Dating an Ex-HC Lady

[HOWITZER105MM]

Today I received a sms from a HC lady who has long retired. We chatted like old friends and I manage to get a date with her. Really looking forward to seeing her this weekend. She used to to be an angpai. She complains that she is feeling bored and thought of me. It is amazing that she can still remember after 3 years.

[longwinter]

bro, a date with her? what it means? means u going out with her or going to book her for her services?

[HOWITZER105MM]

We going for dinner and movie.:)

[owen10]

bro, a date with her? what it means? means u going out with her or going to book her for her services?

sounds to me he's goin to date her.

gals in this trade r exposed to diff men everyday, n hardly find true love. guess they do get bored occasionally n need some1 to talk to. in this case, she's a former HC gal n probly single n lonely.

TS, maybe if u r still single u can try goin into a r'ship with her. :D

[Bangkok Master]

Gals from the trade always required someone who's patient and esp a good listener, if you can provide TLC unconditionally who knows what might escalate into. Now it's up to you to gauge whether you just want to be her friend or more than friends.

[longwinter]

sounds to me he's goin to date her.

gals in this trade r exposed to diff men everyday, n hardly find true love. guess they do get bored occasionally n need some1 to talk to. in this case, she's a former HC gal n probly single n lonely.

TS, maybe if u r still single u can try goin into a r'ship with her. :D

Well going into r/s with her, can, provided if u are loaded. if not better think twice about it. :D In the long run, u will be fuck mentally and physically.

Just my 2 cents, Just like u say, sometime these girls mite approach u becos they are bored and perhaps lonely, they need some1 to accmpy them and talk to.. but than still must go in with a caution mind. Sometimes they approach u after a long time and out of the sudden, there mite be some ulterior motives, maybe they are starting work soon le and need ur support??

[longwinter]

We going for dinner and movie.:)

Going for simple meals and movie is okie. but just be careful bro, if she out of the sudden try to pull of any stunts on u n etc. :D

[shark89]

We going for dinner and movie.:)

That sounds like a normal date in Sg. You sure got no "supper" after the movie? ;)
But anyway, an ex HC girl is also human. Let not their past be a stigma or a hindrance to their future (normal) lives since they are already back "on-shore".

[elephanto]

good luck, TS.

We shall await yr updates.

Statistically speaking, it is highly probable that there is an agenda somewhere behind the setting of 'dinner & movie' (for both ex-HC gal & TS).

Hopefully, both get what they want.

If got fairy tale arising from this 'dinner & movie' start, I'm sure we are all suckers for a romantic finish.
:p

[Plotinus]

Hope you enjoy your date.

[tigerboy18]

Today I received a sms from a HC lady who has long retired. We chatted like old friends and I manage to get a date with her. Really looking forward to seeing her this weekend. She used to to be an angpai. She complains that she is feeling bored and thought of me. It is amazing that she can still remember after 3 years.

all d best to u bro, but pls come back n tell us your story ok? :)

[aczeta76]

Today I received a sms from a HC lady who has long retired. We chatted like old friends and I manage to get a date with her. Really looking forward to seeing her this weekend. She used to to be an angpai. She complains that she is feeling bored and thought of me. It is amazing that she can still remember after 3 years.

yo bro.. u seem to have many r/s thread nowadays..

hahaha.. perhaps she cannot forget your HOWITZER...?

Anyway, a date is a date. No need to complicate things. I used to go out with FL with no actions too once in a while.

[hatyaiking]

Just enjoy your date and let things go along naturally!;)

[gilagila100]

Today I received a sms from a HC lady who has long retired. We chatted like old friends and I manage to get a date with her. Really looking forward to seeing her this weekend. She used to to be an angpai. She complains that she is feeling bored and thought of me. It is amazing that she can still remember after 3 years.

Just go and enjoy the date but dun expect too much and be a bit careful loh.

Same goes for dating any girls (WL or not), it is the same when you meet strangers or people that you dun know that well.

Always play safe and enjoy !! :D

[HOWITZER105MM]

thank you brothers all so caring. I will update you all after Sat. Supposed to bonk a PRC WL but has to cancel liao because of date.:D

[owen10]

it's envitable tt bros here r in general sceptical of d gal's intentions, knowing her background. but not all gals in this trade r like tt i guess. of cos part of their aim is to PR n want u to patronise them more but not all want to dig yr $$$ i guess.

i went out with a PRC masseuse b4. i bot her dinner n movie. she treated me ice-cream (SWENSENS one lah! :D). after tt i didnt patronise her for quite long, n she didnt pester me too. juz d occasional sms.

lets not jump to conclusions 1st n see what TS gotta say after his date lah. :D

[Fbuddy]

Good luck TS, maybe you can convert her to your FB, and be patient hehe :D:D

camp here for your dating story ...

[longwinter]

thank you brothers all so caring. I will update you all after Sat. Supposed to bonk a PRC WL but has to cancel liao because of date.:D

anyway hope u enjoy urself. :)

[Schneider]

Today I received a sms from a HC lady who has long retired. We chatted like old friends and I manage to get a date with her. Really looking forward to seeing her this weekend. She used to to be an angpai. She complains that she is feeling bored and thought of me. It is amazing that she can still remember after 3 years.

Ha..ha...bro, you still looking for relationship ah since you broke up with your ex some time ago. Hope the wounds have healed otherwise it can complicate matters.

[tiko_tao]

thank you brothers all so caring. I will update you all after Sat. Supposed to bonk a PRC WL but has to cancel liao because of date.:D

this shows that you've given her a very good impression that's why she still can remember you, guess she must have some feeling for you. ;)

[Rally]

so how was the date? any updates?

[mirage07]

Happen to look into this thread.. well.. such r/s are special too.. though it started initially with a different intent... but who knows wat will happen in future? Hope your date is going well... wish for u~.

But same old saying: Better to be on the safe side

[creeve]

reading this thread now at 2:33am and i'm seeing a lot of bros in this thread with the green button on (meaning they are online).

guess everyone one is thinking HOW'S THE DATE??

[musketeer]

Awaiting your update.

[HOWITZER105MM]

It was a great evening. I picked her up at her place and we went for a great dinner. After which we went to the beach for a chat. No hanky panky. She is impressed with me that I am a gentle-man. A sweet lady who is very chatty. We talked about everything even about his HC history. A fun person to be with.:D She especially dressed up for me with a mini-dress revealing deep cleavage and great heels which makes her look very hot. No sex no petting but nice feeling just the same.

[HOWITZER105MM]

It was a great evening. I picked her up at her place and we went for a great dinner. After which we went to the beach for a chat. No hanky panky. She is impressed with me that I am a gentle-man. A sweet lady who is very chatty. We talked about everything even about his HC history. A fun person to be with.:D She especially dressed up for me with a mini-dress revealing deep cleavage and great heels which makes her look very hot. No sex no petting but nice feeling just the same.

Sorry I meant to say "her HC history"

[justakid]

wah exciting. camping for alot more

[Harcourt]

Today I received a sms from a HC lady who has long retired. We chatted like old friends and I manage to get a date with her. Really looking forward to seeing her this weekend. She used to to be an angpai. She complains that she is feeling bored and thought of me. It is amazing that she can still remember after 3 years.

If it is ICE, formerly from Bugis HC, mai tu liao. She's the best. :)

[self_reserved]

pardon for my ignorance,
what's HC and what's ICE?

[Angelsonline]

Sounds like it was a good date. Keep it that way then. Who knows if it is just a once off thing? Or maybe it is the start of a great relationship.

TS, ask yourself on what grounds are you going out with her as well. If you are just going out as a friend then there is no need to do anything other than to clarify your stand with her. If you are looking for a long term relationship, then you will have to ask if yourself if you are ready to face the possible embarrassing moments when bumping into someone who knows both of you.

[rob_onny]

Hi Bro HOWITZER105MM, u actually don't need 2 create another post (within a few minutes)... u just need 2 click on the "Edit (http://little-link.com/pics/ebaad70014622488c40044e355771e2a.jpg)" button shown under ur original post.. then u can modify/edit leow... :D

Sorry I meant to say "her HC history"

[BroRelax]

TS Bro, hopefully she do not surf SBF.... :D

[HOWITZER105MM]

Thank you bros, I will just take things one step at a time. I will be nice to her. Thank you for all your concern, she is really a nice gal and I will treat her nice.:)

[owen10]

It was a great evening. I picked her up at her place and we went for a great dinner. After which we went to the beach for a chat. No hanky panky. She is impressed with me that I am a gentle-man. A sweet lady who is very chatty. We talked about everything even about his HC history. A fun person to be with.:D She especially dressed up for me with a mini-dress revealing deep cleavage and great heels which makes her look very hot. No sex no petting but nice feeling just the same.

nice to hear it was a gd n decent outing bro.

juz kpo ... r u serious abt her or u hope to get an eventual bonk fr her? or mayb juz contented with bein friends?

camping here for more ... at least yrs is somethg diff .. not d usual ficticious stories. :D

[HOWITZER105MM]

I am interested to know her as a friend first.:)

[joew2005]

Hi bro HOWITZER105MM, great 1 .....

[longwinter]

glad u enjoy the outin with her. Btw bro, just wan to ask, cos this question sudden strike me, her main purpose for coming back to sg is for? Is she still in this trade?

[richie_rich]

Thank you bros, I will just take things one step at a time. I will be nice to her. Thank you for all your concern, she is really a nice gal and I will treat her nice.:)

great to know that the date went on well. wise of u to take things one step at a time. all the best bro. do keep us updated ya? :)
cheers!

[eenie]

cheers, nice to hear that the date works out.

Agree with some of the advice here. The best approach is not to go in with too much expectation and just enjoy your time. So when its time for her to leave, only sweet memories. Kind of similar to what happen to my young pinay darling.

[Achates]

So it turned out to be uneventful. Maybe the next date may turn out to be eventful.

[coach]

Thanks bro, it is really a great reading in this Monday, hope u all the best, whether is is for good friendship or FB, take good care her :D:D
Dont forget to tell us more ...

[Rosicrucian]

Have more dates and hopefully have story to tell. All the best to you, bro.

[HOWITZER105MM]

glad u enjoy the outin with her. Btw bro, just wan to ask, cos this question sudden strike me, her main purpose for coming back to sg is for? Is she still in this trade?

No she is a strong gal with strong determination who left the trade for good.

[ariba]

It is good to hear she had left the trade for good; for she may or had her reason/s when she started. She must be a stong Gal....

Every1 had and deserve their own life and circle of friends. We all need Love, care and company from friends and our dear love 1. I think stay netural, objective and take nature as its course would be good. She may be a very nice nice and caring lady.

Just to bring this up of what I knew, but not pushing to the point of marriage or discouring U hor, when it is now still very early .......

I knew 1 of my Army Inchek who got divorce and marry this HC gal(malaysia) he knew during his days of cheonging HC.... things seem to be work out quite all right except I knew(when I went back ICT serveral years) she control his $ tightly...., maybe this is a way to check him from his old days since she knew all about this 'market'.

But some considersation that I will have(if I am this Inchek), that is if during housing gathering during CNY or other festive days, I may not bear if she would see(unknowning) 1 of my friends or worst, my relative, who was her regular before. U guys known those older relative making small talks behind and overheard.

And in any argument, over $ or others matters, history will be brought up..... and hving the suspision if she will return to her old trade(secretly) when things went bad or encounter into $ problems.

No she is a strong gal with strong determination who left the trade for good.

[lasivious]

Turn over a new leaf.

[owen10]

it's good to hear that Howitzer had got so many blessings fr d bros here. hopefully she doesnt surf SB (many FLs n HC gals do :D) n get to knw what we have been discussing. :D

[HOWITZER105MM]

I went on a second date, it was really nice feeling. Simply enjoying doing things together but I am not talking about sex or even petting. :D

[Rosicrucian]

Glad you enjoy your second date. Don't have to give details about the juicy part. Wish you the best.

[HOWITZER105MM]

After one month, she decided to leave me because she is afraid to commit to a relationship. She said that is because of her past failed love. She likes me but not the extent of love. So things ended. I really love her though. We only held hands and kissed no sex. Now I am heartbreak again just when I just recovered from my last relationship of 10 years. I guess i will just remain single and visit HCs and not be committed to any relationship or trust any gal anymore. My girlfriend of 10 years fell for a Thai monk. What a joke :(:o

[wei xiao]

bro trust ur self don trust anybody....because i com across tis problem be4 so i don trust them...

[SammyHulk]

Relationship or love is so intangible yet so real. It can make you feel as though you are in heaven and the next thing you least know, it drill you back to hell. But all these won't stop a man from loving again or will cause a man to get bitter for the rest of his life. Either way it's all in the man perceptions.

Bro, what's yours in this moment? i hope the thoughts of remaining single is just for now not forever. Even i, a divorcee also looking forward to a new relationship in distant future if i had the chance. How abt u? Food for thoughts...

[vinsc]

Yeah Howitzer,

DOn't give up, failure doesn't mean there won't be another one coming... I have being failing too... that doesn't mean we stop... I am sure the rainbow will come just that we have to wait for the rain to stop...

Cheers

[HOWITZER105MM]

Thanks to all bros here i am touched.:o

[FNSFL]

Bro,

Have been reading your posts.

A big hearted gentleman like yourself will have good things in store. Maybe now is just not the time yet.

Wish you all the best.

[stupendous]

Most women are flicker-minded. Only money can hold them down a little. So just enjoy yourself, bro.

[FNSFL]

Bro Howitzer,

Thanks for the points.

Actually, I myself had some experience with a HC gal. Sometime in late 2008, I just ended a 4-year relationship with her. Hard and rocky 4 years (and I am not referring to anything sexual here...)

Perhaps I should start a new thread with my story??

[Eaglet]

Bro Howitzer,

Thanks for the points.

Actually, I myself had some experience with a HC gal. Sometime in late 2008, I just ended a 4-year relationship with her. Hard and rocky 4 years (and I am not referring to anything sexual here...)

Perhaps I should start a new thread with my story??

Please do.

[angmohtan11]

Bro, you deserve to be happy. The end of one thing marks the beginning of another. Enjoy the memories but move on. Don't look back but look forward to your next special person you meet. I'm sure she will someone who deserves you more and you will be happy together.

My two-cents worth is that relationships with people with complicated backgrounds are always going to be difficult and usually doomed for failure. I prefer to keep things simple; less worries.

Take care of yourself.