A married guy making his gf/FB pregnent...!!!

[penang_guy21]

bro / sis...

any experiences in this hot issues?
care to share if this really happen ?
:confused:

[Johnston]

> . > of course it happens. What else do you expect when people have sex.

[sky_liner2]

It happened when you f88k without using big head, where the f88k was your CD?

[Sensory Sniper]

What happens then?

Deal with it!!!!!!!

or like you... write to sbf and ask such a numbskull question?

[jobaba]

God loves you so much...
he gives you a special gift ...

[Frankiestine]

Many years ago this happened to the monster, no choice have to deal with it go for abortion....what else can be done..

[penang_guy21]

i would like to listen more advices / expereience from gal's view...
Expererienced guy are welcomed to share too

[andrewforest]

You do not have much choice. Just as bro Frankiestine said , go for abortion. If you delay somemore till the stage where too dangerous to do it, then you
lagi die cock standing !!:confused:

[Hadley]

i would like to listen more advices / expereience from gal's view...
Expererienced guy are welcomed to share too

Are you in such a particular situation or just asking for fun ?

If you made someone pregnant and do not know what to do, why not share the circumstances and maybe someone will have a good suggestion for you ?

[damnu88]

More advice?? Most important is over legal age anot?? If NO....good luck to you :))

[fresno99]

question is do you want to keep the baby? seems like you are considering that. If you do, be prepared for the consequences.

[penang_guy21]

if go got abortion...the relationship will be ruins..right?
no more FB relationship ??
how to handle this well ? or u think this is a trap to make the guy to divorce the family?

[Bangster]

No, the relationship will not be ruins. The ruins are in Italy and Greece.

Just tell her you will not make the same mistake again. Since she's stupid enough to be your GF and let you shoot inside, she'll believe you.

[penang_guy21]

it's her request to shoot inside...she said she needs it...always SAFE...:eek:

[forumer]

that's what a gal says when she wants u for herself....:(

[penang_guy21]

brother forumer...

pls help to advise this situation...it is likea messy relationship..

[Frankiestine]

if go got abortion...the relationship will be ruins..right?
no more FB relationship ??
how to handle this well ? or u think this is a trap to make the guy to divorce the family?

depends....if FB knows the rule of the game they don't expect much but if the minute they start asking for "ming fen" then better drop her like a bomb...just remember you want to play this game then always remember this "nan ren xing yau hei pi yau ho" (a man must have a black hardened heart and a thick skin)..you cannot allowed yourselves to be subjected to emotional blackmail..

[icefreezed]

How's the lady's response so far?

1. Abort. u know your fb better than any of us here, so u can better judge if she will continue the relationship after this incident.

if she is agreeable to it and continue the relationship, she probably quite likes u. from my pov, as a female.

if she discontinues the relationship, just let it go. Unless u think family is of secondary importance.

2. She is married or has a bf. Keep the child. Surely u know what i mean, but it's unfair to the other guy.

Both of you can continue the relationship while she gets married (shot gun). Kind of win-win situation for the both of you. Also for the other guy if he never gets to find out the truth.

Such things do happen. But i feel there will always be loopholes leading to chances of this incident being discovered in the future.

Safest is listen to bro monster. abortion will cut the nip of the problem (unless gf/fb sabotages u?). the opportunity cost is the lowest. unless u have special circumstances, the optimal solution is to abort. It is an innocent life taken away but ultimately u got to weigh your options.

[penang_guy21]

Thank you for your advices..sister,

currently i am very despereted and streessed to handle this matter....
i am married with 2 kids...
and she is 27, not yet married...

she knew that i am married n she requested me to divorced many times...

and this is the first time she insisted on doing raw...
do u think this is a trap to make herself get pregnent?

[sootongs]

you've ans your own Qns. you alr said she asked you to divorce many times...how else best but tell u she kanna TOTO. BTW did you check if she really pregnant wif the test or she calling for bluff?

[icefreezed]

Yea, better have it checked with your own eyes. Skali she took u for a ride ,..

[Darren32]

This has happened to me twice (that I know of) and both times I was lucky enough that I didn't have to deal with it.

I had this long term FB who is married. We also do it without protection but I never cum in her, always withdraw. But somehow she still got pregnant from pre-cum I guess.. she had an abortion, never told me.. only told me afterwards.. it was a no brainer for her as she is not getting a divorce.

2nd incident was a long distance gf in KL. again no protection but never cum inside her. She got pregnant but miscarriage after 3 weeks. She also didn't know until she had stomachaches and doctor told her n had to flush out foetus.

Anyway, it is very drama for the ladies, so guys, if you know your FB or partner is pregnant, do take care of her.. whether at the end of the day is abortion or not, you need to look after her emotionally.

[sky_liner2]

Thank you for your advices..sister,

currently i am very despereted and streessed to handle this matter....
i am married with 2 kids...
and she is 27, not yet married...

she knew that i am married n she requested me to divorced many times...

and this is the first time she insisted on doing raw...
do u think this is a trap to make herself get pregnent?

Yes, she is using this as a threat eventually........hey bro, u r in deep shit now!

[Omax]

If it happened recently, less than 2 days ago, go to a clinic and ask for the Morning After Pill. It is effective within 3 days of sex.

Morning After Pill is just the general term, I dun know what is the exact term for it but it causes the female's to come, effectively ending any chance of pregnancy.

If it has been more than 3 days, all you can do now is hope and pray she will not get pregnant.

Good Luck !

[walle]

knn, maybe he made his maid pregnant leh.....

[mina.qq]

that's y..guys..if u wanna play ...pls play safe...
be responsible pls..

[loster]

had similiar experiences b4 with a fb. shot inside with a condom but nv withdraw as she wans the feeling inside her. so when withdraw, realised that condom is inside her. in the end after 4 months, she somehow managed to get rid of it.

[raiders]

Guys always enjoy the fun and the ladies will have to pick up the pieces:rolleyes:

[Frankiestine]

Thank you for your advices..sister,

currently i am very despereted and streessed to handle this matter....
i am married with 2 kids...
and she is 27, not yet married...

she knew that i am married n she requested me to divorced many times...

and this is the first time she insisted on doing raw...
do u think this is a trap to make herself get pregnent?

So you have to ask yourselves this, is she more then a FB someone you want to be with for the rest of your life if not then you have to be real heartless..bo hue her even if she kpkb want to kill herself...there is no choice bro only you can decide and chart your course..

[Verez]

she knew that i am married n she requested me to divorced many times...

and this is the first time she insisted on doing raw...
do u think this is a trap to make herself get pregnent

Bro, go to the very top of this page and find the quote by Robin Williams.

" God gave us a penis and a brain, but not enough blood to use both at the same time. "

You are really a classic example. She request you to divorced and yet you still hang with her and shoot your wad inside her ? :confused:

You The MAN !!!

One thing you can try is be a complete weakling if the worst does happen ( anyway, is she pregnant or not ? ) . Break down and cry and sob and say you don't know how to handle it. Drink a little beer and pour some on yourself before you meet her and act like 酒后吐真言 and say you are suicidal and a weakling and stuff like that, getting the idea ?

Girls hate weaklings, may work. Hope it works for you.

[starystarynite]

once pregant, cannot be FB anymore. her emotional attachment is too strong...for you. u have to make a choice and go for it.. yr wifey or her...

if her, then divorce r wife...if wifey and family, then kick her ut. ask her for an abortion...u have to be really thick skin and black heart. u might want to do so asap before she is too attach to her baby too.

but u r realy in deep shit...i think u better be frank to your wife and ask for her forgiveness. i am assuming thnat u still want your family...u got to take that precaution cause soon, your so called FB will go look for your wife....

[gearbox]

Thank you for your advices..sister,

currently i am very despereted and streessed to handle this matter....
i am married with 2 kids...
and she is 27, not yet married...

she knew that i am married n she requested me to divorced many times...

and this is the first time she insisted on doing raw...
do u think this is a trap to make herself get pregnent?

she can't force you to divorce your wife and you also can't force her to have an abortion. I believe she will have the child and you will have to pay for child support for a long time :eek:

[cckman]

Alright, being reading it long enough till I decided to write in my personal eperience.

I am married and had a daughter who was 2 yrs old. When my wife was pergnant, she choose not to have sex with me and she wanted to be sure the baby are safe and she was extremely careful during her pregnancy.

So me continued worked hard for the family but without sex when I had an relationship with this girl, choo from Ipoh. She worked in my firm holding a work permit. We get along well and she was in love with me which I dun know.

She even knew I was married and my wife is pregnant. She confessed to me one night after some company event and so we ended in bed. I had been very guilty to my family but she continued to pester me and she assured me she will not break my family and only need to spend times with her.

Our relationship continued and I remembered the day when I send my wife to the hospital for my wife going to give birth, Choo called me and told me she is pregnant. I almost dropped my phone and immediately rushed to met her up leaving my wife screaming for pain in the delivery ward. What a bad husband I am.

I begged her to abort it and she refused. Threatened to let everyone knew our relationship if I forced her. She was so firm that I gave up but we knew if she is pregnant with her work permit, she will be sent back to Ipoh.

It was she who persuaded me back to the hospital to be with my wife and we had no conclusion. I rushed back and my girl was born before I reached the hospital.

Due to guilt, I took care of my wife and daughter well even till now and my relationship with Choo continues and she went back to Ipoh and delivered a boy for me. I had to drive to Ipoh whenever I had the time or once every fortnight so as to spend time with my other family in Malaysia. I worked extra hard now as I had 2 family to support and luckily I still earning well. But to all bros, dun be like me in this state as I really not enjoying it and had regretted many many times and even cried in the night. It was really tiring and not even fun at all to be in this situation.:(

[SammyHulk]

As the chinese saying goes,'the paper cannot contain the fire', your secret will expose sooner or later. Feel the fear and do it anyway.

Whatever happened is a reality now. Ultimately the choice lies with you whether or not to tell your wife the truth and come to a term which side you wanna be with.

[jonny1213]

Yo cckman bro, i understand how u feel and heard alot from friends oso. Tats why my gf dunno where i stay, wheres my office and i carry 2 phone.

[Megafan1981]

Talking about pregnancy... I am single but there is one incident I felt the need to spill the beans...

I ever screw a PRC lady who's a PR here. She is 2 years older than me and in early thirties and still single. She was fantastic on bed, and blessed with voluptuous figure. She's my ex-colleague friend.

Screwed her once, and she told me to fire my load in her. I remember cumming a lot! After that, the customary hug and kisses, took a shower and left. I don't keep in contact with her much (she often whatsapps me but I sort of don't reply to her), cuz I really wanna screw her and then heck care her. She had attitude problem.

A few months later, my colleague SMS me and told me her friend (the PRC lady) got pregnant despite being single. Since she has not much friends, my ex colleague suspected me but I act blur. She also commented could be her ex-bf too.

I took the courage and whatsapp the PRC woman and she confirmed it's mine and not her ex-bf (seems like she also been screwing her ex-bf at same time but she never allowed him to shoot inside her). She wanted a baby all along and felt I have the right genes compared to her ex-bf.

Left me really speechless. She quit her job, gave birth secretly, send the baby back to PRC and then resume back to life as if nothing happens. :confused:

[Iemanishere]

Well... these are the ladys which know how to think for the other party... thus.. saving us lots of problems. .. but than the saying goes... if the child is yours than u have to take care of him or her as it a mens duty...
Lucky or not no one knows only urself..
Cheers

[thisisme]

Let me share my experience as well .. many yrs ago, had a office affair. She's married but not happy with the marriage. She told me her husband wanted a baby, but she refused. I think due to genes issue. Not sure either... she said she want my baby and will cover it up. Will not bother me with the baby.
Where have such good deal. But a trap. After she is pregnant, she wanted me to divorce. Pester me everyday. And somehow, not sure how, she got my home address. She drop by my place and say want to commit suicide. My wife called the police ....

Thinking back makes me scare ...

[Frankiestine]

Left me really speechless. She quit her job, gave birth secretly, send the baby back to PRC and then resume back to life as if nothing happens. :confused:

Don't be too happy bro legally speaking as long as you are the biological father she can come back any time to claim maintenance from you..

[geckoSG]

do u think this is a trap to make herself get pregnent?

For sure, yes. She is in Love with you. Good luck

[bigcannon]

Bro ts,go rom check whether can marry her s 2nd wife or nt ok. :)

[justwanadoit]

Convert to certain religion which allow multiple marriages

[iFuck]

Don't be too happy bro legally speaking as long as you are the biological father she can come back any time to claim maintenance from you..

Agreed, don't believe ask Terence Cao. :)

[Frankiestine]

Agreed, don't believe ask Terence Cao. :)

Even if not biological father as long as he has been providing emotional and financial support to child and in the end find out he is not actually the biological father, he still has to pay maintenance to the child...read of such a case in our papers when the guy file or divorce from the wife when he found out he was acutally a cuckold years later...

[singmarine]

I do know personally there are a couple of cases. The only way out is to pay her a monthly maintanence fee. My friend pay her $5000 cash every month to upkeep both mother & daughter. Of course the sum is determined by your financial capability and her expenditure.

[icefreezed]

Bro ts,go rom check whether can marry her s 2nd wife or nt ok. :)

no cannot...ts is mine now..haha :rolleyes:

[MuffDiver69]

what i'm going to relate is something that no one knows except the 3 of us involved in the plan and i think maybe the child.

this happened when i was working in australia, i had a good friend (mitch) who is a typical butch (asian), and she had a live in caucasian girlfriend (Lynn). they were very much in love. the girlfriend was diagnose with stage 3 cancer and after therapy went into remission. but it had spread to all her lymph nodes. and they knew that she only have a few years to live.

after much considerations and discussions, they approached me with a harebrained plan. they wanted me to impregnate Lynn, so that when she passed on, she'll leave behind a baby for Mitch. and the reason they chose me to father the baby is because i'm one of the very few asian bloke they know and i'm their closest friend. initially i refused to accept the proposition. i told them, they are out of their freaking minds to think of something like that. after much pleading coaxing, i agreed but i'm afraid i might not be able to perform as they were like my bro and sis-in-law. Lynn is actually very stunning in terms of looks and figure but i've never thought of doing it with her before.

i knew they were planning for the deed when they try to get me tipsy every 3-4 weeks. and then it finally happened. i remembered very little of it as i was totally shitfaced. Lynn stopped drinking and partying after that, we still hangout. then mitch told me their good news, Lynn is prego. i just told her congrats. we slowly drifted apart after that, i think they don't want the kid to know that i'm the sperm donor. i did receive an email saying its a baby boy 14yrs back. no more contact since.

so somewhere downunder i have a 14-15yrs old son that doesn't know of my existence.

[sane]

2. She is married or has a bf. Keep the child. Surely u know what i mean, but it's unfair to the other guy.


If a woman has been having sex with 2 men at the same time, I always find it amazing when she can tell who is the biological dad!

[icefreezed]

enjoy just for 10mins but regret 10 years, use cd bro

他是学不会的 :cool: