How to overcome the urge of doing raw?

[kindguy]

anyone can advise on how to overcome the urge of doing raw?

i know doing raw sex is dangerous n hv the following negative impacts,
- getting STDs, or AIDs (if doing with pro, maybe there will be such risk?)
- can cause the ger to get pregnant (if somehow accidentally shoot inside or so call pre-cum??)
- as alot of bro say raw is war...
- wad else???

in mind, always remember no raw no raw.. but during the session, esp if the gers are pretty, tend to have the urge of asking the gers for raw sex.. and if the gers agree, that it.. the above negative impact may happen...

how to overcome this urge?

thks in advance for advice from all bro...

[hermit1313]

instead of advicing on not to do raw... best advice is... only have sex wif ur wife and no one else... better yet... no sex always safest... otherwise go surgery to disconnect the "line" tat transport ur soldiers lor... u can always connect back if u wanna have kids later... rest is up to u :p

[thomas88]

....... otherwise go surgery to disconnect the "line" tat transport ur soldiers lor... u can always connect back if u wanna have kids later... rest is up to u :p

your so call disconnect the line, I presume is sterilize. This disconnection does not make one impotent and thus he can still erect and gave raw sex.

I'd say the safest way is to have only a true regular partner. I mean true as in the other partner also cannot fuck around with other party but you.

If you like to enjoy fl then make sure your big head with brain control over your small head else you're digging your own grave.

[hermit1313]

yup... have not used those words for long time since after school days... anyway if u r tat worried... dun do it lor... if u wanna fuck ard... raw and worst randomly... pls do pray every seconds.

[KeanuReeves]

Bro Kindguy..
for those bros that can't control their mind and body on having raw (by using their big head)..
then i guess the best precaution/solution is to PCC whenever you're horny.. ;)
anyone can advise on how to overcome the urge of doing raw?
..

[foooah]

I only RAW with my gf and she's on the pill.

Here's something to think about : I've dreamt of doing RAW before with a fucking hot prostitute before, one of the hottest dream ever, and even cummed in that dream. The feeling after that : "FUCKING REGRET and afraid if get std and worse..HIV"..luckily i woke up..the feeling was.."HEEENGG AH!"

So I urge you to really think before u RAW..:)

[kindguy]

thks for all bro advise....

i know no raw at all esp with pro... that why when doing will pro... when i ask them whether can do raw or not.. most of them dun allow.. and actually in my mind after i ask that qns.. i hope the answer is a NO from the pro or gers.. haha me contradicting myself rite? might as well dun ask.. but sometime the ger is so pretty or the feeling just come n then ask....

maybe one way is dun bring too much money when go cheong.. just bring enough for 1 shot.. normally pro allow raw require us pay more than the nornal price.. bcos to me they wan earn.. so if they wan take the risk, they wan more money first... just my feeling... bcos there is one time i ask a china pro can do raw.. she say no... then i say pay higher price.. then she say ok... haha.. then say can shoot inside she say no.. i say pay even higher price,, then become allow... after that, i dun dare go find that pro le.. bcos think she allow me mean she may oso allow other bros le..

thks

[foooah]

So end up you pay more for more chances of getting something u don't want like STD or something..hehehe...

If u can't raw, nvm...just opt for cum on face..haha

[HayHot]

how to overcome this urge?

thks in advance for advice from all bro...

Go to this website.
http://www.avert.org/std-pictures.htm

Download all the STD Infected Dick/Pussy Photos, save them to your handphone.
Everytime you got the urge, open the photos and view them, reminding yourself what you can end up with.

I would think that will enable you to overcome this urge. :D

[sianjipua]

think of 1 year later you need to clean diapers, buy milk powder, 3am wake up hong baby go sleep can already.

[freezetheDB]

raw is only for your wife or your steady gf.

all outside battles please remember to wear your armour.

[lge8]

maybe one way is dun bring too much money when go cheong.. just bring enough for 1 shot.. normally pro allow raw require us pay more than the nornal price..thks

play responsibly. . .u've got NO time to regret or undo things!

[eating]

Think of LYK looking at you when you want to do raw ... :D:D

[Gaia81]

Chop off your dick?

After that u want to do raw or with condom also cannot, at least you won't get STDs or HIV through sexual intercourse.......if still scare then chop off your tongue and fingers. No licking, no fingering, 100% safe as long as u are not a drug addict using injection needles.

I forgot to mention your asshole, also dangerous, can try wielding it shut or apply cement to shut it then go for surgury to re-route your waste to be removed through a tube or bag attached somewhere on your body.

There you go.

[xwf3331]

lol, i believe many guys have this urge too. Human natual to "really" mate with high standard partner.

Try not to concentrate too much on their petty outlook when you bonk them, this will reduce the urge since u don't get so much temptation.

[nihonjin]

i know no raw at all esp with pro... that why when doing will pro... when i ask them whether can do raw or not..


Do us a huge favour. Those FLs which say 'Yes' to you, pls inform us and we will siam far far away. Be responsible. :mad:

[sammyboyfor]

thks in advance for advice from all bro...

Print out some of the pictures in this thread (http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=29801) and put them in your wallet.:rolleyes:

[SketchyDuck]

All along with my ex-s and current gf, I like to do it raw, and so does my gf...

Previously wanted to use condom so can last longer, but they feel that its more comfortable raw and more connected... (anyway good also lah, cos save money on condom.. been years since i last used a condom on gf)

For FL, i die die dun dare to do raw... really scared of any disease.. So definitely a NONO for me..

[maxman]

thks for all bro advise....

i know no raw at all esp with pro... that why when doing will pro... when i ask them whether can do raw or not.. most of them dun allow.. and actually in my mind after i ask that qns.. i hope the answer is a NO from the pro or gers.. haha me contradicting myself rite? might as well dun ask.. but sometime the ger is so pretty or the feeling just come n then ask....

maybe one way is dun bring too much money when go cheong.. just bring enough for 1 shot.. normally pro allow raw require us pay more than the nornal price.. bcos to me they wan earn.. so if they wan take the risk, they wan more money first... just my feeling... bcos there is one time i ask a china pro can do raw.. she say no... then i say pay higher price.. then she say ok... haha.. then say can shoot inside she say no.. i say pay even higher price,, then become allow... after that, i dun dare go find that pro le.. bcos think she allow me mean she may oso allow other bros le..

thks

I think you shouldn't entertain such thoughts with a prostitute, and should not even ask such questions to a prostitute. When you are dangled with a carrot, you might just fall for it.

[84gunner]

Here's something to think about : I've dreamt of doing RAW before with a fucking hot prostitute before, one of the hottest dream ever, and even cummed in that dream. The feeling after that : "FUCKING REGRET and afraid if get std and worse..HIV"..luckily i woke up..the feeling was.."HEEENGG AH!"

So I urge you to really think before u RAW..:)

It happened to me once, not in a dream but in real life!

The WL was really damn mischievious & a real teaser. The moment we entered my room, she started the teasing, by sexy dancing & taking off her clothes like in a strip-tease show. Then she helped me undress, and in the process, caressing / teasing my dick all the time. Then showered together, all the while, her sexy dance & teasing never stop.

After wiping ourselves dry, she continued teasing again, this time, in standing doggie, she grabbed my dick and put it at the entrance of her wet pussy, and rubbed it up & down her pussy & in between her thigh. I jokingly told her, I can't stand the temptation much longer & may poke raw into her. She teased futher by replying, "oh, I'm scared". And then suddenly, she pushed herself back such that my dick really poke into her pussy!

I pumped her a few strokes, then withdrew, and then asked her, "u not afraid? I'm not wearing condom u know?" Then she challenged back, "who's more afraid now?" And then she pushed me ontot the bed. We were playing happily on the bed again. When at the position she was sitting on me in cowgirl position, she simulated the action of riding & pumping me. So I happily played along, I even pretended to moan. Then she suddenly grabbed my dick & insert into her pussy and continue riding & pumping, again, I wasn't capped yet! I thought she was just teasing me for a short while, so I happily played along, but in my mind, I was telling myself, play a short while is enough. Gotta wear cap after that.

Little did I expect, she seem enjoying & looks engrossed in it, her eyes were shut, she started moaning. Then I reminded her, "hey, I'm not capped yet, better put it on before we get too carried away!" But she didn't care, she continued riding faster & pumping harder. I wasn't expecting it, I dun think a WL will genuinely get passionate during a paid session. In any case, I tried to get up, wanting to stop her so I can get the cap & put on, but she pushed me down with quite some strength and continued riding fast & pumping hard. Then I felt her pussy juice flowing out, her pussy kinda tighten & grabbed my dick rather tightly, I even felt a kinda "sucking" feeling on my dick! Her moans got faster & louder, and suddenly, with a longer moan I felt a "sucking" on my dick, apparently, her pussy was "sucking" my dick, I felt the sensation of my soldiers being "sucked out"! That's whn I came & shot my soliders into her!

After that, she kinda collapsed & laid on top me of for a while, hugging me, my dick still inside her pussy. After sensing her catching back her breath, I told her, "hey, I'm not capped, I shot my load inside, u know?" Then she kinda woke up, "oh! ya! shit!" I asked her why din she allow me to stop her so I can put on a cap? She said she dunno.

Next few days, I was constantly worried, can't eat well, can't sleep well. Even a mosquito bite, or some itch here & there, I was also worried that I kena STD. Eventually, I told a close fren. I called the WL, then he spoke to her, ask her why she did tat. At 1st, the WL was only worried about getting pregnant. When we mentioned about STDs, she got even more frightened / worried. She then came to my room, and after some talk / discussion, I'll give her some $$$ (slightly less than SGD 50 equivalent), she use the $$$ to see doctor / go for a check-up. After the initial tests showed negative for pregnancy & STDs, she has to wait about 3 days for results of blood test. With the results of the initial test, she was somewhat relieved, came back to my room to "report" to me. This time, her relief got her mischievious again, she started teasing me again, then capped me before continue teasing me further. This session, she didn't want me to pay her. After her blood test results showed negative too, again, she came to "report" to me, and the same thing, and again, she didn't want me to pay her. She said she's happy & relieved that we're safe. 1 week later, she went to the doctor again, and the doctor asked her, is she crazy? going so often.

Shortly after that, I had to travel away. About 1 month after that session, I went to the hospital for a check-up / blood-test. Phew! I'm clean & healthy. But the nite b4 collecting the blood test results, I almost couldn't sleep at all ! Few months later, I had to do my coy's annual medical check-up. I was also rather worried. Even 1 year later, for the next annual medical check-up, I was also worried I'm infected with some STD, that it takes several months later to be detected.

The stress & uneasiness of mind is definitely not worth the enjoyment of doing raw!

[kindguy]

thanks for all bro advise... definitely will take advice from bro here... will remember n remember always a NO NO for raw with pro...

just another qns, how abt with fl? i currently hv a local chinese girl, but i pay her for svc.. so she is fl? or fb? she said she seldom do... i been seeing her for abt a year.. got 1-2 times are raw... she allow me raw.. should i continue to have raw with her if she allow again.. we sort of like become "friends".. of course the real relationship is still "i pay she do" type..

how about bbbj? should we bbbj? or just bj (i.e. use cap when blow by the ger, whether she is pro, fl, ...)?

thanks

[Alan Ong]

Bro 84gunner, that was very dangerous venture. But be careful and not to try again.

[I Know]

thanks for all bro advise... definitely will take advice from bro here... will remember n remember always a NO NO for raw with pro...

just another qns, how abt with fl? i currently hv a local chinese girl, but i pay her for svc.. so she is fl? or fb? she said she seldom do... i been seeing her for abt a year.. got 1-2 times are raw... she allow me raw.. should i continue to have raw with her if she allow again.. we sort of like become "friends".. of course the real relationship is still "i pay she do" type..

how about bbbj? should we bbbj? or just bj (i.e. use cap when blow by the ger, whether she is pro, fl, ...)?

thanks

If you are this dumb to ask all these questions, you should not be having sex at all.

How is your urge to have sex with underage girls in your other thread, you got past that ?

[kindguy]

hi bro I-know..

i asking all these questions just want to seek any advises from other bros, maybe they got better experiences, advises, encounters that can share and enlighten us in any of these areas..

did i hv the thread of saying my urge on underage? do u mean the thread asking what is the legal age, 16 or 18? i asking that is to confirm the legal age so that i wont cross into underage n hence not get myself into trouble.. bcos i heard some said legal is 16, some said is 18... i do know underage is a big NO NO... against law.. i wont want get myself into troubles too..

thanks

[I Know]

did i hv the thread of saying my urge on underage? do u mean the thread asking what is the legal age, 16 or 18? i asking that is to confirm the legal age so that i wont cross into underage n hence not get myself into trouble.. bcos i heard some said legal is 16, some said is 18... i do know underage is a big NO NO... against law.. i wont want get myself into troubles too..



So you were asking the below question on behalf of a "friend" ?

if now we come across a girl (16 or below) n willing to do with us (commerical sex), but it against law rite? but if we really wan to do with her, where should we go? any advice from bro....

thanks

[kindguy]

Yes bro.. this qns is asked by me... i make a mistake saying that i did not hv the thot of doing with underage.. however, i do clearly understand is a NO NO for underage as is against the law.. n i will shut off such thots in future as won't want to get into trouble for myself.

that why i ask the legal qns is 16 or 18.. some say 16 some say 18... so now if there is a girl 16, can i do with her? consider legal or not? i mean 16 considered underage or not? if consider underage then definitely i won't wan do with her. So bro, wad ur advise on the legal age?

thanks

[lionox]

Age of consent in Singapore is 14.

II. Rape
Section 375 of the Penal Code states
" A man is said to commit " rape " who, except in the case hereinafter, has sexual intercourse with
a woman under circumstances falling under any of the five following descriptions :
a) against her will ;
b) without her consent ;
c) with her consent, when her consent has been obtained by putting her in fear of death or hurt ;
d) with her consent, when the man knows that he is not her husband, and her consent is given because she believes herself to be lawfully married or to whom she would consent ;
e) with or without consent, when she is under fourteen (14) years of age. "

Now even then, don't go poking girls under 18 please. Once they out of JC/Poly, then they are mostly already fully developed. If not, you may be hurting them.

[prochip35]

imagine your dickhead rotting day by day, passing blood instead of urine. :p

[Magi]

Age of consent in Singapore is 14.

II. Rape
Section 375 of the Penal Code states
" A man is said to commit " rape " who, except in the case hereinafter, has sexual intercourse with
a woman under circumstances falling under any of the five following descriptions :

e) with or without consent, when she is under fourteen (14) years of age. "



Your post got me curious and I went to google for it.

There is actually more in the Penal Code down by 376. Legal Age is still 16 and above. Difference between the age is the jail time and caning.

14 and below : Subject to subsection (3), a man who is guilty of an offence under this section shall be punished with imprisonment for a term which may extend to 20 years, and shall also be liable to fine or to caning.

16 and below : Subject to subsection (3), a person who is guilty of an offence under this section shall be punished with imprisonment for a term which may extend to 10 years, or with fine, or with both.


http://statutes.agc.gov.sg/non_version/cgi-bin/cgi_getdata.pl?actno=1872-REVED-224&doctitle=PENAL%20CODE%0A&date=late&segid=888373002-001939

I hope nobody followed what you said and went to do it with a under 16.

[I Know]

So bro, wad ur advise on the legal age?

thanks

My advise is that whether legal age or not, should always practise safe sex.

Go Fuck Yourself.

[intelcore3]

Raw to me is a turnoff. Now that brother describing his experience does not turn me on but scares me.

I had a model friend that press me for raw as she likes the feeling of cum inside her.

I told her to shave and go pantyless, which she did, so well i did raw with her as she did her part.:o

That being said, it is still a big NO NO.

[newscapegoat]

It happened to me once, not in a dream but in real life!

The WL was really damn mischievious & a real teaser. The moment we entered my room, she started the teasing, by sexy dancing & taking off her clothes like in a strip-tease show. Then she helped me undress, and in the process, caressing / teasing my dick all the time. Then showered together, all the while, her sexy dance & teasing never stop.

After wiping ourselves dry, she continued teasing again, this time, in standing doggie, she grabbed my dick and put it at the entrance of her wet pussy, and rubbed it up & down her pussy & in between her thigh. I jokingly told her, I can't stand the temptation much longer & may poke raw into her. She teased futher by replying, "oh, I'm scared". And then suddenly, she pushed herself back such that my dick really poke into her pussy!

I pumped her a few strokes, then withdrew, and then asked her, "u not afraid? I'm not wearing condom u know?" Then she challenged back, "who's more afraid now?" And then she pushed me ontot the bed. We were playing happily on the bed again. When at the position she was sitting on me in cowgirl position, she simulated the action of riding & pumping me. So I happily played along, I even pretended to moan. Then she suddenly grabbed my dick & insert into her pussy and continue riding & pumping, again, I wasn't capped yet! I thought she was just teasing me for a short while, so I happily played along, but in my mind, I was telling myself, play a short while is enough. Gotta wear cap after that.

Little did I expect, she seem enjoying & looks engrossed in it, her eyes were shut, she started moaning. Then I reminded her, "hey, I'm not capped yet, better put it on before we get too carried away!" But she didn't care, she continued riding faster & pumping harder. I wasn't expecting it, I dun think a WL will genuinely get passionate during a paid session. In any case, I tried to get up, wanting to stop her so I can get the cap & put on, but she pushed me down with quite some strength and continued riding fast & pumping hard. Then I felt her pussy juice flowing out, her pussy kinda tighten & grabbed my dick rather tightly, I even felt a kinda "sucking" feeling on my dick! Her moans got faster & louder, and suddenly, with a longer moan I felt a "sucking" on my dick, apparently, her pussy was "sucking" my dick, I felt the sensation of my soldiers being "sucked out"! That's whn I came & shot my soliders into her!

After that, she kinda collapsed & laid on top me of for a while, hugging me, my dick still inside her pussy. After sensing her catching back her breath, I told her, "hey, I'm not capped, I shot my load inside, u know?" Then she kinda woke up, "oh! ya! shit!" I asked her why din she allow me to stop her so I can put on a cap? She said she dunno.

Next few days, I was constantly worried, can't eat well, can't sleep well. Even a mosquito bite, or some itch here & there, I was also worried that I kena STD. Eventually, I told a close fren. I called the WL, then he spoke to her, ask her why she did tat. At 1st, the WL was only worried about getting pregnant. When we mentioned about STDs, she got even more frightened / worried. She then came to my room, and after some talk / discussion, I'll give her some $$$ (slightly less than SGD 50 equivalent), she use the $$$ to see doctor / go for a check-up. After the initial tests showed negative for pregnancy & STDs, she has to wait about 3 days for results of blood test. With the results of the initial test, she was somewhat relieved, came back to my room to "report" to me. This time, her relief got her mischievious again, she started teasing me again, then capped me before continue teasing me further. This session, she didn't want me to pay her. After her blood test results showed negative too, again, she came to "report" to me, and the same thing, and again, she didn't want me to pay her. She said she's happy & relieved that we're safe. 1 week later, she went to the doctor again, and the doctor asked her, is she crazy? going so often.

Shortly after that, I had to travel away. About 1 month after that session, I went to the hospital for a check-up / blood-test. Phew! I'm clean & healthy. But the nite b4 collecting the blood test results, I almost couldn't sleep at all ! Few months later, I had to do my coy's annual medical check-up. I was also rather worried. Even 1 year later, for the next annual medical check-up, I was also worried I'm infected with some STD, that it takes several months later to be detected.

The stress & uneasiness of mind is definitely not worth the enjoyment of doing raw!

I agree that the stress that follows is not worth it.

I once had a fuck buddy who was quite havoc.

She was outgoing, loved to party, and loved sex even more.

Whenever we had sex, she loved it in the ass, and had to either finish off with anal penetration, or she had to get an orgasm while I was fucking her in her ass first, before we changed positions or did something else.

When she had her period, we would do it raw in the shower with the water running. She always insisted that I come inside her. She loved feeling my come shoot inside her and flow out, and so did I. At the time, the feeling was always damn shiok.

After about a year, I got tired of her partying and we stopped meeting. I found out from friends that she used to party harder, and even had threesomes before.

We were friends since poly days, so we had many mutual friends who were not aware of our fb-status. About 6 months after we split up, I heard from friends that she's always been sick. Like she'll be frequently down with flu, or fever, and she'd have weird rashes etc.

I got worried when I heard about it. I wondered for months if she had gotten HIV before we started having raw sex. Did I get it too?

Have I been sick recently? Any bouts of unexplained fever or flu? Hmm.... You know, come to think of it, I do feel kind of unwell...

Eventually, I went for a blood test and STD tests. The day before my results were due, I was so stressed out, I couldn't sleep. I kept thinking of my family, my job, my future... How? All ruined!

I would intermittently forget about it, then suddenly remember, and get an anxiety attack, with my heart racing from 60bpm to 140bpm within seconds. Then I'll try to calm myself down by thinking of something else, until the next attack comes.

Eventually the results all came out negative. I breathed a huge sigh of relief.

It's seriously not worth the high for that few minutes.

[owenfang]

jus think of consquences

[Singaporeaura]

I agree with the bros here. I myself did a few times raw with FLs during NS days.
Once in Geylang and twice in Phuket.
Same as you with strong urge for raw but the after thoughts and stress is definitely not worth it but during that time dun really care.
Seriously do think twice before you strike.
Even recently, one FL tried to get me to do raw with her. Temptations are there but your will power must be stronger.

Keep the faith bro!

[snowbunny]

Hi TS!!!

I've a really gd way...think of your dick rotting, pussing and warts growing all over...if thats isnt enough..go download pictures of std..it should do the trick:D