edwardgreene
21-04-2026, 06:14 PM
Looks like this is it for me - retiring from the massage scene. I started staying away I think towards last quarter of 2025. Generally, I've given up and will focus time more in dome 3.
The massage scene in the earlier years for me was fun. I enjoyed mainly the chase. Some of the great experiences:
- in legit massage spa, unlocking a pretty ML to off menu services and then keeping her in my 'pocket' at no additional costs. These are mainly cat 1 shops .
- the chase of finding a good ML that would eventually travel with me during her renewal break, or, when she is done with her contract. Again, without additional commercial negotiations.
The chase was fun, I still love it but the time capital does not make sense anymore especially with many available girls out there willing to be FWBs. Which is also why I don't go to Dome 4, I also cannot reconcile with local and Malaysian FLs charging such ridiculous rates when there's so many for the available for pickings, whether in pubs, bars or just regular places. There are many girls, ladies who are open to hook ups.
So here are some of the reasons why - and this is just me, my opinion, other bros can probably accept his but after years and years in this game, I'm done:
- Inconsistencies - including the silly concept of using plastic wraps for BJ.
Inaccurate photos and promoted-FRs.
- Tasteless haggling -;major mood dampener. For example they offer ridiculous rates for HJ, BBBJ or FJ. Then nego begins, it gets worse when after the deed is done, they set me up with a guilt trip where the rates agreed on is low and really below 'marlet rates'.
- Spa / Parlor setup - cannot reconcile the final total price paid with a setup of a massage bed.
- Blind and insistent advocates - this is where some bros insist what market rates are, then some threads spiral out of control suggesting some better rates that other bros received were not true and that goes on and on until the thread loses it's focus. Worse still, it puts the ML/ FL.into difficult positions and they took hop onto the 'but this is market rate' band wagon.
The issue is less about waste of money but time lost which cannot be bought.
The Dome 3 scene is my regular and new favourite , of course, its not perfect but it scores well for me so far. Recent experiences:
- JAV stars: to me this is priceless. I love JAV movies and bringing them to our shores has been amazing. Then there are the rare moments when I get to have 2 hours with 2 JAV stars.
- Korean models: performance is mixed. I generally prefer the the japs even the non JAV ones.
- Euro and Mongolians: another category that plays up to my other fantasies. Esp the euro or russian ones, they can be more adventurous and wild.
- Brazilians and the other rare South Americans: also another fantasy but trends lower on my priority.
- Brits and occasional Americans : I tend to try once in a while but not on the top of my list.
The Dome 3 scene is still a novelty for me and I'm on that slippery slope of building a new bad habit lol. Visiting them 3 to 4 times a week is becoming a pattern I think I need to slow down.
Some of the FLs come with other skills like regular massage or exotic massage. Some even include other companionship offers, tried some but they do come across commercial, not to say it bad but perhaps there's a transaction tied to it. There are the rare ones who plan to have a leisure tour across Asia , not for 'work', when causal conversations turn into rare opportunities, they would gladly saddle up with me to Bali, Thailand or Vietnam. Because it's not tied to a commercial deal, theae escapades turn out alot better. However, I still give them a tip together with an expense covered escapade and interestingly, compared to PRCs the don't ask to go 'shopping'.
Done 3 as a discovery has moved my interest away from the massage scene. Hotel conditions are way better in at least four star hotels.
I don't see myself coming back to theassage scene, and would like to say thank you to all the bros who have shared their experiences and recommendations whether it's publicly in the various threads or through direct PM.
The massage scene in the earlier years for me was fun. I enjoyed mainly the chase. Some of the great experiences:
- in legit massage spa, unlocking a pretty ML to off menu services and then keeping her in my 'pocket' at no additional costs. These are mainly cat 1 shops .
- the chase of finding a good ML that would eventually travel with me during her renewal break, or, when she is done with her contract. Again, without additional commercial negotiations.
The chase was fun, I still love it but the time capital does not make sense anymore especially with many available girls out there willing to be FWBs. Which is also why I don't go to Dome 4, I also cannot reconcile with local and Malaysian FLs charging such ridiculous rates when there's so many for the available for pickings, whether in pubs, bars or just regular places. There are many girls, ladies who are open to hook ups.
So here are some of the reasons why - and this is just me, my opinion, other bros can probably accept his but after years and years in this game, I'm done:
- Inconsistencies - including the silly concept of using plastic wraps for BJ.
Inaccurate photos and promoted-FRs.
- Tasteless haggling -;major mood dampener. For example they offer ridiculous rates for HJ, BBBJ or FJ. Then nego begins, it gets worse when after the deed is done, they set me up with a guilt trip where the rates agreed on is low and really below 'marlet rates'.
- Spa / Parlor setup - cannot reconcile the final total price paid with a setup of a massage bed.
- Blind and insistent advocates - this is where some bros insist what market rates are, then some threads spiral out of control suggesting some better rates that other bros received were not true and that goes on and on until the thread loses it's focus. Worse still, it puts the ML/ FL.into difficult positions and they took hop onto the 'but this is market rate' band wagon.
The issue is less about waste of money but time lost which cannot be bought.
The Dome 3 scene is my regular and new favourite , of course, its not perfect but it scores well for me so far. Recent experiences:
- JAV stars: to me this is priceless. I love JAV movies and bringing them to our shores has been amazing. Then there are the rare moments when I get to have 2 hours with 2 JAV stars.
- Korean models: performance is mixed. I generally prefer the the japs even the non JAV ones.
- Euro and Mongolians: another category that plays up to my other fantasies. Esp the euro or russian ones, they can be more adventurous and wild.
- Brazilians and the other rare South Americans: also another fantasy but trends lower on my priority.
- Brits and occasional Americans : I tend to try once in a while but not on the top of my list.
The Dome 3 scene is still a novelty for me and I'm on that slippery slope of building a new bad habit lol. Visiting them 3 to 4 times a week is becoming a pattern I think I need to slow down.
Some of the FLs come with other skills like regular massage or exotic massage. Some even include other companionship offers, tried some but they do come across commercial, not to say it bad but perhaps there's a transaction tied to it. There are the rare ones who plan to have a leisure tour across Asia , not for 'work', when causal conversations turn into rare opportunities, they would gladly saddle up with me to Bali, Thailand or Vietnam. Because it's not tied to a commercial deal, theae escapades turn out alot better. However, I still give them a tip together with an expense covered escapade and interestingly, compared to PRCs the don't ask to go 'shopping'.
Done 3 as a discovery has moved my interest away from the massage scene. Hotel conditions are way better in at least four star hotels.
I don't see myself coming back to theassage scene, and would like to say thank you to all the bros who have shared their experiences and recommendations whether it's publicly in the various threads or through direct PM.