Arn't SG girls the biggest sucker fish of all !!!

[KingCheong]

Yea, have any guys encountered such bitches before?
I recently met this young girl 'Tricia' and immediately like her alot.
So naturally ask her out for dates which she obliged.
She is 20 yrs old, much younger than me. So on the 1st 2 dates with her, I don't mind to foot the bill.
But on subsequent outings, she always ask me to bring her go fine dining, must have aircon, cannot eat chinese food...etc.
Once she even have the audacity to tell me I have to pay for her food cos she did not bring her wallet. And another time she asked me to pay for 2 dresses at FE Square, which I did not.
And all this occurred in a matter of weeks, best of all, i never even get to touch her hand !!!
Worst part of it was, when we go out, always got some issue happen that make her very distracted. Whether its with work or with her friends, she will spend alot of time SMSing or talk on the phone, sometime she even had to cancel our date halfway.
Now...the ultimate tragedy for me. She totally stopped answering my phone calls, even sms. I have no idea what happened to make her act like this, cos I never even get to kiss this bitch.
I can calculate, in about 5 dates with her, of varying duration, I spent close to $200+ with her, just on food. KNN I could have gotten a budget FL and enjoyed myself with that $$$.
Lucky I never buy her the dress when we were shopping at Far East Plaza.
So I am feeling sipeh du-lan up now, yes guys...im the biggest SUCKER !!! Y are SG gers are like that !!! They are so young yet so exploitative !!!

I am making it my mission now to NOT respect SG girls anymore, the only good SG girl is when they lie on bed and let you fuck for free !!!

[Ange|Boy]

aiya you will get used to it, gals will definately cost.... regardless of which nationality, either in cash or in kind.

But I agree with you that SG gals is the worse. 1 LV bag will cost you so much more than give money to FLs...

[juzplay]

aiya you will get used to it, gals will definately cost.... regardless of which nationality, either in cash or in kind.

But I agree with you that SG gals is the worse. 1 LV bag will cost you so much more than give money to FLs...

One LV bag can book premium gem liao loh...

SG girls u need to sian... takes technique:D

[BscBMD997]

calm down...shit happens

know more other girls imo.

since u r not happy with this one n thinks she exploits u, then dont contact her anymore.

i would go for gals who appreciates u.

GL

[eybh]

learn lesson, unless a girl can be fb or gf, if not dun spend alot on them.. i have frens whose face is so fucking thick that evtime go out, they say they no money and all, and want the rest especially guys to pay.. but guess what, they have new cloth, accessories and even new phone.. so? where does those $$ come from?

[cannon]

They ripped you off before you get your chance to bonk them and only to find that there were many before you and you can kinda guess that they are only being modest about their sexual exploits.

[HeadOn]

well sad to hear ur case.....but then u should count urself lucky tat u only blow 200+ nia...n i recogn tat she sees u cant carrot more tat y dun wan waste time on u..

not all local gals are like tat..just ur bad luck to bump into one.....

if a gal on 1st few dates already expect u to pay for all fine dining n other items, its a sign to dump her straight

[jon2000sg]

men go for sex,
women for for love and money !

[sexfrenzy]

the trick is let her work for her $$.. and if she wun, it's time to look for another.

Sucker fish is rite but not sucking your $$.

[best123]

Why do you think most Singapore men are turning to Viets and PRCs?

[Oralcraz]

Bro KingCheong, understand yr fustration. However, not all SG gals are bad. There are many who are not as bad as you described. No one is perfect. Every person has his/her habit and lifestyle. Is just that this one do not suit you or I would say maybe you do not suit her.
In boy/girl relationship/courtship or even FBs, there are different levels of "play". Some are on "higher and more sophisticated" level while some are on the more "simple" level. What level would you like to be involved?

[safesexfunsex]

Sad to hear your bad experience. I'm sure there are good SG gals around just that you have to look for them at the right places. The sad truth is that good gals generally don't look that good. Haizz... Looks like we can't have the best of both worlds.

[jana]

Yeah man there are better ones dun kill them all wait you lonely ah. Always have a rule if first time go out pay no pro, if never even offer to pay then something is wrong second time still never offer to pay for her share, dun ask her out again. i am sure as a guy sure can sense whether the gal like you or not, just trying to rip you off one then scare them off by asking them want to go to your house or not.

[kwaychup]

i would say it's a small amount liao.
anyway you said you don't mind paying for food.
but i think she may have found a bigger sucker fish out there liao thus she nv reply your call

as 1 of the bro said, you did not sense if she likes you or treat u like a sucker
actually 2-3 dates you should be able to determine what cat she belongs to already.

but also how much older are you? as the saying goes " old cow eat young grass" young gers dun stick to old men for nothing.

but there are still good girls out there to be fished, takes patience and time to find your own gem.

my 2 cents

[jwang15]

I am making it my mission now to NOT respect SG girls anymore, the only good SG girl is when they lie on bed and let you fuck for free !!![/QUOTE]


well bro , sorry to say , i think u are kind of silly to do according to wat she says ..
& not all sg gals are like tat ......
maybe u jus happen to get a lousy 1 ....
wish u better luck next time

[KingCheong]

Heres a question for u guys, how do u ask a girl to pay if ur going on a date with her??
I ever experience once i met this girl online, we went for dinner and when the bill came, naturally as gentleman I offer to pay 1st.
how do u ask her to pay her share? at least this one got offer to pay me back, but i just told her 'next time your treat'.
any advice from the lao jiaos here??

[HeadOn]

u do not ask a gal to pay!!.it makes u look v bad...even if u got chance w her also end up no chance liao....wanna get a gal, u have to 'invest'..there's no easy way out..but if u wanna limit ur investment, u can choose cheaper places (not hawker centre or food court)....

aft couple of dates, if she not those carrot kind, she will offer to pay for subsquent meals..u then accept it...

[Criminalz]

bro. cannot say i expert but tried and tested method.

do not be desperate. must show her that you are the man and you will only meet her on your own schedule.

Sometimes, i will arrange meeting, then cancel the nite before, say busy or shit like that. play the game. then first time meet, say can only meet for coffee after that got work. like that can test out the girl and see if can carry on.

if you even decide not to pay for coffee then i got nothing to say liao.

2nd meeting, meet later, after dinner. Bluff say have dinner meeting, meet her after that. then meet for drinks and in pub settings, sit close and sometimes whisper to ear and 1 or 2 times, when whispering, touch her ears...bound to send shivers all over her body. Follow up with the normal soft touch to test water. and the rest play according to ear.

good luck.

[CherryBoy]

Where do u get know her? If from internet,then you ought to be careful because alot conwomen around. So far i find sg girls not that bad.

[kwaychup]

Heres a question for u guys, how do u ask a girl to pay if ur going on a date with her??
I ever experience once i met this girl online, we went for dinner and when the bill came, naturally as gentleman I offer to pay 1st.
how do u ask her to pay her share? at least this one got offer to pay me back, but i just told her 'next time your treat'.
any advice from the lao jiaos here??

i won't ask her to pay 1 since it's a date.
hmm just like u lor say next time your treat also.
if she gets paiseh she will pay her share naturally n also a potential "Catch" for u also.
from this you can know if she's treating u as sucker or what liao.
gers that ask me to buy things for them, next time can siam them liao hehe :)

[old_yet_horny]

u do not ask a gal to pay!!.it makes u look v bad...even if u got chance w her also end up no chance liao....wanna get a gal, u have to 'invest'..there's no easy way out..but if u wanna limit ur investment, u can choose cheaper places (not hawker centre or food court)....

aft couple of dates, if she not those carrot kind, she will offer to pay for subsquent meals..u then accept it...

Agree with Bro HeadOn.


I think the amount to invest depends on individual's ability or "affordability"...

If Bros cannot afford Les Amis dun bring the gal there spend that kind of money.. No point. Just spend according to your own budget.. End of the day, your dessert may not be the pussy after all.

For me, if the gal is a player, even if u were to bring her to Kopitiam for some wanton mee and follow by a few beers, she will still open her legs for you... For those gals who are out to "Kar Chai Tao" (Chop Carrot head).. She will not open just by mere dinner or 2 dresses at FE... At least a LV wallet or a Tag Heuer watch or even a Tiffany bracelet...

Just my 2 cents worth..

[Frankiestine]

TS, count yourselves lucky it is only $200++...compare to those horny lau ah pek who got conned out of their hard earned cpf monies in the thousands by prc...

[yang punk]

She dump you probably because you are a cheapskate! $40 for 2 per date... for fine dining? Where did you bring her? KFC?

[Frankiestine]

She dump you probably because you are a cheapskate! $40 for 2 per date... for fine dining? Where did you bring her? KFC?

wah piang bro $40 for KFC for 2...that hell lots of chicken they ate...:p:p:p

[KingCheong]

She dump you probably because you are a cheapskate! $40 for 2 per date... for fine dining? Where did you bring her? KFC?

PLS !!! To her KFC has no standard, and she dont like chicken.
She wants those places that has service staff to bring food to u, got ppl refill water for u kind. My makan with her range from as low as $20 (for normal dinner mind u) to $80, conservatively speaking.
At times i wanted to ask her go food court, but she will say too crowded, food not nice...bla bla.
But i admit, i try too hard to impress her.
One good advice i learned here, never deal with these bitches on their terms.

[pewpew]

I can calculate, in about 5 dates with her, of varying duration, I spent close to $200+ with her, just on food. KNN I could have gotten a budget FL and enjoyed myself with that $$$.

$200 on 5 dates, damn thats cheap and i have yet to find any girl that will help me save so much whenever i goes out with them... Even the stupid movie ticket cost about $10 per ticket...

Bro, i think u should stay at home, like the legendary tradition,
Step 1 : Take money on your left hand (provided you are right handed)
Step 2 : Hold you dick n shake...
Step 3 : Shoot away~~
Step 4 : Put your money back to your pocket...

[KingCheong]

$200 on 5 dates, damn thats cheap and i have yet to find any girl that will help me save so much whenever i goes out with them... Even the stupid movie ticket cost about $10 per ticket...

Bro, i think u should stay at home, like the legendary tradition,
Step 1 : Take money on your left hand (provided you are right handed)
Step 2 : Hold you dick n shake...
Step 3 : Shoot away~~
Step 4 : Put your money back to your pocket...

from the sound of it, r u a victim as well?

[HeadOn]

PLS !!! To her KFC has no standard, and she dont like chicken.
She wants those places that has service staff to bring food to u, got ppl refill water for u kind. My makan with her range from as low as $20 (for normal dinner mind u) to $80, conservatively speaking.
At times i wanted to ask her go food court, but she will say too crowded, food not nice...bla bla.
But i admit, i try too hard to impress her.
One good advice i learned here, never deal with these bitches on their terms.

well tat only shows tat u n her are in diff league in terms of lifestyle, maint, expenditure etc....

she goes for high end but i think u dun....so u both dun match...move on...there're still many gd n low maint local gals ard

[HeadOn]

Agree with Bro HeadOn.


I think the amount to invest depends on individual's ability or "affordability"...

If Bros cannot afford Les Amis dun bring the gal there spend that kind of money.. No point. Just spend according to your own budget.. End of the day, your dessert may not be the pussy after all.

For me, if the gal is a player, even if u were to bring her to Kopitiam for some wanton mee and follow by a few beers, she will still open her legs for you... For those gals who are out to "Kar Chai Tao" (Chop Carrot head).. She will not open just by mere dinner or 2 dresses at FE... At least a LV wallet or a Tag Heuer watch or even a Tiffany bracelet...

Just my 2 cents worth..

indeed...i always believe tat if a gal likes u, being w u is happy liao, any place also can....moreover, if u r her ideal partner, she will even scold u for spending luxury on her...she rather u save up the $ to set up a family w her in future

[huat_ah_888]

Dates cost money. Nothing in this world is free. We have to pay one way or another. If not money, its time. In this case, you lost both. $200 for 5 dates? Thats like DAMN CHEAP!!! However, if your intention is to bonk her free, then treat it as karma. If you really love her, which I think u dont, then treat it as an experience. She wants fine dining, you can only afford mee pok dry. Time to move on.

[andyyy]

Yea, have any guys encountered such bitches before?
I recently met this young girl 'Tricia' and immediately like her alot.
So naturally ask her out for dates which she obliged.
She is 20 yrs old, much younger than me. So on the 1st 2 dates with her, I don't mind to foot the bill.
But on subsequent outings, she always ask me to bring her go fine dining, must have aircon, cannot eat chinese food...etc.
Once she even have the audacity to tell me I have to pay for her food cos she did not bring her wallet. And another time she asked me to pay for 2 dresses at FE Square, which I did not.
And all this occurred in a matter of weeks, best of all, i never even get to touch her hand !!!
Worst part of it was, when we go out, always got some issue happen that make her very distracted. Whether its with work or with her friends, she will spend alot of time SMSing or talk on the phone, sometime she even had to cancel our date halfway.
Now...the ultimate tragedy for me. She totally stopped answering my phone calls, even sms. I have no idea what happened to make her act like this, cos I never even get to kiss this bitch.
I can calculate, in about 5 dates with her, of varying duration, I spent close to $200+ with her, just on food. KNN I could have gotten a budget FL and enjoyed myself with that $$$.
Lucky I never buy her the dress when we were shopping at Far East Plaza.
So I am feeling sipeh du-lan up now, yes guys...im the biggest SUCKER !!! Y are SG gers are like that !!! They are so young yet so exploitative !!!

I am making it my mission now to NOT respect SG girls anymore, the only good SG girl is when they lie on bed and let you fuck for free !!!

I have to be crude to you. It seems that you have yourself to be blamed and welcome to Singapore! Smarter one already look north to seek spouse. Yours are the 1000th story i have read such.

Well $200 is cheap compared to when you married a Singaporean wife with kid then similar thing happened to you. It would be a nightmare by then.

[KingCheong]

Before this gets out of hand, i hope it dosent turn out to be another TS thrashing posting.

Seems like many ppl r accusing me of being a cheapskate tis n tat.
The $$$ is just an illustration of what i sacrificed for her, not once did i ask her to pay me back cos I felt its the gentleman thing to do. yes i like her, so prepared to invest $ in her. Want to bonk her.....seriously, of course the tot came to mind. but u think i so free ask her out week after week, spend $ just to bonk a girl? I can always go find FL, but y i continue to see her then?
besides paying for her food, I have also done quite a few things for her which i did not mention. At times i would send her all the way to her place near woodlands then take cab home myself, incur midnight charge just to make sure shes home safely. And i stay in the far east mind u.

What upset me wasnt the fact that i spent $X on her, true the amount is not big. but in the end, we guys will spend $ on things we feel is deservedly worth it, be it a person or object. and we do so cos we want the other party to know we care, expect nothing in return but just their appreciation if not acknowledgment.

[HCKing]

bro TS, if u want to date a babe, be prepared to spend $$$. this is called investment. dont 4get, a babe has many options when comes to dating leh, she can easily abadon ship when she finds an oil tanker. unless u r the oil tanker there;s no guarantee she will agree to hold yr hands after just a few dates since she might be busy dating different guys of difference status everyday!:o

[kwaychup]

But i admit, i try too hard to impress her.
One good advice i learned here, never deal with these bitches on their terms.

i think maybe you get your small head rule over your big head liao.
and date according to your budget. well should know that if people are gonna rip you off.
maybe should try to impress her with your personalities

also maybe TS bro has some fiancial difficulties so maybe $200 is alot to him.
i think to brand him as cheapskate is abit jialat lah
maybe little to some of us but it does defer to everyone.

maybe jio her go pub drink n relax could be better than dinner dates.

[mystical]

I am making it my mission now to NOT respect SG girls anymore, the only good SG girl is when they lie on bed and let you fuck for free !! !


Com on bro, i so dont agree with wat you said on the fuck for free thing. Imagine if your future wife tells you she let guys fuck for free, would you think she's a good SG girl? Think before you speak, you are discussing about that girl who sucked your money, not ALL the SG girls.

that was very mean. You are stereotyping all the girls in SG. Not all girls are materialistic like that girl you met. In life, we meet people that we rather we dont meet at all, so take it as buying a lesson.

And im just saying this in a girl's point of view. If all Sg girls let guys fuck for free, then u can forget about marrying a wife who's pure. Besides that girl is not the worst case yet, count yourself lucky.

I hope you said these out of anger, and not really stereotype all of the girls here. Its baseless accusation if you are referring to ALL SG GIRLS.

[uncle gg]

play hard and think rationally. what impression are you giving? don't succumb to the girl's requests on that first few dates.

[mystical]

TS, count yourselves lucky it is only $200++...compare to those horny lau ah pek who got conned out of their hard earned cpf monies in the thousands by prc...

I think this is like a good reply dude. TS, so would you rather get cheat all of your hard earn CPF by some prc or 200+ by a sg girl?

Guys like having sex, just like how girls like to be pampered be it by love or monetary way. If you are unwilling to "invest" then like wat you say, you can easily find any other girl to bonk with that 200+ worth of money.

[unsung80]

Nothing is given free especially when it come to woman. Get over her and move on. She's not the least worthy for you to think about. Don't be young and naive like her. :mad:

[jon2000sg]

I am making it my mission now to NOT respect SG girls anymore, the only good SG girl is when they lie on bed and let you fuck for free !!!
Oh? where to get free ones ?

[WhamBamTYM]

Before this gets out of hand, i hope it dosent turn out to be another TS thrashing posting.

Seems like many ppl r accusing me of being a cheapskate tis n tat.
The $$$ is just an illustration of what i sacrificed for her, not once did i ask her to pay me back cos I felt its the gentleman thing to do. yes i like her, so prepared to invest $ in her. Want to bonk her.....seriously, of course the tot came to mind. but u think i so free ask her out week after week, spend $ just to bonk a girl? I can always go find FL, but y i continue to see her then?
besides paying for her food, I have also done quite a few things for her which i did not mention. At times i would send her all the way to her place near woodlands then take cab home myself, incur midnight charge just to make sure shes home safely. And i stay in the far east mind u.

What upset me wasnt the fact that i spent $X on her, true the amount is not big. but in the end, we guys will spend $ on things we feel is deservedly worth it, be it a person or object. and we do so cos we want the other party to know we care, expect nothing in return but just their appreciation if not acknowledgment.

Basically, don't bother playing if you can't afford it. I'm not siding SG girls but not all SG girls are like that...

If sex is all you want, don't bother trying to "invest" some money in the hopes of bedding the girl... You are better off (for yourself, and for SG girls as well) just going to WL/FL and paying them for sex.

I feel for you, bitching cause you spent $200 and gotten nothing in return. You might wanna change your mindset or modus operandi.

And well, saying that you don't respect SG girls just cause of this one incident, and that they are only good if they let you fuck for free, speaks volume of your character. I am not judging you by looks (cause I have no idea how you look like, and I don't care anyway).

Grow up, and I don't mean the age on your ic... Give it some thought.

[longwinter]

bro, it is only $200, considered urself lucky liaos..

there are lots of stories out there, of gals chopping the guys big amounts of cash and goodies... :cool:

but sumhow we guys must also think la...:o

for me, now my mentality is if u like a gal, and sumhow or rather, u feel like u keep on pumping and forking $$$ endlessly...something is very wrong le.. u just go figure what l mean...;)

[cmelater]

TS,

Mai sian. If you sian, I tell you a lot more guys here more sian then u. 200 is really quite ok. You see my bill, you will flip lor. I am not trying to make you look bad.

This gal I dated b4... knnccb.... within like weeks, she can grow balls of solid CAST IRON. :mad: Can ask me to buy her dresses.... which i did. But, it didn't end there... knn can ask for more gifts. Somemore, no status one lor. Take it as a stupid expensive lesson.

It can be v f**king stupid, but there is nothing we can do about it. At the back of mind, I know some SBFers or player will screw such women cos' what goes around comes around.

A lot of sg gals are like that, except for a rare few. If you see a gal trying to fleech you off, there is no right or wrong counter measures. If you entertain her, she think she can do it on other pple. Then, she will sure die cos' she will never be able to garner the trust of her bf or husband. Even if you dun entertain her crap, she still LL cos' Women's Charter never say guys must pay for gals' prezzies and food.

of course, laws are man made.... people can make "mistakes" to amend the charter against the gentlemen's favour. :rolleyes: Welcome to the land dedicated only to the Rich and the Fabulously Rich. Dun be too upset. If really buay song, then think of ways to make money to make the gal think twice about wanting to play with you. You can't get back at them, but you can definitely make them regret not taking you seriously. Life got up and down one. One day, you might be the ah sia kia driving that SL55 screaming down boat quay.... while the gal bz screwing her bf for not having a faster car and more money. Its a very pragmatic world, where nice gals are a species defined by sociologists and SBFers as facing inevitable extinction in due course.

Then, open your mind and see that gals like that make it more worth you time to farm more gold at work. cos' money allows you to play and buy them over. Yes, life is comes with a price tag and companionship can be bought.

[Good Life]

TS,

Mai sian. If you sian, I tell you a lot more guys here more sian then u. 200 is really quite ok. You see my bill, you will flip lor. I am not trying to make you look bad.

This gal I dated b4... knnccb.... within like weeks, she can grow balls of solid CAST IRON. :mad: Can ask me to buy her dresses.... which i did. But, it didn't end there... knn can ask for more gifts. Somemore, no status one lor. Take it as a stupid expensive lesson.

It can be v f**king stupid, but there is nothing we can do about it. At the back of mind, I know some SBFers or player will screw such women cos' what goes around comes around.

Chill guys.. at least they haven't cost you half your assets, a house and alimony yet.

I always ask ladies who request for gifts how they want to earn it.. It kinda works. Some get the drift while others really do work for it....

[Tai_zi21]

Hi TS

Dun worry i'm not here to bash u and say nasty stuffs...

But why not put it in another way,this is more like an investment.... if u think the $200 not worth it,then move on to another target... though i think $200 is not much cos even consider if u go food court to eat,movie and a dinner will cost u ard $80 for 2 person already....

I just think you are trying too hard here... what do u expect to get out of 5 dates over here? free fuck? then i suggest u go find FL better... more worth it

And speaking abt SG gals are suckers? ok can u name mi 1 country gal who is not?

Cheers

[7kaze11]

Well it's a lesson learnt & a cheap good one.
But on second thoughts, dun U think that U are actually the BIGGEST SUCKER here.:)

[dawn_dawn]

I agree with the bros here,not all the SG gal are like this. :)

[akirawatase]

Hi TS,

coaxing/chasing a girl takes both time and money(DEFINITELY). that's the law of nature and it's inevitable. but pls do not sterotype all sg girls out there as there IS STILL HOPE if u want to find a really good and nice girl. obviously time is needed here to do the searching, and after that, wallet will have to follow suit. not all girls are money faced imo.

my past few ex are execptionally well groomed ladies who really want to get into a long term relationship and it is regretable that some do not last.

my current gf is no execption. i do agree that i have spent alot of money on her, but in return, she will always advice me to bring her to less atas places. she believes that the money spent lavishly can be put to better use.

romatic dinner does not necessay comes with a large price tag. there are always alternative(not food court or coffee shop). if you have the time, go pick up some cooking course. it will benefit you in the long run. my gf was very surprised during our first home cooking experience and we both enjoyed it very much. even after my cooking course, i still suck in making dishes but to her, she has mentioned that even if the food is not nice, the intention is there and she finds it romantic.

currently i am working to improve my skills in the kitchen and it has yielded wonderful results. to me, i know i have discovered one of the best method for "dating". a date to the kitchen, preparing our meals with love and enjoying it on the dinning table together. and all these is followed by a nice movie on the cosy sofa. very economical and effective.

total amount spent per kitchen "date":
2 hours in the kitchen, 1 hour on dinning table, 2 hours on cosy sofa watching movie
$15-$30 for the food
$3 for a rented dvd
15mins to clean up the dishes while she goes prepare the bed
PRICELESS!

[Mature]

My single date i lost more than $200. yours 5 date $200. Single date cost about $40. Meaning you eat $20 and she eat $20 ?

Wow lau freaking cheap already hahhaha

[pewpew]

from the sound of it, r u a victim as well?

From the way u speak, i recommand u to go to kindergarden with a lollipop ($1), not be to sour but TS, just wanna ask u, even if u goes out alone to the cheapest place, like taking a cab out > eat alone > buy water = $20 + cab fare to return = $ 30 for just YOU...

Maybe u are young and have no source of income, i suggest you wait till you have sufficient ammo than start the cheong scene....

[barneyksc]

i encounter such stuffs b4 too.. was lucky to get a few bonks b4 i even get dump hahaha... through i spent ard 1k.. just treat it as a lesson or the money to foot for FL ba.. hahaha

[Oralcraz]

From the way u speak, i recommand u to go to kindergarden with a lollipop ($1), not be to sour but TS, just wanna ask u, even if u goes out alone to the cheapest place, like taking a cab out > eat alone > buy water = $20 + cab fare to return = $ 30 for just YOU...

Maybe u are young and have no source of income, i suggest you wait till you have sufficient ammo than start the cheong scene....

Yup, I agree with pewpew. Maybe u have to establish yr financial position before considering a relationship. Courtship sure need investment from us guys. No matter how simple or thrifty the girl can be, you still need to invest. During my dating days, I always foot the bill (most of the time at hawker centre, once a while at cafeteria/steak house). Once a blue moon, my partner do pay for it. As I drive, I always send her home, pick up from work etc whenever I can. Never want her to take public transport. I buy her gifts only on special occasion (valentine's day/birthdays). Once relationship more establish, then both of u can start to have financial planning; like saving for house, marriage etc.
I think this is the basic requirement in courtship. Good luck.

[mayday]

well well, all i can say is that diff gers dig diff sianing methods...bros here have sugg some alternative ones...so now the diff part is to match the rite method to the rite ger..

[Greyface]

TS, when the courtship starts, usually guys will be the 1 footing the bills & stuffs, once a relationship is stable, things will change.

Take for example me, when I wanna buy gifts for my GF during valentine day, she asks me to save it for our future instead.

However not all girls r the same, just observe her for the 1st few dates whether she is suitable for u b4 deciding to date her further.

[Toyota Honda]

There are girls who are black sheeps, but there are also girls who are angelic too..

Bros who have read my previous posts in some thread should know where I am coming from...

In losing a materialistic girl with 'short-sighted'' mentality when I was 'rotting', I found an angel who chose keep me, grow, fertilise and nurture me with attention, care and love. She eventually 'blossomed' me, and yes, I am still blossoming. Like what people says, she is reaping the fruits now...

Not all girls are bad. But in any case, what is it that you are looking for? If for sex only, then its not wrong on the girl's part cos u don't deserve her. But if you are looking for a longterm relationship, then too bad for her, isn't it?

[virginboy19]

Dude, don't worry there are many girls out there that wil appreciate you :) furthurmore she might be thinking "wah rich old man buy me this and that" (no offence bro). But trust me, most SG girls like to act high class.

[Niceman]

Try HK or Shanghainess, you will know Sg gers are actually nothing but small case.

[strikeer]

Personally I think SG gals are alot less friendly and expect much more than other gals around this region. IMO I feel that initially when u first get to know them, they already feel they are very much a class ahead of the other gals.
Maybe due to the fact that they are much more educated than gals in the other region. To really get to them would really take ALOT of time, effort last but not least $$$$.
I have tried my fair share of SG gals and foreign talents. I would hate to admit it but Sg gals after spending so much on them really is not worth the investment. They provide the worst service on bed:mad:
But most importantly their lack of care, concern and commitment for you will never be better than any others.
Nowadays SG gals are way too classy and expect too much from us guys. They want this want that complain this complain that. Worse when u get married. SG gals might suit the wealthy sg guys. normal guys like mi i think should outsource.

[mystical]

and TS, for ur info, not only girls suck guys money dry. Some guys here in SG suck girls money dry too. Myself i've come across more than 10, so are girls suppose to stay single forever and nt fall in love again?

im so glad that so many of bros here dont think like you. if all sg girls let u fuck for free, u wan some free STDs?

[ekemono]

I am making it my mission now to NOT respect SG girls anymore, the only good SG girl is when they lie on bed and let you fuck for free !!!

for free??
Nothing is for free.

It was quite obvious the gal took you for a ride.
Every nationality will have the same kind of good gals and bitches.
So relax bro.., learn your mistakes from here, and learn to recognise their interest level in you before commiting further dates in future.

Cheers

[jon2000sg]

Heres a question for u guys, how do u ask a girl to pay if ur going on a date with her??
I ever experience once i met this girl online, we went for dinner and when the bill came, naturally as gentleman I offer to pay 1st.
how do u ask her to pay her share? at least this one got offer to pay me back, but i just told her 'next time your treat'.
any advice from the lao jiaos here??I'm going out with two women older than me about 4 years.

both are divorced, Cat is with 2 kids and Tam no kids but doing well in job.
I only treat Cat as a friend, on and off we see each other, she never pays the bill but only once or twice.
And the more I dun mind the more she takes advanatge of me. After a while, I stopped seeing her.

Whereas Tam, for the first date she offered to pay but of course I pay becos my intention is to woo her.
Yesterday she bought me dinner at an expensive restaurant. I wanted to pay but she insisted.
Wow! someone and a pretty woman buys my dinner !!! Hooraay ! :p


if you asked a woman out, if she dun pay for the 3rd to 4th time, then
she is expecting you to pay all the time
and if you can't bed her, then better say goodbye !


I have no intention to bed Cat, that's why I bye bye !

[jon2000sg]

One LV bag can book premium gem liao loh...

SG girls u need to sian... takes technique:D

any advice on technique ?

'sian' means bull-shitting ?

[jon2000sg]

bro. cannot say i expert but tried and tested method.

do not be desperate. must show her that you are the man and you will only meet her on your own schedule.

Sometimes, i will arrange meeting, then cancel the nite before, say busy or shit like that. play the game. then first time meet, say can only meet for coffee after that got work. like that can test out the girl and see if can carry on.

if you even decide not to pay for coffee then i got nothing to say liao.

2nd meeting, meet later, after dinner. Bluff say have dinner meeting, meet her after that. then meet for drinks and in pub settings, sit close and sometimes whisper to ear and 1 or 2 times, when whispering, touch her ears...bound to send shivers all over her body. Follow up with the normal soft touch to test water. and the rest play according to ear.

good luck.bro, you power !

[Bangster]

why go after SYTs and then get yourself all sussed up?

MILF! MILF! MILF! MILF! MILF! MILF!

[benny323]

hahaha... reading this reminds me of last year when i got to know one married MILF. I was going to go overseas with my family and this bitch actually ask me to buy back one 2K LV bag..... hahaha.... siao ahhh!!!
Best part is we only pet and i hv not even up her....

After my trip back, i avoid her.... hahaha...crazy MILF

[Bangster]

You must have gone to Europe is it?

aiyah ask any of your friends who're going to Shanghai to get one on your behalf lor.

Grade AAA leh....super macam real sia!

[tryying]

Not just SG girls are like that.

I would like to put this way. Girls staying in Sg become like that.

China, malaysia, viet or whatever fuck country they from, when they reach here, pure innocent. Once they fished a rich guy, they changed. Love to them is nothing, main thing is $$$. No $ in Sg = suffering, who likes to suffer?

For a guy like me, how i hope kenna a rich milf to support me, haha! Me not handsome and fat, got rich milf, i fucking happy, haha!

Relax la, $ is the evil thing. Just follow your heart on the girl you like, you might find one good one in the end. ;)

[izerkudie]

sg girls maintainence too high nowadays..

sg girl : you love me?
sg guy: yes...
sg girl : WAH that dress very nice lo..can buy?
sg guy : can...

on bed**

sg girl : you love me??
sg guy : yes..badly.. "love you till your leg open big big" ..

[Johnston]

this kind of behaviour aint new, aint old, and will continue as long as girls have what guys want and guys will want it at all cost :)

it was worse back in the IRC days. this is what im remember.

girl: 15/f, chn, looking for bf
(then the normal intro?, talk cocks and get your number things)
me: yeah let me call you and chat .. hmm?
at this point i have already know the following detail which at that age is all i need to know

a: girl
b: not pretty, avg looking
c: single and in the market :p

Talk cock for some more minutes... then sudden say
" if you buy me a 8250 i will be your stead"

I of course shock very high as in this time, 8250 is bloody expensive and that she can be so ballsy to ask for such before anything.
Then i confirmed that all she want is the phone, and no phone, no meet.

Which sucks ass so i ignore /on and go back to fishing.

So your def not the first to experience these things ;)

[pewpew]

Wow! someone and a pretty woman buys my dinner !!! Hooraay ! :p

Damn lucky bro... JEALOUS!!! :D

[qwertyuiop]

bro. cannot say i expert but tried and tested method.

must show her that you are the man and you will only meet her on your own schedule.

play the game. then first time meet, say can only meet for coffee

Agree with bro Criminalz suggestion which is more practical for us guys. Make sure u r the man, women whom are suckers will take u for granted during initial stage and rip u off if u really do met one. The way is to make sure they don't rip u off so easily.

And for women whom doesn't even bother about u, can bochup u and cancel meetings with u halfway, don't waste ur time with them anymore, just move on to the next else u'll be very troubled with them.


if you even decide not to pay for coffee then i got nothing to say liao.

Hahaha, I agree with this, coffee also must go dutch then I also have nothing to say liao X 2.


2nd meeting, meet later, after dinner.....
then meet for drinks and in pub settings......
follow up with the normal soft touch to test water....

Above is really good advice I should say for bro KingCheong, yes, u need to test water to find out if the girl is really interested in u instead of keep asking the girl out and will become carrothead for them.

A good way to reject fine dining is to tell her u ain't that hungry, wanna have something light. I know most girls 20+ years old mostly if they treat u as a friend, they won't mind going to fast food restaurant they will also be happy if they have a certain liking for u. Not necessary need to be fine dining. If u tell the girl u not hungry wanna go fast food etc and she gives a sour face, u jolly well know where this r/s is going towards then.

Good luck. (Worth $0.02 piece of info from me)

[qwertyuiop]

sg girls maintainence too high nowadays..

sg girl : you love me?
sg guy: yes...
sg girl : WAH that dress very nice lo..can buy?
sg guy : can...

on bed**

sg girl : you love me??
sg guy : yes..badly.. "love you till your leg open big big" ..

This can change if the girl loves u.... Hahaha... sorry for hijacking...

girl : you love me?
guy: yes...
girl : WAH that dress very nice lo..can buy?
guy: can buy, next time buy for u ok?
(girl gives a sulking face)
guy: *sayang gf* dun be sad ok? this dress so-so only la, I wanna earn more $ so can buy u better dress than this ma.. next time buy for u ok? *sayang gf again*

[qwertyuiop]

For me, if the gal is a player, even if u were to bring her to Kopitiam for some wanton mee and follow by a few beers, she will still open her legs for you... For those gals who are out to "Kar Chai Tao" (Chop Carrot head).. She will not open just by mere dinner or 2 dresses at FE... At least a LV wallet or a Tag Heuer watch or even a Tiffany bracelet...

Agree with old_yet_horny on the above, but bear in mind some girls even though LV wallet or Tag Heuer also won't open their legs for u.

But i admit, i try too hard to impress her.
One good advice i learned here, never deal with these bitches on their terms.

Bro KingCheong,

I agree that u tried too hard to impress her therefore she can feel it and kar u for sure and u're right never to agree with bitches on their terms. Cheapskate should not be the right word to be used on u I would say but $200 spent is a lesson learnt.

But one thing I have to say, not all sg girls are like the one you've met. Probably when you get to meet more, u won't feel that all sg girls are that bad. Just some minority which will behave like bitches. That's them.

Good luck to you. :cool:

[tigershark75]

Bro,

You mention that she is 20 and you are much older so I asume that you are in late 20s and is working. Come on, what is SGD200? Diffference grade, difference price to pay. You mention that she is a babe, meaning high market value... Do you think spending SGD200 can impress her when that are lot of competitors around you? You don't expect to get a Bremer with a budget of Chery QQ, do you?...

You mention she like fine dining. FYI, fine dinning in a resturant inside any 5 stars hotel for 2 can easily chunck a bill of at least SGD500... SGD40 per date, movie tickets already cost you SGD20, follow by transport (I assume you take public transport so SGD5), left you with SGD15. Not even enough for a meal for 2 in Pizza Hut or Carls Jr. If the gal is really of high market value, you should be glad that you are granted 5 chances before she disqualify you.

Regards,

[AngelEye]

wah piang bro $40 for KFC for 2...that hell lots of chicken they ate...:p:p:pcost of "chicken" gone up ma. but size of "meat" shrinks

[AngelEye]

i'm not too difficult to keep.... kekekeke... bro frankiestine can testify for me. hahahahahahaha

[Toyota Honda]

Frankly, whats the root cause of these more babes having high expectations of guys?

One of the reason is cos of those rich (or acting rich) guys who spoils the market by showering them with all the good stuffs to get to their heart and ultimately panties. During our parents generation, where got like that?. Go on dates share 1 stick of fishballs already full liao...

The other I can think of is the pride they have when they compare with their peers And that they feel they shouldn't lose out to their peers in terms of looking for the 'ideal' partner. So if they have a better catch, they will go for it. Some will even date afew guys concurrently and observe how they treat her. And eventually choose the most 'ideal' one. And the 'ideal' one is usually the one with the flashiest car, biggest wallet, most atas and most yandao...

[rawcommando]

jus to share my 2cts... woman will assess a man everytime and anytime. ultimately, she tries to categorise, Marriage Material, or Romance Material. The impt pt here is, if she sees you as MARRIAGE MATERIAL, unlikely shes gonna make it easy to bed her. however if she sees you as ROMANcE MATERIAL, it is easier to engage her on a non-commital basis. the best part is, a man can be ROMANCE material yet develop to MARRIAGE MATERIAL. but highly unlikely for the 1st scenario.

this jus a game. as players, we gotta choose the correct league. SAFFC doesnt play in EPL against MAn U or in ISA against AC MILAN. if he does, u know what the score would be. MAn U would probably field a team of reserves anyway.

to TS, i find you fortunate. after reading so much, that babe aint to blame... and judging from only $200 spent and less than 5 dates. knowing that you fancy her, she can easily chop more off you. she already give chance la... maybe coz shes only 20... not ruthless enough.

when matters of the heart involved, theres no right or wrong,...jus willing or unwilling. im sure she din force you, you were probably trying too hard to impress. TS learn from this and bring his game to greater heights. but choose the correct league next time.

cheers

[rawcommando]

theres nothing wrong with sg girls (or woman for the matter) wanting the man with the flashiest car, fattest wallet, most yandao. we guys all want the best too. big boobs, model figure, angelic face, nice personality, kind and virtuous, great in kitchen, complete whore in bed. faithful even when facing tough times. given a choice between a ugly and fat woman vs a chio and slim attractive woman, 99% of all guys may choose the latter.

our minds/brains thru our yrs of modern westernised education has already programmed us to be like this. this is society. there are womans mag, so are Mans MAg like FHm etc. playboy if u name the extremes. this is our perception.

reality is that theres a peak potential and peak achievements. all these cum with experience. and experience brings us closer to reality, alters our perception. wat we can achieve, wat kind of woman we will have.

eventually, ppl managed their expectations and some fortunate 1s do get married. this holds true for man and woman. others who still striving for something beyond their reach end up in some forums complaining that their "investment" yield negative returns.

sg girls are the same,... they understand they have a shelf life. beyond this shelf life, they are pretty much worthless.in the process, they lower their expectations. few good 1s evolutionise and managed to live w/o man. there are many man who after a few failed rships prefer to remain single too.

the key pt here is simply to play within our own league. if the typical sg girl is too material hungry for you, perhaps you'd like to downgrade to a less attractive 1. no pt owning a mercs if you only make $5k a month. sometimes i see my friends making only $2k a month owning a car... i find these ppl worst than SG girls, dun you guys agree?

[skingmoo]

i would consider 5 outings for 200 bucks rather affordable. it can't be fine dining because a meal at that kind of restaurant can set you back more than 150 bucks. if the girl's pretty and you enjoy the company and you feel happy being with her, i would consider the 40 bucks a bargain!

[tigershark75]

jus to share my 2cts... woman will assess a man everytime and anytime. ultimately, she tries to categorise, Marriage Material, or Romance Material. The impt pt here is, if she sees you as MARRIAGE MATERIAL, unlikely shes gonna make it easy to bed her. however if she sees you as ROMANcE MATERIAL, it is easier to engage her on a non-commital basis. the best part is, a man can be ROMANCE material yet develop to MARRIAGE MATERIAL. but highly unlikely for the 1st scenario.

this jus a game. as players, we gotta choose the correct league. SAFFC doesnt play in EPL against MAn U or in ISA against AC MILAN. if he does, u know what the score would be. MAn U would probably field a team of reserves anyway.

to TS, i find you fortunate. after reading so much, that babe aint to blame... and judging from only $200 spent and less than 5 dates. knowing that you fancy her, she can easily chop more off you. she already give chance la... maybe coz shes only 20... not ruthless enough.

when matters of the heart involved, theres no right or wrong,...jus willing or unwilling. im sure she din force you, you were probably trying too hard to impress. TS learn from this and bring his game to greater heights. but choose the correct league next time.

cheers


The babe did tried to get TS to buy some dress in Far East, (Lucky for TS as they didn't go to Paragon) but TS decline, I assume that when the down fall start:D

[asdfghjkl]

maybe now recession, so they trying to save for rainy days by increasing their NAV.

[massageshiok]

You know who is spoiling the market??

Those unreal romantic Idol Dramas ! (whether be Taiwan, Korean and Japs)

They are the one who portray guys should be the ones giving the girls everything...

I got a few gf liao...all kena influenced by those drama shows, saying I should be these and that like those inside the movie...

[Satan 666]

Singapore is a country of bitches, filthy whores, & men & women who exploit cheap labor from poorer people.

Go to USA or Europe or Australasia. Women there ask you straight. Wanna cummm cummm, fuck or wanna find someone else.

Out there, go out on a date, get straight to bed, fuck till noon, meet her or meet someone else again. Have a roost.

But in SG, women are cheap shitted. bare-chested. wear cheap jewellery.

And on top of all that, for their fixed furniture faces, expect you to pay.

WTF.

I have more respect for FLs than for Urban educated, sophisticated mother fuckign bitches

Satan

[Toyota Honda]

Singapore is a country of bitches, filthy whores, & men & women who exploit cheap labor from poorer people.

Go to USA or Europe or Australasia. Women there ask you straight. Wanna cummm cummm, fuck or wanna find someone else.

Out there, go out on a date, get straight to bed, fuck till noon, meet her or meet someone else again. Have a roost.

But in SG, women are cheap shitted. bare-chested. wear cheap jewellery.

Satan

Wait, are you Singaporean?

If so, y are you still here? Go on your sex immigration..

If not, WHY are you still here? Go back to your sex country..

You don't seem to be complimenting the ladies from US, Aust, Euro. U make them sound like sluts.. Please learn to respect ladies in Spore, US, Europe, Aust or whatever.

[massageshiok]

Wait, are you Singaporean?

If so, y are you still here? Go on your sex immigration..

If not, WHY are you still here? Go back to your sex country..

You don't seem to be complimenting the ladies from US, Aust, Euro. U make them sound like sluts.. Please learn to respect ladies in Spore, US, Europe, Aust or whatever.

LOL...look at the bro name you will know that he is fill with hatred liao...

Haiz..maybe one of our local girls did something bad to him

Bro Satan try to learn to forgive and forget...all these negative energy not worth it la...career,family,friends are the most important thing in our life...use our positive energy on them

[strikeking73]

If you are bad, dun said ger are bad. What you looking for every guy know. Singapore ger are not as stupid as You!!! They know wat you are thinking. Dun complaint if you cant 'fish' them. Dun have BIG $$ dun pay the bill. Dun want to loose face dun touch them.

[Satan 666]

Oye you morons, I hope you can 'READ'. Check out the links below. That's what your country really is

Are employers in Singapore racist? (http://tomorrow.sg/archives/2008/11/21/are_employers_in_singapore_racis.html)

Singapore racism (http://www.littlespeck.com/content/people/CTrendsPeople-051003.htm)




SATAN

[Satan 666]

strikeking73: Are you saying for an Urban, sophisticated, educated girl to sleep with you, you need to pay?

Well then, thats the problem with you dickhead. You think this is the norm. This ain't the norm, you fool.

This is the norm of your country, not mine. Here, urban women act worse than prostitutes.

Frankly, i enjoy PRC FL more than any local singaporean female shit-chick

SATAN

[mystical]

strikeking73: Are you saying for an Urban, sophisticated, educated girl to sleep with you, you need to pay?

Well then, thats the problem with you dickhead. You think this is the norm. This ain't the norm, you fool.

This is the norm of your country, not mine. Here, urban women act worse than prostitutes.

Frankly, i enjoy PRC FL more than any local singaporean female shit-chick

SATAN



Shut the fuck up and go to hell. Stop insulting us girls from singapore. Not all are bad. you are at the wrong place, you'd probably wanna go back to wherever ure from and fuck freely and get some stds. Bullshit. And make sure u don fuck any local girls in future, if you do, i hope ur dick rot.

[Satan 666]

Mystical:

Truth hurts does it not darling :D

I Hope I can offer you more doses of hard truth in future

SATAN

[mystical]

Mystical:

Truth hurts does it not darling :D

I Hope I can offer you more doses of hard truth in future

SATAN

It doesnt hurt, it makes me feel disgusted with what u've commented.

And oh, an imbecile probably wont find anything wrong with what they commented themselves. I pity you.

:)

[Satan 666]

mystical: In case you did not know, I will remind you :

Every living human has the right to give their opinions.

Now I wouldn't expect you to know that, would I.

Ruled by communists, and dictators - what would you pathetic creature know about Freedom :D

I suggest you watch some American movies or buy a better dildo to feel free n say what you feel is right

STOP controlling everything AND Lying everything to make yourself look good

Nobody is perfect. NOBODY. If you act too perfect, too logical - screw my ass lady :D

SATAN

[chrysler]

Quite funny all these posts. But I find rawcommando's post to echo my thoughts. I'm a guy, grew up in Singapore for most of my life, but actually am quite surprised by the posts on these forums.

Every now and then, someone will post about Singaporean women being materialistic and how foreigners are better... Satan 666's comments are very run of the mill and appear again again from various Singaporean males in every Singaporean forum.

Alot of the deep-set resentment comes from their lack of success with the local ladies. In all honesty, its easier for a Singaporean of modest means to impress a woman from one of our poorer neighbors with a few dollars spent strategically. Its a different matter for the same person to hold an engaging conversation with someone from a different educational/social background. Girls naturally tend to be attracted to educated, good-looking, well-off gents just as guys go for physically attractive ladies. Most of us are hard-wired this way. In fact, why do those PRC ladies give such a good time to Singaporean males? Cause they probably come from better social-economic background from their male peers...

Having had a fun time with ladies from Singapore, Korea, China and the US, all I can say is that while all ladies are unique, different social environments do foster different expectations.

I once had an interesting chat with a PRC. Whilst taking her out to dinner, she mentioned that the public toilets in a certain department store were very clean. She spend 3-4 minutes raving about it. I thought it was strange to go goo-gah about toilets, but in the end, talking to her over lunch, I realized she came from a background where she was aspiring to own a modern house and a white tiled washroom was indicative of a change of status. While silly to some, that had a huge impression on me of what different backgrounds we came from and I loved talking to her and learning more of her way of looking at things.

On a separate occasion, with a different girl in the states, we did the typical manhattan date, a broadway play, followed by dinner at a french restaurant where we dined on the taster's menu with matched wines, and after dinner drinks at a club. Throughout, the topics ranged anything from Puccini's Madame Butterfly to her work on convert arbitrage which had been greatly reduced by the short selling-restrictions...

Both dates were incredible, eye-opening. I didn't complain that in one date, I blasted through a grand and a half, nor did I revel in the fact I spent a couple of hundred only on the other date which was incidentally a paid encounter. I don't rate my women by how much I spend on them. I have just as much fun blowing a wad on a date as going for a cheap quiet picnic lunch that can be packed from what I have in my fridge. I don't care if she sells her body for a living or if she's an angel who does charity work every weekend. While I'm with them, they are a gift of company to me and if you appreciate them, most will reciprocate.

Satan, not all ladies are alike. Yes there are a few gold-diggers, but then not all guys are nice either. You just come across as childish when you make sweeping statements like that.

[Lsy84]

I kinda agree with what the thread-starter wrote. Indeed, most sg women (esp the young ones) are so money-faced and too 现实 liao...

I once dated a girl who was 4 yrs younger than me, at first she didn't she show any sign of being a sucker fish, after a few dates, her true colors started to show up...


sometimes, when we walk past a shop selling branded items she will ask me dear, can u help me to buy this or that? At first, i managed to get her one item that she fancy lah for our anniversary, then last straw happened when we were shopping one day, we happened to walk past a shop selling LV handbags, she asked me dear, can u get that LV bag for me please? I told her may times that i have no money to get her that bag. She demanded that i get her that bag, or else she will breakup with me.

Then I brought her to a shop that sells paper money and joss-sticks, i told her to go and see whether that shop got sell that LV handbag she was looking for, if the shop got sell it, i buy it for her and burn it for her...
immediately, she left without saying anything...really buay tahan such pple...

To me, i feel that, older gers are more understanding and caring...now am currently seeing a girl who is 2 yrs older than me...she's totally different lor...

[Satan 666]

chrysler: And you come across as a nagging old hag

:D

[Satan 666]

TS: Cheers for being Honest & Saying Truth in front of all.

Even though they will throw stones at us, discredit us.

You did the right thing. Say the truth. Even if we have to fight for it, we won't bury the truth

-----
SG girls want only your $:mad:

[chrysler]

chrysler: And you come across as a nagging old hag

:D

That's actually quite a good one. :)
I was laughing pretty hard at that one. Yeah, sometimes suffer from verbal diarrhea. But hey just my 2 cents. Everyone has our opinion. U yours, me mine.

[Raymond Lim]

Wah, me worse than you, me buy 1 LV Wallet cost $1,000 to an SG lady whom she works as Relationship Manager in an local bank, some more promise to come for our date but never come and give many excuse. Some more i foot all the bills for dinners and shoppings and didn't manage to hold her hands and kiss her.

[chrysler]

Wah, me worse than you, me buy 1 LV Wallet cost $1,000 to an SG lady whom she works as Relationship Manager in an local bank, some more promise to come for our date but never come and give many excuse. Some more i foot all the bills for dinners and shoppings and didn't manage to hold her hands and kiss her.

If you wanted to have guaranteed sex for gifts, why not go look for a sure thing. Women not in the pay for play game don't really work that way...

[owenfang]

faster fuck and piak her

[mystical]

mystical: In case you did not know, I will remind you :

Every living human has the right to give their opinions.

Now I wouldn't expect you to know that, would I.

Ruled by communists, and dictators - what would you pathetic creature know about Freedom :D

I suggest you watch some American movies or buy a better dildo to feel free n say what you feel is right

STOP controlling everything AND Lying everything to make yourself look good

Nobody is perfect. NOBODY. If you act too perfect, too logical - screw my ass lady :D

SATAN


Ure a walking contradiction. Yes nobody is perfect, just like any other girls from all over the world. So stop ur insult on SG girls. If you still don quite get what i meant, fine.

You can go on with ur freedom of speech, and you'll probably hit the headlines one fine day..

Oh, ure always online right here, dont u need to screw some girls? or you do guys? Hmm..

[tomvoyeur]

I read some of the posts and do agree with some bros that the standard deviation within women is too great for us to comprehend. It is not good to generalize but personally I do not like the SG mindset. As a rule of thumb, try finding out what the woman wants from the relationship from the 1st date. If its money and its something you do not want the relationship to predicate on, then you need to move on.

The relationship scene in SG is a free market oriented one. If you think SG women are overly zealous with the dollar then its prob because there is a market out there that is ready to pay the price for their love. If not, then the SG female population will, sooner rather than later, wise up that this will lead them nowhere. Hence, if we need to lessen the dollar effect, we also need to so after the segment of the male population that is willing to pay the price. Time to be introspective too, guys....;)

[Satan 666]

mystical:

whom i screw is none of your business :)

Why are you interested in that in any case :D

[jon2000sg]

Wah, me worse than you, me buy 1 LV Wallet cost $1,000 to an SG lady whom she works as Relationship Manager in an local bank, some more promise to come for our date but never come and give many excuse. Some more i foot all the bills for dinners and shoppings and didn't manage to hold her hands and kiss her.oh dear? I thought only PRC MMs do such shopping idiot tricks ?

SG women also do such tricks? aiyah? women deserved to be played out when they got married.
no wonder married men still play the field even when they are married !!! ???

honestly I wun spend $1k w/o bedding the girl.


recently I'm going out with one lady whom I loved very much;
on the first date she was willing to pay the bills but I insisted that
I shall pay. Following that she return my treat on the next dinner date
and we did exchange gifts for Valentine's day.

on and off I still pay for lunch and dinner, and only last week she bought me
dinner on my birthday at a very expensive steakhouse.
I'm glad to have her as a dinning date, yet to bed her though.

the above is an example of good SG woman.


I went out with another (ex-colleague /divorcee),
most of the time we just meet for cafe which normally I pay;
the intention of the date is just for chat, no intention to bed her.

for the last 2-3 months, we see each other
frequently and she no paiseh to go restaurant
and order many items, the bills go up to about
$100. this happened for about 3 times and I started
to feel the pinch.

so for this month, I asked her to buy me birthday dinner
she 'siam' ??? no reply sms, call and email ??? i just ask
for a treat regardless of price, be it hawker, fast food or
cafe house - she disappeared ???

this is an example of bad nasty Singapore woman. actually
I knew of her ugly side long ago from her behaviour.

[Orgasmic]

Wah, me worse than you, me buy 1 LV Wallet cost $1,000 to an SG lady whom she works as Relationship Manager in an local bank, some more promise to come for our date but never come and give many excuse. Some more i foot all the bills for dinners and shoppings and didn't manage to hold her hands and kiss her.

I could have fucked at least another 500 singapore young gals if i buy whatever they ask me to buy and i listen to whatever they say.

usually when money comes into the picture before the r/s or during the relationship and that i find that too greedy for money, usually i fuck and go.

[Frankiestine]

Oye you morons, I hope you can 'READ'. Check out the links below. That's what your country really is

Are employers in Singapore racist? (http://tomorrow.sg/archives/2008/11/21/are_employers_in_singapore_racis.html)

Singapore racism (http://www.littlespeck.com/content/people/CTrendsPeople-051003.htm)

SATAN

Hullo all these old news lah, now it is Singaporeans who are been marginalized...for worthless foreign trash...:mad::mad:

[Oralcraz]

TS: Cheers for being Honest & Saying Truth in front of all.
Even though they will throw stones at us, discredit us.
You did the right thing. Say the truth. Even if we have to fight for it, we won't bury the truth
-----
SG girls want only your $:mad:

In every society, there are good and not so good people around. I used to travel and I can tell you discrimination do exist everywhere. If we are open minded and wise, we should not discriminate a specific society. Rather, we should try to understand them.
Date the right type of lady within our means and we should be fine. I was not rich when young. I came to know a very rich only child girl living in Bukit Timah bungalow. She has NO AIR at all. Extremely friendly at that tender age of 17-18 years then, and she is average look. Yes, infatuation set in but I told myself, too bad. I am not suitable for her. Wish her the best from my heart and we stop contact after a while. However, inspite of me being poor and not handsome, I still manage to date two wonderful girls before I married the third.
So, even if TS's gf is materialistic, is not her fault. Is not wrong to be materialistic or wanting something better in life? The truth is TS is on a different league. In every league, there are good players. Identify and be realistic to ourselves. Then we should be fine.

[izerkudie]

• Emotional investment: Women are reluctant to allow themselves
to become emotionally vulnerable around men of dubious
intent or low. A woman knows that once she
gets emotional, it becomes much more difficult to extract herself
from the situation.
• Physical investment: Kissing is a bigger investment than walking
arm in arm. Sex is a bigger investment than kissing,
• Time: The more time you spend together, the more invested

bros, invest only, to let the girl to invest even more than you :D

[solar_sky]

2 person dinner maybe $50 liao... movie for 2 is $20
get some tibits, lim some kopi, pak some game/aracde $ 20 to 30

easily $100 1 night... excluding going home by cab or what...

[jon2000sg]

Sammyboy Forum now becomes Sammyboy School of Relationships ???

[armpitfetish]

Don't need to think too highly of most SG women. Many don't have mind of their own.

[jon2000sg]

Don't need to think too highly of most SG women. Many don't have mind of their own.oh really? pls elaborate to share your views on Singapore woman.

but normally pretty and beautiful women learned fast after being dumped by many men.
any comments bros ?

[randyboy73]

Yo TS, Guess you got more advice than you bargained for.

It is pointless trying to rationalize and stereotype the behaviours of people from different countries. Many pple in SG bash PRC mei meis for being materialistic, but I know of many sweethearts who are truly nice gals. Likewise, TS and some bros here criticise SG gals for being money minded and present lynching people, yet I know of some who give out more affection and are gracious beyond reason.

TS, we meet all sorts of people in our daily life. If someone attracts you, by all means go after her. If she turns out to be taking you for a ride, then just accept it and move on. Like one of our bros said, you dont have to take her out to a swanky restaurant on a first date, but simply meet her for a movie or for a nice drink in a nearby pub. At the end of the day, stereotyping personalities due to a negative incident may just cause you to miss out on that special someone.

If all you want is to have a good lay, then go for the FLs. Afterall, you've got FLs and WLs and more importantly the FRs of your fellow bros. Even then, the common saying one man's meat is another man's poison. So you wil still need to pay to find out if the gal is truly a good bonk... see the similarities? You never live life to the fullest if you never try to live it.

RB73

[MrZQ]

I wount be a carrot & pay for gals i meet online unless she is super chio just like 1 of my ex gf whom i met online also.

Recently(3mths back), got to know an online gal(not really pretty but slim & fuckable), meet up with her, i told her how broke i m, help my elder brother pay debt, even sold away my car, cant treat her to restaurant or spend $ on her, even 1st meeting i never spend anything on her.

While walking to some places, she suddenly hold my hand & say she like me etc. I told her if you wanna be with me, dont expect me to pay for her expenses. She agreed & we went some ulu places where she so eager, suddenly frenching me & stroking me. After that she did a bj for me.

For the next 2 mths, she keeping asking me out. She treat me movies, dinner & i even suggest we go hotel & she pay for it. I told her if im not in debt now, i will surely pay for everything & she agreed to pay for it.

Basically free sex, free food, movies etc but only recently when i sms her, she nv reply me anymore, dont know..Anywhere maybe my free trial is up..haha

Maybe she found other targets, or she no more $ to pay for me & found some carrot guy to pay for her.

If a gal try to chop me as a carrot, i will straight away ignore her after the meeting unless she is chio.

[Tension68]

Agree with bro RB73 on the diff ppl diff thinking.. n also the diff nids betta find diff gals.. also agree wif Bro ZQ... if gal wan to chop u.. if u can.. dun ever let them chop.. if bo pian..(in front of others u wan face) den only let it happen ONCE.

And my own 2 cents on SG gals.. my own experience is wif some slightly abve avg gals.. and 1/2 of them likes to be pampered.. cos they noe their looks can get attention from the opposite sex. But.. interestingly is.. not all r materialistic. I beileve it all depends on their upbringing, life experiences and also what their expectations of the guy n their future is.

Some gals from not so good families want alot of money.. similarily some wif same background only want to be better off.. but not very very rich. better off in the sense that they can haf a roof over their heads and food to eat n not starve, n clothes to wear.. seriously.. I did meet 1 or 2 gals wif above avg looks who think money is not everything.

However, I must admit... alot of gals who haf really really good looks.. r looking for the easy life.. they wan RICH men to pamper them.. they WAN cars.. Condos.. etc etc. Why? cos they believe they can use their looks to get these things.. n some who r more greedy.. will use their bodies... look around.. do u see a lot of beautiful gals wif handsome dashing men? I only see alot of beautiful women wif RICH men... Famous men.. even politicians get pretti gals too.

so TS.. it's a BIG world out there.. y just look at SG only?

[randyboy73]

Ai Say Bro Tension. Ready steady bom bibi. Totally agree with your comments.

A thought just came in. If you want to drive ferrari, you cannot pump unleaded 92, but must pump v power. If you drive Perodua, pump vpower also no use. Better save money and pump 92.

Different situation calls for diff solution... right?

[Satan 666]

jon2000sg:

True bro. Thanks for sharing your good as well as bad experiences honestly with us

Mystical:

Take note of jon's experiences. You may be representing decent SG woman. But for that, you need to prove to us bros, by dating us & sharing the bill. Can?

No? I thought so. You obviously belong to the greedy indecent SG woman clan

SATAN

[mystical]

jon2000sg:

True bro. Thanks for sharing your good as well as bad experiences honestly with us

Mystical:

Take note of jon's experiences. You may be representing decent SG woman. But for that, you need to prove to us bros, by dating us & sharing the bill. Can?

No? I thought so. You obviously belong to the greedy indecent SG woman clan

SATAN


No? Oh dear... U havent even wait for my reply..

I have never let any guy pay for me, be it my male friend or any ex-es.
Except for my father and Unless its special occasion which only happen less then 10 times in my life.



Greedy?
Indecent?

The guys i've met are the one who are greedily indecent on dates.

Tsk tsk... I do understand that there are girls who are damn materialistic when it comes to dating new guys. But not all..

I guess nothing a girl say will go into ur mind. Or shud i say a SG girl...

[mystical]

Oh, forget to mention, just because me and my use to be partners go on dutch, they took it for granted that i am living well off enough to pay for them as well.

See the point? There can be guys who are like this... Not just girls only.

[beck7777]

I guess nothing a girl say will go into ur mind. Or shud i say a SG girl...

Haha!! Finally a girl's point of view...

Not all SG girls are suckers for $$$, though we have to admit SG is such a realistic place to stay in...

Almost everything is about $$$ but for sure there are nice girls around(Not alot though but I have been lucky enough to know afew)...

At the end of day, its up to oneself to know if the girl is worth the $$$ spent anot, rather than complaining about how sucker they are...

Sometimes, somethings, no pain(pain in heart and wallet:D) no gain...

[mystical]

Haha!! Finally a girl's point of view...

Not all SG girls are suckers for $$$, though we have to admit SG is such a realistic place to stay in...

Almost everything is about $$$ but for sure there are nice girls around(Not alot though but I have been lucky enough to know afew)...

At the end of day, its up to oneself to know if the girl is worth the $$$ spent anot, rather than complaining about how sucker they are...

Sometimes, somethings, no pain(pain in heart and wallet:D) no gain...

Thanks for being a neutral party. :)

[Tension68]

Ai Say Bro Tension. Ready steady bom bibi. Totally agree with your comments.

A thought just came in. If you want to drive ferrari, you cannot pump unleaded 92, but must pump v power. If you drive Perodua, pump vpower also no use. Better save money and pump 92.

Different situation calls for diff solution... right?

Bro RB73, agree wif last statement.. duno anything about cars.. ahaha.. ps ps.. not ur typical guy.. cars dun excite me.. hehheh.

Oh.. n I must say one thing.. I do notice alot of sg gals now who say they look for ang moh cos SG male not exposed to the world or not romantic or ... blah blah blah... honestly, I think dis is alot of crap!

ang moh from other country, of course can say he see mre of the world.. but does that make him a better man/bf/hubby? NO GUARANTEES!

SG male is seen in diff light cos SG females kena bombarded by Western media... tv, movies, books.. mostly by Western sources.. potray their own men as heroes.. and our SG male got really nothing to put up a fight.. who we got? Phua Choo Kang?? Mark Lee? not ur typical ideal mate for ALL SG females.

SG still lacking in a cultural identity, and our society views our own men as Obedient, Un-Creative, .. and a lot more. Seriously.. do we really haf some local males dat we can fix a label as the IDEAL SG male that both males n females in SG alike can relate to? My frens say Tay Peng Hwee (spelling?).. but I say.. u think all guys wan to be like him? Not likely. and some gals r turned off by him.. I mean it.. some ARE REALLY NOT INTO HIM AT ALL.

So.. SG females can go find their "soulmates" if they wan.. we SG males can go find our own around the world.. we DUN haf to stick to this small island to make choices... c'mon.. globalized liao. go out there n find n meet ppl.. u might be surprised who u find.

[geylangbonker]

spore gals simply cannot make it at all in term of personality, attitude , character wise.
As for their looks and other key factors , it depends, as i seen many are born with small boobs and they are very calculative abt dollars and cents.

[Toyota Honda]

......
Basically free sex, free food, movies etc but only recently when i sms her, she nv reply me anymore, dont know..Anywhere maybe my free trial is up..haha

Maybe she found other targets, or she no more $ to pay for me & found some carrot guy to pay for her.

If a gal try to chop me as a carrot, i will straight away ignore her after the meeting unless she is chio.

Erm, Are you proud of it? Dont you even feel a sense of shame at all and still bragging it here???

At least she found her intelligence and some sense....

[Oralcraz]

Oh.. n I must say one thing.. I do notice alot of sg gals now who say they look for ang moh cos SG male not exposed to the world or not romantic or ... blah blah blah... honestly, I think dis is alot of crap!
ang moh from other country, of course can say he see mre of the world.. but does that make him a better man/bf/hubby? NO GUARANTEES!

Yup. NO GUARANTEES. Used to have an ang moh/chinese wife neighbour. Ang Moh act like king of the hill (talking loudly and rather authoritative towards wife). Not Romantic as I seldom see them being intimate like holding hands, joking etc. Wife speak very softly as if being intimidated and decimated. Does all the household chores too. Again, this is only an incident. I believe not all Ang Moh are like that.

[Cheonging101]

Oh, forget to mention, just because me and my use to be partners go on dutch, they took it for granted that i am living well off enough to pay for them as well.

See the point? There can be guys who are like this... Not just girls only.

My God! Only little boys would be that ungentlemanly... Have they even completed NS? :rolleyes:

But, no choice, sis. Choose to roll with the hogs, prepare to get muddy... :p

[mystical]

My God! Only little boys would be that ungentlemanly... Have they even completed NS? :rolleyes:

But, no choice, sis. Choose to roll with the hogs, prepare to get muddy... :p

Lol, yes they have completed. Probably thinks that im a piece of carrot to be chopped.. Just like how a material girl would chop on a guy.. :)

[kwaychup]

aiyoo thats jialat then.
feel sorry for you sis.

[mystical]

aiyoo thats jialat then.
feel sorry for you sis.

Haha, it doesnt matter.

Those guys has already sort of made me lose interest in guys already. :/

have learn my lesson. :)

[Satan 666]

mystical:

Push you into a corner, and your pussy starts splashing cum juice. Is a whole new way to force an 0rgasm out of a woman :)

SATAN

[mystical]

mystical:

Push you into a corner, and your pussy starts splashing cum juice. Is a whole new way to force an 0rgasm out of a woman :)

SATAN

Seriously satan, WHATEVER. :)

[KingCheong]

Ok....im purely trying to prevent anymore victims here. So while I dont expect everyone to appreciate what Im doing, i hope not everyone will flame me for it.

In relation to the main character of the thread, 2 samsters have PMed me telling me they encountered the same TRICIA asking them to buy her this pay her that. Well...looks like this girl is really taking us guys for a ride using her good looks. Just a warning to everyone here then, tis Tricia maybe young, 19 yrs only, but is targeting older guys who got $ to spend. will ask u take her go nice fancy restuarant for makan, make u feel like she in love with u expect u to pay for all her expenses. In the end she jus wan ur $.
Im not even surprised if shes got a few guys Q up for her.

She used to work in DTZ @ TPY hub but one day she ponteng work go shopping wif her fren. end up her boss found out fired both of them.
She stays near Marsiling MRT, big eyes long hair got abit Angelina Jolie lips.
hp no. ends wif XXXX38667

[mystical]

Ok....im purely trying to prevent anymore victims here. So while I dont expect everyone to appreciate what Im doing, i hope not everyone will flame me for it.

In relation to the main character of the thread, 2 samsters have PMed me telling me they encountered the same TRICIA asking them to buy her this pay her that. Well...looks like this girl is really taking us guys for a ride using her good looks. Just a warning to everyone here then.

Well TS, if ure just warning anyone here, means ure targetting at this TRICIA u met right?

So why stereotype all SG girls just because of this TRICIA?

Hmm.. And what makes you say this? - "the only good SG girl is when they lie on bed and let you fuck for free"

Sigh... Guys...

[randyboy73]

Sammyboy Forum now becomes Sammyboy School of Relationships ???


Yo Jon... Long time no see.... Aiya... School holidays... this always happen at this time of the year as well as in Dec.

[randyboy73]

Well TS, if ure just warning anyone here, means ure targetting at this TRICIA u met right?

So why stereotype all SG girls just because of this TRICIA?

Hmm.. And what makes you say this? - "the only good SG girl is when they lie on bed and let you fuck for free"

Sigh... Guys...

Not good to stereotype pple....

Agree w our sis that you probably stretched the concept of "same kettle of fish" too far....

Still stand by the fact that regardless of male or female, local or foreign, who and what you get depends on chemistry, fate and more importantly, luck.

Examine oneself to see if one's own actions have resulted in the consequence. But if that Tricia is really so malicious, then by all means, share the information so that bros can be clued into her behaviour, but kp the rest of the SG women out of the equation.

[randyboy73]

I wount be a carrot & pay for gals i meet online unless she is super chio just like 1 of my ex gf whom i met online also.

Recently(3mths back), got to know an online gal(not really pretty but slim & fuckable), ............Basically free sex, free food, movies etc but only recently when i sms her, she nv reply me anymore, dont know..Anywhere maybe my free trial is up..haha

Maybe she found other targets, or she no more $ to pay for me & found some carrot guy to pay for her.

If a gal try to chop me as a carrot, i will straight away ignore her after the meeting unless she is chio.

It's guys like you that give us a bad rep. Its bad enuf to do something like this, but to broadcast on a forum like SBF really makes me wonder if you should recalibrate your assessment perimeters...

[mystical]

Not good to stereotype pple....

But if that Tricia is really so malicious, then by all means, share the information so that bros can be clued into her behaviour, but kp the rest of the SG women out of the equation.

Bro, i like what you've said! Haha..

And TS, that was what i was trying to say.. :/

[youing]

this type of thing is ni qing wo yuan cannot all blame her man... .. .

[adrianus]

You never share her no with some of the expert bros here to return her some karma meh?

[jon2000sg]

Yo Jon... Long time no see.... Aiya... School holidays... this always happen at this time of the year as well as in Dec.

yo Bro Randy, check out my pics at Zhuhai !!!

as well as 'My Collections' update !!!

Do you think a school boy is posting ?

Sorry for the out of thread posting ...

[tigershark75]

Ok....im purely trying to prevent anymore victims here. So while I dont expect everyone to appreciate what Im doing, i hope not everyone will flame me for it.

In relation to the main character of the thread, 2 samsters have PMed me telling me they encountered the same TRICIA asking them to buy her this pay her that. Well...looks like this girl is really taking us guys for a ride using her good looks. Just a warning to everyone here then, tis Tricia maybe young, 19 yrs only, but is targeting older guys who got $ to spend. will ask u take her go nice fancy restuarant for makan, make u feel like she in love with u expect u to pay for all her expenses. In the end she jus wan ur $.
Im not even surprised if shes got a few guys Q up for her.

She used to work in DTZ @ TPY hub but one day she ponteng work go shopping wif her fren. end up her boss found out fired both of them.
She stays near Marsiling MRT, big eyes long hair got abit Angelina Jolie lips.
hp no. ends wif XXXX38667


This Tricia not an expert in carrot chopping, if not, how come she bet on the wrong horse and only manage to squeeze a miserable $200 out of you over 5 dates?:D

I ever had an encounter with an expert. She might be young, 21yrs old and I am 11yrs her senior during back in 2007. Underestimating her, I brought a LV monogram hand bag (around SGD1.7K, can't remember the exact figure) and a Nokia N95 8GB (SGD9++) during our 2nd dates. I know what's up her sleeve but I still go ahead. When we went out on our 3 dates, she hints that she took fancy of a tiffany & co. braclet which I decline buying for her. She somehow sense that I am sort of pissed off and from there, the frequency she contact me become lesser and lesser till we lost contact finally. Come to think of it, alot of bro here may find me stupid. However, I know my stand, as in if I manage to get her as a girlfriend, I can show off to my friends cause she is the youngest and prettiest among my circle's spouse/gf. Secondly, a few K isn't that much, I just took it as losses in investment.

Again, to enjoy the comfort of a BM, don't expect to pay the price of a Chery. Look at the picture from another angle, if you are handsome, muscular and is surrounded by a pool of hot babes, will you choose an ugly duckling as partner? So no point condemn the girl, right?

Regards,

[mystical]

Secondly, a few K isn't that much, I just took it as losses in investment.

Regards,

Wow. That is a pretty hefty investment if its only on a 2 date basis..
Geez.

[adrianus]

Those girls who want you to pay for stuff up front on your first dates are those that you will never get if you comply with their demands...

If you have the affordability, show her that you are willing to spend on the things you like (i.e. on yourself) but dont stinge on dinner (take it that you are paying for her time and company at the very least)...

Perhaps you can let slip as to how you are generally generous to your girlfriends and casually define girlfriend as female friends who would be intimate with you... suggesting all the while to her that you wish she would be your gf...

Who knows you may just catch the fish you want...

[Cheonging101]

this type of thing is ni qing wo yuan cannot all blame her man... .. .

Wow! That's the smartest thing you ever said! :rolleyes:

You should have told the uncles and aunties who lost all their money because they invested in Lehman Bros. Also "ni qing wo yuan" mah!

You should have told the uncles and aunties who paid thousands of dollars to buy a useless 'magic stone' to cure their cancer. Also "ni qing wo yuan" mah!

You should have told the uncles and aunties who lost all their sanity because they married a cheating spouse. Also "ni qing wo yuan" mah!

With your reasoning, we don't need police and lawyers already.

[pro.d.igy]

Still stand by the fact that regardless of male or female, local or foreign, who and what you get depends on chemistry, fate and more importantly, luck.



10 pages already and finally somebody hit the main point in dating SG girls.

[owenfang]

They think their chee bye made of gold

[mystical]

They think their chee bye made of gold

Oh? What about your dick? made of shit? Since its so cheap.

Tsk, unrefined fella'.

[bunnyrabbit]

I ever had an encounter with an expert. She might be young, 21yrs old and I am 11yrs her senior during back in 2007. Underestimating her, I brought a LV monogram hand bag (around SGD1.7K, can't remember the exact figure) and a Nokia N95 8GB (SGD9++) during our 2nd dates. I know what's up her sleeve but I still go ahead. When we went out on our 3 dates, she hints that she took fancy of a tiffany & co. braclet which I decline buying for her. She somehow sense that I am sort of pissed off and from there, the frequency she contact me become lesser and lesser till we lost contact finally. Come to think of it, alot of bro here may find me stupid. However, I know my stand, as in if I manage to get her as a girlfriend, I can show off to my friends cause she is the youngest and prettiest among my circle's spouse/gf. Secondly, a few K isn't that much, I just took it as losses in investment.

Again, to enjoy the comfort of a BM, don't expect to pay the price of a Chery. Look at the picture from another angle, if you are handsome, muscular and is surrounded by a pool of hot babes, will you choose an ugly duckling as partner? So no point condemn the girl, right?

Regards,

wah bro u really a BIG CARROTHEAD!:eek::D

[Satan 666]

Lets conclude this thread once and for all.

As long as SG girls continue to have this shit-loaded-bad-mouthed-attitude, we will continue to drink PRC honey (affordable, transparent, easy-going)

Let the day cum when this generation of bad-ass SG gals all remain single at age 40.

While we guys have crossed shores to find our meat & be merry.

NOTE: Bros, please use helmet at all times, HIV is spreading. Better to die naturally or via murder than thru shame caused by HIV

SATAN

[HumpBackOak]

when u let the small head do the thinking, don't blame the girl for taking you for a carrot head.

u won't be the first guy who fell for it, you won't be the last guy, just take it as your first and last time.

if the girl really likes you, you play your cards right, you won't need to spend alot.

want cheap want fresh want big breast want near the sea. so easy to find?

you want 100% instant gratification, geylang beckons.

don't just blame the girl, blame the fact that you wanted to fuck her so bad.

ps: why do u think porn is so popular

[Vectra]

Treat this hunting and being hunt as a game lah. And there are no rules that stated who is the winner, got conned, get the shorter end from the outcome.

For TS, just treat it as an experience and you could grew wiser from it. In fact if I were you and still wanted to be part of the game, I sure try to get "something" as "treat" from her:D

Anyway it's your call and you make the shot for your life.:cool:

[Toyota Honda]

Lets conclude this thread once and for all.

As long as SG girls continue to have this shit-loaded-bad-mouthed-attitude, we will continue to drink PRC honey (affordable, transparent, easy-going)

Let the day cum when this generation of bad-ass SG gals all remain single at age 40.

While we guys have crossed shores to find our meat & be merry.

NOTE: Bros, please use helmet at all times, HIV is spreading. Better to die naturally or via murder than thru shame caused by HIV

SATAN

Bro,

I might have some arguments with you before. But I hope what I said will change ur mindset about the wrongs to generalise very Spore girls.

Yes, we might be able to get PRC girls. But they are also our money. Records and statistics have shown that no matter how nice, gentlemanly or good we are towards those PRC ladies, they will still take our maoney and bring home to their good-for-nothing men they have back in China. Not to mention that we are more refined, better educated, more hardwaorkng and more sincere towards them. So many old uncles give that smirky face just cos they have a pretty, young and sexy PRC girl tugging their hands tightly on the streets. We Spore guys are infact a Global Carrot Head if you want to put it that way.

Play if we have to. But we still need to find one proper girl to settle down to be really happy and lead a blissful life. I used to go shopping malls alone in the past years over weekends and frankly, I do envy alot of couples. They are happy, having that smile on their face. While I am alone walking among them, feeling out of place and dejected wondering y I am not being ableto find my happiness like them? I even had the urge to walk up to them to ask for their secret of success.

Let go of the past.. Don't let it hold you back. Many of us bros and sis in here face relationship pobs too.. Don't use ur hatred to attack anyone recklessly.

Can?

[Satan 666]

Bro Honda,

Yep that makes emotional sense.

But I don't believe a woman is worth anything more than money.

Women are not worth our sincerity or true love

They are more screwed up than men

I am not generalizing. But everything in this world follows patterns. All women share some patterns irrespective of nationality, geography, orientations, etc.

SATAN

[tigershark75]

wah bro u really a BIG CARROTHEAD!:eek::D

Bopiah... Small head always rule big head...:) All human have weakness and I not shy to admit that I always 'die' on the hands of pretty syt...:D But come to think of it, $ are made to be spend and I am donig a good deed by pushing the economic, isnt I?

Regards,

[mystical]

...Women are not worth our sincerity or true love

They are more screwed up than men.

SATAN

Oh? I've come across countless women, young or old, who get fucked and got pregnant. Once they break news to their man, they disappeaer.

Women who care, will bring the child up. If not, abortion. If too late? ADOPTION.

Irresponsibly spreading their seed around, isn't that what some men do best?

And im glad ure always using condom, just in case one day you don, don be surprise 10 years down the road some kid come knocking on ur door and address u as DAD.

Men and Women, equally screwed up. Humans, weird creatures. Like you and me, or any other else.

Just like how women think, men are not worth our time and love.

PS: what goes around comes around. You might get what you hate to have in future. Good luck, for you really need lots of luck. :)

[Toyota Honda]

But I don't believe a woman is worth anything more than money.

Women are not worth our sincerity or true love

They are more screwed up than men

I am not generalizing. But everything in this world follows patterns. All women share some patterns irrespective of nationality, geography, orientations, etc.

SATAN

Let me give my opinions for each para u made.

Men and women all want money. Infact, money is the thing that everyone needs. For eg. Why do we want to have jobs? Cos we want to earn money to survive. Money is the driving force. So, men or women, we are all not worth more than money. Its practical..

Women usually follow their heart when it comes to love. They love someone, they will go all out to care, protect and love him no matter who he is or what he is.. Thats true love. Look at PRCs, they con us for what? Cos they like us? No! Its cos they want our money. And mostly, they bring this money back to the man they love in China. We are all human beings, and human beings have feelings. Though not everyone might have the fortune to find someone they love eventually, we still somehow will have feelings for the other party if we meet the right ones.

U are generalising every sg girls again.. There is this saying that we use quite often. What goes around, comes around. Where feelings (and money) are concerned, there will always be conflicts. Its just so natural. Everyone has their own sets of problems and flaws. So... Live and let live... We somehow screw ourselves up some way or another. Or worse, we screw up someone else's life too. So...

We are mostly affected by the environment. For eg. Sg girls are luckier than PRCs or Thai ladies cos they receive better education, lead better lives etc. Even our poorest living standards are still better than theirs. So naturally, they will have some character in them.. But doesn't we sg guys too?? Our country has evolved very fast and is just like an up and coming branded name in the world. Naturally, we will just elevate our status and ego further concurrently. But wherever we come from, money is still the driving force... I admit.. Not just girls, guys are also like that. Money, materials are what we want to pursue.. Just a matter of how strong the desire u have to achieve it or how u want to achieve it. Probably all the girls u have met are those with very strong desire to achieve their aims...

[Satan 666]

Toyota Honda

You old hag nagging ur teeth all over SBF again :D

Honestly, how many essay-writing prizes did you fish in school ? :rolleyes:

SATAN

[yang punk]

"Warning....Stay away from Mystical.

Do Not Underestimate my threat

SATAN"



Care to explain yourself? :confused:

[Satan 666]

Yang PUnk or Punk Shit or whatever:

Please have some manners.

That was a PM, and you cut and paste with your a$$-ripped knife into thread

Moronic.

Do not solicit sex from an under-age 12 year old (Mystical)

Mystical is under-age, 12 and my cousin, who fights with me online

That is the meaning of the "WARNING" BroTher.

Get that?

SATAN

[woshixiong]

Cancel ur date during half way.. because of frens. unless its urgent.. if not 1 time ok.. 2 time.. i will say bye bye to her already. regardless how chio. finding a gf i think best look at her character. 200 still ok lah.. my first KC cost me a LV bag. ^^

[yang punk]

Big deal! If she is 12 then you must be 13! Go back to your books lah... just because it's school hols doesn't mean you kiddos can come to an adult forum and stir up shit and be rude!

Ohhhh...I am so afraid ... what you gonna do to me? Send me to hell? :rolleyes:

[izerkudie]

TS, my 20cent,

depending how you see a gal, some sg girl, high maintainence, some low, some can be treat like clothes, wear already, wash, hang outside ur house let it dry, its still ur fav clothes, then wear again, some are like expensive gucci shoe, wear it once awhile out to show off ur shoe, the point is, its best to get a girl that u can recycle every now and then, after all expensive gucci shoe are meant to be show off only :D

[Satan 666]

Big deal! If she is 12 then you must be 13! Go back to your books lah... just because it's school hols doesn't mean you kiddos can come to an adult forum and stir up shit and be rude!

Ohhhh...I am so afraid ... what you gonna do to me? Send me to hell? :rolleyes:

YEAAHHHHH. HELLL For you Brother. Sweet Sweet HELL :D

More Pain than you've seen these last 50 years:o

[woshixiong]

YEAAHHHHH. HELLL For you Brother. Sweet Sweet HELL :D

More Pain than you've seen these last 50 years:o

u really 13 ? i beckon. 7 sounds more like it... are u really overage for this adult forum.. now now go to bed already or ur mama will start spank ur pipi :mad:

[Satan 666]

u really 13 ? i beckon. 7 sounds more like it... are u really overage for this adult forum.. now now go to bed already or ur mama will start spank ur pipi :mad:

Not sure if you are acting smart, funny or not-really-sure what to say.

Don't wanna sound rude to you. But may i please ask you to

shut the fuck up, cos this does not involve you?

Now if that doesnt work, how about you bringing your mother to my house, so we can both fuck the shit out of her

SATAN

[Frankiestine]

Play if we have to. But we still need to find one proper girl to settle down to be really happy and lead a blissful life. I used to go shopping malls alone in the past years over weekends and frankly, I do envy alot of couples. They are happy, having that smile on their face. While I am alone walking among them, feeling out of place and dejected wondering y I am not being ableto find my happiness like them? I even had the urge to walk up to them to ask for their secret of success.

Bro u still single? Cos if you are count your blessings....dun be deceived by what you see...doesn't mean a couple walking hand in hand happily means they are really a happily married couple...monster here is one example...wife on the outlook show people we very "urn ai" couple..all lovey and dovey but yet when it comes to the bedroom like a total stranger...for me i dun need such superficial presentation...that why i may not get "ai" from prc meis...but at least i got my sextisfaction..

[Oralcraz]

dun be deceived by what you see...doesn't mean a couple walking hand in hand happily means they are really a happily married couple...monster here is one example...wife on the outlook show people we very "urn ai" couple..all lovey and dovey but yet when it comes to the bedroom like a total stranger...for me i dun need such superficial presentation...that why i may not get "ai" from prc meis...but at least i got my sextisfaction..

Bro Franky, me same as you. Me ah craz wifey also like that. Go out hold hand act luvy luvy. Come back home (not even enter bedroom yet), boh siang already. Become pek chek pek chek already. For me, I also action action lah. Family outing must be happy happy.

[AngelEye]

Bro Franky, me same as you. Me ah craz wifey also like that. Go out hold hand act luvy luvy. Come back home (not even enter bedroom yet), boh siang already. Become pek chek pek chek already. For me, I also action action lah. Family outing must be happy happy.

awwee... poorthing........... need some love?

[Frankiestine]

awwee... poorthing........... need some love?

Lady, in this forum we don't need love, we need SEX!!:D:D:D

[woshixiong]

Not sure if you are acting smart, funny or not-really-sure what to say.

Don't wanna sound rude to you. But may i please ask you to

shut the fuck up, cos this does not involve you?

Now if that doesnt work, how about you bringing your mother to my house, so we can both fuck the shit out of her

SATAN

i think most of the bro got what i say. just by seeing how many points u got zapped too.. aww. or should i say you're too dumb to understand it ? and as for my mum ? im scare if i did bring her over.. i wont see u there.. ^^ cause i wont an angel infront of the kiddo satan but i think my mum will call 995 for u :cool:

[kwaychup]

dun be deceived by what you see...doesn't mean a couple walking hand in hand happily means they are really a happily married couple...monster here is one example...wife on the outlook show people we very "urn ai" couple..all lovey and dovey but yet when it comes to the bedroom like a total stranger

Bro Franky, me same as you. Me ah craz wifey also like that. Go out hold hand act luvy luvy. Come back home (not even enter bedroom yet), boh siang already.

well guess couples are like that, it's more of a commitment to 1 another than just plain love. i'm together with my gf for around 3 yrs already. yet i feel that it's not love that keeps us together. ( but yes i still like her for the way she is, lots of freedom but i also must allocate some days for us )
more of a commitment towards her :D

[randyboy73]

Looks like this thread has turned into a slugfest. Luckily it is still no match for the yesteryear's HHH thread. NOw that is slanging in the first degree.

Satan... from your posts, you give me a distinct impression you are gay... are u a closet gay? keke.

As for mystical, I have been having some conversations via pm and she def does not sound like a 12 year old from her sentence structure and choice of words... can she.... can she..... can she be a clone? Uhhhhhh?

In any case, it does not really matter whether she is or not, or whether or not you are a moron. Fact is, if you do not like what we have to say in this thread, you can always choose to absent yourself. Don't really think we would miss your snide remarks...

[cmelater]

Play if we have to. But we still need to find one proper girl to settle down to be really happy and lead a blissful life. I used to go shopping malls alone in the past years over weekends and frankly, I do envy alot of couples. They are happy, having that smile on their face. While I am alone walking among them, feeling out of place and dejected wondering y I am not being ableto find my happiness like them? I even had the urge to walk up to them to ask for their secret of success.

I envy these couples too. Sometimes, I also dunno wtf I have to look forward to. These couples have the weekend to look forward to, at least to spend time together.

I realise I have totally nothing to look forward to. Got a gal that is ok so so. But, the feeling I have it that money dun make us happier people... the pursuit of money make us more hollow than anything else.

The happier people have to be those with someone to look forward to in spending times together. I really think its fated somehow. If we are fated to be, it will come.

Sometimes, I so dulan that I just dun like to go out siah. Go out see people so happy together and I only get reminded that I sold my life to work and money can never buy the love that these people have. :'( Last time got gl can go and buy 30 minutes of time to hug someone (even if dun f). But, now, got nothing to find temporary companionship.

[mystical]

......

Im definitely not 12, but it doesnt matter. Im outta here.

Take care people. :)

[randyboy73]

......

Im definitely not 12, but it doesnt matter. Im outta here.

Take care people. :)

Take care sweetie :)

[HumpBackOak]

Bro,

I might have some arguments with you before. But I hope what I said will change ur mindset about the wrongs to generalise very Spore girls.

Yes, we might be able to get PRC girls. But they are also our money. Records and statistics have shown that no matter how nice, gentlemanly or good we are towards those PRC ladies, they will still take our maoney and bring home to their good-for-nothing men they have back in China. Not to mention that we are more refined, better educated, more hardwaorkng and more sincere towards them. So many old uncles give that smirky face just cos they have a pretty, young and sexy PRC girl tugging their hands tightly on the streets. We Spore guys are infact a Global Carrot Head if you want to put it that way.

Play if we have to. But we still need to find one proper girl to settle down to be really happy and lead a blissful life. I used to go shopping malls alone in the past years over weekends and frankly, I do envy alot of couples. They are happy, having that smile on their face. While I am alone walking among them, feeling out of place and dejected wondering y I am not being ableto find my happiness like them? I even had the urge to walk up to them to ask for their secret of success.

Let go of the past.. Don't let it hold you back. Many of us bros and sis in here face relationship pobs too.. Don't use ur hatred to attack anyone recklessly.

Can?

the only certainty in life is that all of us will die one day.

doesn't matter where the girl is from, life is about the unexpected.

we just hope to make more right choices than bad choices and learn from our bad choices.

the nationality of the woman is irrevelant. Its funny how singapore chinese like to discriminate against china women.

i wonder where the ancestors of the singapore chinese come from.

[slavepuppet]

joe

Dun worry u got full support SG girls are the biggest sucker fish of all not forgeting very snobbish towards guys ultimately will throw you into the rubbish once your rank expired . I definately skip just go for those pros once a while treat you with a bit of respect and provide service once finish done go back with a clear conscious..:D

[Oralcraz]

awwee... poorthing........... need some love?

Yes I do. Some sweet luvin words from u will do.:)

[Oralcraz]

well guess couples are like that, it's more of a commitment to 1 another than just plain love. i'm together with my gf for around 3 yrs already. yet i feel that it's not love that keeps us together. ( but yes i still like her for the way she is, lots of freedom but i also must allocate some days for us )
more of a commitment towards her :D

Yup. U are right.

[Oralcraz]

I envy these couples too. Sometimes, I also dunno wtf I have to look forward to. These couples have the weekend to look forward to, at least to spend time together.
I realise I have totally nothing to look forward to. Got a gal that is ok so so. But, the feeling I have it that money dun make us happier people... the pursuit of money make us more hollow than anything else.
The happier people have to be those with someone to look forward to in spending times together. I really think its fated somehow. If we are fated to be, it will come.


Bro, there are lots to things to look forward to on weekends. During my single younger days, I hang out at lounge, listen to live music, chit chat with friends etc etc. Why "totally nothing to look forward to:confused:"

[Satan 666]

randyboy73:

Who the mother fuck are you to ask me to stay or leave.

You didn't create this forum and its better if you shut your fucking mouth up

SATAN


Looks like this thread has turned into a slugfest. Luckily it is still no match for the yesteryear's HHH thread. NOw that is slanging in the first degree.

Satan... from your posts, you give me a distinct impression you are gay... are u a closet gay? keke.

As for mystical, I have been having some conversations via pm and she def does not sound like a 12 year old from her sentence structure and choice of words... can she.... can she..... can she be a clone? Uhhhhhh?

In any case, it does not really matter whether she is or not, or whether or not you are a moron. Fact is, if you do not like what we have to say in this thread, you can always choose to absent yourself. Don't really think we would miss your snide remarks...

[KingCheong]

As TS, i request that the moderator delete this thread for good.