Feeling very troubled

[fabiann]

hello everyone. Currently I’m facing this situation.

I’m about 40 this year, currently in Melbourne with my partner whom is 24 this year. Yeah I know the age gap kinda big. I’m in Melbourne on a partner student visa. Which means my partner is studying while I’m just tagging along. We have been together for about 4 years now.

Few months back, I was bored so I went online to have a chat. And happened to chat with this Malaysian girl. She is 22 and have a kid. Her divorce is on-going. Not yet officially. But pretty sure they will sign the papers soon.

I have been chatting with her for about 2 months. And she said is going to Thailand to return wishes to 4 faced buddha. She asked me do I want to tag along. (At this point of time, the way we chat on the phone or messages it’s already like lovers, but we haven’t met yet)

So I’ve said ok. And travelled to Thailand 2 months back. And we we together in Thailand for 16 days. Bangkok and Pattaya.

Problem is. She thinks I’m 31 and don’t have a gf. But she knows I’m in Melbourne. So I just cooked up some reason saying I’m doing business in Melbourne.

So for now, I do not know what should I do. Let the Malaysian lady go or should I let the Singaporean girl go?

[LordVader]

Go with what your dick feels.

Probably in the end, both will burn.

Just my opinion but both are way too young.

Before the white knights come out to tell me about "Oh my SO also 20yrs age gap", you are the exception not the norm.

[Crest]

In your case, the truth is secondary to whichever is more important.
eg for me, sexual compatibility.
If the sex can't match up, everything else is useless, for me.
What are the most important qualities you are looking for in a partner ?

You are just looking for a partner, not a life partner. That comes after.

[loneyheart]

Tats all woman will be saying we man 喜新厌旧
If u r just playing for lust ... keep both ... but honest with both
If serious relationship .... nobody can help u only yrself .... but new one has a kid u should seriously think about it
Pls be clear about just lust and love ... feel n ask yrself :)

[Karlman]

You can set up a fight between both ladies and winner get you. The feeling of two parties fighting over you is priceless.

[fabiann]

In your case, the truth is secondary to whichever is more important.
eg for me, sexual compatibility.
If the sex can't match up, everything else is useless, for me.
What are the most important qualities you are looking for in a partner ?

You are just looking for a partner, not a life partner. That comes after.


Honestly? Definitely the Malaysian girl feels better in terms of sex wise. But maybe because the Singapore one together with me for quite long. So is like sian already. But it may happen on the Malaysian lady too.

But character wise. I’ll have to say for now the Malaysian girl is better

[sammyboyfor]

hello everyone. Currently I’m facing this situation.

I’m about 40 this year, currently in Melbourne with my partner whom is 24 this year. Yeah I know the age gap kinda big. I’m in Melbourne on a partner student visa. Which means my partner is studying while I’m just tagging along. We have been together for about 4 years now.

Few months back, I was bored so I went online to have a chat. And happened to chat with this Malaysian girl. She is 22 and have a kid. Her divorce is on-going. Not yet officially. But pretty sure they will sign the papers soon.

I have been chatting with her for about 2 months. And she said is going to Thailand to return wishes to 4 faced buddha. She asked me do I want to tag along. (At this point of time, the way we chat on the phone or messages it’s already like lovers, but we haven’t met yet)

So I’ve said ok. And travelled to Thailand 2 months back. And we we together in Thailand for 16 days. Bangkok and Pattaya.

Problem is. She thinks I’m 31 and don’t have a gf. But she knows I’m in Melbourne. So I just cooked up some reason saying I’m doing business in Melbourne.

So for now, I do not know what should I do. Let the Malaysian lady go or should I let the Singaporean girl go?

Why would you want to inherit somebody else's kid?

[Crest]

But character wise. I’ll have to say for now the Malaysian girl is better

But what are the qualities you are looking for in a partner yourself ?
If you are already bored with your current, then maybe you should settle that first ? No point dragging.

Or if you are up for it and feel you are capable of keeping it a secret, why not just continue as you are for now.
2 time it.
Done it a couple times before, was exciting and fun while it lasted, but gets tiring really quickly.

[sammyboyfor]

But what are the qualities you are looking for in a partner yourself ?
If you are already bored with your current, then maybe you should settle that first ? No point dragging.

Or if you are up for it and feel you are capable of keeping it a secret, why not just continue as you are for now.
2 time it.
Done it a couple times before, was exciting and fun while it lasted, but gets tiring really quickly.

Having a side fling was easy in the 80s and early 90s before the advent of the internet but how anyone can pull it off in 2025 is beyond me. Your phone follows you everywhere, cameras, CCTV are ubiquitous!

Surely you're going to get caught in no time at all.:D

[fabiann]

But what are the qualities you are looking for in a partner yourself ?
If you are already bored with your current, then maybe you should settle that first ? No point dragging.

Or if you are up for it and feel you are capable of keeping it a secret, why not just continue as you are for now.
2 time it.
Done it a couple times before, was exciting and fun while it lasted, but gets tiring really quickly.


I get that exciting part. But for now. My Singapore gf doesn’t check my phone. That’s for now lah. If I do break up with this girl here. I would have to go back Singapore. When I’m in Singapore. I stayed at her place. So if we do break up. I’m literally done.

Yeah I know I’m pretty useless. Don’t have have a house back in Singapore even though I’m way above 35. Pretty sad though.

[baloo90]

Is a threesome out of the question?

[fwchong]

Hello,

I have seen this before too...let me save you the trouble...just say no.

You will get a lot of trouble because you cant cover up.

on top of that, you dont even know if this is a scammer out there. Meeting in thailand are red flags. A friend of mine also got conned like that where he met a girl online and can see her video online before going to Thailand and then when he arrived, they meet and then a few thugs robbed him of his money. They always say that this is a 2 weeks trip to go to this and that. This is a ruse to throw your family off guard so that they think that you are away but during this time, you are threathen. The police over there also brided and so this is no Singapore or Australia police where you can get help if you go to a police station.

Ask your heart - Someone you met online vs someone you know physically and accept who you are. Do you see how much your Singapore partner sacrifice for you to join her ? Did you SG girl ask you to bring money to keep her lifestyle ? Did she ask you to pay for her education ? She is using money to pay for education so that she can bring in the money for you and your family. Your SG girl also dont look down on you even though you think you are useless. Most girls would walk away from you given that you are less worthy of them but why did this SG girl stick with you ? Do you see her Point of View why she wants to be with you ? There is something inside you that she admire you and i think you should cherish that gift you have instead.

On the other hand, your heart is itching saying, I want some fun. Then the true colour from the Malaysian girl come out, you have to feed her and her son who I can gurantee 100% wont respect you at all.





hello everyone. Currently I’m facing this situation.

I’m about 40 this year, currently in Melbourne with my partner whom is 24 this year. Yeah I know the age gap kinda big. I’m in Melbourne on a partner student visa. Which means my partner is studying while I’m just tagging along. We have been together for about 4 years now.

Few months back, I was bored so I went online to have a chat. And happened to chat with this Malaysian girl. She is 22 and have a kid. Her divorce is on-going. Not yet officially. But pretty sure they will sign the papers soon.

I have been chatting with her for about 2 months. And she said is going to Thailand to return wishes to 4 faced buddha. She asked me do I want to tag along. (At this point of time, the way we chat on the phone or messages it’s already like lovers, but we haven’t met yet)

So I’ve said ok. And travelled to Thailand 2 months back. And we we together in Thailand for 16 days. Bangkok and Pattaya.

Problem is. She thinks I’m 31 and don’t have a gf. But she knows I’m in Melbourne. So I just cooked up some reason saying I’m doing business in Melbourne.

If you need to release because your SG girl cant perform, Melbourne got a lot of brothels where there are Japanese, ang mo, European, Thailand, Philippines, China and Malaysian girls for you to release. Let your small bro release and then let your big head think clearly.



So for now, I do not know what should I do. Let the Malaysian lady go or should I let the Singaporean girl go?

[fabiann]

Hello,

I have seen this before too...let me save you the trouble...just say no.

You will get a lot of trouble because you cant cover up.

on top of that, you dont even know if this is a scammer out there. Meeting in thailand are red flags. A friend of mine also got conned like that where he met a girl online and can see her video online before going to Thailand and then when he arrived, they meet and then a few thugs robbed him of his money. They always say that this is a 2 weeks trip to go to this and that. This is a ruse to throw your family off guard so that they think that you are away but during this time, you are threathen. The police over there also brided and so this is no Singapore or Australia police where you can get help if you go to a police station.

Ask your heart - Someone you met online vs someone you know physically and accept who you are. Do you see how much your Singapore partner sacrifice for you to join her ? Did you SG girl ask you to bring money to keep her lifestyle ? Did she ask you to pay for her education ? She is using money to pay for education so that she can bring in the money for you and your family.

On the other hand, your heart is itching saying, I want some fun. Then the true colour from the Malaysian girl come out, you have to feed her and her son who I can gurantee 100% wont respect you at all.



I get that bro. But I’ve met up with the Malaysian lady last month. And when we were back in our own respective country. We still continue as before. She tried to apply for tourist visa to Australia. Got rejected. But she applied again.


For the Singaporean lady. Is I join her. Not she join me. Because I’m tagging along with her visa. So to say. If she decides to go back, I would have to go back too. And nope, her parents are paying for her sch fees. Other than that. She is working and studying, while I’m just working. But we do have limited working hours due to student visa rules.

[fwchong]

bro, if you need to release, Melbourne and Sydney got a lot of brothels that got japanese and malaysian girls cheaper than the FL price that Singapore OKT are charging.Just go and release and let your big head think

[fwchong]

IMO, no point going with the Malaysian lady. IF you ever with her, Singapore immigration also wont allow her in. It is more troublesome.

The malaysia lady is just there for a season in your life where you are bored. But she wont be there with you forever...

on the other hand, you have to ask yourself what are you going to do with the relationship of this SG lady. are you going to work on it or break.

Alternative, if you need an outlet, Melbourne brothels got a lot of japanese girls and malaysian girls to release

[owlette]

For the Singaporean lady. Is I join her. Not she join me. Because I’m tagging along with her visa. So to say. If she decides to go back, I would have to go back too. And nope, her parents are paying for her sch fees. Other than that. She is working and studying, while I’m just working. But we do have limited working hours due to student visa rules.

i quite puzzled at your situation. you got big amounts of savings to like that play is it? you 40yo doing limited working hours, how to survive? then singapore you say no house. what you doing with your life bro.

i think you got bigger problems that you should be worried about. not which pussy to commit to.

you choose sg lady, she one day finish studies. come back got proper job all realised she can find better guys and dump you. then you what? become homeless with no savings. 40+yo start from 0?

you choose my girl, you 1+1 happy meal. you can afford to raise her and her kid?

people in singapore like to play pdmm. you become pdpp?

[baloo90]

I get that bro. But I’ve met up with the Malaysian lady last month. And when we were back in our own respective country. We still continue as before. She tried to apply for tourist visa to Australia. Got rejected. But she applied again.


For the Singaporean lady. Is I join her. Not she join me. Because I’m tagging along with her visa. So to say. If she decides to go back, I would have to go back too. And nope, her parents are paying for her sch fees. Other than that. She is working and studying, while I’m just working. But we do have limited working hours due to student visa rules.

Aust immigration allow a student visa holder to bring their boyfriend along?

[fwchong]

Yes, my friend also did that. His wife got sponsor by the Singapore govt or some Singapore agencies to do her masters.

her husband tagged along and he can work in Australia while the wife is studying.

When the wife finish and got her Masters, she went back Singapore to serve her bond with the Singapore agencies and he went back with her and look for a singapore job.

Aust immigration allow a student visa holder to bring their boyfriend along?

[fabiann]

i quite puzzled at your situation. you got big amounts of savings to like that play is it? you 40yo doing limited working hours, how to survive? then singapore you say no house. what you doing with your life bro.

i think you got bigger problems that you should be worried about. not which pussy to commit to.

you choose sg lady, she one day finish studies. come back got proper job all realised she can find better guys and dump you. then you what? become homeless with no savings. 40+yo start from 0?

you choose my girl, you 1+1 happy meal. you can afford to raise her and her kid?

people in singapore like to play pdmm. you become pdpp?


Yes bro. Agree with you. I have bigger problems to handle it. But for now, I’m in Australia. I can’t do much here. The only way is I go back sg and work my way up. But if I’m here. What can I do. Limited working hours.

And no. I do not have have millions in my bank account. Every week what we work here goes to the rental and food. Because it’s only 48 hours per fortnight.

[Crest]

Having a side fling was easy in the 80s and early 90s before the advent of the internet but how anyone can pull it off in 2025 is beyond me. Your phone follows you everywhere, cameras, CCTV are ubiquitous!

Surely you're going to get caught in no time at all.:D

lol yes, I did get caught eventually. but mainly cause I just got too tired and careless.
A lot of it is establishing routines and habits.
Never did have a suspicious gf by nature, until I gave them cause.
But I am known for not being phone bound, keeping it strictly just for communications and also not on social media, so makes it that tad bit easier.

But it was all 20 years ago, was exciting while it lasted.

[Crest]

So for now, I do not know what should I do. Let the Malaysian lady go or should I let the Singaporean girl go?

When you post something like the above, it would normally be presumed that it is from an independent individual, not as a dependant, which is essentially who you are.

When I’m in Singapore. I stayed at her place. So if we do break up. I’m literally done.

Yeah I know I’m pretty useless. Don’t have have a house back in Singapore even though I’m way above 35. Pretty sad though.

First, sg girl seems nice with what you said above.
But if I were you, I would return to sg and get a proper job, relationship with whoever be damned.
Because the whole thing is just going nowhere fast.

Yes bro. Agree with you. I have bigger problems to handle it.

Correct.

[fwchong]

maybe u want to look at the long term...

my Malaysian friends have all done it...

They study in australia, then after study, then get a bridging visa to work in australia for 2 years. the work must be relevant to what she study.


then she apply for PR.

Once you are PR, you age pension is secured...you can get up to $48,000 per year. you can also consider bringing CPF money over if you want to be a citizen.


In the meantime, you can apply PR with your skills and see if you can qualify.

At your age when you go back Singapore, there is also a risk as you may be too old and bosses may not want an older worker...

[Me16]

hello everyone. Currently I’m facing this situation.

I’m about 40 this year, currently in Melbourne with my partner whom is 24 this year. Yeah I know the age gap kinda big. I’m in Melbourne on a partner student visa. Which means my partner is studying while I’m just tagging along. We have been together for about 4 years now.

Few months back, I was bored so I went online to have a chat. And happened to chat with this Malaysian girl. She is 22 and have a kid. Her divorce is on-going. Not yet officially. But pretty sure they will sign the papers soon.

I have been chatting with her for about 2 months. And she said is going to Thailand to return wishes to 4 faced buddha. She asked me do I want to tag along. (At this point of time, the way we chat on the phone or messages it’s already like lovers, but we haven’t met yet)

So I’ve said ok. And travelled to Thailand 2 months back. And we we together in Thailand for 16 days. Bangkok and Pattaya.

Problem is. She thinks I’m 31 and don’t have a gf. But she knows I’m in Melbourne. So I just cooked up some reason saying I’m doing business in Melbourne.

So for now, I do not know what should I do. Let the Malaysian lady go or should I let the Singaporean girl go?

Why you think so much when it's obvious you are not serious in either of them. If you are serious in the sgrean girl, even if you go online to chat you won't easily develop feelings for another one.
Or if you are serious in the Malaysian girl, you should know you be letting go the sgrean girl and no need to come here asking.

[Somchai69]

Ultimately its your choice and hope u can take care

[Razzer]

I am remind of a post an 'expat' made here last year or so.

He wanted to keep a woman from a lesser country and wants the woman to be grateful, so he asked here which country would be better.

He wanted to do it with an income of less than US 2000 a month.

I guess his minimal requirements lifestyle gave him a vastly inflated sense of self sufficiency.

[finalrebel]

broooo u already lied to the msian girl about ur age . i think pretty hard to comeback from that . just stay with the australian girl mate

[Sassaulo]

Yes bro. Agree with you. I have bigger problems to handle it. But for now, I’m in Australia. I can’t do much here. The only way is I go back sg and work my way up. But if I’m here. What can I do. Limited working hours.

And no. I do not have have millions in my bank account. Every week what we work here goes to the rental and food. Because it’s only 48 hours per fortnight.

How you manage to court 20s girls when you are 40 years old? Can share?
Student visa sub class 500? Last time I live at Sydney too

[BoxerBoy]

Bro, u now don't have a shelter, everything depending on your Singapore gf. What make you think that you can take care of that Malaysian girl with a child some more? U lied to her your age, you doing business.... Probably to her she also hope to find someone she can rely on be it financially or emotionally after divorced with her husband. If she discovered all your lies, most likely she going to leave u... End up you lost both women...

So my advise to u is eat that Malaysian pussy, find a reason to end it since no relationship has committed. Then Guai Guai go back to your Singapore gf pussy....

[fabiann]

Bro, u now don't have a shelter, everything depending on your Singapore gf. What make you think that you can take care of that Malaysian girl with a child some more? U lied to her your age, you doing business.... Probably to her she also hope to find someone she can rely on be it financially or emotionally after divorced with her husband. If she discovered all your lies, most likely she going to leave u... End up you lost both women...

So my advise to u is eat that Malaysian pussy, find a reason to end it since no relationship has committed. Then Guai Guai go back to your Singapore gf pussy....


Hi bro. I get what you are trying to say. I have eaten the Malaysian lady in all sort of ways you could think of. Be it is anal, cim, cof, cip. I’m ain’t trying to boast or show off here.

With regards to my age. She somehow know how old am I. Because I did tell her. But I have no idea did she remember it.

[Dalair]

Hi bro. I get what you are trying to say. I have eaten the Malaysian lady in all sort of ways you could think of. Be it is anal, cim, cof, cip. I’m ain’t trying to boast or show off here.

With regards to my age. She somehow know how old am I. Because I did tell her. But I have no idea did she remember it.

You already eating soft rice still cheat around. Bravo bro.

Anyway that SG girl, she won't dump you one la, she so stupid to let you tag along all the way to Australia and live with her when back to SG. This kind of women don't have you will die one. She will cling on to you for life. When you try break up she will threaten suicide or what not to keep you around. So no need scared la bro.

The malaysian girl just treat her as side bitch la, fuck her whenever you feel horny. Dump her if she want become official bitch. Who the fuck will want raise another man kid, the original father confirm laugh at you raising his kid. And the kid confirm will not be grateful and appreciate you one.

[Crest]

Then you have had your fun. Let it go, and find ways to better your situation so that you can really have a choice.

[MisterBig]

hello everyone. Currently I’m facing this situation.

I’m about 40 this year, currently in Melbourne with my partner whom is 24 this year. Yeah I know the age gap kinda big. I’m in Melbourne on a partner student visa. Which means my partner is studying while I’m just tagging along. We have been together for about 4 years now.

Few months back, I was bored so I went online to have a chat. And happened to chat with this Malaysian girl. She is 22 and have a kid. Her divorce is on-going. Not yet officially. But pretty sure they will sign the papers soon.

I have been chatting with her for about 2 months. And she said is going to Thailand to return wishes to 4 faced buddha. She asked me do I want to tag along. (At this point of time, the way we chat on the phone or messages it’s already like lovers, but we haven’t met yet)

So I’ve said ok. And travelled to Thailand 2 months back. And we we together in Thailand for 16 days. Bangkok and Pattaya.

Problem is. She thinks I’m 31 and don’t have a gf. But she knows I’m in Melbourne. So I just cooked up some reason saying I’m doing business in Melbourne.

So for now, I do not know what should I do. Let the Malaysian lady go or should I let the Singaporean girl go?

Bro... it comes down to one and just one question. Which the Spice Girls says it best...

Tell me what you want... what you really, really want?

Until you know what you want, you can't make any decision and then execute these decisions. Would moving from a 24 yo to a 22 yo make you any happier? And you are feeling all these from someone you never really met physically?

Bro... you really have to ask yourself... what you really, really want?

[Ilovejesus]

I get that exciting part. But for now. My Singapore gf doesn’t check my phone. That’s for now lah. If I do break up with this girl here. I would have to go back Singapore. When I’m in Singapore. I stayed at her place. So if we do break up. I’m literally done.

Yeah I know I’m pretty useless. Don’t have have a house back in Singapore even though I’m way above 35. Pretty sad though.

You are not totally useless bro...I respect the fact that although you are financially useless, you are still able to attract young girls to suck your dick.

Can share some of your skills here with us?

[mawalo20]

people in singapore like to play pdmm. you become pdpp?

[anonym69]

I'm surprised... You're able to game the system by getting HDB as a single at 35. Why don't you.
Plus like what others has been saying, why do you want to burn yourself financially to bring up others child

[fwchong]

Your situation is not that good right now

a. age is 40 and doing part time work in Melbourne. Not ideal. Not bringing in much money
b. dont have a property in Singapore to fall back on
c. both SG girlfriend and MY girl are 24, 22 respectively. MY girl also got a baby.
d. MY girl know that you are lying

First thing is that your pride and ego is slightly inflated because there is a new toy to play with. But the thing is this MY girl can also play you back one day.

On the other hand, you feel sian with this SG gal. Most SG gals are more demanding than MY girls and plus her parents are paying for hee accomodation and study and maybe they also made you feel lousy being with this family.

I think you should not play with both of this girl now and seriously asked if you want to be with the SG gal.

There is very low chance of you being with the MY gal.

a. once you break off the SG gal, you go back SG, you start all over again.
b. there is no way to bring the MY gal to SG because PAP got safeguard in place to block unless the MY gal has $$$$ to come in as SG PR


So, think if you want to start with the SG gal and if not, move on to alternatives.

Btw, my friend also met aussie gal when he study here. they are more open and you can get Australia citizenship and passport. On top of that, you get pension too.





Hi bro. I get what you are trying to say. I have eaten the Malaysian lady in all sort of ways you could think of. Be it is anal, cim, cof, cip. I’m ain’t trying to boast or show off here.

With regards to my age. She somehow know how old am I. Because I did tell her. But I have no idea did she remember it.

[evilair]

Hi bro. I get what you are trying to say. I have eaten the Malaysian lady in all sort of ways you could think of. Be it is anal, cim, cof, cip. I’m ain’t trying to boast or show off here.

With regards to my age. She somehow know how old am I. Because I did tell her. But I have no idea did she remember it.

Bro, you are walking with a bomb that is going to explode anytime.

Seriously, stop playing with the Malaysia lady, and focus on building your life already.

What are you going to do once your SG girlfriend finishes her studies and goes back to SG? She is going to climb the corporate ladder and find you unworthy, and leave you in no time.

Worse, the Malaysian girl will come to SG and look for you after you are back. What are you going to do?

It is good that you get to fuck for free, but this will not last forever. One day, it will come back to bite you, and you will have to pay a much heavier price for all the free fucks that you had. That's why bros ask you to go brothel, "paying" is better than "free", especially at this era.

You mentioned that you can only work 48 hours per fortnight now. Then make good use of your time while you are not working, like learning a skill instead of wasting time. This is the best time for you to pick up a useful skill now, before going back to SG. And you can learn many things on YouTube for free.

You already wasted 20 years after NS. You think you have another 20 years to waste. Or you want to end up picking drinks cans from dustbins when you are in your 60s

[finalrebel]

i guess TS have your answer already . so many bros here giving similar advice :)

[baloo90]

:D this poor bastard, just posting about sex trouble and got life lecture from the sex community instead.

But not bad bro, you 40 something got two young girls sucking your dick....enjoy it while it lasts.

Pls post the SG and MY lady body photo side by side for us to compare and decide which one you should keep.

[tyga]

Bro, you bored never mind. At most just find hooker and satisfy yourself. But worth or not chasing after a girl that has a kid. I mean the 24 year old girl should be a bonus to you already man.

[donut88]

If I'm were you, I will stick to SG gal. More secure than the MY gal.

MY gal has a kid which is a baggage that u have to take on.

One day u can come back to Singapore with the SG gal. No complication compared to MY gal

[paulwalker]

people in singapore like to play pdmm. you become pdpp?

[goodu]

hello everyone. Currently I’m facing this situation.

I’m about 40 this year, currently in Melbourne with my partner whom is 24 this year. Yeah I know the age gap kinda big. I’m in Melbourne on a partner student visa. Which means my partner is studying while I’m just tagging along. We have been together for about 4 years now.

Few months back, I was bored so I went online to have a chat. And happened to chat with this Malaysian girl. She is 22 and have a kid. Her divorce is on-going. Not yet officially. But pretty sure they will sign the papers soon.

I have been chatting with her for about 2 months. And she said is going to Thailand to return wishes to 4 faced buddha. She asked me do I want to tag along. (At this point of time, the way we chat on the phone or messages it’s already like lovers, but we haven’t met yet)

So I’ve said ok. And travelled to Thailand 2 months back. And we we together in Thailand for 16 days. Bangkok and Pattaya.

Problem is. She thinks I’m 31 and don’t have a gf. But she knows I’m in Melbourne. So I just cooked up some reason saying I’m doing business in Melbourne.

So for now, I do not know what should I do. Let the Malaysian lady go or should I let the Singaporean girl go?
Why get involve with divorcee + kid? Too complicated bro

[1118]

can share what app you using?

[Voorhees]

This thread title seems appropriate for my sharing

One of ex whom I dated for a while was renting a room which I frequent for sex since i was still staying with my mum. The tenant was a matured couple with a teenage son probably about 18 years old.

As we used the common toilet, my ex was ok that we bath together and it was very awkward that when we walk back to the room, they were watching TV in the living room (she with only a wrapped towel).

my ex was very close with them and would have dinners together. One time, she invited me for dinner as she is cooking for the whole gang. I went there when dinner was almost ready to see her in shorts showing her butt cheeks with singlet type top without bra. The tenant's wife was helping her in the kitchen with normal wear.

I sat on the sofa and chatted with the uncle and as she brought the dishes to the dining table, momentarily, I could see the gap beneath her shorts revealing part of her pussy. I didn't know how to react but the uncle and his son who came out seems business as usual.

on the dinner table as my ex serves me and the rest some dishes bending over, she exposes her A to B cup tits in pure sight. I try to catch the uncle or his son peeping but no, they like didn't give a shit. Best part the wife and mother to the two also thinks is ok.

My ex dress code in the house is always too comfy and thus too revealing.

Although this was way in the past, this still troubles me when I think back.

[sammyboyfor]

This thread title seems appropriate for my sharing

One of ex whom I dated for a while was renting a room which I frequent for sex since i was still staying with my mum. The tenant was a matured couple with a teenage son probably about 18 years old.

As we used the common toilet, my ex was ok that we bath together and it was very awkward that when we walk back to the room, they were watching TV in the living room (she with only a wrapped towel).

my ex was very close with them and would have dinners together. One time, she invited me for dinner as she is cooking for the whole gang. I went there when dinner was almost ready to see her in shorts showing her butt cheeks with singlet type top without bra. The tenant's wife was helping her in the kitchen with normal wear.

I sat on the sofa and chatted with the uncle and as she brought the dishes to the dining table, momentarily, I could see the gap beneath her shorts revealing part of her pussy. I didn't know how to react but the uncle and his son who came out seems business as usual.

on the dinner table as my ex serves me and the rest some dishes bending over, she exposes her A to B cup tits in pure sight. I try to catch the uncle or his son peeping but no, they like didn't give a shit. Best part the wife and mother to the two also thinks is ok.

My ex dress code in the house is always too comfy and thus too revealing.

Although this was way in the past, this still troubles me when I think back.

Which aspect of the scenario caused your discomfort?... the fact that Uncle and son had a view of your ex pussy or the possibility that there might have been more than meets the eye in this whole arrangement?:p

[blueboat]

This thread title seems appropriate for my sharing....
...the gap beneath her shorts revealing part of her pussy. I didn't know how to react but the uncle and his son who came out seems business as usual.
...she exposes her A to B cup tits in pure sight. I try to catch the uncle or his son peeping but no, they like didn't give a shit. ...
Although this was way in the past, this still troubles me when I think back.

>>This thread title seems appropriate for my sharing....??!!
Surely you are trolling! :)

[sammyboyfor]

>>This thread title seems appropriate for my sharing....??!!
Surely you are trolling! :)

Do you know what the term "trolling" means?

[blueboat]

I found this online...trolling: "to provoke others online for their own amusement."

[sammyboyfor]

I found this online...trolling: "to provoke others online for their own amusement."

So you use the term first and find out what it means later. :p

[blueboat]

No, I wouldn't have used the term if I didn't know it before.
I was just pointing out that Voorhees was having a little bit of fun.

[shimhae108]

I would suggest stick to your SG girl. Malaysian girl has too much baggage that you have to carry for her, not worth it. At least SG girl knows your real age and she doesn't mind, this shows her sincerity.

[AikHuang]

hello everyone. Currently I’m facing this situation.

I’m about 40 this year, currently in Melbourne with my partner whom is 24 this year. Yeah I know the age gap kinda big. I’m in Melbourne on a partner student visa. Which means my partner is studying while I’m just tagging along. We have been together for about 4 years now.

Few months back, I was bored so I went online to have a chat. And happened to chat with this Malaysian girl. She is 22 and have a kid. Her divorce is on-going. Not yet officially. But pretty sure they will sign the papers soon.

I have been chatting with her for about 2 months. And she said is going to Thailand to return wishes to 4 faced buddha. She asked me do I want to tag along. (At this point of time, the way we chat on the phone or messages it’s already like lovers, but we haven’t met yet)

So I’ve said ok. And travelled to Thailand 2 months back. And we we together in Thailand for 16 days. Bangkok and Pattaya.

Problem is. She thinks I’m 31 and don’t have a gf. But she knows I’m in Melbourne. So I just cooked up some reason saying I’m doing business in Melbourne.

So for now, I do not know what should I do. Let the Malaysian lady go or should I let the Singaporean girl go?

Abort the relationship where have kids would give you hell of maintenance issue.

[Voorhees]

Which aspect of the scenario caused your discomfort?... the fact that Uncle and son had a view of your ex pussy or the possibility that there might have been more than meets the eye in this whole arrangement?:p

Rather than starting another thread to share my experience, I thought "feeling very troubled" was appropriate.

I dun think there is anything more than meets the eye lah... just troubled that she is renting a room and no matter what still strangers ma.

Even if own parents, I think daughters of age would not dress like that at home. braless at home with appropriate t shirt and shorts still ok. singlet type without bra sibey hiong I feel.

[rix6669]

This thread title seems appropriate for my sharing

One of ex whom I dated for a while was renting a room which I frequent for sex since i was still staying with my mum. The tenant was a matured couple with a teenage son probably about 18 years old.

As we used the common toilet, my ex was ok that we bath together and it was very awkward that when we walk back to the room, they were watching TV in the living room (she with only a wrapped towel).

my ex was very close with them and would have dinners together. One time, she invited me for dinner as she is cooking for the whole gang. I went there when dinner was almost ready to see her in shorts showing her butt cheeks with singlet type top without bra. The tenant's wife was helping her in the kitchen with normal wear.

I sat on the sofa and chatted with the uncle and as she brought the dishes to the dining table, momentarily, I could see the gap beneath her shorts revealing part of her pussy. I didn't know how to react but the uncle and his son who came out seems business as usual.

on the dinner table as my ex serves me and the rest some dishes bending over, she exposes her A to B cup tits in pure sight. I try to catch the uncle or his son peeping but no, they like didn't give a shit. Best part the wife and mother to the two also thinks is ok.

My ex dress code in the house is always too comfy and thus too revealing.

Although this was way in the past, this still troubles me when I think back.

I have seen a household with the daughter's bf wearing just a boxer walking around the whole house, semi d landed. So many women around, the mother, the daughter, the mothers female friends were also there. That time alot of wfh. I still can't wrap my head around this too.

[Twa_Kee]

Yeah I know I’m pretty useless. Don’t have have a house back in Singapore even though I’m way above 35. Pretty sad though.

Answer is pretty obvious, you know you are useless which you really are ... Singapore girl accept you even though you are useless ...

If you still can't decide, then no medicine to cure your uselessness !

[stanleyxinu]

I hope you choose the SG lady.

[ice123456]

Go with what your dick feels.

Probably in the end, both will burn.

Just my opinion but both are way too young.

Before the white knights come out to tell me about "Oh my SO also 20yrs age gap", you are the exception not the norm.

Well said.

[prccuntlover]

Unless TS is 富二代， keeping either girl is a challenge or is TS super handsome or what TS attract the young lady to you?

There's this tiktok video of a girl asking a monk which of the 2 guys she choose. The monk straight away answer, " the 2nd"
If you like the 1st one, you wouldnt bother to ask the question in the 1st place.

However, a few bro bring up valid point on the 2nd girl, with a kid. If you have a kid of your own, how to you balance the treatment of your own vs not your own?

[haikim999]

This thread title seems appropriate for my sharing

One of ex whom I dated for a while was renting a room which I frequent for sex since i was still staying with my mum. The tenant was a matured couple with a teenage son probably about 18 years old.

As we used the common toilet, my ex was ok that we bath together and it was very awkward that when we walk back to the room, they were watching TV in the living room (she with only a wrapped towel).

my ex was very close with them and would have dinners together. One time, she invited me for dinner as she is cooking for the whole gang. I went there when dinner was almost ready to see her in shorts showing her butt cheeks with singlet type top without bra. The tenant's wife was helping her in the kitchen with normal wear.

I sat on the sofa and chatted with the uncle and as she brought the dishes to the dining table, momentarily, I could see the gap beneath her shorts revealing part of her pussy. I didn't know how to react but the uncle and his son who came out seems business as usual.

on the dinner table as my ex serves me and the rest some dishes bending over, she exposes her A to B cup tits in pure sight. I try to catch the uncle or his son peeping but no, they like didn't give a shit. Best part the wife and mother to the two also thinks is ok.

My ex dress code in the house is always too comfy and thus too revealing.

Although this was way in the past, this still troubles me when I think back.

Im staying in a rental place... A tenant of mine dresses very lightly at times, exposing her downblouse and butt to me a number of times... I have to avoid looking at her too obviously...

[Ilovejesus]

I hope you choose the SG lady.

I was hoping both ladies dump a useless guy like him though...

[stanleyxinu]

Understood. Different perspectives and well respected.

I was hoping both ladies dump a useless guy like him though...

[10019999]

hello everyone. Currently I’m facing this situation.

I’m about 40 this year, currently in Melbourne with my partner whom is 24 this year. Yeah I know the age gap kinda big. I’m in Melbourne on a partner student visa. Which means my partner is studying while I’m just tagging along. We have been together for about 4 years now.

Few months back, I was bored so I went online to have a chat. And happened to chat with this Malaysian girl. She is 22 and have a kid. Her divorce is on-going. Not yet officially. But pretty sure they will sign the papers soon.

I have been chatting with her for about 2 months. And she said is going to Thailand to return wishes to 4 faced buddha. She asked me do I want to tag along. (At this point of time, the way we chat on the phone or messages it’s already like lovers, but we haven’t met yet)

So I’ve said ok. And travelled to Thailand 2 months back. And we we together in Thailand for 16 days. Bangkok and Pattaya.

Problem is. She thinks I’m 31 and don’t have a gf. But she knows I’m in Melbourne. So I just cooked up some reason saying I’m doing business in Melbourne.

So for now, I do not know what should I do. Let the Malaysian lady go or should I let the Singaporean girl go?

Bro, i feel Malaysian girl is such an excitement while you are having a stable relationship with your Singaporean gf. Imagine if you break up with your Singaporean gf, you will have a lot of issues in your life especially a lot of your current lifestyle is tagged to her. You are back to zeo and worried for many things just because of a Malaysian girl. Worse still, you present yourself as someone who owns business in Australia. If that malaysian girl knows that you are not rich as she imagine, with her kid around, she will definitely find another guy.

Just my POV.