Criteria to be your FB

[CuteWettie]

I know there are threads out there about FBs and all...

Just want to know if anyone have strict or any form of criteria when getting an FB.

For me, strictly no way for guys younger than me (must be borned in 1986 or earlier), looks at least 6/10, mustnt be fat.

Ya i know i will get zapped for being so choosy but we are all out to enjoy the experience isnt it? who would want to have sex with someone who you cant even stand to look at for longer than a minute?

[ah rat]

For me, strictly no way for guys younger than me (must be borned in 1986 or earlier), looks at least 6/10, mustnt be fat.

Ya i know i will get zapped for being so choosy but we are all out to enjoy the experience isnt it? who would want to have sex with someone who you cant even stand to look at for longer than a minute?

Sis, how about born in 1960-1986.
I can stand for more than 1 min. :p :D

[beachboyz]

I know there are threads out there about FBs and all...

Just want to know if anyone have strict or any form of criteria when getting an FB.

For me, strictly no way for guys younger than me (must be borned in 1986 or earlier), looks at least 6/10, mustnt be fat.

Ya i know i will get zapped for being so choosy but we are all out to enjoy the experience isnt it? who would want to have sex with someone who you cant even stand to look at for longer than a minute?

Depends on whether you want the experience of better sex or just for looks. Older men like me doesn't mean i am not attractive.

It's just individual tastes that's all i have a FB that's 10 years younger than me and she's into older men she find them more mature and attractive and of course more experienced ;-)

[Ronsee]

i dont know...age has never been an issue for me when it comes to FBs..

The funny thing is that all my previous FBs...are all girls in their mid to late twenties.

Except for a short fling with my ex colleague in the office who was 35 at that time. (to date my most memorable FB imo)

I would really like to have a FB in her 30s or 40s but i guess i always leave it to chance.

Dont wana be too choosy hehe.

Well as for looks, i agree with TS, must at least be presentable. Hey same thing for my FBs...if i m FAT or ugly i m sure they wont want me to be in bed with them haha.

I guess it goes both ways, i choose them and they also choose me.

Just my 2 cents.

Cheers
Ronsee

[hsbc]

Pls pm me your photo...

[Ronsee]

Sis, how about born in 1960-1986.
I can stand for more than 1 min. :p :D

haha very funny comment bro. :)

[dirtbike08]

Most importantly is Chemistry...but of course the other party have to be pleasant to the eyes...
if dick cannot even stand....how to be FB...

[geckoSG]

Why would U get zapped? Everyone got their own preferences. For me,
My "IDEAL" FB should be busty (No need figure of 8). Looks wise should
be pretty. Have an appetite for SEX wherever we are... from Legal age
to older than me also can... Must not be stuck up (important), and good
personality.

But of cos, I'm contented as long as I met anyone who is nice, and have
great personality and is into SEX without any attitude. Looks wise can be
a plain jane (someone who U would not expect to jump on you and ride
you hard). Pretty simple I guess.

So, are you the one, CuteWettie? I'm in mid-30s btw...

:D

[Ravenzou]

Well for me it is just being comfortable in each other when meetup and willing to try out new things and hve fun.

[opqwopqw]

how u all get FB de ar????

[maninsinsha]

Just want to know if anyone have strict or any form of criteria when getting an FB.

For me, strictly no way for guys younger than me (must be borned in 1986 or earlier), looks at least 6/10, mustnt be fat.


Physiques and chemistry would definitely be important. Mutual agreements should also be established.

Question ~ Having met all your criteria (older than you, look above 6/10 and not fat), how does one gets to be your FB?? :p:D

[Sexy Under]

Criteria is to each his own.

The crucial point of being FB is still knowing the rules of the game. I believe many kenna burn before.

I dun set criteria. She happy, I happy, then we happy together!:cool:

[smoofdeek]

you won't get zapped but your inbox will be flooded. lol

I'm quite choosy too, she must be pleasing to my eyes but more importantly really enjoys sex. but for me, I also look into her emotional condition, once fb-ed with a girl with suicidal tendencies, it was a nightmare for me, both mentally and emotionally. oh and she has to be very discreet too, you'll be surprised at how some girls openly talk about her fb relationship on her facebook wall..

[Integrity]

you won't get zapped but your inbox will be flooded. lol

I'm quite choosy too, she must be pleasing to my eyes but more importantly really enjoys sex. but for me, I also look into her emotional condition, once fb-ed with a girl with suicidal tendencies, it was a nightmare for me, both mentally and emotionally. oh and she has to be very discreet too, you'll be surprised at how some girls openly talk about her fb relationship on her facebook wall..

Bro Smoofdeek U R damn right! A buddy of mine bonked a suicidal fb n guess what!?!
His marriage of 8 years just came crashing when that crazy woman demanded repeatedly to meet him almost every other night!!!
She would even call him on his HP in the wee hours!!!
In the end, buddy got to confess to wifey about his CCA n they are till now, under separation!!!

Having a FB with same frequency (understanding) is very important, not just HSD (high sex drive)....

[ken_v2]

most important is know the rules of the game.

know when not to call.
know it is just FB, dun be sticky
know we (both parties) still have our own lives so some times we just be there for each other, ie no emotional support

i have 2 FB before and these were the rules...

both FB was either attached or married so that make things a lot easier since they can go back to their other half for emotional support... and i have my family to go back to.

lookwise, as long as not fugly and extremely obese can liao..

right now no FB as one became a mother and needs to be with her children and the other left overseas for studies... still looking around :rolleyes:

[CuteWettie]

I forgot to mention, i wont sleep with a guy who is attached or married.

I experienced how it is like to be cheated on and i have been tricked into a relationship where i ended up being the third party and confronted by his rightful gf so no way am i going to get involved with someone who is attached or married.

[beachboyz]

how u all get FB de ar????

You dial 1800 - IWANTFREEFB :D:p

[Wonderboi]

Hi TS,

I'm available and can last almost forever.
Dun mind to be your FB.

32M Chinese 176/70 Single

PM mi for my photo. :)

[ken_v2]

I forgot to mention, i wont sleep with a guy who is attached or married.

I experienced how it is like to be cheated on and i have been tricked into a relationship where i ended up being the third party and confronted by his rightful gf so no way am i going to get involved with someone who is attached or married.

hey, i am a married man so i fall off your list ... no worries as there are many who don't mind married men.

however, i would like to point out that FBs are there for the purpose of sex minus love for both parties since we ain't getting enough from our other halves. there is no emotion involved... crudely put, it is prostitution for both the guy and gal in a FB relationship... we just enjoy sex with each other and then go home to our loved ones :D

[purr]

For me.. I'd reckon it takes 2 hands to clap... There is no hard and fast rules to FB... If the 2 FBs like it to be a daily affair.. So be it.. If its just discreet montly thing so be it... If both likes some emotional attachment, so be it..
If both just wan non-committal sex.. so be it..

In short, there are no Criterias/ regulations when it comes to FB from my perspective. :D As long as both parties enjoy each other....

For me these rules work:
1) Understand that each other have their own free time/ choice
2) Non-committal but there has to be some form of attraction (vice versa)
3) No sticky / attention seeking
4) Have a bit of Liking/Love to make it more sensual

:)

[luckystrike8888]

你看上我 我看上你
只有性爱 没有恋爱

i choose u u choose me, only for sex and nothing more. :D

[freezetheDB]

chemistry and being able to be discreet is upmost importance.

these 2 main factors aside, BBBJ+CIM also very important to me

[HiddenAngel]

I forgot to mention, i wont sleep with a guy who is attached or married.

I experienced how it is like to be cheated on and i have been tricked into a relationship where i ended up being the third party and confronted by his rightful gf so no way am i going to get involved with someone who is attached or married.

Totally agreed with CuteWettie abt involving with attached or married men. I once had a short fling with this attached guy, BJ halfway, his gf called and he started to panic and even had to run outside of the hotel room to call his gf back, damn funny and sian half way. Hate being confronted or accused as a third party :mad:

To me chemistry is very important, no chemistry how to bonk? Prefer someone who I can share or hold a conversation to talk anything under the sun rather than just purely for sex.

[justl00king]

Must be at least a 8/10 looker, not sticky and enjoys sex!!! :D

[bigangry]

i prefer my FB to be intelligent or at least can hold a conversation.. must have chemistry if not will feel very commercial..

[digby]

So u are looking for a fb?

[NextGirl]

Interesting to note how us girls regards FB and what we want from them. Especially off late as I've been browsing here a fair bit( slow few mths of work for me! LOL :p) so up to lotsa nonsense online. I've been thinking and also been pretty much appalled by how some guys here regard who and what an FB should be. It's like, every few days you get someone asking "wanna be my FB?" "how do you get a FB?" case in point as quoted below(sorry, i'm not arrow-ing you! just quoting)

how u all get FB de ar????

I don't know if it's just because this is an online avenue where all the keyboard warriors come out and play but do guys really think of a FB relationship with another person something like getting a prostitute? If it is, why don't you just go pay for one instead? Since you don't want the whole drama and sticky situations? You think about it, it's the same sorta "investment" . Going after the girl, buying her meals?wine?dine?room? - and please don't be naive in thinking you're gonna get someone to fuck you as soon as you say "wanna fuck?"(i'm not saying it doesn't happen, but that's like once out of 10000 chances) . It all takes effort too right? Or do you guys really regard FBs as free meals? Wham Bamm Thank You Maam kinda thing? How does that sex differs from boring sex then?

I would also think that the reason someone would prefer an FB over a prostitute is because of at least it's a semblance of a friendship and familiarity. To me at least, having a FB is an escape from your daily routine life and someone whom your whole relationship centers around sex(but not necessarily just screwing each other's brains out!) - I do go for trips and coffee with my FBs and sometimes, no sex involved. Doesn't hurt to do that right? If I had wanted to just fuck and get out of the room, damn well I'll start charging to spread my legs then. Hahaha

OK, Sorry Cutie for hijcking your thread to rant~! Just digressing a lil over here. Answering your Qs,

I would want my FB to be someone that's CLEAN, up for FUN, ain't afraid of going up the notch with sex, doing the things you otherwise won't do with ur partner, and mutual respect. And of coz, someone whom I can hold a decent conversation with. Wouldn't mind fat, old or unattractive, because honestly, I get turned on alot more with what goes on up in their head(the big one, not the small one). Hahaha
:p

[mike_sg2000]

hahahha... getting a free fuck and people want to be choosy and asking for picc... very sad babe!! how r u doing?

[kayslyn]

I don't know if it's just because this is an online avenue where all the keyboard warriors come out and play but do guys really think of a FB relationship with another person something like getting a prostitute? If it is, why don't you just go pay for one instead? Since you don't want the whole drama and sticky situations? You think about it, it's the same sorta "investment" . Going after the girl, buying her meals?wine?dine?room? - and please don't be naive in thinking you're gonna get someone to fuck you as soon as you say "wanna fuck?"(i'm not saying it doesn't happen, but that's like once out of 10000 chances) . It all takes effort too right? Or do you guys really regard FBs as free meals? Wham Bamm Thank You Maam kinda thing? How does that sex differs from boring sex then?

I would also think that the reason someone would prefer an FB over a prostitute is because of at least it's a semblance of a friendship and familiarity. To me at least, having a FB is an escape from your daily routine life and someone whom your whole relationship centers around sex(but not necessarily just screwing each other's brains out!) - I do go for trips and coffee with my FBs and sometimes, no sex involved. Doesn't hurt to do that right? If I had wanted to just fuck and get out of the room, damn well I'll start charging to spread my legs then. Hahaha




Well said! :D

[digby]

:) getting a fb doesn't seems so easy man. Tot it's about listening to each other. But seems like it's the male giving in more to than the female. Still have to give in so much to entertain the girl.

Anyway I used to have a fb without commitment at all. Just listening to each other, go out to drink, talk and have supper. Sex is the last thing we thought about.

[JavTalk]

Yo sis,

I do knw of bros who can compromise on the looks dept. To them, it's quite literally playing to the "got hole just insert" theory.

For personal, I can't even get a hard on if the FB is way short on the looks dept. So yep. totally agree on your "rules of engagement".

Am still looking for new FB adventure.

[atlarg]

so any ladies 1 2 be my FB or can i b urs

[jasdude]

Physiques and chemistry would definitely be important. Mutual agreements should also be established.

Question ~ Having met all your criteria (older than you, look above 6/10 and not fat), how does one gets to be your FB?? :p:D

True bro Agree Fully ! it takes two hands to clap ! Hey Girl ! I pass all your criteria as well ! Coffee sometimes ?

[dotaking]

Totally agree with bro kenv2...."most important is know the rules of the game." Must really set rules 1st if not later regret is too late liao... Criteria for fb (for me la) is chemistry most impt....No point if very pretty but stuckup or dead fish oso sian... :p

[Softcore]

This is quite an interesting topic.

I have gotten to the point where these days I am quite picky about the girls I date and go out with - same for FBs.

Ideally, she should be independent, can (will) talk back and argue / banter with me, will not fold or give up easily, takes good care of her health and body via training in the gym or in other sports, and is semi-random, i.e. being unpredictable some of the time. It keeps the sparks ever going.

I personally feel that this criteria is very achievable as I am similar in all respects - hence it should be a balanced (and fun!) combination. :)

[Torch_Man]

it seems like most girls are looking for Fxxk Buddy to satisfy their sexual needs (this i understand, but in a very discreet manner) but why is there such a requirement for the men to be single??? (unless you want to marry him, due to great uncontrollable sexsion leading to cheats, exhortion. well, but of course, being a third party is not pleasant matter too)

since the 1st requirement is Fxxk for FB, then the rest are all discussable, right???
anybody can state his/her requirement (part of chemistry, however the rest test comes in the form when the sexsion is too good, too hot to handle for either party to let go of, then it will become serious)

my suggestion is:
state clearly that this is for sexsion only (less conversation or even heart-to-heart talk, even if the sex is so great) but maintain constant contact on sexsion matters only

we all have needs, either mentally, emotionally, spiritually, physically or even psychologically --->> a simple need.
we should just let it out occasionally = find a buddy :D


jz sharin
:)

[Stratos]

I really feel that an FB is really like a friend that you keep and develop a friendship with. Someone who can share a decent conversation and dinner with and then after that proceed on to a good night of sex. Of course it ends with just no strings attached. Therefore the person can be older or younger than me, fatter or thinner than me and it does not matter because its about the friendship that was built upon just that it comes with intercourse.

Well thats how mine has been working out...till i left the country =\
Yup!

[CuteWettie]

So u are looking for a fb?

Hi bro digby, to answer your question and to all other bros, I am not looking for an fb.

Interesting to note how us girls regards FB and what we want from them. Especially off late as I've been browsing here a fair bit( slow few mths of work for me! LOL :p) so up to lotsa nonsense online. I've been thinking and also been pretty much appalled by how some guys here regard who and what an FB should be. It's like, every few days you get someone asking "wanna be my FB?" "how do you get a FB?" case in point as quoted below(sorry, i'm not arrow-ing you! just quoting)



I don't know if it's just because this is an online avenue where all the keyboard warriors come out and play but do guys really think of a FB relationship with another person something like getting a prostitute? If it is, why don't you just go pay for one instead? Since you don't want the whole drama and sticky situations? You think about it, it's the same sorta "investment" . Going after the girl, buying her meals?wine?dine?room? - and please don't be naive in thinking you're gonna get someone to fuck you as soon as you say "wanna fuck?"(i'm not saying it doesn't happen, but that's like once out of 10000 chances) . It all takes effort too right? Or do you guys really regard FBs as free meals? Wham Bamm Thank You Maam kinda thing? How does that sex differs from boring sex then?

I would also think that the reason someone would prefer an FB over a prostitute is because of at least it's a semblance of a friendship and familiarity. To me at least, having a FB is an escape from your daily routine life and someone whom your whole relationship centers around sex(but not necessarily just screwing each other's brains out!) - I do go for trips and coffee with my FBs and sometimes, no sex involved. Doesn't hurt to do that right? If I had wanted to just fuck and get out of the room, damn well I'll start charging to spread my legs then. Hahaha

OK, Sorry Cutie for hijcking your thread to rant~! Just digressing a lil over here. Answering your Qs,

I would want my FB to be someone that's CLEAN, up for FUN, ain't afraid of going up the notch with sex, doing the things you otherwise won't do with ur partner, and mutual respect. And of coz, someone whom I can hold a decent conversation with. Wouldn't mind fat, old or unattractive, because honestly, I get turned on alot more with what goes on up in their head(the big one, not the small one). Hahaha
:p

well said sis. Well I guess everyone just view fbs differently. For bros who feel that an fb is just a free fuck then sorry but I dot think any sis here will agree. No free lunch in this world. Similarly, no free fuck. like what many mentioned, must be at least able to hold a conversation before leading to anything sexual. Want to just fuck, so many fl and prositutes out there. Just lay a bit and you get to fuck. No need to spend time chatting, dining etc.

[AmeShin]

its a finding that when guys look for ons they only wanna release and satisfy desires

whereas in gals they are more keen in getting emotional support and attention than sex desires

[Lionrod32]

end of the day, having the right chemistry with your fb is the most important aspect .... that is why you choose him or her in the first place ... i think it goes beyond just the physical aspect of sex .... i dun think you enjoy juz bonking a silent dead fish rite ..... my two cents

[JacDao]

I forgot to mention, i wont sleep with a guy who is attached or married.

I experienced how it is like to be cheated on and i have been tricked into a relationship where i ended up being the third party and confronted by his rightful gf so no way am i going to get involved with someone who is attached or married.

Hi bro digby, to answer your question and to all other bros, I am not looking for an fb.

From your previous post , its obvious that you are looking for someone special not a FB , cos FBs don't bother about status. you are looking for someone that would go the distance .



well said sis. Well I guess everyone just view fbs differently. For bros who feel that an fb is just a free fuck then sorry but I dot think any sis here will agree. No free lunch in this world. Similarly, no free fuck. like what many mentioned, must be at least able to hold a conversation before leading to anything sexual. Want to just fuck, so many fl and prositutes out there. Just lay a bit and you get to fuck. No need to spend time chatting, dining etc.

True , FBs are bonded by lust and affection for each other's company but what many FBs fail to realize its the emotional supplement given that drives the attraction as well .

[CuteWettie]

I think for us girls, it's not just about satisfying sexual need but as an emotional support as well. I guess that's what separates female from male other than the physic aspect..

[Lionrod32]

sis, if you need emotional support, you can depend on a fun cuddly lion .... hehehe

[NextGirl]

its a finding that when guys look for ons they only wanna release and satisfy desires

whereas in gals they are more keen in getting emotional support and attention than sex desires

You see, I think this is where i think people get it misunderstood. One Night Stand are, just that. I see you, let's fuck, Thank you and goodbye. Sure, you may see each other again, but ur never gonna have sex again. It u do, it's called many night stand already la! Hahaha! :cool:

Whereas FB(Fuck Buddies, Friends With Benefits, whatchamacallit), are people you actually have a relationship with. And the relationship i'm talking about is not that of a boy/girl let's get married or let's have a future together. To be honest, you really want a FB? you DON'T ask someone if they wanna "be your fb" just like that. You cultivate them, just like you cultivate friendships/business partners/etc. It's just that hey, you so happen to have sex with this friend. Also, more often that no, FBs are people you really like having sex with but you somehow just can't commit together into a relationship(be it that they're attached, incompatibility blablabla). Hence, you only keep the sex part of ur r/ship alive :)

You guys may not agree with me, but that's just my thoughts.

Also, someone pointed out that Sis CutieWettie(sic?) is putting up criteria like no attached men and singles only because she's looking for something further than a FB. I think that's an unfair statement ain't it? If men can lay down rules such as, not being sticky, not disturbing you at home, and dramarama, I would think that it's only fair that she only wants to play around in the single's pool. If you don't want to be judged, u shudn't judge urself! :)

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I sound like a lecturing old lady huh? Hahahaha! Sorry :p

[Lionrod32]

You see, I think this is where i think people get it misunderstood. One Night Stand are, just that. I see you, let's fuck, Thank you and goodbye. Sure, you may see each other again, but ur never gonna have sex again. It u do, it's called many night stand already la! Hahaha! :cool:

Whereas FB(Fuck Buddies, Friends With Benefits, whatchamacallit), are people you actually have a relationship with. And the relationship i'm talking about is not that of a boy/girl let's get married or let's have a future together. To be honest, you really want a FB? you DON'T ask someone if they wanna "be your fb" just like that. You cultivate them, just like you cultivate friendships/business partners/etc. It's just that hey, you so happen to have sex with this friend. Also, more often that no, FBs are people you really like having sex with but you somehow just can't commit together into a relationship(be it that they're attached, incompatibility blablabla). Hence, you only keep the sex part of ur r/ship alive :)

You guys may not agree with me, but that's just my thoughts.

Also, someone pointed out that Sis CutieWettie(sic?) is putting up criteria like no attached men and singles only because she's looking for something further than a FB. I think that's an unfair statement ain't it? If men can lay down rules such as, not being sticky, not disturbing you at home, and dramarama, I would think that it's only fair that she only wants to play around in the single's pool. If you don't want to be judged, u shudn't judge urself! :)

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I sound like a lecturing old lady huh? Hahahaha! Sorry :p

yes, it is a long lecture .... hehehe ... anyway good points to highlight ... perhaps bros are more direct in what they want (hot sex) and sisters look beyond the touch here and there .... that is why man is mars and woman is venus ... hahahaha

[maninsinsha]

To be honest, you really want a FB? you DON'T ask someone if they wanna "be your fb" just like that. You cultivate them, just like you cultivate friendships/business partners/etc. It's just that hey, you so happen to have sex with this friend. Also, more often that no, FBs are people you really like having sex with but you somehow just can't commit together into a relationship(be it that they're attached, incompatibility blablabla). Hence, you only keep the sex part of ur r/ship alive :)


Totally agreed. ;)

[goodpartner]

To be honest, you really want a FB? you DON'T ask someone if they wanna "be your fb" just like that. You cultivate them, just like you cultivate friendships/business partners/etc.

That's very true. All my FBs never started out with the intention in the first place, although I must admit that there must be mutual attraction and the secret admiration at the back of the mind initially. Somewhere along the way, hints were dropped and then it happens. Most are just one-off much like ONS, while the special few become regular FB if the sexperiences are good.

With the fast paced society nowadays, people just want short-cut to "get FB" and therefore all these postings and asking for "looking for FB". Well, it still works, just as many "social n/w websites" manage to match FB together. So lets just say the objective is the same, but route taken varies.

[JacDao]

Whether what kind of relationships that we get ourselves in . its like two parties signing a MOU (Memorandum of Understanding ) . both parties have finalised agreement of what they are expecting and anticipating .

[JacDao]

Also, someone pointed out that Sis CutieWettie(sic?) is putting up criteria like no attached men and singles only because she's looking for something further than a FB. I think that's an unfair statement ain't it? If men can lay down rules such as, not being sticky, not disturbing you at home, and dramarama, I would think that it's only fair that she only wants to play around in the single's pool. If you don't want to be judged, u shudn't judge urself! :)



True sis . you are right in a certain sense . But only CuteWettie will know what she wants .

[mentholfresh]

hmm, agree with TS and nextgirl, to me a good FB is someone that really knows the part of u that many others don't that's becos u let it be known, someone u FEEL comfortable with (important), can be sort of like a close frd (sort of only), a good listener, knows which qns to ask and which can't, knows what areas both are in and not try cross the invisible line... something like that... then it will ensure a good and enjoyable time...

anyone seen this movie?

http://asianmediawiki.com/I_Will_Wait_for_You

[CouplesSwing]

Golden rule of fb:
Must Nt b sticky
Must know when to call/SMS when Nt to
Respect each others privacy
Try Nt to get feelings involved it wil complicate issues n jealousy occurs
Nt interfere in each other lifes
Nt attempt to appear in workplaces or near home
Must nvr b too irritating keep asking to meet
Must always b mentally prepared to break off the arrangement Anytime
Must Nt involve money or gifts
Must b sexually compatible , both liking the same positions foreplay etc
Must not hide their marital status
Must not kiss n tell, or let others know abt the rendeVous
Must not leave evidence of crime.. Pictures! It's a killer. Things may b used to blackmail if things get sour.

Agreed Fully ! Cheers !

[starystarynite]

I dont have one. But to me an ideal must not be too attractive in look. But must have the sex appeal that attracts me. N cannot have too high sex drive as I m not in for daily fuck. can click really well just like a good friend n an activity partner. N someone thay can hear all your nonsense/grumbles/complaints.n of course you do the same with her too.

[hotman]

For me, a fb is like a friend...someone u enjoy a conversation with, someone interesting, preferably although not necessary. I would enjoy my time with someone intelligent, knows how to carry herself, able to dress up (simple enough). O, ok, she has to b of decent look la....honestly look does matter.

Another one, must have good personal hygiene...no need to elaborate.

I do have fbs (or may b they are just friends) but we have never entered into sexual relationship (or may b not yet...haha). I must say it is v tempting, but I don't know how to initiate...anyone has any idea?

We meet once in while for a meal, catch up with each other, talk anything under the sky..and then i send them back. Most of them are in the 30s to 40s...people who have experienced more of life and they can share some with me. Sometimes, we mutually give free advice...

This is kind of a break from the usual routine...

[TheGreatOne]

for me,

i just know she is the one when i come across one.

[Cunt-Sucker]

You see, I think this is where i think people get it misunderstood. ... I sound like a lecturing old lady huh? Hahahaha! Sorry :p

Hi Sis NextGirl,

Enjoyed your input; you do sound intelligent, and your views are not as typical/conventional. Good to come across someone with brains ... as you'd earlier said, the intellectual conversation can be even sexier than the physical attributes.

As you may have read from my previous posts, I'm one of those "unfortunate" brothers who are not fed at home, and thus we have to venture out to fill up our hunger. Been getting help from the pros; dare not go into FB 'cos primarily couldn't cultivate/develop one yet. I mean, all the ladies that I'd come across are nice, attractive, and eventually, we do end up being close friends, where we can share secrets on our respective partners. However, I'm always hesitant to take things a step further, 'cos I reckon I don't know how to separate the sex from the friendships that's been cultivated. It just kinda feel weird that I'm fucking my friends on this hand, and then we pretend that the physical contact is never gonna affect our existing friendship? Maybe it's just me ... :o That's why I thought it's best to keep friends as friends, and to seek the pros if I just need a quick fix?

[hardcoremayhem]

I know there are threads out there about FBs and all...

Just want to know if anyone have strict or any form of criteria when getting an FB.

For me, strictly no way for guys younger than me (must be borned in 1986 or earlier), looks at least 6/10, mustnt be fat.

Ya i know i will get zapped for being so choosy but we are all out to enjoy the experience isnt it? who would want to have sex with someone who you cant even stand to look at for longer than a minute?

nothing wrong with your preference. Everyone is entitled to their own likes and dislikes especially when it involves something as personal as sex.

Hmmm... i don't really have a set of criteria per se i.e. C cup, slim etc. As long as the lady is attractive to me, turns me on, loves no strings attached sex seeking only to pleasure and be pleasured; i am fine ... oh and she cannot laugh at my weird, small d1ck. ;)

have fun, life is shorter than you think! :)

[hardcoremayhem]

Hi Sis NextGirl,

Enjoyed your input; you do sound intelligent, and your views are not as typical/conventional. Good to come across someone with brains ... as you'd earlier said, the intellectual conversation can be even sexier than the physical attributes.

As you may have read from my previous posts, I'm one of those "unfortunate" brothers who are not fed at home, and thus we have to venture out to fill up our hunger. Been getting help from the pros; dare not go into FB 'cos primarily couldn't cultivate/develop one yet. I mean, all the ladies that I'd come across are nice, attractive, and eventually, we do end up being close friends, where we can share secrets on our respective partners. However, I'm always hesitant to take things a step further, 'cos I reckon I don't know how to separate the sex from the friendships that's been cultivated. It just kinda feel weird that I'm fucking my friends on this hand, and then we pretend that the physical contact is never gonna affect our existing friendship? Maybe it's just me ... :o That's why I thought it's best to keep friends as friends, and to seek the pros if I just need a quick fix?

bro, just to share. i had a fxxkbuddy who was a good friend and even after she gotten married and had kids, we still keep in touch (but no sex).

in fact, during the period when we are "friends with benefits" which was well over a year, she was the 1st person i would turn to for a listening ear and advice and vice versa. In fact, when a tragedy struck her in her personal life, i was the 1st person she called; not her boyfriend or other close friends. So i went over to her place and just comforted her (no sex).

we never had any illusions that we were going to be married or fall in love (her being about 4 years older than me may have been a factor since she was looking for a man in his mid 30s and i was only in my mid 20s then). Of course, there was a mutual understanding.

So if you think that there may be a lady who feels the same way, then by all means go ahead. never try, never know.

[BernardFrosty]

Hhhhmmmm....just a platonic friend of the opposite sex that has no inhibition if sex comes into the picture. That's really easier said than done. I call them friends with benefits.

Another kind is those ONS that goes on for more than just one night. An extended ONS.

So their status doesn't really matters. Would you stop having a person as you friend just because he or she is attached or married ?

[geckoSG]

Hi TS,
I'm available and can last almost forever.


Sounds like a dildo more than a human bro... :D

[geckoSG]

The thing is importantly wat is the expectation of each FB. My FBs are relatively
simple. We are comfy together, sharing things and of cos enjoy sex with each
other. We communicate well on our restrictions and work well on it.

If you are attached or married, do not ever lie to get a pussy up your dick.
Personally, I detest these sort of people.

Wat a waste that I do not match TS' criteria list. But nevertheless, if you seek
an FB who can hold your hands outside... Find a single guy better. But if he
becomes attached with another Gal, its back to square one... So, consider get
a permanent BF instead.

;)

[BiRd13]

For me, depending on long or short term =) Will prefer long term FB, over short term.

Anyway, few of my criterias:

1) Age is not a distance, but ht and wt preferably to below 165cm, and 60kgs
2) Chemistry, and important, comfortability between both
3) Doesn't really mind her boobs size or what, but looks perhaps presentable.

Abt myself:

Born in 197X
Ht: 175 cm / Wt: 65 Kgs
Slim?, Fit, healthy =X
Looks: ?/10 (Range from 6-9, base on individual preference)

[ken_v2]

i think treating FB like prostitute is taken out of context. it should mean sex w/o love.

and all FB don't start off as FB.. so there is some kind of relationship prior to being a FB, usually friends or colleagues.

interesting topic as you can see the differences in gal and guys perspective of a FB.

maybe it will help the guys on how to behave so that your chances of hitting a home run increases. good luck guys! :D

[BiRd13]

i think treating FB like prostitute is taken out of context. it should mean sex w/o love.

and all FB don't start off as FB.. so there is some kind of relationship prior to being a FB, usually friends or colleagues.

interesting topic as you can see the differences in gal and guys perspective of a FB.

maybe it will help the guys on how to behave so that your chances of hitting a home run increases. good luck guys! :D

I do quite agreed that, usually FB starts of with friendship/colleague etc...
But again, I think FB usually will somehow involve with feeling. Or perhaps, for me only? =)

[naturegreen]

..For me, strictly no way for guys younger than me (must be borned in 1986 or earlier), looks at least 6/10, mustnt be fat.

Ya i know i will get zapped for being so choosy but we are all out to enjoy the experience isnt it? who would want to have sex with someone who you cant even stand to look at for longer than a minute?

I fit into all your criterias leh. But whether you can stand to look at me for longer than a minute, this one depends on you. But usually should have no problem lah. I don't mind you sitting down to look at me either. :D Need to fill in any application forms and where to get it?

[rivcale]

A good fb is first and foremost, a great friend :)

A lady and a gentleman can do great fun together ;)

[White Volcano]

Interesting...indeed very interesting topic n gosh...I m rather pleasantly surprised with some of the girls in here..broad minded, open about sex n stuff. Dont take me as if I m from the cave...its just that I been away all over Europe way too long n just got back to Spore about 2 years ago...n unfairly had been under estimating the girls in this part of the world. My bad.!
I m very open about sex...I always believe, when 2 consenting adults r comfortable with each other...why limit the fun! But there is principle that we had to maintain...we shouldnt have the fun on the expense of other's misery. And therefore, I had refused all engagement with married woman, fren's gf or ex gfren or even fren's sisters. Though I m already 38 but somehow I had been lucky that I had been only having sex girls in their 20's. But I do make a point...I dont cheat or lie to get them on bed...I dont even promise a relationship which I rather not to have. So...its all done in great transparency n its also save anyone getting hurt in the process. Anyway...its a long note... Hope I didnt bore anyone with this note;-) LOVE ALL...Peace to ALL.

[Enacts]

How do you guys get fbs? I have none!!!

[naturegreen]

How do you guys get fbs? I have none!!!

Usually I walk up to the girl I am target, with both my hands in my pocket. Then I will wriggle my fingers in my pockets making some movements in my pants near my groin area. Then I will wink wink at the girl. She should get the hint. :D If she still doesn't, then I will use my tongue and lick on my lips with my eyes slightly closed. If she still don't get the hint, then I'll just ask her " Ai sio kan mai?" :rolleyes:

[Doriemus]

Totally agreed with CuteWettie abt involving with attached or married men. I once had a short fling with this attached guy, BJ halfway, his gf called and he started to panic and even had to run outside of the hotel room to call his gf back, damn funny and sian half way. Hate being confronted or accused as a third party :mad:

To me chemistry is very important, no chemistry how to bonk? Prefer someone who I can share or hold a conversation to talk anything under the sun rather than just purely for sex.

I would have allow u to finish the very least....

[Doriemus]

Usually I walk up to the girl I am target, with both my hands in my pocket. Then I will wriggle my fingers in my pockets making some movements in my pants near my groin area. Then I will wink wink at the girl. She should get the hint. :D If she still doesn't, then I will use my tongue and lick on my lips with my eyes slightly closed. If she still don't get the hint, then I'll just ask her " Ai sio kan mai?" :rolleyes:

hahaha...u damn funny...up u my humble +1...

[BernardFrosty]

Some FBs are due to circumstances, not just because wanna song together.

Some because of diff race, family will never agree.

Some because they know each others personality, go into anything deeper sure cannot make it one.

Some because got commital problems, it's not just the guys ok. The gals have it too.

Some because they are already so deeply committed with another. They can't get out of.

So, it is not always as carefree as it seems.

[whizzer24]

FB(Fuck Buddies, Friends With Benefits, whatchamacallit), are people you actually have a relationship with. And the relationship i'm talking about is not that of a boy/girl let's get married or let's have a future together. To be honest, you really want a FB? you DON'T ask someone if they wanna "be your fb" just like that. You cultivate them, just like you cultivate friendships/business partners/etc. It's just that hey, you so happen to have sex with this friend. Also, more often that no, FBs are people you really like having sex with but you somehow just can't commit together into a relationship(be it that they're attached, incompatibility blablabla). Hence, you only keep the sex part of ur r/ship alive :)

You guys may not agree with me, but that's just my thoughts.

I second your opinion on this. I think the basic friendship or mutual communication is needed to form some attraction betw both parties in order to really enjoy each other in bed.

Personally i think "fuck buddy" is a funny term. I mean, ya, a guy fancy a gal, or the other way ard, well it doesn't matter, what i wan to say is so their attraction is strong enough to enjoy been physcially together, but they still wan to be socially single.. well, the most impt thing i guess in this case is both has to be truly honest w each other right from the start and keep their relationship in a discreet level so as not to affect each other life.

of cos, theorically it's easy. pity in reality, things are not straightforward when one party break the understanding.


Also, someone pointed out that Sis CutieWettie(sic?) is putting up criteria like no attached men and singles only because she's looking for something further than a FB. I think that's an unfair statement ain't it? If men can lay down rules such as, not being sticky, not disturbing you at home, and dramarama, I would think that it's only fair that she only wants to play around in the single's pool. If you don't want to be judged, u shudn't judge urself! :)

sis cutiewettie has her point as well as the bro who pointed her out. hehe
for the bro who pointed her out:
i agree w him as i do find it limiting if u only seek single for fb.. i mean afterall, coming from what i read here...most fb whether its sis or bro.. are actually attached or married themselves...

STILL, sis cutiewettie has a simple and very strong reason. I mean if i have a fb, i definitely won't wan a man calling me out of nowhere to confront me for fucking his wife/gf... haha so personally both has a point and it's really where u wan to position urself.
--

I sound like a lecturing old lady huh? Hahahaha! Sorry :p
and i sound like a lecturing ah pek too. paisay ah.

[yoshii]

hey, i am a married man so i fall off your list ... no worries as there are many who don't mind married men.

however, i would like to point out that FBs are there for the purpose of sex minus love for both parties since we ain't getting enough from our other halves. there is no emotion involved... crudely put, it is prostitution for both the guy and gal in a FB relationship... we just enjoy sex with each other and then go home to our loved ones :D

I'm married too and my FB knows about it too. For us it's just the sex, wild and intense. We don't talk much about our lives, and we don't even know if the other party's name is real. Well, I didn't give her my real name at least, but heck, we're only at it for the sex. I reckon it's better than screwing a whore where you don't know who's she's been with. I can't say for sure that she's only sleeping with me, but she sure isn't sleeping with everyone with a wad of cash.

[HiddenAngel]

Different people have different expectations n views on having a FB, there is actually no wrong or right.

That's why sis CuteWettie has open this thread to know more about our views not to study human behaviours but to share views, neither she or myself are looking for a FB. It's interesting to know how 1 person view sometimes can cause so much debates.

Some people just purely wanted a partner for sex without other involvements, yet some of us prefer not just purely sex but also a 情人知己, how often in life can you come across a person like that? Sometimes not even your wife or hubby can be one, otherwise where got affairs happening everyday to married people?

Just a thought after reading so many people postings on this. :)

[CuteWettie]

Rely great to see so many bros and sis putting forth their views about fbs. Really refreshing to know how different people view the topic. Like what some bros say, those who can't get any fb can take this thread as a way to understand how the female species think so as to increase the chances of hitting home run!

Well I must clarify this, bros, I am NOT starting this thread because I want an fb or because I am looking for an fb. Thanks for the overwhelming application which resulted in my flooded inbox nonetheless.

I hope more will continue to share your thoughts or criteria or things you look for when looking for an fb!

Btw, bro NG, your posts never fail to make me smile or sometimes laugh after a long day of work! Thanks bro!

Cheers everyone!

[whizzer24]

Different people have different expectations n views on having a FB, there is actually no wrong or right.

That's why sis CuteWettie has open this thread to know more about our views not to study human behaviours but to share views, neither she or myself are looking for a FB. It's interesting to know how 1 person view sometimes can cause so much debates.

Some people just purely wanted a partner for sex without other involvements, yet some of us prefer not just purely sex but also a 情人知己, how often in life can you come across a person like that? Sometimes not even your wife or hubby can be one, otherwise where got affairs happening everyday to married people?

Just a thought after reading so many people postings on this. :)
yup yup yup!!! :) that does summaries everything nicely. :)

[WingWing]

FB? Wun it increase the chances of STDS?

[WingWing]

I also kinda envy those who have FBs, my virgin was taken away from me recently from a FL :o

[digby]

thanks but i think alot of us still wants to be your close friend :)

Hope you like our replies. Just pmed you again :)

[goodpartner]

Need to fill in any application forms and where to get it?

Btw, bro NG, your posts never fail to make me smile or sometimes laugh after a long day of work! Thanks bro!


Bro NG, here's your hint!!!
Well done man!
Go for it!!

Pls FR :D

[naturegreen]

Bro NG, here's your hint!!!
Well done man!
Go for it!!

Pls FR :D

Oh! that's a hint? Erm... but I have just missed the train cause I never leave any PM for CuteWettie sis. And also hor though I not super yandao, but I got set some standards for a FB. :D So hor if that's really a hint, hope CuteWettie sis can add me in MSN too. Hoho!

[Tai Guan]

wow such a hot thread, so I just share my views my views to make it hotter:p.

For me is more for the feeling, past experienced proved that the feeling can let do more. As for the look wise is secondary.

Hmm, I felt my FB is someone who can let me not to be my usual self.

[bmtc1112]

i usually dont wade opinions in this forum but after reading through some of these i feel like i have to say something. there seems to be a widely held opinion amongst some of the married men here that because their wives do not sexually satisfy them, they are forced to engage in extra-marital affairs, either with FBs or FLs, and as long as no one's feelings are hurt, they have done nothing wrong.

men, when you marry your wives, you are making a lifelong commitment, part of which is to be sexually monogamous. whether or not your sex life is satisfying, it does not give a husband a moral free pass to engage in affairs. dont get me wrong, i know how hard it can be, and many men inevitably stray. but i would have men admit that they are wrong and feel remorse for their indiscretions, rather than defend their actions and rationalize it using some pseudo moral reasoning.

i hope that doesnt come across as too offensive.

[harman]

Criteria First - no strings attached
Criteria Second - chemistry
Criteria Last - Have fun and enjoyed bonking process ;)

[goodpartner]

i hope that doesnt come across as too offensive.

As our infamous property guy always say, the members of this forum is never a representation of the main stream SG Society. Unfortunately, these main stream population is shrinking in size once the mind is open; I find myself repeatedly saying how this forum is contributing to the exposure of related knowledge; the ease & know-how of engaging FL, and on this matter, the knowledge of so many men doing the same and thus getting the "moral" support to join the dark side.

Back in the days before internet, the main-stream men (and young boys) would have a harder time seeking info on where/how to engage FL, not to mention reading so much from such threads on how other men are making excuses like "GF/wife don't like sex" as a justification to find it elsewhere; this gives the man a "I'm not alone, join in the fun" thinking. Confidence and know-how are gained, thus a new but false sense of pseudo-moral 'teaching' is propagating.

Men need to convince our mind before we perform the action.

Btw, are u a he or she?

[yoshii]

Back in the days before internet, the main-stream men (and young boys) would have a harder time seeking info on where/how to engage FL, not to mention reading so much from such threads on how other men are making excuses like "GF/wife don't like sex" as a justification to find it elsewhere; this gives the man a "I'm not alone, join in the fun" thinking. Confidence and know-how are gained, thus a new but false sense of pseudo-moral 'teaching' is propagating.

Men need to convince our mind before we perform the action.

True. I do still enjoy sex with my wife, but while I can make love to my wife, I can't fuck her, thus I will still have regressed sexual tensions. Hahahaha... It sounds like a load of crap even though I'm the one writing it.

[bmtc1112]

Back in the days before internet, the main-stream men (and young boys) would have a harder time seeking info on where/how to engage FL, not to mention reading so much from such threads on how other men are making excuses like "GF/wife don't like sex" as a justification to find it elsewhere; this gives the man a "I'm not alone, join in the fun" thinking. Confidence and know-how are gained, thus a new but false sense of pseudo-moral 'teaching' is propagating.



definitely agree that the internet has normalized these trends. and im a guy actually.

[watchmen]

I am married but have 3 fbs, lucky me considering that I am totally out of shape. The fbs I have are hotties that are in their mid-late 20s whilst I am in my 40s. 2 of them now have boyfriends but we had sex way before they came along so we kind of carried on. 1 is overseas and thankfully so as she has a sex appetite of a rabbit but we fuck intensely whenever she is on home leave.

I'd never asked them why they still carry on but I guess is that I actually do bring them out for posh dinner and wine before the action. They feel pampered and cared for. I won't say we are totally detached from each other but as with fbs, more like friends now.

All of them took time to cultivate as 1 bro mentioned earlier and I am glad it still continues.

[Agentoso]

FB - no string attached relationship. Just Fuck n go back home.

Dangerous to be emotionally involved. Both parties need to know the rules of the game. Once step out of line, thats it.

[NextGirl]

FB - no string attached relationship. Just Fuck n go back home.

Dangerous to be emotionally involved. Both parties need to know the rules of the game. Once step out of line, thats it.

So what's the different between that and paying for a prostitute?

[Agentoso]

So what's the different between that and paying for a prostitute?

U need to pay prostitute :D

[bmtc1112]

So what's the different between that and paying for a prostitute?

FBs satisfy each other's sexual needs. when engaging a prostitute, you dont have to be responsible for helping her enjoy the sex(indeed most of them do not enjoy it).

[NextGirl]

FBs satisfy each other's sexual needs. when engaging a prostitute, you dont have to be responsible for helping her enjoy the sex(indeed most of them do not enjoy it).

I get what you're saying, but I do suppose I'm also not wrong in my observation? that some "bros" here look for an FB because it's a "free meal". :rolleyes:

Too cheap for paid sex but still wanna have sex. tsk tsk.

Besides, ain't quite true about prostitutes not enjoying sex. I know some do. And the really good ones, make you wanna return the favour to her too! Me and partner have more than once engaged one or two amazing ones for some special occasions. :p

[Agentoso]

I get what you're saying, but I do suppose I'm also not wrong in my observation? that some "bros" here look for an FB because it's a "free meal". :rolleyes:

Too cheap for paid sex but still wanna have sex. tsk tsk.

Besides, ain't quite true about prostitutes not enjoying sex. I know some do. And the really good ones, make you wanna return the favour to her too! Me and partner have more than once engaged one or two amazing ones for some special occasions. :p

Not really true lah.

What i mean is we should not be emotionally involved with FB, as if developing bf/gf feeling for each other. The only feeling should be just lust.

Go out for meal, movies etc with FB, i guess is still ok.

FL.. just purely a commerical transaction between 2 parties.

[bmtc1112]

sorry i did not mean to imply that all prostitutes do not enjoy sex. naturally there will be some who do but i cant imagine they enjoy having sex for 6-10 hours a day. at the end of the day engaging a prostitute requires only money, while finding a FB requires alot more physical and possibly emotional chemistry, and the mutual attraction in FBs is something that cannot be guaranteed when hooking up with FLs ;)

[BiRd13]

Not really true lah.

What i mean is we should not be emotionally involved with FB, as if developing bf/gf feeling for each other. The only feeling should be just lust.

Go out for meal, movies etc with FB, i guess is still ok.

FL.. just purely a commerical transaction between 2 parties.

I don't really agreed that... I think pirioty in engaging a FB not cause of sextisfying each other, but more of EMOTIONAL...

Sextisfying might as well find a pros? Paid, fuck and get off sextisfactory...

At least for my 4 FB (Currently still on-going now), all involve in EMOTIONAL

[dirtyhairy]

Interesting to note how us girls regards FB and what we want from them. .. I would want my FB to be someone that's CLEAN, up for FUN, ain't afraid of going up the notch with sex, doing the things you otherwise won't do with ur partner, and mutual respect. And of coz, someone whom I can hold a decent conversation with. Wouldn't mind fat, old or unattractive, because honestly, I get turned on alot more with what goes on up in their head(the big one, not the small one). Hahaha
:p

Wah seh...true or not Siis NextGirl your criteria for a FB?
lidat can you review application from Uncle LaoBaby aka DirtyHairy?:D
as me old but look young, fat but with abs, unattractive but not ugly
all certainly a good fit of your stated qualiities
sum more, honestly not only can me hold conversation with thee
DH can also entertain you in bed oooh so nicely without removing yr panty:p
as he's perpetually horny, so when it comes to sex, there's nothing too kinky
except that it must yield the ultimate pleasure for both fucker and fuckee
Yet no illegal stuff that even HELL will find too criminally hot to refuse entry
perhaps for starters, you let me start at the level of your CB
Now, pls dont be hasty, me not crude and I am not referring to your fanny
but merely proposing CB as a Chat Buddy...
and if suitable may be graduate to be your FB,
so how? wanna take a chance and try Laobaby?:D

[naturegreen]

So what's the different between that and paying for a prostitute?

Aiyo so simple. FB you can get to choose which guy you want but prostitute most of the time don't get to choose their bonking partners.

[White Volcano]

FB is someone u actually have a platonic relationship with...n of course being a FB the sex is included. Well...atleast for me...I dont have any FB at the moment but I used to have a few during my younger days...n I must say...I really did care for them n I was compassionate about their needs n stuffs but its just that I wasnt interested to be in a relationship...but just bcoz u r not interested to be in relationship...doesnt mean u dont care about the person. So...FB is actually a fren, a soul mate, a buddy for beer, movie, sex, etc, etc...both enjoy each other's company n they funfill each other's biological needs.
But...goin to pros...is totally commercial...u pay...u do ur stuff n the moment u walk out of the door...U wont even remember their name...So...there r vast difference between the pros n FB...n pls...pls...for me atleast...FB is r someone that I hold great deal of respect n compassionate just like any of my frens...dont compare FBs with the Pros...

[NextGirl]

Aiyo so simple. FB you can get to choose which guy you want but prostitute most of the time don't get to choose their bonking partners.

LOL. They don't get to choose for sure, but please don't mistake that they can't reject your offer.

As most of you have explicitly repeated over and over again, it's a "business transaction" ma. I'm sure they also have the right to refuse an offer.

FB is someone u actually have a platonic relationship with...n of course being a FB the sex is included. ....but just bcoz u r not interested to be in relationship...doesnt mean u dont care about the person. So...FB is actually a fren, a soul mate, a buddy for beer, movie, sex, etc, etc...both enjoy each other's company n they funfill each other's biological needs.
....FB is r someone that I hold great deal of respect n compassionate just like any of my frens...dont compare FBs with the Pros...

I think White Volcano got what I'm trying to point out and perhaps in a much more less defensive way. What I'm trying to say is that just because you're only using someone for sex, she's not a piece of meat. Having feelings for her doesn't necessarily mean it's a boy/girl relationship. So don't be shallow(excuse me for the lack of a better word here!) and jump into conclusion that whenever a woman talks about feelings etc etc, that it's all about getting or trapping a man into commitments mah. There are so many levels of care and love that you can extend to another person.

When I questioned earlier what's the diff between a pros and a FB, I think many of you have taken it out of context or perhaps selective reading :). I was actually being sarcastic to Agentoso. :rolleyes: and not trying to compare an FB or men with pros.

Sorry Sis CuteWettie if a few of my postings have diverted your thread into trying to define what's a FB and what's not yeah. Just some of the replies here kinda irks me. But I guess everyone is entitled to their opinions. Let's all get back to the original intention of the thread instead :p

[goodpartner]

that some "bros" here look for an FB because it's a "free meal". :rolleyes:
Too cheap for paid sex but still wanna have sex. tsk tsk.


This is a sad truth.

FB you can get to choose which guy you want but prostitute most of the time don't get to choose their bonking partners.
FB is someone u actually have a platonic relationship with...n of course being a FB the sex is included. ...dont compare FBs with the Pros...
I think pirioty in engaging a FB not cause of sextisfying each other, but more of EMOTIONAL...
...engaging a prostitute requires only money, while finding a FB requires alot more physical and possibly emotional chemistry, and the mutual attraction in FBs is something that cannot be guaranteed when hooking up with FLs ;)
FL.. just purely a commerical transaction between 2 parties.

Aiya, this "what's dif between FL & Pros" question is another one of those debate that around the "grey area". Surely there's a dictionary definition for both, but then life is not black & white.

Imagine a full spectrum of colours with gradual shades of one slowly transforming to the next...

So we have pros who are purely transactional w/o emo involves, pros with KC, pros who give foc fark for KC, to FB who ask for money/gifts for sex w/o emo, FB who ask for things and need emo, FB who are foc but sticky... all the way to wife that wants money for sex... etc.

pros, FB, or wife; then what?
Just fark la!

[CuteWettie]

Oh! that's a hint? Erm... but I have just missed the train cause I never leave any PM for CuteWettie sis. And also hor though I not super yandao, but I got set some standards for a FB. :D So hor if that's really a hint, hope CuteWettie sis can add me in MSN too. Hoho!

bro that's a comment and compliment, not a hint. Sorry ya... Anyway, in case you haven't notice (or maybe you had deleted me off your msn) I am/was on your msn list.

U need to pay prostitute :D
sad truth that some are just too cheap to pay for a prostitute. Isn't it?

It's a give and you shall receive. Not feelings but time and effort. It is important to us ladies so maybe bros here can pick up a hit or two.

From some of the pms hat I receieved from bros saying they have no fb and ask me to be their fb, I can sorta deduce why from the way they message me.

[naturegreen]

bro that's a comment and compliment, not a hint. Sorry ya... Anyway, in case you haven't notice (or maybe you had deleted me off your msn) I am/was on your msn list.

Oops! :eek: Sorry ya, I have not logged on for the longest time.... cause cannot find any FBs from MSN so no point logging in. :p

[Snuber]

To me, as long as they are presentable looking, comfortable in each other's company, like each other but not to the extent of love....... or a remote possibility of being together in a r/s

[whizzer24]

So what's the different between that and paying for a prostitute?

I guess to us guys... FB mean less partners in their life
prostitute means any paid customers. :D

hahaha.. my 2nd cent opinions to attempt ur question. :p

[synyster]

as long as they know it's no strings attached.

[Pilot Preceda]

as long as got hole...

lol, i'm kidding :D

[Oink Oink]

Cannot understand why TS started this thread.

My understanding of women is that they are never quite predictable. They can lay 100 and 1 rules or criteria. In the end, they act or react against what they said.

To illustrate, most women prefer a more mature man. In the end, we read tons of articles on 姐弟恋.

It will probably make more sense if you can tell us of an incident or more because of your criterion.

[d4eth]

i feel having companionship is more impt than having fb? at least you get to do life together? p= sex is a bonus though....

[Agentoso]

This is a sad truth.







Aiya, this "what's dif between FL & Pros" question is another one of those debate that around the "grey area". Surely there's a dictionary definition for both, but then life is not black & white.

Imagine a full spectrum of colours with gradual shades of one slowly transforming to the next...

So we have pros who are purely transactional w/o emo involves, pros with KC, pros who give foc fark for KC, to FB who ask for money/gifts for sex w/o emo, FB who ask for things and need emo, FB who are foc but sticky... all the way to wife that wants money for sex... etc.

pros, FB, or wife; then what?
Just fark la!


Agree... different ppl have different criteria on FB. All up to individual.

[Agentoso]

bro that's a comment and compliment, not a hint. Sorry ya... Anyway, in case you haven't notice (or maybe you had deleted me off your msn) I am/was on your msn list.


sad truth that some are just too cheap to pay for a prostitute. Isn't it?

It's a give and you shall receive. Not feelings but time and effort. It is important to us ladies so maybe bros here can pick up a hit or two.

From some of the pms hat I receieved from bros saying they have no fb and ask me to be their fb, I can sorta deduce why from the way they message me.

Well mayb some have this kind of mentality. This topic is really subjective and i dun think there are any definite criterias on FB

[ken_v2]

men, when you marry your wives, you are making a lifelong commitment, part of which is to be sexually monogamous. whether or not your sex life is satisfying, it does not give a husband a moral free pass to engage in affairs. dont get me wrong, i know how hard it can be, and many men inevitably stray. but i would have men admit that they are wrong and feel remorse for their indiscretions, rather than defend their actions and rationalize it using some pseudo moral reasoning.



i beg to differ because if i am not sexually satisfied by my wife, i will have a FB or look for paid sex.

that comes to the point or grey area regarding FB/Prostitutes.

for FB, you have relationship first (friends, colleagues, whatever)
you can click and chat, ie chemistry
both of you are inconvenient to be in the same relationship, married, attached or whatever stupid reason (want to be socially single)
the sex spice up the relationship...

monetary involvment are the dates that happened - lunches usually (so that is the grey area with prostitutes as there is some money involved, but not always)

if you think having a FB and visiting a prostitue is the same, i would say probably you never have a FB before.

cheers
:D

[bmtc1112]

i beg to differ because if i am not sexually satisfied by my wife, i will have a FB or look for paid sex.

that comes to the point or grey area regarding FB/Prostitutes.

for FB, you have relationship first (friends, colleagues, whatever)
you can click and chat, ie chemistry
both of you are inconvenient to be in the same relationship, married, attached or whatever stupid reason (want to be socially single)
the sex spice up the relationship...

monetary involvment are the dates that happened - lunches usually (so that is the grey area with prostitutes as there is some money involved, but not always)

if you think having a FB and visiting a prostitue is the same, i would say probably you never have a FB before.

cheers
:D

sorry but i think you've misunderstood my point. i wasn't discussing the differences between an FB and an FL. rather, i was trying to dispel the excuse that men always use to justify extra-marital affairs (be it with FBs or FLs). i wanted to show that when you marry your wife, you make a commitment to her for better or worse, and one of these responsibilities is to be monogamous regardless of the state of your sex life. an unsatisfying sex life does not justify extra-marital affairs, and although i can understand the sexual frustration involved, men should have considered that before getting married. of course no man is perfect, but to simply brush it off as something that is inevitable paves the for the rationalizing and moralizing of such discretions, which is sacrilege to the institution of marriage. therefore, we should not be celebrating these affairs as a normal state of things, but we should actively condemn the deed if not the doer.

[eternally]

Err most of my fbs or ex fb are either attached or married. I find them more attractive than single guys. No offence to single guys out there.
But I prefer mature guy though. Older than me n have more experience.

Can satisfy both of our needs.
Looks wise.. Presentable. I'm not looking for handsome guy to go for contest so as Long he can meet my needs.

But I won't find my frds to be my fb as it is rather awkward to do with someone I know.

[dirtyhairy]

sorry but i think you've misunderstood my point. ... i wanted to show that when you marry your wife, you make a commitment to her for better or worse, and one of these responsibilities is to be monogamous regardless of the state of your sex life. an unsatisfying sex life does not justify extra-marital affairs, and although i can understand the sexual frustration involved, men should have considered that before getting married. of course no man is perfect, but to simply brush it off as something that is inevitable paves the for the rationalizing and moralizing of such discretions, which is sacrilege to the institution of marriage. therefore, we should not be celebrating these affairs as a normal state of things, but we should actively condemn the deed if not the doer.

Yo bmtc112, alto I can understand
your views on the institution of marriage which are fair comment
perhaps here's a different point for you to ponder
take the case of a poor hapless wife whose husband's a terror
not only a gambler, drug abuser, he's also a wife beater
must the wife, who's the family sole bread winner, continue to suffer
just for the sake of the marriage vows and to endure her reckless partner?
As such, not all who stray ought to be condemned
because life's full of challenges we can fully overcome nor understand

[dirtyhairy]

Err most of my fbs or ex fb are either attached or married. I find them more attractive than single guys... But I prefer mature guy though. Older than me n have more experience. Can satisfy both of our needs. Looks wise.. Presentable. I'm not looking for handsome guy to go for contest so as Long he can meet my needs. But I won't find my frds to be my fb as it is rather awkward to do with someone I know.

Hullo hullo Sista Eternally
wow like that your criteria for a FB
will find many of us drooling and eager because we fit in certainly
Experience, maturity many of us have aplenty
also at our age, all of us should be married/divorced and thus wont be clingy
what's better when you mentioned no need to be humsome lagi
just be cool, presentable and should not be a friend of yours already
yipppppeeeeeee....looks like laobaby fits the bill perfectly
so how Sista E, for starters may I buy you a cup of YaKoon toast & Kopi?:D

[CuteWettie]

wow so many bros here finding fbs?

[dirtyhairy]

wow so many bros here finding fbs?

Sex is the best thing that has ever been discovered!

Now that you have asked, yo Sista Cute&Wet:p
but the answer, I guess, is in red above, put up by you in case you forget:D

[templton]

hmmmm criteria....

as an 1983 guy, i think will still to age 24 above and 40 less depends ... and not hitching on students...
some times students gives a freak out and cause problems to your work and affecting ur normal life... =(

[Vincentv26]

wow so many bros here finding fbs?

In life, it's always good to have options...

[eternally]

Hullo hullo Sista Eternally
wow like that your criteria for a FB
will find many of us drooling and eager because we fit in certainly
Experience, maturity many of us have aplenty
also at our age, all of us should be married/divorced and thus wont be clingy
what's better when you mentioned no need to be humsome lagi
just be cool, presentable and should not be a friend of yours already
yipppppeeeeeee....looks like laobaby fits the bill perfectly
so how Sista E, for starters may I buy you a cup of YaKoon toast & Kopi?:D

just yakun only? =x

[CuteWettie]

Sex is the best thing that has ever been discovered!

Now that you have asked, yo Sista Cute&Wet:p
but the answer, I guess, is in red above, put up by you in case you forget:D

bro, sex might be the best thing that has ever been discovered but it doesnt mean that i want as many fbs as i can get out there. And why would i FORGET about that.

And by the way, i dont see any link from what you quoted from my signature to what i asked. Even if sex is the best thing ever, it doesnt mean you need an fb to fulfil your needs. your spouse can be the one fulfilling them.

I ESPECIALLY HATE IT WHEN PEOPLE TRY TO STUFF WORDS INTO MY MOUTH OR TWIST MY WORDS AROUND.

[bmtc1112]

Yo bmtc112, alto I can understand
your views on the institution of marriage which are fair comment
perhaps here's a different point for you to ponder
take the case of a poor hapless wife whose husband's a terror
not only a gambler, drug abuser, he's also a wife beater
must the wife, who's the family sole bread winner, continue to suffer
just for the sake of the marriage vows and to endure her reckless partner?
As such, not all who stray ought to be condemned
because life's full of challenges we can fully overcome nor understand

those are some interesting points, and i certainly feel that people who stray do not always need to be condemned, although there is no excuse for infidelity. regarding your point about wive's having to tolerate such behavior from their husbands, i would suggest that they have, by behaving in such a boorish manner, already broken their responsibilities as husbands as well, which are not confined to monogamy but also providence and protection. i fully appreciate your comments though, and its nice to have some discussions that are not centered around purely lust for once :)

[Chinapuss]

YAWNZZZzzzzzz.....*ZZZZZZZzzzZZZZzzzzzzzzzzzzz....

[whizzer24]

Err most of my fbs or ex fb are either attached or married. I find them more attractive than single guys.

Can those guys who r very attached to their work be considered in a way attached too?? :D

Can satisfy both of our needs.

both needs?? wallet and puss?? :P

But I won't find my frds to be my fb as it is rather awkward to do with someone I know.

No 1 Criteria to be your FB for guys: if u wan the gal to be ur fb, make sure u r not known to her family tree, colleagues, and even BFF!!! :D

[dirtyhairy]

bro, sex might be the best thing that has ever been discovered but it doesnt mean that i want as many fbs as i can get out there. And why would i FORGET about that.

And by the way, i dont see any link from what you quoted from my signature to what i asked. Even if sex is the best thing ever, it doesnt mean you need an fb to fulfil your needs. your spouse can be the one fulfilling them.

I ESPECIALLY HATE IT WHEN PEOPLE TRY TO STUFF WORDS INTO MY MOUTH OR TWIST MY WORDS AROUND.

Yo Sista CW..ok sorry if my post had upset thee
I was merely trying to explain why so many bros are looking for FBs
As this is a forum on sex, is this not the reason obviously?
thus my reason to quote thy signature since sex is what it is all about really
As to mouth stuffing or words twisting, I would not dare
alto if I could, I would rather stuff and twist in a pussy's lair :D

[dirtyhairy]

just yakun only? =x

Yo Sista Eternally...yes it's just Yakun only
swear, cross my heart, tongue and sumpah all other parts of me
not even StarBucks or that Jepun glorified kopi tiam known as TCC:D

[NextGirl]

And by the way, i dont see any link from what you quoted from my signature to what i asked. Even if sex is the best thing ever, it doesnt mean you need an fb to fulfil your needs. your spouse can be the one fulfilling them.

I ESPECIALLY HATE IT WHEN PEOPLE TRY TO STUFF WORDS INTO MY MOUTH OR TWIST MY WORDS AROUND.

Lol, way to go sis! Some ppl here really do make u cringe huh? :p

[newyorker88]

I forgot to mention, i wont sleep with a guy who is attached or married.

I experienced how it is like to be cheated on and i have been tricked into a relationship where i ended up being the third party and confronted by his rightful gf so no way am i going to get involved with someone who is attached or married.

Lady, I guess you are out to look for love, not a FB. Perhaps, you should consider looking back in your past, what went wrong. Never are we always correct in a relationship. From what you wrote, I bet you been thru more than one bad relationship, and it is repeating all the time. I hope you examine your own past so as not to repeat it again in the future.

Trying to hook a FB here will just compound the problems you are facing now.

Just my 2 cents.

[dirtyhairy]

Lol, way to go sis! Some ppl here really do make u cringe huh? :p

Indeed, sama sama, some ppl's lack of humour also make u singe:(

[Lionrod32]

Bro and sis, juz chill lah .... Everyone is entitled to their own opinion .... Peace ok ...
:)

[xiaogui1502]

This is an interesting topic. Always talk abt finding FBs, never thought abt how to choose one. I guess the fact of thbode matter is, it is not easy to find a FB, least to say a good one. I had a few FB in my time. Here are my inputs

1) Looks of course, most be presentable.

2) Body, no need model or curvy bod, can even be plump for me.

3) Character : Must be pleasant I guess. For me, FB is also a form of companionship, no matter how limited they might be.

4) Maturity : For me, this is quite important. For me, FB is sex, companionship and sometimes a friend. So, this criteria is to contribute to other facts =

- not mixing sex and affection, basically no matter how good the sex may be, how good the companionship is, we are friends, and will play no part whatsoever in each other's love life, married or not. Basically, no strings attached.

- Understand the demand and supply of meeting up, whether for sex or chats. I would prefer my FB to be someone I can chat with, a listening ear sometimes. But she must also understand my commitment to my other lives, like family, other friends, work etc and understand that doesnt mean we had sex, means she is of higher priority to my time. But of course, sometimes with sex, men tend to give higher priority to FB :P, me included. Just that, there are occasions when I really cannot meet, then she can understand.

5) Last but not least, must enjoy sex with me. This is impt as I think FB is an another where u can explore the full potential of pleasure of sex (some things jus cannot be achieve with OCs), so I would like my FB to enjoy it.

my 2 cents worth....

[eternally]

Yo Sista Eternally...yes it's just Yakun only
swear, cross my heart, tongue and sumpah all other parts of me
not even StarBucks or that Jepun glorified kopi tiam known as TCC:D

wondering what's nice to eat there??

[eternally]

[COLOR="Magenta"]

No 1 Criteria to be your FB for guys: if u wan the gal to be ur fb, make sure u r not known to her family tree, colleagues, and even BFF!!! :D

sexual needs. I dun ask $$ from my fb. I'm financially stable.

[self_reserved]

I once had a fling whom was willing to accommodate my kinky needs.
what i look for in a fling;
looks presentable, figure does not need to be super nap (firm pair of butts is a big bonus though :p) but not so fluffy.no mood swing as it's a turn off to me.dirty talk during making out. initiative :rolleyes: be my kaki for movies, going out together and stuffs. and lastly, she must not have more than a fling as I will stay 'loyalty' towards her too.:o

best if she is an accommodating girl. hehe

[PointB]

oopzz.. I still send in my "application" to TS..

But to me, FB is like sex with no strings attached..
Used to have a few FBs when I worked in Thailand..

they must be non-possessive..
not calling you the whole day, only at times in "need"..
dun mind having a quickie somewhere out there..
always wear "protective equipment"

when your FB gets emotional, time to find another as the FB relationship will become a BGR!!

[bleuwings]

issue is to find a fb who enjoys as much sex and good at it too...

[style88]

I know there are threads out there about FBs and all...

Just want to know if anyone have strict or any form of criteria when getting an FB.

For me, strictly no way for guys younger than me (must be borned in 1986 or earlier), looks at least 6/10, mustnt be fat.

Ya i know i will get zapped for being so choosy but we are all out to enjoy the experience isnt it? who would want to have sex with someone who you cant even stand to look at for longer than a minute?

I am very selective in FBs. Not every nice looking girl can be my FB

Having a FB is also a commitment in some ways, at least I still need to find some time for her.

Hence, to start off with, my FB has to be younger, at least a 7/10 and slim. But most importantly is whether can click in communication. She must be somewhat intelligent and able to carry conversation well.

Also, she must not be married. If she does, even the prettiest girl I will not take it. I don't like to screw other people's wives.

Guess that's all about it.

[goodpartner]

Yo bmtc112, alto I can understand
your views on the institution of marriage which are fair comment
perhaps here's a different point for you to ponder
take the case of a poor hapless wife whose husband's a terror
not only a gambler, drug abuser, he's also a wife beater
must the wife, who's the family sole bread winner, continue to suffer
just for the sake of the marriage vows and to endure her reckless partner?
As such, not all who stray ought to be condemned
because life's full of challenges we can fully overcome nor understand

Bro DH, this particular case is one of those exceptions la.

I agree with bro/sis bmtc112 on the views. More often than not, most married person here looking for FB/FL does not fall into that category, but indeed just seeking 'moral' support here (maybe subconsciously) to engage in it. We have many forums to visit, those who have subconsciously decided to be faithful will do good asking or reading up similar threads in flowerpot (eg) forum, BUT by reading up or asking in such a sex forum ONLY, means the mind has been made up.

The extreme cases like the one you mentioned will need other support like counseling and even court PPO, if not a divorce. Even those who got explicit permission from the spouse to seek external sexual needs, in the context of marriage vow, are arguable. The rest simply fail to honor the "contract" :D

At the end of the day, only the doer knows where to draw his/her own line in order to answer to his/her own heart conscious and personal values, so as to live life without guilt.

Anyone bro/sis here, for example, decided to end the marriage after a late discovery of your inability to remian faithful? Or I'm sure there are some who choose to remain single for the very same reason? ;)

[CuteWettie]

Lady, I guess you are out to look for love, not a FB. Perhaps, you should consider looking back in your past, what went wrong. Never are we always correct in a relationship. From what you wrote, I bet you been thru more than one bad relationship, and it is repeating all the time. I hope you examine your own past so as not to repeat it again in the future.

Trying to hook a FB here will just compound the problems you are facing now.

Just my 2 cents.

Please dont try to educate or teach me how to leave my life here. Giving my guys TOO MUCH trust and freedom ended things this way. I am NOT here to look for love NEITHER am i here to HOOK UP with any fb.

Starting this thread is just to ask for opinions and for people to share what they look out for in FB. If you DO READ properly, you will realise that there are others out there who have their own preference towards FB. Not all is just free fuck.

[simple2kee]

I am very selective in FBs. Not every nice looking girl can be my FB


bro, u r really good & v the selective too! i hv never had 1 b4 in my life.

[|GD_GeR|]

Please dont try to educate or teach me how to leave my life here. Giving my guys TOO MUCH trust and freedom ended things this way. I am NOT here to look for love NEITHER am i here to HOOK UP with any fb.

Starting this thread is just to ask for opinions and for people to share what they look out for in FB. If you DO READ properly, you will realise that there are others out there who have their own preference towards FB. Not all is just free fuck.

Hey Sis.. Relax.. It is always normal for bros put there to pm u asking to be fbs and all.. Some ppl just doesn't read or chose to ignore..

Anyway.. It's gd that I've started this thread to share as everyone have their own preference to what they like or not like.. :)

I personally thinks that.. Looks is Nt As important.. Be in doing it with ya bf.. Husband or fb.. I believe that the feeling between both pArty is relatively impt so as to enjoy the sex as well as each company at the end of the day.. I think that as long as he looks presentable then it's fine with me..

I also tend to like older guys.. Lolz.. Not sure y.. Perhaps I find them with more charisma and are more mature..

But I think most importantly.. Both party must enjoy sex.. :)

P.s: do not pm me regarding fbs request.. Thanks!! Just here to share..

[silvers]

I also tend to like older guys.. Lolz.. Not sure y.. Perhaps I find them with more charisma and are more mature..

But I think most importantly.. Both party must enjoy sex.. :)

P.s: do not pm me regarding fbs request.. Thanks!! Just here to share..

i think your inbox gonna be flooded with tinkles from Older, Charismatic, Mature brothers who enjoy sex in no time liao :D

[whizzer24]

Please dont try to educate or teach me how to leave my life here. Giving my guys TOO MUCH trust and freedom ended things this way. I am NOT here to look for love NEITHER am i here to HOOK UP with any fb.

.

Hi sis, don't get annoyed.. :) it's all words in here and most of the time, people give "meaning" to the words, the meaning they want to see. :)

it really doesn't matter as long as u r doing what u like. :) ur reality is not theirs and they don't create ur reality too. at the end of the day after all these, ur bf is still the one enjoying ur passion and love but not them mah. :D

[|GD_GeR|]

i think your inbox gonna be flooded with tinkles from Older, Charismatic, Mature brothers who enjoy sex in no time liao :D

Hahaz.. I am praying hard that it doesnt.. :p but there are alwaYs the option To select all then move to trash right?! Lolz..

[HiddenAngel]

Please dont try to educate or teach me how to leave my life here. Giving my guys TOO MUCH trust and freedom ended things this way. I am NOT here to look for love NEITHER am i here to HOOK UP with any fb.

Starting this thread is just to ask for opinions and for people to share what they look out for in FB. If you DO READ properly, you will realise that there are others out there who have their own preference towards FB. Not all is just free fuck.

Hi Sis, don't get too upset over the comments here, some guys think they are some 'professional' or smart enough to 'educate' the bro & sis here, thinking they have eaten more salt then we ate rice.

Some guys simply don't understand English, we are asking for their criteria/views on having a FB NOT we giving out our criteria to have a FB HERE! Also do not think that we are giving free fuck to anyone of you here just becoz you PM us or neither do I simply meet anyone in H81. :mad:

[Lionrod32]

Bros and sisters ... Chill out lah ... Look like this is potentially going to be a mud slinging match lah ... Stick to the original thread title of stating your FB criteria lah ... No need to be personal ... Everyone has their own opinion ... PEACE to all ....

And of course happy hunting hehehe

[self_reserved]

oops forgot to add that she must be single though I would not rule out the possibility that we may able to develop into a relationship.call me weird, but a sticky gf turns me on, provided we have deep mutual feeling for each other, that is. :cool::D:p

[eternally]

oops forgot to add that she must be single though I would not rule out the possibility that we may able to develop into a relationship.call me weird, but a sticky gf turns me on, provided we have deep mutual feeling for each other, that is. :cool::D:p

sticky gf turns u on .. Well that is really weird. Most guys dun really like their gfs to stick with them especially guys outings or some private events.

[naturegreen]

I also tend to like older guys.. Lolz.. Not sure y.. Perhaps I find them with more charisma and are more mature..

But I think most importantly.. Both party must enjoy sex.. :)

P.s: do not pm me regarding fbs request.. Thanks!! Just here to share..

You mean someone like me? :rolleyes: *joking*

[cLifff]

You mean someone like me? :rolleyes: *joking*

Your mailbox is flooded with FB request...

[jasonking]

Love is the name
Sex is the game
Forget the name and play the game!

[cLifff]

When i screw her willingly and she let me screw her willingly. I don't feels gulity screwing her.

[Rain-Men]

Never had a FB before so i supposed i can only dream about her at this moment:

1. Presentable enough for me liao. (my standard around 6.5 to 7 lah)
2. Preferably a married lady...age can be late 20s onwards..
3. Someone who I can talk cock, express myself freely as well besides sex....
4. Of course..no strings attached..able to draw the line yet loyal to each other for that moment (So i could only have 1 FB at any one time) :D

Anyway still dreaming about her..haha

[naturegreen]

Your mailbox is flooded with FB request...

I don't mind if the requests are all from females. :D

[|GD_GeR|]

You mean someone like me? :rolleyes: *joking*

hahaz.. naturegreen bro.. i waiting for u to pm me lehz.. lol .. :P go drinking??

[bmtc1112]

ive noticed quite a number of people have indicated a preference for FBs who are married. presumably this is because a married FB represents less emotional hassle?

however, im curious about the mindsets of those of you who have the above mentioned mentality. how do u guys feel about the golden rule:
The Golden Rule or ethic of reciprocity is a maxim,[2] an ethical code, or a morality,[3] that essentially states either of the following:

1. One should treat others as one would like others to treat oneself (positive form)[2]
2. One should not treat others in ways that one would not like to be treated

or does this kind of ethical standard not affect your behavior at all? im posing this question at people who have a 'preference' for married FBs, not people who unintentionally find married folk. im just curious and mean no offence, as i understand that morality and ethics are not universally binding.

[block11]

criteria? sometimes it is not in our choice but in our fate... :p

hahaz.. naturegreen bro.. i waiting for u to pm me lehz.. lol .. :P go drinking??

waa sis... still not enough PMs to keep you busy? :eek:

[|GD_GeR|]

criteria? sometimes it is not in our choice but in our fate... :p



waa sis... still not enough PMs to keep you busy? :eek:

hahaz.. wher got ppl wanna pm me? :/ u also no pm me.. stil dare to say.. lol .. my small stalker.. :P

[BiRd13]

hahaz.. wher got ppl wanna pm me? :/ u also no pm me.. stil dare to say.. lol .. my small stalker.. :P

Lol.. .you type this way...really not scare of ppl pm u ar...

[|GD_GeR|]

Lol.. .you type this way...really not scare of ppl pm u ar...

hahaz.. bro.. they pm me is one thing.. i wanna reply anot is another thing mahz.. lol .. at most i select all and delete.. :P

[geckoSG]

I don't mind if the requests are all from females. :D

Bro, you mean got guys request for U? :D

[self_reserved]

sticky gf turns u on .. Well that is really weird. Most guys dun really like their gfs to stick with them especially guys outings or some private events.

hmm I seldom go out, i don't chiong club and pubs too. neither am I keen in private events unless it is an event between me and my fling. :rolleyes:

[Pkcom]

For me i guss Fbs must not be married as i believe in karma.....

I prefer Fbs whom are average looking will do if possible some common interest

Juz looking someone whom can be ard when u r lonely and have some needs

nice to have fb whom can travel cos will be more interesting

[firejalan]

If i can ever find a FB, really hard for me, don't think i ever find one...
We must like how each other look,
Preferable can be like a gf,
I like it to b more than just sex,
talk, do things, have fun, even better if can enjoy a good meal with me,
anyway sex w emotion r the best.
Well, just my thots :)

[hoosdathu]

where do i queue up for registration please, sis TS?

[future_80]

wanna meet up?

[naturegreen]

I guess starting up this thread must have kept TS real busy.

[moonstone9699]

Simply put, the definition of a FB has been blurred. To set out or know the criteria for a FB, the definition has to be crisp clear. Being a FB is always mixed up with being a mistress or third party. Each has their own rules of the game although quite similiar and divided by jus a thin grey line.
I myself do not fully understand the difinition either and cant see where the line is too, but i do know that a no-strings attached FB relationship will or might develop into fully tied-up affair where it threatens the married or attached party if one party is not, or even if both parties are married or attached.
To quote, I had a mutual relationship with a gal friend of 4 yrs, who's also married, that developed into a sexual affair. After the deed, it was agreed upon mutually that its gonna be a relationship centered on sexual satisfaction behind closed doors. Rules of the game were spelt out and agreed upon. Things went on as per normal when we were out with our friends, including my wife and her hubby, whom i do not know well. But things started turning south when she felt that i treated her better than her hubby did and got jealous when i treated my wife good too. Worse, she even attempted to talk to my wife about our relationship and hoped that i'll divorce my wife and be with her cos she's ready to get away from her hubby. Ending? she managed to get thru her thoughts and we carried on with our relationship as per normal for a year till she migrated with her hubby 2 yrs ago. We still meet up and have our 'reunion' fun whenever she back here visiting her parents.
So, is there a fine line between a FB n mistress or no-strings attached relationship? what had happened to me could be just a small probability of how a FB might develop into. But i'll still place my bet on getting a FB who is married if u r too, and keep the weight on jus satisfying each other's sexual needs and not involve too much emotion.

[Cronux]

Not much criteria.

She see me nice, I see her nice.
What happens in the room stay in the room.
Ok, criteria fulfilled. :)

[Cocky]

I dont have any criteria for FB, cos You choose other but other will also choose you. Is a 2 edged sword, you can cut other with it but you can also cut yourself with it.

[fengzj]

hygiene , i mean before work out we have a shower first. not too obese haha. looks is subjective as long as comfortable with each others thats all.

[naturegreen]

For me i guss Fbs must not be married as i believe in karma.....

I prefer Fbs whom are average looking will do if possible some common interest

Juz looking someone whom can be ard when u r lonely and have some needs

nice to have fb whom can travel cos will be more interesting

If not married then why find FB? Can find bf/gf mah. Attached also got karma one leh.

[|GD_GeR|]

I guess starting up this thread must have kept TS real busy.

hahaz.. isn't it as usual.. after such thread.. TS went missing cos PM box too full.. :P

[naturegreen]

hahaz.. isn't it as usual.. after such thread.. TS went missing cos PM box too full.. :P

Haha you must have experienced it before as well. :D

[Krazzie]

Nowadays FB can mean a lot of things... from frequent F-ing buddy all the way up to bf/gf without the namesakes..

Just make sure both parties know the rules of the game they are comfortable with, otherwise if one party breaks the rule someone gets hurt.

As for myself bonked 20-40 ladies before hahaha guess I am adventurous :D .... to me looks as long as one look don feel disgusted or faint can already.. since the action is the most important part of the relationship thats why is call "Fuck Buddy" right?

[CuteWettie]

hahaz.. isn't it as usual.. after such thread.. TS went missing cos PM box too full.. :P

Haha you must have experienced it before as well. :D

Yeap you guys are right... Inbox flooded...

[calex]

well, that mean you got around 200 plus applicants for sis cutewettie to choose... so happy searching,..

[BiRd13]

Yeap you guys are right... Inbox flooded...

can guess ba... also a way to filter out peeps =X
Or like sis |GD_GeR| suggested... Select ALL + Press Delete =X

[saintathome]

Well for me first of all both Parties must understand no strings attached. Second both of us must know that we cannot b jealous of each other nor must we commit to each other. Then comes look just alright will b good... And most importantly we r out for fun so msg know how to enjoy!

[justcurious29]

I know there are threads out there about FBs and all...

Just want to know if anyone have strict or any form of criteria when getting an FB.

For me, strictly no way for guys younger than me (must be borned in 1986 or earlier), looks at least 6/10, mustnt be fat.

Ya i know i will get zapped for being so choosy but we are all out to enjoy the experience isnt it? who would want to have sex with someone who you cant even stand to look at for longer than a minute?

1. Discreet
2. Enjoy companion of each other

[karn]

I don't have time to read thru all the previous posts... BUT I like to set a form of criteria in looking for FB. "Click" is the word!

Personally i viewed FB just like a long time friend who can hang out with. This normally turned out to be someone of the opposite sex who miraculously think differently able to comfort each other without tying each other down in any commitment.

But the meaning and understanding turns out to exploit as "no string attached" which also equate to just meet and for pleasure.

[queenlove]

I'd much prefer fb to be humorous and also, can do things like in a r/s, eg. movies, dinner, maybe overseas to relax.. the main thing is must feel comfortable.. but the bottom line is still there. NO STRING ATTACHED.

[maxpee88]

Hmmm... I had an FB before

I dont have a criteria. But I guess these are what I will look for

a. Fairly attractive - not necessary 10/10. As long as got sense of humor, confident, and nice NON-FAT body can already

b. Active - my past FB was very sporty. She runs the 10K and so she is well toned

c. Age no difference to me as long as mind and body is healthy

d. Not a CRAZED pyscho. FBs are FBs. NO MORE than that. No Strings Attached

e. Spontaneous. My ex FB and I will sometimes not plan and call each other just for an hour of pure LUST and SEX.

f. Clean and Regular period. Very important for both my ex FB and myself.
We are fastidous. We are very clean. No STD, No drugs, No smoking and no alcohol. Her period is very regular maybe because she is active in sports.
That means that our fucking sessions are all down with me shooting my load inside her during the 'safe zone'. She loves the feeling of my shaven circumsize penis just thrusting in her shaven bald pussy.

I can tell you if you PM me. (ha ha hah)

[self_reserved]

I'd much prefer fb to be humorous and also, can do things like in a r/s, eg. movies, dinner, maybe overseas to relax.. the main thing is must feel comfortable.. but the bottom line is still there. NO STRING ATTACHED.

yeah i agreed. but the last part, i don't really mind.
too bad my female buddy is a conservative girl, ever thought of asking her to be my fling.:rolleyes:

[|GD_GeR|]

Haha you must have experienced it before as well. :D


hahaz.. experienced it before.. and still experiencing.. lol .. :P never seems to stop..

[|GD_GeR|]

can guess ba... also a way to filter out peeps =X
Or like sis |GD_GeR| suggested... Select ALL + Press Delete =X

hahaz.. so far.. that is the best solution.. lol .. think.. maybe should make the pm box.. like hotmail like that.. can classify some as junk.. lol ..

[naturegreen]

\hahaz.. experienced it before.. and still experiencing.. lol .. :P never seems to stop..

You are one sexperienced samtress. Hee

hahaz.. so far.. that is the best solution.. lol .. think.. maybe should make the pm box.. like hotmail like that.. can classify some as junk.. lol ..

Good suggestion. Propose this to the boss.

[CuteWettie]

hahaz.. so far.. that is the best solution.. lol .. think.. maybe should make the pm box.. like hotmail like that.. can classify some as junk.. lol ..
Good thinking! Maybe can filter these pms as junk according to title. Save time!

[CuteWettie]

Anyway, back to the topic of criteria for fb, I remember reading on of the threads started by a bro about cultivating a syt fb or something along that line.

Why the effort to cultivate a fb if it's just bonk and go?

Just my 2 cents. Not meant to offend anyone.

[massaman]

Have you ever thought you will have someone in the forum as your FB?

[Krazzie]

Anyway, back to the topic of criteria for fb, I remember reading on of the threads started by a bro about cultivating a syt fb or something along that line.

Why the effort to cultivate a fb if it's just bonk and go?

Just my 2 cents. Not meant to offend anyone.

I guess Singapore girls or rather girls in general are very conservative, even if they want it (ALOT) they will still not do it ... personally got one time gotten the girl naked and damn high but she e-brake at last minute... wah liew almost raped her then heng ah.. else go Changi peh liao.

So to overcome this kind of resistance sometimes there is a need to 'cultivate' the fb you know like tease here of possibilities, make her high but don't do more... etc etc.. Long line fish big fishes :D

I guess most people forget that human minds are easily corruptible, given enough time anyone will be corrupted. ;)

[dirtyhairy]

I guess Singapore girls or rather girls in general are very conservative, even if they want it (ALOT) they will still not do it ...
I guess most people forget that human minds are easily corruptible, given enough time anyone will be corrupted. ;)

Yo almost rapist Bro K
lidat you say, not fair leh
because even for a long long time not everyone, nope
especially not the Pope I hope:D

[|GD_GeR|]

\

You are one sexperienced samtress. Hee


Good suggestion. Propose this to the boss.

hahaz.. am i? i wonder.. lolz.. :P

hmm.. will propose.. when i find out who is boss first.. lolz.. :P

[|GD_GeR|]

Good thinking! Maybe can filter these pms as junk according to title. Save time!

hahaz.. yahz.. of cos.. then we wont have to entertain everyone pm.. :/

[kensheeh89]

hahaz.. yahz.. of cos.. then we wont have to entertain everyone pm.. :/

Hor!!!!! bad bad gdger jie jie teach cuttiewettie jie jie to ignore ppl pm wor ar???? LOL... aiyo both of u jyjy in ur work and studies lor... waitin for u both to continue wor XD * open bottles of long island tea for both gdger and cuttiewettie jie * :D any1 else wans??

[raddingu]

I don't know, I haven't that such an experience. But I gave it some thought and I guess everyone has their own idea to what pertains an FB and the common trait sought is non-exclusivity.

Other than the bulk of people here looking for a F-Buddy, the other side of the coin is Friends with Benefits, which I think borders very close to being in a relationship but having absolutely no commitment and the no say as to what the other party does.

That right now?

[|GD_GeR|]

Hor!!!!! bad bad gdger jie jie teach cuttiewettie jie jie to ignore ppl pm wor ar???? LOL... aiyo both of u jyjy in ur work and studies lor... waitin for u both to continue wor XD * open bottles of long island tea for both gdger and cuttiewettie jie * :D any1 else wans??

what what?? humph. i good one k.. that's why i teach her..

[Krazzie]

Yo almost rapist Bro K
lidat you say, not fair leh
because even for a long long time not everyone, nope
especially not the Pope I hope:D

"Given enough time"... means if the person don't give you the time then you also bo bian suck thumb cannot corrupt lor

That's why there are those who want it but needs time to 'open' up :D

[kensheeh89]

what what?? humph. i good one k.. that's why i teach her..

LOL.... gd_ger jie ignore me dun wan the long island tea ar???? hao la u gd ger ger nah...

[missyqueenie]

Heard from a fellow sister abt SB
well finally a thread suitable for a women to post in
.
A FB
he has to be someone cute, looks clean and of course not appearing too desperate. Prefer a skinny man than to those who drank protein shake haha

[indotaipan]

Ehh....CuteWettie, I thought you said before that one of your criteria is "no married or attached men"??? but you just said this : "Why the effort to cultivate a fb if it's just bonk and go?"

So you gonna change your criteria??? :) Hoping Hoping.....

[hihiz]

I guess i'll need someone around my age, and someone slim. As long as the face don't scare me away, i am quite okay with that...

[CuteWettie]

Ehh....CuteWettie, I thought you said before that one of your criteria is "no married or attached men"??? but you just said this : "Why the effort to cultivate a fb if it's just bonk and go?"

So you gonna change your criteria??? :) Hoping Hoping.....

bro maybe u mistaken my post. My stand on no married or attached man still stand.

what you've quoted "Why the effort to cultivate a fb if it's just bonk and go?" is to point out if having fb is about just bonk and go, why are there people who bother to spend time to cultivate an fb?

I apologise for not using simpler terms and go straight to the point and hence the misunderstanding. Well i am not saying that those who feel that fb is just about bonk and go is wrong coz i started this forum for everyone to share their views on their criteria about fb and their views. No right or wrong answer here. Well, at least not in my eyes.

[Desiderata]

Heard from a fellow sister abt SB
well finally a thread suitable for a women to post in
.
A FB
he has to be someone cute, looks clean and of course not appearing too desperate. Prefer a skinny man than to those who drank protein shake haha

Ha... Ha... Ha...
I think what you meant is beef cake.

Hey out of curiosity, are you a guy or a gal?

You reply like a gal, but in your avatar is stated as male!

Anyway like your story. Hope to read more.

Cheers

[luckyhusband]

My wife basically acts like my FB. She goes further, does more and dares to expose herself more than anyone I ever knew.

I am so lucky to be her husband!

[hunky35]

My wife basically acts like my FB. She goes further, does more and dares to expose herself more than anyone I ever knew.

I am so lucky to be her husband!

Elaborate on 'goes further & does more' bro

[xshadowx]

Agreed with CuteWettie. I currently have one fb too but started out of sudden as we are colleagues for number of years already. I'm married and she's single. Understanding of each other and think start from friendship is very important... my personnal views at least. :)

bro maybe u mistaken my post. My stand on no married or attached man still stand.

what you've quoted "Why the effort to cultivate a fb if it's just bonk and go?" is to point out if having fb is about just bonk and go, why are there people who bother to spend time to cultivate an fb?

I apologise for not using simpler terms and go straight to the point and hence the misunderstanding. Well i am not saying that those who feel that fb is just about bonk and go is wrong coz i started this forum for everyone to share their views on their criteria about fb and their views. No right or wrong answer here. Well, at least not in my eyes.

[jur9]

Is there really a criteria for FB?

I reckon it's pretty much like having a partner. When you less expect it, it will happen. I don't believe that you can actually go out and "look" for a FB.

Like the sisters here mentioned, it's not like a ONS where you then really go out, try to hit on someone who "All I wanna do is make love to you, one night of love, was all we knew"

So, it's more like, go out, make friends... never know where the path will lead. Like the saying goes, never never know, if we never never go.

Have a great weekend my fellow people here.... !!!!

[MultiOrgasGuy]

I don't really set criteria for getting FBs. I prefer to keep an open mind and be flexible, so I have accepted all kinds of FBs...fat & skinny ones, older & younger ones, ugly & pretty ones too. Some are not good in bed, so I taught them. Some are not as horny but that's ok. As long as both parties mutually agree to have sex, and with no strings attached.

[freezetheDB]

like my PRC friend who always tells me

FB is really no big deal, just 吃个饭，打个炮罢了 (eat a meal, shoot a load)

[digby]

like my PRC friend who always tells me

FB is really no big deal, just 吃个饭，打个炮罢了 (eat a meal, shoot a load)

LOL. Do intro this PRC friend to samsters here> they would love to know her :)

[用过都说好]

must be a girl cuz i m a guy...

the girl must not be underage cuz the law in sg will classify it as statutory rape...

she must not be too old if not people will say she is a cougar...

she must like guys else we cant make babies...

thats all for now folks... shall be back to update more criterias once i can think of...

[survival]

my criteria:
36-40 m/175 and above/70-75kg
career-minded
non-committal
holds decent conversation, but can also be lame
witty

hmm......*fantasize*

[lonewolf001]

I think bonking aside, a conversationalist really is a turner

[SGDreamchaser]

first n foremost. must be female. lol

other than that, she must be flirty, knows when to be discreet and quite importanly, not talk to her other fbs infront of me. even though i heck care her, still a pain in the ass to shoot in ur face that i'm using a 2nd hand cb right?

oh ya. and must be +- my age 10. anything more too loose anything less kena cane.

[maxpee88]

Hmm...

Of course apart from the fact that it must be a "SHE"

to be brutally frank... there needs to be attraction for a FB relationship to begin.

So I'd say, attraction is the no.1 criteria. and followed by the NSA.

These 2 are the basic criteria for me.

My FB with a young mid 20's contractor to my office was really mindblowing awesome no holds barred, 120% pure fucking bliss.

I never never never in my life thought I would have encountered a FB, and there she was.. she was the one that made the 1st move and I was just a follower... And we had the best of the best times... I have no regrets... but only sad that we have both mutually agreed to move on...

[hunson]

think for me... I do love a FB that is active in bed... not dead fish...

also average looks and height.... a bit fleshy is ok for me... And cup size to be at least a B cup.... preferably a C Cup though as I have liking for bigger cup size ladies...

Do tell us about your requirement and your stats!

[naturegreen]

hmm.. will propose.. when i find out who is boss first.. lolz.. :P

To know who is the boss, it's easy.
Start a thread either
i) "Ask for advise".
ii) Or "ask anyone can advice you"?
iii) Do you think we should fall in love with a whore.
Then he will appear. :D

[Guy1982]

I think all e comments pretty much summarized to having the appropriate sexuality of ur required fb n having chemistry.. I want a pretty n slim Fb but that doesn't mean a chubby n plain looking jane won't blow my mind off.. Kinky calls, msgs often plays a huge part of having some mind blowing sex..

[xiaogui1502]

Maybe let me try to make it a little clearer with the bros' input. These are my definitions.

FB - A PURE sex partner. To curb each other's sex desire and needs. No strings attached. In short, the same partner to do multiple ONE NIGHT STANDS.

Companion - Basically a friend. Someone whom will take some (not a lot of) effort to meet regularly.

Sex companion - A friend whom u meet regularly and chit chat abt things, and sometimes have sex, sometimes dun.

Men can define FB clearer. Women tends to mix up Sex companion and FB. To me, if u meet up regularly, 4/5 times are for sex, then it shld be FB. If 3 or less times for sex, then it is sex companion.

[Chanelfingers]

Fb is for long term not ons so...
I have find him attractive in some ways either charismatic or cute.
Speaks proper English and mandarin
Financially stable... Very impt
Not wrking in same company and not dating somebody I know
Not more than 10 years older than myself
Taller than me, prefer 170cm n above
He must like my body as it is, love handles or no love handles...C or D... Tanned or very tanned...
ablity to perform and enjoys licking, kissing, fingering, sucking, nibbling and fucking me
Allows me to bbbj Him
I may be his swimming,jogging, pool, movie, dinner or drinking kaki, optional
But sex is the main dish... Knows not to be clingy and demanding
Keep my fb status secret, dun show and tell his friends
If he expects me to wear kinky clothes or special attires, pay for the purchases at least, cus those aren't what I need to wear daily
Prefers him to be dog/cat/fish/hamster/rabbit friendly

[ddlim]

1) Respect each other, meaning if she needs it descrete, I will be descrete and will require the same in return.
2) Be clean, i.e. disease free.
3) Not clingy, cause I'm not

I'm not too concerned about looks cause I am not a looker either.

[daniboy]

if i am looking for one, it will be the following.

1. level of maturity

2. mutual respect

3. a sense of humour

[West29]

How bout if I'm younger than you?

[shyguy1985]

if i am looking for one, it will be the following.

1. level of maturity

2. mutual respect

3. a sense of humour

agreed v daniboy bro ....

[Tai Guan]

Fb is for long term not ons so...
I have find him attractive in some ways either charismatic or cute.
Speaks proper English and mandarin
Financially stable... Very impt
Not wrking in same company and not dating somebody I know
Not more than 10 years older than myself
Taller than me, prefer 170cm n above
He must like my body as it is, love handles or no love handles...C or D... Tanned or very tanned...
ablity to perform and enjoys licking, kissing, fingering, sucking, nibbling and fucking me
Allows me to bbbj Him
I may be his swimming,jogging, pool, movie, dinner or drinking kaki, optional
But sex is the main dish... Knows not to be clingy and demanding
Keep my fb status secret, dun show and tell his friends
If he expects me to wear kinky clothes or special attires, pay for the purchases at least, cus those aren't what I need to wear daily
Prefers him to be dog/cat/fish/hamster/rabbit friendly

Agreed with the bold statement

[roxannenaughty]

agree w chanelfinger's quote.. :)

[icyiceice]

I know there are threads out there about FBs and all...

Just want to know if anyone have strict or any form of criteria when getting an FB.

For me, strictly no way for guys younger than me (must be borned in 1986 or earlier), looks at least 6/10, mustnt be fat.

Ya i know i will get zapped for being so choosy but we are all out to enjoy the experience isnt it? who would want to have sex with someone who you cant even stand to look at for longer than a minute?
Hi i'm new here...
Will FB ends up becoming couple? i nvr try FB before. just curious.

[milfmilf]

a viet massage lady met in the pub
nice and mature not very $$ face
average look and enjoy having sex with me
good enough
too bad communication both of us cannot make it :D

[lookinglooking]

I guess one criteria fits all.

Never be clingy.

True, not?

[Blurt]

I still feel that for a FB kind of arrangement, still need to bring the lady out for dinners and some dates etc. Afterall FB also can mean friends with benefits and I believe that a sort of date gives some respect to the friendship still. Of course will have to state the rules of engagement like each party has no obligation in terms of commitment of a relationship etc and free to be in an exclusive partner at any point....

[obnoxiously]

too bad communication both of us cannot make it :D

So naive! You think she jump into bed with you free without conditions too? Take a look in the mirror first, cos its either she is fishing you for more returns or want a green card. If you paid for her sex, Once paying always paying!

[muscleboi]

fb is so that we know each other better and higher chance of getting safe sex right?

[JJDoggieNDoggie]

Hehe, I am still searching

For me FB:

1)face looks not important, so long average
2)Body not too fat, below 55kg
3)at least a B cup
4)Discreet
5)Openminded and want to try someother things, roleplay etc
6)Like big dick like mine hehehe
7)Horny like to go multiple rounds

:D

[devan69]

Haha I'm still searching for my lol .
A little intro of myself
Local chi
Age 27
Looks average lookin (some tattoo)
Ht 185
Wt 76
Hobbies jogging swimming movies etc
Sex of course
Aries guy lol

[Long_LL]

Girls so open-minded these days?

Advert alert....

Me
Male Chinese
Never did the FB thing
37 (I think)
Some say thin, some say fat
Single w/o girlfriend
In need of horizontal and vertical excercise
Gemini
Calling out to attractive and proportionate Aquarius, Taurus, Gemini, Libra, Sagittarius females
Maybe Virgos, but I think it's playing with fire as this match is iffy
PM
:-)

May prefer curious and shy FB rather than veterans to start things off

[razer123]

But seriously, I've been reading around for a while already and I'm just curious how people here maintain this sort of FB relationship?

I mean, even if you have a wife/gf, I'm sure during the entire course of the FWB relationship, there will be at a point in time whereby both party develops some sort of mutual liking towards one another albeit having made clear previously that it is a no-strings attached relationship.

Having a fuck buddy is akin to having a friend and when sex comes to play, intimacy comes into play and most of the time humans by nature only share intimacy and their deepest secrets with people whom they're really close with and in this case, its your FB. That means asides from your spouse/partner, you'll be giving away this exclusivity to someone else which is your FB. Its hard not for emotions to appear during bouts of love making with your FB don't u think so?

Unless you can really tell yourself that your love for your partner is platonic and the FB is only for alternative avenues to release pent up sexual tension. Eitherway, I find no-strings attached relationships a little of an oxy-moron and it sort of like contradicts the basic values of human beings in some way or another.

I'm not AGAINST it nor am I FOR it but I'm merely stating my query...As in, I'm kinda confused how you guys juggle between your own private life and your FWB life...Because if it were me, I wouldn't be entirely too sure I can stay as committed to my partner if I ever have a FB...

[mistdream]

I would really like

-guys who wear specs.. (studious kind)
-no need to be handsome but decent looking
-serious and steady regarding his work (achiever)
-doesn't have to be very talkative
-office attire with a hint of men's perfume

that would really get my attention.. :p

[big_daddy]

I would really like

-guys who wear specs.. (studious kind)
-no need to be handsome but decent looking
-serious and steady regarding his work (achiever)
-doesn't have to be very talkative
-office attire with a hint of men's perfume

that would really get my attention.. :p

All of above except the specs part. Wanna have some fun?

[Enacts]

I would really like -guys who wear specs.. (studious kind) -no need to be handsome but decent looking -serious and steady regarding his work (achiever) -doesn't have to be very talkative -office attire with a hint of men's perfume that would really get my attention.. :p

I tick all of the above

[ch33zy]

I would really like

-guys who wear specs.. (studious kind)
-no need to be handsome but decent looking
-serious and steady regarding his work (achiever)
-doesn't have to be very talkative
-office attire with a hint of men's perfume

that would really get my attention.. :p

Ur checklist is not that hard to find.. there should be plenty around for u to pick, choose and consider..