Raw vs Condom sex?

[LuisitoAngel]

Hi Guys, just curious anyone facing similar issues?

with Cdm sex, 1 shot is ok, 2nd shot will be struggling and all

but raw sex, i can easily go 2 shots with CIP . yes in mid 40s liao.. anyone same

[happyuser66]

bro i in my late 20s but the thing is get so paranoid about raw it isn’t worth it. unless you take prep and do the array of tests every few months

[NickNnUsed]

It's a turn off if im doing cdm with my partner, and it will get semi-erect.
But raw with partner, definitely anytime full erection.

[Helpful Cheongster]

Hi Guys, just curious anyone facing similar issues?

with Cdm sex, 1 shot is ok, 2nd shot will be struggling and all

but raw sex, i can easily go 2 shots with CIP . yes in mid 40s liao.. anyone same

Bro very common one, especially mid 40s onwards. Raw feels more, so of course easier to stay hard. But usually can fix the condom part without going raw.

Why the 2nd round struggles
- After 40 the "recharge time" after cumming gets longer. Round 2 is harder with or without condom, condom just adds less sensation on top.
- Wrong size is the big one. Too tight squeezes and numbs, too loose slips and you lose feeling. Most guys never try other sizes.
- Putting on the condom breaks the mood, and the worry "later go soft" itself makes you go soft. Very kancheong cycle.

Things to try
- Try different sizes and thinner ones. Ultra-thin latex, or non-latex like polyisoprene (e.g. Skyn), many bros say feels closer to raw.
- Put a small drop of lube inside the tip before rolling on, and more lube outside. Big difference in feeling. Water- or silicone-based only, not oil.
- Let her put it on as part of foreplay, so no pause.
- Practise wearing one when you wank, so your body gets used to the feeling.
- Give more rest between rounds, and go easy on the alcohol.
- If it keeps happening even with the right condom, see a GP. ED pills from the doctor are very common at our age and work fine with a condom.

Raw might feel better, but you also take on all the STI risk, especially with different partners. If you really go that way, at least do PrEP and test regularly like happyuser66 said. PrEP only covers HIV though, not syphilis or gonorrhoea. But try the condom fixes first, many bros solve it this way.

[LauAdi]

Feeling is different both physically and psychologically
But in 40s many people start going limp
Can shoot well is very good already
Sekali you have many partners then maybe overused :D

[klkk555]

Feeling is different both physically and psychologically
But in 40s many people start going limp
Can shoot well is very good already
Sekali you have many partners then maybe overused :D

agree bro, after 40s really got difference, should have started earlier

[LauAdi]

agree bro, after 40s really got difference, should have started earlier

Hopefully not too late
Jiayou!

[LuisitoAngel]

Discovered now, very depedent on energy level. started to take red ginseng ( in the concentrated form) with ginseng tea, morning wood like rock solid and managed to fuck a FL with cdm recently.

but before that, one FL i managed to unlock raw, but cock went soft,