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SGPshanghai69

14-03-2006, 01:59 PM

[QUOTE=shengge]Dear Bros,
Come across this news, happened in Hangzhou. Be careful!

杭州警方抓获两名嫖客依新法规通知其父母

据青年时报报道，昨日凌晨2时多，杭州武林派出所民警在孩儿巷麒麟街路口一家旅馆里抓获一起卖淫嫖娼案。两男两女因涉嫌卖淫嫖娼，成为今年3月1日《治安管理处罚法》实施后，杭州警方处罚的第一起卖淫嫖娼案。

与以往不同，民警将两嫖客的行为第一时间通知其父母。两名嫖客都是杭州人，都只有20来岁，当听到自己的儿子因嫖娼而被警方传唤的消息，两名男子的父母都气得一时说不出话来。

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I fully agree with Snr Bro Shengge warnings here to all bros.....
Beware man! Especially for the fact that we're foreigners here....too much hassles involved and very sticky issues to be involved into.......

All bros, please exercise extra cautions!
Be safe than being sorry......

Cheers.

shengge

14-03-2006, 02:42 PM

not knowing the fact that there's a hotel Ramamda on cao bao rd afterall....paiseh lah!
Apologies many many

Bro,
Don't like that lah.
Ohter than knowing a few more streets than a few of you, I am still newbie in Shanghai.
The hotel should be very near to the place where we met for coffee with bro SHT and WBT, guess you know where.

Cheers!
SG

Ascott

14-03-2006, 03:30 PM

Bro Morningrun,
Agreed totally with u on that.
I did the same last Sunday, bought abouquet of roses, bake a chocolate cake, a box of dark choclates and last but not least, cooked beef steak for dinner, dine with her at home with candles-lit ambience....
It worked just fine.........
Well, sad to say that it's 'boh liao' but women likes it & we are to do it lor!

Cheers bros...........:rolleyes:

Bro.SGP,

So romantic, arh? Is the HS index going up? All the best with you lah!
Why you never introduce those HC when I am staying at CaoXi Bei Lu ?
Unfair!!

SGPshanghai69

14-03-2006, 04:13 PM

Bro.SGP,

So romantic, arh? Is the HS index going up? All the best with you lah!
Why you never introduce those HC when I am staying at CaoXi Bei Lu ?
Unfair!!

Big Bro Ascott,
1st of all, you're the 1st one among the bros here whom tried Tian Long HC so dun say I unfair to u hor!

Hang Seng Index is doing fine, other than the usual once in awhile tantrums thingys which most gals too do made at times. Other than that, all's well. Many thanks for your utmost concern.

So when r u coming again?
Hear from ya soon.........;)

SGPshanghai69

14-03-2006, 04:15 PM

Bro,
Don't like that lah.
Ohter than knowing a few more streets than a few of you, I am still newbie in Shanghai.
The hotel should be very near to the place where we met for coffee with bro SHT and WBT, guess you know where.

Cheers!
SG

I'm more like knowing where Tian Long HC lor Snr big Bro SG! hee....hee....;)

PuTonRen

14-03-2006, 04:20 PM

Dear Bro SGPShanghai69,

Thank you and Bro Prince Fed for the organisation of the gathering. I shall make all effort to be there to meet all the Big Brothers.

Thank you very much.

PTLR:D

PuTonRen

14-03-2006, 04:25 PM

I'm more like knowing where Tian Long HC lor Snr big Bro SG! hee....hee....;)

Dear CEO of Shanghai and Senior Bro Shegge,

Both of you are my guiding light in Shanghai lah! I know that both of you have been very very helpful to many brothers, especially the newbies and the OLD Man like me when we are lost in Shanghai.

Stop being so polite to each other! In my opinion, you are both good light houses of Shanghai scene, although pointing into different directions.

Hahaha...

See you soon in Shanghai.

PTLR

SGPshanghai69

14-03-2006, 05:43 PM

Stop being so polite to each other! In my opinion, you are both good light houses of Shanghai scene, although pointing into different directions.

PTLR

Hey Big Bro PTR,
Ultimately, you're the most well respected person here as compared to both of us lah!
We're only merely sharing what we know to all bros here that's all big bro whereas you're regarded as idol & the Honoable Big Bro to us all!

Snr Bro Shengge, agree??

Cheers & see ya soon in Shanghai big bro PTR.

Morningrun

14-03-2006, 06:39 PM

Bro Maninsin,

Many thanks for the introduction to 小玉 After a little bit of discussion and trying to find out my taste he said to leave it with him and would send someone over. I told him I wanted a not-regular type, preferably an office girl, or a University student, and he said the price would be a little higher so I agreed, since it would not be one of his regulars. I was well satisfied hat he understood my needs to the letter.

Waited about 40 minutes for him to set it up, and got a call from this xmm who was looking for the hotel…. And to my surprise works out of an office in one of the shopping centers (I think the Yaohan), so I told her to come up to my room on her own. Wanted to know if the hotel security was up to scratch… cuz if FL come in on their own, sure kena stopped, but this xmm look so decent and dressed like ordinary type person that they let her through.

OK she showed up at the room and wanted to know if I thought she was suitable and I was a little tired so I just waved her in. She is from Guangxi province, about 1.65m, nice bod, narrow hips, about 47kg (weighed her) soft cuddly boobs, a little makeup. Said she had finished work about 10:30 and was on her way home when XiaoYu called her to come over… so was still hungry so I ordered room service (Hainanese Chicken Rice) which brought back memories of my sec 3 and 4 days at Bedok Central market… She liked the chicken rice.

Then got her to shower…. I do mine first and then went to soak in the tub for a bit, while she showered down. Did not shave her pits… but almost nothing there anyway. The first thing I noticed was that she had a remarkable shape. Not to mention a really nice face that the photos do not do justice, especially when all makeup and earrings etc removed, just radiant!! (I took a couple of shots with my cellphone and will sms to you so if you will be kind enuff to post on the web for our brudders to enjoy my kampong taste… Then we went to the bed and lay down and TCS for about 30 mins to know each other. During this time, I noticed that her skin was a little dry so, “Out comes the DOVE moisturizer” and I gave her a good moisturizing down. While she is laying on her tummy and I am working the moisturizer into her thighs, and back, of course get a chance to look at her slit from behind…. And not bad… not bad at all! Very erotic when you try to have a good look from behind and press the butt apart…. Yummy!

After that it was mainly more teasing and chatting…. Nice B-cup with 2cm nipples (light brown) which really told me her age about 19 or 20…. She said her dad was 42 and working as a factory worker in Guangxi, freaked me out…. as I am coming 40 this year.

Started kissing, and she has this really small mouth with a soft tongue which really is cute. Did not really know how to do the cat bath, but it was OK. I asked her to do a bbbj, so she did, although not very experienced either and I would rate it at 4/10 no teasing, no special feeling when she bbbj, although her small mouth size did make things interesting.

In the meantime, I was fingering her and playing with her tiger grotto… which was also very neat and she had a tiny little nub there which I constantly tickled and played with until she cannot tahan…. So suddenly while she was blowing she stopped and tossed her head back and I am quite sure she came. Finger in and out and all around till she was wet…. Strangely got white liquid coming out of her hole….

Slipped on the rubber and went for it with several positions especially one that made her writhe was when I straddled one leg and put in my didi as far as it would go. Somehow I have been able to pace myself so that I did not come until till about 45 minutes of constant screwing… Quite tired out but a lot of fun… especially when you plunge deep and she is struggling to get away because of sensory overload. She was SWEATING!!!!!!

Anyway, finished up and she took about 20 minutes to catch her breath, put on one of my large shirts, and fell immediately asleep. I could tell because of her deep breathing. Anyway, Let her sleep for about 3 hours while I worked on the computer then took an hour’s nap. I then went to tickle her tits which started to stand….. kissed her awake, and attacked again. Went for about 1 hour with bbbj etc and really explored her really nice body.

Now fully awake, we both showered and got ready for work…..

Summary:
Face 8/10 sooooo cute
Body 9/10
Tits 8/10 B cup, nice small nipples
Butt 6/10 somehow got a little flat and not a nice curve at the small of the back… (i.e. not dancer’s spine)
Skin 7/10 a little dry
BBBJ 4.5/10 – no skill but willing to work hard no CIM
FJ – 8/10 I think I worked harder than her…..

Cost RMB2000 for 8-hours continuous… and this was not a PRO but an office girl. So I think it was well worth it, and I thoroughly enjoyed myself, so bro Maninsin, Here's to you.

MR

shengge

14-03-2006, 08:50 PM

In my opinion, you are both good light houses of Shanghai scene, although pointing into different directions.

Dear Bro PTR,
How can I be the light house lah?
Many times I myself hit the lamp post..:(

I basically offer a little bit of assistant on the local street directions. Nothing more than that.

Don't know whether you keen to know that a new elevated magnetic train will be built between Shanghai and Hangzhou.

Catch up with you again.

Cheers!
SG

shengge

14-03-2006, 09:17 PM

Hey Big Bro PTR,
Ultimately, you're the most well respected person here as compared to both of us lah!

Dear Bro SGPSha69,
Over the years indeed, bro PTR has earned lots respect from fellow bros but also some admirers, like me....:D

Wish him well, same to you.

Cheers,
SG

maninsin

15-03-2006, 02:32 AM

Prince Fed

15-03-2006, 10:53 AM

Very nice FR indeed bro Morningrun. Nice experience to share with everybody here. Apparently this Xiao Yu is a good provider, so you should stick with him. God know it is difficult to find a reliable one here in Shanghai. Many of my customers has been harassing me to get them girls and usually I prefer to bring them to some KTV where they can select the girls. But having a good provider is very helpful.
Hope to see you on saturday.

Cheers,

PF.

Morningrun

15-03-2006, 12:42 PM

jasper

15-03-2006, 03:30 PM

Hope all dear samster, i am planning for Shanghai trip on this April. Anyone interested to join me and we can go see see and look look.

Any good recommendation as i am quite new to Shanghai?:p

SGPshanghai69

15-03-2006, 03:39 PM

SGPshanghai69

15-03-2006, 03:45 PM

Bro Morningrun,

A very well written FR........ Hmmmm..... makes me think of my first encounter thru 小玉........ hahahahhahaa.....

Anyway, no need to thank me...... We bros were supposed to share our intel... isn't it???? And dun forget that we still hv a "board meeting" that we need to attend.... kekekekekekkek.......

cheers,
maninsin

Bro Maninsin,
Hence you have such contact with your regular 'Xiao Yu', perhaps he can help organising the 'Board Meeting' whom our Bro Morningrun has been wanting to have???

See ya soon back here in SHA bro...cheers.:p

SGPshanghai69

15-03-2006, 03:48 PM

Any good recommendation as i am quite new to Shanghai?:p

Bro Jasper,
What kinda info or recommendations you require? Hotels? KTV? HC? Bars & pubs?
Pls advise.

Cheers......................:o

shengge

15-03-2006, 04:01 PM

Bro Jasper,
What kinda info or recommendations you require?

尊敬的首席娱乐官：
Your response very fast leh.....:D
Online service?

Cheers!
SG

SGPshanghai69

15-03-2006, 04:16 PM

Your response very fast leh.....:D
Online service?

Cheers!
SG

Snr Bro Shengge,
Dun suan lah...merely logged on then coincidentally only lah....
'Always close but never closed'........ha ha ha.....:p

Cheers Snr Bro SG.

shengge

15-03-2006, 04:34 PM

Snr Bro Shengge,
'Always close but never closed'

Dear Bro SGPSha69,
How can I be suan-ing you? In fact you and bro PTR are the two that are suan-ing me. I am not as senior as both of you leh, moreover, many may think that I am senior citizen liao.
I thought you always open and ready...:p
Take Care!

SG

jasper

15-03-2006, 04:59 PM

I prefer LSB, pub and KTV but first choice for FL....

Do you have any idea how much is the total damages?

SGPshanghai69

15-03-2006, 05:59 PM

I prefer LSB, pub and KTV but first choice for FL....

Do you have any idea how much is the total damages?

What's LSB bro? Pardon me for my ignorance but I'm really not good at all these abbreviations...pai seh lah.

With regards to your request for info on FLs & it's damages, frankly I'm not so well-informed on this aspect, apologies again for that. As far as the cost of it, it should be around the range of RMB min 600 - RMB 1000 I think.
Any bros, pls correct me if I'm wrong.

Perhaps some other bros might be in a better position to advise you further on more info to FLs....

Cheers bro.

Denny

15-03-2006, 09:02 PM

Dear Bro PF,
Yes. I agree that it is quite rare to get a reliable no-bullshit contact in shanghai. I must admit is WAS a little expensive at RMB2,000 but very well worth it. Actually she called me last evening about 5:00 p.m.and wanted to know if I could have dinner with her, however I was joining some friends Bro SGPShanghai69, Bro Cateyes101 and a couple of other guys, plus their significant others, so it was not on. I wonder what it could have led to. Still, I have to continually smack myself on the head as a reminder never to get close or involved ever again.

There is a saying which goes something like this
"There is nothing as over-rated as a bad f**k and
nothing as under-rated as a good shit"

Ever paid quite a bit of money to bring a girl back to the room only to find out that in normal lighting (not the cave style of a KTV or HC room) and find that under that makeup and glitter is Godzilla? or someone who digs her teeth and chews with her mouth open.... etc then no mood after that...? Well it has happened to me, so I am willing to pay for satisfaction... and truly I WAS satisfied.

Bros Maninsin and SGPS69 helped me to salvage something from a potential problem. and i will be forever grateful to them, and I know I have REAL brothers here... not just cheonging, but very much for the long run and shorts.

I wish I could join the thing this weekend (Really want to go meet some of you legends), but such is life. I am bringing my family over to Shanghai next week so i will not be in town.

In the meantime, Y'all PLEASE have fun.

MR

Morningrun bros, a great report and one could tell from the report that you and the girl enjoyed the action.

You may see my previous report on those saunas at Shanghai. Yes, it is cheaper (RMB 600-750 for one shot, RMB 1500 for 2), but we also need some emotional attachments during the action part. This type of amatuer girl would suit best and I could tell why you say it is worth it. I had a beauitful and young girl in Guangzhou quite a few years ago for 500 only (1 shot) and she was possibly the best fxxk I had. Smooth skin, a little bit shy, natural, fresh.

If possible, it will be great if you could PM me the contact. I visit SHA once a month and am a bit tired of sauna experience (you may see my previous report in this thread).

Morningrun

15-03-2006, 10:19 PM

If possible, it will be great if you could PM me the contact. I visit SHA once a month and am a bit tired of sauna experience (you may see my previous report in this thread).

Bro Denny,
Thanks for the kind words. However I typically do not send out numbers for OKT unless I know the guy first, and especially for girls' numbers as some of them are very decent. I have had many occasions when samsters ask for the numbers of some of my "partners" and I had given them out a couple of times, and the guys treated them like trash. I always treat the mm in a very gentlemanly fashion, even if I do not enjoy her company as they are real people too. Treating them well also allows them to relax and enjoy what they are doing, and gives back a great response too.

Hope you dun mind, but PM me your contact number, let me get to know what you're about, then we can take it from there. Sorry I dun want to sound like a prick but better this way. In this way, the OKT will also respect me and always give me good stuff and not trash.

MR

Morningrun

15-03-2006, 10:24 PM

Bro Morningrun,
Good lad! So it was all these juicy FR that you will trying to tell me over dinner last evening??!! Wow!

Anyway, always maintained the basic principle here as u mentioned.....'Pay, Fcuk & Forget'.....no follow ups....hassle free!

Well done & excellent FR...............;)

Bro SGPSH69,

Actually spending time with you guys was anytime better than having her over. The company was great, the food was great, the conversation was great.... and I had one of the best times I ever had in Shanghai.

Cheers
MR

jasper

15-03-2006, 11:17 PM

I am keen if anyone could share any good lobang in shanghai to bonk...

Prefer FL can go to your room and service you...:D

jasper

15-03-2006, 11:26 PM

Please recommend some of good place to bonk in Shanghai prefer FL can service in room.

shengge

16-03-2006, 12:38 AM

Please recommend some of good place to bonk in Shanghai prefer FL can service in room.

Sorry Bro Jasper!
I cannot help in this area.
Take Care!

SG

SGPshanghai69

16-03-2006, 10:15 AM

Prefer FL can go to your room and service you...:D

Bro Jasper,
The quickiest way to suit your request is to call the HC within the hotel you are staying & get them to send a gal to your room, most of them provide full services.

Other than this suggestion to you, as Snr Bro Shengge said herein, me too have no such lobangs of FL Services that one can call to his room. Furthermore, calling outside FL service to your hotel room poses another danger & security issue as well bro. Lately in China, new & more stringent rules have been enforced on Anti-Vice crackdown by the authorities so do exercise extra cautions, especially being a foreigner.

Hope the above info helps, cheers.
Happy bonking....but be safe!

SGPshanghai69

16-03-2006, 11:22 AM

Bro SGPSH69,

Actually spending time with you guys was anytime better than having her over.
Cheers
MR

Hi Bro Morningrun,
Glad that you had a great dinner & talk cock session with us all!

By you saying you rather have time spend with us bros & enjoyed better than having her over to yuor place to quench your 'biological' thirst...hmmm....will that make us all look like the recent popular movie 'Broke Back Mountain' lead roles as what our Bro Holein1 said so during dinner???
Hee.....hee....hee.....:p Other than good brotherly care & dinner chats, nothing more we can provide you hor......

You have fun going to downunder & back to homeland lah! See ya soon man.

jasper

16-03-2006, 11:25 AM

This information really help i must beware of gong-an althought i am horny. I do not want to end up in jail because of carner...:) Play safe than say sorry...

meepokman

16-03-2006, 11:51 AM

WOW...did not know tat there were such a bunch of funboys in Shanghai...though i know of sammyboy since 2004, did not pay much attention...

As i travelling regularly to Shanghai...hope to catch up with you guys...:)

OceanEleven

16-03-2006, 12:04 PM

This information really help i must beware of gong-an althought i am horny. I do not want to end up in jail because of carner... Play safe than say sorry...
Going to them is easier than they coming to you. If you wanna them to go to your room, then perhaps you need to be the one to bring her up to your room else depending the hotel you stay in, she will have difficulties passing the sercurities.

For FLs you can go hunt or be hunt in pubs frequent by Bro SGP69. He is also known as an FLs attracter, the pubs he's in is loaded with FLs for picking up. :D Pricing depends on your chemistry with her then.;)

maninsin

16-03-2006, 12:43 PM

To all bros who pm me for xiao yu contacts....

I hope there's no offence here but most of the bros who pm me for xiao yu number, I'm sorry that I can't release to you as I don't know you... I don't give out the contacts to bros whom I dun know... There are various reasons and I hope that those bros who pm me can understand why.....

Cheers,
maninsin

maninsin

16-03-2006, 12:47 PM

Bro Maninsin,
Hence you have such contact with your regular 'Xiao Yu', perhaps he can help organising the 'Board Meeting' whom our Bro Morningrun has been wanting to have???

See ya soon back here in SHA bro...cheers.:p

Bro SGP69,

Will be back to SHA next week..... Got to postpone my trip back as like wat I told you over the phone, will need to settle some personal matters.... Anyway, thnx for the info I requested... See you when I'm back in SHA....

Cheers,
maninsin

shengge

16-03-2006, 01:44 PM

Play safe than say sorry...

Dear Bro jasper,
Right!
As bro SGPSha69 has said, the risk factors are very high for FL. IMHO, espcially those in pub, who is the fish to be fished?
Though I have not been pubs for long time, I think the situation does not change much. They will try to their ways to get the money from the fishes in the pool (on the spot), rather than being fished (out of the place). Prob bro SGPSha69 can elaborate more on this.
After all, I think HCs still better, hassle free and lesser risk. If not happy can complain some more...:p
Take care and enjoy your stay in Shanghai.

Cheers!
SG

surfer888

16-03-2006, 02:23 PM

Please recommend some of good place to bonk in Shanghai prefer FL can service in room.

Try Holiday Inn Pudong.... so far the hotel is quite girl friendly. There are many FLs that gather at the courtyard at night... just stand there and they will start to offer their services.

Alternative is to go to the Pub in Holiday Inn. Many FLs plying their trade there but quite pricey at about RMB 1000.

Yet another alternative is to go to the Nikko hotel next to Hoiday Inn for a good massage plus HJ. Slightly pricey at about RMB650 for 2 hours, HJ inclusive. Get the girls phone number and she will probably go up to your room in a different hotel the next day. May even be FOC depending on how well she clicks with you. But try to stay in a different hotel from the HC gal as she will not go up to a room of the hotel she works in as it is against most hotel's regulations.

Most hotels in the Pudong area have massage + HJ services but not full course. Also, most of them will not send the girls up to the room. I always ask for two room cards when I check in and mention that my GF is coming later... saves me from unnecessary bribing later.

bobobee

16-03-2006, 04:14 PM

hi i b going to suzhou for some time. heard the gers r dam pretty duno true or not. easy to get gers there..anyway any recommand there? THanks ..:rolleyes:

Morningrun

17-03-2006, 02:07 AM

lukim

17-03-2006, 09:21 AM

hi i b going to suzhou for some time. heard the gers r dam pretty duno true or not. easy to get gers there..anyway any recommand there? THanks ..:rolleyes:

Bro bobobee,

There is a thread on suzhou with some resident samster there. Maybe you can get more help there.

Pretty or not pretty really varies pending on your defination of chio. In terms of outlook, i reckon the mm in shanghai are much better looking. Suzhou still remains quite kampong.

Hope this helps

Cheers

mattrovers

17-03-2006, 10:06 AM

Yo bro,i just arrived in shanghai.....

Hope to be able to meet up with some samsters here.....

SGPshanghai69

17-03-2006, 10:16 AM

Yo bro,i just arrived in shanghai.....

Hope to be able to meet up with some samsters here.....

Welcome bro!
PM any 1 of us lor....
Cheers.

SGPshanghai69

17-03-2006, 10:29 AM

[QUOTE=SGPshanghai69]
By you saying you rather have time spend with us bros & enjoyed better than having her over to yuor place to quench your 'biological' thirst...hmmm....will that make us all look like the recent popular movie 'Broke Back Mountain' lead roles as what our Bro Holein1 said so during dinner???
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Ya lah! Ya lah!
I am an old man now... how many times a day can I go for it? Anyway, I have had a couple of mm come over to the hotel for the night and nothing happened... just to have a warm body beside me you know..... serious.

So, you and me take lead role and Bro Maninsin will be Ang Lee....?

Bro MR,
No la, u not old man lah! U r merely older than me by 3 years onnly ma....u r still going strong, moreover u do 4 Km run everyday ...wah lau eh...fit as a bull man! Keeping u warm only meh bro? Dun think so leh.....

Taking the main lead roles in Broke Back Mountain........u the O and I am the I? hee...hee...hee...;)

Cheers. Have a good trip & see ya soon bro.

SGPshanghai69

17-03-2006, 10:32 AM

Bro SGP69,

Will be back to SHA next week..... Got to postpone my trip back as like wat I told you over the phone, will need to settle some personal matters.... Anyway, thnx for the info I requested... See you when I'm back in SHA....

Cheers,
maninsin

No worries bro. Most of all settle your matters & be back here with a clear mind and most importantly a better mind to do what you have planned for here........

Take care & wish u well bro!
Cheers.

jasper

17-03-2006, 10:42 AM

I will be in Shanghai on April, so you all guys are staying there for long. Then we could meet up and venture around... The more the merrier.:)

SGPshanghai69

17-03-2006, 10:42 AM

Dear Bro jasper,
Right!
They will try to their ways to get the money from the fishes in the pool (on the spot), rather than being fished (out of the place). Prob bro SGPSha69 can elaborate more on this.
After all, I think HCs still better, hassle free and lesser risk. If not happy can complain some more...:p
Take care and enjoy your stay in Shanghai.

Cheers!
SG

Bro Shengge & Bro Jasper,
Greetings.
As Bro Shengge mentioned herein, the pricing varies pretty much from places & diff states or cities FLs. I've not much experiences other than tried once b4 4 years+ ago, picked up from Park 97. Pretty garang I must say, dunno what is death, followed her back to her place, end up with 2 shots...total damage at RMB 600. Overall, just an experience, not so much of a good FJ.
The FL is working in the suburb area of Shanghai as a production line supervisor, from Dalian.

I agreed with Bro Shengge on the fact that HC is still the best way for one to get the needed FJ & services though not all preferred it......
Pay Fcuk & Forget......

Cheers.

SGPshanghai69

17-03-2006, 10:48 AM

Then we could meet up and venture around... The more the merrier.:)

Most of us are working here....read from the thread & u will know who r we....
Hear from ya.
Enjoy your stay...have fun!

Cheers

shengge

17-03-2006, 12:06 PM

I will be in Shanghai on April, so you all guys are staying there for long. Then we could meet up and venture around... The more the merrier.

Most of us are working here....read from the thread & u will know who r we....

Dear Bro jasper,
As bro SGPSha69 said some of us work here. However, I must said most of them can afford the time to venture around. Right bro SGPSha69?
Hope you can get info you need here....Cheers!

SG

SGPshanghai69

17-03-2006, 12:24 PM

Dear Bro jasper,
As bro SGPSha69 said some of us work here. However, I must said most of them can afford the time to venture around.
SG

Bro Shengge & Jasper,
Hi. Depending on the time of the week, usually weekends (Fri / Sat) would be better for all as most of us ahve commitments on work, trips & wife, GFs...etc.
Prior arrangement would be usuallly made with such gathering coming up to suit every bros schedule.

Jasper, PM us if u wanna meet in person.
Cheers

shengge

17-03-2006, 12:59 PM

Depending on the time of the week, usually weekends (Fri / Sat) would be better for all as most of us have commitments on work, trips & wife, GFs...etc.

Bro SGPSha69,
Unfortunately, weekends me also not available most of the time.
So how many of people has confirmed the gathering for tmr?
I will be back to town tonite or may be tmr.

Cheers!
SG

mattrovers

17-03-2006, 01:44 PM

Bro SGPSha69,
Unfortunately, weekends me also not available most of the time.
So how many of people has confirmed the gathering for tmr?
I will be back to town tonite or may be tmr.

Cheers!
SG

Im not able to make it tomorrow....got to view apartment with missus....
Hope to meet up 1 of this day.....

mattrovers

17-03-2006, 01:45 PM

SGPshanghai69

17-03-2006, 02:37 PM

Hope to meet up 1 of this day.....:)

No worries man. One of this day we'll meet up, it shall be.
Happy house hunting!
Cheers..........................;)

SGPshanghai69

17-03-2006, 02:41 PM

Bro SGPSha69,
So how many of people has confirmed the gathering for tmr?
I will be back to town tonite or may be tmr.

Cheers!
SG

Bro,
U r out of town now eh? With regards to 2moro's dinner gathering, still not firm yet till now. Reason being no one firm yet with PM or emails, and most of all our Hon big bro PTR has not confirm as well.

To all bros here in SHA, anyone still interested or shall we arrange another dat maybe? Pls advise.
Many thanks.

Cheers.

PuTonRen

17-03-2006, 02:50 PM

Bro,
U r out of town now eh? With regards to 2moro's dinner gathering, still not firm yet till now. Reason being no one firm yet with PM or emails, and most of all our Hon big bro PTR has not confirm as well.

To all bros here in SHA, anyone still interested or shall we arrange another dat maybe? Pls advise.
Many thanks.

Cheers.

Dear Bro SGPShanghai69,

I have posted in the forum, in this thread that I shall be present for the dinner gathering already. Yes, I would not like to miss this opportunity.

I think the address of the dinner is far away from this point as this thread grows fast. Could I trouble you to post the address once again as a reminder and then people may respond.

Sorry to trouble you.

Thanks.

PTR

SGPshanghai69

17-03-2006, 03:21 PM

Dear Bro SGPShanghai69,

I have posted in the forum, in this thread that I shall be present for the dinner gathering already. Yes, I would not like to miss this opportunity.

I think the address of the dinner is far away from this point as this thread grows fast. Could I trouble you to post the address once again as a reminder and then people may respond.

PTR

Hey there Big Bro PTR,
So u r in SHA now?
I didn't hear from ya as yet so assuming 'no sound no picture' from you means NO gathering mah.....anyway, didn't not get any firm RSVPs or PMs yet from many bros with regards to teh dinner gather.

The address is Wu Qi Soup Restaurant, located on Yu Yuan Rd, junction of Jiao Zhou Rd. (Next to Burger King Fast Food)

See ya big bor.
Cheers:p

PuTonRen

17-03-2006, 03:29 PM

Bro,

Sorry, I left your new number in a new phone that I bought last week. Now, the new phone is used by my kid, and hence have only your old number. My number remains the same, can you send me an empty SMS so that I can register your new number please.

Regards

PTR

Morningrun

17-03-2006, 08:15 PM

Bro PTR,

Just so long as your wife does not get the phone again . Kekekeke
MR

shengge

18-03-2006, 02:44 AM

Im not able to make it tomorrow....got to view apartment with missus

Dear Bro,
Family comes first.
Not to worry, bro SGPSha69 will sure to organise another gathering.
So your mrs is coming over to Sha with you?
Take Care!

Cheers!
SG

Prince Fed

18-03-2006, 11:38 AM

maninsin

18-03-2006, 12:29 PM

Sorry bros,

Will not be able to attend the dinner too tonite as I'm still bck in SG.... Really wish to hv the opportunites to meet the legendary PTR and the rest of the bros...

BUt there again, I'm sure that we will organize dinner like this as regularly and I'll soon hv the chance in meeting the rest of you....

Cheers.
maninsin

PuTonRen

18-03-2006, 01:01 PM

Bro PTR,

Just so long as your wife does not get the phone again . Kekekeke
MR

Dear Bro Morningrun,

Hahaha...She suspects something. But she always says "I do not believe if you do not play when you are overseas during 10 months in a year, but if you want to drink milk, do not bring the cow home". Kekekekeke...

Thank you very much, I have a very satisfying night yesterday until this morning. You want FR? Not as detailed as yours. Hahaha... I am not sure I had the same girl as yours although I told Xiao Yu so. The girl is from Hunan, not Guang Xi. If she was the same one, then I totally concur with your description of her, a real nice SYT.:D

Regards

PuTonRen

18-03-2006, 01:05 PM

Dear bros,

I am sorry that I won't be able to attend tonight's gathering. I am sick like a skinny dog in the rain and I do not want to give you all my bad germs.
Anyway we will organise more of these in the future. Really sorry I will miss PTR this time though.

Cheers,

PF.

Cher ami,

C'est dommage que on ne puis pas se rencontrer cette fois-ci.

Sorry, my french is very lousy, learning now, just want to practice lah. Too old to learn new things I suppose.

Bon restablishment.

Bien coordialement

PTR (Un homme tres ordinaire - HTO)

Morningrun

18-03-2006, 05:51 PM

Dear Bro Morningrun,

Hahaha...She suspects something. But she always says "I do not believe if you do not play when you are overseas during 10 months in a year, but if you want to drink milk, do not bring the cow home". Kekekekeke...

Thank you very much, I have a very satisfying night yesterday until this morning. You want FR? Not as detailed as yours. Hahaha... I am not sure I had the same girl as yours although I told Xiao Yu so. The girl is from Hunan, not Guang Xi. If she was the same one, then I totally concur with your description of her, a real nice SYT.:D

Regards
Bro PTR,
Really happy that you enjoyed yourself. Fif Xiao Yu say that she was the same mm? Maybe not. Did she say anything about me?

Anyway, happy for you. Yes please post the FR.

MR

Morningrun

18-03-2006, 06:41 PM

shengge

18-03-2006, 07:56 PM

Thank you very much, I have a very satisfying night yesterday until this morning.

Dear Bro PTR,
I am sure till now you should know why I admire you so much.
I should have had a enjoying night as well.... too bad, my "younger bro" did not take control. When reached home, taught him a lesson...

Cheers!
SG

Morningrun

18-03-2006, 09:52 PM

my "younger bro" did not take control. When reached home, taught him a lesson...

Cheers!
SG

Meaning you went home and gave him a good "beating"? Kekekek

PuTonRen

18-03-2006, 09:54 PM

Dear Bro PTR,
I am sure till now you should know why I admire you so much.
I should have had a enjoying night as well.... too bad, my "younger bro" did not take control. When reached home, taught him a lesson...

Cheers!
SG

Dear Bro shengge,

No lah! Please do not admire me lah! I suppose I am always lucky! She was really good in her services that an old man like me really needs.

You should have done it yesterday night with the Hubei girl. You are not firm (in your decision) enough.

Regards

Morningrun

18-03-2006, 10:06 PM

You should have done it yesterday night with the Hubei girl. You are not firm (in your decision) enough.

Regards

Bro PTR,

Thought you were doing it with the Hubei girl last night....? How Bro Shengge do at the same time.... unless..... Brokeback mountain....
Cheers

shengge

18-03-2006, 10:24 PM

Meaning you went home and gave him a good "beating"? Kekekek

Dear Bro Morningrun,
Yes, you are right!
Just to share the incident with you.
Last nite, I was having dinner with my customer, a friend of mine and my customer friends.
After that, we proceed to KTV, about 7 of us. To our surprised, most of them got their own mm, one of them each time get 3 of his regulator mm to sit with him......my customer said at times, he has 6 to 7 mm for his own....:eek:
So the girls parading were actually for 2 of us.

As usual dice game, 4 to 5 ppl playing, ended up I lost most of the times. On top of that, most of them gang up against me. In the end, my mm helped me on most of the drinks. By 11 she was rather high.....hold my head toward her, she frenched me very hard, could feel her strong suction...:eek: Imagine it on my "younger bro"...wah lao, hor sei liao! hehe!

Well, luck is not always not my side, abt 12+am, they decided to go back, and let their friends continue. So 3 of us went back to Shanghai.

By the time I reached Shanghai, she called me, saying she got drunk, I said you should have told me earlier then I can stay back. She said she was shy to mention it, well I told her there is always opportunity to meet up again.

Well, thinking about it, prob I should have stayed back and ...

Anyway, that all from me.
Have a nice weekend.

Cheers!
SG

shengge

18-03-2006, 10:32 PM

How Bro Shengge do at the same time.... unless..... Brokeback mountain....

Dear Bro Morningrun,
I did not do what bro PTR did lah.
Sorry, don know much about this movie, though my wife is watching it now...
Your lobang to bro PTR look very huge leh. Your contacts in Shanghai is great.

Take Care!
SG

Morningrun

18-03-2006, 10:34 PM

After that, we proceed to KTV, about 7 of us. To our surprised, most of them got their own mm, one of them each time get 3 of his regulator mm to sit with him......my customer said at times, he has 6 to 7 mm for his own....:eek:
So the girls parading were actually for 2 of us.
SG

Dear Bro SG,
Anyway, Bro Maninsin, Bro SGPSH69 and myself thinking of getting together for a social outing organized by Xiaoyu (he will organize the entertainment) and if my past experience has anything to go by, it will be tailor made to our tastes. You are always welcome to join us.

Now in Changi Airport waiting to board plane to go back to Japan, then back to SHA with my family.....

If you in SHA, give me a shout

MR

shengge

18-03-2006, 10:42 PM

She was really good in her services that an old man like me really needs.

You should have done it yesterday night with the Hubei girl. You are not firm (in your decision) enough.

Dear Bro PTR,
I guess she serve your well, in the end she got what she get in return mah....not only the $$$.....but a good bang by you......hehehehe!:D

Though I don't have much opportunity like most of you, may be this is just a case whereby the big head over rule the small head. Or just treat is as 放生。。。？

By the way, I observed that the mm there are all quite decent. I am sure there is always chance for me to be there again.

Take Care!
SG

shengge

18-03-2006, 10:47 PM

Dear Bro SG,
Anyway, Bro Maninsin, Bro SGPSH69 and myself thinking of getting together for a social outing organized by Xiaoyu (he will organize the entertainment). You are always welcome to join us.
If you in SHA, give me a shout

Dear Bro Morningrun,
I am hohoured. Thanks in advance.
I guess I may not bea ble to enjoy the fun you guys have, however, I do hope to be there for this outing if situation permit.
I can not be at anywhere else. Shall I give you a SHOUT now....:D

Have a nice journey.

Cheers!
SG

maninsin

18-03-2006, 11:21 PM

Bros SGPSHA69 and Maninsin,

This morning Joy and I had a good long talk and decided to end it. Better for the family. So... now to end it with Xiao PengYou and then I am well clear again..... Just keeping it transactional.....

Just thought I wanted to let you guys know.

MR

Bro MR,

Think it was a wise decision with regards to your situation. Anyway, remember what we talked abt last nite regarding china girls??? hahahahaa...

You hv a safe trip bck and I'll see you in SHA soon... Take care..

Cheers,
maninsin

PuTonRen

19-03-2006, 12:49 AM

Dear Bro Morningrun, as promised, below is the FR.

Thanks to the confidence and trust from Bro Morningrun that I was able to contact Xiao Yu on Friday night. I worked quite late and was back to my room at 8.30pm after a quick dinner. I called him and asked him the possibility of sending a lady over at about 1100pm. He hesitated for a while probably it was quite late, but told me nevertheless that he would arrange one for me. I continued to work in my hotel room in anticipation of the arrival of the lady who would be spending the night with me. I received a call from the lady, asking him where I stay and whether she needed to buy the necessary.

At about 1110 pm, I heard the door bell and went to open the door. In front of me, there stood a real SYT, dressed rather decently. She told me later that she was around 20 years old. I invited her into the room, and asked her to take a seat while I continued with the last bit of my work on my computer. We chatted while I worked, and found out that she was from Henan province and had been in Shanghai for about two weeks only. After a while, she stood behind me and started to hug me. At that moment, I had just finished typing the last sentence of my report. I closed the document then shutdown the computer and she came to my side and stood there. While the computer was shutting down, we were already frenching deeply and with our hands exploring each other body.

As I had not taken my shower, she suggested that we took a shower together, and she told me that she would bath for me and clean me thoroughly. She did so in the shower. The frenching and the exploration went on in the shower. After the shower and having dried each other thoroughly, we went to the bed. We started by frenching again and touching each other’s sensitive parts. She then started to give me a BBBJ. She was good in using her tongue to tease me, but lack overall skill, I then taught her how to do it properly, and she learnt fast. During the BBBJ, I started to play with her breasts (not big, about 33B), and after a while, while touching down south, I sense some wetness. It was therefore time for the real action.

She then capped me, and requested that she would like to be on top first. She was riding me like no tomorrow, while I enjoyed myself watching her. If her breasts were bigger, it would have been a fantastic sight for me. Apparently, her sexual organ was not used too frequently, and coupled with her age; the jade-passage was tight, but wet. As an old man, I took long time to reach the climax, especially with cap on. We continued the love making in many positions and locations – sofa, she on the writing table, doggie, etc. The session went on for long time, with many rests in between. I finally unloaded into the rubber, She was really very accommodating, and the stereo effect was fantastic. With the natural wetness, I told myself that she was enjoying the session. During the love making, she kept on asking me whether I was enjoying myself. After a while, we bathed together again and both went into slumber land while hugging each other tightly. She left the next morning after any raba-raba session.

It was a good session with a beautiful SYT with good attitude. What else could I ask for?

I paid her the market rate of RMB 2000 for over-night.

Bro Morningrun, the above is the FR that I have promised you. I hope you like it. I asked her whether she knew you, she did not seem to know you and therefore did not say anything about you. I did not probe further as there was no purpose for me to do so.

Thank you once again to Bros Morningrun and Maninsin

maninsin

19-03-2006, 02:34 PM

SGPshanghai69

19-03-2006, 04:50 PM

Dear Bro Morningrun, as promised, below is the FR.

Bro Morningrun, the above is the FR that I have promised you. I hope you like it. I asked her whether she knew you, she did not seem to know you and therefore did not say anything about you. I did not probe further as there was no purpose for me to do so.

Thank you once again to Bros Morningrun and Maninsin

Dear Hon Big Bro PTR,
A very excellent FR you've posted here.....superb indeed!
So that goes to tell you had a great time.......good for ya big bro!

Most of all, 1,000,000,000 apologies for unable to make it for the dinner as I didn't realise that moving house took the entire day.....so sorry big bro!

Shall make it a point to make up for it the next time big bro.......cheers.

Best regards,
:o

SGPshanghai69

19-03-2006, 04:55 PM

Bro MR,

Think it was a wise decision with regards to your situation. Anyway, remember what we talked abt last nite regarding china girls??? hahahahaa...

maninsin

Dear Bro Maninsin,
Yo bro.......life's full of ups & downs.....hope I can do abit more for ya there.
Take it easy there, whatever it is we've our big bro Sir Morningrun here to guide us & to comfort us all when things are rough....which most of the times I'm having rough times anyway, be it at work or at home....with u know who lah! sigh.......sinz man......just dunno how long I can tahan here.......

Ahhhhhhhhhhh......................really feel like shouting out many atimes bro! sigh................sibeh sianz ahhhhhhhhhh.....................:(

Looking forward to ya return comes next week!
Cheers.

SGPshanghai69

19-03-2006, 04:59 PM

Dear Bro PTR,
Though I don't have much opportunity like most of you, may be this is just a case whereby the big head over rule the small head. Or just treat is as 放生。。。？

SG

Dear Sny Bro Shengge,
I think the phrase to use is not 'fang sheng' but rather 'Pu Jiu Zhong Sheng'......helping out the needy & boosting the PRC economy in other aspects lor.....kekekeke............

I'm sure one day Bro Shengge that the bros here can arrange a 'Board Meeting' for afew bros..........hee...hee....;)

Cheers Bro SG & wishing ya a good weekend!
Best regards,

decentyoungmen

19-03-2006, 05:32 PM

Hi Bros, I'm new in shanghai, would like to get some wise advise from on the Shanghai scene. Any idea where's the best to pick-up joint for a Sunday night?

supertora

19-03-2006, 05:46 PM

Dear All Bros,
As spoken to Bro Prince Fed, the dinner date is fixed on coming Saturday 18 March 2006.
Venue : Wu Qi Soup Restaurant, Jing An Temple on YuYuan Rd, junction of Jiao Zhou Rd.

Kindly RSVP asap by PM, emails or sms to either Bro Prince Fed or me. Max seating capacity is at 10 pax.
Many thanks.

Regards.

yesterday was very upset because nobody inform me that the dinner has been cancelled.:mad: end up eating myself at fullmore. (fu mao 's spicy small lobster). after the quick dinner, not wasting my good weekend, called few fren to have fun in gold mine ktv. We later continue our party at vip room with few mm and mamasan. All having great fun (drunk and feel very high) and finally my mm follow me back to my apartment. Enjoyed!

jasper

19-03-2006, 08:27 PM

Wow RMB2000 for PRC overnight session quite expensive leh.... The most important is enjoy...:rolleyes:

Morningrun

19-03-2006, 10:25 PM

Dear Bro Morningrun,
I am hohoured. Thanks in advance.
I guess I may not bea ble to enjoy the fun you guys have, however, I do hope to be there for this outing if situation permit.
I can not be at anywhere else. Shall I give you a SHOUT now....:D

Have a nice journey.

Cheers!
SG

Hi Bro Shengge,
Thanks for the post. Actually now back in +++yo. THe fense has been mended with the wifey and all things are good to go. I shall return to Shanghai Sunday 26th then go out to Qingdao Monday returning Wednesday evening.... followed by some settling in time till around 7th April whence I shall probably go to INdia for a week

WIll be back in SHA for another week from about 14th or so till 22nd when I go to TWN TH VN SG.... then back to SHA for a week then it is Germany for 2 weeks...... after that I am not sure as the PA has not advised me of my schedule...... SO anytime in between we will get Xiaoyu to set up the board meeting and you are most welcome to join us. I am sure that Bros Maninsin and SGSH69 will be thrilled too.....

Cheers,
MR

Morningrun

19-03-2006, 10:28 PM

Dear Bro Maninsin,

Ahhhhhhhhhhh......................really feel like shouting out many atimes bro! sigh................sibeh sianz ahhhhhhhhhh.....................:(

Looking forward to ya return comes next week!
Cheers.

Bro SS69,
DUn worry, enjoy the fact that your woman really loves you... I can tell U know! If you oneed to scream at someone, can give me a call at my JP mobile number. By the way how was the move? Bro MIS is also going through a rough time this weekend... hope he comes out OK.

Kindest regards,
MR

Morningrun

19-03-2006, 10:34 PM

Wow RMB2000 for PRC overnight session quite expensive leh.... The most important is enjoy...:rolleyes:

Bro Jasper,
Dun mean that they are PRC means they have to come cheap. If you work out fine with them... sometimes the next 3 nights are "complimentary". This is by experience, and OKT XiaoYu is really the BEST I have ever used......

With the same OKT, prices can reach 4000RMB overnight, but guaranteed to be exactly to your liking.......

shengge

20-03-2006, 12:10 AM

1) I think the phrase to use is not 'fang sheng' but rather 'Pu Jiu Zhong Sheng'......helping out the needy & boosting the PRC economy in other aspects lor.....kekekeke............

2) I'm sure one day Bro Shengge that the bros here can arrange a 'Board Meeting' for afew bros..........hee...hee....;)

Dear Bro SS69,
1) Are you saying 普渡众生？Sorry lah, I pay her RMB200 go, how to 普渡众生？Sorry, I did not help much in the economy.

2) Paiseh leh, I don know how to organise.... you know I am not so convenience in certain way lah. Later last minute cannot make it, then jia lat.

Hope you understand but will see if chances permit.

Thanks!
Cheers!

SG

shengge

20-03-2006, 12:17 AM

SO anytime in between we will get Xiaoyu to set up the board meeting and you are most welcome to join us. I am sure that Bros Maninsin and SGSH69 will be thrilled too.....

Dear Bro MR,
You look busy, I think work should come first, there is always time to cheong.
Do let me know when you are in town, or just wishper me when you are in town, no need to shout too loud, later everyone knows...:p

In the meantime, you take care and look forward to meet up with you soon.

Cheers!
SG

PuTonRen

20-03-2006, 01:51 AM

Bro Jasper,
Dun mean that they are PRC means they have to come cheap. If you work out fine with them... sometimes the next 3 nights are "complimentary". This is by experience, and OKT XiaoYu is really the BEST I have ever used......

With the same OKT, prices can reach 4000RMB overnight, but guaranteed to be exactly to your liking.......

Dear Bro Morningrun,

Well said! Well said! Over more than decade here, I had met many Singaporeans, and they always say this is expensive, you are spoiling the market.etc. Coming to China does not mean everything will be cheap. There are several people whom I know and who complained that RMB 2000 overnite was expensive, and yet back in Tian An Men at home, I saw them handling S$500 or buying a bag for the same amount and got nothing in return.

About market rate, I wonder who set the market rate? Even if there were people who set market rate, I wonder on what basis they did so.

Although Jasper say that is expensive, probably he does not know Shanghai scene, but he did mention that The important thing is enjoy. Yes, that is the word. There is a price to pay for everything nice.

I usually ignore comments on price as I believe I am willing to pay what I believe is fair. I wrote this post to follow up what you had said. If RMB 2000 is expensive, then one can choose not to have the service. I knew also Singaporean in China who paid through their nose for a sesssion, and yet told others that the service was RMB 500 or below, or FOC! Hahaha....

Xiao Yu is really good., Responsive and Responsible, I am going to make use of his service before I leave, and I am willing to pay RMB 2000 or evern RMB 4000 if the service and qualithy are good. Market Rate! What is that??

Regards to all.:D

PuTonRen

20-03-2006, 01:55 AM

Dear Big Bro PTR,

Am glad that you had an enjoyable time in SHA... And that the girl was up to your expectation....

Really regretted missing the chance to meet you in person in SHA but I'm sure the soon, we will be able to catch up....

Well written FR.... :)

Catch you soon.....

Cheers,
maninsin

Dear Bro Maninsin,

I really appreciate your selflessness to share the contact of Xiao Yu with me. Rest assured that it would not be passed around without you knowing it. I also regret for not being able to meet you. But we shall meet for sure. I had been on tele-conversation with Bro Morningrun, and he was also a great brother.

Thank you all for the help.

Regards

PuTonRen

20-03-2006, 01:56 AM

Dear Hon Big Bro PTR,
A very excellent FR you've posted here.....superb indeed!
So that goes to tell you had a great time.......good for ya big bro!

Most of all, 1,000,000,000 apologies for unable to make it for the dinner as I didn't realise that moving house took the entire day.....so sorry big bro!

Shall make it a point to make up for it the next time big bro.......cheers.

Best regards,
:o

Dear Bro SGPShanghai69,

Disappointed but okay! We shall meet the next time, No worry!

SGPshanghai69

20-03-2006, 09:32 AM

Dear Bro SS69,
1) Are you saying 普渡众生？Sorry lah, I pay her RMB200 go, how to 普渡众生？Sorry, I did not help much in the economy.

2) Paiseh leh, I don know how to organise.... you know I am not so convenience in certain way lah. Later last minute cannot make it, then jia lat.

Hope you understand but will see if chances permit.

SG

Dear Snr Bro Shengge,

1) Even if it's a mere RMB 200 yuan it's still money paid bro. Every little drop makes an ocean bro.......yours count as well!

2) Not that asking you to organise the 'Board Meeting ' lah bro but rather it's one of these days that the bros will organise one and you
'll be invited to come along ma....everyone has it's restraint, whether be it you or me....no worries bro.

Cheers bro.;)

shengge

20-03-2006, 10:01 AM

Wow RMB2000 for PRC overnight session quite expensive leh.... The most important is enjoy

Dear Bro jasper,
Personally, I also think RMB2000 indeed very expensive. IMHO, it really depends on the basis of comparison. I think you can get as cheap as RMB150 for a bonk at local BS, for KTV mm, the minimum would be RMB1300, including the room charges. Some may claim that, thru time and KC investment, in long run cheaper.
Ultimately, as you have said so, "SONG" is the most impt thing at the end of the day.
Cheers!
SG

shengge

20-03-2006, 10:09 AM

Not that asking you to organise the 'Board Meeting ' lah bro but rather it's one of these days that the bros will organise one and you'll be invited to come along ma....

Dear Bro SGPSha69,
Sincere thank you for introducing bro MR and MIS.
Do let me know the timing once you guys have decided.

Cheers!
SG

SGPshanghai69

20-03-2006, 10:51 AM

Dear Bro SGPSha69,
Sincere thank you for introducing bro MR and MIS.
Do let me know the timing once you guys have decided.
SG

Bro Shengge,
No worries mate, just merely doing the intro of such good bros to ya.
Will sure to inform you in advance once firm on time & dates, rest assured.
Won't go without ya man.......Snr Bro!
Cheers:p

SGPshanghai69

20-03-2006, 10:55 AM

Dear Bro jasper,
Personally, I also think RMB2000 indeed very expensive. Some may claim that, thru time and KC investment, in long run cheaper.
SG

I agree too that RMB 2,000 yuan is indeed very very EX! But there again, one man's meat is another man's poison so for bros whom felt it's all very worthwhile & well can afford it, enjoyment is the ultimate objective.

As Bro Shengge said here, some might think by time & feelings (EQ) investment, it might be cheaper.......basic maths tells us all it adds up to be more infact......

Cheers;)

SGPshanghai69

20-03-2006, 11:01 AM

Any idea where's the best to pick-up joint for a Sunday night?

Bro Decentyoungmen,
Pick-up joints meaning FLs at work? Pls verify.

- FOC pick-ups are rare in bars & pubs. Mainly FLs at work, no FOCs. Time & $$ spent eventually would be even more on FOC screws. Just simply pay & fcuk & forget would be the best option for short biz trips persons.

- Sunday nights are even more rare & dead at most places. Rarely one would find any pretty FLs on Sunday nights.

- Fri & Sat nights would be the best time & nights to hunt or pick your choice for FLs pick-ups. Try places like Maoing Rd & Tongren Rd street of bars.

Have fun.....but be safe!
Cheers;)

SGPshanghai69

20-03-2006, 11:05 AM

Bro Jasper,
This is by experience, and OKT XiaoYu is really the BEST I have ever used......

.......

Bro Morningrun,
From the FRs herein mentioned by Hon Big Bro PTR & yourself.....dying for the upcoming 'Board Meeting' leh...........you're such a devil I must say bro! ke...ke...ke....:p

jasper

20-03-2006, 11:35 AM

Hey brothers sorry if my words are harsh...

I would like to take this opporunity speak my bottom words to you all...

Personally i think there no such thing as F.O.C especially on those solicit...
One golden advice once "didi" poke into the hole responsibilities involved in order to prevent such circumstance happen please pay... If not you would regret or pay more....:p

PuTonRen

20-03-2006, 11:43 AM

I agree too that RMB 2,000 yuan is indeed very very EX! But there again, one man's meat is another man's poison so for bros whom felt it's all very worthwhile & well can afford it, enjoyment is the ultimate objective.

As Bro Shengge said here, some might think by time & feelings (EQ) investment, it might be cheaper.......basic maths tells us all it adds up to be more infact......

Cheers;)

Dear Bro SGPShanghai69,

What ever the amount, it is till our hard earned money, more so we have to spend it wisely. If one chooses to spend RMB X amount and derrive satisfaction and happiness, let it be so. It is just like a guy told us that a BMW 7 series is very expensive... Yes, I agree it is expensive and I cannot afford it. But, if the owner finds that he enjoys driving the car and it is within his mean to buy it, then he can just go ahead to do so. Who are we to comment on his expenditure. Well, an after though exists, we are also not in a position to stop people from giving their comments. It is just that some time should be spent to think over the situation before commenting.

I totally agree with you on KC which hopefully leads to FOC thing. You and I have stated many time that, there is nothing which is FOC, it is just when and how you are going to pay for it.

Anyway, maybe this old man here really do not have the Tom Cruise look to get free or low-priced sessions. Sigh......

PT Lao R

maninsin

20-03-2006, 12:00 PM

Dear Bro Maninsin,
Yo bro.......life's full of ups & downs.....hope I can do abit more for ya there.
Take it easy there, whatever it is we've our big bro Sir Morningrun here to guide us & to comfort us all when things are rough....which most of the times I'm having rough times anyway, be it at work or at home....with u know who lah! sigh.......sinz man......just dunno how long I can tahan here.......

Ahhhhhhhhhhh......................really feel like shouting out many atimes bro! sigh................sibeh sianz ahhhhhhhhhh.....................:(

Looking forward to ya return comes next week!
Cheers.

Bro SGP69,

Thank you very much but again dun hv to worry abt me as i know what I'm doing and have think through thorughly..... Indeed it will be a relief for me once I talk to you in SHA.....

As for "I Know Who", both bro MR and me have the same opinion that she does love you... But like what the rest of the are women behaves, they will alwiz need attention from us.... And after what I heard from bro MR abt what you had done for her, I feel that you have done an excellent job.... Sometimes, we juz need to forget some unpleasantness to get by... Hope u know what i mean... if you ever need someone to listen to you, you know that I'm alwiz around.... So shout out to me... :)

Anyway, congrats on your new home and happy living there.... heheheheheehehe...... See you soon in SHA...

Cheers,
MIS

maninsin

20-03-2006, 12:05 PM

Dear Bro Maninsin,

I really appreciate your selflessness to share the contact of Xiao Yu with me. Rest assured that it would not be passed around without you knowing it. I also regret for not being able to meet you. But we shall meet for sure. I had been on tele-conversation with Bro Morningrun, and he was also a great brother.

Thank you all for the help.

Regards

Dear Bro PTR,

Please don't mentioned it.... Anyone introduced thru bro MR and SGP69 to me is a friend of mine.... And you being the legend, it is indeed my pleasure to have known you... Just regretted that we did not hv a chance to meet yet....

Both bro MR and SGP69 are truly my bros... and I can trust them as like my own brothers.....

Great to know that you had an enjoyable time in SHA and we shall cach up soon....

Cheers,
maninsin

maninsin

20-03-2006, 12:12 PM

Bro MIS is also going through a rough time this weekend... hope he comes out OK.

Kindest regards,
MR[/QUOTE]

Bro MR,

Just like what I'd told u the other nite in SG, I am alrite and know what I'm doing.... Already told you how I came about the decision.... And I know that you will understand where I'm coming from..... :)

Anyway, enjoy your stay in +++yo and happy moving too to you.... Catch you again in SHA....

Cheers,
maninsin

PuTonRen

20-03-2006, 12:12 PM

Bro SGP69,

Thank you very much but again dun hv to worry abt me as i know what I'm doing and have think through thorughly..... Indeed it will be a relief for me once I talk to you in SHA.....

As for "I Know Who", both bro MR and me have the same opinion that she does love you... But like what the rest of the are women behaves, they will alwiz need attention from us.... .. So shout out to me... :)

Bros SGPShanghai69, Maninsin and Morningrun,

It seems like all three of you are going through rough wavy weather. I am not in the picture nor I have the privilege to know. Look at the bright sides. If I allow myself to be presumptious, I have gone through many such things in my many years here. Once, I nearly broken into pieces if not for one of the brothers in this forum. I survive and become wiser.

My attitude now a day is always to use a sharp knife and give a power blow to cut through the entanglement. I do not drag my feet on anything. I have some lady friends in Shanghai, but have been keeping a clear cut relationship which prevents myself from being sucked into entanglement. I have my fair share of low-cost funs with them. (like RMB 1500 to RMB 2000 for the companionship of a week or so, they call my money to them as the household expenses), but am very clear that the relationship will go toward the point of rupture one day when she finds a really love one to marry to.

We can never be too careful, and remember, our true love is really the woman who has decided to hand you her whole life to you, to be with you for the worst and for the best, and to bear your kids.

Oops! Someone has upped me one point, Thank you, but 199 not very good, I suppose I must work hard to achieve 228 - Prosperous every day.

Regards

PT Lao R

K123456

20-03-2006, 01:10 PM

Just got back from Shanghai last week.
I must say that the cost of entertainment has gone up.
Two of us spend something like RMB4000 for two girls in the room. This include mummy and pricecess tips + drinks + 1 quicky + 1 overnight. This place has floor show (the girls will strip naked - we had to pay RMB300 for each girl) would be good fun if you have a lot of friends in the room while the girls perform. The place is called Apollo Night Club.太阳星辰 920南京西路 6楼

The other place was JBHH which charge us even much more. Maybe I have my friend who is not Chinese plus my accent is not local.

austboy

20-03-2006, 01:12 PM

greetings to senior bros and all bros alike
as my name may suggest i'm actually a former singaporean now living in sydney. i've probaably read a hundered pages or more from this thread and have noted down the various recomendations and with thanks to all bros who contributed. i will be making my maiden trip to shanghai with some friends in a couple of weeks. will be staying at lanson apartments in an area called xin tian de. as me or my friends are not familiar with shanghai at all i wonder if someone could help us. as with the recomendations for HCs and karaoke or bars and pubs i don't know the proximity to our hotel. is anyone familiar with the area we are staying and can provide more recomendations for HCs karaoke or pick up joint bars or pubs? another problem we face is none of us speak good mandarin. would it be correct to say if we hung out at places frequented by caucasians there would be a better chance of picking FLs that could speak english? another silly question would be if the HCs provide FS?
many thanks in advance.

jasper

20-03-2006, 02:58 PM

Brother you got such good lobang, best of all few ladies..... Could you spare some contacts to us...:)

shengge

20-03-2006, 05:02 PM

Just got back from Shanghai last week.
I must say that the cost of entertainment has gone up.
The other place was JBHH which charge us even much more. Maybe I have my friend who is not Chinese plus my accent is not local.

Dear Bro K123456,
It never being cheap for KTV in Shanghai.
Most ppl will negotiate with mamasan upfront on the expenses for the nite.
On way, you can check with those Lao Jiao before going, then for sure you will not be over charged.

Thanks for sharing, will up your points.
Cheers!
SG

PuTonRen

20-03-2006, 05:43 PM

On way, you can check with those Lao Jiao before going, then for sure you will not be over charged.

Dear Bro shengge, my light-house in Shanghai,

You are one of the Lao Jiaos that we can learn from right?

Hahaha..

Someone has just given me one point, there goes my 1-9-8.

Regards

PT Lao R

shengge

20-03-2006, 06:21 PM

my light-house in Shanghai,
You are one of the Lao Jiaos that we can learn from right?
Someone has just given me one point, there goes my 1-9-8.

Dear Bro PTR,
Please don create confusion here lah.
How can I be your light house? I don have the light at all.
The reason I said that, bcos I don frequent KTV much and don know any mamasan, only know one or two HC, so how can I help him on KTV?

You old people mah, younger one likes me, when coming to Shanghai thread, must show the respect to you mah, so he up your point loh.

I am sure all bros can up your points anytime one lah, until 228.

Take Care!
SG

maninsin

20-03-2006, 09:13 PM

SGPshanghai69

20-03-2006, 11:28 PM

Though I'm gg thru a bad patch now but I know the exact thing that I need to do...

maninsin

Hey Bro Maninsin,
Dun forget Big Bro Morningrun, Bro Cateyes001 & me are here for you all the way too bro..............keep your chin up!

See ya soon this Thursday man........be positive!
Cheers bro.

Take care & rest well to be back here soon ya...............:)

SGPshanghai69

20-03-2006, 11:35 PM

Dear Bro PTR,
Please don create confusion here lah.
How can I be your light house? I don have the light at all.
SG

Bro Shengge,
Maybe you can start by being the traffic light or the lamp post 1st lah.....aiyo bro, dun be so modest lah......

Cheers..........:p

SGPshanghai69

20-03-2006, 11:55 PM

Bros SGPShanghai69, Maninsin and Morningrun,

It seems like all three of you are going through rough wavy weather. I am not in the picture nor I have the privilege to know. Look at the bright sides. If I allow myself to be presumptious, I have gone through many such things in my many years here. Once, I nearly broken into pieces if not for one of the brothers in this forum. I survive and become wiser.

We can never be too careful, and remember, our true love is really the woman who has decided to hand you her whole life to you, to be with you for the worst and for the best, and to bear your kids.
Regards

PT Lao Ren

Dear Honorable Big Bro PTR,
AS you our wise senior big bro speaks, we adore & heeds........
Very much indeed that domestic matters are always cases whereby none of us would be bearly able to comprehend nor would be able to seek any deeper enlightenment into! It's always givin in, bearing with it, tolerating it all becuz we're man, etc......sigh......:(

Conclusion is that we are what we are, why can't the opposite sex learn to see & accept what we are but ratehr day to day expecting us to live thier dreams, their expectations? sigh.....so much to talk about, that it might take forever & many more hundreds of pages to post here before any conclusions can be made big bro!

What really matters is that someone to listen out to grievences, like the bros here......many thanks to Big Bro PTR you, Bro Morningrun, Bro Maninsin, Bro Cateyes001...and also not forgetting dear Bro WhamBamTYM whom has left SHA though to be back in homeland to seek further & better greener pastures but shall & always be remembered here......

Cheers to all bros...wishing all of ya all smooth & happiness at home.....

SGPshanghai69

21-03-2006, 12:33 AM

i will be making my maiden trip to shanghai with some friends in a couple of weeks. will be staying at lanson apartments in an area called xin tian de. as me or my friends are not familiar with shanghai at all i wonder if someone could help us. as with the recomendations for HCs and karaoke or bars and pubs i don't know the proximity to our hotel. is anyone familiar with the area we are staying and can provide more recomendations for HCs karaoke or pick up joint bars or pubs? another problem we face is none of us speak good mandarin. would it be correct to say if we hung out at places frequented by caucasians there would be a better chance of picking FLs that could speak english? another silly question would be if the HCs provide FS?

Hey Bro Austboy,
G'day mate and a warm welcome to ya & ya mates!

Shanghai is indeed a bright lights, BIG City...you simply name it, they have it all here! All the bright, vibrant & sex-citing actions are found in PuXi (or you can call it 'Pussy').....being PuDong where the Int'l Airport & the Financial CBD Area is located which therefore does NOT really offer much actions in night life or plentiful choices of F&B outlets as PuXi would offer.

The Lanson Hotel ya & ya mates all putting up are a pretty good centralised locality, being at Xin Tian Di, the famous 'Shi Ku Men' or the Historical Stone Doorway of the Shanghai past homes used to be. Xin Tian Di past old houses are being transformed into night spots, F&B restaurants now, drawing plentiful crowds, tourists both domestic & international. The exact locality of Xin Tian Di are located on Ma Dang Rd. Just take a cab & tell the cabby Xin Tian Di, all of them would sure to know mate! Rest assured on that.

The bars & F&B outlets at Xin Tian Di are very much pretty dear in pricing, namly a beer costing at easily AUS$10 each. Food is basically costing alot more han most places as well, being Xin Tian Di is a tourist attraction spot.

The nearest street of bars / pubs to your hotel locality that offers both not too expensive drinks, with lots of choices in selections of bars to go to are located on Maoming Rd, junction of Fuxing Rd. Also, at these bars / pubs, one are able to pick up FLs (Sex trades free-lancers). Cost are at average RMb 500-700 (AUS$ 100-130 approx) for an hour fun. However, do exercise cautions as lately the Shanghai Police are having anti-vice crackdowns! Especially on bringing gals back to your hotel...do find out more about your hotel whether they allow outsiders or visitors other than house guests to come into the hotel rooms. Yes, most FLs do speak pretty good english language namly they are out to tout for sex services at foreigners only so rest assured that language is not a barrier for ya & ya mates.

The nearest HC that offers the full sex services are Ala House HC, located on Fuxing Rd, junction of Shun Chang Rd which is only a stone throw away from Xin Tian Di within a mere 5 mins walk that's all mate. The cost of full sex services is a RMB 550 nett (AUS$ 120 approx) for a mere 50 mins.

Hope the above info are useful to ya & mates....wishing ya all a happy time in Shanghai.............have fun but be safe!

Cheers mate.............................;)

The Bund

21-03-2006, 12:34 AM

SGPshanghai69

21-03-2006, 12:42 AM

jasper

21-03-2006, 04:05 PM

Thanks for your good leads... :)

rokket

21-03-2006, 04:20 PM

Bro 69 is one top guy! He gave me invaluable advise while I was in Shanghai last week. Thanks Brother!!!!!

shengge

21-03-2006, 04:21 PM

Bro 69 is one top guy! He gave me invaluable advise while I was in Shanghai last week. Thanks Brother!!!!!

Dear Bro rokket,
He is the CEO here mah!:D
May be this site can help a little bit
http://www.shanghaiabc.com/index.asp
Cheers!

SG

SGPshanghai69

21-03-2006, 04:47 PM

Dear Bro rokket,
He is the CEO here mah!:D

SG

Snr Bro Shengge,
Mai suan lah.....You're the 'Light House' / Traffic Light / Lamp Post as our big bro PTR called ya.......

I only share info with all bros here on 'cheonging' scenes and furthermore, might be even outdated info for all ya know la.....

Regards.

SGPshanghai69

21-03-2006, 04:50 PM

He gave me invaluable advise while I was in Shanghai last week. Thanks Brother!!!!!

Bro Rokket,
You're most welcome, nothing to it! Merely sharing with ya pretty norm info on teh usual aspects.......hope the given info to ya did help ya in some way or another....
Cheers.

Take care & best regards.

SGPshanghai69

21-03-2006, 06:01 PM

Hi bro SGP,

Sustaining any relationship is all about compromises, isn't it? In THE relationship of our lives, the one which bro PTR refers to, the ultimate test of our strength is in giving instead of taking. I'm sorry if I sound like I'm preaching which I'm not - but it's not a cliche to say that when we find joy in giving, that's when we know the true meaning of fulfilment.

Hey Bro Bund,
I'm ok for now, many thanks.
Starrted on new job a week ago. Trying to adapt to the new environment, new staff, new colleagues, new boss, new MNC structures & rules, new expectations to me.....everything new to adapt to all at once! Uneasy but trying my best to get used to it.

Yes indeed in a relationship it's all about compromises, fulfilments, giving in....etc....totally agreed with you on that bro! Isn't it that's what my present life is all about anyway? Living for the sake of others in my my life....least thoughts for myself......doing what my partner wants.....whatever it is, it's only about others but not myself. I'm all & fully awared of it bro, rest assured on that.

I'm not sure about the joy in giving, I'm only living for the sake of others and merely doing it daily and a MUST do thingy......otherwise the blame would be upon me! A very realistic fact in this realistic world. For survival sakes of others in my life, I'll just simply have to grit on & yield on if I could bro.

Thanks again for the kinds words & concern, I'll be fine for now.
You too take care there & keep in touch..............:o
Best regards,

SGPshanghai69

21-03-2006, 06:06 PM

May be this site can help a little bit
http://www.shanghaiabc.com/index.asp
Cheers!

SG

Snr Bro Shengge,
As the website you have attached herein says.........You're the 上海万事通!
:p

shengge

21-03-2006, 06:21 PM

Mai suan lah.....You're the 'Light House' / Traffic Light / Lamp Post as our big bro PTR called ya.......

I only share info with all bros here on 'cheonging' scenes and furthermore, might be even outdated info for all ya know la.....

Bro SGPSha69,
No lah, how can I be suan-ing you lah.
I am not light house lah, not traffic light and not lamp post...got a short stick only, red in colour.....:p
The fact that big bro PTR said so, prob I know a little bit abt the streets of Shanghai mah. However, I am sure most of the bros also know Shanghai very well.

Indeed you know most of the cheong scenes mah, may it be pubs, bars, discos, HCs, KTVs and etc. That makes you an important person in this thread mah.

Cheers!
SG

naemlo

21-03-2006, 07:05 PM

The fact that big bro PTR said so, prob I know a little bit abt the streets of Shanghai mah. However, I am sure most of the bros also know Shanghai very well.

How u want me to suan u?? Long time no talk liao... u busy with cheonging life in China?

SGPshanghai69

21-03-2006, 08:35 PM

Bro SGPSha69,
Indeed you know most of the cheong scenes mah, may it be pubs, bars, discos, HCs, KTVs and etc.
Cheers!
SG

Snr Bro Shengge,
I knew most of the cheonging scenes yet might be all outdated for all it matters bro......nobody is important here just merely sharing....not someone that is of any relevance as well.

Cheers bro....best regards.

shengge

21-03-2006, 09:15 PM

How u want me to suan u?? Long time no talk liao... u busy with cheonging life in China?

Dear Bro naemlo,
Why you also want to suan me leh?
Since when I cheong, I only tcss here only.....:D
When can you bring me to cheong?

Thank you!
Cheers!
SG

Morningrun

21-03-2006, 10:15 PM

Since when I cheong, I only tcss here only.....:D
When can you bring me to cheong?

Thank you!
Cheers!
SG
Dear Brothers,

Sorry I did not log into the site a few days. Just completed moving out of my house in Japan and now liging out of a hotel here until I take the family over to SHA on Sunday. The funny thing about moving is the first 90% of the boxes seem to go very quickly and easily. the lsat 3 or 4 cartons take forever to fill and sort out especially if there is a kitchen and fridge.......

Anyway, finally got out of the house..... my back is really stiff and sore from a lot of cleaning and carrying.... I can safely recommend "K.C. DAT / Tiger movers " as one of the best moving companies I have ever encountered. Packing, paperwork... all professional.

So..... OK about the board meeting, Need to get Bros Maninsin, SGPSH69, Cateyes101 in else we will not go. Special invitation to Bros PTR, Shengge if you wish to join in, please join in.

Bro Shengge,
I got your PM and sure I can ALWAYS share contacts with you. Your reputation precludes you. Will SMS the contact to you. Will have to brief you in on the SOP first though as this is a touchy subject.

Bro SGSH69,
How are things with you? sorry I called during a meeting... but am really concerned about you. Hope all is well on the home front. I agree, yes women are totally different creatures from us, and need special caring.... If you really need someone who understands you fully and can be there when you need... and not there when you do not need, then I suggest Brokeback mountain lah.... And Bro Maninsin can be Ang Lee.... Kekekek

Seriously, give it a couple more years... and you will get used to her. I recall you telling me that you are not used to this kind of lifestyle at this point, yet you and Bro Maninsin gave me the right advise that literally brought the wifey back to me 100%. She even jokes about it.... so you are not off the mark at all (not to even say short of the mark). Even feel like sponsoring the next board meeting for you two brothers.....

You're the best! All of you!

MR

P.S. After all that wholesome talk..... down to business..... WHEN CAN WE GO CHEONG AR? I am gue o go to Guangzhou early April.... anyone want to go and meet xiao Pengyou? HaHaHaHaaaaaa (then kena kicked in the ribs....)

Morningrun

21-03-2006, 10:15 PM

shengge

21-03-2006, 10:30 PM

OK about the board meeting, Need to get Bros Maninsin, SGPSH69, Cateyes101 in else we will not go. Special invitation to Bros PTR, Shengge if you wish to join in, please join in.

Bro Shengge,
I got your PM and sure I can ALWAYS share contacts with you. Your reputation precludes you. Will SMS the contact to you. Will have to brief you in on the SOP first though as this is a touchy subject.

Dear Bro MR,
Once again, thanks for the invitation.
I PM you not to ask for the contact of xiao-yu, need not SMS me on his contact. Basically, giving you a little info, in case you want to know.
Certainly, if chances arises, I would like to meet up with you.

Lastly, if you need help on housing in Shanghai, I can help a little.
Cheers!
SG

shengge

21-03-2006, 10:32 PM

shengge

21-03-2006, 10:38 PM

Special invitation to Bros PTR, Shengge if you wish to join in, please join in.
Bro Shengge,
I got your PM and sure I can ALWAYS share contacts with you. Your reputation precludes you. Will SMS the contact to you. Will have to brief you in on the SOP first though as this is a touchy subject.

Dear Bro MR,
Once again, thanks for the invitation.
I PM you not to ask for the contact of xiao-yu, need not SMS me on his contact. Basically, giving you a little info, in case you want to know.
Certainly, if chances arises, I would like to meet up with you.

Lastly, if you need help on housing in Shanghai, I can help a little.
Cheers!
SG

shengge

22-03-2006, 09:14 AM

So..... OK about the board meeting, Need to get Bros Maninsin, SGPSH69, Cateyes101 in else we will not go. Special invitation to Bros PTR, Shengge if you wish to join in, please join in.

I got your PM and sure I can ALWAYS share contacts with you. Your reputation precludes you. Will SMS the contact to you. Will have to brief you in on the SOP first though as this is a touchy subject.

Dear Bro MR,
I posted a reply to you last nite, some how it did not appear after so long.
Look forward to meet up with you, may be for a coffee.

Cheers!
SG

shengge

22-03-2006, 09:17 AM

Dear Bros,
Sorry for the multiple postings.
The system was not stable last nite.

My sincere apology.
:(

SG

SGPshanghai69

22-03-2006, 10:02 AM

Bro SGSH69,
How are things with you? sorry I called during a meeting... but am really concerned about you. Hope all is well on the home front. I agree, yes women are totally different creatures from us, and need special caring.... If you really need someone who understands you fully and can be there when you need... and not there when you do not need, then I suggest Brokeback mountain lah.... And Bro Maninsin can be Ang Lee.... Kekekek

Seriously, give it a couple more years... and you will get used to her. I recall you telling me that you are not used to this kind of lifestyle at this point, yet you and Bro Maninsin gave me the right advise that literally brought the wifey back to me 100%. She even jokes about it.... so you are not off the mark at all (not to even say short of the mark). Even feel like sponsoring the next board meeting for you two brothers.....
MR

Yo Big Bro Morningrun,
So you're packed & ready to 'move out' here eh? Good for you bro....looking forward to your return here with your family!

Home front for me is ok so-so lor. On & off the usual tantrums from 'you know who' lah.....sigh....:o ..............Give it afew years as you said here big bro? It's been 3 years + now & things are infact getting worst day by day.....there again, I started the thingy with 'you know who' on the wrong steps lor....who to blame but only myself! At the begining I shouldn't have give in so much, then it won't the present situation right now. As a bro of mine told me b4, don't do something to the gal you're courting initially if you knew for the fact that you can't be doing it long term (i.e. picking her up after work daily). If you do start it, you will NOT be able to put a stop to it as it's been a habit & a MUST-DO thingy at the begining. Whereas, if one hasn't done it right from the begining, yet occasionally do pop by to surprise her & pick her up after work, it would be a pleasant thingy to do, not a MUST-DO chore anymore!

I fully agreed on that point...sigh...women! Can't live with them yet can't live without them either.....sibeh charm......

I'll be fine for now bro, no worries. I'm simply taking the relationship right day by day, with NO plans at all for the future. Very uncertain feeling inside.
Every now & then should there be any fights or sensing any coming akan datan, I will simply walk away, either sleep in the Guest Room or surf net in my Study. So far, the best solution to it for now, as it works pretty well with 'you know who' & she's ok the next day.

Thanks again for the kinds words you've put uopn us infront of your CO big bro. We're just merely giving you words of concern as a bystander. Like the old saying goes, It's always in clearer perspective from the outer circle as a bystander to look at matters, whereas the one involves are always blinded.

Looking forward to your return comes next week big bro.....& most of all the 'Board Meeting' lah!

P.S. - BTW, My 'you know who' is leaving for Germany this Sat, she'll only be back on 7 Apr. Yupee!!!!;)

Prince Fed

22-03-2006, 10:56 AM

Hi Bro SG69,

I was reading your last post and cannot help to think about my own situation in the past. It is true that you should never give too much at the beginning because it will become an habit that, if you break it, people will start to tell you that you changed you dont "love" her the same way etc.....

Relationships are not easy but once you start to handle them in a nice and fair way it is really fulfilling.

So until April 7th you will be a "free" man again. Anything planned? Let me know. I will leave this friday for Philippines and be back one week after.
Keep in touch.

Cheers,

PF.

OceanEleven

22-03-2006, 11:37 AM

Yo Big Bro Morningrun,
So you're packed & ready to 'move out' here eh? Good for you bro....looking forward to your return here with your family!

As a bro of mine told me b4, don't do something to the gal you're courting initially if you knew for the fact that you can't be doing it long term (i.e. picking her up after work daily). If you do start it, you will NOT be able to put a stop to it as it's been a habit & a MUST-DO thingy at the begining. Whereas, if one hasn't done it right from the begining, yet occasionally do pop by to surprise her & pick her up after work, it would be a pleasant thingy to do, not a MUST-DO chore anymore!

I fully agreed on that point...sigh...women! Can't live with them yet can't live without them either.....sibeh charm......;)

Yup, never do something and make it into a routine for "You know who" will take it for granted. Imagine she work in Pudong and you work in Puxi and stay in Huangpu........:cool:

shengge

22-03-2006, 12:21 PM

It's been 3 years + now & things are infact getting worst day by day.....there again, I started the thingy with 'you know who' on the wrong steps lor....who to blame but only myself! At the begining I shouldn't have give in so much, then it won't the present situation right now. it would be a pleasant thingy to do, not a MUST-DO chore anymore!

I fully agreed on that point...sigh...women! Can't live with them yet can't live without them either

Dear Bro SGPSha69,
You sound not so good.
Love comes with a lot of factors, easy to say then done.
Many thing is not a Must Do but we simply have to do it. I think, if one starts to appreciate what the other has done, I am sure thing will get better.

To live together it is always difficult. Hope it goes well for you.

Cheers!

SGPshanghai69

22-03-2006, 01:37 PM

Dear Bro SGPSha69,
Love comes with a lot of factors, easy to say then done.
Many thing is not a Must Do but we simply have to do it. I think, if one starts to appreciate what the other has done, I am sure thing will get better.

To live together it is always difficult. Hope it goes well for you.

Cheers!

Dear Bro Shengge,
thanks for the kinds words & concern. Indeed in a relationship it comes with many contributing factors whereby making it all works. saying that "I love ya" is easy but actually doing it, to love that someone......really needs alot of patience, tolerance, giving, considering and the usual TLC (tender + loving + care).........most of all, it's the heart that feels & matters bro.

By simpy doing "it" as bro you mentioned herein, the ultimate execution is still doing "it" bro. Whether a MUST DO or simply do "it" dun make a diff. It's more like doing with all one's heart to it or simply doing it for the sake of doing. I'm presently living & having that kinda feelings within me bro, very honest about it, doing it for the sake of doing it.

Appreciation is a matter that is from the heart & shown thru gestures, not by mere words, my sentiments about it. I strongly believed in daily appreciation to that someone I love, but not the yearly St. Valentine's Day gift & candle-lit wine & dine thingys, nor the birthday or anniversary wine & dine thingy again, showering her with gifts...yet everyday having 'fun' behind her back.....no point in doing that. However, sad to say, all women believes in all those above-mentioned thingy on gifts, candle-lit wine & dine thingy....sigh...fairy-tales are always nice to live & imagine........women!:o

Indeed living together is always a very very difficult thingy to maintain.....相处难,同住更难!

谢谢兄弟关怀及支持!

maverick72

22-03-2006, 02:21 PM

Dear Bro Shengge,
thanks for the kinds words & concern. Indeed in a relationship it comes with many contributing factors whereby making it all works. saying that "I love ya" is easy but actually doing it, to love that someone......really needs alot of patience, tolerance, giving, considering and the usual TLC (tender + loving + care).........most of all, it's the heart that feels & matters bro.

谢谢兄弟关怀及支持!

Bro SGPshanghai69,
wat happened to you man? remember our small talks in the past? we are the men...i think i still remember telling u that men must treat them like shit than they will love u more...well, i guess u didn't heed my advice man...anyway, this kind of thing works differently on different type of gals...i just want u to know that no matter wat comes out of it, remember that you must be happy first...if u are not happy, than useless to push it on...u know wat i mean...haven't posted in the forum a long time...heehee...it's gd to be back...by the way, how come u not online on MSN? knn, wanted to talk bird with u...hahaha...:D

Faidenk

22-03-2006, 03:00 PM

Yo Big Bro Morningrun,
As a bro of mine told me b4, don't do something to the gal you're courting initially if you knew for the fact that you can't be doing it long term (i.e. picking her up after work daily). If you do start it, you will NOT be able to put a stop to it as it's been a habit & a MUST-DO thingy at the begining. Whereas, if one hasn't done it right from the begining, yet occasionally do pop by to surprise her & pick her up after work, it would be a pleasant thingy to do, not a MUST-DO chore anymore!

I couldn't help but agree fully.

Now let's say I just got to know & bed the girl and if she were to have read the above advice, what I would be getting is a plain missionary one the first time around. No BBBJ, CIM, not even a doggie. Occasionally, if and when she feels like it, when I least expect it, would I get a surprise BBBJ, and once a blue moon, a CIM.

Earlier I have already qualified myself by agreeing with your stand. Now how do I get her to disagree with you? Hahaha!

SGPshanghai69

22-03-2006, 05:09 PM

I couldn't help but agree fully.

Now let's say I just got to know & bed the girl and if she were to have read the above advice, what I would be getting is a plain missionary one the first time around. No BBBJ, CIM, not even a doggie. Occasionally, if and when she feels like it, when I least expect it, would I get a surprise BBBJ, and once a blue moon, a CIM.

Dear Big Bro Faidenk,
Greetings big bro. It's been a real long while since we last heard from you here...how're you?

Couldn't agree more with you on the definition herein to the above matters. Same principle, same logic except that if will to change the viewing point from the perspective of the opposite sex, being the lady standing I'm very dead sure that the lady would have their side of the story & arguements to it.

Whatever the case it might be, end of the day the mutual respect given, mutual appreciation and last but least the communications has to be established between both parties.
But, I guessed it's always earier said than done here with regards to relationships issues....................

Thanks again for sharing your valuable views with me here big bro and looking forward to meeting you up in person soon......

Wishing you well.
Best regards,

holein1

22-03-2006, 05:10 PM

:) Dear Bros
I will be making my first trip to shanghai on the 02 April 2006 and will be staying there till the 06 April 2006.

....
Cheers :)

bro, get CEO69's help. he is very free nowadays..in fact he and me are BBB. and we always BBBJing together..tio bo, bbb69?

hin1

Prince Fed

22-03-2006, 05:17 PM

Dear bro SG69,

It seems you're not too busy with your new job, spend a lot of time on internet:p
Let me know if you want to get together for a lunch tomorrow or friday, got plenty of time for lunch break these days:D

Cheers,

PF.

holein1

22-03-2006, 05:26 PM

Brother you got such good lobang, best of all few ladies..... Could you spare some contacts to us...:)

Yo bro, I hope your real life name aint the same as your sammy id right? if not, i would think you are my ex boss....lol:confused:

SGPshanghai69

22-03-2006, 05:29 PM

Bro SGPshanghai69,
i think i still remember telling u that men must treat them like shit than they will love u more...well, i guess u didn't heed my advice man...anyway, this kind of thing works differently on different type of gals...i just want u to know that no matter wat comes out of it, remember that you must be happy first...if u are not happy, than useless to push it on...u know wat i mean...haven't posted in the forum a long time...heehee...it's gd to be back...by the way, how come u not online on MSN? knn, wanted to talk bird with u...hahaha...:D

Hey Bro Maverick72,
How're you bro? Still tat busy flying all over China & M'sia?
You are the one that disappeared from the local Shanghai scene for a long long while bro, not me. Also, I can't log onto MSN Chat much being new on the job, dun feel good that my colleagues seeing me chatting away in my room, whereas they are all so busy with work la.....My room is full glass panel (like a fish tank) so whatever I'm doing are easily being seen & watch by others.....even my room door is clear glass lah bro! sigh......:o

I agree with you bro that to a certain extend that some women deserved to be treated differently.... Relatively speaking, it also depends on her culture background and family upbringing as well. KTV gals perhaps you can treat them the way you proposed herein mentioned but gals that are of not so 'night-life' background and more decent family upbringing, then we have to look at her otherwise. I'm not implying that KTV gals are not to be treated with respect but rather they are more exposed to the society 'dark sides' whereby making them more 'practical' & realistic towards men so they are more independent to a certain extend on themselves in both approach & thinking.
On the other hand, gals of decent family with day jobs are more prone to expect from their men on both materials, monetary as well as all other aspects i.e.commitment, attention, more submissiveness as compared to the KTV gals whom are only all out scheming for monetary rewards.

I agree with you that basic fundamental in any relationship is that both parties are to be happy, then only all other matters would be delightful & cheerful in overall perspective bro. Maybe for me now, I'm just all caught up with new job, new environment so need some time out on my own....
Thanks for sharing here bro, most of thanks for the concern.

See ya soon back here in Shanghai bro!
Cheers & take care.

Faidenk

22-03-2006, 06:09 PM

Dear Big Bro Faidenk,
Thanks again for sharing your valuable views with me here big bro and looking forward to meeting you up in person soon......

If you're meeting, give me a buzz. If I'm not outstation, be glad to meet up with all the brothers.

SGPshanghai69

22-03-2006, 06:15 PM

Dear bro SG69,

Let me know if you want to get together for a lunch tomorrow or friday, got plenty of time for lunch break these days:D

Cheers,

PF.

Hey Bro Prince Fed,
Hi there! Yup indeed I'm pretty free for now on my new job being that I will have to get my directions & objectives from US HQ before any actions taken. Going to US end Apr for a month+. After that upon return to SHA, will be dead bloody busy, I hope bro. So for now, CBL (meaning doing nothing at all, and YES! I'm simply surfing internet every seconds, every moniute lah! But tactically, not to obvious though)

Sure would like to meet you up for lunch, shall call you bro!
Cheers.

SGPshanghai69

22-03-2006, 06:16 PM

If you're meeting, give me a buzz. If I'm not outstation, be glad to meet up with all the brothers.

Sure thingy big bro! See ya soon.
Cheers

shengge

22-03-2006, 06:17 PM

bro, get CEO69's help. he is very free nowadays..in fact he and me are BBB. and we always BBBJing together..tio bo, bbb69?

Dear Bro SGPSha69,
Let's drop the unhappy subject for the moment.
Look like, you got a lot of titles leh.
Can you care to elaborate on these new terms here?
Shall I make a guess?:D

SG

SGPshanghai69

22-03-2006, 06:21 PM

he is very free nowadays..in fact he and me are BBB. and we always BBBJing together..tio bo, bbb69?

hin1

KNN you bro! You have to tell the whole damn world I CBL on new job eh? What happen if my new boss is also samster here? I die man.....

"BBBM"? So I male lead role, and you? You be the 'zero' can? hee...hee...
I free from now till end Apr to US lah bro........quite jialat anyway......everyday have to arrange my own agenda & schedule, looking for matters to do...sigh....NB.

At least I give you 'morning call' every morning hor......

SGPshanghai69

22-03-2006, 06:27 PM

Dear Bro SGPSha69,
Let's drop the unhappy subject for the moment.
Look like, you got a lot of titles leh.
Can you care to elaborate on these new terms here?
Shall I make a guess?:D

SG

Yup Bro Shengge,
Let's all forget the unhappy subject & get happy man! I'm all looking forward to this weekend that my empress is going away to Germany for biz trips the next 12 days man! Yupee........hurray.....!

Not new titles bestowed upon me lah herein mentioned by Bro Holein1 la Bro SG, but rather it's more on the recent hype on the Ang Lee movie...."Broke Back Mountain" lah! Bro Holein1 adore the 'zero' male actor lead role mah........so he's now trying to get fresh with moir lah.....sigh.......:o

sibeh dangerous man.......sigh.....

Morningrun

22-03-2006, 06:27 PM

.....My room is full glass panel (like a fish tank) so whatever I'm doing are easily being seen & watch by others.....even my room door is clear glass lah bro! sigh......:o

See ya soon back here in Shanghai bro!
Cheers & take care.

Hi Bro SGPSHA69,

Yes indeed the Fish tank... Now all we need to do is get you to wear a Red or Pink Bikini and a heart shaped piece of vanguard paper with a number on it and ZAPPPP!!!! we're back in Soi Cowboy or Poisedon 3rd floor......

Just kidding.... at least you have an office.... me sitting outside with the troops.

Catch you later... just smile!!!!

MR

SGPshanghai69

22-03-2006, 09:11 PM

Hi Bro SGPSHA69,

Yes indeed the Fish tank... Now all we need to do is get you to wear a Red or Pink Bikini and a heart shaped piece of vanguard paper with a number on it and ZAPPPP!!!! we're back in Soi Cowboy or Poisedon 3rd floor......

MR

Yo Bro Morningrun,
NB....wah lan eh...all of a sudden all the bros here begining to show the 'BBM' signs & symptoms la!.......how can you imagine me as the 'fish tank' gals in BKK lah bro!?You another 'BBM' bro like our Bro Holein1 hah?
Dun lah bro..........sibeh scary leh........

sigh.........SHA now getting sibeh dangerous man.......all the 'Broken Back Mountain' syndrome here.......:o

Morningrun

23-03-2006, 06:21 AM

Yo Bro Morningrun,
NB....wah lan eh...all of a sudden all the bros here begining to show the 'BBM' signs & symptoms la!.......how can you imagine me as the 'fish tank' gals in BKK lah bro!?You another 'BBM' bro like our Bro Holein1 hah?
Dun lah bro..........sibeh scary leh........

sigh.........SHA now getting sibeh dangerous man.......all the 'Broken Back Mountain' syndrome here.......:o

BBM= No Gerr.... got guy wat...... But I think you WILL look cute in Bikini and heart number... just must grow your hair longer.... Me trying but losing hair liaoz.

Hiaks
MR

SGPshanghai69

23-03-2006, 10:22 AM

BBM= No Gerr.... got guy wat...... But I think you WILL look cute in Bikini and heart number...
MR

Jialat lah bro u.............I strongly feel that u should contact your FL OKT Yu at once when u get back here in SHA bro....u badly needed a good screw to release man!
You're simply showing signs & symptoms of chronic sexual deprivations.

jks6long

23-03-2006, 10:34 AM

Bros, any recommendation for Beijing? I will be there this SUnday evening till thursday next week. Much appreciated as I am looking for safe takeaways back to hotel!

Thanks, jks6long

maninsin

23-03-2006, 12:26 PM

Dear Bros SGP69 and Morningrun,

Judging by the way that you bros communicate, now I'm a little hesitant in gg bck to SHA..... Are we re-enacting the scene in "BBM"????? hmmmm...... Does that mean that I shall be Ang Lee and you two dear bros taking the lead roles????:p

Now thinking abt it, maybe that wasn't a bad idea at all..... Let me get bck to SHA and shall brainstorm on how to re-film the enactment for you two dear bros again... Which means that I will still need to find the right location in SHA.... :) Or if bro SGP or MR already has a location in mind????

See you bros in SHA soon......

Take care and cheers....
MIS

SGPshanghai69

23-03-2006, 01:11 PM

Dear Bros SGP69 and Morningrun,

Judging by the way that you bros communicate, now I'm a little hesitant in gg bck to SHA..... Are we re-enacting the scene in "BBM"????? hmmmm...... Does that mean that I shall be Ang Lee and you two dear bros taking the lead roles????:p

MIS

Bro MIS,
Wah lau eh..you another one trying to instigate Bro MR??!! Dun lah...sibeh dangerous la.....

Re-enactment of BBM? I'll be Ang Lee role la bro as I'm youngets of all, both Bro MR & you are closer in age so you guys would be more suited to take up the 2 lead roles ma.....;)
Maybe change the script abit & include in Bro Holein1, giving more spice to the story bro....three-some maybe? keke....kekeke......

See ya on Sat bro!

Morningrun

23-03-2006, 02:15 PM

This thread is getting interesting and fun again!

Anyway, let's all get in on the act. Can we find a good jacuzzi which can acomodate about 6 or 8 ppl? and can Xiao Yu arrange for the "entertainment"? 4 on 4 or 4 on 5? meaning 4 on plus 1 reserve...... Br MIS is right... I think the 2 weeks deprivation is making me see things...... eyes all getting goggly..... HELLLLLPPPPPPPPP :D

maninsin

23-03-2006, 04:45 PM

Bro MIS,
Wah lau eh..you another one trying to instigate Bro MR??!! Dun lah...sibeh dangerous la.....

Re-enactment of BBM? I'll be Ang Lee role la bro as I'm youngets of all, both Bro MR & you are closer in age so you guys would be more suited to take up the 2 lead roles ma.....;)
Maybe change the script abit & include in Bro Holein1, giving more spice to the story bro....three-some maybe? keke....kekeke......

See ya on Sat bro!

hmmm......... why don't we juz do our own movies.... with bro Holein1 involvement and if I remembered correctly, MR also invited bro shengge, and maybe wif the involvement of some of the other bros, we shall called it "Broke Back City" since the scene will be in the city instead of in a mountain....

I will still be Ang Lee and bro SGP69 can be the script writer... And with the involvements of the rest of the bros, I think it will be a best selling movie... Bro MR came up wf some ideas which can be considered by bro SGP69 as a script writer.... hahaahahhaa....

Now we really hv a story going on.....kekeekekeke....:D

Cheers,
MIS

holein1

23-03-2006, 05:44 PM

hmmm......... why don't we juz do our own movies.... with bro Holein1 involvement and if I remembered correctly, MR also invited bro shengge, and maybe wif the involvement of some of the other bros, we shall called it "Broke Back City" since the scene will be in the city instead of in a mountain....

I will still be Ang Lee and bro SGP69 can be the script writer... And with the involvements of the rest of the bros, I think it will be a best selling movie... Bro MR came up wf some ideas which can be considered by bro SGP69 as a script writer.... hahaahahhaa....

Now we really hv a story going on.....kekeekekeke....:D

Cheers,
MIS

okie, all my BBBs, here's the initial storyboard concept:-
Film: black & white with occasional showers of color; we'll reserve the kinky purple to bbb69.
Name: Broke Back Sin City
Storyboard: About a bunch of SINgaporean guys who found true love while making out in Shanghai City.
Act 1, Scene 1, Pudong, Jin Mao
BBB69 as the famous Assassin going after the HC Scarlet Dress Girl who dumped him many years ago. BBB69 flirts with Scarlet Girl, pulls out his gun, and shoots all over her body. Girl dies of extreme shots cumming over her body.
Act 1, Scene 2, Pussy (i mean Puxi)
Holein1 and PTR arrived at the scene reported by an unnamed caller. Yes, that SOABit** is gonna do that little girl there.
PTR told H1 to f*** it. Not worth the efforts, furthermore, that psychopath's dad is SHA's mayor.
"I'm old man liao, satisfied with a few good rounds every now and then..", PTR said.
"We have a responsibility, dude", H1 rebuked.
H1 gives a tight slap to PTR...PTR faints.
H1 got to the little girl (later on gonna grow up to be Jessica Alba or ZZY) and got her away.
Act 1, Scene 3.
They got to the pier. Psychopath appears, battles with H1. PTR opens shots from behind. Damn! Never underestimate an old man's rifle. H1 falls, multiple wounds. Little girl cries.
Scene slowly fades out.
Act 2, Scene 1.
MR making out in one of the HC. He's so shiok and feels that after all that, he would definitely write a good FR on that. He thinks, he smiles, he makes out, he falls asleep. When he woke up, heon gan! The girl lays motionless beside him. He heard voices...and running boot steps (Gong An?)...Siao Liao the rest of the story you guys know.

shengge

24-03-2006, 09:30 AM

alpha123

25-03-2006, 12:59 AM

Morningrun

25-03-2006, 08:08 AM

What I would also like to see.... aside from BRos MIS and Shengge starring in BBM.... (hiaks) would possibly be a thread started by "samsteresses" want to get their viewpoints....... unless they are of course our gerrs then we sure die.....

Any ideas?

Morningrun

25-03-2006, 08:10 AM

Hi All bro here. Sorry to tell everybody that I am new here. Will be going to Shanghai for 2 months from next months onwards. Wonder whether any bro here organised Singaporean gathering to get us get used to Shanghai Scene.
Any good and cheap price to go in Shanghai? I heard everything is damn expensive therE?

Thanks for your comment

Cheap depends on how cheap..... can be like 20RMB cheap or 200RMB cheap or 2000RMB cheap..... depends on what you call "cheaper".... please be more specific. sorry to sound rude but we get these kinds of requests about 3 times a week..... also depends on where you stay...... etc etc etc.......

Will be happy to advise once we can have more details.

THanks and welcome to Shanghai

shengge

25-03-2006, 09:12 AM

Hi All bro here. Sorry to tell everybody that I am new here. Will be going to Shanghai for 2 months from next months onwards. Wonder whether any bro here organised Singaporean gathering to get us get used to Shanghai Scene. Any good and cheap price to go in Shanghai? I heard everything is damn expensive therE?
Thanks for your comment

Hi,
May I know who are you? May I....
It looks like you are very "tua liap" when you are here, fellow sgp have to 摆几桌，来给你接风？洗洗尘？
You don't owe us anything, neither do we owe you anything.
Sorry no offence.

Whenever there is someone posting for a request, many bros here are very willing to offer our little info about here.
However, can you define what is cheap?

SG

shengge

25-03-2006, 09:37 AM

Cheap depends on how cheap..... can be like 20RMB cheap or 200RMB cheap or 2000RMB cheap..... depends on what you call "cheaper".... please be more specific. sorry to sound rude but we get these kinds of requests about 3 times a week..... also depends on where you stay...... etc etc etc.......

Dear Bro MR,
Good Morning to you, so early, did you go for a run? :D
On this, Big Bro PTR has just mentioned a little while ago.
Everyone has their capabilities and limitations.
This thread may be a little bit long, however, spending a few minutes reading through a few pages would be beneficial.

Cheers!
SG

nicosanx

25-03-2006, 09:57 AM

Hi all,

I was leaving a well established bar on Hengshan road last nite and was aborded by a dz girls, at around 1am, prices quoted ranged from 200 to 300.
I believed that was for a quickie in some dark street, but girls ranges from 3 to 6, and there were not the youngest one for the least.
If anyone fancy, one of them was dumb (mute).

Cheers

supertora

25-03-2006, 12:22 PM

SGPshanghai69

25-03-2006, 05:49 PM

Sorry to tell everybody that I am new here. Will be going to Shanghai for 2 months from next months onwards. Wonder whether any bro here organised Singaporean gathering to get us get used to Shanghai Scene.
Any good and cheap price to go in Shanghai? I heard everything is damn expensive therE?

Hi there our newbie aplha123,
Nothing to be sorry about on being new here to us all.
You're staying 2 months here in Shanghai you mean? Welcome & good for you....a golden opportunity for you I'm sure to explore further in your career as well as your life experiences.

Hmm....are you referring to be invited to a coming Gathering if there'sany maybe? Should there be one coming, I'm sure there will be a posting here to announced to all bros as perviously did. But by requesting one, maybe I would suggest you initiate one hence you needed the meeting with the rest of the bros here to share more info with you....right? It would sound more logical & amicable then asking a dinner to be organised for you...........

No offense to it all, but what Bro Shengge said here is indeed very true & correct sentiments you're driving to us all here, not too nice to be asking for one in this manner.........

Last but not least, do define your question in more specific terms of cheap & good in Shanghai.....what are you needing to find out on? Food, accomodation, bars or KTV? I think whatever info you needed, it's all simply posted herein, do spend sometime reading it & I'm sure you'll be able to obtain whatever you need.......Expensive in Shanghai you've heard? Indeed it is & literally everywhere are in Shanghai! Deepending again on what are you referring to being expensive.......dinner at a 5-star restaurant can cost as much as RMB 500-800 per pax whereas, at a local resaurant can cost as little as RMB 20 per pax with also 3 dishes + 1 soup! So what's your expectations in terms of basic food aspect in terms of cheap & good or expensive? It's a wide vast varying range.......

Have fun.......welcome again......
Cheers.

SGPshanghai69

25-03-2006, 05:52 PM

Dear alpha123:
pls pm your contact number, we can go clubbing together when u r in shanghai. i like to go ktv, disco, bar, sauna, massage, good food etc. which one do u like?

Hi,
Hope you've settled in eventually in your new apartment........wishing you and family well here in all your new endeavours.....

Regards,

SGPshanghai69

25-03-2006, 06:05 PM

Hi all,

I was leaving a well established bar on Hengshan road last nite and was aborded by a dz girls, at around 1am, prices quoted ranged from 200 to 300.
If anyone fancy, one of them was dumb (mute).

Cheers

R u referring to Bourbon Street, the big established bar on Heng Shan Rd? It's the one & only that have the most FLs hanging around there every night......even on a Monday!

0100hrs are usually the last try to tout for biz for the FLs being the night is ending so prices usually drop pretty much to afew hundred yuan...but do exercise caution patronising these FLs as they are known to be hustlers as well, ripping off from their preys eventually, leaving them waking up next morning with ones mobile phones & wallets all gone! A couple of my 'ang moh' friends here encountred that, and eventually still have to hunt that particular FL down the very next night and most of all to pay them afew hundred yuan more just to get back their mobile phone & IDs, wallet (of cuz without the cash inside).........pathetic but true!

Eh.....trying a dumb FL? I'm not sure & shall not speak for other bros here but definitely not for me! Not too kind of thingy to do on a handicapped person.....also, I'm interested for more 'vocal' sex if there's one to be engaged in......

My cent worth of opinion......apologies.
Cheers

PuTonRen

25-03-2006, 06:09 PM

Dear Brothers of Shanghai,

I have been out of Shanghai and once backed, was busy with a big events. I did not have the opportunity to log on to this forum. I just realised that this thread has gone to 323 pages (Well 77 more pages to go before I become a full time reader only). Shall be back home tomorrow and will be back to other part of China week after next. I shall miss Shanghai. I did not have enough luck to meet the honourable brothers of this forum duing the last 9 days. I sincerely hope that my luck will be better next time round.

Relationship between Men and Women is a very complicated issue. One sociology said that human's behaviour is non-linear, i.e. unpredictable and hence complicated. The ultimate relationship between you and your chinese lady depends on your choice and aim in life. Speaking for myself, my family always comes first, this is because chances are, if you are econimically deficient, your wife would, probably not leave you to struggle yourself, but I am not so sure about the companion in China. Remember the oath during marriage "For better or for worst......". I am saying this out of my own experience. I mentioned that once I sank in quite deep in a relationship, and ended up in distress. I survive the hit thanks to some brothers in this forum. Since then, I stay on the B-P-B course (Bed her-Pay her-Bid her goodbye). I keep several such loose relationship in many cities in China. I am happy wherever I go to a town, and I am always satisfied.

When your Chinese companion leaves you, she hurts you, and you feel down! This adverse effect will be passed down to your family through you. Is that worth it?

Many brothers, such as Faidenk, Maninsin, etc have said very correctly that "Do not make it a habit if you cannot sustain the practice." I was naive when I was younger. I was then in Beijing, I had a gorgeous lady from Harbin, after few months, relations turned bad as she was constantly asking for more money (Initially, the unit of demand was 10K, and later she had tried to promote it to 100K, ie, in the multiple of 100K). I have to admit that I was a bit too generous in the begining, and this generosity had been translated to become nightmare. I am sure Bro SGPShanghai69 knows who I was referring to. He got so angry once when were together that Bro SGPShanghai69 would have slap her if not because he still wanted to give me some "Face". I finally made a decision to "dump" her after "painful" consideration.

After having been here for an extended period of time, the important conclusion for me is still "My family comes first! There is no alternative to this fact!"

I have related two cases of my failure to save two Singaporeans who quit their family for their companion in China, and those are really sad cases (One left the wife of 9 months for a chinese female companionship, and the other one was in deep financial trouble and had resorted to borrow from Loan Shark back home!). Sigh........I should have done more to help these two persons.

Enough said before you blame this old man here for being long-winded. I better to and have my dinner and to start packing my luggage to go home tomorrow.

With best regards from Shanghai.

PT Lao R

PuTonRen

25-03-2006, 06:15 PM

Dear Brothers,

After having posted a FR on my humble experience with a lady from Xiao Yu, I have received several PM's from people in this forum asking for the contact information.

I wish to say that the contact was given to me and the release of such privileged information could only be done with the consent from the brother who had kindly shared with me. Please do not PM me agian on this subject.

Writing FR is for all to share my experience and is by no mean an obligation to release contact on request. All brothers in this forum have written FR voluntarily with their own resources. This has been a practice and principle of this forum.

With best regards.

PTR

alpha123

26-03-2006, 11:05 AM

Hi there our newbie aplha123,
Nothing to be sorry about on being new here to us all.
You're staying 2 months here in Shanghai you mean? Welcome & good for you....a golden opportunity for you I'm sure to explore further in your career as well as your life experiences.

Hmm....are you referring to be invited to a coming Gathering if there'sany maybe? Should there be one coming, I'm sure there will be a posting here to announced to all bros as perviously did. But by requesting one, maybe I would suggest you initiate one hence you needed the meeting with the rest of the bros here to share more info with you....right? It would sound more logical & amicable then asking a dinner to be organised for you...........

No offense to it all, but what Bro Shengge said here is indeed very true & correct sentiments you're driving to us all here, not too nice to be asking for one in this manner.........

Last but not least, do define your question in more specific terms of cheap & good in Shanghai.....what are you needing to find out on? Food, accomodation, bars or KTV? I think whatever info you needed, it's all simply posted herein, do spend sometime reading it & I'm sure you'll be able to obtain whatever you need.......Expensive in Shanghai you've heard? Indeed it is & literally everywhere are in Shanghai! Deepending again on what are you referring to being expensive.......dinner at a 5-star restaurant can cost as much as RMB 500-800 per pax whereas, at a local resaurant can cost as little as RMB 20 per pax with also 3 dishes + 1 soup! So what's your expectations in terms of basic food aspect in terms of cheap & good or expensive? It's a wide vast varying range.......

Have fun.......welcome again......
Cheers.

Thank you very for all the reply from the bro here. Sorry for causing some trouble as I do not know the rule as a newbie here :p . I have go thru actually some of the pages but to date it is near to 400pages already. I do not have such a luxury to explore here. I think the Cheap should be refering to Malaysia standard. Can we get that there? I am just a poor guy. I do not have any contacts in Shanghai yet. I will PM bro here if I get to Shanghai. Because I got a impression that the price that quoted many place in the forum is Singapore standard or sometime higher leh ?
I should be stay near the people square area in ShangHai. I heard it is quite a convenient place right?
Thanks again to all the bro here. Looking forward to see everyone here. And sorry if I give an impression that I am Tuo liap here... Just maybe I am not good at express in writing.
Thank you very much

Morningrun

26-03-2006, 08:10 PM

Thank you very for all the reply from the bro here. Sorry for causing some trouble as I do not know the rule as a newbie here :p . I have go thru actually some of the pages but to date it is near to 400pages already. I do not have such a luxury to explore here. I think the Cheap should be refering to Malaysia standard. Can we get that there? I am just a poor guy. I do not have any contacts in Shanghai yet. I will PM bro here if I get to Shanghai. Because I got a impression that the price that quoted many place in the forum is Singapore standard or sometime higher leh ?
I should be stay near the people square area in ShangHai. I heard it is quite a convenient place right?
Thanks again to all the bro here. Looking forward to see everyone here. And sorry if I give an impression that I am Tuo liap here... Just maybe I am not good at express in writing.
Thank you very much

Bro Alpha,
No Proba. YOu are always welcome to SHA. I am new myself, but have found out the etiquette from some of the senior (by experience) brothers. Chengoing by yourself is really not much fun.....

In any case PM me when you are in town and I will see what we can whip up.

Kindest regards,
MR

ADog

27-03-2006, 10:19 AM

Relationship between Men and Women is a very complicated issue.

Dear PuTonRen

I am a newbie here but I felt compelled to add my 2 cents ... to your inspiring words of wisdom ... to remind all bros here of such truth. I also wanted to add to this thread b4 it hits 400!

I have been combing this thread over the last 2 weeks, regretting each time how I missed this forum when I was posted to Shanghai. Still it is not too late to learn of the fun, the places & going rate, the risk, but also "reminder" that we walk a fine line.

I thought my relationship would be different from others (don't we all). That's why we got into it until it got uglier and uglier. Mine did not start with 10k. It started with helping out her new apartment rental. Then, supporting her studying english ... soon beauty courses, father's birthday ang-pow ... you get the idea. It added up quickly. Soon, from cash support of 10k unit, came the investment idea - open a small shop or buying an apartment, which would be in multiple 100k! The "jia-latt" feeling became unbearable. Emotion ran high. Depression sank in. I got tangled up in all sort of problems. My priorities mixed up.

I want you to know your message renewed my focus in life. I salute you and those that had posted such messages. Looking forward, it will be B-P-B for me too!

I'll be in Shanghai on April 8 - 10. Anyone heard of Yu-meng-yuan along HongQiao Road (beside the Tennis Club)? Not sure if it is an HC or a high end massage place.

Cheers.

ADog

shengge

27-03-2006, 01:03 PM

I am a newbie here but I felt compelled to add my 2 cents ...

I have been combing this thread over the last 2 weeks, regretting each time how I missed this forum when I was posted to Shanghai. Still it is not too late to learn of the fun, the places & going rate, the risk, but also "reminder" that we walk a fine line.

I thought my relationship would be different from others (don't we all).
I want you to know your message renewed my focus in life.

I'll be in Shanghai on April 8 - 10. Anyone heard of Yu-meng-yuan along HongQiao Road (beside the Tennis Club)? Not sure if it is an HC or a high end massage place.

Dear Bro AD,
Hi! Welcome to this forum and thanks for sharing your encounter with us.
It is indeed very sad to hear your story, hope it has already overed and happy that you have new focus.

We man sometime are very weird, we give out money easily to those WL but when comes to family expenses, we always felt too expensive even though it merely cost RMB10 difference...:o

About the Yu Men Yuan you have mentioned, I have no idea about this place. sorry!

All the best to you.

Cheers!
SG

PuTonRen

27-03-2006, 01:16 PM

Dear Bro AD,
It is indeed very sad to hear your story, hope it has already overed and happy that you have new focus.

We man sometime are very weird, we give out money easily to those WL but when comes to family expenses, we always felt too expensive even though it merely cost RMB10 difference...:o

SG

Well said, Bro shengge,

I totally agree with your wise word on the RMB10 difference. That is why you and Bro SGPShanghai69 are my light-houses in Shanghai. We pinge on our kid's present for $1 difference, but spend $1000's on Chinese ladies. No logic right.

Continue to guide me with the light from your almightly light houses.

Best regards

PT Lao R

shengge

27-03-2006, 01:28 PM

We pinge on our kid's present for $1 difference, but spend $1000's on Chinese ladies. No logic right.

Continue to guide me with the light from your almightly light houses.

Dear Bro PTR,
Till date I still cannot get an answer to that. May be the reason we give more just to avoid problem?
Well, do spend more on family, for sure you won't loose out compare to ...

You don't need light houses lar, you need hugh spotlight that comes in pair......:D
Talking about that, it makes me think of the two pcs rice on the spotlight...

See you around!
Cheers!
SG

shanghian

27-03-2006, 01:47 PM

We pinge on our kid's present for $1 difference, but spend $1000's on Chinese ladies. No logic right.

Dear Bro PT Lao R,
Sorry did not get to meet up in Shanghai with you. Was called back to S'pore at short notice and thus was not in town.
Was think about this issue of spending lavishly on WL but being a scrooge with our family...well when we think with our small head...how to be logical? Actually it is all a game we play and most of the times , our family loses.

Bro SG,
Know you like NTTL but now like Light House so big and can turn here turn there...wah lau... chin eh sai leh... what's the rice all about??? blur leh

cheers

Shanghian

SGPshanghai69

27-03-2006, 01:51 PM

Dear Bro PTR,
Till date I still cannot get an answer to that. May be the reason we give more just to avoid problem?
Well, do spend more on family, for sure you won't loose out compare to ...

SG

Bro Shengge,
Indeed a very correct & accurate sentiments you've said here for all.......

Many atimes we would tell ourself that no way that our 'small head' would overrule our big head...but yet when the situation goes 'hot & steamy'...it's always the 'Kamakaze' style at cheong 1st, think later! KNN....men...sigh....I myslef too been thru touchy, entangled situations like Bro Adog mentioned......the eventual 'awakening' is when one's pocket is almost all emptied then one wakes up! sad thingy but the true fact in reality........NB....

End of the day, it takes oneself to go thru situations like herein mentioned then only will he wakes up to it......much full of regrets aftermath....sigh.......

Hope bros here keep their eyes widely 'peeled' open.......not to be blinded by the scheming PRC gals.....

My cent worth while contribution.
Cheers to all bros, wishing all here safe & sound.

PuTonRen

27-03-2006, 02:46 PM

the eventual 'awakening' is when one's pocket is almost all emptied then one wakes up! sad thingy but the true fact in '

Dear all, this statement from Bro SGPShanghai69 should serve as a golden advice to all. When one reaches that situation, there is no u turn already.

Please allow me to add on my humble half-cent worth to that statement 'The final and sad 'awakening' is when one finds that he has lost his family and the love ones at home.."

Many of us have gone through this kind of situation and have heard a lot. Beware! Beware! Remember, those ladies who work in KTV, HC or similar joints are there to make money, but not engage in Romance.

My 0.15cent worth.

PT Lao R

liu_12

27-03-2006, 03:28 PM

SGPshanghai69

27-03-2006, 03:58 PM

The power of the dark side in PRC is sometimes too
hard to resist.
Again come April, me go fight the dark side:D

May the Force Be With You My Dear Jedi Bro!........;)

SGPshanghai69

27-03-2006, 04:12 PM

Many of us have gone through this kind of situation and have heard a lot. Beware! Beware! Remember, those ladies who work in KTV, HC or similar joints are there to make money, but not engage in Romance.
PT Lao R

Dear Big Bro PTR,
Greetings O' Mighty Wise one......

A very well said statement herein to us all big bro.
Indeed that the KTV gals, the HC gals, the whatever gals as long as they are from the 'joints' or even cases that they are from norm day jobs life, a BIG BIG YES that they are simply all out to 'fish' the unaware ones..........it's always the begining with "No, I'm not here for your money, it's you & your charismatic self that charms me....I'm most willing to part my legs for ya my dear...."

Thereafter, some many days later, she would be saying to one that she once claimed to love without strings & conditions " You think that are free lunches in this world? Are you that naive??!! Give me a break you overseas chinese man......who you think you're? Tom Cruise?!" It's the grand finale that wakes one up when she, the one that loves you starts telling you the above statement and asked for parting fees in thousands if you're lucky enough if not, it will be in ten of thousands otherwise you being a foreigner here would stand to lose alot in terms of your job & family should she create a scene, etc......sigh....it happened to many & I have seen & heard.

最终她们是说金而非对您说心!

切记,切记!!!!

新上人69

ADog

27-03-2006, 04:13 PM

Dear all, this statement from Bro SGPShanghai69 should serve as a golden advice to all. When one reaches that situation, there is no u turn already.

Please allow me to add on my humble half-cent worth to that statement 'The final and sad 'awakening' is when one finds that he has lost his family and the love ones at home.."

Many of us have gone through this kind of situation and have heard a lot. Beware! Beware! Remember, those ladies who work in KTV, HC or similar joints are there to make money, but not engage in Romance.

My 0.15cent worth.

PT Lao R

Bro ShengGe,

Thank you for welcoming me .. it is an honor to see your reply.

There is no doubt you are another wise sifu, with not one but double spotlights to guide the way.

Bro SG69 wisdom is spot-on. Guo-lai-ren perhaps. Another lighthouse .. for those in trouble.

So April 8, here I come - cheong-ah!

AD
Wannabe simple man:)

shengge

27-03-2006, 04:20 PM

Many atimes we would tell ourself that no way that our 'small head' would overrule our big head...but yet when the situation goes 'hot & steamy'...it's always the 'Kamakaze' style at cheong 1st, think later! KNN....men...sigh.

Bro SGPSha69,
I couldn't agree more with what you have said.
Your writing skill really solid. I like the word, Kamakaze....:D
Cheers!
SG

shengge

27-03-2006, 04:27 PM

The power of the dark side in PRC is sometimes too
hard to resist.Some Jedi bro (including me) have
cross the line and joint the dark lady.Some finally
learnt the thruth and came back to the light, while
others seep deeper into the dark hole.
Again come April, me go fight the dark side:D
Dear Bro liu_12,
When it get hard, how to resist.....:D
So you have conquere the whole universe? Or rather 为国争光？Or 壮烈牺牲？
Be careful all the time.

Cheers!

SGPshanghai69

27-03-2006, 04:29 PM

Bro SGPSha69,
I couldn't agree more with what you have said.
Cheers!
SG

Thanks for agreeing with me Bro Shengge.

Aiyo pai she la Bro, me too kenna jialat jialat b4 so here to share my sad past sorrows lor......not because I writing good but bad experiences makes one realises the real world and the true side & colours of the PRC gals lor! sigh......KNN...only can blame my 'small head' always think faster & over rule my big head then lah........Nabei......

I swear I will never will & never shall kenna this 'gong tao' or black magic again.....only 'Pay & Fuck' from now onwards......all the way.......:o

No feelings sex but what the hell, better than with feelings and later stage with no money lor!

Cheers

ADog

27-03-2006, 04:41 PM

Thanks for agreeing with me Bro Shengge.

Aiyo pai she la Bro, me too kenna jialat jialat b4 so here to share my sad past sorrows lor......not because I writing good but bad experiences makes one realises the real world and the true side & colours of the PRC gals lor! sigh......KNN...only can blame my 'small head' always think faster & over rule my big head then lah........Nabei......

I swear I will never will & never shall kenna this 'gong tao' or black magic again.....only 'Pay & Fuck' from now onwards......all the way.......:o

No feelings sex but what the hell, better than with feelings and later stage with no money lor!

Cheers

Bro SGP-SH69

Li-hai, li-hai. You are the great one!

I kenna cos of with-feeling-sex gong-tao... now I know better lor. I know it is hard to avoid cos for most, little head doing the thinking - still, for those out there who think cannot kenna, check out the forces here. It is worth your while.

Have fun.

AD:o
______________________
Still wannabe simple man

shengge

27-03-2006, 04:42 PM

Dear Bro PT Lao R,
Know you like NTTL but now like Light House so big and can turn here turn there...wah lau... chin eh sai leh... what's the rice all about??? blur leh

Dear Bro shanghian,
Long time no see.
If is very difficult to demonstrate lah.
First of all, I don have a NTTL mm.
Secondly, I don have meal with mm in Shanghai.
Thirdly, the this NTTL mm must eat rice during the meal....

So you know the story now?:)

Cheers!

LawTeoChew

27-03-2006, 05:21 PM

Bro Ad,

It all sound so familiar to me, except that it happened to me in Manila, not SH!

B-P-B is easy said than done, especially when we are alone in a new country without friends.

I was fully aware of the danger when posted to manila 9 yrs ago. I followed strictly rules of B-P-B, get a different MM every week. But being human, we tend to like some of the mm more than the others. So after a few months, got sick of looking for new mm everytime and have to gamble with the quality, and out of sheer boreness, I started to repeat the better ones...the rules had been broken and the story goes as what has quoted by bro AD!

When I finally woke up and decide to break with her, damn! she called my family! She got my details home no, address, IC number while I was asleep!

I denied till death and finally savage my roof from being burnt, but from that day, I was totally banned from going to Phil, order from minister of Home affair.

Bro, just my 2 RMB worth. It would not cause much damage no matter how much the mm love us. But, if we develop feeling for the mm, we are finished! To prevent this, we(the Manila kaki) has a simple golden rules...

1) never give your house key to the MM,
2) If you must, 10 fuks or 3 months...which ever come 1st, must dump the mm....
Greatest achievement is not having a pretty MM, but after having a pretty mm, yet able to dump her after 10 fuks, or 3 months.

Cheers
LTC

I thought my relationship would be different from others (don't we all). That's why we got into it until it got uglier and uglier. Mine did not start with 10k. It started with helping out her new apartment rental. Then, supporting her studying english ... soon beauty courses, father's birthday ang-pow ... you get the idea. It added up quickly. Soon, from cash support of 10k unit, came the investment idea - open a small shop or buying an apartment, which would be in multiple 100k! The "jia-latt" feeling became unbearable. Emotion ran high. Depression sank in. I got tangled up in all sort of problems. My priorities mixed up.

I want you to know your message renewed my focus in life. I salute you and those that had posted such messages. Looking forward, it will be B-P-B for me too!
ADog

supertora

27-03-2006, 06:36 PM

It started with helping out her new apartment rental. Then...

ADog

Hmmm.. sound familiar..is it a common tactic??

supertora

27-03-2006, 06:45 PM

Bro Ad,

When I finally woke up and decide to break with her, damn! she called my family! She got my details home no, address, IC number while I was asleep!

Greatest achievement is not having a pretty MM, but after having a pretty mm, yet able to dump her after 10 fuks, or 3 months.

Cheers
LTC

bro, what will end up if u r still single? fuk and dump, right?
to me, so far so good...touch wood!

Huzige

27-03-2006, 07:01 PM

bro, what will end up if u r still single? fuk and dump, right?

For me, it has always been the 5Fs: Find them, Feel them, Finger them, Fcuk them, and most importantly Forget them. It still works for me – after cheonging in the region for over 30 years. And always remember: “Business is Business, Love is all Bullshit!”

Just my 5-fen worth. Yep, I’m still single.:D

maninsin

27-03-2006, 07:50 PM

.
Indeed that the KTV gals, the HC gals, the whatever gals as long as they are from the 'joints' or even cases that they are from norm day jobs life, a BIG BIG YES that they are simply all out to 'fish' the unaware ones..........it's always the begining with "No, I'm not here for your money, it's you & your charismatic self that charms me....I'm most willing to part my legs for ya my dear...."

最终她们是说金而非对您说心!

切记,切记!!!!

新上人69

Bro SGP69....

Couldn't agree with you more than what you mentioned... At times, we are just too blinded ourselves that we just got involved into a relationship too fast.. Not realizing what comes later... Many a times, we told ourselves that this one is different, but alas, it still turn out to be the same...

Whatever it is, I hv learned and know when enough is enough.... No more such things as all the craps that they have cooked up... Sorry it sounds bitter but I'm not saying all PRC mms are like that but at least 95% will somehow behave in this way be they from north, south, east or west... Especially so when they knew that you are a foreigner....

Just my 1RMB worth of thoughts...

Cheers,
maninsin

LawTeoChew

27-03-2006, 07:54 PM

bro, what will end up if u r still single? fuk and dump, right?
to me, so far so good...touch wood!

Bro,

Haha...So far I have not heard of single kena this kind of thing, may be single is immuned ba?

Cheers
LTC

Harrier24B

27-03-2006, 08:39 PM

.KNN...only can blame my 'small head' always think faster & over rule my big head then lah........Nabei......

I swear I will never will & never shall kenna this 'gong tao' or black magic again.....only 'Pay & Fuck' from now onwards......all the way.......:o

Bro...u sure or not?? You can meh??

:cool:

Morningrun

27-03-2006, 10:51 PM

Bro SGP69....

Couldn't agree with you more than what you mentioned... At times, we are just too blinded ourselves that we just got involved into a relationship too fast.. Not realizing what comes later... Many a times, we told ourselves that this one is different, but alas, it still turn out to be the same...

Whatever it is, I hv learned and know when enough is enough.... No more such things as all the craps that they have cooked up... Sorry it sounds bitter but I'm not saying all PRC mms are like that but at least 95% will somehow behave in this way be they from north, south, east or west... Especially so when they knew that you are a foreigner....

Just my 1RMB worth of thoughts...

Cheers,
maninsin

But sometimes they start out in the 95% category but can be pulled out of that category by long traiing and suffering. Hor? MIS Hor? ... as you said today.... they need to win your trust. As a rule be more than suspicious at the start.

Me? still pained that Joy and I parted company, but now the pain is almost a distant flicker..... All you brothers are correct. Keep it transactional.

Power to y'all

PuTonRen

27-03-2006, 11:24 PM

For me, it has always been the 5Fs: Find them, Feel them, Finger them, Fcuk them, and most importantly Forget them. It still works for me – after cheonging in the region for over 30 years. And always remember: “Business is Business, Love is all Bullshit!”

Well said, Bro Huzige,

B-P-B is easy said than done, I fully agreed. It takes time and some bad encounters to harden oneself to do that. I did have the tendency to go back to the girls who provided good services. Nowaday, I still keep some loose relationships, but it is always pay after each time they have spent time with me. It is clear to both of us that a relation would never be established.

Now, let us compile a list of excuses and sweet words that bring down a man in PR China:

1. I am sure this girl is different, she is not after my money.

2. She washes my clothes, cooks for me, and ..., and she refuses to take my money.

3. She told me that between a loving couple, money should not be a blocking stone to our relationship.

4. ............ Brothers! Please add on. I am limited.

Adding to this list does not demonstrate that you have been conned before. Nevertheless, I admit that I had even fallen in to the traps before! So what? An awakening has wised me up.

With best regards

My 0.01 RMB worth

alpha123

28-03-2006, 12:32 AM

shengge

28-03-2006, 02:28 AM

Hmmm.. sound familiar..is it a common tactic??

Dear Bro supertora,
Hi there!
It basically goes down to each other get what they want.
I saw one incident myself about 6 years ago. A old jap, mm and mm mother, at a property agency. They couldn't even communicate much with each other, at time the sales person has to translate for them, and they are buying apartment.:eek:
To me, the old man got young pussy via his money,
while the mm got money via her young pussy, simple as that.
So if one does not have to plan to keep one, I don't think he will invest that much of money, unless one plan to marry her, which in this case, I do not think so.
Hope you are not in this situation. (no offence!)
Take Care!
SG

p/s: glad to see so many bro participating...Keep it UP....:D

shengge

28-03-2006, 02:46 AM

Bro ShengGe,
Thank you for welcoming me .. it is an honor to see your reply.
There is no doubt you are another wise sifu, with not one but double spotlights to guide the way.

Dear Bro AD,
Paiseh lah!
After all these years, I am still learning, and for sure I am not wise and qualify to be a sifu. Bros here basically shares from the experiences they have seen, heard and encountered.
When I was here many years ago, really there was no one to seek advice, nor there is spotlights to guide the way leh. For me, there are too many spies around, I cannot have spotlight with me nor be a spotlight, or else......

I am sure you got plenty to share over here.

Good Luck!
SG

Huzige

28-03-2006, 05:16 AM

Now, let us compile a list of excuses and sweet words that bring down a man in PR China:

1. I am sure this girl is different, she is not after my money.

2. She washes my clothes, cooks for me, and ..., and she refuses to take my money.

3. She told me that between a loving couple, money should not be a blocking stone to our relationship.

4. ............ Brothers! Please add on. I am limited.

Alright, bro PTR – I’ll try to add…
4. “This MM is different and filial. She has been sending home every Yuan that I have given her…” (Oophs… he forgot to check if she has a LaoGong at home)
5. “This is a very smart and capable MM, carry herself very well and has been a big help in my work with her extensive network of contacts…” (Very dangerous mixing work with pleasure. I know a guy who lost it all when he took his MM’s suggestion to register the business in her name in order to “short-cut” the local administrative requirements.)
6. “OMG, she is pregnant with my baby and refuses to get an abortion…” (see liao lah!:eek: )

Well, I’m only human and had my moments when my small head vetoed the big head and costing a few extra $$ but luckily no major damage. I put that down as my school fee in the University of Life. Luckily, I was much hardened by the time I came to China, but still diligently learning from the “mistakes” that other friends made.

Then again, this is not unique to Chinese MMs. I do have an extreme case – a married Aussie colleague got involved with a bar girl on his first visit to Bangkok that ended tragically with him taking his life when he could not get out of the shit-hole he managed to dig himself into. I still think he is an idiot taking the easy way out – totally unnecessary, leaving behind a son. And I still remember what he told me – his marriage was becoming monotonous and he never had a MM taking such good care of him – even though I told him there are plenty more where they came from! But she soon demanded he get a divorce, etc etc….

PuTonRen

28-03-2006, 09:33 AM

Dear Bro AD,
Paiseh lah!
After all these years, I am still learning, and for sure I am not wise and qualify to be a sifu. Bros here basically shares from the experiences they have seen, heard and encountered.
When I was here many years ago, really there was no one to seek advice, nor there is spotlights to guide the way leh. For me, there are too many spies around, I cannot have spotlight with me nor be a spotlight, or else......

I am sure you got plenty to share over here.

Good Luck!
SG

Hi Senior Bro shengge, My light-house with two big rotating big-bulbs,

You are really good and experienced, I am sure the brothers here benefit from your wise advice and vast experience. Why not add on to the list that I have posted and then added by Bro Huzige, I am sure you have a lot to add.

Regards (Will be in another far away part of China... sigh... Miss you all in Shanghai, and the SYT).

PT Lao R

PuTonRen

28-03-2006, 09:37 AM

Dear All bro here,

I think Shanghai Recommendation or the Shanghai forum has become bigger and bigger. And it is tough for many people to find informations because we have to scroll and read 300 pages to find the infomation. Can we separate 1 section for Shanghai friends talk and another is the info available?

Thank you
Dear Bro alpha123,

Brothers in this forum enjoy mixing the provision and sharing of information with friendly chats between them. We have all learnt and enjoyed reading this thread. I am afraid you just have to leave with it. In any case, you have not posted frequent enough to enjoy the fun.

If you wish, you may like to consider starting another thread, let us call it "Shanghai Cheong-scene information" or words to that effects.

My 2 cent worth.

Regards

PT Lao R

SGPshanghai69

28-03-2006, 10:17 AM

Dear All bro here,

Can we separate 1 section for Shanghai friends talk and another is the info available?

Thank you

Alpha123,
Hi there.

Yes, I do agree that sometimes it tends to be pretty 'carried away' by most of us bros here whom speak a little bit too much on past good & bad experiences here....but nevertheless, it's also another route of info shared here with all to forewarn bros of the ugly sides and potential dangers that one might fall into when coming here new.

I strongly believed that this thread is not only merely on sharing the fun, the KTV, the sex industry info but rather it's also sharing vital info by each & everyone's good & bad experiences to all bros here.......another way of ensuring one another interest....not mere bros TCSS or as u mentioned herein 'Shanghai Friends Talk'........

Do spare a bit of your precious time in reading afew of these past experiences shared here by other bros & I'm sure you'll appreciate the info and one day, you never know....you might just come across such situation.......having the idea of how to handle & what to do...most of all, saving your own ass!

Cheers..................;)

SGPshanghai69

28-03-2006, 10:28 AM

Bro...u sure or not?? You can meh??

:cool:
Of course I can & will lah......
KNN u....u too had your little dark past bro.....so 'cho cho' me lah....ok never mind....you share your past here to all bros lor......NB.......I strongly believe u will never forget Miss "Ah B" right....?????

U come Shanghai next month, I shall & will make sure that you 'die' in one of the MM arms here but u like it .........:p

Then I take photo.....hehehe......blackmail u then.....KNN.
See ya soon hor.....

Morningrun

28-03-2006, 10:36 AM

Do spare a bit of your precious time in reading afew of these past experiences shared here by other bros & I'm sure you'll appreciate the info and one day, you never know....you might just come across such situation.......having the idea of how to handle & what to do...most of all, saving your own ass!

Cheers..................;)

Brudder Alpha,

I wish to echo the comments by Brother Shanghai SGP. Reading through the thread, I have managed to sidestep quite a number of landmines. As for the friendly banter ........ it is something that bonds us... and we DO get a few gems out of this as well.

Remember especially in Asia, you MUST NOT cheong blindly...... else kena burnt.

Power to y'all

MR

nicosanx

28-03-2006, 11:24 AM

Dear All bro here,

I think Shanghai Recommendation or the Shanghai forum has become bigger and bigger. ...... Can we separate 1 section for Shanghai friends talk and another is the info available?

Thank you

Right on the point.
This BBS ressembles a chat room too much these days.
Separation on actual information and advices would be great.
Thank you

shengge

28-03-2006, 11:58 AM

You are really good and experienced, I am sure the brothers here benefit from your wise advice and vast experience. Why not add on to the list that I have posted and then added by Bro Huzige, I am sure you have a lot to add.

Bro PTR,
I don't have experienced in this aspect leh...:o
However I do know two similar incidents related to what bro Huzige has said on

5. “This is a very smart and capable MM, carry herself very well and has been a big help in my work with her extensive network of contacts…” (Very dangerous mixing work with pleasure. I know a guy who lost it all when he took his MM’s suggestion to register the business in her name in order to “short-cut” the local administrative requirements.)

a) This guy set up a restaurant using PRC mm name, including the company bank account. By the time he returned from those golden week holidays, everything change, bank left with single digit of RMB. I have since lost contact with him, hope he is doing well now.

b) This other guy has his lover working in the company as sales manager, once both of them on biz trip to USA. With his mobile phone in auto answer mode (as he liked to use earphone), while his wife call........you know the situation. Since then the lover is out of the company, working on her own with his help. From what I know he got a very capable wife and glad that they are still together.

That's all I have, sorry.....

Cheers!
SG

maninsin

28-03-2006, 12:03 PM

Brudder Alpha,

I wish to echo the comments by Brother Shanghai SGP. Reading through the thread, I have managed to sidestep quite a number of landmines. As for the friendly banter ........ it is something that bonds us... and we DO get a few gems out of this as well.

Remember especially in Asia, you MUST NOT cheong blindly...... else kena burnt.

Power to y'all

MR

To all bros new to this thread.....

I agreed with what bro MR and bro SGPSHA69... I have been following this thread for years and have had the priviledged in learning a lot from the past (good and bad) expereinces from all the seniors bros here... I personally feel that it is a very good way to learn not only about the fun part in SHA but to learn from what other seniors bros here had gone through...

And through this thread, I am fortunate enough to make some very good friends (you know who you are) whom I really consider as my brothers...

Be patient in reading the thread and learn the right way in approaching the bros here and I think that you will be able to benefit a lot more from this thread....

My 1RMB opinion....

Cheers,
MIS

shengge

28-03-2006, 12:10 PM

Yes, I do agree that sometimes it tends to be pretty 'carried away' by most of us bros here

Do spare a bit of your precious time in reading afew of these past experiences shared here by other bros & I'm sure you'll appreciate the info and one day

Dear Bro SGPSha69,
Like Bro MR has said, and again, I couldn't agree more for what you have mentioned.

Surf over the forum, every threads do side track a bit, unless you are in the link exhange plaza. This is cyber world, we cannot stop anybody from posting things that we do not like or vice versa. Choose what you like, otherwise, lke Bro PTR said create a new thread but I think it will end up the same. This is bo bian one, you cannot ask the mamasan not to bring in those ugly or out of shape one for you to choose right? You still have to go through the procedures....:D
If you cannot change it, leave it or live by it. I think this is the situation in PRC.

Sorry, talk rooster here (already doggie year)....:D

SG

maninsin

28-03-2006, 12:14 PM

But sometimes they start out in the 95% category but can be pulled out of that category by long traiing and suffering. Hor? MIS Hor? ... as you said today.... they need to win your trust. As a rule be more than suspicious at the start.

Me? still pained that Joy and I parted company, but now the pain is almost a distant flicker..... All you brothers are correct. Keep it transactional.

Power to y'all

Dear Bro MR...

Sad but its true... And winning the trust back again is even more difficult esp when you know about my case.... Its not a matter of trailing and suffering but somehow you will put up a higher guard against them...

Yes its true that one needs to be more than suspicious from the start and I couldn't agree more on that...

As for your "Joy", still think that it was a right decision and am happy that you initiated the move.... No point in falling into the entanglement in your situation... Though nothing was asked from you but there again, it just started and you will never know what the outcome will be.... Just remember what a lot of bros here mentioned before, in the beginning, they asked for nothing, after that, they start to ask for a little, and after that, they start to ask for more, and after that, they ...........................

Anyway, a very warm welcome back to SHA...... Eager to meet up again with you and the rest of the bros here......

Cheers,
MIS

Morningrun

28-03-2006, 01:23 PM

Brudders SGPSHA69, MIS and SG,

Yup Back in good 'ol PRC. Now in Qingdao to do a regional management and sales meeting (today mgmt mtg, tomorrow sales mtg) Thursday have to interview 5 victims then I will be back.

Now for the problem...... AWACS (a.k.a. the wife) is also in town, so how to cheong? unless we cheong in the afternoons.... but then Bro SGP have to work....

As for Saturday night, I plan to tire out the family with a lot of outside activities so that they will be too tired to join your "house warming preview" so if possible I can come. If XiaoYu can arrange entertainment, then wonder if we can do an exchange thing? .... me willing to sponsor.

Let me know lah.

By the way, Bro SGPSHA69, thanks for the nice SMS, and Bro MIS, thanks for the welcome note! . .... really my bros!

MR

P.S. Whatever happened to our plans to do a China version of BBM?

SGPshanghai69

28-03-2006, 01:51 PM

Remember especially in Asia, you MUST NOT cheong blindly...... else kena burnt.

Power to y'all

MR

Bro Morningrun,
Yo bro, can cheong blindly lah....as long as u invite both Bro Maninsin & me along....we are sure to be there to tell you & to to 'guide' you into the 'hole' lor, you will never be 'blinded' lor! hahaha......;)

Then if you are really all tired out after that, both of us would love to continue for ya 'blindly' into the 'hole' again.....tag team bros?

Cheers

OceanEleven

28-03-2006, 01:57 PM

Sometimes when one is oversea and alone, there will bound to be a time where he will feel empty and tired. He will need to find something to fill up that emptiness and most of the time, companionship has the greatest appeal. With sex being the basic instinct of man, a companion that offers sex as well is almost irresistible, throw in some GF feeling, a little tender loving care, couple with the SG guys’ nature whom like to play the white knight in shiny armor, he will likely swallow whatever is serve on the plate.

SGPshanghai69

28-03-2006, 01:59 PM

Surf over the forum, every threads do side track a bit, unless you are in the link exhange plaza. This is cyber world, we cannot stop anybody from posting things that we do not like or vice versa. Choose what you like, otherwise, lke Bro PTR said create a new thread but I think it will end up the same. This is bo bian one, you cannot ask the mamasan not to bring in those ugly or out of shape one for you to choose right? You still have to go through the procedures....:D
If you cannot change it, leave it or live by it. I think this is the situation in PRC.

Sorry, talk rooster here (already doggie year)....:D

SG

Well said Bro Shengge!

Bros from all walks of lives are sure to mixed both pleasures as well as other info here, be it good or bad experiences. Should one felt that there's too much TCSS here rather than info needed then kindly refrain from reading further here....very boring lor!

Bro Shengge you're not talking rooster but telling the true sentiments....keep it up bro!
Cheers

shanghian

28-03-2006, 02:55 PM

4. ............ Brothers! Please add on. I am limited.

Adding to this list does not demonstrate that you have been conned before. Nevertheless, I admit that I had even fallen in to the traps before! So what? An awakening has wised me up.

Snr Bro PT Lao R,

I try try add one or two

4. I know what I am doing and when I am finished I will just dump her and walk away laughing..free fuck mah

5. I can afford it so what if I give her a couple of thousands to help the needy.... white knight syndrome

sorry but it's the best I could think of. In fact seen and heard all this even here in this forum.

This forum is long and sometimes a lot of TCSS but thats what makes it fun. I between all this you will find some gems as well.:)

cheers all

shanghian

shengge

28-03-2006, 03:15 PM

Should one felt that there's too much TCSS here rather than info needed then kindly refrain from reading further here....very boring lor!

Dear Bro SGPSha69,
Yes, I can be very boring, but I do see many bros join in, such as Bro Huzige. While saying this, I think so far we did not miss any bro when they requested for help on KTV, HC, Pub and etc Recommendation, except for a few that are not specific in their needs.
Overall, IMHO many of the bros over here are very OK, many info are shared without neglecting the recommendation.
Cheers!
SG

PuTonRen

28-03-2006, 03:28 PM

sexy rabbit

28-03-2006, 04:11 PM

Hi All snr bro in SH.
I second that. You all have be wonderful and done alot of good work. Tis the thread that all samters refer to for contact n bro in SH. Pls do not take it into heart. I m sure after all the chionging, we will come in here to TCSS with frens that we had made and the contact given. Keep up the good work. ;)

maninsin

28-03-2006, 04:16 PM

Dear Senior Brother shengge,

No lah! You are not boring lah! You are our light-house, or SGPShanghai69 said, lamp post, etc. You have given us a lot of directions and I have benefitted a lot from both you and SGPShanghai69, and lately from Bro Morningrun and Maninsin.

Keep up with the good work. I am old already and need the support of younger and better brothers like you all to guide.

Regards

PT Lao R

Dear Big Bro PTR,

Pls don't mentioned it... Merely try to share as much as I can with bros like you.... You are a legend whom I've heard so much but have not met you in person yet...

Yes, I heard abt your love of tea sessions and would really love to join you one day for tea.... :)

Hope to see you soon in SHA...

Cheers,
MIS

SGPshanghai69

28-03-2006, 05:18 PM

Dear Bro SGPSha69,
Yes, I can be very boring, but I do see many bros join in, such as Bro Huzige. While saying this, I think so far we did not miss any bro when they requested for help on KTV, HC, Pub and etc Recommendation, except for a few that are not specific in their needs.
SG

Dear Bro Shengge,
Me too can be a real bored here, for instance with the recent posting of my domestic sorrows, sharing herein with many bros including you Bro Shengge.

Yet, it just really dampens me abit on what Alpha123 said herein mentioning it would be better for us, the TCSS ppl here to consider having another separate column for mainly info to shared apart from our TCSS sessions among bros here.....sigh....
Felt like it is a MUST that we should post info for him or perhaps others but when comes to pouring out abit of my grievences or bitterness of my life here....I have to seek for other venues.....:(

How realistic is the world here Bro Shengge!
Got info can write here, no info to share but rather wanna TCSS here, sorry you then better go seek other venues......so sad lah bro.......don't you agree dear Bro Shengge?
Maybe we should just resort to emails to one another or sms lor bro.......

shengge

28-03-2006, 06:29 PM

Got info can write here, no info to share but rather wanna TCSS here, sorry you then better go seek other venues......so sad lah bro.......don't you agree dear Bro Shengge?
Maybe we should just resort to emails to one another or sms lor bro.......

Dear Bro SGPSha69,
Just finished my last customer visit of the day, headache in this dusty and misty city in middle of China. After all, Shanghai still the best.......opps!:eek: Talking Rooster again.
May be we should be the one to start another new thread liao and let those able one put up recommendation. This is 上海滩。。。长江后浪推前浪。

Actually, I ever thought of cut and paste some local news that may be beneficial to most of us here, better not now.

Cheers!
SG

alpha123

28-03-2006, 07:14 PM

I couldn't agree more for what the bro here have mentioned. I really learn a lot after going thru the 300 over posts here. Just feel that the pure info page is for friends that are rushing and wish to enjoy the Shanghai scene without the luxury time to go thru all the post here. Because this is the premier SIngaporean infomation heaven. Probably the only site from SIngaporean bro...

haha

I am new in Shanghai and should learn from all the bro here. The well said over here. Two things in the world will give man trouble - Money and Woman.. So thanks to all bro here who go thru the experience and share here.

SGPshanghai69

29-03-2006, 09:15 AM

Dear Bro SGPSha69,
May be we should be the one to start another new thread liao and let those able one put up recommendation. This is 上海滩。。。长江后浪推前浪。

Cheers!
SG

Hey Bro Shengge,
Greetings & a very good morning!
I couldn't agree more with you on the statement you've made here.......

Perhaps it's time for us both to just stand aside & read only here......too much TCSS by us makes it such a drag for others, most of all taking up too much time of those whom are all out here to only gather info rather than reading our grievences........

Shall be emailing you from now onwards or via sms bro........
Let's catch up for kopi when u r back here bro.....:rolleyes:
Cheers.

SGPshanghai69

29-03-2006, 09:20 AM

Dear Big Bro PTR,

You are a legend whom I've heard so much but have not met you in person yet...

Yes, I heard abt your love of tea sessions and would really love to join you one day for tea.... :)

Cheers,
MIS

Our Big Bro PTR not only appreciate tea, women....but also his habit of only drinking coffee without milk & sugar in KTV usually, do not consume beef, no high glucose content food or beverages for him most importantly.

His fetish for women would be very basic and simple. NTTL!

Am I correct on the abovementioned big bro???
Cheers................;)

spoonfork

29-03-2006, 09:31 AM

Dear Bro SGPSha69,
Just finished my last customer visit of the day, headache in this dusty and misty city in middle of China. After all, Shanghai still the best.......opps!:eek: Talking Rooster again.
Cheers!
SG
Dear Bro Shengge,
Are you already there? Surprised to know that the place is still filty....even in the Winter/Spring season. Did you manage to hustle your way to a better rate?Hope you have a nice stay there. :)

PuTonRen

29-03-2006, 09:43 AM

Our Big Bro PTR not only appreciate tea, women....but also his habit of only drinking coffee without milk & sugar in KTV usually, do not consume beef, no high glucose content food or beverages for him most importantly.

His fetish for women would be very basic and simple. NTTL!

Am I correct on the abovementioned big bro???
Cheers................;)

Dear Bro SGPShanghai69,

If there is one guy in Shanghai who knows me, he must be you! Dear CEO Bro SGPShanghai69. I am equally touched by the attention that you have accorded me for my lousy habit. Sigh.... Old Age entrains many restrictions.

Fetish for women - NTTL! Hahaha......Need milk for my coffee lah!

Regarding this thread, you, shengge, and many others have helped to make it alive and interesting. We should not just let it go because of some brothers here who view this thread as an information gathering center, and start to demand that we restrict this thread to information provision just for him or them. If we pay attention to the content of this thread, we find a good mix of information, FRs, recounts of personal experience, and to a lesser extent, TCSS. You and shengge have been contributing a great deal to the information, even to the extent of providing road directory (Our lamp post, traffic light and light-house shengge) and your direction in helping brothers to relax and have a good time. I have said that I enjoyed and learnt a great deal from many of you, and in return, in my small and humble way, return the kindness of the contributing brothers with some of my real-life experience. I also realise that people who comment that this thread is full of TCSS are those who contribute little or none at all. Sigh...... Taker but no provider!! Flame me if you like or Zap me! I do not care much about the point anyway. I just need to maintain a positive in my rep point so that I can continue to CONTRIBUTE!

Dear Bros SGPShanghai69, shengge, Maniinsin, Morningrun, etc. do continue to contribute to this forum, and I am sure many brothers (including I) would benefit and would contribute in return. It is an old man pleade.

With best regards to all.

A sad PT lao R

PuTonRen

29-03-2006, 09:49 AM

Because this is the premier SIngaporean infomation heaven. Probably the only site from SIngaporean bro...

haha

I am new in Shanghai and should learn from all the bro here. The well said over here. Two things in the world will give man trouble - Money and Woman.. So thanks to all bro here who go thru the experience and share here.

Dear Bro alpha123,

I am glad that you understand that this thread provides many useful information amongst other things. It is a Premier site on Shanghai from Singaporean who invested their time to share with fellow brothers.

There is nothing that one can get without effort, you want information, look for them. In addition, when a new brother poses a well defined and specific question, Bro SGPShanghai and shengge are usually the first two persons who jump in an help. However, if you ask question like "Any good recommendation to good and cheap KTV", then the answer is obvious!
We are all members of the thread but not information provider.

My 2 cent worth.

PT Lao R

PuTonRen

29-03-2006, 09:56 AM

Dear Bro Shengge,
Me too can be a real bored here, for instance with the recent posting of my domestic sorrows, sharing herein with many bros including you Bro Shengge.

Yet, it just really dampens me abit on what Alpha123 said herein mentioning it would be better for us, the TCSS ppl here to consider having another separate column for mainly info to shared apart from our TCSS sessions among bros here.....sigh....
Felt like it is a MUST that we should post info for him or perhaps others but when comes to pouring out abit of my grievences or bitterness of my life here....I have to seek for other venues.....:(

How realistic is the world here Bro Shengge!
Got info can write here, no info to share but rather wanna TCSS here, sorry you then better go seek other venues......so sad lah bro.......don't you agree dear Bro Shengge?
Maybe we should just resort to emails to one another or sms lor bro.......

Dear Bro SGPShanghai69,

I intend to quote the whole posting of yours as they are really good but sad words. Reading such writing from you demoralises me. People nowaday are so realistic and demanding, thinking that just because we post here often, we should restrict to what they like to see.

To me, this thread is information gathering, sharing of experience, exchange of greeting, and a place to seek emotional support when one is down. I get a lot of relief from comments from brothers after having posted a sad encounters, and I also benefitted from many brothers here for their confidence in sharing precious information. In returns, in my small way, I posted what I have learnt.

Why should we give way to some demanding people for their inconsiderate comments. This thread is very much maintained by people like you, not those who only comment but never or seldom post (Free-Riders.:mad: ..&^%^%$#@!), we should continue to do what we do best here. I am not giving up, and hope that you are not. If we need to fight them (in civilised way), I will join you. I am old, but still am a fighter!

I sincerely hope that you and shengge and many others would not be detered by a single comments.

Your supporter, always,

PT Lao R

SGPshanghai69

29-03-2006, 09:56 AM

Sometimes when one is oversea and alone, there will bound to be a time where he will feel empty and tired.

KNN bro, a very well said definition herein by you yet still date only twice you've joined the bros group outing..........when r u coming to join us again lah???!!!

Dun TCSS here lah........:p

SGPshanghai69

29-03-2006, 10:16 AM

Dear Bro SGPShanghai69,

Why should we give way to some demanding people for their inconsiderate comments. This thread is very much maintained by people like you, not those who only comment but never or seldom post (Free-Riders.:mad: ..&^%^%$#@!), we should continue to do what we do best here. I am not giving up, and hope that you are not. If we need to fight them (in civilised way), I will join you. I am old, but still am a fighter!

PT Lao R

Dear Big Bro PTR,
Thank you utmostly from the bottom of my heart for sharing your sentiments, most of all for your support to me all these we've known one another........

I would not be bold enough to claimed to be a info provider but rather just mere sharing, exchanging of info herein with all bros. Perhaps I would be corresponding with you & the rest of bros via emails or sms from now onwards.......that way, I won't be taking up too many pages on this thread here as well as won't be flame further lor by any newbies here........

We shall fight together as a team big bro.......but also, to conserved our fighting spirits to the PRC gals.......:rolleyes:

You are a senior experienced fighter both in life experiences as well towards women aspect big bro with much priceless values for one to learn.....definitely not old though..........perhaps 'matured' would be the suitable word to use here on you big bro???

Cheers

shengge

29-03-2006, 10:33 AM

Dear Bro Shengge,
Are you already there? Surprised to know that the place is still filty....even in the Winter/Spring season. Did you manage to hustle your way to a better rate?Hope you have a nice stay there. :)

Dear Bro sf,
The weather there is bad. I am there for only two days, did not venture in the evening. So got nothing to recommend. I am back to Shanghai already.
Thanks for your help.
Cheers!
SG

shengge

29-03-2006, 10:53 AM

I am old, but still am a fighter!

I sincerely hope that you and shengge and many others would not be detered by a single comments.

Dear PTR,
Or shall I call you Ah Peh, Peh Ta Ren.:D
I am slightly younger than you, but boh lart to fight liao but leave it as it is and live by it. As you always said, we cannot make everyone happy and we are not oblidged to do so, I am still trying to learn my way. Easy to say than done....just like always ended up giving more to the mm, to make them happy.

Thanks for your guidance.

Lastly, if you need help in fighting NTTLs let me know....:p

Take Care!
SG

PuTonRen

29-03-2006, 11:30 AM

Dear PTR,
Or shall I call you Ah Peh, Peh Ta Ren.:D
I am slightly younger than you, but boh lart to fight liao but leave it as it is and live by it. As you always said, we cannot make everyone happy and we are not oblidged to do so,
Thanks for your guidance.

Lastly, if you need help in fighting NTTLs let me know....:p

Take Care!
SG
Dear Bro shengge,

I am disappointed by you. Bot Lart to fight? I would only believe you if you say this together in a single sentence as "Bot Lart to bonk and to fight!"

We need not, and are not obliged to make people happy. Similarly, others are not obliged to make us happy.

Stay on in this thread and continue to do whatever that we have been doing. Do not waste time from now on to react just because of a comment from a single person.

FIght in the same way that I have known you 16 years ago. Brother shengge, light-house, lamp post, light bulbs...etc.. and a lady charmer. Hahaha

Regards

PT Lao R

shengge

29-03-2006, 12:01 PM

I am disappointed by you. Bot Lart to fight? I would only believe you if you say this together in a single sentence as "Bot Lart to bonk and to fight!"

Stay on in this thread and continue to do whatever that we have been doing. Do not waste time from now on to react just because of a comment from a single person.

Fight in the same way that I have known you 16 years ago. Brother shengge, light-house, lamp post, light bulbs...etc.. and a lady charmer. Hahaha

Dear Bro PTR,
I boh lart to fight but my younger bro got a little to spare.

No lah, may be I am over react on the matter. More than one person said so lah, waiting for them to post recommendation then may be I can get out of this thread liao. Prior to that, I talk a few more roosters first.....:D

Being a friend, 16 years not long lah.
I did not guide, lead and show you around lah, so not a light-house, lamp post and light bulb, I merely offer you a little info nia mah.

Lady charmer? Since when you see that there is lady with me or attracted to me? Unless I have the torso of Bro SGPsha69, the charisma of Bro junior_cannibal and humourous like you....:D (there are many to mention here, just that I have not met them)

Cheers!

shengge

29-03-2006, 12:30 PM

Right on the point.
This BBS ressembles a chat room too much these days.
Separation on actual information and advices would be great.
Thank you

Hi there,
I think all bros here are looking forward to see recommendation from you. When can we expect to see that?
Or may I start with a request?
Thanks!

PuTonRen

29-03-2006, 12:31 PM

Hi there,
I think all bros here are looking forward to see recommendation from you. When can we expect to see that?
Or may I start with a request?
Thanks!
Dear Bro,

I join in the request for recommendation, please.

Regards

PTR

PuTonRen

29-03-2006, 12:36 PM

Dear Bro,

I join in the request for recommendation, please.

Regards

PTR

Oops! Sorry, brothers, I have not been clear and specific?

May I ask the brothers here to recommend some HC with special services with the following specifications:

1. Price range RMB 600 - 800. Special Services means (BJ, HJ and FJ)
2. Can choose from a range of girls.
3. Free drink and food.
4. Within Shanghai.

Thank you all in advance.

qiezi

29-03-2006, 01:18 PM

dear brudders in Shanghai,

Good day to all!

I will be in shanghai next week and really wish i could meet up the cheonsters and have some serious fun time together. I am 29, chinese, good in mandarin, like cheong but not familiar with the scenes in shanghai, but, eager to learn! :D

Be it HC, bar or KTV, u name it, i am anxious to join :-)

SGPshanghai69

29-03-2006, 01:43 PM

Right on the point.
This BBS ressembles a chat room too much these days.
Separation on actual information and advices would be great.
Thank you

Dear Nicosanx,
I must say you too are right on the point by commenting here.
Let's all start with you on having what to offer here to us all be it info on HC, KTVs, BBS, etc....whatever info you can offer!

Or do you know of any maybe?
Maybe you would rather get it for free here....not having to spend a single cent at all to obtained these info, whereby the rest of the bros here whom have spent the money to these places, yet still shared with all the FRs and info...........

I thank you........lor!:o

maninsin

29-03-2006, 02:11 PM

[QUOTE=PuTonRen]Dear Bro SGPShanghai69,

If there is one guy in Shanghai who knows me, he must be you! Dear CEO Bro SGPShanghai69. I am equally touched by the attention that you have accorded me for my lousy habit. Sigh.... Old Age entrains many restrictions.

Fetish for women - NTTL! Hahaha......Need milk for my coffee lah!

Regarding this thread, you, shengge, and many others have helped to make it alive and interesting. We should not just let it go because of some brothers here who view this thread as an information gathering center, and start to demand that we restrict this thread to information provision just for him or them. If we pay attention to the content of this thread, we find a good mix of information, FRs, recounts of personal experience, and to a lesser extent, TCSS. You and shengge have been contributing a great deal to the information, even to the extent of providing road directory (Our lamp post, traffic light and light-house shengge) and your direction in helping brothers to relax and have a good time. I have said that I enjoyed and learnt a great deal from many of you, and in return, in my small and humble way, return the kindness of the contributing brothers with some of my real-life experience. I also realise that people who comment that this thread is full of TCSS are those who contribute little or none at all. Sigh...... Taker but no provider!! Flame me if you like or Zap me! I do not care much about the point anyway. I just need to maintain a positive in my rep point so that I can continue to CONTRIBUTE!

Dear Bros SGPShanghai69, shengge, Maniinsin, Morningrun, etc. do continue to contribute to this forum, and I am sure many brothers (including I) would benefit and would contribute in return. It is an old man pleade.

With best regards to all.

A sad PT lao R[/QUOTE

I guess that many of the newer bros who came into this thread do not understand that besides getting useful information thru the rest of the senior bros here (who spent their hard earned money for the benefit of the rest), it is a place where friendships and brotherhoods are bond... Like what Big Bro PTR said, this is a thread not only providing cheonging info, but a place where many bros would share their personal experiences with the rest of us....

Should anyone finds that reading thru the TCSS is a waste of time or boring, then I think that they do not understand what friendships and brothehoodship is all about here... When one is staying abroad, they do not just want to cheong but also to have good bros that they can confide in....

Sad to see so many of the newer bros here who think that we are obliged to provide them info with their request....

Zapped me if you want to but I honestly do not care much abt points... All I wanted from this place is to find bros who can share what ever experiences they have and in return, to provide any bros any help within my capabilities...

Bro PTR, you can be rest assured that the rest of the bros here will continue their contributions despite some who think otherwise... ;)

Regards,
MIS

Morningrun

29-03-2006, 04:31 PM

Brothers,
SHengge, PTLR, MIS, Cateyes101, SGPSHA69, PF, the rest of you, (you know who you are and sorry if I have not mentioned you personally),

Greetings.

Yes it saddens me to see that indeed there are those out there who only want information as to where to cheong, what the prices are etc.... Yes we have invested a lot of time and indeed money to build up this database of information for the others to read.

Yes we do have quite a bit of TCSS, however we make up the core of serious cheongers and we could just as easily keep the information to ourselves. I guess we have to put up with them, but this is not an exclusive club..... Whom we choose to cheong with however IS an exclusive club, and heck, we cheong with the best of them. Which means we can really have a good time and we can choose to have the FRs or not to have the FRs

I am returning to Shanghai tomorrow and will set up a sustained cheonging campaign. Let's go cheong and forget about the whipper-snappers. All in all, we can still write those good FRs and leave these guys lau-nuah (salivating). let them have their hard-ons after the read... then must go into the bathroom and da-fei-ji.... :D

Talking of which, I am now in Qingdao and the Crowne Plaza hotel here has a new KTV / nightclub. I am holding a regional sales meeting here and managed to sneak away between the meeting. will write the FR once I recover.

Cheers and Power to Y'all

MR