Married men, how did you convince your FB?

[baloo90]

As per title, I'm curious on the different methods married or attached men, convinced their FB to be their FB and that there was no future of relationship together?

Were you upfront in saying you were attached? Or did you just hook up first, and then inform her later and she had to live with it?

[donut88]

As per title, I'm curious on the different methods married or attached men, convinced their FB to be their FB and that there was no future of relationship together?

Were you upfront in saying you were attached? Or did you just hook up first, and then inform her later and she had to live with it?

For me, it's upfront. They know my status. I also choose married FB coz I know they won't be sticky to me.

Divorced ones are a bit risky because they will be more sticky and hopeful. I tried before. Didn't like the feeling.

[oxeso]

Moi upfront. Reason no.1. Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned. :eek::p No.2. 风流和下流是不一样地。。;):D

[Cryptor]

why would the partner be called a FB if there are long term relationship goals? FB is called FB precisely because its a NSA can end anytime by anyone kind of arrangement what

[baloo90]

For me, it's upfront. They know my status. I also choose married FB coz I know they won't be sticky to me.

Divorced ones are a bit risky because they will be more sticky and hopeful. I tried before. Didn't like the feeling.

yeah i figured best to be up front to avoid any issues down the line. And you are right, married is the highest guarantee of no strings.

[baloo90]

Moi upfront. Reason no.1. Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned. :eek::p No.2. 风流和下流是不一样地。。;):D

:D:D probably the most accurate saying ever.

[baloo90]

why would the partner be called a FB if there are long term relationship goals? FB is called FB precisely because its a NSA can end anytime by anyone kind of arrangement what

That the point - you may call her a FB, but she may not call you the same. So the question is how do you ensure it remains as an FB relationship.

[ken_v2]

well, things just happened when you talked to them. you know, there will be the chemistry and flirting moments... and one thing will lead to another.

there is no formula to it.

[moloch1666]

well, things just happened when you talked to them. you know, there will be the chemistry and flirting moments... and one thing will lead to another.

there is no formula to it.

True on this one.
I have ex FB, she with me for few months and she found out I'm married.
but we still being couple till she get married.:D

[timeliness]

True on this one.
I have ex FB, she with me for few months and she found out I'm married.
but we still being couple till she get married.:D

Like that I lagi jialat sia, she knew I was attached from day one but still gave me her first time..

[donut88]

Now I'm working on someone who's divorced. I need to be extra careful of her stickiness.

[LordVader]

Both my FB knows I am married, but both do not know each other exists.

[evilair]

Were you upfront in saying you were attached? Or did you just hook up first, and then inform her later and she had to live with it?

I also tell them upfront. It may cost you a lot more trouble later if you don't mention this upfront.

Agree with bros here
1) Married FB is the best, minimum trouble and tends to be more understanding. The relationship will also tend to last longer
2) I try to avoid divorced ladies nowadays. My experience is that they tend to be sticky. Some may even want you to divorce, especially when the lady has kid(s) and is looking for a father for their children
3) Attached ladies are also good, just that they will tend to stop when they are about to get married.

So I feel it is not about how you convince, it is more about which profile of a lady you are looking at.

[finalrebel]

my fb is attached and going to get married . i don pay her over the top attention thats my line

[Slaver29125]

well, things just happened when you talked to them. you know, there will be the chemistry and flirting moments... and one thing will lead to another.

there is no formula to it.

+21 to you... I agree... there is no formula to it... You just got to have the guts to steer it if there is some chemistry... Never try, never know...

Both my FB knows I am married, but both do not know each other exists.

NBZ... the force is strong with this one... LOL, I'd up you too, but I upped you before... hahaha

[baloo90]

True on this one.
I have ex FB, she with me for few months and she found out I'm married.
but we still being couple till she get married.:D

Did she make a fuss when she found out you were married?

[Lemonjuice]

The big question is how to get married FB?

I has one from OKC and one from Gleedon. But both were luck, no secret sauce.

Unfortunately, both were history already.

[LordVader]

The big question is how to get married FB?

I has one from OKC and one from Gleedon. But both were luck, no secret sauce.

Unfortunately, both were history already.

It is always timing and luck.

[lipe]

bro evilair

up you 23 points.

yup. from another department. very heavy petting until she engaged and married another colleague.

till this day only she and I knew our tryst. we met during social gatherings. her eyes and smiles tells alot. just leave it as it is.



Agree with bros here
3) Attached ladies are also good, just that they will tend to stop when they are about to get married.

[finalrebel]

It is always timing and luck.

totally agree bro . always about timing and luck

[Ilovejesus]

As per title, I'm curious on the different methods married or attached men, convinced their FB to be their FB and that there was no future of relationship together?

Were you upfront in saying you were attached? Or did you just hook up first, and then inform her later and she had to live with it?

Based on my limited past experience, ladies like it when u are married...makes u more desirable. Lady once told me forbidden fruit taste sweeter. It was so true, cause I got dumped by my FB when I divorced.

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bro evilair

thanks


bro evilair

up you 23 points.

yup. from another department. very heavy petting until she engaged and married another colleague.

till this day only she and I knew our tryst. we met during social gatherings. her eyes and smiles tells alot. just leave it as it is.

[PieceOfMeat]

Colleague knew I was married and she also got a bf (virgin never had sex before, wanted to save for after marriage).

She gave up her first to me and we continued almost once or twice weekly for about 2 years. I think it was really about the maturity and sensibility married men have?

But anyway, when it gets too long can be problematic too. Feelings start to develop, was hoping I could divorce for her. Arguments came up between us, broke-off our relationship and she got married with bf. Was a great 2 years though. Always thought such things only happen in stories or other people, never ever thought it could happen to me but it did. lol

[Slaver29125]

The big question is how to get married FB?

I has one from OKC and one from Gleedon. But both were luck, no secret sauce.

Unfortunately, both were history already.

+21 to you... Being extroverted helps... I also want FB hahaha... but I too introverted...

[baloo90]

Colleague knew I was married and she also got a bf (virgin never had sex before, wanted to save for after marriage).

She gave up her first to me and we continued almost once or twice weekly for about 2 years. I think it was really about the maturity and sensibility married men have?

But anyway, when it gets too long can be problematic too. Feelings start to develop, was hoping I could divorce for her. Arguments came up between us, broke-off our relationship and she got married with bf. Was a great 2 years though. Always thought such things only happen in stories or other people, never ever thought it could happen to me but it did. lol

Wow bro - you got balls. With colleague, were you worried she would threaten to inform your wife? I've had 2 colleagues super sexy - both I felt could have escalated, but being a colleague, they had access to my personal life and family if they wanted to. So I weighed it up as too risky and passed on trying with them.

[baloo90]

The big question is how to get married FB?

I has one from OKC and one from Gleedon. But both were luck, no secret sauce.

Unfortunately, both were history already.

Do tell bro, how did you know them and how did you escalate it to hooking up?

[Karlman]

Do tell bro, how did you know them and how did you escalate it to hooking up?

For bros who are seeing eligible FBs, the rule of the thumb is to be upfront about it. It is also very important to be mature and no playing of childish, head games. Women are smart and they will smell it miles away.

Depending on the women we met, I typically leave subtle hints like saying I need to “spend time with my family” which as women, they usually pick up. I give them time to consider if they want to continue the secret dating, flirting etc.

I had a few misses, a few successes. But take it easy :))

[PieceOfMeat]

Wow bro - you got balls. With colleague, were you worried she would threaten to inform your wife? I've had 2 colleagues super sexy - both I felt could have escalated, but being a colleague, they had access to my personal life and family if they wanted to. So I weighed it up as too risky and passed on trying with them.

Yeh bro, you're right. We're even facebook friends so she naturally can see and access my personal life too. But you know lar, when one has been sex deprived for years (and I mean 100% 0 sex) with spouse, some things just took over.

I'm just lucky she's matured enough (though she's more than 10 years younger than me) to not do anything to ruin each other since she's technically also attached. Anyway, I also refrained from facebook family updates from then on as can tell she not happy seeing. Lol

[baloo90]

For bros who are seeing eligible FBs, the rule of the thumb is to be upfront about it. It is also very important to be mature and no playing of childish, head games. Women are smart and they will smell it miles away.

Depending on the women we met, I typically leave subtle hints like saying I need to “spend time with my family” which as women, they usually pick up. I give them time to consider if they want to continue the secret dating, flirting etc.

I had a few misses, a few successes. But take it easy :))

Yes thats what i figured, be up front and let her know you are attached. Continue to flirt and if to goes to the next level, there are no surprises and she can't be upset. Then watch for cues she is getting attached and pull parachute if she is.

I always took the rule just to pay for it, as its transactional and much less risk. But sometimes the real fun is in the chase.

[baloo90]

Yeh bro, you're right. We're even facebook friends so she naturally can see and access my personal life too. But you know lar, when one has been sex deprived for years (and I mean 100% 0 sex) with spouse, some things just took over.

I'm just lucky she's matured enough (though she's more than 10 years younger than me) to not do anything to ruin each other since she's technically also attached. Anyway, I also refrained from facebook family updates from then on as can tell she not happy seeing. Lol

I remember my colleagues last day at work, she asked to meet at the office on weekend to "handover" some stuff. I agreed. Told my wife I had to go to office and I guess women's intuition she insisted on coming (not sure why this time, as I have gone to the office for legit work reasons before many times and she never follows). Anyway, this time she did and I couldn't stop her. I roll up and my colleague sees her and is shocked...the handover was just passing laptop hahaha

My fantasy of her unzipping me at her desk and jamming my cock into her mouth never got to play out, except in my dreams. :mad:

[PieceOfMeat]

Yes thats what i figured, be up front and let her know you are attached. Continue to flirt and if to goes to the next level, there are no surprises and she can't be upset. Then watch for cues she is getting attached and pull parachute if she is.

I always took the rule just to pay for it, as its transactional and much less risk. But sometimes the real fun is in the chase.

Yes bro, totally agree with the part bout just go with transactions to reduce risk. Also fully agree all the fun is in the chasing. Started to go with being a SD now and as good as less emotional risk, there's just something missing. Oh well, can't ask for too much of everything.. haha

[phantomboyz]

Old tricks always work, find those girls whom currently at cold war or recently break off. They just need attention and company. Just invite them out for a movie dinner then shoulder for them to cry. They will just give in willingly especially when you are staying in a condo or own a car. My records never failed even poly students my easy prey.

[reborne01]

but...... honest and real question.... where to find FB or NSA? :confused:

[Lemonjuice]

Do tell bro, how did you know them and how did you escalate it to hooking up?

OKC is real luck, Gleedon is for affairs. So really luck here

[baloo90]

Old tricks always work, find those girls whom currently at cold war or recently break off. They just need attention and company. Just invite them out for a movie dinner then shoulder for them to cry. They will just give in willingly especially when you are staying in a condo or own a car. My records never failed even poly students my easy prey.

Ya the rebound / revenge fuck is ideal. But timing is key then to find the ones in cold relationships or just broken up.

[finalrebel]

Ya the rebound / revenge fuck is ideal. But timing is key then to find the ones in cold relationships or just broken up.

this is really one of the most ideal situation but also a bit tricky they might find all guys repulsive .

[justin69]

OKC is real luck, Gleedon is for affairs. So really luck here
Do you pay to message and read reply in Gleeden?

[theshowstopper]

Do you pay to message and read reply in Gleeden?

I think need to pay for credits to send messages de

[phantomboyz]

Ya the rebound / revenge fuck is ideal. But timing is key then to find the ones in cold relationships or just broken up.

easy maa. Just message them. For sure they wont entertain while in attached. But when they reply to you out of the blue, meaning they are lowering their guard and open of public auditions. So lay down your baits and wait for your lucky time.

[baloo90]

easy maa. Just message them. For sure they wont entertain while in attached. But when they reply to you out of the blue, meaning they are lowering their guard and open of public auditions. So lay down your baits and wait for your lucky time.

:cool: bro i like your system :cool:

[ByLeft]

Only had 1 FWB but i was single back then.

We were secondary classmates and we kept in contact on and off throughout the years. She kena shotgun when she around 22-23 and the guy ran away.

So she became a single mum and we reconnected when we're 25. We met for a simple dinner at coffee shop and i ordered oyster omelette and she said "oyster is good, it makes you strong". I said i dont need oyster to be strong and said you should try if you dont believe.

Then things happen, her below spider web cave already since few years no have sex lol.

FWB for a year but she got serious and i broke it off with her.

[finalrebel]

Only had 1 FWB but i was single back then.

We were secondary classmates and we kept in contact on and off throughout the years. She kena shotgun when she around 22-23 and the guy ran away.

So she became a single mum and we reconnected when we're 25. We met for a simple dinner at coffee shop and i ordered oyster omelette and she said "oyster is good, it makes you strong". I said i dont need oyster to be strong and said you should try if you dont believe.

Then things happen, her below spider web cave already since few years no have sex lol.

FWB for a year but she got serious and i broke it off with her.

bro time for you to re-ignite the flames again

[ByLeft]

bro time for you to re-ignite the flames again

Nah bro, it can get quite messy, especially since we go way back. She's attached now and i'm married, but maybe it will fit the title of this thread more if i do so lol.