My Girlfriend's ONS

[takeout]

These events happened many many years ago.
I’m not seeking a closure or anything, but I had some doubts and questions about the incident.
It’ll be great if the bro involved can tell his side of the story or shed some light on this event.
But anyway, just like to share it with all the bros & sis here.
We’ll have the usual Q&A at the end of the story.. haha.

I met my GF ‘S’ when I was in my 3rd year poly while she’s working as a retail asst in a boutique in town. After dating for 4 months, we finally took each other’s virginity.

That evening, we had the house to ourselves.
We were watching some VCDs on my computer and one thing leads to another, we started to make out.
Prior to this nite, I’ve fondled and sucked on her B cups boobs and caressed her pussy countless of time already. But tonite, I’m determined to go all the way.
After stripping off her clothes, my mouth attacked her boobs while my fingers were rubbing on her clit.
Within minutes, she’s practically soaking.
I think that’s the norm for a 19 year old girl.

So I quickly pull off my shorts & underwear and position myself between her legs.
Suddenly S opened her eyes and looked at me, and at the same time, put her palm on my chest and said: wait, do you think we should really do this?
In my mind I was like: WTF?! Of course we should do it!
But obviously what I said was: I really like you. I want this special moment of mine to belong to you. To belong to us.
Sensing no resistance and no response from her, I just pushed my dick into her pussy.
I only managed to push in the head when she grimaced and said: wait, wait, pain, pain.
So I hover myself above her while waiting for the pain to subside.
At this moment, we’re joined only by the tip of my dick to her pussy.
So to complete the full circle, I put my lips onto hers and start to kiss her.
As she starts to response to the kisses, I continued my assault.
I pulled out a little and then just pushed right through.
I could feel the hymen give way and suddenly, I’m all the way in.
At the same time, she grabbed my shoulders onto her lips and let out a muffled scream.
After a while when I sensed that she has relaxed her fingers from my shoulder, I pushed myself up a little so that I could look at her face.
Her eyes were closed and she’s breathing heavily.
Me: are you ok?
S: yes, I’m fine. Just a bit pain.
So I started to kiss her again, and I started to move my dick in & out of her pussy.

It’s at this moment that I know that I can never live without a pussy after this.
The feeling is a 100x better than PCC!!
Stroking and sucking on boobs is good.
Fingering and licking pussy is great.
But this is out of this world!! Holy Shit!!

After pistoning in and out of her for a few mins, I had my first orgasm in a pussy.
We laid there for awhile then she pushed me off her.
When my dick pop out from her pussy, it’s covered with sperm and blood.
I quickly took the tissues to wipe at her pussy and my dick, but a lot had leaked onto the bed sheet already.
After cleaning up, we lie down and hugged each other.
S: did you like it?
Me: of course. It was great.
S: but will I get pregnant?
Me: (Oh shit!) erm… I dunno.
Well, I got lucky. Her menses came a few days later.
But those were some mother f%*king long few days.
I’m ain't no gonna be a 20 year old dad?!
Hell, I’ve haven’t even got enlisted into NS yet!?

After that, we would have regular sex about 3-4 times a week.
But this time, I’m not taking any chances.
We used condoms during her unsafe period, and raw during other times but I’ll cum on her stomach and boobs.

Then I got enlisted. :mad:

[owl888]

TS, no risk no gain......but u got lucky :)

Pls camping 4 more!

[naturegreen]

Joining in the camp. Do tell us more soon.

[joew2005]

hi ts,so is tis thread abt u & yr gf's sexual exploring ... or abt yr gf's ONS ??

[ubikayu]

hi ts,so is tis thread abt u & yr gf's sexual exploring ... or abt yr gf's ONS ??
Ya lor
I continued reading cos I though his gf was already not a virgin and had a ONS before.

[takeout]

Hi guys,

Haha, this 1st part is the back story of how S became my gf.
So it's quite misleading from the title..
Sorry abt that.. Haha..

I think you know what will happen when I'm serving my BMT/NS.
Anyway, thanks guys, for all the interest.
I'll post the rest of my story when I get back tonite.

[GeMiNiZzzzZzz]

Maybe this is just a start-up in the writing.

Guess something happen when TS got enlisted right ;)

[takeout]

Then I got enlisted.
Anyone who has gone through this period with a girlfriend will know that the probability of her leaving you is pretty high. At least this is my own observation.. haha.
First, you’ll only get to see her or talk to her during the weekends.
Then, your miserable allowance of about $200 from SAF.
Like that how to survive, how to have girlfriend…
I can still remember the following events clearly.
It was a Thursday when she send me off at CMPB for my BMT at Nee Soon Camp.
The first weekend is definitely burned.
The second weekend is the visiting day.
The third weekend is our first book out.

So during the 1st weekend Saturday nite, I queued up like everyone else to call our loved ones before lights out.
When the call was answered, it was her mom.
She said S won’t be back tonite, she’s staying over at her friend’s place.
WTF!! Which friend’s place? We’ve been together for so long and she has only stayed over at my place.
So where is she now? Saying I’m feeling pissed is probably an understatement.
She knows that I’m stuck in Nee Soon Camp and she’s not even at home to wait for my call?
The following week was quite a nightmare.
Daytime, you kenna tekan by your SGT/PTI physically.
Nighttime, you kenna drained by the assumed betrayal emotionally.
Of course at that time, it’s just my imagination.
She could be staying overnight with her GFs, or whatever… I have no clue what happened.

The visiting day couldn’t come quickly enough.

[takeout]

The visiting day couldn’t come quickly enough.
It was my poly mate(being my 1st friend to arrive) that check me out of my dorm.
A while later, a few more came and we have a great chat about the training, my botak head, etc..
Then S came with my family.
She looked at me and just smiled. Standing a distance from me.
My mom ask me how’s the food… blah blah blah..
My auntie ask me how’s the training… blah blah blah..
I can’t wait for them to go back so that I can talk to S.
Finally, they’re leaving. S told them she’ll stay here with me till the end of the visiting time and she’ll go back on her own.
After everyone left, we went to a quiet corner and sat down.
Obviously, our SGT had already warn us, no kissing, no hanky panky…
So I sat there and waited for her to speak.
S: I’ve something to tell you.
Me: Yah, what is it?
S: I went out with W. He wants me to be his girlfriend.
Me: ………..
S: I was at his place that nite when you called. My mom told me.
Me: ………..
S: But nothing happened. We only kissed.
Me: ………..
S: I still love you. I wanna be with you. I won’t see him again.
Me: ………..
S: Aren’t you gonna say something?
Me: What do you mean nothing happened? But you kissed him?!
S: I’m sorry. I won’t see him again.
Me: ………..
After that, we just sat there silently till I have to go back to our dorm.
Just before I leave, I turned towards her and said,
Me: Alright, I’ll see you when I book out next week. Take care of yourself.
S came over and hugged me.
S: I love you. And I missed you. I’ll be at you place next week waiting for you.

There goes another horrendous week.
This time, it’s no imagination.
It’s the real thing.
So many things is going through my mind.
You spent the night at his place and you did nothing?! Only kissed?! How is it possible?!
And most importantly, why the hell did you go to his place?!
Sigh……….

The following weekend is book out day! Yippee!!

[takeout]

The visiting day couldn’t come quickly enough.
It was my poly mate(being my 1st friend to arrive) that check me out of my dorm.
A while later, a few more came and we have a great chat about the training, my botak head, etc..
Then S came with my family.
She looked at me and just smiled. Standing a distance from me.
My mom ask me how’s the food… blah blah blah..
My auntie ask me how’s the training… blah blah blah..
I can’t wait for them to go back so that I can talk to S.
Finally, they’re leaving. S told them she’ll stay here with me till the end of the visiting time and she’ll go back on her own.
After everyone left, we went to a quiet corner and sat down.
Obviously, our SGT had already warn us, no kissing, no hanky panky…
So I sat there and waited for her to speak.
S: I’ve something to tell you.
Me: Yah, what is it?
S: I went out with W. He wants me to be his girlfriend.
Me: ………..
S: I was at his place that nite when you called. My mom told me.
Me: ………..
S: But nothing happened. We only kissed.
Me: ………..
S: I still love you. I wanna be with you. I won’t see him again.
Me: ………..
S: Aren’t you gonna say something?
Me: What do you mean nothing happened? But you kissed him?!
S: I’m sorry. I won’t see him again.
Me: ………..
After that, we just sat there silently till I have to go back to our dorm.
Just before I leave, I turned towards her and said,
Me: Alright, I’ll see you when I book out next week. Take care of yourself.
S came over and hugged me.
S: I love you. And I missed you. I’ll be at you place next week waiting for you.

There goes another horrendous week.
This time, it’s no imagination.
It’s the real thing.
So many things is going through my mind.
You spent the night at his place and you did nothing?! Only kissed?! How is it possible?!
And most importantly, why the hell did you go to his place?!
Sigh……….

The following weekend is book out day! Yippee!!

[takeout]

The following weekend is book out day! Yippee!!
We get to book out on a Friday evening! Wow!
My mom came to pick me up and told me S is waiting at home.
So she drove me back while telling me she has cooked my fav dish: Char Kuay Teow!
This time when S saw me, she was beaming from cheek to cheek.
She came over to hug me and then took my bags to the room.
She came out with my clothes and towel.
S: quick, quick. Go bath already then can eat your mom’s most happening Char Kuay Teow.

After finishing off all the food, everyone sat in the living to catch up with me.
So I entertained them with the usual army life stories…
Then at about 11pm, everyone returned to their own rooms to watch TV/sleep.

The moment the door is locked, S pounced on me like a sex-deprived slut. Hahaha..
She was pulling off my t-shirt, shorts, everything…
We were both naked in no time.
We had sex 3 times that nite. It was great. It was wonderful.
Everything seems forgiven and forgotten.
But at the back of my head, I’m waiting for the right time to pull the trigger.
Who in the right frame of mind would reject free pussy?!
Moreover, I’m serving my NS now.
I’m not in an ideal position to look for someone new yet.
I’ll bide my time.
In the meantime, just enjoy a 19 year old pussy.
You ain’t gonna get that in 10-20 years time.. haha.

Fast forward to 2 years later…

[takeout]

Fast forward to 2 years later…
I’m gonna ROD soon.
I’ve already secured a job with a construction company.
I’ll be starting work 2 weeks after the end of my NS.
The day has come for me to confront S about THAT night.

We were having sex and talking dirty to one another.
Me: So, did you like it better when I f%&k you raw? Uhm… uhm…
S: Yes… uhm.. uhm.. it feels so much more comfortable..
S: Condom burns my inside when you pump in and out too fast… uhm.. uhm..
Me: So, last time did you and your ex-bf use condom when you f%&k? uhm..
S: uhm.. Of course lah…. uhm.. uhm.. (oops…)
Suddenly, she opened her eyes and looked at me. She knew she has been caught.
I just smiled at her and continue pumping more vigorously into her.
A little back story.
She had 2 other bf before me, but those were school days innocent kind.
Only hold hands and she kissed the second bf. She told me all these when we dated.
I was her third bf and I took her virginity as previously mentioned in the early parts of this story.
So there’s no way she has an ex-bf that she had sex with!
It has to be W!

[maxiJ]

nice story :D

[SaSuK3]

Fast forward to 2 years later…
So there’s no way she has an ex-bf that she had sex with!
It has to be W!



wah ... bro ... i think in ur mind u was like .... alot of fire burning up ur head ... u still can smile at tat time ... really thumbs up for u ... n can wait for 2 years to ask her abt tat ... if is last time mi , ill go n whack the guy ... but now de mi , ill KILL OR CUT TAT ASSHOLE DICK N STUFF IT IN HER MOUTH !!! lolx ... jk ... ;):D

[joew2005]

ohh ..... so S had a fling with W !!!
u veri good in endurance, k wait 4 2 yrs later then go 4 the kill.

[tomvoyeur]

ONS (unpaid) is exciting experience. 2nd only to the acquisition of an FB. :)

[takeout]

Hi bro SaSuK3 & joew2005,

It's not that my endurance is so good or i don't wanna whack that guy.
But i analysed the situation and found that i'm at a disadvantage position.
W is a civilian. I'm serving NS. Green IC, i lose.
At that point in time, i'm only suspecting something MORE happened.
And most importantly, i would have dumped S immediately if i was in any other situation(during Poly or working as temp before NS).
But i just got my head shaved a little more than a week ago.
How to sian chabo looking like that? hahaha...

So how?
So let her service me for the duration of my NS lah.. ha

[takeout]

It has to be W!
Me: It’s ok. It’s W, right?
Me: It happened so long ago already. I’m not pissed or anything.
Me: Look… I’m even turn on by the thought that you have f%&ked him.
Me: Can you feel that my dick is even harder now…
Me: Wanna tell me what happened?
S: Yes, we had sex. I lied to you last time.
Ahhhh….. I sprayed my cum into her pussy…
As we lay there panting, she continued..
S: But we only did it once.
S: When I told you about him, I have no more contact with him already.
S: I’m sorry I lied to you. Will you forgive me?
Me: I will forgive you if you tell me everything.
Me: Right from the beginning when you met him till the day you last contact or see him.
Me: Fair enough?
S: Yes..

As the story is told by her, I’ll narrate it from her point of view.
This is her story.

[naturegreen]

There's always hidden secrets behind everyone's past that we try our best not to let others know. Cfm + chop. And I'm one of them too. :D

[evantoh]

There's always hidden secrets behind everyone's past that we try our best not to let others know. Cfm + chop. And I'm one of them too. :D

The second one is here. :)
Sometimes, better not to tell. Truth hurts!

[takeout]

Hi bro naturegreen & evantoh,

Yah, i agree that what you don't know can't hurt you, and the truth hurts. haha
But since she has already confirmed my suspicion, i just wanted to know.

Also the fact is i'm really not pissed about the incident anymore.
After being with her for 3 years liao, sure got feelings wan mah.
How to fake for so long.. hahaha..

Everyone has their own dark secrets.
It's how you can manipulate them to tell you..:D

Information is powerful, but too much of it, it would become a curse.

[xAhKingx]

bro please carry on the story man !!!

[joew2005]

谁没有过去 ! !

Past is history,future is a mystery - 过去是历史,将来是神秘

[siaokia55]

continue??????:confused:

[xiaosiong]

bro,


i cant wait for you to continue!

great job!

[takeout]

This is her story.
I met W when I was temporary transferred to another branch for 2 weeks.
He is the same age as you(that’s me), year of the ox and he is working here temporary before going off to university.
He seems to be a friendly guy so we had lunch together regularly throughout the whole period.
So at the end of my temporary posting, he asked for my number so that we can keep in contact.
After that, we would chat on the phone a few times a week at night.
As he knows that I have a boyfriend already, so he didn’t try to ask me out.

During one of the conversation, I mentioned that you will be going off to serve NS soon.
So is there anything or anyway I can help you prepare for the BMT.
I asked W for advice because he has already finished serving his NS.
W said that it’s just 3 months of training. No need to worry too much.
After the initial 3 weeks, you should be able to book out every weekend.

So after sending you off on that Thursday morning, I was feeling very down.
I was crying badly as I know that I could only see you the next weekend.
This is the first time since we were together that we will be apart for so many days.
That night, W called me and we chat on the phone.
He tried to cheer me up and I felt better towards the end of the call.
Before hanging up, he asked if I will be free on Saturday.
Maybe he could meet me and spend some time with me so that I won’t feel so down.
I told him I’m not working this weekend so I could meet him.
W: Alright then, I’ll see you Saturday afternoon.

[jinjin26]

This is her story.
I met W when I was temporary transferred to another branch for 2 weeks.
He is the same age as you(that’s me), year of the ox and he is working here temporary before going off to university.
He seems to be a friendly guy so we had lunch together regularly throughout the whole period.
So at the end of my temporary posting, he asked for my number so that we can keep in contact.
After that, we would chat on the phone a few times a week at night.
As he knows that I have a boyfriend already, so he didn’t try to ask me out.

During one of the conversation, I mentioned that you will be going off to serve NS soon.
So is there anything or anyway I can help you prepare for the BMT.
I asked W for advice because he has already finished serving his NS.
W said that it’s just 3 months of training. No need to worry too much.
After the initial 3 weeks, you should be able to book out every weekend.

So after sending you off on that Thursday morning, I was feeling very down.
I was crying badly as I know that I could only see you the next weekend.
This is the first time since we were together that we will be apart for so many days.
That night, W called me and we chat on the phone.
He tried to cheer me up and I felt better towards the end of the call.
Before hanging up, he asked if I will be free on Saturday.
Maybe he could meet me and spend some time with me so that I won’t feel so down.
I told him I’m not working this weekend so I could meet him.
W: Alright then, I’ll see you Saturday afternoon.
Great story.. Had a similar experience thou it wasn't in ns. She said the same thing, just a kiss.. But till date unable to dig the truth out.. Lol bonking her while under the influence of alcohol was unsucessful as well.. So like some said sometime not knowing the truth is better...

Keep up the story..

And how do I up u??

Still new to the forum..

Thanks...

[SaSuK3]

So how?
So let her service me for the duration of my NS lah.. ha

bro ... u r very luckly tat tat there is a girrl to serve u ... i had rs during my ns time but kena zhao sai lo ... tml ... lolz ...

[SaSuK3]

There's always hidden secrets behind everyone's past that we try our best not to let others know. Cfm + chop. And I'm one of them too. :D

hey hey ... im the another one too ... cause u can know mi as this way but there is things tat no one knows .... haas

[CyberRod]

Ahhhh….. I sprayed my cum into her pussy…


She on pill...?

[BenQ]

This is what we call 兵变

[clmx26]

I felt that S has had more than a ONS with W. Judging from the way u describe ur steamy affair during book out. If a gal is un-virginated by u, and suddenly happened to be so wild on bed, then there is a need to understand what causes it.

just my two cents worth.

[takeout]

W: Alright then, I’ll see you Saturday afternoon.

We met up on Saturday afternoon in woodlands as he lived in this area.
After shopping around for a few hours, W suggested going over to his place for dinner.
His mom and maid were at home when we arrived.
W told me his parents are divorced, so he’s staying with his mom.
He introduced me as his ex-colleague.
The maid prepared the meal and then all of us sat down for dinner together.
After dinner, his mom left for work.

So we went to his room to watch TV.
W then said since I’m not working on Sunday, why don’t I stay over tonite.
I decided it’s ok so I called home and told my mother that I’m staying over at a friend’s place.
Throughout the night while we watched TV and chat, W would crack some jokes to cheer me up.
When we became tired, we fell asleep on his bed.
Nothing happened.We didn’t do anything.

Next morning after breakfast, we went out shopping again.
After walking around for awhile, W held me hand.
I let him hold my hand and we’re now walking around like any other dating couple.
Hours later, we were tired from the shopping so W said to go back to his house to rest.
We reached his place and his mom is back from work but she’s sleeping in her room.
So after getting something to drink, we went to his room.

W asked me if I’ve seen a R(A) movie before.
I told him no, not 21 yet.
He said he has a VCD, so do I wanna watch it.
Well, since I haven’t seen any before so I told him ok.

The movie is the HK Cat(3) period drama.
It’s about the story of a scholar and a few fox spirits.

So we sat down on the bed and watched the movie.

[takeout]

Hi bro jinjin26,

I'm new to the forum too, so i have no idea nor do i care about those points and power.
Thanks for trying to up me though, appreciate it. :)

Well, in my case, it easier to assume things because S had only 2 earlier non-sexual relationship.
The moment she admitted that she used condom with her ex-bf, all the pieces just fall in place.

If you don't mind sharing your story with the bros here, maybe one of us could come up with some advice on how to squeeze the truth?
But ultimately, if the girl is very strong minded, it'll be almost impossible to find out anything.


Hi bro SaSuk3,

I guessed i swallowed my pride in exchange for having her to be around me during my NS.
Like most bros here said, they would have whack W and ended the relationship.
Btw, what is : i had rs during my ns time....


Hi bro CyberRod,

S started using the pill for about 2-3 months before that encounter whereby i asked her the fateful question.
That's why i was able to slip in the questions about doing raw as compared to using condom. hahaha...


Hi bro clmx26,

I have the same thoughts as you.
There were quite a few unbelievable 'loopholes' in her story..
But i'll just have to take it at face value..

[pussluver]

bro, mine also zao sai when i am in NS.... futher more the fucker used to be my best friend.... ccb....

[playboy82]

bro, mine also zao sai when i am in NS.... futher more the fucker used to be my best friend.... ccb....

can share your story? will up u..

[jinjin26]

Hi take out.. Haha man somehow or rather I choose to let that issue go... As mention, sometimes knowing the truth may not be the answer I'm looking for... And it was the start of a rs when it happen...

But pls continue ur story...

[sexmatrix03]

Bro, your story reminded me so much about what happened to me too.

She simply refuse to tell me anything, we broke up and then patch back again, only when I asked ard then I found the truth behind her 'dark' period away from me...... :(

[Xgenre]

It was a Thursday when she send me off at CMPB for my BMT at Nee Soon Camp.

This story must be like 10-15 years ago. Nowadays, recruits don't assemble at CMPB anymore. Last time handphones aren't so common. Now it's easier for recruits to keep in touch with their family and girlfriend.

The only technological advantage we have then is that we can take photos. At least got some photos to remind us of our 2 and 1/2 years.

[takeout]

So we sat down on the bed and watched the movie.
After the brief intro of the characters, the nude scenes began to appear.
As the story progress, the scholar has bed all the 3 fox spirit sisters.
At this point, I was very aroused by the scenes before me.
I could sense that W was very aroused too as he shifted his dick a few times.
During the next sex scene, W put his left arm around me and with his right hand, turned my head to kiss me.
I responded and kissed him back.
After awhile, he put his hand on my left tit and caressed me.
When he sensed no resistance from me, he slide his hand up from under my t-shirt and unclasped my front-clip strapless bra.
By this time, I’ve lost all resistance(if there were any) as it felt so good to have his hands on my tit.
He fondled my breast and flick his fingers on my nipples.
He stopped kissing me for awhile to take my t-shirt off.
Then he bend down to suck and lick on my nipples.
He then began to unbutton my jeans.
After pulling the zip down, he pulled the jeans off together with my panties.
He then went back to sucking on my tits and he start to rub my clit with his fingers.
I was already very wet from watching the movie so there’s plenty of lubricant for him to rub me.
Then he moved his mouth from my tits to my pussy and began to lick my clit.
He also inserted 1 then 2 fingers into my pussy.
After a few minutes, I orgasm from the oral/finger assault.

In the meantime, I haven’t noticed that he had already taken his pants off.
So he moved his body above me and get ready to penetrate me.
Finally I regained some of my senses and I told him that he need to use a condom.
He then went to his drawer and brought out a package.
He tore off the wrapper, put the condom on his dick and reposition himself above me.
There’s no turning back now.
He pushed himself into me and then start to moved in and out of me.
After a few minutes, he shot his load.
He lifted himself off me and then tied the condom and threw it away.
I put on my clothes, borrowed a towel from him and went to the bathroom to take a shower.
After I’m done, it was his turn to shower.
He then sent me home.

When we had reached my block, he held my hands and asked me to be his girlfriend.
He said I don’t have to give him the answer now, but hope that the reply would be positive news.
I thought through the whole week.
I realized that the person I wanna be with is you, not him.
He is a mistake that I have made, and allowed to happen.
That’s why I confessed to you when I went to see you on the visiting day.
But I chickened out on the full details, so I told you we only kissed.
I didn’t contact him anymore, and I think he got the message cause he didn’t call me too.
End of story by S.

So that’s the story that S had confessed to me.

[like2tn]

ts, think yourgirlfriend talk cock la. Give her a good final fuck and move on.

[ashleygal]

i am more curious on the ending.
what happened between you 2 in the end? :p

[templton]

sometimes is so interesting, they hide something we wan tofind out, we noe le we heartbreak, den break off but heng la, bro u can tahan for 2 yrs den ask.. If not at tat time u left her or another case of recruit take gun go out....

[WhyWhy00]

If you love her, why bother her past.

Everyone got their own past.

Just put aisde and carry on your life with her.

[SGDreamchaser]

thing is, if she can do this once, will she do it again when he goes MIA?

ultimately its TS who senses her committment level. But if she cannot keep her hands to herself for long periods of time then to save the hurt, maybe ts shld leave. next time if ts business good how? then have to expand, then sure need to leave her behind for awhile one ma.

[muscle_hunk]

Yea bro,

I advise you, just give her ONE TIME GOOD ONE and zhao! She is a friends for benefits already..

But just pretend u still love her la, free fuck buddy also what, no harm..

Meanwhile go look for another girl outside who is more sincere, like that you kill 2 pussies with one stone man..LOLOL

[owl888]

TS, if u r married to another gal. Maintain this ex gf as your FB.

No harm, but lots 2 gain :)

[mynameisbwian]

Ts,
First off, can i say nicely written story. Just right mix of emotion and horny stuff. Not all wham-bam, but not all emo either. Keep up good work!

Now to your gf. I reckon she sounds great. She's been honest with you when you actually wanted to know... More importantly, after bonking the other loser, she picked you and stayed with you throughout ns.

Should give you a lot of confidence. She would have had plenty of chances to stray or find someone else. And didn't. Power to you.

[cola534]

Nice story. Pls carry on

[edmundhello]

Now u make me wonder how many of my ex-gfs cheat on me!!::mad:

[GeMiNiZzzzZzz]

If you love her, why bother her past.

Everyone got their own past.

Just put aisde and carry on your life with her.

What talking you :confused:

She beds another man while still with him, its not the past :rolleyes:

[takeout]

Epilogue:
I’m a man of my word. I forgave her, even though I knew that she still didn’t tell me the whole truth.
Why? Because I decided that if I want to love her, I will let those incidents go.

She said she have no more contact with W after that weekend.
But when I was at her place, I saw 2 photos proving that she met up with W at least on another 2 occasions.
(She must have been careless leaving it lying around because I seldom go over to her place.)
One photo showed her, W and W’s niece(I assume) at Haw Par Villa.
Another was a group wedding dinner photo. I don’t recognize anyone so I assumed it should be W’s friends.
The date stamp on the photos proved that it all happened during my BMT period.
Maybe nothing happened those times, so she felt there’s no need to tell me.

Anyway, the events were forgiven & ‘forgotten’.
It was never brought up again even if we had any quarrels or fights.
But we still had a great next 3 years together.
So what happened?
Well, she was a 19yr naïve girl and me a 20yr naïve boy when we met and got together.
In those 6 years, we’ve become more matured, our ideals & aspirations changed.
We realized we want to pursue different routes, so we broke up.
I’ve moved on. She’s moved on.
But we remain as friends to this day.
I’m married with kids to a wonderful wife, ironically her name begin with S too. Haha.

End.

I would like to thank everyone out there for lending a listening ear to my story.
I really appreciate all the comments/remarks/advice given by all the bros/sis here.
I can’t use those advice because those events already happened.
And it’s not 10-15 years ago. It’s 18 to be exact. Haha.
But maybe it’ll help those reading these posts to be more tolerant & understanding towards their spouses & partners.

Thanks everyone… :)