Now that I am old...

[liberatte]

I am getting old. I have not been into commercial sex or any extra-marital activities for a long long time. One day, I discovered that I've missed something and decided to have a drink with a friend in a nice pub in KL. Looking back at the time that I used to pick up girls in pubs for ONS was a history that i can vaguely remember. Now that I am balding and face no longer what it was used to be (not good looking like last time). I saw a couple of SYT sitting in the corner and my friend insisted that we them drinks. If we are lucky, we would've scored. We invited ourselves to their table and started our conversations. No matter how we tried to focus our conversation on our pick up tactics when we were young, we would always shift our topics back to the world news. Would it be a lack of practice? Would it be that my 'luck' has finally run out? Any tips from older brothers here?

[lame-ah-pek]

Now this is a thread I definitely need to follow diligently.

I am definitely in the same category as TS.

[eeemen]

Now this is a thread I definitely need to follow diligently.

I am definitely in the same category as TS.


Bro, can I also join in at the camping ground? :D Same category!!

[Soapbozz]

Elderly Bros,

Why not go to HC?
There is no upper age limit.

Save your time trying.
Anyway it's also not FREE.
Go and spend the $$ at HC instead.

[Big Sexy]

mate... no point living on past glory..
you and i should just accept it..
there are load of other things to do than just bonking..
like gardening and playing with grandchildren.. :D :D


I am getting old.

[Private88]

I think this is a very common problem for us in the 40s (born in the years of 60s)... during the years of 30s, many of us were in the prime years when you have good career, not bad looking outlook, confident and the attitude of "can get what I want" in the pubs or KTVs when cheonging... Suddenly, when you reach 40s, if you have not been into the cheong scene for a while, some of you will be in a shock stage when I discovered in a hardway that many of the young SYT mei mei are so young that half of our age, when they look at us, we are just dirty old uncle 怪叔叔 have nothing but cash in our fat wallet...

These young chicks are into young, good looking F4 look-a-like 20s guys that can be our sons. We just have to accept the fact that we are old and our time has passed that this is the generation of the 80s when one day, they will be in our shoes too...

The only thing we can do is, pay for transaction or increase the age limit of our target, probably someone in between 28~35 will still be attracted by the old dirty uncle...

Just my 2-cent worth of thought :D

[charger]

I agree with what most bros said that it is def diff to court SYTs if we are in our 40s and 50s. esp in Sillypore. Most of the SYTs are educated and probably earned gd money, therefore they are out for fun and also looking for handsome young men. Perhaps if we are overseas our chances of scoring young babes are better cus they appreciate Sillypore men. For me (52yrs but look 45) I wont waste my precious time on getting local SYTs but cont with visiting ktvs for my Prc and Viet SYTs tryst.:)

[milfmilf]

i like old man club :D

SYT if into $$$ should be aware that F4 wanabe mostly pocket a bit empty ..so they should be realistic

well i'm in my early 40's but still interested in mature MILF even the 50 plus....

my uncle's wife who has the type of look i want still attracts me or even more when i saw her in at her daughter's wedding... just gorgeous :p...though she is at least 55...

can give the SYT a miss but no harm if they dun mind a still ok looking old man :D

[我是好人!]

I am getting old. ...

Hi Mate ,

Its just a stage everyone has to go through.
The younger ones will go to a stage where you are.
You have been there, done that, thats no point competing with the younger generation, as they will be over-taken by others too.

If you have some spare cash, its not time for picking up girls from pubs & clubs BUT probably nightclub or higher-end premises where the younger ones will probably struggle to do that (at least for most of them)

Cheers mate.

Btw, im only 27, but i always look & understand from knowledgeble & mature men. It will soon by my turn isnt it..
Be Humble is my principle :D

[simple2kee]

Now this is a thread I definitely need to follow diligently.

I am definitely in the same category as TS.

bro, count me in.:D

[liberatte]

Some bros here are definately right about paying. But what fun is there? Its the hunt that counts. Last time, when we go hunting we can bet that at least 1 of us bring a girl home. Now, we drive back home alone. If I am looking for MILF, that's another story but every hunter out there would still prefer a deer rather than a goat... right?

[lame-ah-pek]

I think you mean doe instead of deer.

Deers, as defined here, I have had some luck with.

But doe is different, they don't talk the same lingo. The adolescent doe there are some who mature faster and are possibilities. The problem I have is that my old body can't hack the late nights that such activity require.

[tomvoyeur]

Happy anniversary. May this forum reinvigorate a new "birth" or "spurt" for Singapore! ;)

[natsuki]

Dun feel dishearted, bro... There are really more beautiful things in the world.... Anyway, i wld still prefer a lion then a goat.... =P

Take care k? See ya~

[rhys]

Age catches up with all.

But it doesn't mean it's downhill all the way from 40.

The trick is to continue to invest in health, i.e. sleep early, healthy lifestyle from diet, exercise, rest and stress management.

I am impressed by the former Malaysian Health Minister who proved that even a man in his late 50s or early 60s can cheong very well.

[onlyou]

i agree with rhys that we just got to stay healthy. i hv seen balding man with a table of syts in bars. i m in my late 30s too also feeling the lack of "mojo" to chat with people in bars. thing is at our age, everything is stable (i wish) and we dont wanna rock the boat. more difficult when there is a family. so i came out with a regime:
1) physical health - run, swim and play sports
2) mental health - read, surf SBF (lol - must advert a bit), write a blog
3) stay curious - thats whey they call "wise old man"
4) bar health - just relax, they are not going to jump on you anymore. if it happens, good. if not, drinks are thou best friends.
5) appearance - old doesnt mean hv to dress old. jeans and polo still best - relax and casual. shave and hv a shorter hair cut cos i got white hair liao.
6) stay connected with the young - chat with younger colleagues to know what is the latest words they use or what the hot topic among them now. this goes to (2) and (3). its not a hassle as you need to social with colleagues. who knows you be invited to their parties too then (4) will come in.

its a vicious circle. not the best but we need to stand up and continue our conquest. not using the same tricks but evolve into something that best suit our present status, personality and comfort level.

good thread as me and buddies already in this for some time now.. let's share how you do it...

[AngusYoung]

I think you mean doe instead of deer.

Deers, as defined here, I have had some luck with.

But doe is different, they don't talk the same lingo. The adolescent doe there are some who mature faster and are possibilities. The problem I have is that my old body can't hack the late nights that such activity require.

I dont think its cos they speak different lingo. Like TS said, at a certain age you become out of practice and you tend to drift to topics that are only of interest in our own circle of frens. So if you have frens that always talk about world issues, you will end up in that direction as encountered by TS.

A few things that might help if you are out of practice:

-let the people whom you just met lead the discussion. you can direct the topics but take from their cue. For eg if you are in a pub, you can ask if this is a popular joint and if they come all the time as its your first time. Once they start, you can find out more about other places of interest etc. But do not make it sound like an interrogation and also don't make yourself sound like you are some old antiques who is totally out of the scene. You can add on with your experiences overseas, anecdotes etc

- think of some social and fun topics beforehand that you can bring up as your weapon if things get quiet. For eg some funny incidents overseas, etc

- if you dont have youth on your side, you can always impress with experience and also sometimes subtlely your wealth.

- but dont make your presence longer than its welcome. exit with a good impression, get their numbers and hopefully meet up another time.

But its not easy. Hunting for MILFs may be easier

[SirDennis]

Some of this comes down to keeping up your health, as a bro said.

If you are fat but young, maybe still have a cahnce.

If you are fat, AND bald, AND wrinkly face, then you just look like dirty old uncle, unless you drive up in Mercedes :)


I've seen many guys who, at first glance, look late 20's, but when I ask- are in their 40's. They are slim and good shape. Some of them have been blessed by God and have still got their hair too (bloody bastards ;) ) Hair is a big thing to looking younger. If in shape, but balding- shave it off, spend money on transplant, or spend money on Mercedes.

One additional thing to looking younger is smiling. I think about three quarters of the guys I know who are in their 40's but look around 28 smile and laugh easily- not the "black faced uncle" types.

[Frankiestine]

You know you are really old when even the coffee shop auntie address you "Uncle"..:(:(

[japboy]

those (bloody bastards) who r slim n gd shape are because either its genetics or that they work bloody hard to keep fit (by bonkin or otherwise~)...

i wanna b slim.. but my gal wans a bit of fat on my body.. T_T....

overall, i tink personality is more lastin n wins handsdown rather than look.... confidence is d keyword.... perhaps its called mid-life crisis? lolz... i'm having tons now....

pl put me up in Da Club as well....

One additional thing to looking younger is smiling. I think about three quarters of the guys I know who are in their 40's but look around 28 smile and laugh easily- not the "black faced uncle" types.

i know of 2 such persons who's into MILF instead ~ :p ... perhaps MILF like more serious man while SYT prefers jovial man....

one woman's meat is another woman's poison... vice verse... lolz...

[justime]

Dear fellow Uncles and Ah Pek,

I would like to firstly thank Bro Liberatte for starting such a thread. The topic is near and dear to me because within my cheonging circle, I am considered to be the baby of the group.

The terminology “baby” is perhaps a misnomer because I am in my mid forties!

I will make my position clear at the outset:

Those who have read my post would have undoubtedly known that I am an advocate for empowerment in relationships. This applies to ALL relationships including those of regular SYT as well as WL. The concept of Empowerment also transcends the Age Gap. And The Age Gap, from what I gather here, seems to be that tough challenge the crux whereby elderly and middle agers like ourselves have to surmount.

Pardon my plug, but do read my thread “Mistress” to have a background on my experience as well current squeeze(s) which happened to be non WL SYT!

From the postings made heretofore in this thread, the salient points being made is one of “acceptance”. Steps to ameliorate the Age Gap are in the realm of Age-proofing oneself mentally and physically. These are excellent advice my brothers – and should be the starting point in your journey to conquer non WL sweet young pussies!

However what I feel lagging here is the focus on accentuating the positive and the general approach of how to ensnare a non WL SYT by a middle age (or even elderly men).

Unless you are blessed with good genetics, we do not compete with younger ones on their terms. We use wile, guile (and if need be) – even financial / power inducements in which our relative long income generating years should provide you an advantage.

Before I “lor-soh”, let me provide my two cents on some the excellent posts here:

I am getting old. I have not been into commercial sex or any extra-marital activities for a long long time…... We invited ourselves to their table and started our conversations. No matter how we tried to focus our conversation on our pick up tactics when we were young, we would always shift our topics back to the world news. Would it be a lack of practice? Would it be that my 'luck' has finally run out? Any tips from older brothers here?

Plenty of tips my dear bro! Not that I am a master player or anything but I still do get some fresh SYT pussies that are not WL – and this as recent as a fortnight ago (details can be found on “Mistress” thread).


there are load of other things to do than just bonking..
like gardening[/COLOR] :D :D

but bro Big Sexy, we are gardening. We are planting “our seeds” and hoeing ho’s!

….. discovered in a hardway that many of the young SYT mei mei are so young that half of our age, when they look at us, we are just dirty old uncle 怪叔叔 have nothing but cash in our fat wallet...

The key bro Private lies in the mental attitude, the approach and the techniques (I called these techniques, “Masterstrokes”). I will share them here!

…..Perhaps if we are overseas our chances of scoring young babes are better cus they appreciate Sillypore men. ….I wont waste my precious time on getting local SYTs but cont with visiting ktvs for my Prc and Viet SYTs tryst.:)

Bro Charger, pardon me but this attitude has a hint of ‘defeatist”. Not really an empowered attitude to take. Better to have one of “take my cake and eat it too!”. Get the local SYT as well as the Foreign Talents that ply their trade here!

i like old man club :D
…..well i'm in my early 40's but still interested in mature MILF even the 50 plus....

Perfect attitude. You are not circumscribed by the need to restore the egoistical pride by the validation of your desirability from a SYT. You also increase the chance of sexual fulfillment because you cast your net far (metaphorically age and distance (foreigners)).

The younger ones will go to a stage where you are.
You have been there, done that, thats no point competing with the younger generation, as they will be over-taken by others too. Btw, im only 27, but i always look & understand from knowledgeble & mature men. It will soon by my turn isnt it..


Sorry mate. Some of us WILL compete and will come up victorious. Of course we will not compete on your terms. We will also draw up the Rules Of Engagement and apply the right mental attitude so that its gives a better chance vis-à-vis the Young Ones.

We got benefit of experience remember?

Some bros here are definately right about paying. But what fun is there? Its the hunt that counts….. If I am looking for MILF, that's another story but every hunter out there would still prefer a deer rather than a goat... right?

Again it is a question of attitude.

Wrong: SYT as validation of my desirability.

Will expatiate on this soon!

Age catches up with all.

But it doesn't mean it's downhill all the way from 40.

…. its a vicious circle. not the best but we need to stand up and continue our conquest. not using the same tricks but evolve into something that best suit our present status, personality and comfort level...

Excellent advice. Thanks!

I dont think its cos they speak different lingo. Like TS said, at a certain age you become out of practice and you tend to drift to topics that are only of interest in our own circle of frens. So if you have frens that always talk about world issues, you will end up in that direction as encountered by TS.


Brilliant points you made. I will elaborate on many things you mentioned.

Some of this comes down to keeping up your health, as a bro said….
One additional thing to looking younger is smiling. I think about three quarters of the guys I know who are in their 40's but look around 28 smile and laugh easily- not the "black faced uncle" types.

Thank you Sir, Sir Dennis. Very well put!

[liberatte]

My hats off to you bro justime! Great views. Time to go hunting again. Hopefully some good news this time

[simple2kee]

You know you are really old when even the coffee shop auntie address you "Uncle"..:(:(

bro Frankiestine, yes i do agree. they do addresss me like tht. i now realise tht im indeed... uncle.:D

[romaleouf]

i agree with rhys that we just got to stay healthy. i hv seen balding man with a table of syts in bars. i m in my late 30s too also feeling the lack of "mojo" to chat with people in bars. thing is at our age, everything is stable (i wish) and we dont wanna rock the boat. more difficult when there is a family. so i came out with a regime:
1) physical health - run, swim and play sports
2) mental health - read, surf SBF (lol - must advert a bit), write a blog
3) stay curious - thats whey they call "wise old man"
4) bar health - just relax, they are not going to jump on you anymore. if it happens, good. if not, drinks are thou best friends.
5) appearance - old doesnt mean hv to dress old. jeans and polo still best - relax and casual. shave and hv a shorter hair cut cos i got white hair liao.
6) stay connected with the young - chat with younger colleagues to know what is the latest words they use or what the hot topic among them now. this goes to (2) and (3). its not a hassle as you need to social with colleagues. who knows you be invited to their parties too then (4) will come in.

its a vicious circle. not the best but we need to stand up and continue our conquest. not using the same tricks but evolve into something that best suit our present status, personality and comfort level.

good thread as me and buddies already in this for some time now.. let's share how you do it...

Totally agree with the above points.

It also pays to be more attentive to what goes on around. Having return to Sillypore after a few years in the wilderness of Northeast Asia, (Pyongyang included) there is a lot to re-learn and re-orientate back to the local scene.

The usual Heart, Body, Mind, Soul stuff does pay off. Recalling being sucked by a young lady, (who technically could be my daughter's friend) admittedly said that she had never blew someone who was a couple of years younger than her father. :p

Not commercial sex, but have to also adjust to the mindset of the New Generation. They go for different things, want to adventure with different experiences which their elders never would dare think of.

No need Brad Pitt looks or Mel Gibson or George Clooney, but a keen sense of humour, know what makes women tick or horny does really help.

Of course, some initial investment of wining and dining, musical concerts and movies will add to the eventual lovemaking session.

However, know when to move in and when to quit, or hold off. Think that really helps, especially if there is an age gap, which already is considered by many a disadvantage.

Confidence is key, with a keen ear, understanding heart, it should be a natural finale. ;)

[loneyheart]

Life is a few stages tats u will go thru be it at 10s 20s 30s 40s 50s 60s 70s....U CAN B A BEAUTIFUL N ATTRACTIVE MAN in yr stage if u want

As for me I will b only playing w stage 1 up or down ( +- 10s ).....
As so I m in early 40s , i will only appreciate n check up MILF in late 20s 30s 40s early 50s ......they r all fully grown n ripe to b hunt n still easily to strike a good conversation.
Some r really dump Chio n with well maintain figure n not to mention they r in their 狼虎之年（ Croche Tiger Year ) easily high n can service u better n wild in bed
Not tat i m not interested in 20s syt but most of them let me feel tat they can b my daughter... I had enjoy in my younger days so its time to move on to a higher stage .......may b i m conservative n believe in kama

I still like DISCO dancing but DISCO is no more a pl for me to hang out....
Checking upz on syt or ons is a gone w t wind to me ...as i dum want to b branded as a DOM or 老牛吃嫩草
But I still think it do happen as some syt may look for Fatherly Love mature man or sugar daddy...but sorry not for me.
SYTs in clubs n KTVs r for u to enjoy n forget ....dum ever really think tats u r Prince Charming ...u r just a Mr Robert / Sugar Daddy

A very good happening pl to hang out / hunt for MILF late 20s 30s early 40s
NTUC Club House.....I was once in bishan HAPPY'S DAY
Just like a DISCO for t matures ...DISCO n ballroom dancing n some KTV room N of course t main target Chio MILF.... not to mention most come w groups of 2, 3 or 4 MILF. Sorry they r not FL or WL .....They r nom MILF just to have funs.....so if u dare n spotting enough try yr luck

Feeling young or old is all in yr heart 脸由心生 face feature grown from yr heart ......if u always feel young at heart w some physical wk out to maintain yr heath .....speak w confident n laughter .

Dum u always hear MATURE AND CONFIDENT MAN ARE THE MOST ATTRACTIVE GUY

Well U R T MAN:cool:

[lglg666]

Some bros here are definately right about paying and every hunter out there would still prefer a deer rather than a goat... right?

Bro liberatte,
You are 100% right....and I am sure you have got yourself lots of nice deers when you were a young hunter:D.
I can understand how you feel right now as I am also an old hunter and once in a blue moon managed to get an old goat if my eyesight does not failed me kekeke! My free time now is spent swimming ( pool-side got some young ladies in their bikini mah - at least can see and recalled past glory kekeke ) or feed the fishes.
Stay healthy....and keep your eye sight "good" just in case, some young deers appears. Good luck and happy hunting!

[blacktaj]

and sometimes we need the blue pills too?

[fresno99]

bro Frankiestine, yes i do agree. they do addresss me like tht. i now realise tht im indeed... uncle.:D

haha.. after some time u get used to it la..

but I reckon as long as I can bonk those PRC meimeis here, calling me uncle or grandpa doesn't hurt me.. :D

For me, hunting is a thing of the past, too much time and effort with little success.

[eeemen]

Personally, I think at the end of the day what's important is this >>

1] believing in yourself

2] confidence to carry yourself well

3] mental attitude, the adage that you are "as young as you feel or as old as you think" applies here

the combination of these 3 factors will proof to be a very potent virtual aphrodisiac in the cheonging or mongering environment. :D:D

Just sharing my thoughts and personal experiences. ;)

[Frankiestine]

That why i always equate the various stages of cheekoness we go thru:

16 to late 20s stage the formative years which should be our cheekies years..then heading into our 30s to probably late 40s is the stage of cheekos..finally as we turned into our golden years from the 50s onwards that where we will earn the grand title of "CHEEKOPEK"..:D:D

[justime]

..then heading into our 30s to probably late 40s is the stage of cheekos..finally as we turned into our golden years from the 50s onwards that where we will earn the grand title of "CHEEKOPEK"..:D:D


Hello fellow Cheekos and Cheekopeks,

Just to share with you a little anecdote that happened to me about a year ago. I was at pub in Singapore and this SYT who is promoting Singleton Single Malt Scotch Whisky came up to me. She obviously wants me to be her customer.

Angel, our SYT is on her final year poly and is about twenty. She obviously dressed to titillate (long legs on show as well cleavage). Anyway, it is fortuitous that the pub is not crowded and she is relatively desperate for business. When she approached me to make her sales pitch, I told her (in a friendly non lascivious way) that I will buy two bottles but she has to sit at least half an hour with me to help finish some of it as I poor drinker.

Took up my i-phone and showed her a clocktimer (hourglass) app which can clock in thirty minutes. “At least thirty minutes” I reiterated. Angel agreed.

Now that I got her relative attention, I proceeded to engage her. When I say engage her, I am not simply having a conversation. I am actually using Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP) to romance and connect with her …. Ah what the heck, enough of the euphemism, what I meant is to use NLP to get into her pants!

I would like to call into attention to the fact that even at the outset of our interaction, I had actually already set up the parameters of how we are to engage. I set myself up to be an “authority” figure. A Svengali of sorts. I presented myself as a pleasant yet supremely confident Alpha male (not avuncular, not Mr. Know-It-All, not boorish).

The image of a pleasant natured confident person is the most successful one to project in getting SYT pussy by the way!

The above scenario is one of my actual opening salvo i.e. to get some time with a SYT to tease out whether my SYT prey is receptive towards an authority figure. Then if she is, I will use other psychological weapons to win her over.

Note: If a SYT is pre-disposed toward an older, more experienced man romantically, I will continue engaging her. If not, I simply write off this transaction. No point wasting time and energy into this pursuit.

That is what I meant when I say that we old fogies choose our battles/prey before engaging. We don’t simply see a SYT that appeals to our sense of aesthetics and charge blindly. We shortlist, we select the ones that gives us the best chance of success.
And cheekos and cheekopeks, let me tell you that you will be surprised how many of them SYT lass in Singapore are pre-disposed toward a Svengali figure. Good for us!

That being said, what we need however is the knowledge of the techniques used in the elicitation of our SYT’s ‘value system’ (meta modeling) to see her attitude concerning ‘authority/father’ figures. We will also need some degree of practice in terms of its execution (we don’t want a false reading).

The good news is that if you know the elicitation techniques and are willing to work the fields, you will have options galore.

If you want a SYT, you must get off your sorry ass and work the fields – and I am not talking only in terms of bar/entertainment scene. Like most successful sales, it’s a numbers game. Here you are ‘selling yourself’ into a SYT pussy and the elicitation techniques are simply “qualifying” the leads.

Quoting a Chinese proverb守株待兔 (loosely translated that means waiting by a tree stump waiting for a rabbit) – sitting passively and waiting for a SYT to fall into your lap means you are seriously short of options. You then make the wrong conclusion that you are no longer desirable etc …….when the real fact of the matter is that you did not expand sufficient energy and do not possess the right knowledge in your approach.

At this juncture, I suggest that you take a serious look at your motivations and constraints on wanting a SYT:

Some typical “constraints”:
1) No freedom of time.
2) There are those who are simply lazy and don’t want the effort to cast your net wide. 3) And finally, there are those who egos are so fragile that they cannot take rejection hence avoid the pursuit. (Giving the 1) – 2) excuse above)

Will stop at this juncture to tease out my fellow uncles’ interest level on the “how to” (it can get quite dry as a subject matter).

And with regards to my little story about Angel, yes I had a short lived affair (all of two weeks with only one sexual encounter). And yes, it is exactly the same technique whereby I used on $$$$$ (my new Indonesian gf) – see “mistress” thread for details.

Live well my brothers!

[liberatte]

That's the thing bro... a long time ago, we don't need to throw money around to buy bottles... we just buy a drink and that's it...

[liberatte]

Scored... finally...

Was having a drink at a nice pub now that i am back at KL. This time, was hunting alone. I was watching reruns of man-u getting thumped by liverpool. It was about 9pm when I arrived and straight away got a shot of Chivas to boost my courage a little. After a few shots, I am getting high and nothing can be seen that can be hunted.

It was about 10.30pm when I saw this SYT walked in with a whole bunch of files. She looked tired but I am all for OLs. She orders a drink and she seems like waiting for somebody. Anyhow, after about 15 minutes watching her sitting alone, I sipped my last shot and approached her. "Hi, waiting for your friend?" I thought that I was going to be rejected straight away... But she smiled back,"No lah, waiting for my client. He's not picking up."

Reese is a financial adviser (sales girl la). I told her, "I am also waiting for people but my friend just called. He has something to do. Mind if I join you?" All this time, she was smiling and as soon as I was seated, she began to sell me everything... Anyhow, pass midnight when I asked her out for supper. Surprisingly, she agreed and went a few doors away for hokkien mee. After dinner, I was about to escort her to her car when she told me that she don't want to go home too early... The rest of the story, you use your imagination. :D

[lame-ah-pek]

Wow!

Congrats Bro TS!

Well Done!

[lenux]

Scored... finally... :D

yeh...an old fish get hooked :eek:

[rhys]

Dear liberatte

Maybe I should start cultivating an appreciation for Chivas?

:-)

Power to you sir!

[VanGogh]

Bros, at least most of you managed to pick up ONS or have FBs . ....

I for 1 not so lucky to ever have this type of experience, my pick ups will be those Street walker FLs at G-land, my FB are my regular FLs.. .. :(

. .. maybe I am not yandao and also fat to enjoy the things u guys had. ..

so look at me and cheer up mate.. .. ..

[liberatte]

Bro VanGogh

Sad to say, I am now a balding old man... I got lucky that time and mark
my words that this is going to be the last bonk for a long long time... Well, at least until I have the time to go hunting again.

[naturegreen]

yeh...an old fish get hooked :eek:

It's not an old fish get hooked. It's an old fish managed to hook up a delicious looking fish! :p

[strikeagle]

That's the thing bro... a long time ago, we don't need to throw money around to buy bottles... we just buy a drink and that's it...

Bro Liberatte,

i guess we do need luck sometimes....where we'll be at the right place at the right time.

[VanGogh]

Bro VanGogh

Sad to say, I am now a balding old man... I got lucky that time and mark
my words that this is going to be the last bonk for a long long time... Well, at least until I have the time to go hunting again.

well well bro, at least u managed to get "lucky". .. i never did no matter how. .. :D

maybe we should arrange to go Hunting together bro. ... :) 2 luckless man together may be the trick. ..

[lglg666]

Bro Liberatte,
i guess we do need luck sometimes....where we'll be at the right place at the right time.

Bro strikeagle,
This is remind me of trying to kena 4D lei....anyway you are right:D. No pain, no gain!

[liberatte]

Damn, high and dry... Never had a second encounter after that...

What bait do you guys use?????

[justime]

That why i always equate the various stages of cheekoness we go thru:

16 to late 20s stage the formative years which should be our cheekies years..then heading into our 30s to probably late 40s is the stage of cheekos..finally as we turned into our golden years from the 50s onwards that where we will earn the grand title of "CHEEKOPEK"..:D:D

Damn, high and dry... Never had a second encounter after that...

What bait do you guys use?????

I like Bro Frankiestine's various stages of cheekoness – it comforted me to know that I have still another stage to “aspire” to. The apogee of lustfulness for young nubile flesh: The Cheekopek. (At the very apex is Hugh Hefner! ….bow in homage!)

Anyway, I have shared my experience and “technique” in two other threads: “Mistress” and “Picking up Gals Outside KTV” at this forum and I shall give a gist of what I wrote there with regards to SYT vis-à-vis cheekos.

I would like to say that this happened in this little red dot, but it did not. It happened in JKT. I think that although the location is different the general principles are the same.

Like most of my conquest since I hit the big 40 half a decade ago, it is NOT a pick-up at a watering hole scenario. We fogies stand a small chance against vainglorious youngsters flashing their father’s money. Our pick up has to be presented in a context.

$$$$$, is an Indonesian SYT. She sells cosmetics. She is only twenty years old.

In between business appointments, I wandered in a department store where I espied a very sweet girl with large doeful eyes. Unlike youth, we fogies should be relatively steep in confidence and not being too much of a wall flower in your approach to ladies. (And confidence is the most attractive trait whether young or old!)

As an ice breaker, I intentionally made an enquiry about some cosmetic range (Mustika Ratu - Indonesian brand analogous to Body Shop) that I know the store did not carry. In order to obscure my age I say that it is a present for my mum and that I heard this local brand can work miracles.

To get the conversation going, I cast aspersions on crass commercialization of the famous globally known products and saying the value is mostly in the branding and not in the ingredients.

I also beseiged her to really help me out (appealing on her sense of altruism for a “hapless” foreigner) to obtain the Mustika Ratu range of products.

Knowing that a lot of people have some overt deep seated ‘nationalistic’ pride, I asked $$$$$ if local Indonesian product is really that good and that if she dares to use it on herself. This contention challenged her and provoked a little nationalistic pride. (Always induce some kind of reaction – nonchalance and indifference and normal interactions is forgettable and will simply leave you being thought of a "avuncular").

Obliquely, I also offered to get her some cosmetic product as well. An oblique offer – not direct. I mentioned to $$$$$ that I am not being generous. $$$$$ is to be my guinea pig. I also added to $$$$$ that that if my mother breaks out in acne, I will get royally kicked in my ass.

(Note that I am carefully crafting the language and context – Mother. Having acne. Break Out. Mother inflicting violence as if like a child? Come on! It should be obvious to anyone who read my postings that I am utilizing NLP to shape perception).

Of course, I played it a little cool so as to disguise my lascivious intent. I told $$$$$ that by the time she finishes work the Mustika Ratu (flagship) store will be closed. And therefore I made a date the following morning before her shift for her to help me.

(Morning/afternoon dates seem more innocuous! That is why local dating company like “Its Just Lunch” can get thrive in a crowded dating marketplace).

The next day, I met her near her place of work and together we took a cab to Mustika Ratu store. I lay a heavy dose of NLP seduction techniques on her

($$$$$ modality is mainly aural for those who are familiar with NLP’s principles).

Anyway to cut the long story short. By the time our little shopping jaunt is through, I had already made a date with her to pick her up for supper after work. We had a drink and one thing led to another and the next thing I knew, I had de-flowered her (its been more than a decade - maybe even two - since I makan a virgin).

See http://www.sammyboyforum.com/adult-discussions-about-sex/131860-mistress-32.html for details (including how she finally ended up as my BY).

To conclude: Cheekos too can land a SYT if you apply the proper strategy. We cannot simply adopt the same pick up techniques as in our youth and expect it to work like “it used to”. We need to accentuate our positives: Experienced. Confidence. Facilitator for a Ladies Personal Growth etc .... and apply a different tack in our approach. :cool:

[IdontKnow]

lol bunch of old men. nth better to do then go play chess

[IdontKnow]

lol bunch of old men. nth better to do then go play chess:cool:

[hendri2]

Ah pek was all the while thinking that this happened in spore...it is in fact in JKT....sorry to say it is a piece of cake to land a syt in our neighbouring countries....to land one locally is like kanan Toto...

[freezetheDB]

dear bro TS,

Bonking is but merely a part of life.

Life has many other things, like good food, good company of friends/family, good conversations, hobbies.

[justime]

Ah pek was all the while thinking that this happened in spore...it is in fact in JKT....sorry to say it is a piece of cake to land a syt in our neighbouring countries....to land one locally is like kanan Toto...

hi fellow ah pek bro hendri, what I am trying to impress is that the principles applied in seduction are the same (with some cultural modifications). $$$$$ my ‘latest’ squeeze is simply just a case study on how the strategy works. Nationality notwithstanding.

Now you tend to give too much credit to our local lasses. This is a limitation and psychological barrier self erected.

Please do know that our local lasses are rather promiscuous. In my experience with local lasses since I turned the big 4-0, I have ‘seduced’ more than a handful of locals. Including one whom would eventually became my present gf. (Guess what? Not only am I in my 40s. I am a divorcee too. And she is only in her mid twenties and no short of suitors!)

I don’t eschew local. In fact I sometimes find it easier to go local simply because I am able to bridge communication distance better. As per the application of seduction techniques via the use of NLP, the Creation of rapport is so much easier if you are familiar with the context and linguistic proclivities of the gal.

What is unfortunate for me is that I from my aesthetic perspective (subjective/personal), many of our local girls do not quite suit my palate. The ones who do will inadvertently be inundated with options. And I don’t have the time and inclination to compete.

If you intend to go local, please do be practical. Understand that ageism exist – even in neighboring countries. You will not win over some (emphasis on some) simply because you are chronologically longer on this planet. You must accept this fact. Find the ones that your age is a non issue. Do not waste too much time to re-work a lass’ ageism. It is often easier to direct your efforts on where and how to search rather than trying to change a perspective.

My advice (which is rooted on direct personal experience): If you want to break this local ‘barrier’, seek a mid twenties lass (one who has experienced a soured relationship) as a start. And do NOT seduce in the context of a pub or entertainment joint. Also learn and use NLP seduction techniques (the internet is replete with information). The key word is praxis – practice until the techniques are internalized.

To facilitate your journey, I shall share with you a secret – the most fertile ground whereby I scored with young local lass is during seminars / talks on self development - deportment. Yes, the very same lass who wouldn’t give me a second look at discos and watering holes.

If you still left high and dry despite these efforts – call me. I will probably know the tweaks in order for you to pull it all together. What you must endeavour is to put in the time and effort. Seduction is a skill like any other. It requires practice, knowledge and effort to hone.

And if your sincere effort plus my ‘coaching’ still fails to elicit a carnal response in a sweet local young thing. Choose any local FL on this forum – and the ‘treat’ will be on me!
:cool:

[justime]

dear bro TS,

Bonking is but merely a part of life.

Life has many other things, like good food, good company of friends/family, good conversations, hobbies.

Absolutely bro freezetheDB! And there are other forums whereby it teaches you on how to enhance and appreciate these other aspects of life ......;)

Context is the key. We come to sammyboyforum to enhance or enrich the sexual dimension of our life.

[liberatte]

Hunt starts again this time... However, looking for a more static prey. I am a vendor for a company based in Malaysia. There is an it chick there that has been friendly so far... Since too long ago since I've even hunted, I am just looking for a reason to ask her out..

[Plasma]

dear bro TS,

Bonking is but merely a part of life.

Life has many other things, like good food, good company of friends/family, good conversations, hobbies.

It will be a tough decision to make if you have to give up bonking or the latter group of activities. Sex is a BIG part of life :D

[Rain-Men]

kudos to bro justme for sharing his viewpoint. Time to look around for opportunities to hone my seducing skills..haha..got to spare some time from work to go to seminars liao..any good suggestions bro? :)

[goodpartner]

Aging + SYT. How could I have missed such a thread last year :D

Camp.

[DOM Sanni]

i hv seen balding man with a table of syts in bars. No big deal, only when you see bald men in bed with syts, ah..... that's different.

i m in my late 30s too You're still young. Actually, I think 30s is prime time, you have physical, mental and financial stability.

Its great to see so many bros out there who are in my category. Somehow, age is a massive factor, no denying it.

My record (at age 34) is 33 bonks in 6 consecutive days with an ex-GF when I brought her for holidays. Now I need several days to recover after a shot.

I've tried doing it on 2 continuous days. I can still get an erection, I can screw her but I get tired and my dick goes limp inside the cunt. Got to pull it out and settle for a bj or a hj. Sometimes, even that don't work. Some girls seem to understand and are very accomodating. And no, they don't call me uncle, they call me Da Ge or darling or something sweet. Professionalism. LOL

Only those aunties at coffee shops call me uncle. Bro Frankiestine, are you reading this?, its not because I'm old but because those aunties feel younger when they call people uncle.:D

Now, I would say I get an urge at least a week after the last burst of fire.

But I still love SYTs. Somehow MILFs won't work, they can't sustain my interest and little brother decides to quit again.

Picking up SYTs in clubs? Nah... first, the music's too loud. It's also the wrong kind of music too.

I prefer Karen Carpenter or Olivia Newton John. But it was a wonderful consolation for me when I saw a friend of mine with songs by Doris Day.

Now you know why your mother screams at you to turn down the volume.

[SureScore]

Hunt starts again this time... However, looking for a more static prey. I am a vendor for a company based in Malaysia. There is an it chick there that has been friendly so far... Since too long ago since I've even hunted, I am just looking for a reason to ask her out..

Wish you good luck.

[Frankiestine]

Only those aunties at coffee shops call me uncle. Bro Frankiestine, are you reading this?, its not because I'm old but because those aunties feel younger when they call people uncle.:D

Hahaha bro that very reassuring....:p:p

[pokeman71]

I am seeing 40+ very soon. Have a lover age 46 beside OC. Twice a week for OC and lover for the pass 10yrs, but recently like it become too much for me. Wonder bros have the same experience as me.

[goodpartner]

Only those aunties at coffee shops call me uncle, its not because I'm old but because those aunties feel younger when they call people uncle.:D

But these aunties will also say that the uncles go for SYT so as to feel younger too :rolleyes:

My youngest SYT gf is almost half my age when I know her at age 17.
I feel young with her.... and I still do :p

Cradle snatcher I am :D

[ajlover]

bro, count me in.:D
count me in too... gone are the days where every fishing trip ends up with some fishes...

[Hungary Fighter]

I am seeing 40+ very soon. Have a lover age 46 beside OC. Twice a week for OC and lover for the pass 10yrs, but recently like it become too much for me. Wonder bros have the same experience as me.


i am 40 too.....i feel good.....not as energetic when i m in my 20s or early 30s......i suggest older bros like me cheong lesser.....we will b able to cheong until we are 50s or older......:D.....

[Frankiestine]

I am seeing 40+ very soon. Have a lover age 46 beside OC. Twice a week for OC and lover for the pass 10yrs, but recently like it become too much for me. Wonder bros have the same experience as me.
Hehehe bro I volunteer to enlighten your load...:D

[SureScore]

I am seeing 40+ very soon. Have a lover age 46 beside OC. Twice a week for OC and lover for the pass 10yrs, but recently like it become too much for me. Wonder bros have the same experience as me.

Me 40+ but chiong once after 2 to 3 months.

[longjohn7"]

Bros,

I'm 49 but with healthy sexual appetite. Twice or trice a week with OC and at least twice a month with FB. (FB is a 40 yr old divorcee and travels).

[see see only]

count me in too... gone are the days where every fishing trip ends up with some fishes...

Count me in 3 or 4 or even 100s or 1,000s or ....


But me agree with TS ... once a while when start a conversation with SYTs :o


And come to topic like where to go for weekend ??? :confused: (in my mind, anywhere will do but they can chat for hours)

But when come business talk or difficulties they faced in works (my eyes brighten up with ideas - but then they dont seem to understand a single word) :D


Somehow just let them entertain us better ... Action only no talk :D

[pokeman71]

Me 40+ but chiong once after 2 to 3 months.

Currently i still bonk twice a week. If holiday with lover than might be more.

Are you saying you bonk only 2 to3 month once.

[mr_missile]

I prefer Karen Carpenter or Olivia Newton John. But it was a wonderful consolation for me when I saw a friend of mine with songs by Doris Day.


Ahhh, Karen Carpenter and ONJ. They are what I call singers as compared to what they have now.....Lady Goo goo Ga ga? :)

[DOM Sanni]

Bros,

I'm 49 but with healthy sexual appetite. Twice or trice a week with OC and at least twice a month with FB. (FB is a 40 yr old divorcee and travels).

Wah lau... 2, 3 times a week with OC, not including FB. You really tok kong.

Wish I had half your appetite. You definitely have my respect.

Oi, your appetite include viagra or not?

[DOM Sanni]

Ahhh, Karen Carpenter and ONJ. They are what I call singers as compared to what they have now.....Lady Goo goo Ga ga? :)

Yeah bro. Those were the days when singers really can sing.

Nowadays singers need huge boobs and sexy body to hide their half baked voices.:cool:

[longjohn7"]

Wah lau... 2, 3 times a week with OC, not including FB. You really tok kong.

Wish I had half your appetite. You definitely have my respect.

Oi, your appetite include viagra or not?

No artificial stuff, Bro. Been taking manuka honey/cinnamon mix (first thing in the morning daily) for the last 5 years and jelaq exercise twice daily with donga oil. I do not PCC and practice cumming without ejaculation.

[goodpartner]

I ... practice cumming without ejaculation.

This one is interesting, how and what exactly is that stunt? :confused:

[Oink Oink]

Be it trade, be it love or be it fate.

At 16, a lady in her 20s invited me to her hotel when I was a part-time banquet waiter.

In mid 20s, nothing was impossible.

Divorced at early 30s, I lost confidence in marriage.

Hit 40s and little girls reaching 20s tell me they love me.

I share some sentiments - age gap. Hard to get anything in common.

Each one lives a unique life and let us all bravely face what's ahead of us.

No artificial stuff, Bro. Been taking manuka honey/cinnamon mix (first thing in the morning daily) for the last 5 years and jelaq exercise twice daily with donga oil. I do not PCC and practice cumming without ejaculation.
That's new to me!

[longjohn7"]

This one is interesting, how and what exactly is that stunt? :confused:

get the book on "being healthy; the tao way" a whole chapter dedicated to men's sexuality.

[SureScore]

Currently i still bonk twice a week. If holiday with lover than might be more.

Are you saying you bonk only 2 to3 month once.


Yes, sometimes but fire once or twice if cannot wait.

[eeemen]

An old cheongster buddy of mine [in his 60s] told me that the only purpose in life for him now is to bonk!! If his dick can't salute then he said that he has lost his purpose :D :D. He still cheongs abt twice a week.

[seasecrets]

Once a cheongster will always be a cheongste, guess I'll cheong until need to take viagra also cheong. 60s and still cheongs twice a week sibei solid leh, nowadays, I fire once already can feel weakness.......think need to go drink turtle soup more often.

[maxjoy]

I am going to be 50 soon. My state of mind is still in the 30s, I am still looking at girls in their 20s thinking I might have a chance with them. I love those fat-free legs, tight smooth powdery skin, lush soft lips, well define curves, its all youth and health. I used to get looks from them but not any more. Now I am just a dirty old uncle if my gaze lingers a little longer. Now the only syt's dates that I might have can only be found at the ktvs and nightclubs i.e. if I flaunt my wallet's contents a bit but that's not a sure thing! I was once rejected at a oversea ktv syt when I hinted of overnight. My younger buddies all scored! WTF!. Even some local FLs reject customers above 50! Now I can barely look at myself in the mirror, its all wrinkled, deep frown lines, saggy eye bags, dull oxidized skin. It the age of uncertainties, a transitions stage filled with anxieties, a feeling of lost, of life slowly slipping away, a desperate attempt to hold on to our youth.......

[liberatte]

Scored... finally.... after a long shot.... long long shot. I will bteak it down later in an FR.

[fun_n_pleasure]

Scored... finally.... after a long shot.... long long shot. I will bteak it down later in an FR.

Cool bro, looking forward to hearing from you :D

[goodpartner]

Didn't know about this "old" thread.
Camp :D

[incestisgd]

wow.... interesting thread... didnt contribute for a long long time.

anyway, i am already 40yo this year. a bit flabby (cos lack of exercise) and not exactly very rich.

as much as i still love all the SYT, i got to say... i really thought that my time was over... until this year :)

i totally agree with some of the bro here.... growing old doesnt mean that you need to forget about style or personal grooming, etc.

i still try my best to go for a jog or gym session.... keep my hair short and dyed it black... dress neatly (and not like those old uncles sitting at kopi tiam).

and from mid-2009 till now.... i managed to get into the bed with a 25yo teacher.... a 19yo jc girl (repeat student) and another 25yo admin executive :)

and i am not referrig to ONS... but long term FBs.

end of the day... it is about confidence, world-savvy, sense of humour, etc.

but of course, i still got to say it is definitely not as easy as when we were much younger... but still, it is not the end of the world... we still have hope :)

[goodpartner]

i totally agree with some of the bro here.... growing old doesnt mean that you need to forget about style or personal grooming, etc.

While it's true that we are as old as we look, act or think, the circumstance is different if one age alone as a single or have a committed long-term partner (married or otherwise).

With a partner aging along with you, 'eating out' is a delicacy. Without one, it becomes a need. The need to perhaps feel young again, seeking out SYT companionship with the lure of money (noted all the sayings about "having money will not fear no SYT" flocking to you).

I need a goodpartner...
Maybe it's about time I settle down, again. LOL
Any gal out there can accept a whoremonger who has fcuk hundreds of pussies?
(and not be afraid to be labelled as a twit to marry or be involved with one?)

[B52bomber]

I am getting old. I have not been into commercial sex or any extra-marital activities for a long long time. One day, I discovered that I've missed something and decided to have a drink with a friend in a nice pub in KL. Looking back at the time that I used to pick up girls in pubs for ONS was a history that i can vaguely remember. Now that I am balding and face no longer what it was used to be (not good looking like last time). I saw a couple of SYT sitting in the corner and my friend insisted that we them drinks. If we are lucky, we would've scored. We invited ourselves to their table and started our conversations. No matter how we tried to focus our conversation on our pick up tactics when we were young, we would always shift our topics back to the world news. Would it be a lack of practice? Would it be that my 'luck' has finally run out? Any tips from older brothers here?

No the luck for women never run out....
1) dress to the latest trend
2) speak their lingo..
3) spent some money on branded stuff
4) never talk about world news when in their company unless they ask you..
5) never leave the party early..try staying as late as them
6) An added advantage...buy bottle drink instead or jug of beers.
7) Seize opportunitie and take the lead in the group.

behave young ...and you shall never grow old..

[jintulan]

interesting thread....

stopped visiting sbf for some years. nothing to do tonite in my hotel room and remembered sbf...

not sure if I'll ever re-start my engine again.

[jintulan]

... With a partner aging along with you, 'eating out' is a delicacy. Without one, it becomes a need... only true for some, not all.

... I need a goodpartner...
Maybe it's about time I settle down, again....good luck! brother...

[goodpartner]

Welcum back to SBF bro!
Must be thinking of something naughty while bored at the hotel room? :D

only true for some, not all.

The age gap is an issue for some but not for others. :rolleyes:

U sounded like a clone of someone ;)

[homeboy2010]

wow.... interesting thread... didnt contribute for a long long time.

anyway, i am already 40yo this year. a bit flabby (cos lack of exercise) and not exactly very rich.

as much as i still love all the SYT, i got to say... i really thought that my time was over... until this year :)

i totally agree with some of the bro here.... growing old doesnt mean that you need to forget about style or personal grooming, etc.

i still try my best to go for a jog or gym session.... keep my hair short and dyed it black... dress neatly (and not like those old uncles sitting at kopi tiam).

and from mid-2009 till now.... i managed to get into the bed with a 25yo teacher.... a 19yo jc girl (repeat student) and another 25yo admin executive :)

and i am not referrig to ONS... but long term FBs.

end of the day... it is about confidence, world-savvy, sense of humour, etc.

but of course, i still got to say it is definitely not as easy as when we were much younger... but still, it is not the end of the world... we still have hope :)
Bro you the can ! Champion !

[eddtan1]

keke...life begins at 40...:D
Am loving it...:cool:

[jintulan]

Welcum back to SBF bro!
Must be thinking of something naughty while bored at the hotel room? :D another boring nite in the hotel, surfing sbf.
aiya, dunno what's wrong... fire's gone... maybe too cold outside :(

[homeboy2010]

another boring nite in the hotel, surfing sbf.
aiya, dunno what's wrong... fire's gone... maybe too cold outside :(

go and find a girl to accompany you

[mamamiakuku]

age is not the problem bro. Why not pay for sex?

[liberatte]

Time to revive my thread.
After some time of soul searching, I've actually found out what happened. Even though I am old and cannot guarantee an erection everytime, I was approached by a friend. He's in MLM anyway...

He sold me this set of products which actually helped both looks and performance. Also, assisted me to have a tent everyday i wake up. I feel energized everyday and able to bonk 3-4 times each session. :eek: Anyway, paid good price for the course of 6 months and went on the capsule daily.

Priced about 5K for 6 months supply. Its better than popping viagra. It has been about 3 months since I've taken the product and the effect is still there. If interested, PM me your contact and I'll get him to call you...

[liberatte]

Btw, i gave the distributor's number to some brothers and sisters here.
For those who bought the product, good for you. For those who didn't, at least you've learned something. For those people who actually called and scolded him without him even have the chance to talk, I wish you all the best in life.

He's not even making a profit out of this because the product saved his 'life'; which is something that he shared to very patient brothers and sisters. By the way, he's a multi-milliionaire and do not need the money anyway.

He wanted to give it to me for free last time. But I told him no, because human would not appreciate free stuffs. He gets the idea and the only thing you need to give to him is the cost. :p

[ilovesingapore]

hey old is gold!!

[liberatte]

hey old is gold!!

Old and able to use your dong like a 20 year old is priceless...

[tamtam]

Nice thread............

For me, it works the other way, when i m much younger, i didn't have much chance to score with womens, coz i worked too hard, starts a family...Blah, blah..blah.

After my relationship broke down with my wife, things begin to change, i noticed women around me tends to be more chatty and kept close to me more and more, may be its because, i sub-conciously allows myself to get extra friendly, not sexually at first, but now i think i faired pretty well.

Infact all my good friend with benefits are all younger than me, one even 15 years younger than me. I m not the very handsome type, i would say just normal looking type, but what i learnt was, you got to be homurous and bold at the same time. I used to be dumbfounded when meeting the girl i like, my mouth would opens, but nothing comes out, girls then find me very boring.

As i grow older, i can related alot better, now i can walk up to any lady and talk cock, and sometime, you get rewarded for that. I have a handful of ex-colleagues whom had resigned and still in contact with me, they find me very comfortable to talk to, and i usually gave them good advices. On the other hand i find some of them comfy in bed. hehe.:D

I dont have any game plan for all these, but since now that i have become a pussy man, i just need to work myself, to get into their pants.:p

I enjoyed more in my 40s than in my 20s.

Just to share.

[liberatte]

Good for you. However, many of us still have the charm. However, its the tool that we cannot use 'effectively'.

Many brothers tend to turn to viagra. However, ends up with a heart condition... so, the product would help many people everywhere. :D

[bignround]

Hi bro,

side track the topic a bit.
I am hitting my 40s soon but maybe i am blessed with young gene, i still look early 30s except my 4 months old preggy beer belly.

i still have active sex life with ONS n FB(by the way i am not married) but to be frank sometimes i find sex a chores. I find more n more that sex is becoming an obligation, honesty i think out of 10 times maybe 4 i really enjoy it.

I do not know if this has to do with age or my mind is too preoccupied with the things i need to do when i get home or for my work next day.

currently my greatest pleasure is to pickup. Yes the notion of picking up a gal. Whether with someone i know or a gal in a club, it is thrilling to try to pick up. Regardless of success or failure it is still fun and i usually enjoyed the whole process of pick up.

Except after u have successfully pick up the gal, sometimes i suddenly feels bored and just like to say bye. Sometimes i fulfill my obligation with the ONS.

my best friend commented that i am weird. is that the case of aging or there are others like me out there?

[liberatte]

Hi bro,

side track the topic a bit.
I am hitting my 40s soon but maybe i am blessed with young gene, i still look early 30s except my 4 months old preggy beer belly.

i still have active sex life with ONS n FB(by the way i am not married) but to be frank sometimes i find sex a chores. I find more n more that sex is becoming an obligation, honesty i think out of 10 times maybe 4 i really enjoy it.

I do not know if this has to do with age or my mind is too preoccupied with the things i need to do when i get home or for my work next day.

currently my greatest pleasure is to pickup. Yes the notion of picking up a gal. Whether with someone i know or a gal in a club, it is thrilling to try to pick up. Regardless of success or failure it is still fun and i usually enjoyed the whole process of pick up.

Except after u have successfully pick up the gal, sometimes i suddenly feels bored and just like to say bye. Sometimes i fulfill my obligation with the ONS.

my best friend commented that i am weird. is that the case of aging or there are others like me out there?


That's because your body and mind is tired...

[bearking]

How old is OLD? age is just numbers and the more u keep counting the more old u will be..

Take good care of yourself la. Exercise, eat balance meal. U can play hard but also need to play smart. As there's a sentence goes: 没有丑女人（男人），只有懒女人（男人）！Im not talking about men wearing make up la..but at least can go for simple facial, spa, gym etc.

franking speaking, as men aged, the wiser he gets, it doesn't mean he will become a dirty old men! I have seen some 50s good looking guys too..

[liberatte]

How old is OLD? age is just numbers and the more u keep counting the more old u will be..

Take good care of yourself la. Exercise, eat balance meal. U can play hard but also need to play smart. As there's a sentence goes: 没有丑女人（男人），只有懒女人（男人）！Im not talking about men wearing make up la..but at least can go for simple facial, spa, gym etc.

franking speaking, as men aged, the wiser he gets, it doesn't mean he will become a dirty old men! I have seen some 50s good looking guys too..

That makes both of us. Hunting is 1 thing.. but the actual farking is another.. if time and $ spent on a pretty girl, then after she strip and you find your tool not working... dunno where to put face

[Vectra]

Exercise, eat balance meal. U can play hard but also need to play smart...

Just curious, what u mean by play smart??:p

[asdfghjkl]

just sharing my experience.. those 40+ men are highly competitive and were in division 1 during their undergraduate.. NB! :o

[liberatte]

just sharing my experience.. those 40+ men are highly competitive and were in division 1 during their undergraduate.. NB! :o

Well, that's just some 40+ men...

[LovePotion]

yea not all 40+ men.

But gotta acknowledge that those that are good really comes backed up with experience =)

[liberatte]

yea not all 40+ men.

But gotta acknowledge that those that are good really comes backed up with experience =)

when people are old enough to think they are old... then you're old

[Asia1]

when people are old enough to think they are old... then you're old

whe people old enough but still think ther r young, how ??

recently read a article:

one SG old man accuse his young wife of not performing wife's duty, and they quarral and called police. the man told the wife not like wife, but the young wife told the police - his bro not standing, make her suffer ... :D

[liberatte]

whe people old enough but still think ther r young, how ??

recently read a article:

one SG old man accuse his young wife of not performing wife's duty, and they quarral and called police. the man told the wife not like wife, but the young wife told the police - his bro not standing, make her suffer ... :D

Just as I mentioned... get SYT... however, cannot perform how?