why guys like to have multiple sex partners?

[missyrach]

Why guys like to have multiple sex partners?

my hubby is 12 years older than me. I got a high sex drive, which we would have sex everyday in the week when we meet, which is like 1 to 2 weeks in a month or so, whenever i am there.
He is station overseas.

but yet, he still had 2 other affairs (which i found out), and i arent sure how many more that i didnt.

Is there NOT a possibility that a guy can stick to just one girl?

I DO SATISFY him every single time, that is what he claims.

I am not sure if there is love ever involved in his affairs, but can a guy just take sex as a "physical act" without any feelings involved even if the affairs lasted for like few months?

but from this forum, can men be faithful?

[sammyboyfor]

Why guys like to have multiple sex partners?



For the same reason that gals like to have multiple pairs of shoes. :p

[devan69]

Hi sis to mi if a gal really can satisfied mi on bed I will onli sleep wif her as a guy I feel tat it's very important for a gal or lady to sure her guy really enjoy having sex wif her tat my thinking lo

[Xgenre]

my hubby is 12 years older than me. I got a high sex drive, which we would have sex everyday in the week when we meet, which is like 1 to 2 weeks in a month or so, whenever i am there.
He is station overseas.

but yet, he still had 2 other affairs (which i found out), and i arent sure how many more that i didnt.

Is there NOT a possibility that a guy can stick to just one girl?

I DO SATISFY him every single time, that is what he claims.

1. Every girl is different. Different skills level, different experience, different level of enjoyment. So guys will want to try as many experience as possible.

2. You satisfy him every single time but you only meet him 1-2 weeks in each month. So from a high level of frequency, he suddenly goes cold turkey when you aren't around? The problem will be solved if he's with you every day. Before he leaves for work and immediately after he comes home from work, make him surrender 1 shot of cum each time and I think he will be faithful to you. Unless he's a B52bomber of course! :D (Hint hint).

3. Guys can separate sex from love. I don't need love to have sex. Girls are different.

4. The definition of 'faithful' is varied. For a guy, if I don't have love involved, I can still consider myself faithful if I have sex outside. A lot of us here go for massage that ends with a HJ. I think those guys still feel faithful to their wives. We see releasing our urges as an act only... like masterbation. Nothing faithful or unfaithful about it.

[songest]

Why guys like to have multiple sex partners?
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I am not sure if there is love ever involved in his affairs, but can a guy just take sex as a "physical act" without any feelings involved even if the affairs lasted for like few months?

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Hope some of these will help you think thru your problem ... Differences betn men and women for your reference:

男人第一次和女人上床很难，以后越来越容易； (Start of affair)
女人第一次和男人上床很容易，以后越来越难； (If affair is lust-driven and not love)

男人有外遇是因为冲动，女人有外遇是因为无聊。

[alan0338]

but from this forum, can men be faithful?

of cos not :D :D :D :D

[tiolaixiong]

Why guys like to have multiple sex partners?


but from this forum, can men be faithful?

Hahaha which mean guys other than this forum is all faithful is it ?Lots of reasons contribute to your hubby incident, u might not satisfy him in certain ways he want , he felt dull n lost of excitement doing with u already,loneliness overseas when u not around ...etc. Guys basically are almost same once there is a chance for them to makan outside few can resist...just my pov:)

[goodpartner]

Why guys like to have multiple sex partners?
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but from this forum, can men be faithful?

The answer is the same as why men goes for prostitutes; check out the other popular thread. Subtle difference from an affair is the added thrill of a hunter.

From this forum, men cannot be faithful.

U just got to deal with the fact of life that some men do, most men won't. Sorry u found the wrong one - if your right one means one who MUST remain "faithful". :(

BTW, it's definitely NOT about your ability in sextifying him.

[HCKing]

everyday eat abalone also will get sian.:D

[missyrach]

1. Every girl...... as possible.

2. You satisfy him ....... around?

3. Guys can separate sex from love. I don't need love to have sex. Girls are different.

4. The definition of 'faithful' is varied. For a guy, if I don't have love involved, I can still consider myself faithful if I have sex outside. A lot of us here go for massage that ends with a HJ. I think those guys still feel faithful to their wives. We see releasing our urges as an act only... like masterbation. Nothing faithful or unfaithful about it.

thanks Xgenre for your input. I guess this is the point most guys are having including my hubby.. and Yes that is what he claim from those "physical acts" only.

But if its a ONS, i can understand its only a physical act. but its a repeat on the same girl.. can it be only physical act?

But more than that, knowing myself that I am away, I did tell him before that if he ever had a ONS/affair, he had to let me know... will guys ever tell their wife such stuff?


For the same reason that gals like to have multiple pairs of shoes. :p

shoes no feelings leh!!! cannot compare lah....


Hope ..... reference:

男.....容易； (Start of affair)
女.....难； (If affair is lust-driven and not love)

....聊。

although i am chinese, but my mandarin cannot make it. maybe i will go google translate later..

Hahaha ...just my pov:)

hahahaha, of cos not, men are men, its just from this forum, its just seems like Men (or some females) CAN NEVER BE FAITHFUL to one woman only... ooohh.. and I think I can satisfy him.. no problem! :p


U just got to deal with the fact of life that some men do, most men won't. Sorry u found the wrong one - if your right one means one who MUST remain "faithful". :(
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yes! i think so too. I am not the type that can only accept that the guy can play outside as long as he comes home. what about all the diseases? & the feelings involved?


seriously, do guys just want their wives to "accept" the fact that they can/will play outside, but they cannot accept when wives wanna play outside? NO LOGIC!
Don't guys feel GUILTY at all?? for hurting their family, and their wives?

i am trying to understand from a guy's point of view thats all..

u know how man are mars and women are venus kinda crap.

[missyrach]

ooohh... by the way, please stop PM-ing me to "get even" with hubby, when i do not even know you...

I am not interested in being a fuck buddy.. what the hell is that?

[jasdude]

For the same reason that gals like to have multiple pairs of shoes. :p


everyday eat abalone also will get sian.:D


Combined the two above answers ! you get the reason ! Since you caught your hubby having two affairs outside .did u see the gals ? Crude but true . if you compare them to you . they will have things that you lack of . maybe you flat they are big chested . they are tall you are short!

[paul55ho]

Combined the two above answers ! you get the reason ! Since you caught your hubby having two affairs outside .did u see the gals ? Crude but true . if you compare them to you . they will have things that you lack of . maybe you flat they are big chested . they are tall you are short!

Dont be so bad la bro...maybe she very very chio, but the hubby sianz to eat "abalone" already, so go out eat ugly short and flat chested de chicken rice...

[missyrach]

Combined the two above answers ! you get the reason ! Since you caught your hubby having two affairs outside .did u see the gals ? Crude but true . if you compare them to you . they will have things that you lack of . maybe you flat they are big chested . they are tall you are short!

yes lor! i lack their stupidity... hahaha....

Dont be so bad la bro...maybe she very very chio, but the hubby sianz to eat "abalone" already, so go out eat ugly short and flat chested de chicken rice...

like ur description!! nice!!!! :)

[mcmc]

Why guys like to have multiple sex partners?

my hubby is 12 years older than me. I got a high sex drive, which we would have sex everyday in the week when we meet, which is like 1 to 2 weeks in a month or so, whenever i am there.
He is station overseas.

but yet, he still had 2 other affairs (which i found out), and i arent sure how many more that i didnt.

Is there NOT a possibility that a guy can stick to just one girl?

I DO SATISFY him every single time, that is what he claims.

I am not sure if there is love ever involved in his affairs, but can a guy just take sex as a "physical act" without any feelings involved even if the affairs lasted for like few months?

but from this forum, can men be faithful?

Hi sis,

My 2 cents worth :

1st : keep him occupied on something be it sports or hobby. Something he likes.

If the 1st dun work

tell him straight - "you can fuck around but please don't bring back any sickness"

[samyboys]

1. Every girl is different. Different skills level, different experience, different level of enjoyment. So guys will want to try as many experience as possible.

Men always looking for new stuff

2. You satisfy him every single time but you only meet him 1-2 weeks in each month. So from a high level of frequency, he suddenly goes cold turkey when you aren't around? The problem will be solved if he's with you every day. Before he leaves for work and immediately after he comes home from work, make him surrender 1 shot of cum each time and I think he will be faithful to you. Unless he's a B52bomber of course! :D (Hint hint).

Since there's time you both do not have set, he needs someone to keep up the momentum. Being outstation means more opportunity. Are you SURE he is really satisfied by you, or he just say so to please u?

3. Guys can separate sex from love. I don't need love to have sex. Girls are different.

4. The definition of 'faithful' is varied. For a guy, if I don't have love involved, I can still consider myself faithful if I have sex outside. A lot of us here go for massage that ends with a HJ. I think those guys still feel faithful to their wives. We see releasing our urges as an act only... like masterbation. Nothing faithful or unfaithful about it.


quote for truth

[Hawaii88]

Women who have multiple sex partners don't preserve humanity.
Women who actually produce offspring with multiple partners preserve humanity.

[Xgenre]

Sister, a wise female friend of mine once said that maintaining a successful marriage sometimes feel like you are flying a kite. You must learn when to loosen up and when to tighten your grip. When the wife controls the husband too much, that's bad for the marriage. He will rebel. If you control too loosely, he will go find other women for comfort. 1 eye open, 1 eye close. Sometimes when the truth hurts, it's better to be ignorant. For ignorance can be truly blissful.

Do you feel loved by him? If you do, he's a good husband. In the army, guys are trained to 'do anything you want but don't get caught'. A lot of guys still live with this motto. Just because you caught him with 2 affairs doesn't mean he doesn't love you or that he's a lousy husband. He's just a lousy soldier. :D

Why will you want him to tell you that he has ONS when the truth will hurt you? Why make him tell the truth to you? For what? If you don't probe, he doesn't even need to lie to you and you won't know the painful truth. Isn't that better?

I disagree with your statement that the men here aren't faithful. I think a lot of men are unfaithful. It's just that with us hiding behind a computer screen, a lot more guys here are more inclined to tell you our real views. Ask a guy friend in real life if he will be unfaithful. What do you expect him to say? He will of course be inclined to lie to you that he will be. Don't ask guys questions where we will be inclined to tell you an answer that isn't true but an answer which we think you want to hear from us.

Has your guy ever asked you if you had an orgasm during sex or if you had enjoyed the sex? Ever been in a scenario when you lie and said you did (when you didn't) in order to make his ego feel better? Same scenario, different questions only right?

[hoosdathu]

For the same reason that gals like to have multiple pairs of shoes. :p

that's a gd one, Boss :D

imho, some ppl like to eat ala carte, others like buffet style...

can always pm any of us here if u wanna try buffet anytime ;)

[jasdude]

yes lor! i lack their stupidity... hahaha....



Like your self confidence !


Stupidity is truly shown by the person who zap me here as well

[missyrach]

Sister, a wise female friend of mine once said that maintaining a successful marriage sometimes feel like you are flying a kite. You must learn when to loosen up and when to tighten your grip. When the wife controls the husband too much, that's bad for the marriage. He will rebel. If you control too loosely, he will go find other women for comfort. 1 eye open, 1 eye close. Sometimes when the truth hurts, it's better to be ignorant. For ignorance can be truly blissful.

Do you feel loved by him? If you do, he's a good husband. In the army, guys are trained to 'do anything you want but don't get caught'. A lot of guys still live with this motto. Just because you caught him with 2 affairs doesn't mean he doesn't love you or that he's a lousy husband. He's just a lousy soldier. :D

Why will you want him to tell you that he has ONS when the truth will hurt you? Why make him tell the truth to you? For what? If you don't probe, he doesn't even need to lie to you and you won't know the painful truth. Isn't that better?

I disagree with your statement that the men here aren't faithful. I think a lot of men are unfaithful. It's just that with us hiding behind a computer screen, a lot more guys here are more inclined to tell you our real views. Ask a guy friend in real life if he will be unfaithful. What do you expect him to say? He will of course be inclined to lie to you that he will be. Don't ask guys questions where we will be inclined to tell you an answer that isn't true but an answer which we think you want to hear from us.

Has your guy ever asked you if you had an orgasm during sex or if you had enjoyed the sex? Ever been in a scenario when you lie and said you did (when you didn't) in order to make his ego feel better? Same scenario, different questions only right?

Yep! thats what i said of him.... he is dumb enough to get caught... haha..

in my opinion, i would rather he had a ONS, tell me about it, we get wet & horny over it... and have a good bed time. than to have an affair.

ONS - confirm chop sign no feelings mar. but when it comes to repeated ONS with the same girl, won't there be feelings involved?

Love is selfish for a woman. No woman will ever wanna share their man, i believe or maybe that is just my perception.

& if guys like to eat out, why won't they accept their woman eating out too? works both way wat!!.

blah to man's ego!


ANYHOW, can a guy ever change and have self-control over this kinda issues? or its just a guy thing that will never ever change?

[songest]

although i am chinese, but my mandarin cannot make it. maybe i will go google translate later..

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[/QUOTE]

My bad.... allow me to attempt to translate..

男人第一次和女人上床很难，以后越来越容易； (
Translation:
First time for man to bed a woman is hardest, and gets easier subsequently (Start of affair)

女人第一次和男人上床很容易，以后越来越难； (If affair is lust-driven and not love)
Translation:
First time for woman to bed a man is easiest, and will get increasingly difficult
(since the man is just responding to her lust and will get sian since no true love is involved) and the man will subsequently go hunt for the next target of lust, moving from affair to affair.


男人有外遇是因为冲动，女人有外遇是因为无聊。
Translation:
Man having affair is impulse driven.
Woman having affair is driven by boredom.

[missyrach]

although i am chinese, but my mandarin cannot make it. maybe i will go google translate later..

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My bad.... allow me to attempt to translate..

男人第一次和女人上床很难，以后越来越容易； (
Translation:
First time for man to bed a woman is hardest, and gets easier subsequently (Start of affair)

女人第一次和男人上床很容易，以后越来越难； (If affair is lust-driven and not love)
Translation:
First time for woman to bed a man is easiest, and will get increasingly difficult
(since the man is just responding to her lust and will get sian since no true love is involved) and the man will subsequently go hunt for the next target of lust, moving from affair to affair.


男人有外遇是因为冲动，女人有外遇是因为无聊。
Translation:
Man having affair is impulse driven.
Woman having affair is driven by boredom.[/QUOTE]

thanks for the translate!!...

[arsenal_84]

if you can't handle the truth about a guy's past, don't ask about it.
sometimes curiosity really kills the cat.
you need to really ask yourself, "can you handle the truth ?"

to be honest, most people can't handle the truth.
often they will need time alone to reorganise their thoughts before proceeding with the next step.

[rudyeo1985]

hmmm well i guess more definition is needed to define "faithful".

1. does going to prostitude / ONS mean unfaithful?
2. or does keeping a mistress mean unfaithful?
3. or does keeping a mistress + treating wife badly = unfaithful?
4. does flirting (no physical) mean unfaithful?

All in all, i guess it is up to individual to define "faithful" bah...

For eg, last time when i was young, i always go club and flirt. I do find ONS and goinf for FLs. (i guess if i was rich enough, i might even 'keep' a lady as FB)

However, for my case, when i got married, i stopped all these stuffs by controlling. If i say "i have no urge at all", its a bluff. But i will force myself away from those enviornment and situations whereby i will "lose control" of myself. Now, my wife have passed away... cant deny the fact that sometimes i have a physical urge... so wat to do? Call FL lor... Do i feel that i am unfaithful? hmmm, sometimes will think about it, different people will have different answers... But for me, i think sometimes guys do have "physical urge", so i guess its not considered unfaithful ba?

To conclude, i think the level of "tolerance" needs to be communicated between you and ur husband bah... this will further strengthen your marriage? Becoz everyone have different level of definitions to this word called "faithfulness". And also you have to sometimes understand other factors... such as "does your husband work in a job where expose him to tempting environments? such as he needs to entertain clients in nightspots and stuffs?" Or "is his "physical urge very high? meaning he will prefer to do it a few times every week, even if you are not with him?" Or "is it that you and him have different definitions on faith?"

I think understanding is the key ba...
Just my 2 cents worth, no offence to any bro or sis here... =)

[kikkiboy76]

frankly, i will stick to my wife too if she can sextisfy me.

I actually have a problem here, my wife do not like sex and we have it like once a month or so. I actually feel damn sian, dunno what to do :(

Guys, frankly what would you do if you are me? We are married for bout 2 years now, i must confess i do have gf outside. Could the problem be with me that i could not turn her on? whenever i try to advance, she will come out with reasons like tired la, ticklish la etc etc...................haiz...................

Anyone out there will consider the last resort? You guys know what i mean........................

[missyrach]

hmmm well i guess more definition is needed to define "faithful".

I think understanding is the key ba...

totally agree!!!!


frankly, i will stick to my wife too if she can sextisfy me.
................

thats nice to hear.... maybe ur wifey know about ur gf, so reject ur moves? or have u tried talking to her?

[jasdude]

frankly, i will stick to my wife too if she can sextisfy me.

I actually have a problem here, my wife do not like sex and we have it like once a month or so. I actually feel damn sian, dunno what to do :(

Anyone out there will consider the last resort? You guys know what i mean........................

Try professional help ! there are sex counselors etc where ? not very sure . google for it !

[jerkmagnet]

Anybody breeds fishes? Have you all wonder why when breeding fishes we keep to a ratio of 1 male to 3 females?

[lee2001sg]

frankly, i will stick to my wife too if she can sextisfy me.

I actually have a problem here, my wife do not like sex and we have it like once a month or so. I actually feel damn sian, dunno what to do :(

Guys, frankly what would you do if you are me? We are married for bout 2 years now, i must confess i do have gf outside. Could the problem be with me that i could not turn her on? whenever i try to advance, she will come out with reasons like tired la, ticklish la etc etc...................haiz...................

Anyone out there will consider the last resort? You guys know what i mean........................

I have quite a similar problem with you. And damn, my sexdrive is so high. My solutions then were watching porn and PCC until I discovered this forum.:eek: I have been a very bad boy last year. But I promised to cut down this year. Try to discuss this with your wife. I have talked to mine and we try our best to do it every Saturday night as we do not need to work the next day. If you dare, I did jokingly said if you don't give me, then I have to eat outside. I don't know if she heed my words. Maybe she did.;)

For the sex part, you need to sextisfied your wife before she can sextisfied you. Remember, she is your wife, not FL. She doesn't get paid for this. You want it, you need to work hard for it. Work like a gigolo. Suck her nips. Lick her ears. Paint her. Light fingering. These actions will turn her on. It works for me.;)

[arsenal_84]

Suck her nips. Lick her ears. Paint her. Light fingering. These actions will turn her on. It works for me.;)

it also works on FLs...if the right buttons are activated...is very likely to be a crazy session :D

[BaoBei512]

I think it's quite normal! Hubby is 16 years older then me n got involve w someone while outstation.

But after he confess, I chose to close one eye after a big row n move on, 1 year down the road, still married. But we have more of an open marriage! I can come outright n ask him " is he sleeping around" n I do trust him when he says no.

He will also humor me if I want to check his phone, though I never done that for the past 1 yr.

I think it boils down to how many things you want to close an eye too. And do you still see the marriage working.. For me, I believe no matter what happen, he will not be the one that mention "divorce"

And he did ask me to look for lovers outside, however, I'm contended at the moment to spend time on myself!

[Nickochee]

[QUOTE=kikkiboy76;5629756] I actually have a problem here, my wife do not like sex and we have it like once a month or so. I actually feel damn sian, dunno what to do :(

Guys, frankly what would you do if you are me? We are married for bout 2 years now, i must confess i do have gf outside. Could the problem be with me that i could not turn her on? whenever i try to advance, she will come out with reasons like tired la, ticklish la etc etc...................haiz...................[QUOTE]

Sad to hear this bro. Was she like that before u guys got married? U nvr properly test drive b4 u marry her?

[kikkiboy76]

actually yes, but we being together for quite a while already, so marriage is the only thing left, thinking it might change after marriage, i am wrong. Haiz. Really lost now.............do i really need to end it and find another girl? I guess that will be the last resort.

[makemecum]

frankly, i will stick to my wife too if she can sextisfy me.

I actually have a problem here, my wife do not like sex and we have it like once a month or so. I actually feel damn sian, dunno what to do :(

Guys, frankly what would you do if you are me? We are married for bout 2 years now, i must confess i do have gf outside. Could the problem be with me that i could not turn her on? whenever i try to advance, she will come out with reasons like tired la, ticklish la etc etc...................haiz...................

Anyone out there will consider the last resort? You guys know what i mean........................

haha, i hav same prob with gf; if u solve the prob, pls tell me:D
ery x have to negotiate wan...
prev gf no such prob...meet sure go for it one...



actually yes, but we being together for quite a while already, so marriage is the only thing left, thinking it might change after marriage, i am wrong. Haiz. Really lost now.............do i really need to end it and find another girl? I guess that will be the last resort.

have to ask why u married her in the 1st place is it just sex or...
if jus sex den go find another sex partner lo; but if more then sex, u have to weigh the pros & cons ...


I think it's quite normal! Hubby is 16 years older then me n got involve w someone while outstation.

He will also humor me if I want to check his phone, though I never done that for the past 1 yr.

And he did ask me to look for lovers outside, however, I'm contended at the moment to spend time on myself!

wow 16 gap n yo hubby still flirt outside...hmm
check hp...maybe he learn how to wipe mouth after eating..:p
look for lovers...so open-minded your relationship....

[BaoBei512]

wow 16 gap n yo hubby still flirt outside...hmm
check hp...maybe he learn how to wipe mouth after eating..:p
look for lovers...so open-minded your relationship....

Lol, give & take.. nowadays, he will ask for permission to eat outside.. lol, i always tell him application pending.. well.. he can learn how to wipe mouth, but then again, it boils down to the trust issue.. i do get upset at times, but thats something he will learn how to deal with.. no one is perfect!

Once in a blue moon, i will arrange someone for a ONS for him.. as a reward. At least i know who i am arranging & its an once off thing.. and it please him too :)

[makemecum]

Lol, give & take.. nowadays, he will ask for permission to eat outside.. lol, i always tell him application pending.. well.. he can learn how to wipe mouth, but then again, it boils down to the trust issue.. i do get upset at times, but thats something he will learn how to deal with.. no one is perfect!

Once in a blue moon, i will arrange someone for a ONS for him.. as a reward. At least i know who i am arranging & its an once off thing.. and it please him too :)

arrange somemore...u pt okt huh???:confused::rolleyes:

[am55]

Once in a blue moon, i will arrange someone for a ONS for him.. as a reward. At least i know who i am arranging & its an once off thing.. and it please him too :)

wow somemore you guys are married juz got back from the US tis arrangment seem more western concept sg girls really so open minded now ???

[bfreemen]

For the same reason that gals like to have multiple pairs of shoes. :p

the average girls has 17 pairs of shoes , most guys have only 2 or 3 pairs

[BaoBei512]

arrange somemore...u pt okt huh???QUOTE]

Nope, but its once in a blue moon, so far i think only arrange twice :)

[QUOTE=am55;5641868]wow somemore you guys are married juz got back from the US tis arrangment seem more western concept sg girls really so open minded now ???

dunno, no one to compare, perhaps it just us :)

the average girls has 17 pairs of shoes , most guys have only 2 or 3 pairs

Jia Lat, i think i only got 5 pairs :P must go shop for another 12 pairs then i can hit average, haha

[bfreemen]

BaoBei , you must understand a lady can cum many times one day , but guys are very limited . we get drry up very fast .

[BaoBei512]

BaoBei , you must understand a lady can cum many times one day , but guys are very limited . we get drry up very fast .

you lost me, i am really talking about the shoes that we wear on our feet :P

[hamsapkwai]

Lol, give & take.. nowadays, he will ask for permission to eat outside.. lol, i always tell him application pending.. well.. he can learn how to wipe mouth, but then again, it boils down to the trust issue.. i do get upset at times, but thats something he will learn how to deal with.. no one is perfect!

Once in a blue moon, i will arrange someone for a ONS for him.. as a reward. At least i know who i am arranging & its an once off thing.. and it please him too :)

goodness !!! where were you when i was looking for a wife!!!! :eek:

[superbeat]

wow sis baobei512 if someday you decide to "eat outside" ur hubby got nothing to say. *salute you*

[BaoBei512]

goodness !!! where were you when i was looking for a wife!!!! :eek:

Being caught by my hubby of course :P

[serioussillyguy]

"But if its a ONS, i can understand its only a physical act. but its a repeat on the same girl.. can it be only physical act? "

Can see you have not get an answer on tis.

1. The gals can provide what u cant provide to yr hubby; example: good sex which can satisfy him.
2. Your hubby besides physical acts, he's alreadi engage in emotional acts with that gal, means he already fall in love with that gal besides having sex.

Guys & Gals r same animals, can always love many at same time. Just that guys wants their wives to accept their unfaithful acts, but guys cant never accept their wives got unfaithful acts.

Also, dun ever expects your hubby to tell u what he did outside liked having ONS those matters...

When came to confess unfaithful matters which can hurts and damage a relationship,
Guys r very rational in this. they will only tell 'lies with good intention'...

[serioussillyguy]

[QUOTE=kikkiboy76;5636906]actually yes, but we being together for quite a while already, so marriage is the only thing left, thinking it might ...

(a)Your should have a good talk with your wife & find out what's really goes wrong...thus u will know how to 'repair' the relationship or to ends it

If before u married, u r having a good sex relationship with your wife, that's no reasons your wife will acts in this way now to u.

1. If you have children, heavy houseworks,stress & tireness from workplace(if she's got to work too)
might have caused her to lose interest in having sex.

Also after woman give birth, is normal for most woman to lose interest in love-making session & thus some husband begins to 'eat' ouside more often n also becos some want to feel virginal tight as never give birth b4 ma, hee hee

2. If 2 of u still have no children at time being, since u got gf, she's also possible to have bf ma. So refer to (a)

[hamsapkwai]

Being caught by my hubby of course :P

Damn!! some people have all the luck! :o

[teebs_darklord]

Damn!! some people have all the luck! :o

I thought u have a lot of luck also??? :D