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zoomster
13-07-2026, 08:16 AM
As the title suggest, any bros kind enough to share your SOPs for the first 40mins of the session? I always feel that I don’t really know how to engage, both in chatting as well as initiating any form of touch, and the ending always leaves me unsatisfied, E.g. mechanical HJ, not much engagement from ML…

For me, I usually just lie down with my hands dangling. I’m also not good at making small talk, and will always ends in silence. Any bros can share any rules of engagement?

LauAdi
13-07-2026, 08:44 AM
As the title suggest, any bros kind enough to share your SOPs for the first 40mins of the session? I always feel that I don’t really know how to engage, both in chatting as well as initiating any form of touch, and the ending always leaves me unsatisfied, E.g. mechanical HJ, not much engagement from ML…

For me, I usually just lie down with my hands dangling. I’m also not good at making small talk, and will always ends in silence. Any bros can share any rules of engagement?

Be polite to her and praise her

KimiAntonelli
13-07-2026, 09:37 AM
As the title suggest, any bros kind enough to share your SOPs for the first 40mins of the session? I always feel that I don’t really know how to engage, both in chatting as well as initiating any form of touch, and the ending always leaves me unsatisfied, E.g. mechanical HJ, not much engagement from ML…

For me, I usually just lie down with my hands dangling. I’m also not good at making small talk, and will always ends in silence. Any bros can share any rules of engagement?

It’s always the same small talk topic. How long she been in SG? Eh I come a few times how come never see her before? Wah today so fated to get her yada yada. But my advice is don’t ask too much about her background and hometown situation etc. in my early days, I once kena someone who spent the entire 45 mins telling me how tough life is for her back home etc all the sob story etc and then when time comes for the special, she asked for above market rate which I declined then she brought in the sob story which she had already discussed in detail for the past 45 mins as a reason to justify the higher costs. So that was a big turn off and I left without the deed.
So advice is just ask enough to get her talking and loosened up nothing too much. Talk about her life here in SG. But never talk much about yours.

lamelame76
13-07-2026, 10:06 AM
Any reason why shouldn’t talk abt our own lives? Usually I just bullshit my way through to not give my personal stuff away, but other than that I also wanna hear how other bros communicate to “improve” myself

zoomster
13-07-2026, 11:47 AM
Thanks for the tips! I also am curious to know in terms of touching, do you only engage after flipped over and GQ asked?

1 of my bros mentioned that sometimes when the ML brushes or parks her hips and legs by the hands, he said its okay to touch and give compliment her butt or legs, etc. I guess I’m still quite ‘green’, don’t know if that will result in complaints

Funlover
13-07-2026, 11:50 AM
As the title suggest, any bros kind enough to share your SOPs for the first 40mins of the session? I always feel that I don’t really know how to engage, both in chatting as well as initiating any form of touch, and the ending always leaves me unsatisfied, E.g. mechanical HJ, not much engagement from ML…

For me, I usually just lie down with my hands dangling. I’m also not good at making small talk, and will always ends in silence. Any bros can share any rules of engagement?

"How's your day? Busy with alot of customers?" Is always a good start the and ball will starts rolling naturally but remember never give 100% facts about yourself.

Funlover
13-07-2026, 12:27 PM
Thanks for the tips! I also am curious to know in terms of touching, do you only engage after flipped over and GQ asked?

1 of my bros mentioned that sometimes when the ML brushes or parks her hips and legs by the hands, he said its okay to touch and give compliment her butt or legs, etc. I guess I’m still quite ‘green’, don’t know if that will result in complaints

U already chionging liao. Laid there naked with at most a towel covering, u still paiseh simi? Just be thick skin..

oldschool79
13-07-2026, 01:48 PM
if your arms are dangling, you can reach for her calf and start massaging and asked, "tired?". Or you can caress her calf and if no rejection slowly make your way up her thigh lor....

or you can place your arms on the massage bed, near your waist as you lie down, palms facing up... and accidentally brush her pussy area with your fingers as she massage you and see any reactions. If the masseuse put your arms to dangling position then you know no actions lor.....:D

Xgenre
13-07-2026, 02:05 PM
Any bros can share any rules of engagement?

Just try this script. Say this while you are lying down.

I am so glad I switch over to your MP. Before coming here, I was reading up on the latest posts on Singapore's No 1 sex forum. The MP i had intended to visit has some recent negative comments. The guys online said the MLs are overcharging customers. $50 for a simple HJ with $30 extra to roam her breasts.

This is just so ridiculous. Everyone knows the market rate for HJ with roaming is only $50. Times are bad with so many MLs in Singapore. I don't understand how these MLs think they can get away with overcharging customers. So glad I didn't visit that MP. So glad that guys are writing honest reports to warn others about such MLs in Singapore.

Then you proceed with the rest of the massage. The outcome should be quite good. You expressed a key point without making it seem like you are talking about her. She knows she will get a bad reputation if she overcharges you. You are no longer 1 single customer. You can affect her future stream of customers. ;)

KimiAntonelli
13-07-2026, 02:36 PM
Any reason why shouldn’t talk abt our own lives? Usually I just bullshit my way through to not give my personal stuff away, but other than that I also wanna hear how other bros communicate to “improve” myself

If u downplay yourself and say until u are not that well to do (to avoid getting fleeced), she may give u lousy service since u aren’t considered a valued customer or won’t have slots for u when u wanna book her. I have personally experienced the latter in the past.

If u talk yourself up, she will expect u to give higher tips each time (esp viets). So I find the best is not talk about your own lives too much and just pay the going rate each time and maintain a professional relationship.
But to each his own. Since that bro was asking for advice I just provided my perspective.

KimiAntonelli
13-07-2026, 02:44 PM
Thanks for the tips! I also am curious to know in terms of touching, do you only engage after flipped over and GQ asked?

1 of my bros mentioned that sometimes when the ML brushes or parks her hips and legs by the hands, he said its okay to touch and give compliment her butt or legs, etc. I guess I’m still quite ‘green’, don’t know if that will result in complaints

U can try your luck and use the back portion of your hand to brush her thighs. If she make noise, then tell her sorry not on purpose u trying to adjust position and then really pretend to adjust abit. If she don’t buy it, then u show her the back of your hand which brushed her thighs, and tell her really not on purpose since it’s the back part. But for such MLs, later they beg me to take HJ or what, I will def not.

If she has no response, then slowly proceed up to her butt and press it with one finger. Still no response, then it’s a sign u can turn ur palm over and grab and squeeze her butt. Grope slowly and softly as u stand. After awhile, she will move back to the other side of the bed. U should be standing by now (if not got prob). Then lift up your hips abit to accommodate your standing dick and let her see. For most cases with GQ, the ML will massage your inner thighs and lead herself to your balls and stroke your dick.
And the rest will follow suit. Just go with the flow man. No need paiseh. If the ML don’t like any of it, she will let u know.

LauAdi
13-07-2026, 02:53 PM
Any reason why shouldn’t talk abt our own lives? Usually I just bullshit my way through to not give my personal stuff away, but other than that I also wanna hear how other bros communicate to “improve” myself

Give away too much of your info and what do you get in return?
It’s like fishing
She must think you are a good potential client and you must make her know that you will only pay for good value
She thinks she is fishing but she is being fished

LauAdi
13-07-2026, 02:57 PM
Thanks for the tips! I also am curious to know in terms of touching, do you only engage after flipped over and GQ asked?

1 of my bros mentioned that sometimes when the ML brushes or parks her hips and legs by the hands, he said its okay to touch and give compliment her butt or legs, etc. I guess I’m still quite ‘green’, don’t know if that will result in complaints

Tell her you got introduced by a bro and that he said she provides excellent service at a great price
When she ask what kind of service usually she is okay to touch her ass
Got once a ML asked me to touch her ass to find out for myself whether she has a better figure than another ML in the same shop
No hard and fast rule, just make it natural

crackpot1
13-07-2026, 03:02 PM
Usually I just brush or caress the calf when it’s in range. Get a feel.

wahhero
13-07-2026, 05:35 PM
U can try your luck and use the back portion of your hand to brush her thighs. If she make noise, then tell her sorry not on purpose u trying to adjust position and then really pretend to adjust abit. If she don’t buy it, then u show her the back of your hand which brushed her thighs, and tell her really not on purpose since it’s the back part. But for such MLs, later they beg me to take HJ or what, I will def not.

If she has no response, then slowly proceed up to her butt and press it with one finger. Still no response, then it’s a sign u can turn ur palm over and grab and squeeze her butt. Grope slowly and softly as u stand. After awhile, she will move back to the other side of the bed. U should be standing by now (if not got prob). Then lift up your hips abit to accommodate your standing dick and let her see. For most cases with GQ, the ML will massage your inner thighs and lead herself to your balls and stroke your dick.
And the rest will follow suit. Just go with the flow man. No need paiseh. If the ML don’t like any of it, she will let u know.
Got an experience from a tcm shop with rooms, the ml initially just tease minimal, then i stroked her legs and slowly the thighs and eventually she decided to sit beside me facing my legs...as she was about to sit on the bed, my right hand was between her legs and I just did a brush across her pussy and she immediately moved my hand to the side where now I would be hugging her waist...but I managed to do more as my hand would be able to access her breast from behind...went straight for the bra to find the opening and stimulate the nipple once I found it..she managed to offload my ammo...another ml I also tried between the legs was using my finger to stroke the side of the inner thigh, when no objection, pretend to move your hand so it will brush her pussy area...if no rejection, means got chance

zoomster
13-07-2026, 05:47 PM
Thanks for all the sharing and tips, will definitely try some of the pointers out! Also, since most of the time I booked via wechat, it will be ‘understood’ that i’m there looking for a good time.

Wondering if bros play the ‘shy’ card and wait for the action to unfold, or if you will not hide your intentions and make it known from the start?

thoreldan
13-07-2026, 05:48 PM
so troublesome for what.
jitao say 我想做爱 :)

Sakam0t0
14-07-2026, 08:24 AM
Thanks for all the sharing and tips, will definitely try some of the pointers out! Also, since most of the time I booked via wechat, it will be ‘understood’ that i’m there looking for a good time.

Wondering if bros play the ‘shy’ card and wait for the action to unfold, or if you will not hide your intentions and make it known from the start?

If u be shy in the current climate, some mls may play safe and not offer any GQ if you are not regular. The mls know what you are there for. so like other bro mentioned, usually will start with “how long have you been here”, “what did you do before coming here” etc. and see how it flows. If you kena mechanical hj or poor service, maybe it’s ymmv or just the ml is just like that. I’ve encountered mls with passionate service even with little to no small talk.

Ahriez
14-07-2026, 10:53 AM
Normally what I'll do is when the ML pull down the pants a little for the oil segment (most of the time if they dont find you familiar), I'll just pull the pants down way pass my butt , if they ask why I'll just say not comfortable. Then open my legs big big.
If that place has extra they will know what you are looking for.

It helps also if you put in a few "mummm , ahhhhh" sounds when they are doing your inner thighs.

Conversation wise , I just go the "how old are you" "wa you look so young" " your massage skill very good"

Just remember the ML has been listening to all these romantic phases from bros that are professional. What you say won't affect much . Main thing is to keep the mood light and comfortable

sexyback
14-07-2026, 11:14 AM
If you go to spa and just lie down there enjoying the massage, no chatting and keep quiet let the ML do her job, most likely you will not get the GQ from ML. Thing is, you may be a snake deployed to catch them red handed so base on your behaviour, in order to protect themselves they will react accordingly. That's my 2 cents, may not be true for all MLs though

Hsl1111
14-07-2026, 01:06 PM
Start by asking if she needs a massage. If yes then improvise from there 🤣 if this is your regular ML then dont waste time.

Allenc3
14-07-2026, 01:40 PM
Theres nothing special in particular you need to think, do, or say 1. Never had any ML not lead to extra service entirely. Even for very dry MLs. Theres no rules to these just be yourself. More often than not they do initiate topics and touches.

Of course the MLs know what they are doing and from basic conversations can tell whether u are there for the extra service or legit anti-vice. They will also attempt to pry a bit about u to make sure its ok to provide.

They want to and are here to earn money. To not lead you to extra service totally, it must be the customer being a giant red flag or a total creep that she dont even want to earn the money.

LifeisGood2022
14-07-2026, 11:04 PM
Thanks for all the sharing and tips, will definitely try some of the pointers out! Also, since most of the time I booked via wechat, it will be ‘understood’ that i’m there looking for a good time.

Wondering if bros play the ‘shy’ card and wait for the action to unfold, or if you will not hide your intentions and make it known from the start?

normally they will ask you where u got their contact from lah..

if u say SBF then they know you know got GQ one loh..

cheekalot
14-07-2026, 11:26 PM
Halfway just say need to adjust your down there area. Lift up butt and make your penis point down. See what happened next haha .

KimiAntonelli
15-07-2026, 04:32 PM
Got an experience from a tcm shop with rooms, the ml initially just tease minimal, then i stroked her legs and slowly the thighs and eventually she decided to sit beside me facing my legs...as she was about to sit on the bed, my right hand was between her legs and I just did a brush across her pussy and she immediately moved my hand to the side where now I would be hugging her waist...but I managed to do more as my hand would be able to access her breast from behind...went straight for the bra to find the opening and stimulate the nipple once I found it..she managed to offload my ammo...another ml I also tried between the legs was using my finger to stroke the side of the inner thigh, when no objection, pretend to move your hand so it will brush her pussy area...if no rejection, means got chance

Inner thighs (at the first touch point) abit dangerous I feel. If the ML is not that type, high chance she will make noise. If that’s a clean joint she might even go tell manager or receptionist.

wahhero
15-07-2026, 11:11 PM
Inner thighs (at the first touch point) abit dangerous I feel. If the ML is not that type, high chance she will make noise. If that’s a clean joint she might even go tell manager or receptionist.

Agree, sometimes it is your call when you sensed that the lady can go further...I have tried on some other mls and straight away tell me off...of course...I removed them from my visit list

Johnworkwood
16-07-2026, 01:19 AM
Usually if I know the shop definitely offer GQ, I’ll just go in for the massage as though I’m only there for the massage. When flip over and GQ is popped, I’ll just act blur and say it’s my first time. Somehow I realised that they always give really good service if they think it’s my first time. And I don’t visit same MLs so it works for me

arpege
16-07-2026, 02:19 AM
Usually after i lay face down I will put the disposable short down to expose my butt before they come in. And from their reaction, you will know if your itchy hands can proceed to touch them after that. Example, if they come in and say 你等不及了啊, you know it's a go. If they pull up ur short, u know it's GG. if they pull up and say 等一下先,you know at least got HJ. So u know how to break the ice with them. It's always to chat with them rather than keep quiet. Cause they scare also if you are undercover etc.

afterhours99
16-07-2026, 02:49 AM
bro overthinking, just lie down and enjoy the massage you paid for no need think so much. Want to talk just talk cock, have some fun, RP a bit, every time try different profile, not like you intending to wife ML up.

Sian1234567
16-07-2026, 02:58 AM
bro overthinking, just lie down and enjoy the massage you paid for no need think so much. Want to talk just talk cock, have some fun, RP a bit, every time try different profile, not like you intending to wife ML up.

Agree to your point bro! Just go with the flow guys

randomguymax
16-07-2026, 04:17 AM
Guys can any kind soul also tell me how does the ML ask the golden question aka GQ? Like how different will it sound if its a PRC ML vs Viet ML? Im quite green and new to this so far only tried dome 1 FL. So i want to make sure i got the clear signal from the ML regarding the full service. TIA

rugalsc
16-07-2026, 07:39 AM
If you lying down and she massaging your head, shoulder or back. Raise your hands to massage her buttocks

zoomster
16-07-2026, 07:55 AM
Not sure if bros ever think about this, but sometimes we spend so much time finding the next ML to try, and i would guess most of the time we choose based on looks, body, face, etc.

But spending more than 50% of the time looking at the floor/darkness just for that 5-10 mins of enjoyment at the end seems quite short. Any bros have experience of starting the massage face up or at least have longer views of the ML?

MrChilll
17-07-2026, 07:38 PM
There was once I accidentally rip the center portion of the disposable shorts while I was lifting my leg to dry my calves with the towel. Since then I just found it more comfy and the message is quite clear also, Now I rip it on my own before massage if I know the shop offers special. Also open your legs wider abit so easier for them to brush against your little bro even before GQ

Also, when they ask is it your first time here, how you found this place, or why you choose them, just say you saw her good reviews online that she give good service, usually they will know you are here for service also. They might even give you better massage/svc so they can ask you write them good reviews.

MrChilll
17-07-2026, 07:54 PM
Not sure if bros ever think about this, but sometimes we spend so much time finding the next ML to try, and i would guess most of the time we choose based on looks, body, face, etc.

But spending more than 50% of the time looking at the floor/darkness just for that 5-10 mins of enjoyment at the end seems quite short. Any bros have experience of starting the massage face up or at least have longer views of the ML?

You can always request especially if you rtm. But idk where else they can massage other than head while facing up. Ive heard 1 ML telling me that got some dude specifically request for Head massage only cause hes having a headache before proceed with svc.

On the other hand, the dark room can make some ml, especially those early thirties look like late twenties, they usually provide better svc or massage at a better price too if they know their looks cannot compete.

But yeah usually if they cater 15-20mins for svc I think is good enough. End of the day I think good looks matter more if paired with good svc, makes the svc way more shiok and wanting to come back for more

Axel88
18-07-2026, 01:14 AM
Usually for ML that i visit for the 1st time i will do the usual small talk and let them do their routine. More because i want to find out their routine and i want to know whether its worth it to even let them massage or should i just go straight to action the moment she close the door.

For FL not easy to find those that are good at service and good at massage.

For normal massage parlour that do Basic HJ or BJ i will say most ML s already know what you are there for. Usually i will just tell them straight up the disposable shorts no need. Some will of course insist for the sake of it but they would have gotten the hint

Importantly if the ML treat you well it is important to reciprocate so that she knows that good service will be rewarded.

snookie99
18-07-2026, 01:28 AM
Asking questions with a reward might get returns too.

Example ask her age , typically they ask you to guess lol. But u can counter back if guess correct got what that type. Jus go lower , they v happy to hear they are younger. Scored a few free ‘service’ as reward 😝 recent one was a Frenching

timeliness
18-07-2026, 02:15 AM
For me, I usually go with the flow and ask if they were doing massage back in China also. Then after that at some point they'll just rip open the disposable shorts and that's when you know that at least a hj is possible.

You'll be surprised to hear about some of the weirder customers from the MLs. There was once where we were talking about anal stuff when she was beginning her sensual routine then she said she can't accept anal sex, and she could feel that I also can't accept coz I was getting softer LOL.

Then for some who do JG, I always ask about the meridians and acupoints so they know they can't just pass off a glorified hj as JG hahaha.

superstiffy
18-07-2026, 09:01 AM
Please dun keep talking la...

private room then u talk until 60 min... if not you are sibei irritating.. the whole shop also can hear you talk cock with your ml...

if the shop got extra, u never talk also will have... if the shop no extra you talk until die also wont have.. save some saliva and energy.. just keep quiet and let the ml do her thing... a while dun talk kkj wont drop off....

LauAdi
18-07-2026, 09:19 AM
Please dun keep talking la...

private room then u talk until 60 min... if not you are sibei irritating.. the whole shop also can hear you talk cock with your ml...

if the shop got extra, u never talk also will have... if the shop no extra you talk until die also wont have.. save some saliva and energy.. just keep quiet and let the ml do her thing... a while dun talk kkj wont drop off....

Actually this is a good point
Some MLs dont like to talk and they also turn off when you talk too much
But those very chatty and cheerful one then make her laugh loh

KimiAntonelli
18-07-2026, 05:15 PM
Guys can any kind soul also tell me how does the ML ask the golden question aka GQ? Like how different will it sound if its a PRC ML vs Viet ML? Im quite green and new to this so far only tried dome 1 FL. So i want to make sure i got the clear signal from the ML regarding the full service. TIA

They will ask in a way u confirm understand one. Usually ask u if u want to do below. U don’t understand they also make sure u underSTAND. If not how to earn your tips for the special?

lamelame76
20-07-2026, 02:02 PM
Usually for ML that i visit for the 1st time i will do the usual small talk and let them do their routine. More because i want to find out their routine and i want to know whether its worth it to even let them massage or should i just go straight to action the moment she close the door.

For FL not easy to find those that are good at service and good at massage.

For normal massage parlour that do Basic HJ or BJ i will say most ML s already know what you are there for. Usually i will just tell them straight up the disposable shorts no need. Some will of course insist for the sake of it but they would have gotten the hint

Importantly if the ML treat you well it is important to reciprocate so that she knows that good service will be rewarded.

Do you mean for those that don’t insist on disposable underwear when you reject, they just massage you fully nude? Isn’t that quite dangerous when there’s a raid?

AndyFeng77
20-07-2026, 04:18 PM
Maintain funny chats. Use your hand and slowly caress the ML's calves. Then just flow along wherever the chemistry takes you.

Booker
20-07-2026, 04:53 PM
This is going to be a long post.. just to share experience.

Test water techniques in MP - The hand

The hanging arms
During massage, when your hands are hanging at the side. If the ml brushes by when she moves along the side, you can proceed to put you palms along her lower calf, near ankle area.. if she doesn’t move away, means can test deeper by lightly squeezing her lower calf or move up to her calf area. If not reject, means dessert is on the menu.

Some ml when they sense your dangling arms, they will sort of kiap it in between their legs. This confirm has dessert and generally you can return the favour with some light stroking / squeezing of her calf.

The side arms
If the ml somehow position your arms to your side, you can try to let your palm face outwards and stroke her upper tight when she brushes by as she moves along the massage bed. Sometimes you can even stroke her buttocks and even groin area, depending on her position when massaging and where she is massaging you.

If you are doing these and she didn’t outrightly stop you, means dessert in the menu. Sometimes the ml will tell you to tahan.. let her do the massage, later then touch. That one is clear as light…. Got dessert.

The hand at head
If you place your hands at the top of the massage bed, and when the ml massages your neck, shoulder region.. confirm the thigh area will come into contact.. if the ml never reposition your hands away.. confirm dessert have. You can then take the chance to stroke her groin or grab her bum… if not reject… fun times ahead!

Disclaimer:
If you are in a clean joint and all the above techniques fail.. then don’t try further, lest you end up kenna molestation charge.

Even in CAT 1 joints or other joints, some ml may reject such actions… but doesn’t mean no dessert. Just catch the keywords of their rejection. So probably just want to get the massage part done.. so just wait abit.

For rare cases where the ml makes a fuss over the actions. Then you know even with dessert it’s going to be sucky (as in lousy not bj). This type.. either just go without dessert, proceed to write off… or get the deed done, write off.

:D

peksync
20-07-2026, 05:20 PM
Anybody tried Lucie from Y.. Clementi? Can exchange intel/ dmg? Thanks!

Happytallman
21-07-2026, 06:51 AM
Enjoy massage. She will initiated contact (thigh touches arm, ass stroke, light touch on balls). Get a boner. Adjust at some point. If she giggles you are good to go.

I usually ignore their contact until on legs and then get a raging hard on. That works every time. Cannot ignore.

No talking necessary.

LonelyMan46
21-07-2026, 07:03 AM
Anybody tried Lucie from Y.. Clementi? Can exchange intel/ dmg? Thanks!

What do you need

Axel88
21-07-2026, 10:03 AM
Do you mean for those that don’t insist on disposable underwear when you reject, they just massage you fully nude? Isn’t that quite dangerous when there’s a raid?

Yes they just massage me fully nude. I mean the risk is not on me its on the shop.

And anyway i usually go at night where the chances of raid is slightly lesser.

fireheart77
22-07-2026, 12:22 PM
Yes they just massage me fully nude. I mean the risk is not on me its on the shop.

And anyway i usually go at night where the chances of raid is slightly lesser.


Actually the chances of raid at night is higher... police are not stupid, night time is where the action happens.
Happened to once to me, they come and inspect all the ML and check their work permits and session paused for 20min ....
If want to be safe... Go for Casetrust or legal registered shops and go at the non peak hours.

fireheart77
22-07-2026, 12:24 PM
Anybody tried Lucie from Y.. Clementi? Can exchange intel/ dmg? Thanks!

Yes, she is good. Not pushy about tips, there are a few good reviews of her in other posts. Dmg is subjective but she is not pushy.

arbalest
22-07-2026, 03:32 PM
Usual SOP, say she look very pretty. Stun like vegetable so if I talk nonsense later don't be angry with me.

I will then ask if she has boyfriend, how long she in SG etc. talk about how her clothes accentuates her body. Usually the shops I go recommended by bros so all these small talk is to get them to drop their guard and hopefully give a better service later.

Killer line your hands so smooth touch my body feel nice. Then later touch the thigh also compliment a bit. If no restriction go up squeeze ass and make your way to pussy. Don't so fast go dig. Just massage her gently. By the time if no restriction, you know it is on liao.

Newbieshag
22-07-2026, 04:02 PM
Thanks for all the sharing and tips, will definitely try some of the pointers out! Also, since most of the time I booked via wechat, it will be ‘understood’ that i’m there looking for a good time.

Wondering if bros play the ‘shy’ card and wait for the action to unfold, or if you will not hide your intentions and make it known from the start?

Don’t worry bro . Just tried the tips given here.. worst scenario we will come and bailed you out . 😅

wahhero
22-07-2026, 04:03 PM
I had a ml who is clean, always massage with strength and sometimes scrub me until body red...but she always like to climb unto the massage bed and then spread my legs and one of her leg would come in between my thigh, very close to the balls and sometimes touching them accidentally..I would also try to clamp her leg and use my foot to tackle her foot..she knows it...one day she was about to do the same again, I purposely adjusted my cock downwards, between my balls and the left thigh...then she climbed up and put her leg in between, I could feel that her leg touched my cock head and she could feel that also...so she continue to massage my back in a back and fro manner, and the feeling of the leg touching the hardened cock head on and off, makes it even harder...then surprise she put both her hands on my left thigh and massage downwards, and when doing so, the fingers brushed against the hardened head..wanted to ask her to hj me, but worried she would scold and reject..so I wait for my chance to show her the exposed cock...when turned over, she saw the exposed head and immediately adjusted the paper underwear to cover it...the whole session ended up with nothing but a lot of purposely tease massage...wait for further updates as will visit her soon

fireheart77
24-07-2026, 05:50 AM
For me, just enjoy the ML. If she initiated small talk, just need to review basic info. If you want to relax and nap, fine as well. If this is your first encounter with her, she does things like pressing her chest on your head and pressing her thighs on your dangling arms, she teasing you already.

If she is touching your balls and inner thighs and you have the urge to caress her inner thigh or butt, just go ahead. She wants u to be high anyway for the part 2 of the massage.

youcantseeme161
12-08-2026, 12:45 AM
Do you guys hide your marital status or what? Do you feel the ML will care if you are married with kids or not?

zoomster
12-08-2026, 08:26 AM
A question for bros here… was wondering if any bros have ‘performance anxiety’ when flipped over? For me, at least during the first part of massage, i try to relax and enjoy the process. However, after ML asks to flip over, i get this feeling, not sure if its anticipation or nervous, i turn around with a limp dick. Some MLs might be surprised and takes them a long time to get me hard again. Some takes a longer effort to make it hard again, which sometimes dampen the mood, and they might be pissed. Any advice?

LauAdi
12-08-2026, 10:34 AM
Do you guys hide your marital status or what? Do you feel the ML will care if you are married with kids or not?

Dont be silly
Do you even know their real names?
They care whether you have $$ and whether you are a nasty customer or not eg whether you’re hygienic

LauAdi
12-08-2026, 10:39 AM
A question for bros here… was wondering if any bros have ‘performance anxiety’ when flipped over? For me, at least during the first part of massage, i try to relax and enjoy the process. However, after ML asks to flip over, i get this feeling, not sure if its anticipation or nervous, i turn around with a limp dick. Some MLs might be surprised and takes them a long time to get me hard again. Some takes a longer effort to make it hard again, which sometimes dampen the mood, and they might be pissed. Any advice?

Nothing wrong about that
You have to get in the mood too
Once we were chatting so happily until the ML tell me to focus if not will run out of time
But if you drag too long then obviously they will become impatient, not so much pissed
Cos got next bro waiting

youcantseeme161
12-08-2026, 11:23 PM
Dont be silly
Do you even know their real names?
They care whether you have $$ and whether you are a nasty customer or not eg whether you’re hygienic

No, what I meant is some bros here giving advice on the chit chatting or flirting to build intimacy with the ML, in hope to obtain a good service in return, maybe give extras without extra charges. So in such instance, do you hide your marital status for the flirting or chit chatting? I know almost 99% of the ML if I asked if they are single, they will likely answer yes, although i doubt so. Haha

LauAdi
13-08-2026, 08:32 AM
No, what I meant is some bros here giving advice on the chit chatting or flirting to build intimacy with the ML, in hope to obtain a good service in return, maybe give extras without extra charges. So in such instance, do you hide your marital status for the flirting or chit chatting? I know almost 99% of the ML if I asked if they are single, they will likely answer yes, although i doubt so. Haha

Haha sorry if i sounded harsh
Don’t think they care whether you married or single though
Single doesnt mean they’ll like you
And you get special extra when they really like you
Got ML tell me she’s single but after we got chemistry she show me her bf pic and still offered raw

fergieisking
13-08-2026, 08:56 AM
No, what I meant is some bros here giving advice on the chit chatting or flirting to build intimacy with the ML, in hope to obtain a good service in return, maybe give extras without extra charges. So in such instance, do you hide your marital status for the flirting or chit chatting? I know almost 99% of the ML if I asked if they are single, they will likely answer yes, although i doubt so. Haha

Women generally prefer married men coz they are kind of "verified". It's a stamp of approval. So on the contrary, I tell mls that I'm alr married and I can sense they kind of like me even more after I tell them, though im actually single lol. Its like they suddenly wanna prove that they are better than my "non existent wife" in bed. Not sure other men also encounter the same thing?

KimiAntonelli
13-08-2026, 03:28 PM
A question for bros here… was wondering if any bros have ‘performance anxiety’ when flipped over? For me, at least during the first part of massage, i try to relax and enjoy the process. However, after ML asks to flip over, i get this feeling, not sure if its anticipation or nervous, i turn around with a limp dick. Some MLs might be surprised and takes them a long time to get me hard again. Some takes a longer effort to make it hard again, which sometimes dampen the mood, and they might be pissed. Any advice?

Did u get HJ by others or masturbate too much? I read before there’s a science behind it, in terms of causing u to not be able to hold an erection for long over time.
Some MLs I tried for first time (usually at cat one in the past) may HJ u fast and furious (maybe cos watching window and time). This can also cause your dick to lose erection faster some years down the line, cos the fast and furious HJ will damage some nerve endings or whatever not in your dick.
When I encounter MLs who do fast and furious, I just tell them I don’t like and I can pay them half the agreed amount to stop there and then. So my tip would be to stop those fast and furious MLs to avoid long term damage to your dick. And of cos don’t RTM.

KimiAntonelli
13-08-2026, 03:31 PM
Do you guys hide your marital status or what? Do you feel the ML will care if you are married with kids or not?

I will def tell the truth which is married cos if it’s a ML who I wanna RTM/F and exchange contact with her, she will know not to contact me. Usually I’ll also tell them not to contact me and the contact will only be initiated on my end.
A handful had broken this rule over the years so I’ll just delete contact and block them. And of cos not patronise them again.

sladang
13-08-2026, 03:51 PM
Do you guys hide your marital status or what? Do you feel the ML will care if you are married with kids or not?
You can always tell the MLs that u are MBA(Married But Available) :D ..
I will def tell the truth which is married cos if it’s a ML who I wanna RTM/F and exchange contact with her, she will know not to contact me. Usually I’ll also tell them not to contact me and the contact will only be initiated on my end.
A handful had broken this rule over the years so I’ll just delete contact and block them. And of cos not patronise them again.

If the MLs business is bad, they will contact whoever is contactable to go look for them & support them, whether or not their clients are married & hv families, althoughy these MLs noe they are not supposed to & its an immoral thing to do but do they really bother, tio bo? :D ..

KimiAntonelli
13-08-2026, 03:54 PM
You can always tell the MLs that u are MBA(Married But Available) :D ..


If the MLs business is bad, they will contact whoever is contactable to go look for them & support them, whether or not their clients are married & hv families, althoughy these MLs noe they are not supposed to & its an immoral thing to do but do they really bother, tio bo? :D ..

Ya so those who don’t bother to follow the rules one I just delete and block loh. Those who follow I’ll contact them when I have the need and keep RTM/F

sladang
13-08-2026, 04:22 PM
Ya so those who don’t bother to follow the rules one I just delete and block loh. Those who follow I’ll contact them when I have the need and keep RTM/F

Yeah, its very dangerous if u hv gf/wife/family & the MLs contact u abruptly coz u'll hv difficult time to explain to them why, tio bo? :D ..