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smoking rabbit
08-02-2011, 11:35 PM
i am a good looking and kind person.i know if i go after girls,i stand a good chance to bed them.but i do not want to.i feel so not motivated to woo girls...you know,all the stuffs.dinners,talks,walk in the park...

and i do not want to play with anyone feelings.being nice just to sex her?i rather pay.

i am going thro a shit time too.using paid sex to escape,to be selfish and being serviced to feel good.i try to be nice too the paid girls too,no rough shit etc.i do not feel anything to women now but only the bodily pleasures.i am sick of the thing call love.love can make you feel angry,pain,depressed every single day.

paid girls want money,i want their bodies.win win.

teebs_darklord
09-02-2011, 10:40 AM
i am a good looking and kind person.i know if i go after girls,i stand a good chance to bed them.but i do not want to.i feel so not motivated to woo girls...you know,all the stuffs.dinners,talks,walk in the park...

and i do not want to play with anyone feelings.being nice just to sex her?i rather pay.

i am going thro a shit time too.using paid sex to escape,to be selfish and being serviced to feel good.i try to be nice too the paid girls too,no rough shit etc.i do not feel anything to women now but only the bodily pleasures.i am sick of the thing call love.love can make you feel angry,pain,depressed every single day.

paid girls want money,i want their bodies.win win.

So the point of this post is:

You think you look like Bratt Pitt, you think you have a 120 inch chest, 60 inch biceps, 40 inch triceps and while other people can only get a 6 pack, you have a 60 pack and you have a 20 inch long dick with circumference of 10 inches...and that's why you believe that if you open your mouth, gals will queue from Changi Village to Tuas to go to bed with you...:D

But you do not want to do this because you are a nice guy and you prefer to pay for sex with either FLs or WLs.

So frankly, what is the point of this post??? :p

icybabiex99
09-02-2011, 10:49 AM
lols funny guy...
i go for paid sex because im not gd looking
n never got a girlfriend before hahaha !
but ur reason even cute than me ~

kick_ass
09-02-2011, 10:58 AM
hmmm, TS hv u thought abt ur not as good as u think u are?
If ur really good, gals will throw themselves to you watever selfish reason they hv. forget abt the walks, diner or movies.
look at hugh hefner, he is 85 but many bunny gals are lining for him:rolleyes:
based on ur post, it seems u were being played out by a gal before?

alan0338
09-02-2011, 11:47 AM
chey, want to kio kuay say la... find so many excuses for wat? nobody here will care one la...:D

GeMiNiZzzzZzz
09-02-2011, 01:02 PM
All the things i want to say all the bros above say already.........so whats the point of my post huh :eek::D

Ichigo_Kurosaki
09-02-2011, 01:43 PM
i am a good looking and kind person.i know if i go after girls,i stand a good chance to bed them.but i do not want to.i feel so not motivated to woo girls...you know,all the stuffs.dinners,talks,walk in the park...

and i do not want to play with anyone feelings.being nice just to sex her?i rather pay.

i am going thro a shit time too.using paid sex to escape,to be selfish and being serviced to feel good.i try to be nice too the paid girls too,no rough shit etc.i do not feel anything to women now but only the bodily pleasures.i am sick of the thing call love.love can make you feel angry,pain,depressed every single day.

paid girls want money,i want their bodies.win win.

Dearest Smoking (Hot) and (Cute) Rabbit,

I guess from a young age you knew you were different from the other guys and you've probably been brought up thinking that everyone, including yourself, is straight. You always thought you were the only one who felt like this and there was no one who understood and that you would just keep it to yourself

Loads of people will be attracted to someone of the same gender at some time in their lives. Some people might act on this, some people don't even admit it. But it's a very common thing - so don't worry, working out you are gay will probably take a long time, and may involve very difficult feelings as you mentioned in your thread.

Don't try to escape from it, just go with the flow! We do not discriminate on the basis of race, religion, national origin, color, sex, age or sexual orientation.

It is our intention in this forum to help Sisters and Brothers :D Do continue to engage FL or WL till your sort out your preferences cos this is one of the main revenue in keeping this great super forum alive till now. :p

I really feel sorry for all the local girls cos there is 1 less Good Looking and Kind Hearted guy that's not in the dating game and thank you too, for giving us an extra opportunity of 1-less competitor in the local scene cos not only we are not good looking but not kind too and That's Why We Pay For Sex!

agoodfellahk
09-02-2011, 02:06 PM
Someone once summed up the topic of "paid sex" brilliantly:

"I don't pay them for sex. I pay them to leave"

No strings, no headache, no drama. That's why I do it.

-

JBCheongster
09-02-2011, 02:30 PM
TS,
Yaaaaa riteeeee, we know you are HAMSOME and can EASILY bed any girls you want....So beri good for you loh...So, happy boh....
:rolleyes:

superbeat
09-02-2011, 02:34 PM
my thoughts

paid sex can make you happy,
only if your wallet is full of money,
you can service by the young and pretty,
even if you are fat and ugly . :D

Mak YoYo
09-02-2011, 02:35 PM
I haven't had sex with my wife for 2 years. She has no sex drive. I would pay for it yes

simon69
09-02-2011, 02:45 PM
i am a good looking and kind person.i know if i go after girls,i stand a good chance to bed them.but i do not want to.i feel so not motivated to woo girls...you know,all the stuffs.dinners,talks,walk in the park...

and i do not want to play with anyone feelings.being nice just to sex her?i rather pay.

i am going thro a shit time too.using paid sex to escape,to be selfish and being serviced to feel good.i try to be nice too the paid girls too,no rough shit etc.i do not feel anything to women now but only the bodily pleasures.i am sick of the thing call love.love can make you feel angry,pain,depressed every single day.

paid girls want money,i want their bodies.win win.


Ya Lor very funny post lay.
For me i pay for sex is dun want to have any relationship with any girls just wanna have fun and fuck off if good can visit them a few more time. I always have to remember I have a family myself cannot get anyone else to break it. I believe some bros will think that I am bad but I think it's normal for a guy to fuck outside but remember dun bring it home.

smoking rabbit
09-02-2011, 05:12 PM
please not get me wrong friends.i am not boasting or so.actually i think most guys can get girls and totally need not to visit pros at all.i do think there are many reasons why we pay girls for sex.maybe it is so easy??we are so lazy to woo girls?maybe it is addictive?like gambling,once you are hook to the pleasures of it,you just keep doing it again and again?is it good for our souls and morality?i tried to stop,but failed.especially when you are down,you head right to GY to buy some instant pleasure.and yes,like one bro said,want to call chicken,call chicken la....sometimes it is so.pure animal need to procreate.thank you.

hamsapkwai
09-02-2011, 05:42 PM
TS,
Yaaaaa riteeeee, we know you are HAMSOME and can EASILY bed any girls you want....So beri good for you loh...So, happy boh....
:rolleyes:

haha i think thats the point of the whole post :)

makemecum
09-02-2011, 10:24 PM
me dun "wan" pay for sex but lan lan no free one cos i ol liao
pple say i gd looking but i take it with pinch of salt cos in real life pple dun say wat they mean ya...hahaha

its mo exciting & sextisfying if one can chase n bed the gal, bros out there agree?

paid sex have only 1 motive...no string attached...
altho paid sex can be quite ex unless u r like some bros who frequents joints every other day one...
but then again the so call non-paid sex (upfront) can become a long term liability...

fazer6s
09-02-2011, 10:38 PM
i am a good looking and kind person


please not get me wrong friends.i am not boasting or so

Sure you're not :rolleyes:

Care to post your pixs for FL ,WL and etc to ogle your good looks

Caduceus
09-02-2011, 11:50 PM
TS, sounds like you have had a failed relationship and is both too scarred and jaded to go for another commited relationship. You still have your urges and while you cannot have any emotional connections, you feel compensated by the choices available to you by your finances to some extent.

In short, you appear to be seeking public justification for your behaviours rather than looking for common ground. Paid sex is paid sex, there are always reasons for guys looking for it but at the end of the day, those reasons do not matter unless you want to soothe your conscience.

watmidoin
10-02-2011, 12:24 PM
pay sex can play many many many many different ger. want young got young want milf got milf want china got china want local got local want ol got ol want student got student. i not smooth talker. go clubbing spend money end is ownself take cab go home pcc. money spend kio kuey more efficient. same as sg zeng hu. spend money muz got efficient. $80 go clubbing + pcc or $80 get to fuck chio kuey. no brain also can know.

Theaon
10-02-2011, 12:41 PM
Paid sex is paid sex, there are always reasons for guys looking for it but at the end of the day, those reasons do not matter unless you want to soothe your conscience.

Well said Bro.

orneryjoe
11-02-2011, 01:38 AM
In the end ALL men pay for sex in one way or another. Dates, presents... even marriage, children can all add up to quite a lot over time. Not just financial costs but also effort and emotional costs. Of course, the rewards can sometimes be good too. But after a time...

With paid sex, one gets to enjoy a variety of nubile ladies with minimal effort. The instant gratification is very addictive. That is why once started along this road, it is very difficult to switch paths.

Glidiator
11-02-2011, 03:55 AM
The Rule is F&F, Fu*k & Forget. But remember soom or later you may need someone that care about in from her bottom of her heart. Always care you in any situation and givr u kids for ur next generation. This u cannot get ftom the commercial scene.

K9696
11-02-2011, 02:03 PM
i am a good looking and kind person.i know if i go after girls,i stand a good chance to bed them.but i do not want to.i feel so not motivated to woo girls...you know,all the stuffs.dinners,talks,walk in the park...

and i do not want to play with anyone feelings.being nice just to sex her?i rather pay.

i am going thro a shit time too.using paid sex to escape,to be selfish and being serviced to feel good.i try to be nice too the paid girls too,no rough shit etc.i do not feel anything to women now but only the bodily pleasures.i am sick of the thing call love.love can make you feel angry,pain,depressed every single day.

paid girls want money,i want their bodies.win win.

Dear TS.. why SMOKE so much!! your name already said, YOU ARE SMOKING liao.. so the rest is HISTORICAL.... case closed...:mad::(

HCKing
11-02-2011, 02:08 PM
i am a good looking and kind person.i know if i go after girls,i stand a good chance to bed them.but i do not want to.i feel so not motivated to woo girls...you know,all the stuffs.dinners,talks,walk in the park...


TS sorry to disappoint u but goodlooking and kind person doesnt stand a good chance to bed girls. in reality, its the ugly and bad guy who does.:D

my only advice is to polish up yr sian char bo skills if u need a gf so stop dreaming and start working!

Ichigo_Kurosaki
11-02-2011, 02:22 PM
TS sorry to disappoint u but goodlooking and kind person doesnt stand a good chance to bed girls. in reality, its the ugly and bad guy who does.:D

my only advice is to polish up yr sian char bo skills if u need a gf so stop dreaming and start working!

Ha-ha. TS said he is not motivated to sian girls. Perhaps he think that since he is good looking and kind, girls should flock to him like seagulls and begging to be laid. :D Then again, A moon looks beautiful when it's full but I can understand why Neil Armstrong was so disappointed when he landed on it back in 1969 :p

HCKing
11-02-2011, 02:22 PM
please not get me wrong friends.i am not boasting or so.actually i think most guys can get girls and totally need not to visit pros at all.i do think there are many reasons why we pay girls for sex.maybe it is so easy??we are so lazy to woo girls?maybe it is addictive?like gambling,once you are hook to the pleasures of it,you just keep doing it again and again?is it good for our souls and morality?i tried to stop,but failed.especially when you are down,you head right to GY to buy some instant pleasure.and yes,like one bro said,want to call chicken,call chicken la....sometimes it is so.pure animal need to procreate.thank you.

girlfriends are for loving, not fucking. pros are for fucking, not loving. mixed up these 2 and u r screwed!

yes there r guys who find girlfriends just for fucking but ultimately they will end up with the same emptiness one felt in commercial sex cos as human beings we have emotional needs in addition to physical needs. guys can only be satisfied when both the emotional and physical needs are fulfilled. if the girlfriend can only provide the emotional part, the physical part will have to be fulfilled by pros or FB or ONS, one way or another.

HCKing
11-02-2011, 02:27 PM
Ha-ha. TS said he is not motivated to sian girls. Perhaps he think that since he is good looking and kind, girls should flock to him like seagulls and begging to be laid. :D

hehe TS not motivated to sian girls but very motivated to pay for sex. strange world hor.:D

smoking rabbit
11-02-2011, 02:33 PM
Come on bros,tell me.Wooing girls can be very tiring and boring right.the stuffs that girls give you....yes,no yes no...this and that..

so,i am kind of sick of girls and the shit they put you up.even after you bed them,also a lot of shit coming along.

so,now unless the girl is really whom i like very very very much,i put my heart into it.orelse it is still the pros,wham bang thank you madam.take their body they take my money.

been thinking,another top reason is that i feel i am addicted.when rest days come,automatically think of finding pros.shit.it is bad.i do not how much i spent on the pros.....a big sum.one day,i am stopping.one day........ha

Crius
11-02-2011, 03:04 PM
If you are attached, of course there is commitments and responsibility. It's not that you sick of relationships, just that you are not ready for commitments only. Everyone wants different things at different times, it's normal. If you are happy the way being single now, good for you. It's just all in the mindset.

HCKing
11-02-2011, 03:23 PM
Come on bros,tell me.Wooing girls can be very tiring and boring right.the stuffs that girls give you....yes,no yes no...this and that..

so,i am kind of sick of girls and the shit they put you up.even after you bed them,also a lot of shit coming along.

so,now unless the girl is really whom i like very very very much,i put my heart into it.orelse it is still the pros,wham bang thank you madam.take their body they take my money.

been thinking,another top reason is that i feel i am addicted.when rest days come,automatically think of finding pros.shit.it is bad.i do not how much i spent on the pros.....a big sum.one day,i am stopping.one day........ha

if love is really wat u need u wont be starting this thread since u claimed u r goodlooking n kind and would have no problem getting a girl of your choice to love. like i said earlier, to u wooing girls can be tiring and boring cos u lack the skills. if u r willing to make an effort to polish yr sian char bo skills things will be very different from what u think. if not, no matter hw goodlooking n kind u claimed u r u will not get to bed the babes u sexually desired and will still be taking the shortcut route again and again: to pay for them.

Softcore
13-02-2011, 09:03 PM
and i do not want to play with anyone feelings.being nice just to sex her?i rather pay.


This line of thinking is extremely hazardous to your mental health. Women crave for excitement and sex (best if both are packaged together!) - if you can give it to them, you ARE NOT playing with her feelings!

jnudes
16-02-2011, 01:26 AM
i pay becoz i am still single and i need sex to relieve myself. If i go to bar and ask for ons the chance are usually pretty slim becoz pretty gal normally have bf following them. i pay for sex because i can get much better service than the ons girls and 100% safe, free from potential blackmailing by the ons girl later on.

dustzee
16-02-2011, 02:54 AM
So the point of this post is:

You think you look like Bratt Pitt, you think you have a 120 inch chest, 60 inch biceps, 40 inch triceps and while other people can only get a 6 pack, you have a 60 pack and you have a 20 inch long dick with circumference of 10 inches...and that's why you believe that if you open your mouth, gals will queue from Changi Village to Tuas to go to bed with you...:D

But you do not want to do this because you are a nice guy and you prefer to pay for sex with either FLs or WLs.

So frankly, what is the point of this post??? :p

Haha. I just gotta say this is a good one. Sarcasm at its best!

dustzee
16-02-2011, 10:58 AM
My reason is absurd.

I paid for sex a few times out of curiosity (and everytime I tried different things). To be honest, I haven't been interesting in bed and so I thought I would train with a professional while I'm single. I justify that it would make me a more interesting person.

And I think to some extend, it helps. But that might just be my self justification :)

makemecum
18-02-2011, 10:08 PM
My reason is absurd.

I paid for sex a few times out of curiosity (and everytime I tried different things). To be honest, I haven't been interesting in bed and so I thought I would train with a professional while I'm single. I justify that it would make me a more interesting person.

And I think to some extend, it helps. But that might just be my self justification :)

go read karma sutra

wongyockkooi
20-02-2011, 09:42 AM
The desire for Sex can be very destructive

when we have paid sex , it becomes a cause for committing so many other destructive actions. For example, we have to lie about our affair. We may even have to kill or steal if somebody starts to blackmail us about it, so that they don't tell our families or cause us to lose our job or a divorce and all the problems that go with it.