Newcomer ML keep chatting with me

[happytree123]

Idk anyone experience this before, but recently went to fucked a young newcomer ML from PRC.

Maybe during the FJ session, I chatted too nicely or she felt I was a bit different. Now, she keep texting me like everyday lol.

Share about her daily activities here, ask me how to use WA/TG auto delete functions, how to online order stuffs. Also when her MOM hardcopy pass arrive, like when she can do next...

Her friend has been here some time so they definitely know how to use WA/TG/Paynow function better than me. For the record, she also know I quite budget one cos I asked for discount even before fucking her for the 1st time hahaha.

Now she progress to sharing with me like almost anything:

Feeling bored > text me
Feeling sick > text me
Go toilet > text me
Customer ghost her on WA/TG > text me to whine about
Tiktok/Wechat moment sharing photo/video nice or not > Text me

has become a daily affair liao. The thing is she not asking me to go RTF her, but just wanna chit chat, I think she could be bored and no one to talk to in the shop apart from her friend who intro her to the shop.

I also know she could be playing the long game to play the KC trap, but i never seen such intense effort to keep connecting. Even WL in GL also don't put in some much effort to keep connecting for the sake of KC-ing.

How you all handle such situation, kinda curious. :confused:

[Mancalledding]

Idk anyone experience this before, but recently went to fucked a young newcomer ML from PRC.

Maybe during the FJ session, I chatted too nicely or she felt I was a bit different. Now, she keep texting me like everyday lol.

Share about her daily activities here, ask me how to use WA functions, how to online order stuffs. Also when her MOM hardcopy pass, like when she can do next...

Now she progress to sharing with me like almost anything:

Feeling bored > text me
Feeling sick > text me
Go toilet > text me
Customer ghost her on WA/TG > text me to whine about
Tiktok/Wechat moment sharing photo/video nice or not > Text me

has become a daily affair liao. The thing is she not asking me to go RTF her, but just wanna chit chat, I think she could be bored and no one to talk to in the shop apart from her friend who intro her to the shop.

I also know she could be playing the long game to play the KC trap, but i never seen such intense effort to keep connecting. Even WL in GL also don't put in some much effort to keep connecting for the sake of KC-ing.

How you all handle such situation, kinda curious. :confused:

Just be friendly lor. It's quite tough for them as newcomers to this country, and anyone who they are friendly with they'll reach out. Don't think it's chop carrot intentionally (so far not too jialat)

I have 2 MLs who will share what people say about them on this forum, so I sayang them. I have another who complained about someone asking for her pics so i just hug her, got her in the mood lol

Don't white knight / don't fall for them - I fell a bit for one but when i asked for discount she gave me face, so it reminded me that ultimately it is a business transaction for them too...

[retepoet]

Idk anyone experience this before, but recently went to fucked a young newcomer ML from PRC.

Maybe during the FJ session, I chatted too nicely or she felt I was a bit different. Now, she keep texting me like everyday lol.

Share about her daily activities here, ask me how to use WA/TG auto delete functions, how to online order stuffs. Also when her MOM hardcopy pass arrive, like when she can do next...

Her friend has been here some time so they definitely know how to use WA/TG/Paynow function better than me. For the record, she also know I quite budget one cos I asked for discount even before fucking her for the 1st time hahaha.

Now she progress to sharing with me like almost anything:

Feeling bored > text me
Feeling sick > text me
Go toilet > text me
Customer ghost her on WA/TG > text me to whine about
Tiktok/Wechat moment sharing photo/video nice or not > Text me

has become a daily affair liao. The thing is she not asking me to go RTF her, but just wanna chit chat, I think she could be bored and no one to talk to in the shop apart from her friend who intro her to the shop.

I also know she could be playing the long game to play the KC trap, but i never seen such intense effort to keep connecting. Even WL in GL also don't put in some much effort to keep connecting for the sake of KC-ing.

How you all handle such situation, kinda curious. :confused:

Share with us her wechat, we help u take the load off lo bro 😊😊😊😊 good deal?

[BrokenWarrior]

ML fell in love with me but i'm trying to keep my distance when away from her, perhaps trying to also KC me

It is as you say, ask me about a lot. Text everyday about stuff but not like explicitly asking me to go back MP

But I would handle in the way of talking to them as a friend, if true colors expose and you tak boleh tahan then end it there

[happytree123]

Just be friendly lor. It's quite tough for them as newcomers to this country, and anyone who they are friendly with they'll reach out. Don't think it's chop carrot intentionally (so far not too jialat)

I have 2 MLs who will share what people say about them on this forum, so I sayang them. I have another who complained about someone asking for her pics so i just hug her, got her in the mood lol

Don't white knight / don't fall for them - I fell a bit for one but when i asked for discount she gave me face, so it reminded me that ultimately it is a business transaction for them too...

hmm, kinda make sense. Forget to think from their POV, non english speaker in a English - dominated place. Maybe I serve as a informal guide for her in SG. kinda make sense what you said.

[Slaver29125]

+22 for you bro retepoet...

Share with us her wechat, we help u take the load off lo bro 😊😊😊😊 good deal?

OP, maybe you can try to KC with her... maybe can get free service ;)
If not, can share contact with bro here, I dont mind visiting fresh ML.

[retepoet]

+22 for you bro retepoet...



OP, maybe you can try to KC with her... maybe can get free service ;)
If not, can share contact with bro here, I dont mind visiting fresh ML.

Thanks and I've ady upped u before so can't return bro 😊😊😊😊

[LauAdi]

Idk anyone experience this before, but recently went to fucked a young newcomer ML from PRC.

Maybe during the FJ session, I chatted too nicely or she felt I was a bit different. Now, she keep texting me like everyday lol.

Share about her daily activities here, ask me how to use WA/TG auto delete functions, how to online order stuffs. Also when her MOM hardcopy pass arrive, like when she can do next...

Her friend has been here some time so they definitely know how to use WA/TG/Paynow function better than me. For the record, she also know I quite budget one cos I asked for discount even before fucking her for the 1st time hahaha.

Now she progress to sharing with me like almost anything:

Feeling bored > text me
Feeling sick > text me
Go toilet > text me
Customer ghost her on WA/TG > text me to whine about
Tiktok/Wechat moment sharing photo/video nice or not > Text me

has become a daily affair liao. The thing is she not asking me to go RTF her, but just wanna chit chat, I think she could be bored and no one to talk to in the shop apart from her friend who intro her to the shop.

I also know she could be playing the long game to play the KC trap, but i never seen such intense effort to keep connecting. Even WL in GL also don't put in some much effort to keep connecting for the sake of KC-ing.

How you all handle such situation, kinda curious. :confused:

Don’t become KC vested.
Got a few ML fall for me before, text and text and send me pic and video and want to buy me food on off/work days and made me bentos.
Transaction is transaction.

Be nice but don’t be deep.
Don’t be like my friend one day a ML tell him got baby his face pale like ghost

[Shakeyboy]

hi bro can share location or contact? hahaha

Idk anyone experience this before, but recently went to fucked a young newcomer ML from PRC.

Maybe during the FJ session, I chatted too nicely or she felt I was a bit different. Now, she keep texting me like everyday lol.

Share about her daily activities here, ask me how to use WA/TG auto delete functions, how to online order stuffs. Also when her MOM hardcopy pass arrive, like when she can do next...

Her friend has been here some time so they definitely know how to use WA/TG/Paynow function better than me. For the record, she also know I quite budget one cos I asked for discount even before fucking her for the 1st time hahaha.

Now she progress to sharing with me like almost anything:

Feeling bored > text me
Feeling sick > text me
Go toilet > text me
Customer ghost her on WA/TG > text me to whine about
Tiktok/Wechat moment sharing photo/video nice or not > Text me

has become a daily affair liao. The thing is she not asking me to go RTF her, but just wanna chit chat, I think she could be bored and no one to talk to in the shop apart from her friend who intro her to the shop.

I also know she could be playing the long game to play the KC trap, but i never seen such intense effort to keep connecting. Even WL in GL also don't put in some much effort to keep connecting for the sake of KC-ing.

How you all handle such situation, kinda curious. :confused:

[Questioneer]

I'm quite sure I'm a broken record at this point repeating this same point but I always think it is important to remember not to get reverse-KC'd and then divulge too much of your own personal life.

I've met MLs in the past who have shown me the IG profiles or photos of other bros. One of the Dome 1 girls I visited before told me that this one bro brought her to his home (including neighbourhood), then tried to show me his IG to get my opinion on whether he's good looking as he apparently wanted to date her.

Another of the more popular vietbus did something similar, showing me messages about one bro who offered her $500 to fuck her in a hotel and then just laughed and asked me if she should ask for more.

II don't have any vested interested in knowing what any of you look like, i respect the game so I have no care for that so i don't entertain MLs who do this.

[RedFurBull]

Idk anyone experience this before, but recently went to fucked a young newcomer ML from PRC.

Maybe during the FJ session, I chatted too nicely or she felt I was a bit different. Now, she keep texting me like everyday lol.

Share about her daily activities here, ask me how to use WA/TG auto delete functions, how to online order stuffs. Also when her MOM hardcopy pass arrive, like when she can do next...

Her friend has been here some time so they definitely know how to use WA/TG/Paynow function better than me. For the record, she also know I quite budget one cos I asked for discount even before fucking her for the 1st time hahaha.

Now she progress to sharing with me like almost anything:

Feeling bored > text me
Feeling sick > text me
Go toilet > text me
Customer ghost her on WA/TG > text me to whine about
Tiktok/Wechat moment sharing photo/video nice or not > Text me

has become a daily affair liao. The thing is she not asking me to go RTF her, but just wanna chit chat, I think she could be bored and no one to talk to in the shop apart from her friend who intro her to the shop.

I also know she could be playing the long game to play the KC trap, but i never seen such intense effort to keep connecting. Even WL in GL also don't put in some much effort to keep connecting for the sake of KC-ing.

How you all handle such situation, kinda curious. :confused:

I will just play along
But the trick is:
1. Dun reply too fast - drag it a little, 1-2hr is fine - and dun feel bad
2. Dun give money - dun be a fool cos those stupid ones will give a lot n in the end KPKB - play the game well without losing money - use ur money for urself
3. When she’s back in China dun message her unless she message u - that’s the rule, most have husband/ bf but dun dare to tell u, whatever it is the golden rule is dun message her n even if she message u dun reply immediately unless u r asking for trouble

If u can stick to the above 3 rules, u won’t get into KC trap, u won’t lose money n keep ur money for urself n no one else, remember: do not take them more seriously than u take urself - the world is a fake masquerade out there, dun live ur life in regret - if u r already in the scene, stay smart n above all else - the moment u give way, that will be the start of ur downfall

[BrokenWarrior]

Another of the more popular vietbus did something similar, showing me messages about one bro who offered her $500 to fuck her in a hotel and then just laughed and asked me if she should ask for more.


I swear I saw this one on this forum before :eek:

[Marq]

Reply slow, like really really slow. Start with a few hours, and then drag to one day later, and just say was busy. Also, reply one liners, don't go into full blown conversations. She ask how is your day, just reply a single word 忙

[happytree123]

Reply slow, like really really slow. Start with a few hours, and then drag to one day later, and just say was busy. Also, reply one liners, don't go into full blown conversations. She ask how is your day, just reply a single word 忙

I will just play along
But the trick is:
1. Dun reply too fast - drag it a little, 1-2hr is fine - and dun feel bad
2. Dun give money - dun be a fool cos those stupid ones will give a lot n in the end KPKB - play the game well without losing money - use ur money for urself
3. When she’s back in China dun message her unless she message u - that’s the rule, most have husband/ bf but dun dare to tell u, whatever it is the golden rule is dun message her n even if she message u dun reply immediately unless u r asking for trouble

If u can stick to the above 3 rules, u won’t get into KC trap, u won’t lose money n keep ur money for urself n no one else, remember: do not take them more seriously than u take urself - the world is a fake masquerade out there, dun live ur life in regret - if u r already in the scene, stay smart n above all else - the moment u give way, that will be the start of ur downfall

okay la, i mean, she and I also drag out the convo sometimes hahaha. I don really pester like some simps, message no reply for few mins worried liao. It is also a good thing her shop kinda far from my house LOL

Even when RTC, i can handle it. Last time i even fetch GL WL from her shop to airport :D:D cos she somehow treat me very nice even though my "RTF frequency" for her was pretty normal.

But good advice anyways, idm visiting her in PRC one day but that is another qns for another day

Don’t become KC vested.
Got a few ML fall for me before, text and text and send me pic and video and want to buy me food on off/work days and made me bentos.
Transaction is transaction.

Be nice but don’t be deep.
Don’t be like my friend one day a ML tell him got baby his face pale like ghost

:D:D:D A sex worker telling guy she got her baby is really the last thing you can believe from her. I personally subscribe to the idea that ML can be friends with her customers. But really as tier 1 friends - eg, somewhat better than acquaintances level, but not still not that close

[LauAdi]

okay la, i mean, she and I also drag out the convo sometimes hahaha. I don really pester like some simps, message no reply for few mins worried liao. It is also a good thing her shop kinda far from my house LOL

Even when RTC, i can handle it. Last time i even fetch GL WL from her shop to airport :D:D cos she somehow treat me very nice even though my "RTF frequency" for her was pretty normal.

But good advice anyways, idm visiting her in PRC one day but that is another qns for another day



:D:D:D A sex worker telling guy she got her baby is really the last thing you can believe from her. I personally subscribe to the idea that ML can be friends with her customers. But really as tier 1 friends - eg, somewhat better than acquaintances level, but not still not that close

Yah we told him to calm down and don’t get too excited when he told us :D:D:D
They’re here for a simple goal. Meet goal and they’re gone.
Be nice while still in touch but not too close, like what you describe

[RedFurBull]

Speaking of which
Anyone is so ‘close’ to an ML that she lets u raw while others must use cd?
I know it’s a controversial topic eg can u trust her? how often must u test urself? Is it worth it? Raw or CD what’s the difference?

All these are question u need to ponder before the moment comes - sometimes it comes very suddenly - what should ur response be?

I think we will face this dilemma at least once in our life :D

[John0721]

享受使用权，放弃拥有权。鸡只爱你手上的米，不是你。

[Questioneer]

Speaking of which
Anyone is so ‘close’ to an ML that she lets u raw while others must use cd?
I know it’s a controversial topic eg can u trust her? how often must u test urself? Is it worth it? Raw or CD what’s the difference?

All these are question u need to ponder before the moment comes - sometimes it comes very suddenly - what should ur response be?

I think will we face this dilemma at least once in our life :D

But you genuinely don't know with utmost certainty that you're the only one she allows to raw. Sure you may feel that given your 'closeness', you're the only one, but how much are you willing to risk? What if she does the same with other customers?

In any case, this life is the only one you'll get. Best to keep it safe.

[Mancalledding]

ahaha i find myself in a similar sitn

i was teasing one of my regulars (who just came back fr vietnam) that i'm gg vietnam and ask her come w me, and she told me (both in person and over wechat) she is free.

i have no idea what the rules are... should i assume she's not kidding :confused:

[LauAdi]

Speaking of which
Anyone is so ‘close’ to an ML that she lets u raw while others must use cd?
I know it’s a controversial topic eg can u trust her? how often must u test urself? Is it worth it? Raw or CD what’s the difference?

All these are question u need to ponder before the moment comes - sometimes it comes very suddenly - what should ur response be?

I think we will face this dilemma at least once in our life :D

They offered, I say thank you but never take up offer
Transaction don’t confuse with KC
Safety first

[LauAdi]

ahaha i find myself in a similar sitn

i was teasing one of my regulars (who just came back fr vietnam) that i'm gg vietnam and ask her come w me, and she told me (both in person and over wechat) she is free.

i have no idea what the rules are... should i assume she's not kidding :confused:

Don’t confuse with KC…
Got a few ask me go visit their hometown, call home and want me to talk to their parents and family members…all thank you but no thank you

[Foden5]

Is it out of the norm that ML will initiate texting u? I saw this regular ML 3 days ago and it’s usually me texting if she is free. But today she suddenly text me and ask if can see me or not.. i always thought they will play by the rule of not reaching out first..

[happytree123]

Is it out of the norm that ML will initiate texting u? I saw this regular ML 3 days ago and it’s usually me texting if she is free. But today she suddenly text me and ask if can see me or not.. i always thought they will play by the rule of not reaching out first..

some ML actually very friendly one even though it is meant to make your RTM/RTF

usually, if the shop colleagues or the boss nvr do orientation for them, then their outreach style is moulded by their first few customers

i even had a ML that called me when I just anyhow ask whether she free today or not, she straightaway call me directly and ask me come in a "cute cute" voice :D:D:D

[LauAdi]

Is it out of the norm that ML will initiate texting u? I saw this regular ML 3 days ago and it’s usually me texting if she is free. But today she suddenly text me and ask if can see me or not.. i always thought they will play by the rule of not reaching out first..

No rules…some ML will even send pics, send voice message, call etc
Very importantly don’t put KC, remember everything is a transaction
Miss you, need you, want you are all business

[pocketace]

Thanks for starting this thread, it is a good reminder to myself. I also find myself replying to my ML daily, and she sharing her updates (especially she is back to home country this week)

My buddies constantly reminded me don’t get KC involved. What do I get out of it? I know her real name, real age… so what? I know she’s not entirely truthful to me in other matters. Anyway, I’m constantly reminded, and good advice from the rest of the bros here

[Foden5]

some ML actually very friendly one even though it is meant to make your RTM/RTF

usually, if the shop colleagues or the boss nvr do orientation for them, then their outreach style is moulded by their first few customers

i even had a ML that called me when I just anyhow ask whether she free today or not, she straightaway call me directly and ask me come in a "cute cute" voice :D:D:D

Haha its quite scary when u got OC la, hahaha

[LauAdi]

Thanks for starting this thread, it is a good reminder to myself. I also find myself replying to my ML daily, and she sharing her updates (especially she is back to home country this week)

My buddies constantly reminded me don’t get KC involved. What do I get out of it? I know her real name, real age… so what? I know she’s not entirely truthful to me in other matters. Anyway, I’m constantly reminded, and good advice from the rest of the bros here

You know about her not a problem
Make sure she dont know about you

[pocketace]

You know about her not a problem
Make sure she dont know about you

Yes bro, I need to maintain that web of secrecy around me!

[LauAdi]

Yes bro, I need to maintain that web of secrecy around me!

Chiong safely!

[labtecpaper]

Ya bros here. How do you all maintain that secrecy ah? U know due to work, sometimes u run around Singapore (like those sales bros) then somehow u may bump into them on streets, or even worse when u are with your family but saw them in the malls.

How to handle these situations haha

Yes bro, I need to maintain that web of secrecy around me!

[Haveanicedayok]

Act blur live longer. Ran into a few before with oc.

Ran into one without oc at ntuc. End up shop w her for 15 mins, guiding her in what to buy to bring home as she was heading back china for a 2 week break

[labtecpaper]

Wa....close shaves I would say...is it some sort of secret code of conduct that they will act they never see you too? I cannot imagine if they come up and say hi to you with your oc beside. then is all hell break loose after that!



Act blur live longer. Ran into a few before with oc.

Ran into one without oc at ntuc. End up shop w her for 15 mins, guiding her in what to buy to bring home as she was heading back china for a 2 week break

[Haveanicedayok]

I think they quite seng mok one. I also not stupid. Avoiding eye contact is impt

[LauAdi]

Ya bros here. How do you all maintain that secrecy ah? U know due to work, sometimes u run around Singapore (like those sales bros) then somehow u may bump into them on streets, or even worse when u are with your family but saw them in the malls.

How to handle these situations haha

Act as though you never see them before
Don’t give social media contact

[Sylvan]

Many yrs ago i m walking alone pass by GL bump into 1 LTD ML at nite. we saw each other n say hello, e pai seh thing is she asked me y i m here i said i pass by nia but she gave me tat cheeky look, knn she must b tinking i must have went to GL kio kway :mad:

[LauAdi]

Many yrs ago i m walking alone pass by GL bump into 1 LTD ML at nite. we saw each other n say hello, e pai seh thing is she asked me y i m here i said i pass by nia but she gave me tat cheeky look, knn she must b tinking i must have went to GL kio kway :mad:

Wahaha reminds me of my episode in China.
Suddenly got karaoke hostess shout, wave and giggle at me when they saw me across the street with my customer
They all gave me the naughty winks and my customer whole day looking forward to nightfall

[aimbird]

Many yrs ago i m walking alone pass by GL bump into 1 LTD ML at nite. we saw each other n say hello, e pai seh thing is she asked me y i m here i said i pass by nia but she gave me tat cheeky look, knn she must b tinking i must have went to GL kio kway :mad:

Do you still go GL?

[Clonie]

I blocked every single one of them until the time comes. A few of them teased me before about being "blacklisted" but don't care lah.

While most of them won't take the initiative to text but you never know. I also mute the apps and mute the person so in the event I forgot to block them I won't receive any notifications of their texts.

[Sylvan]

Do you still go GL?

Go GL makan yes, kio kway no more... only during my younger cheonging days then i go GL coz when young nt much budget :D

[Sylvan]

I blocked every single one of them until the time comes. A few of them teased me before about being "blacklisted" but don't care lah.

While most of them won't take the initiative to text but you never know. I also mute the apps and mute the person so in the event I forgot to block them I won't receive any notifications of their texts.

1 money faced fake boobs ML checked out my WC moments when i set my WC moments non public asked me did i deleted her off? I replied if i deleted her contacts she wouldnt get a reply frm me, then told her my last wc moments is few yrs ago liao, show or not show also doesnt make a difference to me. Anyway i mute her wc b4 she RTC