What are tip to woo a girl? A greenhorn here

[Christin]

I always try to impress a female, over my time, but always fail

I try buy her gift, tell her joke, she only treat me as friend or rejected

Recently then I know, I should not buy thing for her until she become my gf

how to know if it is a good timing to ask to be my gf?
I do not know what is appropriate and what is not when I go dating with a girl

Please advise

Some times I gotten from another forum

Oni buy woman gifts after she becomes Ur gf
Don’t crack dirty jokes until koon liao

anymore tips?

[chubbybastard]

I always try to impress a female, over my time, but always fail

I try buy her gift, tell her joke, she only treat me as friend or rejected

Recently then I know, I should not buy thing for her until she become my gf

how to know if it is a good timing to ask to be my gf?
I do not know what is appropriate and what is not when I go dating with a girl

Please advise

Some times I gotten from another forum



anymore tips?

Just ask. And ask directly. On the second date. Don't beat around the bush. If its a no then move on.

But honestly why do you want a gf? Its not all fairy tales and sugar. I'd much rather be single and pay for sex.

[ValentinoVII]

Just ask. And ask directly. On the second date. Don't beat around the bush. If its a no then move on.

But honestly why do you want a gf? Its not all fairy tales and sugar. I'd much rather be single and pay for sex.

It's different for everyone, I just broke with my ex of 5 years. Keen to look for another partner. Personally I miss the companionship and the physical contact. Hugging a partner to sleep is very comforting for me. Got boobies is bonus.

[hellzell]

It's different for everyone, I just broke with my ex of 5 years. Keen to look for another partner. Personally I miss the companionship and the physical contact. Hugging a partner to sleep is very comforting for me. Got boobies is bonus.
So no boobies aka man also can ah?

[ValentinoVII]

So no boobies aka man also can ah?

For some people maybe. But I don't look down on girls with flat chest.

[bodypleasure]

If you like her, ask on 3rd date

1st date is to introduce yourself
2nd date is to know her more
3rd date if you guys are actively chat after 1st date, you can confidently ask her or hold her hands. It's okay to be rejected.

My success rate is 4/7
2 tio rejected
1 need 4 more dates for her (me ex-gf) to confirm. Broke off because she is quite demanding and dominant

[Christin]

anything we shld not do

or should do

after 2nd date?

[fallen11]

I always try to impress a female, over my time, but always fail

I try buy her gift, tell her joke, she only treat me as friend or rejected

Recently then I know, I should not buy thing for her until she become my gf

how to know if it is a good timing to ask to be my gf?
I do not know what is appropriate and what is not when I go dating with a girl

anymore tips?

you're not wooing
you're simping
no girls like simps
simps are only to be made use of
stop buying gifts and dont try too hard to impress
groom yourself, learn dress sense. be the You which even you would like to date. if you cant even imagine going on a date with yourself, no need to say about other girls.

[cbkia222]

you're not wooing
you're simping
no girls like simps
simps are only to be made use of
stop buying gifts and dont try too hard to impress
groom yourself, learn dress sense. be the You which even you would like to date. if you cant even imagine going on a date with yourself, no need to say about other girls.

As messed up as this sounds, there's truth in this.

You'll get the " you're too nice to me" or " i need my space, "

just be confident and give her the cold shoulder. ( somehow).

girls hate it when you suddenly turn cold and they will start to be pro active :) I HATED it when people told me this, but there's truth to this.

All the best :)

[BatamBro]

Just let her know you first.

Confidence in the way you talk, don't need to share until so much but make sure got reply her questions. Gifting is ok but not on first date, just observe what she likes based on convo then just give something simple / memorable.

What the bro bodypleasure say is correct, 3rd date if can't then just drop it off, don't waste your precious time.

In the end, it depends on which country also lah, now tiktok / instagram teach them all the tell signs this that and alot also looking for those rich with car etc..

Think properly of what kind of end game you want, the girl will react differently to how you chase her.

Just let her know the real confident manly you
Keep your dark side private
Keep your problems personal

[rachelm]

I always try to impress a female, over my time, but always fail

I try buy her gift, tell her joke, she only treat me as friend or rejected

Recently then I know, I should not buy thing for her until she become my gf

how to know if it is a good timing to ask to be my gf?
I do not know what is appropriate and what is not when I go dating with a girl

Please advise

Some times I gotten from another forum



anymore tips?

In a girl's perspective,

Wooing someone is all about building a genuine connection and showing respect and care. I will appreciate if a guy gives me a gift. Small gestures can go a long way. Compliment me sincerely, remember important details about me, and surprise me with thoughtful actions. A note to take. Giving me a gift does not imply i am yours. Just give me the space i want. If i am busy, i am seriously busy. Do not feel that i am giving excuses. If i am free, i will find you. Be patient, building a connection takes time. Don’t rush the process; let things develop naturally.

[Christin]

I feel that

- Singapore girls, most of the girl I know is too decent, cannot even crack yellow or sexual joke...knn they will just label u as "pervert". Only SG girl is like , the vietbu or Siambu not like that...Talk about sexual stuff is my hobby

- very hard to fuck, first thing when I see a girl I like, I just wanna know when I can fuck her, I dk why SG girl make it very hard to fuck, and their body like very precious.

- I need to test drive, if I cannot fuck the girl before marriage, how do I know, if her pussy is suitable for me? if I cannot test drive, how can I buy a car, before I marry a girl I need to test drive first. But SG girl is so conservative this cannot that cannot....how to fuck?

-Usually after the girl reject me I feel sad, I will go some healthcenter to find a ML to massage and release, it help me to feel good

[Christin]

My dream is watch some sexual R21 movie together with my girlfriend and squeeze her boob when I watching with her

all my uni and poly female classmates cannot accept it one, the girl that I like cannot accept my behaviour is like that

[chubbybastard]

My dream is watch some sexual R21 movie together with my girlfriend and squeeze her boob when I watching with her

all my uni and poly female classmates cannot accept it one, the girl that I like cannot accept my behaviour is like that

Get a hooker instead. I've done that before but honestly, not my thing.

[chubbybastard]

I feel that

- Singapore girls, most of the girl I know is too decent, cannot even crack yellow or sexual joke...knn they will just label u as "pervert". Only SG girl is like , the vietbu or Siambu not like that...Talk about sexual stuff is my hobby

- very hard to fuck, first thing when I see a girl I like, I just wanna know when I can fuck her, I dk why SG girl make it very hard to fuck, and their body like very precious.

- I need to test drive, if I cannot fuck the girl before marriage, how do I know, if her pussy is suitable for me? if I cannot test drive, how can I buy a car, before I marry a girl I need to test drive first. But SG girl is so conservative this cannot that cannot....how to fuck?

-Usually after the girl reject me I feel sad, I will go some healthcenter to find a ML to massage and release, it help me to feel good

You know SG girls like that then why still want to woo them? Just find hooker sua la. Now already like that, imagine what will it be like after marriage.

In the end back to square one i.e. still visit hookers. Except in the event you already got married the risk of being caught by your wife for infidelity and the ensuing women charter will pawn the living daylights out of you.

[Christin]

Do u all think black magic and love spell work or nt?

I think that is the best way to let a girl just fall in love with me sua

[Pictionary]

Do u all think black magic and love spell work or nt?

I think that is the best way to let a girl just fall in love with me sua
I do not know whether is a good or bad thing to over indulge in these activities. These kind of thing you can talk to your very close friends but not outside. Sometimes a mixual of activities sightseeing, not just sex and hug.

Girls when they get too lonely, they will get a bit dirty, just that they dun let you know.

Why not you first try hug first? Not the sex portion? I dun think some girls are very conservative until the max.

I dun think i want to reply further. I let others to reply first.

[BatamBro]

I feel that

- Singapore girls, most of the girl I know is too decent, cannot even crack yellow or sexual joke...knn they will just label u as "pervert"

This one I agree..
Majority of the sg girls now.. not easy to date one.
Alot of criteria and too demanding
Ask for sex also say you treat her like hooker
Ask her help also say you treat her like maid
Always compare with their friends say you never buy this and that for her
Always complain about their friends this and that's.. Can go Siao one

[Topper]

I always try to impress a female, over my time, but always fail
I try buy her gift, tell her joke, she only treat me as friend or rejected
Recently then I know, I should not buy thing for her until she become my gf
how to know if it is a good timing to ask to be my gf?
I do not know what is appropriate and what is not when I go dating with a girl
Please advise
Some times I gotten from another forum
anymore tips?

From the way you write, either you are very young in your late teens or extremely obnoxious when a lady looks at you, either in terms of looks, character or mannerisms. But being young is no excuse as usually attractive young men with good character have no such issues and never fail to obtain their prized catch.

Hence no amount of advice can help you for now as you will never understand, you just have to pray hard that you will slowly learn your mistakes along the way else you are destined to be a 添狗 simp to be pwned by ladies til you attain enlightenment. ;)

[Wilsoned]

Getting right to the point of wanting to sleep with her in a humorous way.

[dman19]

this kind of thing.... hard to teach. Must first have confidence in yourself and thick skin a bit. its like fishing..... ideally you are trying to fish her. but your goal is to make her fish you.... so must play a bit hard to get sometimes also. ultimately if she not interested, move on. the ocean is full of fishes

[ghostcow]

Good question, girls should woo you instead. That is the trick

[BearBros]

be open and be yourself is the best!

[hayhay]

I always try to impress a female, over my time, but always fail

I try buy her gift, tell her joke, she only treat me as friend or rejected

Recently then I know, I should not buy thing for her until she become my gf

how to know if it is a good timing to ask to be my gf?
I do not know what is appropriate and what is not when I go dating with a girl

Please advise

Some times I gotten from another forum



anymore tips?

U have a lot of money?

[BYDSEAL]

u must learn from me . top player in the girls

[BYDSEAL]

u must learn from me . top player in the girls. just dun post dark fat ugly maids805311

[cbkia222]

I always try to impress a female, over my time, but always fail

I try buy her gift, tell her joke, she only treat me as friend or rejected

Recently then I know, I should not buy thing for her until she become my gf

how to know if it is a good timing to ask to be my gf?
I do not know what is appropriate and what is not when I go dating with a girl

Please advise

Some times I gotten from another forum



anymore tips?

hi bro,

what i am going to tell you is going to sound crazy but have been in your place many times.

Girls LOVE bad boys! you can google this up and its true.

So basically, from my " research" into this, this is how girls' minds work:

a) They are always looking for something exciting
b) they want to be proud that they have " made a change" in someones life
c) they like the unknown.

This applies mostly to " regular girls" ( ie u exclude those mentally scarred ones )

so meaning:

i) When you are a bad boy, everyday your mood is different, u can be nice to her one day, next day you are a total asshole to her and this will make her curious as to what's going to happen and it will excite her.

ii) Then she will deem u " bad boy" and try to change you. She will be by your side to try and " change you " to be a better person.

The irony is, once she actually changes you ( and u change yourself), then she will get bored ( they have actually made meme videos about this

iii) The " unknown" and " instability" thrills them.

Girls will NOT admit to these facts, but if you have seen nice girls ( the type u know u can settle down with ), with broke guys who just game/ no job/ gambles/ abuses them etc.. and the girls will say " you dont know the btter side of him"

If you treat a girl too nice, the above excitement is not there.

The above is valid without factoring " wealth" into the equation. If you are super rich/ hot/ nice and literally u can afford anything the girl wants, then its another story ( the wealth supercedes the excitement, but there will be a chance that she might consider cheating with her bad boy ex or something)

I believe the only girls whom will truly appreciate a good guy are

a) The first love kind ( from school days, only tasted 1 dick in her life and got married etc)..maybe i'm wrong, but there are some really true love cases out there

b) cases of guy/ girl been through thick and thin , uphill and down hill together :)

c) The girl was from the FL industry and knows the value of a GOOD man.. but she did FL due to circumstances ( met some of these girls).

girls will make good partners, but then it will come with another bunch of mental problems as well.

in summary, just work hard on yourself and dont treat a girl too well :)

hahah.

all the best!