A patron turned lover and hubby.

[Oceanlee]

The fact, Just finish my love fucking business with my PRC gal.
She is a beer promoter (young milf), and we have been together for a period of time.
As usual, I am the patrons whereas she is a meat to me. But along the
Tide, chemistry evolve and feeling was developed. To cut short the story,
I m kinda in a suituation fixed and screw up. Perhaps I need to stop all the trigger.
The fact she is sleeping soundly beside me and I m in ponder now.
The past 2 months, I dun have to even look after her finance mean.
This period, she have sort of glued to me, by daily reporting and calling me at least thrice. I have access to her finance anytime easily. I shall carry on later more. Well, actually I intend to cut-off, but she was like putting me in the centre of her life now. All devices and trails to spot her was trigger, but
I see that she have not crossed the line and I yet to find out any fault.

[ZtoAZ]

So what is the next? I didn't see the lover and hubby part here, just an ordinary MBA (?) affair lai :rolleyes:

[waiwaiz]

the hubby is the next part.but now TS was pondering abt it.........

[aczeta76]

Old friend.. no wonder you have been quiet.. hope all is well

[hoA123]

as long as you are not KC'ed by her eh?

[teebs_darklord]

Ok, so what goes next? Are you her lover now and thinking whether to move on to becoming her hubby or wat? :D

[Oceanlee]

Quiet, as I am just a nobody. Still have much to learn from fellow esteem brudders here.

Old friend.. no wonder you have been quiet.. hope all is well

The factor's that weigh-in actually was like, I dun even restrict anythg on her and she willingly report to me her daily affairs. Even her earning's and keep. At time's, as usual I will put some $$$ into her bag, but she will just return to me and insisted. Even small gift's I get for her...she will tell me not to buy it unless it's a NEED ... but not WANT. without failed, once knock off the day, she will call me or waited for me. At times, i will surprise her or "pre-appear", but never engage of her being at fault. Even get my beer-buddy to act out. (which she have no idea). Well, we still stock up her marketing at about 2x weekly and make love just like Normal couple and she is so used to call me "lao-gong" and share most of her happy,sad and sorrow with me... she will just share and she is "emotional" engaged unto me. (In normal case, I know .. this is about time for me to unplug and move on) above are just a small open of scene that I believe many have gone before than me.

Well, this was not the first time that such event happened to me. Rather, this is the One time, that I realli felt something when being together with her.
thus, I am in a fixed and screw up matters..... Nothing is free and when things look's too good, it probably is, sound right aint' it?

Each time i give her a cold-shoulder, she will feel miserable and tear's down. Or I just ignore her, she will react irrationally and even lost her sleep, not able to concentrate on her work's.

Therefore, its harder on my part ...... to be cont.

[Doriemus]

So bro, whats the issue? Camping...

[Mr_don_juan]

Quiet, as I am just a nobody. Still have much to learn from fellow esteem brudders here.



The factor's that weigh-in actually was like, I dun even restrict anythg on her and she willingly report to me her daily affairs. Even her earning's and keep. At time's, as usual I will put some $$$ into her bag, but she will just return to me and insisted. Even small gift's I get for her...she will tell me not to buy it unless it's a NEED ... but not WANT. without failed, once knock off the day, she will call me or waited for me. At times, i will surprise her or "pre-appear", but never engage of her being at fault. Even get my beer-buddy to act out. (which she have no idea). Well, we still stock up her marketing at about 2x weekly and make love just like Normal couple and she is so used to call me "lao-gong" and share most of her happy,sad and sorrow with me... she will just share and she is "emotional" engaged unto me. (In normal case, I know .. this is about time for me to unplug and move on) above are just a small open of scene that I believe many have gone before than me.

Well, this was not the first time that such event happened to me. Rather, this is the One time, that I realli felt something when being together with her.
thus, I am in a fixed and screw up matters..... Nothing is free and when things look's too good, it probably is, sound right aint' it?

Each time i give her a cold-shoulder, she will feel miserable and tear's down. Or I just ignore her, she will react irrationally and even lost her sleep, not able to concentrate on her work's.

Therefore, its harder on my part ...... to be cont.

Looks like she halfway disarming you with strategic weakness (playing the vulnerable victim with well-covered tracks especially you have reveal your feelings toward her. Logically, if you know nothing is for free you need to think very carefully, what is her intentions for being with you. Otherwise is a just another well played act to hit on your soft spots. Therefore, she have to prove time and time with extremely good behaviour, at the same time the investment both emotionally and finacially on the r/s should be 50-50 at all times before considering hubby or even a future with her. 2 months way way too short to see anything!

[Schenker]

The fact, Just finish my love fucking business with my PRC gal.

She is a beer promoter (young milf), and we have been together for a period of time.

If she's into late 20s, is she married in china?

Did she tell ever you that?


Each time i give her a cold-shoulder, she will feel miserable and tear's down. Or I just ignore her, she will react irrationally and even lost her sleep, not able to concentrate on her work's.

Therefore, its harder on my part ...... to be cont.

She maybe feeling genuine towards you. But she can also be "nice" to other patrons as well. Your beer buddies doesn't go to her place and test her everyday, so you really can't make a good judgment call on that.

You should ask yourself this qn. Will you ask her to quit if both of you developed into a deeper relationship? Or you actually doesn't mind abt her beer promoter job.

[goodpartner]

Life is just a matter of choices.

Other than her, what are options do you have now?
Or are you yearning for some r/s and settle down at this point in time?

If the sky-timing-ground-reasoning is there, things will just happen.

[Humanity]

Then u better find ways to distant yourself away from her. If not, she will threaten to end her life one day if u suddenly tell her that she's not suitable for u and u wanna leave her.

[JacqueMerlin]

The fact, Just finish my love fucking business with my PRC gal.
She is a beer promoter (young milf), and we have been together for a period of time.
As usual, I am the patrons whereas she is a meat to me. But along the
Tide, chemistry evolve and feeling was developed. To cut short the story,
I m kinda in a suituation fixed and screw up. Perhaps I need to stop all the trigger.
The fact she is sleeping soundly beside me and I m in ponder now.
The past 2 months, I dun have to even look after her finance mean.
This period, she have sort of glued to me, by daily reporting and calling me at least thrice. I have access to her finance anytime easily. I shall carry on later more. Well, actually I intend to cut-off, but she was like putting me in the centre of her life now. All devices and trails to spot her was trigger, but
I see that she have not crossed the line and I yet to find out any fault.

The trees in the woods are plenty.
I will suggest that you cut off all contacts with her. Move on bro... You will always have another woman whom you will feel something for again.

[joew2005]

日久见人心 ..... only time will tell !!!
irregardless of her nationality & profession,it's her own behaviour tat will tell wat type of person she is.
sg women also hv veri veri good 1s,likewise there r also many lousy & lazy sg women out there.

[peekaboo]

like what bro joew2005 say ... time will tell ... u still did not see the bad side of the ger.

[Ah he]

Hehehe she is targeting for something big. Those few hundreds\ bucks she is not intersted. Like my friend married with a PRC. After she gets her PR , she work at orchard T without letting my friend know. Whats next ? Both of them buy HDB flat so that she can apply for citizenship and get her RED Passport. Red pasport good mah, can fly here and there easily. Hehehehehe dio liao.

[DO_YOU_BJ]

The fact, Just finish my love fucking business with my PRC gal.
She is a beer promoter (young milf), and we have been together for a period of time.
As usual, I am the patrons whereas she is a meat to me. But along the
Tide, chemistry evolve and feeling was developed. To cut short the story,
I m kinda in a suituation fixed and screw up. Perhaps I need to stop all the trigger.
The fact she is sleeping soundly beside me and I m in ponder now.
The past 2 months, I dun have to even look after her finance mean.
This period, she have sort of glued to me, by daily reporting and calling me at least thrice. I have access to her finance anytime easily. I shall carry on later more. Well, actually I intend to cut-off, but she was like putting me in the centre of her life now. All devices and trails to spot her was trigger, but
I see that she have not crossed the line and I yet to find out any fault.

Bro, no more singers?
Now beer auntie?
You're an old timer la bro, you know what you gotta do.
What ever is gonna happen, i am sure u can already see it.
Time to use brain over heart liao
The longer you hang on, the harder it is to make the break.
Do the rite thing bro.
We're seasoned cheongsters, we know the rules of the game.
Take care ya

[joew2005]

The Beatles had tis song ....

When I find myself in times of trouble
Mother Mary comes to me
Speaking words of wisdom, ....

do u know the title of tis song ??

[hohohaha]

let it be ;)

such a meaningful song, bro joew2005, hope TS go thru the full song

When I find myself in times of trouble, mother Mary comes to me,
speaking words of wisdom, let it be.
And in my hour of darkness she is standing right in front of me,
speaking words of wisdom, let it be.

Let it be, let it be, let it be, let it be.
Whisper words of wisdom, let it be.

And when the broken hearted people living in the world agree,
there will be an answer, let it be.
For though they may be parted there is still a chance that they will see,
there will be an answer. let it be.

Let it be, let it be, .....

And when the night is cloudy, there is still a light, that shines on me,
shine until tomorrow, let it be.
I wake up to the sound of music, mother Mary comes to me,
speaking words of wisdom, let it be.

Let it be, let it be, .....

[FlirtExpert]

The fact, Just finish my love fucking business with my PRC gal.
She is a beer promoter (young milf), and we have been together for a period of time.
As usual, I am the patrons whereas she is a meat to me. But along the
Tide, chemistry evolve and feeling was developed. To cut short the story,
I m kinda in a suituation fixed and screw up. Perhaps I need to stop all the trigger.
The fact she is sleeping soundly beside me and I m in ponder now.
The past 2 months, I dun have to even look after her finance mean.
This period, she have sort of glued to me, by daily reporting and calling me at least thrice. I have access to her finance anytime easily. I shall carry on later more. Well, actually I intend to cut-off, but she was like putting me in the centre of her life now. All devices and trails to spot her was trigger, but
I see that she have not crossed the line and I yet to find out any fault.


Well, if beer girls behave this well, then hairdresser are ideal for wife and gf. I was thinking that hairdresser do not wear scantily clad clothes and they will be decent. Any opinion.

[Ken79]

just treat her as fuck buddy lor
as long as she dont talk about commitment, money and giving her items
if she does, boot her.

[CatusRose]

What was your objective in the first place? Think about it and not let her bring you to the woods. Did u develop feelings because both of you made love or u love her so u had to make love?

[Rivets]

Sounds a bit like your are thinking of whether you should commit to her, in a relationship manner, if not black and white. But so far, you have been detailing things about her and not much on how you feel towards her. If she starts to distance herself from you or maybe just ignore you, how would you handle it.

I think the best course to take is like what many bros here said, give it time.

[V|ernar]

You not young anymore ba ? We are consider almost the old bird Liao and you making the same mistake that young one does ? I make that farking mistake once and until now still paying for it ( six month relationship ) ! It take alot of time to know what a prc think , 2 months is too short make it 1-3 years .

[tomyamramee]

...beer promoter...
my area have one look chio and pretty but tink drink too many beer...
she sound like anita mui... but still many uncle trying to get fresh with her...

anyway, it very simple...
If you are posting here waiting for advice and putting urself in dilemma...
then just play with it...
If you are totally serious about it... and you like it... just take it...
just make sure you get the whole situation very clear before committing...