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[fabiann]

hello bros... juz wanna seek wats u opnion on this stiuation...

i went to a few TD and hang flowers all that.. and when i went to 1 of the RD there is this dancer caught my eye.. and that TD i went most of the mangers know who am i blah blah all that... i am not a big fish nor a small fish...

so i hang flowers for her.. and we start to talk and talk... and i dont go down on a reg basis.. sometimes 1 week 3 or 4 times.. sometimes i dont go at all.. and everytime i go she will always come and find me.. and NEVER once she did ask flowers from me.. and i dont always give her too...

so after 1 week plus of talking to her, we went to hotel... and u shld know wat happen la... we did went hotel like 1 week once or twice... and i did think if she can go with me easily to hotel, why not other customers right?

so i did a test on her.. using MONEY.. i told her i no money liao.. ask her can borrow me 1k anot.. she say ok... 1 week later i borrowed another 2k, which she later reduced to 1k cuz she said she need to send money to her parents... so total is 2k she loan to me... and this money is still with me till today, and i have not spent a single cent on it...

but now her calls to me is lesser and lesser and when ever i go down there, she still will go back with me.. she gave me the reason cuz she working she need to make more flowers...

so i dunno is she true to me anot till now... :(

[teebs_darklord]

hello bros... juz wanna seek wats u opnion on this stiuation...

i went to a few TD and hang flowers all that.. and when i went to 1 of the RD there is this dancer caught my eye.. and that TD i went most of the mangers know who am i blah blah all that... i am not a big fish nor a small fish...

so i hang flowers for her.. and we start to talk and talk... and i dont go down on a reg basis.. sometimes 1 week 3 or 4 times.. sometimes i dont go at all.. and everytime i go she will always come and find me.. and NEVER once she did ask flowers from me.. and i dont always give her too...

so after 1 week plus of talking to her, we went to hotel... and u shld know wat happen la... we did went hotel like 1 week once or twice... and i did think if she can go with me easily to hotel, why not other customers right?

so i did a test on her.. using MONEY.. i told her i no money liao.. ask her can borrow me 1k anot.. she say ok... 1 week later i borrowed another 2k, which she later reduced to 1k cuz she said she need to send money to her parents... so total is 2k she loan to me... and this money is still with me till today, and i have not spent a single cent on it...

but now her calls to me is lesser and lesser and when ever i go down there, she still will go back with me.. she gave me the reason cuz she working she need to make more flowers...

so i dunno is she true to me anot till now... :(

So u just want to know if she really likes you??? :D

Probably not and how long have you known her? Just because she loan you 2K doesn't mean that she likes you. Usually speaking such loans are not interest free. :D

[fabiann]

yea i wanna know... so how do i go abt testing..

[alan0338]

so i dunno is she true to me anot till now... :(

bro, u are a kc master :D :D

[teebs_darklord]

yea i wanna know... so how do i go abt testing..

See her reaction when u hang flowers on other singers and act intimate with them. :D

Truthfully speaking when u only know a singer for a couple of days/weeks, it is very rare and highly improbable that she will fall in love with you.

[fabiann]

her reaction.. nth like that lor... she will look other place and say thank you... zzz.. but everytime she will come and find me bu no say ty... but always i ask her after work go where, she say with u... i also dunno how to test liao...

[alan0338]

TS, y would u wanna know? even if she is true to u, then are u prepared to move a step further? :confused:

[fabiann]

yea prepared... so i dont wanna take any step further before i really know wat she doing behind...

[DegenerationX]

TS, if she is willing to lend u the 2K, there are 2 possibilities:

1. She is true to you and trust you.

2. She is playing 放长线钓大鱼 game. Since you said most to the managers knows u, she prob thinks u wun wanna throw your own face for a mere 2K. She might be waiting for a ripe time to tell u those cock & bull story about her family need $$, hope u can return her the 2K and even ask u to lend her another 2K or more.

Maybe u can try testing her by not contacting her for let's say 1week and not going to the joint, (basically like vanish from the world) and see whether will she take the initiative to contact you. If she does, then have to depend on what's ur conversation with her and decide for yourself.

If she is the 2nd type which I mentioned, she will be very anxious to contact you will start to ask when u able to return her the $$ etc.....

Just my humble opinions and might not work hor....:D

[sammyboyfor]

so i dunno is she true to me anot till now... :(

Why on earth would you want to get involved with a WHORE!:eek: Are you out of your mind????:rolleyes:

[fabiann]

she is not WHORE leh boss.. zzz

[fabiann]

u mean MIA means? call me i dont answer? or call i still answer?

[Xgenre]

she is not WHORE leh boss.. zzz

You may not have paid her for the sex but does she go hotel with customers so that they will continue to hang flowers for her?

[fabiann]

bro this qns does she go to hotel with other customers i cannot answer u leh.. this is one of the qns i am trying to find out too...

[DegenerationX]

u mean MIA means? call me i dont answer? or call i still answer?

1st few days dun answer. but if she continue calling on the 4th or 5th days onwards then u can answer.

It will be good if u can have your frds go down the joint, the gal will sure ask them where or what happened to you. Try to gather some hints and analyse the whole situation when ur frds relate the conversation with her to you.

[alan0338]

bro this qns does she go to hotel with other customers i cannot answer u leh.. this is one of the qns i am trying to find out too...

give ur cheongsters frens few k and try lor, u will know the answer easily... :D

but u prepared to face the truth or not first? :D

not tat i am sarcastic, i met too many frenz like u ( old trick to use borrow $$$ from the gals la,), then even after finding out tat the gal did go out( for wat no need say la ) with other customers, they will cook up stupid excuses to protect the gals and lie to emselves, :eek: hope u wont be one of those guys :D

[DegenerationX]

not tat i am sarcastic, i met too many frenz like u ( old trick to use borrow $$$ from the gals la,), then even after finding out tat the gal did go out( for wat no need say la ) with other customers, they will cook up stupid excuses to protect the gals and lie to emselves, :eek: hope u wont be one of those guys :D

u mean self-denial.....:D

yup many guys are like this

[teebs_darklord]

her reaction.. nth like that lor... she will look other place and say thank you... zzz.. but everytime she will come and find me bu no say ty... but always i ask her after work go where, she say with u... i also dunno how to test liao...

Sorry I dun understand.

What you mean is if you hang flowers on other gals and act intimate with them, your gal will look away and say thank you to you??? :eek:

Then every time she will find you but never say thank you to you??? :confused:

I'm really confused by what you are saying here.

Sorry to say that all the gals will know one of the oldest trick, that of guys acting poor and borrowing money from them to test if they like that guy. :D

Trust me, in time to come, she will ask you to return the 2K and on top of that, she will ask you for another sum of money because of blah blah blah reasons and because she loan you that money previously and thus you think she likes you, you will lend her the additional sum she needs. And that's when your nightmare will start because she knows that you are her ATM machine.

You say that you want to find out if she goes to hotels with other customers. Seriously what's the point of doing so? She's here working as a singer, you have known her for a very short period of time and she goes to the hotel with you. Don't you think that it is highly probable that she will go to the hotel with her other regular customers?

[teebs_darklord]

give ur cheongsters frens few k and try lor, u will know the answer easily... :D

but u prepared to face the truth or not first?

not tat i am sarcastic, i met too many frenz like u ( old trick to use borrow $$$ from the gals la,), then even after finding out tat the gal did go out( for wat no need say la ) with other customers, they will cook up stupid excuses to protect the gals and lie to emselves, :eek: hope u wont be one of those guys :D

Many guys are like that. Want to KC the gal, end up kenna KC big time by the gal and spend a lot of money on them. Later when things don't work out then KPKB all the way to their friends. :D

[see see only]

bro this qns does she go to hotel with other customers i cannot answer u leh.. this is one of the qns i am trying to find out too...

:rolleyes:

Though seldom go hang flower ... but every singers that ended up in bed with me, said they never done it with other customers


Wahahaha i guess ... LUCK is with me :eek: or ........ :rolleyes:

"standard declaration" :D

[alan0338]

Many guys are like that. Want to KC the gal, end up kenna KC big time by the gal and spend a lot of money on them. Later when things don't work out then KPKB all the way to their friends. :D

yup, see until sian liao :cool:


"standard declaration" :D

wahahaha, very well said :D

[RealEstateGuy]

The minute you walked into the place you were KCed. I feel sorry for you. If you are that desperate for love and sex try a regular club or better yet venues where you can meet the right kind of women. Whats wrong with joining volunteer and special interest clubs or maybe the gym? You are wasting not only time but money and screwing your emotions to the point of coming to a sex board like this one asking for advice from people the majority of are paid sex addicts. Do you think this is the normal part of SG society? Im here advocating change for people and volunteering my time and you see the negative marks? People here have problems for the most part and you come here asking for advice? Very few people can help you here. I'm trying. I hope you listen.

Ask not what SG society can do for you but what you can do for SG society.

[Xgenre]

Not such a good idea to do this test. She might tell everyone that you borrow money from her. Worst still, she tells people that you are borrowing money from her to hang flowers for her so that you look good in front of everyone. That you are borrowing money from her for your own face. And that as a country bumpkin from a small village, she's a kind hearted soul who got conned by an evil city dweller.

You know how some PRCs can really say until the world is ending over a small issue... Better return her to money asap. Face very hard to get back once gossip fly.

[Liquid]

TS unless you are very good looking and drives a very nice car, which on face value shows your wealth, its impossible that she would fall in love with you in such a short time.

The lending money part is safe because she knew that you would pay since everyone know who you are.

You never know. These people are full of tricks. But there are some that are true as well.

[fabiann]

For my case she tell me she cannot declare bcuz my ex gf is also 1 of the singers there... But she went back Liao.. Many of the ppl know abt me and my ex gf stOry... So many ppl don't like this current one bcuz they tot she is the one who broke me and my ex gf up...

[teebs_darklord]

yup, see until sian liao :cool:

wahahaha, very well said :D

Ya, I also got many friends last time always try to KC KTV gals, always end up kenna KC by them. Bring them out to expensive restaurants, buy expensive gifts for them, within 1 year, gals say bye bye to them and then KPKB to me about how they kenna cheated and how money face their gals are...:D

[teebs_darklord]

For my case she tell me she cannot declare bcuz my ex gf is also 1 of the singers there... But she went back Liao.. Many of the ppl know abt me and my ex gf stOry... So many ppl don't like this current one bcuz they tot she is the one who broke me and my ex gf up...

So you know her before you broke up with your ex gf? And she was already working there when you were still with your ex gf?

Anyway, what can't she declare? Her feelings for you? For fear that people will think that she was the third party? My frank opinion? A Load of BULL SHIT. :D

Coming back to my question to you in my previous post that you never answered: Why on earth do you want to test her feelings for you? Ask yourself if there is really an absolute necessity to do so.

End of the day, whether you want to be with her or not is up to you. You are an adult. Make your own decision and live with it regardless the future outcome. There are countless threads like yours here and in almost all of them, the TS will continue to do what they want regardless of the advice given to them. :p

[jasdude]

First of all you are there for the pussy . WHY be vexed and die for one when there is still many to try. Since you had upz her . return her money with tips as appreciation and move on bro ! be the player and not the playee ! PEACE

[fabiann]

no la.. bcuz all of her frens knows me and my ex gf thing.. and she is juz afraid that they will not talk to her blah blah.. which i dont really believe... for now maybe i will juz sit back and see wats gonna happen...


ps: why i say she scared her frens will not talk to her.. cuz my that ex gf is pregnant... and they did told my this current gf not to disturb me cuz i got baby liao le... so things now is really very complicated...

[alan0338]

ur ex GF the baby is urs but both of u broke up? :confused:

[kick_ass]

tis is something new from the norm at tis forum, u managed to borrow money frm a WL... NOT BAD...:D:p

[fabiann]

yea.. but some how her frens dunno... tot is bcuz of this current gf then we broke up.. for the pregnant one... is she broke up with me... reason.. i dunno why too...

[alan0338]

yea.. but some how her frens dunno... tot is bcuz of this current gf then we broke up.. for the pregnant one... is she broke up with me... reason.. i dunno why too...

if i am the gal, i would never trust u, let alone be true to u no matter is ur ex gf left u or wat.... simple as tat :D

[orneryjoe]

...You are wasting not only time but money and screwing your emotions to the point of coming to a sex board like this one asking for advice from people the majority of are paid sex addicts. Do you think this is the normal part of SG society?...

Ha, ha... admittedly quite true. But if more of Sg soc become aware and aroused, maybe they too would become like us. Ha, ha....

[Doriemus]

First of all you are there for the pussy . WHY be vexed and die for one when there is still many to try. Since you had upz her . return her money with tips as appreciation and move on bro ! be the player and not the playee ! PEACE

I totally agree with you. as i was reading thru, I was telling myself since did her already, just move on la. Why get involved with such girls? Do already, next pls...

[fabiann]

thank you all bros.. nw wat happen is me and quarrel over dunno wat matter.. i juz have this feeling izzit bcuz i nv gve her flower liao then she is using this excuse to kick me away.. but who cares...:rolleyes:

[MengJai]

thank you all bros.. nw wat happen is me and quarrel over dunno wat matter.. i juz have this feeling izzit bcuz i nv gve her flower liao then she is using this excuse to kick me away.. but who cares...:rolleyes:

Return the money and just move on la...or u just like such girls, bro?