Looking for a Life Partner to Build a Home Together (Open & Honest Relationship)

[HarmoniaEros]

Hi everyone,

Unconventional post, but here goes.

I’m a Chinese Singaporean woman, unmarried, looking for someone open to marriage and securing a stable home together (BTO or SBF). I’m also open to dating for real—if we click, even better.

I believe in shared goals, personal freedom, and honest communication. I prefer to wait until marriage or getting the house before consummation. You’re free to explore elsewhere—just be respectful and transparent.

A little about me (https://sbf.today/member.php?u=1010472).

My preference for the gentleman to be
- Single/divorced Chinese Singaporean
- okay with my age (might not have kids, but okay if you have kids)
- non-smoker
- willing to get a BTO/SBF (not resale/private just yet)
- kind, generous, considerate, open-minded, emotionally mature

I hope to find a open-minded partner—someone to build a safe home with and support each other’s growth.

If you’re stable, sincere, and brave enough to be real, drop me a DM with your Telegram and a bit about yourself.

Let’s build something honest—and maybe even a home.

:)

[HairyHairyBalls]

Very high level scam.

[BoLiang]

need to applaud the honesty but this is probably the worst place to look for a spouse.

To the consummate part, how will the guy even know if you are sexually normal?

[bbbome]

find "perfect" husband to pay the bill
but not to intervene anything else
hahaha
what the marriage for?
prison for men.
if you love women, don't get married.
if you get married, you only love woman.
:)

[KinJioKar]

Hey everyone,

I know this might not be the usual kind of post here, but I figured it’s worth a try.

I am female, chinese singaporean, not married, looking for a like-minded partner who shares the goal of marriage and securing a home together.

I believe in having both shared and independent lives. I’d like to explore an open and honest relationship where we are transparent, safe, and respectful to all parties involved. This means we can build a home together while still having the freedom to explore connections with others, as long as there’s mutual transparency, trust and respect.

A little about me (https://sbf.today/member.php?u=1010472).

My preference for the gentlemen to be
- Single/not married/divorced
- Chinese Singaporean
- okay with my age (as potentially not having kids)
- non smoker
- open to get a BTO/SBF but not resale (at this point)
- kind, considerate, open-minded

If you’re also keen on the idea of a practical yet meaningful connection, pls reach out.

Ultimately, the goal is to find a open-minded life partner—someone to build a home with, support each other’s growth, and create a safe and stable foundation for the future. If this resonates with you and you are also looking for something similar, let’s connect and see where things go.

Looking forward to hearing from those who are genuine and keen!

In the interest to protect myself due to the nature of this forum, we will have to consummate our marriage AFTER the paper or house (whichever appropriate), in the meantime, you are free to be intimate with anyone else.

Please dm and reciprocate your details.

:)

How to apply

[urger]

Hey everyone,

I know this might not be the usual kind of post here, but I figured it’s worth a try.

I am female, chinese singaporean, not married, looking for a like-minded partner who shares the goal of marriage and securing a home together.

:)

Yah right. When things get into nasty state and divorce is on the card, the "husband" will be at a disadvantage. Women's charter will always be on the female side.

[HairyHairyBalls]

Yah right. When things get into nasty state and divorce is on the card, the "husband" will be at a disadvantage. Women's charter will always be on the female side.

Exactly. Somemore this "wife" already openly stated she won't perform any wifey duties. :D

[HarmoniaEros]

LOL. Thanks for all the entertaining comments.

Oh no, I’ve been exposed! I had no idea I was running a high-level scam - clearly, I need to sit down and rethink my entire strategy. Work has been hectic, but I’ll do my best to figure out how to find a husband who will be willing to pay for everything while I sit back, sip non-cock cocktails, and somehow contribute absolutely nothing. The logistics of this are clearly more complicated than I thought! Open to suggestions—bonus points if anyone can teach me Jedi mind-tricks to make this work flawlessly. 😂

[Regirocks]

I fit your bill! Pls dm me

[OPIC]

Hey everyone,

I know this might not be the usual kind of post here, but I figured it’s worth a try.

I am female, chinese singaporean, not married, looking for a like-minded partner who shares the goal of marriage and securing a home together.

I believe in having both shared and independent lives. I’d like to explore an open and honest relationship where we are transparent, safe, and respectful to all parties involved. This means we can build a home together while still having the freedom to explore connections with others, as long as there’s mutual transparency, trust and respect.

A little about me (https://sbf.today/member.php?u=1010472).

My preference for the gentlemen to be
- Single/not married/divorced
- Chinese Singaporean
- okay with my age (as potentially not having kids)
- non smoker
- open to get a BTO/SBF but not resale (at this point)
- kind, considerate, open-minded

If you’re also keen on the idea of a practical yet meaningful connection, pls reach out.

Ultimately, the goal is to find a open-minded life partner—someone to build a home with, support each other’s growth, and create a safe and stable foundation for the future. If this resonates with you and you are also looking for something similar, let’s connect and see where things go.

Looking forward to hearing from those who are genuine and keen!

In the interest to protect myself due to the nature of this forum, we will have to consummate our marriage AFTER the paper or house (whichever appropriate), in the meantime, you are free to be intimate with anyone else.

Please dm and reciprocate your details.

:)

Wow.. Hope you find the right one here

[Powerman881]

All the best in your quest!

From a fellow 88 :)

[HarmoniaEros]

This is turning out to be trickier than I expected.

I’ve tried dating apps, agencies, and events—but the right connection still feels elusive. I’m slim, decent-looking, and I’d like to think I’m a pretty good conversationalist. I do have certain values and standards when it comes to choosing a life partner.

If you’re above 25 and working, I’d expect you to contribute fairly to the home—unless you’re not planning to live in it, of course.

I’ve had relationships and sugar arrangements before, but of course the latter was not meant to last, hence this post.

For a life partner, I’m looking for someone who’s emotionally available, serious about marriage, and ready to build a future together. Naturally, we’ll need to date and see if we connect—and it’s a bonus if you’re warm, generous, and kind-hearted.

I believe in doing my part as a wife, and I hope my partner will do his part as a husband too.

I get that this might not be the most conventional place to find a spouse—but I’d rather meet someone who’s open about being here and willing to share this part of their life with me, instead of hiding it out.

[Khiampak]

This is turning out to be trickier than I expected.

I’ve tried dating apps, agencies, and events—but the right connection still feels elusive. I’m slim, decent-looking, and I’d like to think I’m a pretty good conversationalist. I do have certain values and standards when it comes to choosing a life partner.

If you’re above 25 and working, I’d expect you to contribute fairly to the home—unless you’re not planning to live in it, of course.

I’ve had relationships and sugar arrangements before, but of course the latter was not meant to last, hence i am here.

For a life partner, I’m looking for someone who’s emotionally available, serious about marriage, and ready to build a future together. Naturally, we’ll need to date and see if we connect—and it’s a bonus if you’re warm, generous, and kind-hearted.

I believe in doing my part as a wife, and I hope my partner will do his part as a husband too.

I get that this might not be the most conventional place to find a spouse—but I’d rather meet someone who’s open about being here and willing to share this part of their life with me, instead of hiding it out of fear or shame.

36 years old is too old for marriage. HAHAHA.
No one wants to marry an old hag. HAHAHA.
Why would anyone wants an old wrinkled auntie to walk down the aisle when they can easily pick a 20+ rather than a 36. HAHAHA.

[hero101]

Very high level scam.

[Kenny76]

Hey everyone,

I know this might not be the usual kind of post here, but I figured it’s worth a try.

I am female, chinese singaporean, not married, looking for a like-minded partner who shares the goal of marriage and securing a home together.

I believe in having both shared and independent lives. I’d like to explore an open and honest relationship where we are transparent, safe, and respectful to all parties involved. This means we can build a home together while still having the freedom to explore connections with others, as long as there’s mutual transparency, trust and respect.

A little about me (https://sbf.today/member.php?u=1010472).

My preference for the gentlemen to be
- Single/not married/divorced
- Chinese Singaporean
- okay with my age (as potentially not having kids)
- non smoker
- open to get a BTO/SBF but not resale/private yet (at this point)
- kind, considerate, open-minded

If you’re also keen on the idea of a practical yet meaningful connection, pls reach out.

Ultimately, the goal is to find a open-minded life partner—someone to build a home with, support each other’s growth, and create a safe and stable foundation for the future. If this resonates with you and you are also looking for something similar, let’s connect and see where things go.

Looking forward to hearing from those who are genuine and keen!

In the interest to protect myself due to the nature of this forum, we will have to consummate our marriage AFTER the paper or house (whichever appropriate), in the meantime, you are free to be intimate with anyone else.

Please dm and reciprocate your details.

:)

good luck to finding

[Khiampak]

Very high level scam.

It is not a scam.
The auntie has already past her prime and is desperate for kum gongs to sign up. HAHAHA.

[Pictionary]

This is turning out to be trickier than I expected.

I’ve tried dating apps, agencies, and events—but the right connection still feels elusive. I’m slim, decent-looking, and I’d like to think I’m a pretty good conversationalist. I do have certain values and standards when it comes to choosing a life partner.

If you’re above 25 and working, I’d expect you to contribute fairly to the home—unless you’re not planning to live in it, of course.

I’ve had relationships and sugar arrangements before, but of course the latter was not meant to last, hence i am here.

For a life partner, I’m looking for someone who’s emotionally available, serious about marriage, and ready to build a future together. Naturally, we’ll need to date and see if we connect—and it’s a bonus if you’re warm, generous, and kind-hearted.

I believe in doing my part as a wife, and I hope my partner will do his part as a husband too.

I get that this might not be the most conventional place to find a spouse—but I’d rather meet someone who’s open about being here and willing to share this part of their life with me, instead of hiding it out of fear or shame.
You say you are a pretty good conversationalist. Then please list down what normal languages you can speak or hear? Confirmed you are born in singapore?
Which job you doing now? Roughly will do.
What minimum certain values and standards do you require of a gentleman?
What religion you have?
Do you have or intend to have a pet? Then how are you going to take care of it by yourself?
What are your regular hobbies?
Lastly, how are you going to take care of your new boyfriend if he is not feeling okay.

Because i am quite busy and once in a while hop in this forum, so you may not reply me. I leave to you to slowly read and answer.

Please try not to disturb other guys to a certain state whereby they cannot even take care of themselves. Whatever they say, dun mock them.

[hero101]

It is not a scam.
The auntie has already past her prime and is desperate for kum gongs to sign up. HAHAHA.

Auntie’s spider web waitting for Kim gongs cheese .

[illinois]

intro :

20y/o mix chinese and Javanese
singaporean
polytechnic
Urusbbsoq on tele
will provide you all ur answers and details if u pm me.
I am serious about this proposal and meeting your needs as well

[illinois]

intro :

20y/o mix chinese and Javanese
singaporean
polytechnic
Urusbbsoq on tele
will provide you all ur answers and details if u pm me.
I am serious about this proposal and meeting your needs as well

[HarmoniaEros]

Bump before elections

[HarmoniaEros]

Was reminded to bump my post up.

[Turtle]

Ang moh busy pai, hope a suitable candidate is elected. Maybe you can give us a list for us to vote.??