don't know how to increase followers. I think there was a time when Instagram was first invented we had the option to port over or invite our Facebook friends over but I missed that opportunity.
Hope to hear your response or further advice to this. Thank you.
ssd3469
18-11-2024, 08:33 AM
Second to this bro. Bro ssd3469 may broaden your social circles, joining some interest group or hobby group or outing may increase the chance of meeting a like-minded partners.
Don’t forget that you are not the only one looking for gf. There are many girls looks for bf too. Cheer up bro!
Hi Bro
Do you know why you cannot find gf?
Work on that area first. There are many reasons and only you know.
Finding ML and pros to replace gf is not a long term solution.
This type of relationship is commercial and fragile and can be costly.
A right GF can be your life time partner or a companion suppose to be with you through thick and thin, sharing beautiful moments tgt
Please be clear about this
pii
Firstly, ty for replying and for your advice.
Secondly,I know that prostitute is not a substitute for gf but because I am 34 with little savings(due largely to secondary four and NS bullying) that's why I say I am forced to. If I had a choice or was able to find a gf do you think I would want to go? I know you had my good intentions at heart and I am not angry. I just hope that you are able to see the situation by clarifying.
As for reasons I am not able to, do you all think that increasing Instagram followers would help? Because I only have 25 followers. But I don't know how to increase followers. I think there was a time when Instagram was first invented we had the option to port over or invite our Facebook friends over but I missed that opportunity.
Hope to hear your response or further advice to this. Thank you.
superstiffy
18-11-2024, 08:36 AM
1) girls dun like calculative guys... everything also must count until exact... ask u meet at 3:00pm u 3:02pm then come... late for 2 min.. cheap my 2 min... i can stay home and pang sai for 2 min more then leave house...
2) girls dun like cheapskate guys... everything also must bargain.. get 20 cent discount then feel ownself feel sibei li hai... u may think u got power bargain skill and get good deal.. to the girls standing there is sibei xia suay...
everything in life is give and take... u give some u also take some... everything also become equal...
ml say $50 u bargain she accept = u take
ml buay song give u black face + poor service = u give
ml say $50 u ok = u give
ml happy got tips give you good service = u take
understand bo?
ssd3469
18-11-2024, 08:43 AM
1) girls dun like calculative guys... everything also must count until exact... ask u meet at 3:00pm u 3:02pm then come... late for 2 min.. cheap my 2 min... i can stay home and pang sai for 2 min more then leave house...
2) girls dun like cheapskate guys... everything also must bargain.. get 20 cent discount then feel ownself feel sibei li hai... u may think u got power bargain skill and get good deal.. to the girls standing there is sibei xia suay...
everything in life is give and take... u give some u also take some... everything also become equal...
ml say $50 u bargain she accept = u take
ml buay song give u black face + poor service = u give
ml say $50 u ok = u give
ml happy got tips give you good service = u take
understand bo?
I believe you were replying to my post.
I wasn't the one who was late. The time being set was 2.30pm. I went in at 2.19pm, so I was early.
Secondly, I had no choice but to bargain because I am jobless largely due to past bullying traumas.
ssd3469
18-11-2024, 08:47 AM
Hi Bro
Do you know why you cannot find gf?
Work on that area first. There are many reasons and only you know.
Finding ML and pros to replace gf is not a long term solution.
This type of relationship is commercial and fragile and can be costly.
A right GF can be your life time partner or a companion suppose to be with you through thick and thin, sharing beautiful moments tgt
Please be clear about this
pii
I am seeing a counsellor now, he tells me that it is possible to find a wife and buy a 4 room flat despite my circumstances now. Do you agree?
ssd3469
18-11-2024, 08:51 AM
Second to this bro. Bro ssd3469 may broaden your social circles, joining some interest group or hobby group or outing may increase the chance of meeting a like-minded partners.
Don’t forget that you are not the only one looking for gf. There are many girls looks for bf too. Cheer up bro!
I am seeing a counsellor now, he tells me that it is possible to find a wife and buy a 4 room flat despite my circumstances. Do you agree?
I know that it is not just us wanting to find a gf, women want to find a bf too, but the difference or problem is they don't want me.
I am also very sick of hearing phrases like it is just not your time yet, you will find one eventually, along with the phrase above.
rundevilrun87
18-11-2024, 09:09 AM
Firstly, ty for replying and for your advice.
Secondly,I know that prostitute is not a substitute for gf but because I am 34 with little savings(due largely to secondary four and NS bullying) that's why I say I am forced to. If I had a choice or was able to find a gf do you think I would want to go? I know you had my good intentions at heart and I am not angry. I just hope that you are able to see the situation by clarifying.
As for reasons I am not able to, do you all think that increasing Instagram followers would help? Because I only have 25 followers. But I don't know how to increase followers. I think there was a time when Instagram was first invented we had the option to port over or invite our Facebook friends over but I missed that opportunity.
Hope to hear your response or further advice to this. Thank you.
bro. we are similar age so just sharing a bit of my thoughts
firstly, no need talk about being forced to visit ML - we are all on the same forum to discuss our visits so there is nothing to be embarrassed about if that is what u are implying
u mentioned about instagram followers, but maybe this is the problem. bro no offense, but caring about ig follower count is dumb af unless u are an influencer or sth. i have 20x your follower count but it has made 0 impact in my life. this is not haolian but a clue/hint of the wrong stuff u might be focusing on
good that u are seeing a counsellor, but maybe u should focus less on this kind of milestone kind of goal, like get gf by xx age/bto whatever room(what else is the counsellor supposed to say if u asking a question like that anyway lol)
like pii bro said, should work more on yourself and observe why u have been unsuccessful with girls
coming from someone that had similar views as you some time ago
ssd3469
18-11-2024, 09:15 AM
bro. we are similar age so just sharing a bit of my thoughts
firstly, no need talk about being forced to visit ML - we are all on the same forum to discuss our visits so there is nothing to be embarrassed about if that is what u are implying
u mentioned about instagram followers, but maybe this is the problem. bro no offense, but caring about ig follower count is dumb af unless u are an influencer or sth. i have 20x your follower count but it has made 0 impact in my life. this is not haolian but a clue/hint of the wrong stuff u might be focusing on
good that u are seeing a counsellor, but maybe u should focus less on this kind of milestone kind of goal, like get gf by xx age/bto whatever room(what else is the counsellor supposed to say if u asking a question like that anyway lol)
like pii bro said, should work more on yourself and observe why u have been unsuccessful with girls
coming from someone that had similar views as you some time ago
No, there is a difference. For other people they are not forced because they are able to find a gf or wife. For me I am unable to find one, plus I am 34 years old with little savings and bad or no career largely due to past bullying traumas.
Btw is Locanto a good or bad website?
ssd3469
18-11-2024, 09:19 AM
bro. we are similar age so just sharing a bit of my thoughts
firstly, no need talk about being forced to visit ML - we are all on the same forum to discuss our visits so there is nothing to be embarrassed about if that is what u are implying
u mentioned about instagram followers, but maybe this is the problem. bro no offense, but caring about ig follower count is dumb af unless u are an influencer or sth. i have 20x your follower count but it has made 0 impact in my life. this is not haolian but a clue/hint of the wrong stuff u might be focusing on
good that u are seeing a counsellor, but maybe u should focus less on this kind of milestone kind of goal, like get gf by xx age/bto whatever room(what else is the counsellor supposed to say if u asking a question like that anyway lol)
like pii bro said, should work more on yourself and observe why u have been unsuccessful with girls
coming from someone that had similar views as you some time ago
For the counsellor part it is not accurate also, because I need to be able to see the possibility of it happening to have hope and something to work for. Plus all along that had been my life goal, to find a gf and set up a family, instead of visiting prostitutes, which is also why I say I was forced, I already told you this in my first reply.
When I say forced I mean forced by life circumstances, forced to an edge. Just like how Christopher reeves considered suicide after his injury. Just like how Desmond Tan drowned himself because he couldn't see a way out anymore in last year channel 8 drama all that glitters.
ihavenonick
18-11-2024, 09:23 AM
No, there is a difference. For other people they are not forced because they are able to find a gf or wife. For me I am unable to find one, plus I am 34 years old with little savings and bad or no career largely due to past bullying traumas.
Btw is Locanto a good or bad website?
You should work on your traumas and upskill yourself.
I don't know your circumstance too well but I have been in bullying situations too since young. Be more resilient and make it your goal to show those that bullied you back then that you are better than them. At least that's what I told myself and serves as a form of comfort.
I'm not proud of myself visiting ML/Escorts either and I'm trying to curb myself from doing so. Set a goal, like for my case I am aiming to buy my own condo if I can't find any suitable partner within the next 2-3 years. Want to buy condo equates to needing money, so I would need to chiong less.
On a side note, locanto is a bad site full of scams, thread with caution.
ssd3469
18-11-2024, 09:25 AM
bro. we are similar age so just sharing a bit of my thoughts
firstly, no need talk about being forced to visit ML - we are all on the same forum to discuss our visits so there is nothing to be embarrassed about if that is what u are implying
u mentioned about instagram followers, but maybe this is the problem. bro no offense, but caring about ig follower count is dumb af unless u are an influencer or sth. i have 20x your follower count but it has made 0 impact in my life. this is not haolian but a clue/hint of the wrong stuff u might be focusing on
good that u are seeing a counsellor, but maybe u should focus less on this kind of milestone kind of goal, like get gf by xx age/bto whatever room(what else is the counsellor supposed to say if u asking a question like that anyway lol)
like pii bro said, should work more on yourself and observe why u have been unsuccessful with girls
coming from someone that had similar views as you some time ago
When I say caring about ig followers it is because number of IG followers shows that you are high value and leading a cool life, so women might want to be a part of your life ie. Be your gf.
ssd3469
18-11-2024, 09:27 AM
You should work on your traumas and upskill yourself.
I don't know your circumstance too well but I have been in bullying situations too since young. Be more resilient and make it your goal to show those that bullied you back then that you are better than them. At least that's what I told myself and serves as a form of comfort.
I'm not proud of myself visiting ML/Escorts either and I'm trying to curb myself from doing so. Set a goal, like for my case I am aiming to buy my own condo if I can't find any suitable partner within the next 2-3 years. Want to buy condo equates to needing money, so I would need to chiong less.
On a side note, locanto is a bad site full of scams, thread with caution.
Actually prostitution is an exploitation of women, so if you think that way it will make you want to stop going.
ssd3469
18-11-2024, 09:28 AM
You should work on your traumas and upskill yourself.
I don't know your circumstance too well but I have been in bullying situations too since young. Be more resilient and make it your goal to show those that bullied you back then that you are better than them. At least that's what I told myself and serves as a form of comfort.
I'm not proud of myself visiting ML/Escorts either and I'm trying to curb myself from doing so. Set a goal, like for my case I am aiming to buy my own condo if I can't find any suitable partner within the next 2-3 years. Want to buy condo equates to needing money, so I would need to chiong less.
On a side note, locanto is a bad site full of scams, thread with caution.
Or if you think would you want your own sisters or mother or daughter to work as a prostitute it should help in helping you stop chionging.
ssd3469
18-11-2024, 09:28 AM
You should work on your traumas and upskill yourself.
I don't know your circumstance too well but I have been in bullying situations too since young. Be more resilient and make it your goal to show those that bullied you back then that you are better than them. At least that's what I told myself and serves as a form of comfort.
I'm not proud of myself visiting ML/Escorts either and I'm trying to curb myself from doing so. Set a goal, like for my case I am aiming to buy my own condo if I can't find any suitable partner within the next 2-3 years. Want to buy condo equates to needing money, so I would need to chiong less.
On a side note, locanto is a bad site full of scams, thread with caution.
Nah I went to teach my bullies a lesson.
ssd3469
18-11-2024, 09:31 AM
You should work on your traumas and upskill yourself.
I don't know your circumstance too well but I have been in bullying situations too since young. Be more resilient and make it your goal to show those that bullied you back then that you are better than them. At least that's what I told myself and serves as a form of comfort.
I'm not proud of myself visiting ML/Escorts either and I'm trying to curb myself from doing so. Set a goal, like for my case I am aiming to buy my own condo if I can't find any suitable partner within the next 2-3 years. Want to buy condo equates to needing money, so I would need to chiong less.
On a side note, locanto is a bad site full of scams, thread with caution.
I think quitting masturbation will help us in getting a gf also
YakunBoy
18-11-2024, 09:54 AM
Sharing 2 of my experiences of fj in curtain joint..one RTC and the other MIA now..
1- initially she Gq was HJ.. but ended up doing fj after successfully psychoing the ML.. its more than a year ago and the ML has RTC. She was in her late 20s, and a little chubby. The excitement is definitely there and both of us had to keep our moan/noise to a minimum.. did 3 positions, cowgirl, missionary and ended with doggy. I could tell that FJ wasnt allowed in the place as they didnt even have condom.. instead she used some thin sheet of plastic and it broke halfway and I only realized when I was doggy-ing her. Just continued anyways since whats done is done.. then shoot at her butt. Rtf one more time and she RTC. 2nd time also same thing, plastic broke and ended up doing raw. It was a little pricy as I tipped her 200 + 50 massage as I felt to give her more as it ended up raw.
2-added her on wechat.. asked her if got fj and she said no.. then told her I only looking for FJ. I think coz she got no business, then she said give me exception. I went down, realized its curtain joint. ML was quite pretty, close to pics in wechat. Massage was quite decent and i liked it when she rubbed her boobs on my back with her clothes on during teasing. When its time for action, interestingly she played loud music in the background, her colleagues left the place and she locked the place. Once deed done she unlocked the door and lowered the music and her colleagues came back in.
cozyfish
18-11-2024, 01:23 PM
Went to this joint at mayo street previously, during massage there are no cover between bros but during the deed they will start to put up makeshift curtains and music in your 'room'. But the girls moaning can still be heard with the music on. Dmg 50 + 150
superstiffy
18-11-2024, 03:11 PM
I believe you were replying to my post.
I wasn't the one who was late. The time being set was 2.30pm. I went in at 2.19pm, so I was early.
Secondly, I had no choice but to bargain because I am jobless largely due to past bullying traumas.
no la.. i just saying in general...
ssd3469
18-11-2024, 03:16 PM
no la.. i just saying in general...
Why you adopted that kind of tone then? Besides, if there was nothing wrong to begin with in whatever I said why type the whole chunk in the first place?
ssd3469
18-11-2024, 03:17 PM
You should work on your traumas and upskill yourself.
I don't know your circumstance too well but I have been in bullying situations too since young. Be more resilient and make it your goal to show those that bullied you back then that you are better than them. At least that's what I told myself and serves as a form of comfort.
I'm not proud of myself visiting ML/Escorts either and I'm trying to curb myself from doing so. Set a goal, like for my case I am aiming to buy my own condo if I can't find any suitable partner within the next 2-3 years. Want to buy condo equates to needing money, so I would need to chiong less.
On a side note, locanto is a bad site full of scams, thread with caution.
I heard from others that upskilling is not of much use.
ssd3469
18-11-2024, 03:20 PM
Went to this joint at mayo street previously, during massage there are no cover between bros but during the deed they will start to put up makeshift curtains and music in your 'room'. But the girls moaning can still be heard with the music on. Dmg 50 + 150
Lol so funny. Why you all don't use the money for chionging to go on dates instead? Just curious
superstiffy
18-11-2024, 03:29 PM
Why you adopted that kind of tone then? Besides, if there was nothing wrong to begin with in whatever I said why type the whole chunk in the first place?
young man.. dun be so sensitive.. the whole world not against you.. if you think everyone also want to say you then ur life will be difficult..
i retire liao.. so a lot of time to come here look see... a lot of time to talk also...
anyway talk what also useless la... i going for massage liao...
ssd3469
18-11-2024, 03:40 PM
young man.. dun be so sensitive.. the whole world not against you.. if you think everyone also want to say you then ur life will be difficult..
i retire liao.. so a lot of time to come here look see... a lot of time to talk also...
anyway talk what also useless la... i going for massage liao...
You are just sidestepping what I said. Is not I sensitive, fact was you were saying me. Then when I clarified you quickly adopted a different tone from the tone you had initially. Anything more to explain?
ssd3469
18-11-2024, 03:53 PM
young man.. dun be so sensitive.. the whole world not against you.. if you think everyone also want to say you then ur life will be difficult..
i retire liao.. so a lot of time to come here look see... a lot of time to talk also...
anyway talk what also useless la... i going for massage liao...
Life doesn't work that way bro, anything more to explain?
piichai
18-11-2024, 04:25 PM
I am seeing a counsellor now, he tells me that it is possible to find a wife and buy a 4 room flat despite my circumstances now. Do you agree?
I think u got the sequence wrong. work on the relatiosnip and manage it before thinking abt the house
ssd3469
18-11-2024, 04:52 PM
I think u got the sequence wrong. work on the relatiosnip and manage it before thinking abt the house
It is not about the sequence. I was asking is it possible to still get a wife and a house at age 34 with no savings now?
bonkbong
18-11-2024, 05:07 PM
Hi Bro ssd3469,
Been reading your posts on this thread and just wanted to share my tots:
1. The seniors here are nice to share, no trolls or anything.
2. Sorry to hear about your past tramas and glad to know you seeking help.
3. I think most important is to work on yourself first, to put the past behind, meet more people outside and build your confidences and network for social and work purposes. No. of IG followers are useless indicators of your actual social network and ppl who actually care about you.
4. Once you can be happy with yourself then you can find a gal to share your happiness with. Almost no one wants to share a relationship with someone depressing but if you do, we are happy for you too.
5. If you want a short answer to your question, the answer is No.
U need minimum 20% cpf plus cash to buy hdb. If you don't have enough for decent meals and dates, hard to socialize and get a gf, much less a wife unless you can find someone to endure hardship with you. Rare but not impossible.
totoman
18-11-2024, 06:39 PM
Went to this joint at mayo street previously, during massage there are no cover between bros but during the deed they will start to put up makeshift curtains and music in your 'room'. But the girls moaning can still be heard with the music on. Dmg 50 + 150
Think i know where u r referring . Is Nana still there ?
danilov
18-11-2024, 06:46 PM
It is not about the sequence. I was asking is it possible to still get a wife and a house at age 34 with no savings now?
Think your priority now is to get a job, not temp or gig type but those with a career path.
Now with skill future there are many companies searching for trainees but mainly technical fields.
Get a job to build your saving then only talk about wife or gf. Take care of yourself first.
ssd3469
18-11-2024, 07:13 PM
Think your priority now is to get a job, not temp or gig type but those with a career path.
Now with skill future there are many companies searching for trainees but mainly technical fields.
Get a job to build your saving then only talk about wife or gf. Take care of yourself first.
I know about paragraph 1 and paragraph 3 even before you tell me, plus it is a very obvious answer that doesn't really need to be said, I am not saying you are saying unnecessary stuff, I am just saying these are very obvious answers. I am unable to get a perm job because my resume is bad. Thank you and hope to hear further replies or advices. But at least I hope people can understand what I mean when I say I was left with no choice but to visit ML and prostitutes. The only other choice is reincarnation.
ssd3469
18-11-2024, 07:32 PM
Hi Bro ssd3469,
Been reading your posts on this thread and just wanted to share my tots:
1. The seniors here are nice to share, no trolls or anything.
2. Sorry to hear about your past tramas and glad to know you seeking help.
3. I think most important is to work on yourself first, to put the past behind, meet more people outside and build your confidences and network for social and work purposes. No. of IG followers are useless indicators of your actual social network and ppl who actually care about you.
4. Once you can be happy with yourself then you can find a gal to share your happiness with. Almost no one wants to share a relationship with someone depressing but if you do, we are happy for you too.
5. If you want a short answer to your question, the answer is No.
U need minimum 20% cpf plus cash to buy hdb. If you don't have enough for decent meals and dates, hard to socialize and get a gf, much less a wife unless you can find someone to endure hardship with you. Rare but not impossible.
Ty for your reply:
1. I wasn't saying he was a troll, I was saying he shouldn't have said those stuff and then quickly backtracked.
3. If you watch dating tutorials on YouTube by Austin Dunham and fitxfearless they recommend that IG is important because it sells you to others. It is already 2024, if it was 2004 or 1994 one can still say social media is not important. How old are you btw? Because old people may not be used to social media.
5. The solution my counsellor suggested was that the woman pay the down payment first and from there onwards all the instalments I pay. Is it feasible now in your opinion?
Btw next time please quote one of my posts otherwise I won't be notified if you wanted to tell me something. Like just now I totally didn't know you posted your post.
I don't believe in the saying that your gf will come eventually, it is just not your time, because I have been hearing this since I was 21
I also don't believe in the saying that KFC founder only invented KFC at age 60, because I can't possibly keep my virginity or go without sex until age 60?? Would like to hear your inputs on these 2 points as well.
ssd3469
18-11-2024, 08:38 PM
You should work on your traumas and upskill yourself.
I don't know your circumstance too well but I have been in bullying situations too since young. Be more resilient and make it your goal to show those that bullied you back then that you are better than them. At least that's what I told myself and serves as a form of comfort.
I'm not proud of myself visiting ML/Escorts either and I'm trying to curb myself from doing so. Set a goal, like for my case I am aiming to buy my own condo if I can't find any suitable partner within the next 2-3 years. Want to buy condo equates to needing money, so I would need to chiong less.
On a side note, locanto is a bad site full of scams, thread with caution.
May I know what do you work as? Because I want to know what job that can afford to buy a condo.
bonkbong
18-11-2024, 10:26 PM
Ty for your reply:
1. I wasn't saying he was a troll, I was saying he shouldn't have said those stuff and then quickly backtracked.
3. If you watch dating tutorials on YouTube by Austin Dunham and fitxfearless they recommend that IG is important because it sells you to others. It is already 2024, if it was 2004 or 1994 one can still say social media is not important. How old are you btw? Because old people may not be used to social media.
5. The solution my counsellor suggested was that the woman pay the down payment first and from there onwards all the instalments I pay. Is it feasible now in your opinion?
Btw next time please quote one of my posts otherwise I won't be notified if you wanted to tell me something. Like just now I totally didn't know you posted your post.
I don't believe in the saying that your gf will come eventually, it is just not your time, because I have been hearing this since I was 21
I also don't believe in the saying that KFC founder only invented KFC at age 60, because I can't possibly keep my virginity or go without sex until age 60?? Would like to hear your inputs on these 2 points as well.
[QUOTE=ssd3469;23888186]Ty for your reply:
3. Those youtube content you watching are not meant for you unless the gals you are targeting are teenagers or bimbos. If these are the gals you looking for, please continue to listen to them and skip our advice here. You are 34 years old and have O levels so I would suggest you work on your book smart or street smart as soon as possible.
That said, even if you want more IG followers, how are you going to get them if you are neither rich or outgoing? If you are rich and outgoing, you wouldn't have issue getting gf in the first place. It's a chicken and egg issue.
5. The fact that you are on this forum asking us how to find a gf, I would think you are definitely nowhere near having a gf as yet, so don't waste your time thinking of such scenarios. Even if you have a gf now, it would take a lot for the gal to pay first and expect you to step up. No pride eating soft rice anyways.
You are right abt the 2 statements which you shared. Those are words of encouragement to console you.
The hard truth is you need to work on yourself, to be a better version of yourself everyday.
Between Love and Bread, bread would almost always come first. Even if you have ntg now, you need to prove to the girl you have some sort of potential before she wants to committe to you.
You also need to work on your social skills as it seems to be lacking based on your replies to the other bros here.
You need real friends to show that you are likeable and so that ppl willing to intro girls to you.
That said, no harm visiting ML or hookers to lose your virginity or to destress until you can find a gf.
superstraightsg
18-11-2024, 10:35 PM
Yo
Just my two cents worth - Apologies in advance first cos I am going to be very blunt.
The saying that "your gf will come eventually, it is just not your time" will not work if we are just going to sit there lepak until the gf magically pops into existence before us. The saying, as I see it, is meant to tell us that we shouldn't obsess over the pursuit/acquisition of a soulmate when there are a lot of other things we can do to improve our lives as a whole. Like building our self esteem, getting out of whatever funk that we are in, putting in place the foundation blocks that we can build our future upon.
I will go as far as to say that I feel that your priorities are quite warped, and that if you don't find intrinsic motivation to push yourself forwards then there is not much that any of us here can help you with.
As a person working in digital marketing, I will tell you straight up to stay away from social media. A lot of it is MeiTuXiuXiu in the sense that people glam up whatever they post online in order to appear more successful, when they actually aren't. Very easy to fall into consumption and confidence traps when you stay on it for too long.
Marketing yourself is not inherently wrong, but it is not what you should be focusing on right now. No matter how new and shiny a $2 note is, it will never have as much value and appeal as a crumpled up $50 note.
You mentioned in one of your replies that you are unable to get a perm job because your resume is bad. Try and find sometime to go do volunteer work. Explore the gig economy. Focus solely on building a resume for the next two years, if you don't mind the rejection, mass apply for perm jobs every six months. The first parts improves your connections, credibiility, consistency. Treat the mass application for perm jobs as scouting. Try to land as many interviews as you can - observe the kind of questions that the companies ask so that you know where you can plot next.
ssd3469
18-11-2024, 11:17 PM
[QUOTE=ssd3469;23888186]Ty for your reply:
3. Those youtube content you watching are not meant for you unless the gals you are targeting are teenagers or bimbos. If these are the gals you looking for, please continue to listen to them and skip our advice here. You are 34 years old and have O levels so I would suggest you work on your book smart or street smart as soon as possible.
That said, even if you want more IG followers, how are you going to get them if you are neither rich or outgoing? If you are rich and outgoing, you wouldn't have issue getting gf in the first place. It's a chicken and egg issue.
5. The fact that you are on this forum asking us how to find a gf, I would think you are definitely nowhere near having a gf as yet, so don't waste your time thinking of such scenarios. Even if you have a gf now, it would take a lot for the gal to pay first and expect you to step up. No pride eating soft rice anyways.
You are right abt the 2 statements which you shared. Those are words of encouragement to console you.
The hard truth is you need to work on yourself, to be a better version of yourself everyday.
Between Love and Bread, bread would almost always come first. Even if you have ntg now, you need to prove to the girl you have some sort of potential before she wants to committe to you.
You also need to work on your social skills as it seems to be lacking based on your replies to the other bros here.
You need real friends to show that you are likeable and so that ppl willing to intro girls to you.
That said, no harm visiting ML or hookers to lose your virginity or to destress until you can find a gf.
Ty for your reply but I need to sleep now, I will reply you tmr morning.
ssd3469
18-11-2024, 11:19 PM
Yo
Just my two cents worth - Apologies in advance first cos I am going to be very blunt.
The saying that "your gf will come eventually, it is just not your time" will not work if we are just going to sit there lepak until the gf magically pops into existence before us. The saying, as I see it, is meant to tell us that we shouldn't obsess over the pursuit/acquisition of a soulmate when there are a lot of other things we can do to improve our lives as a whole. Like building our self esteem, getting out of whatever funk that we are in, putting in place the foundation blocks that we can build our future upon.
I will go as far as to say that I feel that your priorities are quite warped, and that if you don't find intrinsic motivation to push yourself forwards then there is not much that any of us here can help you with.
As a person working in digital marketing, I will tell you straight up to stay away from social media. A lot of it is MeiTuXiuXiu in the sense that people glam up whatever they post online in order to appear more successful, when they actually aren't. Very easy to fall into consumption and confidence traps when you stay on it for too long.
Marketing yourself is not inherently wrong, but it is not what you should be focusing on right now. No matter how new and shiny a $2 note is, it will never have as much value and appeal as a crumpled up $50 note.
You mentioned in one of your replies that you are unable to get a perm job because your resume is bad. Try and find sometime to go do volunteer work. Explore the gig economy. Focus solely on building a resume for the next two years, if you don't mind the rejection, mass apply for perm jobs every six months. The first parts improves your connections, credibiility, consistency. Treat the mass application for perm jobs as scouting. Try to land as many interviews as you can - observe the kind of questions that the companies ask so that you know where you can plot next.
Ty for your reply, but I need to sleep now, I will reply tmr morning.
ssd3469
18-11-2024, 11:33 PM
Does anyone know where do people have sex with their dates or gf considering that you can't bring them to your home if you live with your parents and you can't purchase your own home either cause you are single and you can't buy a house until age 35? The only obvious answer is hotel? Ty in advance. If hotel is the answer how do people hint or ask their dates or gf during dating that they want to go hotel to have sex then?
Bilibiliboi
19-11-2024, 05:36 PM
.. how this thread became relationship/ bonking for starter thread LOL.
mai aneh la, bring some balls, set up the date go dinner go movie and go 'rest'.
no need to be overnight that kind but keep it manageable from 9pm-12am that kind.
anyway share about FR. curtain joint if LUCKY you can find those 2 lady or single lady one.
Then no distraction liao. else, it is as what other bros shared, confirmed plus chop will be distracted... and if you fancy that ML/WL, aim for some off-hour makan, go somewhere else.
Johann99
19-11-2024, 07:30 PM
.. how this thread became relationship/ bonking for starter thread LOL.
mai aneh la, bring some balls, set up the date go dinner go movie and go 'rest'.
no need to be overnight that kind but keep it manageable from 9pm-12am that kind.
anyway share about FR. curtain joint if LUCKY you can find those 2 lady or single lady one.
Then no distraction liao. else, it is as what other bros shared, confirmed plus chop will be distracted... and if you fancy that ML/WL, aim for some off-hour makan, go somewhere else.
Hi Bilibiliboi bro, could you share the location of this curtain joint if lucky we can find those 2 ladies or single lady one? Thank you.
ssd3469
20-11-2024, 10:18 AM
Hi Bilibiliboi bro, could you share the location of this curtain joint if lucky we can find those 2 ladies or single lady one? Thank you.
Isn't single lady very normal? What is so special?
ssd3469
20-11-2024, 10:19 AM
.. how this thread became relationship/ bonking for starter thread LOL.
mai aneh la, bring some balls, set up the date go dinner go movie and go 'rest'.
no need to be overnight that kind but keep it manageable from 9pm-12am that kind.
anyway share about FR. curtain joint if LUCKY you can find those 2 lady or single lady one.
Then no distraction liao. else, it is as what other bros shared, confirmed plus chop will be distracted... and if you fancy that ML/WL, aim for some off-hour makan, go somewhere else.
Thank you for answering my question, but once in the hotel already how are you going to initiate sex?
ssd3469
20-11-2024, 11:37 AM
[QUOTE=ssd3469;23888186]Ty for your reply:
3. Those youtube content you watching are not meant for you unless the gals you are targeting are teenagers or bimbos. If these are the gals you looking for, please continue to listen to them and skip our advice here. You are 34 years old and have O levels so I would suggest you work on your book smart or street smart as soon as possible.
That said, even if you want more IG followers, how are you going to get them if you are neither rich or outgoing? If you are rich and outgoing, you wouldn't have issue getting gf in the first place. It's a chicken and egg issue.
5. The fact that you are on this forum asking us how to find a gf, I would think you are definitely nowhere near having a gf as yet, so don't waste your time thinking of such scenarios. Even if you have a gf now, it would take a lot for the gal to pay first and expect you to step up. No pride eating soft rice anyways.
You are right abt the 2 statements which you shared. Those are words of encouragement to console you.
The hard truth is you need to work on yourself, to be a better version of yourself everyday.
Between Love and Bread, bread would almost always come first. Even if you have ntg now, you need to prove to the girl you have some sort of potential before she wants to committe to you.
You also need to work on your social skills as it seems to be lacking based on your replies to the other bros here.
You need real friends to show that you are likeable and so that ppl willing to intro girls to you.
That said, no harm visiting ML or hookers to lose your virginity or to destress until you can find a gf.
I do not have the time now to reply the huge chunk, but I forgot to add on that my counsellor said either women pay for downpayment first OR I borrow from bank first, I forgot to add on the latter. Is it feasible now with the second option?
ssd3469
20-11-2024, 11:40 AM
Yo
Just my two cents worth - Apologies in advance first cos I am going to be very blunt.
The saying that "your gf will come eventually, it is just not your time" will not work if we are just going to sit there lepak until the gf magically pops into existence before us. The saying, as I see it, is meant to tell us that we shouldn't obsess over the pursuit/acquisition of a soulmate when there are a lot of other things we can do to improve our lives as a whole. Like building our self esteem, getting out of whatever funk that we are in, putting in place the foundation blocks that we can build our future upon.
I will go as far as to say that I feel that your priorities are quite warped, and that if you don't find intrinsic motivation to push yourself forwards then there is not much that any of us here can help you with.
As a person working in digital marketing, I will tell you straight up to stay away from social media. A lot of it is MeiTuXiuXiu in the sense that people glam up whatever they post online in order to appear more successful, when they actually aren't. Very easy to fall into consumption and confidence traps when you stay on it for too long.
Marketing yourself is not inherently wrong, but it is not what you should be focusing on right now. No matter how new and shiny a $2 note is, it will never have as much value and appeal as a crumpled up $50 note.
You mentioned in one of your replies that you are unable to get a perm job because your resume is bad. Try and find sometime to go do volunteer work. Explore the gig economy. Focus solely on building a resume for the next two years, if you don't mind the rejection, mass apply for perm jobs every six months. The first parts improves your connections, credibiility, consistency. Treat the mass application for perm jobs as scouting. Try to land as many interviews as you can - observe the kind of questions that the companies ask so that you know where you can plot next.
I do not have the time now to reply the huge chunk, but I forgot to add on that my counsellor said either women pay for down payment first OR I borrow from bank first, I forgot to add on the latter. Is it feasible now with the second option?
ssd3469
20-11-2024, 11:53 AM
.. how this thread became relationship/ bonking for starter thread LOL.
mai aneh la, bring some balls, set up the date go dinner go movie and go 'rest'.
no need to be overnight that kind but keep it manageable from 9pm-12am that kind.
anyway share about FR. curtain joint if LUCKY you can find those 2 lady or single lady one.
Then no distraction liao. else, it is as what other bros shared, confirmed plus chop will be distracted... and if you fancy that ML/WL, aim for some off-hour makan, go somewhere else.
I don't know how to proceed from date to sex, that's why I asked. If I knew I wouldn't have asked. So please don't say the first few statements...
ssd3469
20-11-2024, 11:58 AM
No, there is a difference. For other people they are not forced because they are able to find a gf or wife. For me I am unable to find one, plus I am 34 years old with little savings and bad or no career largely due to past bullying traumas.
Btw is Locanto a good or bad website?
Largely due to past bullying traumas and wrong career choices*
NottyMonkey
20-11-2024, 12:00 PM
I don't know how to proceed from date to sex, that's why I asked. If I knew I wouldn't have asked. So please don't say the first few statements...
think you shd open another thread at "Matters of the Heart" or "Coffee Shop talk" forum, which is more appropriate to your issue
Neverlookback
20-11-2024, 12:11 PM
When the heck this changed from curtain place fun ,(interesting) to ^advice for gameless losers in life,^? ( not interesting)
Ffs
ssd3469
20-11-2024, 12:28 PM
think you shd open another thread at "Matters of the Heart" or "Coffee Shop talk" forum, which is more appropriate to your issue
For the qn it is just a few sentences answer, so I don't think it is needed.
superstiffy
20-11-2024, 01:03 PM
wah lao... i though no one say anything he wont start... he ownself reply ownself and start again...
dun care say what he also think u say him then reply... :eek:
either wire connect wrong liao or sch holiday...
no need reply me.. u say what i also wont answer...
wahhero
20-11-2024, 01:37 PM
wah lao... i though no one say anything he wont start... he ownself reply ownself and start again...
dun care say what he also think u say him then reply... :eek:
either wire connect wrong liao or sch holiday...
no need reply me.. u say what i also wont answer...
This man, if can come to this forum means he cannot be innocent like a kid...either he is attention seeking or IMH case...
Cheeky GUI
20-11-2024, 02:48 PM
wah lao... i though no one say anything he wont start... he ownself reply ownself and start again...
dun care say what he also think u say him then reply... :eek:
either wire connect wrong liao or sch holiday...
no need reply me.. u say what i also wont answer...
man ur advise to him were pretty spot on and still he catch no ball..
like u telling him not to be calculative with girls... if date a girl out it is very likely they will be late... dont be calculative to them. and he reply to u he reached the spa early... lol... the point is dont be calculative and think the spa cheat u of that few minutes.
initially i wanna chime in with a few harsh advise for him but i think it's pointless.. he wont get it anyway. that guy has many issues... especially with regards to his mental health.
i think he belongs to that loser forum HWZ - EDMW...
ssd3469
20-11-2024, 04:42 PM
You should work on your traumas and upskill yourself.
I don't know your circumstance too well but I have been in bullying situations too since young. Be more resilient and make it your goal to show those that bullied you back then that you are better than them. At least that's what I told myself and serves as a form of comfort.
I'm not proud of myself visiting ML/Escorts either and I'm trying to curb myself from doing so. Set a goal, like for my case I am aiming to buy my own condo if I can't find any suitable partner within the next 2-3 years. Want to buy condo equates to needing money, so I would need to chiong less.
On a side note, locanto is a bad site full of scams, thread with caution.
There is a difference for my case, because for my case I am not unproud about it because my life was severely sabotaged. Similar to how I binge eat after the multiple bullying traumas, I just let myself go. So I am not ashamed that I got fat, because behind this layer of fatness is the original me. And because I only got fat cause of the traumas, it is not my fault, thus there is nothing to be unproud about. If others were in my shoes they would have went to a prostitute also, so there is nothing to be unproud about for my case.
ssd3469
20-11-2024, 04:46 PM
wah lao... i though no one say anything he wont start... he ownself reply ownself and start again...
dun care say what he also think u say him then reply... :eek:
either wire connect wrong liao or sch holiday...
no need reply me.. u say what i also wont answer...
Firstly, your original post was saying me.
Secondly, for other people's posts of course chances are I would think they were saying me because I was the one who asked questions or explained my life story.
ssd3469
20-11-2024, 04:47 PM
man ur advise to him were pretty spot on and still he catch no ball..
like u telling him not to be calculative with girls... if date a girl out it is very likely they will be late... dont be calculative to them. and he reply to u he reached the spa early... lol... the point is dont be calculative and think the spa cheat u of that few minutes.
initially i wanna chime in with a few harsh advise for him but i think it's pointless.. he wont get it anyway. that guy has many issues... especially with regards to his mental health.
i think he belongs to that loser forum HWZ - EDMW...
15 to 20 minutes is not few minutes.
B1gMonster
20-11-2024, 04:49 PM
Sounds interesting. I recently encounter a curtain joint (not even curtain, its just partition). Not even full height. Basically the ML can see each other while standing. I though this joint surely a clean joint coz her massage is so damn legit, suddenly she started massaging my inner thigh and move towards my balls and gave me a massage for good 15 mins. Without warning, she gave me a nice HJ to end it off while she looked left and right to make sure no one sees her. Tip her $30 but she gladly accepted. Guess business is hard? Lol. But the feeling damn exciting la. Btw, my ML is not syt, she is already milf. I can share with bros who willing to exchange ctcs.
Bro, mind sharing the contact? Thank you very much!
ssd3469
20-11-2024, 04:57 PM
man ur advise to him were pretty spot on and still he catch no ball..
like u telling him not to be calculative with girls... if date a girl out it is very likely they will be late... dont be calculative to them. and he reply to u he reached the spa early... lol... the point is dont be calculative and think the spa cheat u of that few minutes.
initially i wanna chime in with a few harsh advise for him but i think it's pointless.. he wont get it anyway. that guy has many issues... especially with regards to his mental health.
i think he belongs to that loser forum HWZ - EDMW...
Lol the part where you explained about calculative you were the one who got it wrong. Go and reread what you typed.
ssd3469
20-11-2024, 08:37 PM
man ur advise to him were pretty spot on and still he catch no ball..
like u telling him not to be calculative with girls... if date a girl out it is very likely they will be late... dont be calculative to them. and he reply to u he reached the spa early... lol... the point is dont be calculative and think the spa cheat u of that few minutes.
initially i wanna chime in with a few harsh advise for him but i think it's pointless.. he wont get it anyway. that guy has many issues... especially with regards to his mental health.
i think he belongs to that loser forum HWZ - EDMW...
Why so quiet? Btw there are also losers in this forum, they cannot get real gfs that's why they use this forum to find MLs.
KangTuo
20-11-2024, 10:26 PM
WTF.. whole thread off topic.
Best is delete all the nonsense or restart a whole new thread.
alexsammy
20-11-2024, 11:59 PM
Ya sibei funny. Really demonstrate how WTF it can be when you hear off topic convo in those curtain mp.
ssd3469
21-11-2024, 06:16 AM
I have a bad review to share.
I went to a spa with rooms with walls but door is curtain.
Name: Xiao Fei, she is the highest ranking, in charge of the branch there it seems.
Location: X* Spa, Chinese garden MRT
Looks: photos is syt but filter gao gao, turn out to be late 30s. C to D cup, but turn off liao cos not syt.
Massage: solid strength
Damage: $58(inclusive of oil)+ $50
I reached at 2.19pm, took cheapest massage at 58 per hour for 1 hour. I went to the washroom first after that, so earliest timing that massage could have began was 2.30pm cause she was busy with other stuff before coming into room .
When I flipped over it was 3pm, I know the time because there was a clock in the room. She only got GFE when asking gq. When texting she could not care less. After massaging my hands she popped gq. Initially she quote $50, but I negotiate to $30, but back to $50 again because I wanted autoroam. I thought it was worth it because normally $50 does not include autoroam at some places. Please advice if this is a price that is worth or not. Does anyone know if hj is always include using oil?
Initially she don't want to lift up bra but finally relented. She also don't allow sucking of nipples cause too itchy supposedly.
Took very long to cum cos she could not find the rhythm plus she didn't know my sensitive spot was balls. When I finally left the place it was only 3.18pm. can you imagine if I had cummed fast? I would have been cheated of at least 20 minutes of session time. I was her first customer of the day somemore, she whole morning doing nothing, yet her service so lackluster.
I don't think I will be returning cos of heavy filter photo plus cheating of time. Overall I might quit chionging altogether also cause it is very expensive.
The hj was mechanical I might add.
Mobile88
21-11-2024, 08:48 AM
I’m not sure man… I don’t even look at clock when I flip over. The only time I know what time is at the end of the session :D
It’s amazing how the thread went into a hijack session. Need some self reflect.
WTF.. whole thread off topic.
Best is delete all the nonsense or restart a whole new thread.
Ya. Agreed. All because of 1 idiot spoiling it.
ssd3469
21-11-2024, 09:10 AM
Ya. Agreed. All because of 1 idiot spoiling it.
O.o
10 char
ssd3469
21-11-2024, 09:13 AM
I’m not sure man… I don’t even look at clock when I flip over. The only time I know what time is at the end of the session :D
It’s amazing how the thread went into a hijack session. Need some self reflect.
I saw the clock midway through the session because just nice there was a clock in the room, in most places they don't put a clock(I suspect on purpose).
No choice but to unintentionally hijack it because there was no other avenue to post to for help.
ssd3469
21-11-2024, 02:56 PM
When the heck this changed from curtain place fun ,(interesting) to ^advice for gameless losers in life,^? ( not interesting)
Ffs
Where should I ask then?
Gameless loser signing off
SoftRiceKing
21-11-2024, 02:59 PM
I’m not sure man… I don’t even look at clock when I flip over. The only time I know what time is at the end of the session :D
It’s amazing how the thread went into a hijack session. Need some self reflect.
The only time I see clock is upon starting of session and ending. Make sure I got 1 hour inside as I paying for an hour
ToTo1985
21-11-2024, 03:55 PM
Each has their own view
Just like their view of women
Some want the process, cum or not is another thing
Some want the result, process does not matter
But most of us will definitely want to have both the process and the result
chewinggum75
21-11-2024, 04:43 PM
Lets get back on track.
Visited a curtain joint in Bedok.
2 MILF PRCs. I am guessing late 30s or early 40's but still in decent shape.
Went in and soon enough, another chap walked in.
Actual massage was above average. They usually wait till the 40th minute before even trying to seduce and since we were there about the same time, you could hear whispering just beyond the curtain. My ML was smiling to me and soon, the sound of Hj and Zhut filled both partitions. Overall, a pleasure. hahahahah
ssd3469
21-11-2024, 09:05 PM
The only time I see clock is upon starting of session and ending. Make sure I got 1 hour inside as I paying for an hour
Ya that was why I was pissed
ssd3469
21-11-2024, 09:12 PM
Each has their own view
Just like their view of women
Some want the process, cum or not is another thing
Some want the result, process does not matter
But most of us will definitely want to have both the process and the result
each has their own view of what? The issue was that she jumped straight to the hj after ONLY half an hour.
ssd3469
21-11-2024, 09:58 PM
Anyone has any idea how to avoid the embarrassment when paying at the counter when entering? Cause it's like the receptionist and other MLs there know what you are there for.
ssd3469
21-11-2024, 10:00 PM
I have a bad review to share.
I went to a spa with rooms with walls but door is curtain.
Name: Xiao Fei, she is the highest ranking, in charge of the branch there it seems.
Location: X* Spa, Chinese garden MRT
Looks: photos is syt but filter gao gao, turn out to be late 30s. C to D cup, but turn off liao cos not syt.
Massage: solid strength
Damage: $58(inclusive of oil)+ $50
I reached at 2.19pm, took cheapest massage at 58 per hour for 1 hour. I went to the washroom first after that, so earliest timing that massage could have began was 2.30pm cause she was busy with other stuff before coming into room .
When I flipped over it was 3pm, I know the time because there was a clock in the room. She only got GFE when asking gq. When texting she could not care less. After massaging my hands she popped gq. Initially she quote $50, but I negotiate to $30, but back to $50 again because I wanted autoroam. I thought it was worth it because normally $50 does not include autoroam at some places. Please advice if this is a price that is worth or not. Does anyone know if hj is always include using oil?
Initially she don't want to lift up bra but finally relented. She also don't allow sucking of nipples cause too itchy supposedly.
Took very long to cum cos she could not find the rhythm plus she didn't know my sensitive spot was balls. When I finally left the place it was only 3.18pm. can you imagine if I had cummed fast? I would have been cheated of at least 20 minutes of session time. I was her first customer of the day somemore, she whole morning doing nothing, yet her service so lackluster.
I don't think I will be returning cos of heavy filter photo plus cheating of time. Overall I might quit chionging altogether also cause it is very expensive.
I wish to add that it was difficult for me to cum cause my shorts was not pulled below my knee, so the added pressure made it difficult to cum
ssd3469
21-11-2024, 10:03 PM
My advice next time is when you reach try to look in from outside first to see if you can see the ML really look like what they are or heavily filter Photoshop, of course not everytime can see but try your best.
spermy
22-11-2024, 05:30 AM
Anyone has any idea how to avoid the embarrassment when paying at the counter when entering? Cause it's like the receptionist and other MLs there know what you are there for.
Everyone pays a fee upon entering. What are you talking about?
ssd3469
22-11-2024, 05:55 AM
Everyone pays a fee upon entering. What are you talking about?
Means how to avoid their judgement that you are there for sexual services.
intense730
22-11-2024, 06:52 AM
Means how to avoid their judgement that you are there for sexual services.
I think you should worry more about the people outside the spa than the employees of the spa.
ssd3469
22-11-2024, 06:55 AM
I think you should worry more about the people outside the spa than the employees of the spa.
Outside the spa not so bad because they don't know you.
spermy
22-11-2024, 09:38 AM
Outside the spa not so bad because they don't know you.
They don't know you inside the spa either!
Who the f cares what others think? The ML just needs to concentrate on making you happy. If she doesn't, all the other MLs there are usually more than willing to take up the challenge.
ssd3469
22-11-2024, 09:58 AM
They don't know you inside the spa either!
Who the f cares what others think? The ML just needs to concentrate on making you happy. If she doesn't, all the other MLs there are usually more than willing to take up the challenge.
I will stop going most likely, will spend money on dates instead
SoftRiceKing
22-11-2024, 03:25 PM
Ya that was why I was pissed
So far those ML I visited, I’m able to get a full hour in room. And of course I shower at home 1st before going, to skip the before session showering.
I will stop going most likely, will spend money on dates instead
Bro, don’t forget to spend money on your own self too, go pick up an hobby
ssd3469
22-11-2024, 07:17 PM
.. how this thread became relationship/ bonking for starter thread LOL.
mai aneh la, bring some balls, set up the date go dinner go movie and go 'rest'.
no need to be overnight that kind but keep it manageable from 9pm-12am that kind.
anyway share about FR. curtain joint if LUCKY you can find those 2 lady or single lady one.
Then no distraction liao. else, it is as what other bros shared, confirmed plus chop will be distracted... and if you fancy that ML/WL, aim for some off-hour makan, go somewhere else.
Is the advice in first paragraph for how to get a gf or how to get sex only?
Euthorss
24-11-2024, 08:57 PM
WTF.. whole thread off topic.
Best is delete all the nonsense or restart a whole new thread.
RT RT. Was initially interested in the title but end up scroll so many pages majority of it was irrelevant stuffs.
ssd3469
27-11-2024, 01:28 PM
[QUOTE=ssd3469;23888186]Ty for your reply:
3. Those youtube content you watching are not meant for you unless the gals you are targeting are teenagers or bimbos. If these are the gals you looking for, please continue to listen to them and skip our advice here. You are 34 years old and have O levels so I would suggest you work on your book smart or street smart as soon as possible.
That said, even if you want more IG followers, how are you going to get them if you are neither rich or outgoing? If you are rich and outgoing, you wouldn't have issue getting gf in the first place. It's a chicken and egg issue.
5. The fact that you are on this forum asking us how to find a gf, I would think you are definitely nowhere near having a gf as yet, so don't waste your time thinking of such scenarios. Even if you have a gf now, it would take a lot for the gal to pay first and expect you to step up. No pride eating soft rice anyways.
You are right abt the 2 statements which you shared. Those are words of encouragement to console you.
The hard truth is you need to work on yourself, to be a better version of yourself everyday.
Between Love and Bread, bread would almost always come first. Even if you have ntg now, you need to prove to the girl you have some sort of potential before she wants to committe to you.
You also need to work on your social skills as it seems to be lacking based on your replies to the other bros here.
You need real friends to show that you are likeable and so that ppl willing to intro girls to you.
That said, no harm visiting ML or hookers to lose your virginity or to destress until you can find a gf.
I don't understand what and why you said about o levels because I said I had an NUS pass degree.
It is not eating soft rice because we are paying the instalments after she has paid the down payment.
Please be specific about which comments I said were lack of social skills otherwise it is not very fair to me. I can explain at least for 3 of them.
Real friends might not intro women to us, chances are they might keep them for themselves.
ssd3469
28-11-2024, 08:04 PM
Hi Bro ssd3469,
Been reading your posts on this thread and just wanted to share my tots:
1. The seniors here are nice to share, no trolls or anything.
2. Sorry to hear about your past tramas and glad to know you seeking help.
3. I think most important is to work on yourself first, to put the past behind, meet more people outside and build your confidences and network for social and work purposes. No. of IG followers are useless indicators of your actual social network and ppl who actually care about you.
4. Once you can be happy with yourself then you can find a gal to share your happiness with. Almost no one wants to share a relationship with someone depressing but if you do, we are happy for you too.
5. If you want a short answer to your question, the answer is No.
U need minimum 20% cpf plus cash to buy hdb. If you don't have enough for decent meals and dates, hard to socialize and get a gf, much less a wife unless you can find someone to endure hardship with you. Rare but not impossible.
I have this amount in my CPF now, is it enough for downpayment for house? If it is not enough will it be enough if I add on my wife's? I think this already includes the amount from NS after completing 10 cycles.
I think need at least $80,000?
769675
ssd3469
28-11-2024, 08:06 PM
Yo
Just my two cents worth - Apologies in advance first cos I am going to be very blunt.
The saying that "your gf will come eventually, it is just not your time" will not work if we are just going to sit there lepak until the gf magically pops into existence before us. The saying, as I see it, is meant to tell us that we shouldn't obsess over the pursuit/acquisition of a soulmate when there are a lot of other things we can do to improve our lives as a whole. Like building our self esteem, getting out of whatever funk that we are in, putting in place the foundation blocks that we can build our future upon.
I will go as far as to say that I feel that your priorities are quite warped, and that if you don't find intrinsic motivation to push yourself forwards then there is not much that any of us here can help you with.
As a person working in digital marketing, I will tell you straight up to stay away from social media. A lot of it is MeiTuXiuXiu in the sense that people glam up whatever they post online in order to appear more successful, when they actually aren't. Very easy to fall into consumption and confidence traps when you stay on it for too long.
Marketing yourself is not inherently wrong, but it is not what you should be focusing on right now. No matter how new and shiny a $2 note is, it will never have as much value and appeal as a crumpled up $50 note.
You mentioned in one of your replies that you are unable to get a perm job because your resume is bad. Try and find sometime to go do volunteer work. Explore the gig economy. Focus solely on building a resume for the next two years, if you don't mind the rejection, mass apply for perm jobs every six months. The first parts improves your connections, credibiility, consistency. Treat the mass application for perm jobs as scouting. Try to land as many interviews as you can - observe the kind of questions that the companies ask so that you know where you can plot next.
Pls read the post above. I included a screenshot of how much I have in my CPF already.
katong
29-11-2024, 12:04 AM
I think his mum dropped him when he was a baby that time.. that's why he's a tard.
Hey you... didn't u said u want to quit sbf already that time when u self diagnosed to have STD from a HJ and yet still go around spas to spread it? WHy are you still here irritating people?
ssd3469
29-11-2024, 07:23 AM
I think his mum dropped him when he was a baby that time.. that's why he's a tard.
Hey you... didn't u said u want to quit sbf already that time when u self diagnosed to have STD from a HJ and yet still go around spas to spread it? WHy are you still here irritating people?
Yawnz...I already sent to DSC clinic and was cleared. Who's the tard now?
ssd3469
29-11-2024, 08:11 AM
On a side note, say no to conscription, say no to oppression and exploitation of men!!
ssd3469
29-11-2024, 08:46 AM
I think his mum dropped him when he was a baby that time.. that's why he's a tard.
Hey you... didn't u said u want to quit sbf already that time when u self diagnosed to have STD from a HJ and yet still go around spas to spread it? WHy are you still here irritating people?
Btw the std that I suspect I got was from a bj, it is very hard to get STDs from hj, who's the tard again?
SoftRiceKing
29-11-2024, 03:39 PM
I have this amount in my CPF now, is it enough for downpayment for house? If it is not enough will it be enough if I add on my wife's? I think this already includes the amount from NS after completing 10 cycles.
I think need at least $80,000?
769675
Bro, down payment for house is damn chor. I emptied my 100k OA when I did my flat selection, just a 4 room.
With a pass in NUS degree, I believe finding a proper job with stable income should not be challenging. By the way, which faculty u from? And major in?
Btw the std that I suspect I got was from a bj, it is very hard to get STDs from hj, who's the tard again?
Bro, no way u could get std from hj or boob job
piichai
29-11-2024, 06:15 PM
This thread become an AUNTY AGONY column
ssd3469
29-11-2024, 06:47 PM
Bro, down payment for house is damn chor. I emptied my 100k OA when I did my flat selection, just a 4 room.
With a pass in NUS degree, I believe finding a proper job with stable income should not be challenging. By the way, which faculty u from? And major in?
Bro, no way u could get std from hj or boob job
Your one is bto or hdb? Because bto is much cheaper than hdb. Though idk both are around how much. During 30 years ago downpayment for hdb is 80,000 for 5 room hdb flat. Which is the current house I am staying at now with my parents, cost is 400,000, so 20% is 80,000
I believe if I tried my best ie. Without NS bullying trauma I would have scored second upper or second lower.
It is hard to find a job because I should have went to apply for government job when I graduated but I didn't because I thought gov job would have glass ceiling since I no honours. The private jobs that I went to all low pay plus bad working days or hours.
I am from faculty of science, statistics.
I wasn't the one who said I could get STDs from hj or boob job, the no life loser katong was the one who said so.
ssd3469
29-11-2024, 06:51 PM
This thread become an AUNTY AGONY column
haha, but at least it is better than I go and commit suicide due to the amount of oppression I am facing.
ssd3469
29-11-2024, 06:56 PM
Hi Bro
Do you know why you cannot find gf?
Work on that area first. There are many reasons and only you know.
Finding ML and pros to replace gf is not a long term solution.
This type of relationship is commercial and fragile and can be costly.
A right GF can be your life time partner or a companion suppose to be with you through thick and thin, sharing beautiful moments tgt
Please be clear about this
pii
All the things that you say in second and third paragraph I have heard of before already, because they are very cliche.
ssd3469
29-11-2024, 07:08 PM
[QUOTE=ssd3469;23888186]Ty for your reply:
3. Those youtube content you watching are not meant for you unless the gals you are targeting are teenagers or bimbos. If these are the gals you looking for, please continue to listen to them and skip our advice here. You are 34 years old and have O levels so I would suggest you work on your book smart or street smart as soon as possible.
That said, even if you want more IG followers, how are you going to get them if you are neither rich or outgoing? If you are rich and outgoing, you wouldn't have issue getting gf in the first place. It's a chicken and egg issue.
5. The fact that you are on this forum asking us how to find a gf, I would think you are definitely nowhere near having a gf as yet, so don't waste your time thinking of such scenarios. Even if you have a gf now, it would take a lot for the gal to pay first and expect you to step up. No pride eating soft rice anyways.
You are right abt the 2 statements which you shared. Those are words of encouragement to console you.
The hard truth is you need to work on yourself, to be a better version of yourself everyday.
Between Love and Bread, bread would almost always come first. Even if you have ntg now, you need to prove to the girl you have some sort of potential before she wants to committe to you.
You also need to work on your social skills as it seems to be lacking based on your replies to the other bros here.
You need real friends to show that you are likeable and so that ppl willing to intro girls to you.
That said, no harm visiting ML or hookers to lose your virginity or to destress until you can find a gf.
I do agree about the part that bread comes before love though.
ssd3469
29-11-2024, 07:21 PM
Bro, down payment for house is damn chor. I emptied my 100k OA when I did my flat selection, just a 4 room.
With a pass in NUS degree, I believe finding a proper job with stable income should not be challenging. By the way, which faculty u from? And major in?
Bro, no way u could get std from hj or boob job
If we use the money to pay for house does it mean when we are old we have no more money to withdraw from? Cause $100,000 is a lot. Can anyone enlighten me on this?
ssd3469
29-11-2024, 07:29 PM
Bro, down payment for house is damn chor. I emptied my 100k OA when I did my flat selection, just a 4 room.
With a pass in NUS degree, I believe finding a proper job with stable income should not be challenging. By the way, which faculty u from? And major in?
Bro, no way u could get std from hj or boob job
Damn chor means tiring or xiong? Actually xiong and tiring is the same thing right?
ssd3469
29-11-2024, 08:23 PM
Can anyone explain the procedure from dating to become gf? Thank you.
ssd3469
29-11-2024, 10:32 PM
Bro, down payment for house is damn chor. I emptied my 100k OA when I did my flat selection, just a 4 room.
With a pass in NUS degree, I believe finding a proper job with stable income should not be challenging. By the way, which faculty u from? And major in?
Bro, no way u could get std from hj or boob job
Your name is softriceking, why didn't you ask your wife to help you pay hahaha?
SoftRiceKing
29-11-2024, 11:04 PM
Your name is softriceking, why didn't you ask your wife to help you pay hahaha?
Hahaha, got to provide a rooftop for family mah. Mine is BTO, 10 years ago. Don’t forget legal fee, stamp duty all that adding to to 10-20k, if I’m not wrong.
By the way, bro u got degree in Statistics from NUS, indicating you are really a smart bro as at least I did not qualify for NUS during my time. Your degree is precious, and it can open many doors for you, don’t give up! There are so many melons out there waiting for us to explore. Stay positive, keep exploring!
katong
29-11-2024, 11:49 PM
This thread become an AUNTY AGONY column
That guy can turn every decent thread into his own aunty agony thread.. get used to it bro..
ssd3469
30-11-2024, 03:18 AM
That guy can turn every decent thread into his own aunty agony thread.. get used to it bro..
Why no life still here? I didn't know I had the power to be rent free in your head.
ssd3469
30-11-2024, 03:28 AM
Hahaha, got to provide a rooftop for family mah. Mine is BTO, 10 years ago. Don’t forget legal fee, stamp duty all that adding to to 10-20k, if I’m not wrong.
By the way, bro u got degree in Statistics from NUS, indicating you are really a smart bro as at least I did not qualify for NUS during my time. Your degree is precious, and it can open many doors for you, don’t give up! There are so many melons out there waiting for us to explore. Stay positive, keep exploring!
What I wanted was to get a gf and wife, not explore melons, I am only on this thread because I can't get a gf.
On a side note, that time I typed wives' cpf instead of wife's LOL.
ssd3469
30-11-2024, 03:52 AM
Hahaha, got to provide a rooftop for family mah. Mine is BTO, 10 years ago. Don’t forget legal fee, stamp duty all that adding to to 10-20k, if I’m not wrong.
By the way, bro u got degree in Statistics from NUS, indicating you are really a smart bro as at least I did not qualify for NUS during my time. Your degree is precious, and it can open many doors for you, don’t give up! There are so many melons out there waiting for us to explore. Stay positive, keep exploring!
I rejected an ML for gq before because I told her I wanted to reserve sexual stuff only with gf or wife due to (conservative upbringing). She replied I can keep finding ML for extras while I am single, next time find gf already then stop. Is this correct?
ssd3469
30-11-2024, 08:58 AM
The only reason I went was because I couldn't wait on indefinitely for a gf anymore, I was already 33. Else I wouldn't have went de, because even if the saying that men want sex and women want attention(red pill) was true, I could have gotten the sex from gf or wife.
ssd3469
30-11-2024, 12:27 PM
Bro, down payment for house is damn chor. I emptied my 100k OA when I did my flat selection, just a 4 room.
With a pass in NUS degree, I believe finding a proper job with stable income should not be challenging. By the way, which faculty u from? And major in?
Bro, no way u could get std from hj or boob job
How about buying furnitures or any renovation fees?
ssd3469
30-11-2024, 03:19 PM
I also don't believe in the saying that life is not a straight line, sometimes it is okay to be behind others.
On a side note, since got people complain that I hijack the thread, I share a contact here.
J*ng er Foot reflexology in Clementi. Her name is May. Near golden pail spa.
ssd3469
30-11-2024, 04:54 PM
I do believe in the saying that a woman who really love us will want to be with us even if our life got sabotaged by bullying etc. though. But until what extent/up to what age I don't know. Cause can't be possibly 40 years old without savings still want to be with us right? Lol
ssd3469
30-11-2024, 06:08 PM
Bro, down payment for house is damn chor. I emptied my 100k OA when I did my flat selection, just a 4 room.
With a pass in NUS degree, I believe finding a proper job with stable income should not be challenging. By the way, which faculty u from? And major in?
Bro, no way u could get std from hj or boob job
May I know how many years did you work to save up to $100,000 in CPF? Cause assuming $500 every year into CPF every month it would take 200 months which is 16 years? Wouldn't that be very long? Assuming 21 years old start work 37 years old then can save until $100,000?
Mobile88
30-11-2024, 07:13 PM
May I know how many years did you work to save up to $100,000 in CPF? Cause assuming $500 every year into CPF every month it would take 200 months which is 16 years? Wouldn't that be very long? Assuming 21 years old start work 37 years old then can save until $100,000?
You study statistics would be able to back calculate.
Just go CPF website, find the contribution rate, do up an assumption of his age, and average salary with a certain confidence level and find your own answer.
ssd3469
30-11-2024, 07:30 PM
You study statistics would be able to back calculate.
Just go CPF website, find the contribution rate, do up an assumption of his age, and average salary with a certain confidence level and find your own answer.
My point was 37 years old then can buy first house? Isn't that a bit late?
ssd3469
30-11-2024, 07:32 PM
770135
Food for thought
ssd3469
30-11-2024, 08:06 PM
When I said forced I meant cause I became age 33 with no savings due to bad career decisions and slacking on first or first few jobs, that's why I said I couldn't see a way out anymore and was thus forced to visit a ML or prostitute.
ssd3469
30-11-2024, 10:45 PM
How many different people should we date before we finally give up and visit a prostitute or ML? And is age a factor? I think age is a factor.
ssd3469
02-12-2024, 12:49 AM
Think your priority now is to get a job, not temp or gig type but those with a career path.
Now with skill future there are many companies searching for trainees but mainly technical fields.
Get a job to build your saving then only talk about wife or gf. Take care of yourself first.
I had all along wanted to get a full time job upon graduation in 2014, but because my grades got sabotaged by army trauma that's why I didn't know what job to work as. Plus because I slacked in first few jobs plus a bad career choice led to today. I think if given a choice everyone would prefer full time income rather than keep trying and error for part time? Even if it's first job? No?
ssd3469
02-12-2024, 12:51 AM
Yo
Just my two cents worth - Apologies in advance first cos I am going to be very blunt.
The saying that "your gf will come eventually, it is just not your time" will not work if we are just going to sit there lepak until the gf magically pops into existence before us. The saying, as I see it, is meant to tell us that we shouldn't obsess over the pursuit/acquisition of a soulmate when there are a lot of other things we can do to improve our lives as a whole. Like building our self esteem, getting out of whatever funk that we are in, putting in place the foundation blocks that we can build our future upon.
I will go as far as to say that I feel that your priorities are quite warped, and that if you don't find intrinsic motivation to push yourself forwards then there is not much that any of us here can help you with.
As a person working in digital marketing, I will tell you straight up to stay away from social media. A lot of it is MeiTuXiuXiu in the sense that people glam up whatever they post online in order to appear more successful, when they actually aren't. Very easy to fall into consumption and confidence traps when you stay on it for too long.
Marketing yourself is not inherently wrong, but it is not what you should be focusing on right now. No matter how new and shiny a $2 note is, it will never have as much value and appeal as a crumpled up $50 note.
You mentioned in one of your replies that you are unable to get a perm job because your resume is bad. Try and find sometime to go do volunteer work. Explore the gig economy. Focus solely on building a resume for the next two years, if you don't mind the rejection, mass apply for perm jobs every six months. The first parts improves your connections, credibiility, consistency. Treat the mass application for perm jobs as scouting. Try to land as many interviews as you can - observe the kind of questions that the companies ask so that you know where you can plot next.
Don't need to apologize, I would rather you be blunt.
sgsingaboy
02-12-2024, 03:09 AM
I had all along wanted to get a full time job upon graduation in 2014, but because my grades got sabotaged by army trauma that's why I didn't know what job to work as. Plus because I slacked in first few jobs plus a bad career choice led to today. I think if given a choice everyone would prefer full time income rather than keep trying and error for part time? Even if it's first job? No?
The gig economy suits you. You can be a grab PHV, work hard and earn decent.
Discipline and hardwork is key to turning your life around. Don't think about girls now la. If your attitude towards work is wait until the perfect job comes or you want easy job then no... you will be stuck in a rut.
ssd3469
02-12-2024, 07:34 AM
The gig economy suits you. You can be a grab PHV, work hard and earn decent.
Discipline and hardwork is key to turning your life around. Don't think about girls now la. If your attitude towards work is wait until the perfect job comes or you want easy job then no... you will be stuck in a rut.
Grab is a dead end job so no
IamGood
02-12-2024, 07:40 AM
I want to hear curtains and moan beside, and not career coaching
Sadly
02-12-2024, 08:30 AM
I want to hear curtains and moan beside, and not career coaching
Lol well said!
ssd3469
02-12-2024, 10:35 AM
I want to hear curtains and moan beside, and not career coaching
Paiseh, no choice, I may need some advice in life. My life has been oppressed until the extent where I almost committed suicide, thanks largely to NS and its toxic culture.
ssd3469
02-12-2024, 10:36 AM
Lol well said!
Paiseh, no choice, I may need some advice in life. My life has been oppressed until the extent where I almost committed suicide. Thanks largely to NS and its toxic culture.
roflmaolol
02-12-2024, 11:22 AM
Paiseh, no choice, I may need some advice in life. My life has been oppressed until the extent where I almost committed suicide. Thanks largely to NS and its toxic culture.
Let me give you some advice: No one gonna pity you, people will not give you a fuck if there is no benefit. You are on your own. From your own post, you can't even help yourself and that is the worst.
To share, I am a a few years younger than you, I am ugly AF, I have good-for-nothing father, I have 2 congenital diseases and probably gonna die young. I still serving NS and have met shitty people. But that doesn't stop me to work hard (and smart) earning good dough (not rich yet but above average).
You are born in Singapore and an NUS grad, already given you better baseline than many.
Bros here already given some advice but you still ai pi ai chee. No money still go whoring? wtf is that. Whining about things yet not working to improve is the worst lot. Cheebyes is like the last thing you should be worry about. Go fap to porn first if you are horny.
Stop complaining and start work your ass off now. The best time to start is 15 years ago, the next best time to start is now.
ssd3469
02-12-2024, 11:30 AM
Let me give you some advice: No one gonna pity you, people will not give you a fuck if there is no benefit. You are on your own. From your own post, you can't even help yourself and that is the worst.
To share, I am a a few years younger than you, I am ugly AF, I have good-for-nothing father, I have 2 congenital diseases and probably gonna die young. I still serving NS and have met shitty people. But that doesn't stop me to work hard (and smart) earning good dough (not rich yet but above average).
You are born in Singapore and an NUS grad, already given you better baseline than many.
Bros here already given some advice but you still ai pi ai chee. No money still go whoring? wtf is that. Whining about things yet not working to improve is the worst lot. Cheebyes is like the last thing you should be worry about. Go fap to porn first if you are horny.
Stop complaining and start work your ass off now. The best time to start is 15 years ago, the next best time to start is now.
No one gonna pity me, that's why I keng during the last 2 reservists lor. Since reservist not going to feed us also what. Of course I can't help myself that's why I posted here sharing and asking for advice?
Nus grad doesn't necessarily mean can get a decent job.
Lol I have been fapping to porn since 2011 almost everyday, so don't just speak without knowing or speaking like acting smart.
How is not wanting to work in dead end jobs with no prospects ai pee ai chee?
And no, my NS trauma goes beyond just meeting unpleasant people. Meeting unpleasant people does not cause suicide.
Why should cb be the last thing we worry about if you only had 1 hour left to live?
You think I don't want to work my ass off? I can't find a job which is not a dead end job. And no, the second best time to start was 1 second after 15 years ago.
ssd3469
02-12-2024, 12:52 PM
Let me give you some advice: No one gonna pity you, people will not give you a fuck if there is no benefit. You are on your own. From your own post, you can't even help yourself and that is the worst.
To share, I am a a few years younger than you, I am ugly AF, I have good-for-nothing father, I have 2 congenital diseases and probably gonna die young. I still serving NS and have met shitty people. But that doesn't stop me to work hard (and smart) earning good dough (not rich yet but above average).
You are born in Singapore and an NUS grad, already given you better baseline than many.
Bros here already given some advice but you still ai pi ai chee. No money still go whoring? wtf is that. Whining about things yet not working to improve is the worst lot. Cheebyes is like the last thing you should be worry about. Go fap to porn first if you are horny.
Stop complaining and start work your ass off now. The best time to start is 15 years ago, the next best time to start is now.
You think if given a choice I wish to be 34 and still living and relying on my parents? It is shameful if a man can't walk out of his house you know? Who would choose this? Obviously things led up to this right? That's why know before you speak.
Anotherboi
02-12-2024, 01:51 PM
Think basically what rofl trying to say is that there are people worst off than you, so instead of complaining about your current situation the best way for you now is to look forward and do what is necessary to improve. Be it through gigs or skillsfuture to upskill yourself. Everyone is dealt a bad card in their life is how u deal with the hand.
Also it is not shameful if there are visible efforts to improve. What's shameful if nothing is done but lament and complain life is unjust. Its all about perspective. NS happens to everyone.
Cheers and happy chionging. Or for your case perhaps responsible chionging, don't hinder your future more than it needs to.
ssd3469
02-12-2024, 01:56 PM
Think basically what rofl trying to say is that there are people worst off than you, so instead of complaining about your current situation the best way for you now is to look forward and do what is necessary to improve. Be it through gigs or skillsfuture to upskill yourself. Everyone is dealt a bad card in their life is how u deal with the hand.
Also it is not shameful if there are visible efforts to improve. What's shameful if nothing is done but lament and complain life is unjust. Its all about perspective. NS happens to everyone.
Cheers and happy chionging. Or for your case perhaps responsible chionging, don't hinder your future more than it needs to.
I am worse than him because I don't have a job. I heard that skillsfuture is no use. Not everyone is dealt a bad card in life.
NS happens to everyone but I was sabotaged much more than everyone else.
The ironic thing is I can't chiong cause I don't have a job.
The point that I was saying about shameful is not whether there are efforts to work or not, it is to show that if given a choice who would choose to be in this situation?
ssd3469
02-12-2024, 01:58 PM
Think basically what rofl trying to say is that there are people worst off than you, so instead of complaining about your current situation the best way for you now is to look forward and do what is necessary to improve. Be it through gigs or skillsfuture to upskill yourself. Everyone is dealt a bad card in their life is how u deal with the hand.
Also it is not shameful if there are visible efforts to improve. What's shameful if nothing is done but lament and complain life is unjust. Its all about perspective. NS happens to everyone.
Cheers and happy chionging. Or for your case perhaps responsible chionging, don't hinder your future more than it needs to.
That time I went to a prostitute in desker road I thought I got an std, scare me. Are MLs much safer than these kind of prostitutes in geylang and desker road? I know geylang ones at least they got regular health checks.
Anotherboi
02-12-2024, 01:59 PM
I am worse than him because I don't have a job. I heard that skillsfuture is no use.
NS happens to everyone but I was sabotaged much more than everyone else.
The ironic thing is I can't chiong cause I don't have a job.
Beggars can't be choosers. Make do with whichever job u can get your hands on, like even those ushers at smrt or those service staff at rws/mbs. U gotta start somewhere, and asking for advice on this site filled with sex hungry men is honestly not a good start.
ssd3469
02-12-2024, 02:00 PM
Beggars can't be choosers. Make do with whichever job u can get your hands on, like even those ushers at smrt or those service staff at rws/mbs. U gotta start somewhere, and asking for advice on this site filled with sex hungry men is honestly not a good start.
I have left you a PM.
Anotherboi
02-12-2024, 02:02 PM
I will never dare raw ML or FL. The risk is there just gotta do your best to mitigate and control it if you want chiong.
But I'm sucker for bbbj. Not too sure how much difference in risk of std transmission between bbbj and raw
ssd3469
02-12-2024, 02:03 PM
Beggars can't be choosers. Make do with whichever job u can get your hands on, like even those ushers at smrt or those service staff at rws/mbs. U gotta start somewhere, and asking for advice on this site filled with sex hungry men is honestly not a good start.
I have edited a lot of the comment that you quoted btw.
biostar
02-12-2024, 02:20 PM
Matters of the heart (https://sbf.net.nz/forumdisplay.php?f=6)
Can you guys kindly shift your aunt agony discussion over to the above sub-forum?
I wanna read more curtain mp noise stories. :D
ssd3469
02-12-2024, 03:56 PM
I will never dare raw ML or FL. The risk is there just gotta do your best to mitigate and control it if you want chiong.
But I'm sucker for bbbj. Not too sure how much difference in risk of std transmission between bbbj and raw
Bbbj can transmit std as well, I think same as raw. The only safe way is bj with a condom, or hj. Or fj with condom.
ssd3469
02-12-2024, 04:29 PM
Let me give you some advice: No one gonna pity you, people will not give you a fuck if there is no benefit. You are on your own. From your own post, you can't even help yourself and that is the worst.
To share, I am a a few years younger than you, I am ugly AF, I have good-for-nothing father, I have 2 congenital diseases and probably gonna die young. I still serving NS and have met shitty people. But that doesn't stop me to work hard (and smart) earning good dough (not rich yet but above average).
You are born in Singapore and an NUS grad, already given you better baseline than many.
Bros here already given some advice but you still ai pi ai chee. No money still go whoring? wtf is that. Whining about things yet not working to improve is the worst lot. Cheebyes is like the last thing you should be worry about. Go fap to porn first if you are horny.
Stop complaining and start work your ass off now. The best time to start is 15 years ago, the next best time to start is now.
You think I wish to find these MLs and whores meh? Before I enlisted at my prime these whores wouldn't even have a chance to come close or sniff my feet.
Mobile88
02-12-2024, 04:49 PM
You think I wish to find these MLs and whores meh? Before I enlisted at my prime these whores wouldn't even have a chance to come close or sniff my feet.
Lol wtf. :D
No wonder.
ssd3469
02-12-2024, 05:02 PM
Lol wtf. :D
No wonder.
No wonder? See first before talking. The average woman or what we refer to as 5s or 6s might not even have a chance, much less an ML.
piichai
02-12-2024, 05:07 PM
Matters of the heart (https://sbf.net.nz/forumdisplay.php?f=6)
Can you guys kindly shift your aunt agony discussion over to the above sub-forum?
I wanna read more curtain mp noise stories. :D
Hahahaha, me too . I want to hear moaning beside my curatins and not groaning here
ssd3469
02-12-2024, 06:08 PM
Hahahaha, me too . I want to hear moaning beside my curatins and not groaning here
*Groans*
10 char
sgsingaboy
02-12-2024, 06:56 PM
You think if given a choice I wish to be 34 and still living and relying on my parents? It is shameful if a man can't walk out of his house you know? Who would choose this? Obviously things led up to this right? That's why know before you speak.
Put down your ego la! Go do a grab or some job that give you money. Who says Grab is a dead end job? Only you think it is? I have friends who chiong Grab and earn decent. A few thousands a month. Not enough for a scholar like you is it? You looking for what? At least more than what you are currently getting which is ZERO. $10k job after not focusing on your career for 10 years? Blame army, blame career choices. You never even bloody put in any effort and want to sit at home and complain?
sgsingaboy
02-12-2024, 07:03 PM
Matters of the heart (https://sbf.net.nz/forumdisplay.php?f=6)
Can you guys kindly shift your aunt agony discussion over to the above sub-forum?
I wanna read more curtain mp noise stories. :D
Rangoon famous hair spa can hear clearly i think partition quite thin. Can always hear other convo and some moans when i am there.
Last time the Xiaomi shop at USSC hospital curtain kind. I can hear piak piak piak from the bed opposite me. Then i look at Xiaomi and ask... can ah? :D:D:D
Non-curtain Cat 1 Spa i like to peep into the viewing hole to see what they are doing. But everytime only see ML on top of customer massaging their back. Very sian.
ssd3469
02-12-2024, 07:25 PM
Put down your ego la! Go do a grab or some job that give you money. Who says Grab is a dead end job? Only you think it is? I have friends who chiong Grab and earn decent. A few thousands a month. Not enough for a scholar like you is it? You looking for what? At least more than what you are currently getting which is ZERO. $10k job after not focusing on your career for 10 years? Blame army, blame career choices. You never even bloody put in any effort and want to sit at home and complain?
Dead end job means no career prospects. I have already mentioned it previously, pls do not waste my time repeating.
How did you know that I didn't make effort in the past 4 or 10 years searching for jobs? Another smart aleck assuming.
Why cannot blame if NS really has a toxic culture?
Haveanicedayok
02-12-2024, 07:52 PM
I rem one time when i was w the famous soda at bq. That time she doing jg for me and next door can hear piak piak and moaning.
Needless to say the session next door was rather short. Whereas sessions w soda are always fun filled
Rangoon famous hair spa can hear clearly i think partition quite thin. Can always hear other convo and some moans when i am there.
Last time the Xiaomi shop at USSC hospital curtain kind. I can hear piak piak piak from the bed opposite me. Then i look at Xiaomi and ask... can ah? :D:D:D
Non-curtain Cat 1 Spa i like to peep into the viewing hole to see what they are doing. But everytime only see ML on top of customer massaging their back. Very sian.
Haveanicedayok
02-12-2024, 07:54 PM
And its not even a curtain joint for soda.
Rangoon road hair spa, can always hear ppl talking. Not too sure abt the moaning but w v, i guess muffled moaning would be more likely. You will be stuck on between the peaks
ssd3469
02-12-2024, 08:05 PM
I rem one time when i was w the famous soda at bq. That time she doing jg for me and next door can hear piak piak and moaning.
Needless to say the session next door was rather short. Whereas sessions w soda are always fun filled
Juagen and baoyang got what difference?
ssd3469
02-12-2024, 08:19 PM
And its not even a curtain joint for soda.
Rangoon road hair spa, can always hear ppl talking. Not too sure abt the moaning but w v, i guess muffled moaning would be more likely. You will be stuck on between the peaks
Stuck on between the peaks means?
ahball
02-12-2024, 11:00 PM
And its not even a curtain joint for soda.
Rangoon road hair spa, can always hear ppl talking. Not too sure abt the moaning but w v, i guess muffled moaning would be more likely. You will be stuck on between the peaks
bro where is this place ah
ssd3469
03-12-2024, 09:52 AM
Let me give you some advice: No one gonna pity you, people will not give you a fuck if there is no benefit. You are on your own. From your own post, you can't even help yourself and that is the worst.
To share, I am a a few years younger than you, I am ugly AF, I have good-for-nothing father, I have 2 congenital diseases and probably gonna die young. I still serving NS and have met shitty people. But that doesn't stop me to work hard (and smart) earning good dough (not rich yet but above average).
You are born in Singapore and an NUS grad, already given you better baseline than many.
Bros here already given some advice but you still ai pi ai chee. No money still go whoring? wtf is that. Whining about things yet not working to improve is the worst lot. Cheebyes is like the last thing you should be worry about. Go fap to porn first if you are horny.
Stop complaining and start work your ass off now. The best time to start is 15 years ago, the next best time to start is now.
It is not no money still go whoring. It is being down to your last $150, persistently unable to find a job, not much luck in dating, not having enough savings to buy a house, left with no other outlet or choice, being pushed to an edge in your life(so much oppression that one considered suicide) then go whoring. So think first before you talk, or put yourself in other people's shoes before shooting your mouth off. Talk is easy.
Born in Sg so what? No pride to speak of if you are born as male in sg.
You think if I am happily married I will choose to go whoring? Though some may say everyday eat at home will sian, but even if that is really the case at most I don't get married and keep changing gfs lor. Problem is I can't find even a first gf. So pls think first before you talk.
I don't want to work in china companies either.
*NS makes you more mature, coughs coughs*
ssd3469
03-12-2024, 10:05 AM
No one gonna pity me, that's why I keng during the last 2 reservists lor. Since reservist not going to feed us also what. Of course I can't help myself that's why I posted here sharing and asking for advice?
Nus grad doesn't necessarily mean can get a decent job.
Lol I have been fapping to porn since 2011 almost everyday, so don't just speak without knowing or speaking like acting smart.
How is not wanting to work in dead end jobs with no prospects ai pee ai chee?
And no, my NS trauma goes beyond just meeting unpleasant people. Meeting unpleasant people does not cause suicide.
Why should cb be the last thing we worry about if you only had 1 hour left to live?
You think I don't want to work my ass off? I can't find a job which is not a dead end job. And no, the second best time to start was 1 second after 15 years ago.
Especially if your NUS grades are not good*
Johnlustcrown
03-12-2024, 10:58 AM
Hi Bross,
Any intro at clementi area?
TIA
Anotherboi
03-12-2024, 11:44 AM
Hi Bross,
Any intro at clementi area?
TIA
Can try out M*y at j*** e*. Her AR BBBBJ quite solid
dontcheatmeleh
03-12-2024, 12:03 PM
Recently went to the famous curtain MP blk 3** at Chinatown area.
Only me in the shop with the ML,
The rest of the ML lying down or sitting outside.
No surround sound liao, miss the fun part when next bed beside rocking the ML…
eugenetan80
03-12-2024, 12:09 PM
Recently went to the famous curtain MP blk 3** at Chinatown area.
Only me in the shop with the ML,
The rest of the ML lying down or sitting outside.
No surround sound liao, miss the fun part when next bed beside rocking the ML…
who u find?the ladies there nowadays cant really make it already
ssd3469
03-12-2024, 12:09 PM
Can try out M*y at j*** e*. Her AR BBBBJ quite solid
never knew she gave AR also? But her bbbj in the end she use hand to finish me off. Not use mouth all the way.
dontcheatmeleh
03-12-2024, 12:16 PM
who u find?the ladies there nowadays cant really make it already
I just walk-in choose. Only remember Miya the rest all new to me.
I think she is call 小九 (milf)
Massage good, she likes to chat.
Not as fun as last time liao.
Nothing to complain for 3B for full menu
ssd3469
03-12-2024, 12:32 PM
Can try out M*y at j*** e*. Her AR BBBBJ quite solid
But she use Listerine also, make my lil bro head painful/burning sensation.
ssd3469
04-12-2024, 05:57 AM
Can try out M*y at j*** e*. Her AR BBBBJ quite solid
Imagine she give others AR already then give you bbbj? Eww
ssd3469
04-12-2024, 06:54 AM
I have a bad review to share.
I went to a spa with rooms with walls but door is curtain.
Name: Xiao Fei, she is the highest ranking, in charge of the branch there it seems.
Location: X* Spa, Chinese garden MRT
Looks: photos is syt but filter gao gao, turn out to be late 30s. C to D cup, but turn off liao cos not syt.
Massage: solid strength
Damage: $58(inclusive of oil)+ $50
I reached at 2.19pm, took cheapest massage at 58 per hour for 1 hour. I went to the washroom first after that, so earliest timing that massage could have began was 2.30pm cause she was busy with other stuff before coming into room .
When I flipped over it was 3pm, I know the time because there was a clock in the room. She only got GFE when asking gq. When texting she could not care less. After massaging my hands she popped gq. Initially she quote $50, but I negotiate to $30, but back to $50 again because I wanted autoroam. I thought it was worth it because normally $50 does not include autoroam at some places. Please advice if this is a price that is worth or not. Does anyone know if hj is always include using oil?
Initially she don't want to lift up bra but finally relented. She also don't allow sucking of nipples cause too itchy supposedly.
Took very long to cum cos she could not find the rhythm plus she didn't know my sensitive spot was balls. When I finally left the place it was only 3.18pm. can you imagine if I had cummed fast? I would have been cheated of at least 20 minutes of session time. I was her first customer of the day somemore, she whole morning doing nothing, yet her service so lackluster.
I don't think I will be returning cos of heavy filter photo plus cheating of time. Overall I might quit chionging altogether also cause it is very expensive.
repeated post
ssd3469
04-12-2024, 10:30 AM
Is python easy to learn? Programming is not my forte.
Anotherboi
04-12-2024, 10:38 AM
Imagine she give others AR already then give you bbbj? Eww
Wah bro didn't think of that. RIP.
she does listerine often but maybe to be safe I skip this weekend first haha
ssd3469
04-12-2024, 11:25 AM
Wah bro didn't think of that. RIP.
she does listerine often but maybe to be safe I skip this weekend first haha
No wonder my lil bro itchy since one year ago until now. I think most ML will clean themselves after serving every customer but there is always a small chance that they don't. Btw she serves local indians also. Remember the saying that having sex with someone means having sex with their previous partners as well? Lol.
ssd3469
04-12-2024, 12:05 PM
.. how this thread became relationship/ bonking for starter thread LOL.
mai aneh la, bring some balls, set up the date go dinner go movie and go 'rest'.
no need to be overnight that kind but keep it manageable from 9pm-12am that kind.
anyway share about FR. curtain joint if LUCKY you can find those 2 lady or single lady one.
Then no distraction liao. else, it is as what other bros shared, confirmed plus chop will be distracted... and if you fancy that ML/WL, aim for some off-hour makan, go somewhere else.
Also, for this advice is it first date or subsequent dates? Cause odds of first date having sex is not high/not the norm in conservative Singapore?
sladang
04-12-2024, 12:21 PM
Imagine she gave others AR oredi then kiss u & tongue fight wif u then how arh? :D ..
Anotherboi
04-12-2024, 02:35 PM
Imagine she gave others AR oredi then kiss u & tongue fight wif u then how arh? :D ..
Really is jiak sai liao... But I do see she consistently rinse her mouth.
ssd3469
04-12-2024, 09:39 PM
Imagine she gave others AR oredi then kiss u & tongue fight wif u then how arh? :D ..
She doesn't do kissing I think, prostitutes don't also.
ssd3469
04-12-2024, 09:40 PM
Really is jiak sai liao... But I do see she consistently rinse her mouth.
Lol at the first sentence. 10 char
ssd3469
04-12-2024, 09:41 PM
Really is jiak sai liao... But I do see she consistently rinse her mouth.
Actually I regret sia going to MLs, because we should really only have sex with gf and wife. Just jerk off all the way.
katong
04-12-2024, 11:35 PM
You realised u have been posting and answering yourself? Do you really lack the attention? Can someone please zap this guy till red?
You kept saying u shd jerk off but you kept going to ML when your cock is still itchy.. u want to spread to other bros?
ssd3469
06-12-2024, 08:00 AM
[QUOTE=ssd3469;23888186]Ty for your reply:
3. Those youtube content you watching are not meant for you unless the gals you are targeting are teenagers or bimbos. If these are the gals you looking for, please continue to listen to them and skip our advice here. You are 34 years old and have O levels so I would suggest you work on your book smart or street smart as soon as possible.
That said, even if you want more IG followers, how are you going to get them if you are neither rich or outgoing? If you are rich and outgoing, you wouldn't have issue getting gf in the first place. It's a chicken and egg issue.
5. The fact that you are on this forum asking us how to find a gf, I would think you are definitely nowhere near having a gf as yet, so don't waste your time thinking of such scenarios. Even if you have a gf now, it would take a lot for the gal to pay first and expect you to step up. No pride eating soft rice anyways.
You are right abt the 2 statements which you shared. Those are words of encouragement to console you.
The hard truth is you need to work on yourself, to be a better version of yourself everyday.
Between Love and Bread, bread would almost always come first. Even if you have ntg now, you need to prove to the girl you have some sort of potential before she wants to committe to you.
You also need to work on your social skills as it seems to be lacking based on your replies to the other bros here.
You need real friends to show that you are likeable and so that ppl willing to intro girls to you.
That said, no harm visiting ML or hookers to lose your virginity or to destress until you can find a gf.
Why is Austin Dunham and fitxfearless for teenagers and bimbos? I doubt it is only just for them.
Btw I think there is harm visiting ML before we find a gf, because we might associate sex with just money, instead of with someone we really love or are in a relationship with.
ssd3469
06-12-2024, 11:12 AM
As a male, I can't even work in a student care as a stop gap measure because I will be seen as a sexual predator plus it it a job where most other teachers are female, we can't fit in the environment if almost all other teachers are female.
This is how oppressed and discriminated males are in sg. Sg is not a country for male.
Starx88
06-12-2024, 11:40 AM
Visited M_y, she not bad as per other Bros FR. Took the bed nearest to toilet. During actions not much sound, quiet type but next bed the moans are unashamedly loud. Found out her name is L__da, very hungry girl... 😂😂
ssd3469
06-12-2024, 01:00 PM
Visited M_y, she not bad as per other Bros FR. Took the bed nearest to toilet. During actions not much sound, quiet type but next bed the moans are unashamedly loud. Found out her name is L__da, very hungry girl... 😂😂
Lol you hear our feedback on may already you still dare to go? We never said she was bad, we were saying other stuffs. Anyway ty for review.
ssd3469
06-12-2024, 01:07 PM
Visited M_y, she not bad as per other Bros FR. Took the bed nearest to toilet. During actions not much sound, quiet type but next bed the moans are unashamedly loud. Found out her name is L__da, very hungry girl... 😂😂
Did she take your kkj out and smell first before proceeding? Lol.
ssd3469
06-12-2024, 02:14 PM
Can try out M*y at j*** e*. Her AR BBBBJ quite solid
That time she give me hj to finish me off after blowing me for quite a while I hard to cum I told her balls are my sensitive spot to help me cum, she grabbed my balls, I don't dare to anyhow move lol.
Anotherboi
07-12-2024, 01:10 AM
Visited M_y, she not bad as per other Bros FR. Took the bed nearest to toilet. During actions not much sound, quiet type but next bed the moans are unashamedly loud. Found out her name is L__da, very hungry girl... 😂😂
Wah bro see your fr make me tempted to check out L__da see how hungry she is😂
ssd3469
07-12-2024, 04:53 AM
Wah bro see your fr make me tempted to check out L__da see how hungry she is😂
Lol after reading what I said yesterday you still dare to go?
ssd3469
07-12-2024, 08:37 AM
Lol after reading what I said yesterday you still dare to go?
I regret going to MLs because sexual stuff should only be done with loved ones, including doing fj with our gf raw.
ssd3469
07-12-2024, 09:56 AM
Wah bro see your fr make me tempted to check out L__da see how hungry she is😂
My lil bro head got 3 marks, I am not sure if it came from the MLS and prostitutes. I can't remove the marks.
Anotherboi
07-12-2024, 10:26 AM
My lil bro head got 3 marks, I am not sure if it came from the MLS and prostitutes. I can't remove the marks.
Gg u better go doctor to check out and meantime don't go chionging. Be responsible don't spread any shit.
ssd3469
07-12-2024, 11:38 AM
Gg u better go doctor to check out and meantime don't go chionging. Be responsible don't spread any shit.
I already checked out a few months ago. So I think it is just harmless marks.
ssd3469
07-12-2024, 11:39 AM
Visited M_y, she not bad as per other Bros FR. Took the bed nearest to toilet. During actions not much sound, quiet type but next bed the moans are unashamedly loud. Found out her name is L__da, very hungry girl... 😂😂
Because she took out my kkj and smelled first before proceeding, lol
ssd3469
08-12-2024, 03:33 AM
Each has their own view
Just like their view of women
Some want the process, cum or not is another thing
Some want the result, process does not matter
But most of us will definitely want to have both the process and the result
Each have their own view of what?
ssd3469
08-12-2024, 06:59 PM
I have decided to quit chionging due to numerous reasons cited in this post recently. Thanks guys.
wahhero
08-12-2024, 09:52 PM
I already checked out a few months ago. So I think it is just harmless marks.
What marks? She gave u marks for being xxxxx? She only gave you 3 marks means you failed!
katong
09-12-2024, 12:24 AM
I have decided to quit chionging due to numerous reasons cited in this post recently. Thanks guys.
HAHAHAHAHA
Don't make me laugh can? You said this before last time. You think people will believe you? You will still go around spreading your itchy dick disease to other bro..
NiaoRenn
09-12-2024, 07:03 AM
Bukit merah block 28 TCM. Best ever
ssd3469
09-12-2024, 07:41 PM
HAHAHAHAHA
Don't make me laugh can? You said this before last time. You think people will believe you? You will still go around spreading your itchy dick disease to other bro..
If I have legitimate reasons to do so then I will stick to quitting. Now let me try to find if there is the option to block you. Shoo pest.
ssd3469
09-12-2024, 07:42 PM
What marks? She gave u marks for being xxxxx? She only gave you 3 marks means you failed!
I don't know how to reply to this. She said I was big down there so I must have passed.
ssd3469
09-12-2024, 08:10 PM
[QUOTE=ssd3469;23888186]Ty for your reply:
3. Those youtube content you watching are not meant for you unless the gals you are targeting are teenagers or bimbos. If these are the gals you looking for, please continue to listen to them and skip our advice here. You are 34 years old and have O levels so I would suggest you work on your book smart or street smart as soon as possible.
That said, even if you want more IG followers, how are you going to get them if you are neither rich or outgoing? If you are rich and outgoing, you wouldn't have issue getting gf in the first place. It's a chicken and egg issue.
5. The fact that you are on this forum asking us how to find a gf, I would think you are definitely nowhere near having a gf as yet, so don't waste your time thinking of such scenarios. Even if you have a gf now, it would take a lot for the gal to pay first and expect you to step up. No pride eating soft rice anyways.
You are right abt the 2 statements which you shared. Those are words of encouragement to console you.
The hard truth is you need to work on yourself, to be a better version of yourself everyday.
Between Love and Bread, bread would almost always come first. Even if you have ntg now, you need to prove to the girl you have some sort of potential before she wants to committe to you.
You also need to work on your social skills as it seems to be lacking based on your replies to the other bros here.
You need real friends to show that you are likeable and so that ppl willing to intro girls to you.
That said, no harm visiting ML or hookers to lose your virginity or to destress until you can find a gf.
For the last phrase, but visiting hookers can get STDs leh, how?
yyy12369
09-12-2024, 09:20 PM
Was at 408 amk for steak and happen to see a curtain joint with two fine ladies seated outside.
They gave some eye contact but unfortunately w family so can really explore.
Anyone has any review for this joint? I think name of shop is literally 408 massage… haha
gunkytown
10-12-2024, 12:44 AM
I have this amount in my CPF now, is it enough for downpayment for house? If it is not enough will it be enough if I add on my wife's? I think this already includes the amount from NS after completing 10 cycles.
I think need at least $80,000?
769675
How old are you? Fastest is to aim for 3 room flat
ssd3469
10-12-2024, 06:24 AM
How old are you? Fastest is to aim for 3 room flat
I am already 34, but I think there is a rule that says singles cannot buy 3 room flat? Oh means if married can buy? My mum told me.
gunkytown
10-12-2024, 09:45 AM
I am already 34, but I think there is a rule that says singles cannot buy 3 room flat? Oh means if married can buy? My mum told me.
That is pretty low cpf balance for someone who is 34. Hope your cash savings are much more. I am only earning 6k a month and I max can only afford to chiong 2-3 times a month. Judging from your past posts, seems like you are an avid chionger. Not sure how you can afford it. I wish you the best
ssd3469
10-12-2024, 10:02 AM
That is pretty low cpf balance for someone who is 34. Hope your cash savings are much more. I am only earning 6k a month and I max can only afford to chiong 2-3 times a month. Judging from your past posts, seems like you are an avid chionger. Not sure how you can afford it. I wish you the best
I don't have much cash savings either. My life was sabotaged severely by secondary 4 and NS bullying. Don't worry I went to teach them a lesson already. No...I am not an avid chionger. I only went 3 times in total.
gunkytown
10-12-2024, 10:35 AM
I don't have much cash savings either. My life was sabotaged severely by secondary 4 and NS bullying. Don't worry I went to teach them a lesson already. No...I am not an avid chionger. I only went 3 times in total.
Means you are spending way too much time in this forum. Go hustle, do grab/food panda/gojek. Wallowing in self pity will not help.
ssd3469
10-12-2024, 11:19 AM
Means you are spending way too much time in this forum. Go hustle, do grab/food panda/gojek. Wallowing in self pity will not help.
I don't wish to do dead end jobs. And no, I only started using this forum last year. It is not wallowing in self pity, it is stating a fact.
ssd3469
10-12-2024, 12:33 PM
That time I asked a red pill coach what should I do if I was conservative upbringing and 29 years old and a virgin without a first gf? But I only wish to do sexual stuff with gf and wife, not fwb and prostitute. Then he suggested that I go to a prostitute. Then I said I don't want to do it with a prostitute, then he said I 鬼打墙/ going in circles. The issue lies with him because the solution would have been how to find a gf instead of losing our virginity(I believe he misunderstood this as the problem) to a prostitute right?
ssd3469
10-12-2024, 12:34 PM
Means you are spending way too much time in this forum. Go hustle, do grab/food panda/gojek. Wallowing in self pity will not help.
That time I asked a red pill coach what should I do if I was conservative upbringing and 29 years old and a virgin without a first gf? But I only wish to do sexual stuff with gf and wife, not fwb and prostitute. Then he suggested that I go to a prostitute. Then I said I don't want to do it with a prostitute, then he said I 鬼打墙/ going in circles. The issue lies with him because the solution would have been how to find a gf instead of losing our virginity(I believe he misunderstood this as the problem) to a prostitute right?
Mobile88
10-12-2024, 12:47 PM
That time I asked a red pill coach what should I do if I was conservative upbringing and 29 years old without a first gf? But I only wish to do sexual stuff with gf and wife, not fwb and prostitute. Then he suggested that I go to a prostitute. Then I said I don't want to do it with a prostitute, then he said I 鬼打墙/ going in circles. The issue lies with him because the solution would have been how to find a gf instead of losing our virginity(I believe he misunderstood this as the problem) to a prostitute right?
You are going in circles. I’m not sure how many bros agree with me.
And many has been kind enough to point out to you.
Yet you have been blaming on literally everything else instead of moving in the right direction. Even if it is a small step, nah, there’s always a problem you would choose to pick.
dontcheatmeleh
10-12-2024, 12:52 PM
Was at 408 amk for steak and happen to see a curtain joint with two fine ladies seated outside.
They gave some eye contact but unfortunately w family so can really explore.
Anyone has any review for this joint? I think name of shop is literally 408 massage… haha
How’s the steak there? Want to try next week
ssd3469
10-12-2024, 12:57 PM
You are going in circles. I’m not sure how many bros agree with me.
And many has been kind enough to point out to you.
Yet you have been blaming on literally everything else instead of moving in the right direction. Even if it is a small step, nah, there’s always a problem you would choose to pick.
I am asking if I was going in circles in this question, not my life issues that was discussed in the earlier part of this thread. So stop acting smart please.
bonkbong
10-12-2024, 01:06 PM
Guys. Can we just stick to the topic of this thread?
I think quite a few of us tried to give advice previously but I think we should just move on and go back to the actual purpose of this thread.
ssd3469
10-12-2024, 01:17 PM
Hi Bro ssd3469,
Been reading your posts on this thread and just wanted to share my tots:
1. The seniors here are nice to share, no trolls or anything.
2. Sorry to hear about your past tramas and glad to know you seeking help.
3. I think most important is to work on yourself first, to put the past behind, meet more people outside and build your confidences and network for social and work purposes. No. of IG followers are useless indicators of your actual social network and ppl who actually care about you.
4. Once you can be happy with yourself then you can find a gal to share your happiness with. Almost no one wants to share a relationship with someone depressing but if you do, we are happy for you too.
5. If you want a short answer to your question, the answer is No.
U need minimum 20% cpf plus cash to buy hdb. If you don't have enough for decent meals and dates, hard to socialize and get a gf, much less a wife unless you can find someone to endure hardship with you. Rare but not impossible.
Why IG followers don't care about us?
katong
10-12-2024, 02:07 PM
I already say pls zap this mental tard off this forum. Said he will quit but yet keep posting to boost up this thread and post irrelevant stuffs. Said he's only active last year but u see which year he was registered.
THose who don't know him.. please see this thread that he posted before that. He don't deserve any pity. If sbf allows multiple zaps, I'll zap him again and again.
https://samsforum.store/showthread.php?t=969346
ssd3469
10-12-2024, 02:12 PM
I already say pls zap this mental tard off this forum. Said he will quit but yet keep posting to boost up this thread and post irrelevant stuffs. Said he's only active last year but u see which year he was registered.
THose who don't know him.. please see this thread that he posted before that. He don't deserve any pity. If sbf allows multiple zaps, I'll zap him again and again.
https://samsforum.store/showthread.php?t=969346
Hmm not surprising that no life is still here. I posted irrelevant stuff is to ask for help on my real life, unlike you, still living your online life over here.
Yup I registered in 2016, but I took a break from 2017 until 2023 and only started posting then. Of course I would come back to this forum 6 years after 2017 cause my no gf issue is still not resolved fool. So stop acting smart 🤓.
Won't be replying you anymore :) it's funny how I keep living rent free in your head.
zyon9
10-12-2024, 02:22 PM
Can y'all take this to somewhere else? Obviously this section of the forum is not for this subject ?!?!?:confused:
Anotherboi
10-12-2024, 02:43 PM
Guys. Can we just stick to the topic of this thread?
I think quite a few of us tried to give advice previously but I think we should just move on and go back to the actual purpose of this thread.
I agree with bro. Let's just only reply to threads related to topic. Enough with the chicken soup counselling.
I want see more curtain mp sweaty stories instead of sg bro sob stories
sibeinerd
10-12-2024, 02:50 PM
Ok la. No gf then no gf la. Find another thread…
Lets end this peacefully and not upset expectations of all bros who comes in here wanting to see finding of curtain joints.
rchua
10-12-2024, 02:50 PM
added to my ignore list
ssd3469
10-12-2024, 04:08 PM
Can y'all take this to somewhere else? Obviously this section of the forum is not for this subject ?!?!?:confused:
I don't wish to engage that idiot either, but he kept saying mean stuff and hounding me in every thread I went to.
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