Is your partner okay to have sex under normal lighting?

[samyboys]

It seems to me most prefer to have all lights off and maybe just some spill over light from the bathroom. my partner also prefers dim, all lights off to do it. seldom have the chance to do it in the afternoon:confused:

[j0n`_8]

mine's ok and we've done it with lights on at night and during bright daylight in living room

[cheongsterjon]

Trust me, if you find a real hot lady who is full of confidence, she will want to do it under full lighting, some will even want to look at the mirror to see their own body while riding you...but of course some have their own preference for dim lighting

[David Silva]

Yes...I can see her nice body under the lights. :)

[hyteatic]

For me she always prefer to dim the light.

[gentleman]

I manage to change my 3 FBs from dim light to outdoor :D just kidding

[Bangster]

Flood lights.

Stadium type.

We are exhibitionists...

heehee

[Hurricane88]

It seems to me most prefer to have all lights off and maybe just some spill over light from the bathroom. my partner also prefers dim, all lights off to do it. seldom have the chance to do it in the afternoon:confused:

Give your partner some time...she will allow more lights when she is with you longer...sometimes you need to do sex spontaneously...:)

[oceanic]

Give your partner some time...she will allow more lights when she is with you longer...sometimes you need to do sex spontaneously...:)

Yes, wat bro Hurricane said is true. me n my gf used to do with very dim lights or no lights at all the beginning. then after dat we do with lights on, even in the afternoon where the sunlight is shining in. takes time bro.

[alanthegreat]

2 things that i can relate why she doesn't want to have lights on

1) she thinks sex is "dirty". therefore she doesn't want to see the "action" but just want to enjoy the process.

2) u are ugly and fat, she can't bring herself to have sex with u but u are her partner and she have to give in.

3) she is ugly and fat. she is afraid that u will puke after seeing her naked body.

jokes aside, i don't see why the ladies counterpart will prefer no lights. sex is a total package with physical contact, sound and visual expressions + contact. without the light is like watching porn but the whole video is mosiac-ed

[horsepunter]

Dim the light ah....

Let me share with you my real life experience.

Many years back...i sianz one of my ex-colleague MILF in the mid 40's. I was 30 then and she really look kind of too mature for me.

I have a boyish look...we walked together can tell a great different. I sometime a bit paiseh when ppl keep looking at us.

Though her look nothing to shout abt, her figure was well kept with C cup breast...flat tummy...I m a anti tummy guy...big tummy will make me impotent on the spot.
Her ass is big and perky, not bad for a 40 plus with 2 grown up kids. She married early.

It took me quite awhile b4 I managed to ask her out.
She scared gossip lah.

She is not those open minded type. Is just that she got no more chemistry with her hubby liao...her hubby also much older than her..so no more sex for long time. She told me all these.

I rem first date was to meet her at Tao Payoh for some makan. Nothing happened.

The second time was at Jade theatre ( now no more ) to watch a RA movie. I chose a weekday evening slot after work...not many ppl..

I was all over her in the cineman...damn dark inside...ask her to BJ me but she scared ppl can see. I was very horny but the show not really interesting,...nothing to see...so I suggest go off after half an hour into the show.

We walked out and I lead her to the staircase ...force her to bj me...she refused intially but I just push my cock into her mouth...follow by CIM but she dare not swallow...spilled everything out on the floor.

She was angry cos I forced her....we parted with her black faced.

Next few days I called her and try to salvage the situation.

SHe gave in and I suggested going to hotel. I chose one near Arab street...budget hotel. Cannot rem the name of the hotel...cos is long time ago.

When I checked in with her...the receptionist ( a guy ) keep looking at us...maybe he is thinking
so old I also want ah...anyway I dont care lah.

In the room, i frenched her deep and hot and lick all over her firm C cup..for her age she really has a beautiful tits but her skin abit rough with wringles. Free one ...so cannot hiam so much.

Moreover the thrill is too much for me to resist. I want to hv sex with her but she died died dont let me have it. She dont even let me touch her pussy or remove her skirts...all the while she is only topless.

I thought she is being shy or maybe not ready to have sex with me cos she is a married woman and she knows is not right to do that. So i lan lan ask her to blow me and CIM. THis time she swallow all. I guess she know I not happy cannot enter her..so she gave me a good BJ and swallow
to compensate my disappointment.

THe next few dates are the same..no sex, just CIM. I m very angry cos I want to fuck her really hard...

I really want to give her a good fuck..so I brain-washed her for a few weeks....before she said.

"OK , tonight I give you".

SO i very happy and get ready for the big battle. As usual, check in into the same hotel.
By now the recept already know us very well liao. She was wearing a tight pants with a long sleeve
blouse with 2 bottons off...can see her deep cleavage...steam man...


In the room...i Wasted no time and was all over her. After some heavy petting...i started to unzip her pants...at this moment..she requested me to dim the light...

I thought she shy..so I dim the light..

WHen I pull her pants down..she turned her body so that her back is facing me.

I cannot see her pussy cos she is lying on the bed face down. I hugged her from the back
and reach for her pussy and start to rub and finger her...very wet in no time....and she
turned her head to french me deep and hot...quite rare cos most of the time i m the one doing that to her and she is not really a good kisser...

I guessed I must hv finger her so well that she has turned into a slut..she lost control liao.

I m ready for penetration..so i put on my condom and ask her to turnover her body so I can fuck the hell out of her. GUESS WHAT????

SHe ask me to off the light!!!!!! I was thinking.....dark dark cannot see anything where got shiok.

But no choice I off the light and she turned over.

I forced on to her body and she guided my cock into her wet dripping pussy with her hand.

Is damn hot inside but a bit lose and I pumped her hard for less than 10 strokes...something just strike my mind....i am still hard and erected but somehow I just stopped pumping. I reached for the desk lamp and turned on the light.

TO MY HORROR.....I saw her pussy...she got lots of marks and patches around her groin ,pussy all the way down to her ass check...

They looked like kind of skin rashes or diseases...maybe herpes I dont know.

It is just too much for me to take it ..no one on earth will want to fuck a rotton pussy.

I rushed into the toilet and scrub my finger with whatever soap I can find. Next thing i remove my condom slowly and carefully and wash and rub my cock under the hot
running water....it hurts but I just want to make sure whatever germs that will land on my cock will be terminated by the hot water.

After spend god know how long in the toilet...i come out.

SHe already dress up and sit on the bed without a word.

I asked her what thats around ur groin and pussy???

SHe told me she got sensitive skin and those are just rashes.

I just keep quiet...no mood liao....said bye bye to her.

I never call her anymore...and the next few days I inspect my cock..make sure no blister or rashes appeared.

Luckily I m clear...nothing happened to my cock.
It is still as cute and handsome...

So next time when a gal insisted must dim or off the light..
beware!! u might be fucking rotten or CCB!!!

[JIU XING]

bros horsepunter, thanks for ur story... kekeke for a moment i get a hard on reading ur story, then ending part immediately cucu jiao go and hide liao wahahah :D thanks again hor..kamsia :D

[alvin36]

Dim the light ah....

Let me share with you my real life experience.


Luckily I m clear...nothing happened to my cock.
It is still as cute and handsome...

So next time when a gal insisted must dim or off the light..
beware!! u might be fucking rotten or CCB!!!

bro horsepunter, your story damn funny and well written :D

[sam1974]

Bro horsepunter, nice starting but sad ending. Lucky i am not eating while reading. Well written.

[simple2kee]

So next time when a gal insisted must dim or off the light..
beware!! u might be fucking rotten or CCB!!!

thanks for sharing ur story. :)

[block11]

errr.... normally i request to dim the lights. shy laa :p


So next time when a gal insisted must dim or off the light..
beware!! u might be fucking rotten or CCB!!!

thanks bro! so visual inspection is always recommended :D

[justaboy]

i did nearly in every condition before.
normal lightning, dim light, totally dark and in afternoon...
makes no diff, but sometimes is nice to she ur gf faces when they are having orgasm... makes u wanna pound her harder.. hehehe

[asdfghjkl]

my partner insists on having the lights on.. :p

[Touch88]

DIM lighting is the best u can see her face while bonking her..the view that u will nv forget for the rest of your life..

[liberatte]

I have a variable resistor for my nightlights... depends on mood sometimes.. if wanna be fuck-machine... then on at full blast.. if want a romantic night... then dim lor... if bring a not so attractive girl home.. then totally off lights... hehehe

[ch18]

It all depends leh....

At times, she want to do it in the dark but at times, she want it bright bright.... I also lost lah....

[samyboys]

if u know your partner, dim lighting is fine. if someone u do not know (FLs), better have the light on to know where and what u are entering

[Punder]

sometimes glaring if on lights..

dim more relax.

Also, it reflects CO's Self esteem too.

[TyLa_BaBy]

sometimes glaring if on lights..

dim more relax.


Totally agree. U guys don't find it glaring meh?! Women like it romantic, also good to hide small physical flaws like stretchmarks and cellulite. :D

Dim lighting also can check before "use". No need spotlight or flood lights lor.

[freezetheDB]

everyone looks better under dimmed lights

just think of the clubbing scenerio, some alcohol some dimmed lights all perfect.

go home on the light the next morning kua dio gui

[Masterdebater]

Lights on but dim so I can see our mirrors! She likes to watch herself

[TyLa_BaBy]

freezetheDB: You never QC outside the club meh?!?

Masterdebater: You are one lucky lucky guy.

[cum_in]

mine ok with bright bright lights. Lol.