Boredpanda369
01-01-2026, 08:54 PM
Hi all. Been a lurker here for a long time liao.
Recently I have this issue, don't know who to talk to or how to even deal with it.
I have a wife but over the years her character began to show. Basically very self entitled and rude and the typical kiasu Sgrean type. Usually I just go thru with life lo what else to do. We got 2 kids together liao life just goes on.
Then one day this young lady joined our company. She is young and pretty, and we hit off quite well. Can talk about all sorts of random things, go buy lunch together, slack off at work together, and she basically don't mind talking anything with me.
Over time I found myself getting attracted to her, and I think she also noticed that she might have became too buddy buddy with me, so quite obvious she will distance herself Abit, me also think that way so I keep a respectful distance as well.
But somehow what should be the best outcome is now driving me crazy. I will start to wonder if she has got a bf or not, wonder why her messages are slow, wonder why she don't respond sometimes, and those feelings will start making my mood change, even at home. Sometimes I get into thking about all these nonsense then I sibeh no mood to spend time with kids, or just become very easily irritated with wife
I don't even know what is going on now. I just hope that things between me and this lady are like last time, just fun to be with and that's all. But why does this suddenly make me act like a teenager again and start to wonder about this wonder about that. I have my own family and although me and wife don't get along, it is still my duty to keep the family together.
Don't really know what else to add, just wondering if any bros here got any advise. Much appreciated
Recently I have this issue, don't know who to talk to or how to even deal with it.
I have a wife but over the years her character began to show. Basically very self entitled and rude and the typical kiasu Sgrean type. Usually I just go thru with life lo what else to do. We got 2 kids together liao life just goes on.
Then one day this young lady joined our company. She is young and pretty, and we hit off quite well. Can talk about all sorts of random things, go buy lunch together, slack off at work together, and she basically don't mind talking anything with me.
Over time I found myself getting attracted to her, and I think she also noticed that she might have became too buddy buddy with me, so quite obvious she will distance herself Abit, me also think that way so I keep a respectful distance as well.
But somehow what should be the best outcome is now driving me crazy. I will start to wonder if she has got a bf or not, wonder why her messages are slow, wonder why she don't respond sometimes, and those feelings will start making my mood change, even at home. Sometimes I get into thking about all these nonsense then I sibeh no mood to spend time with kids, or just become very easily irritated with wife
I don't even know what is going on now. I just hope that things between me and this lady are like last time, just fun to be with and that's all. But why does this suddenly make me act like a teenager again and start to wonder about this wonder about that. I have my own family and although me and wife don't get along, it is still my duty to keep the family together.
Don't really know what else to add, just wondering if any bros here got any advise. Much appreciated