relaxguy
08-03-2011, 03:00 AM
Hi bros,
Was just back from Bangkok thinking about how many times we could have gone for the kill but then for some reason unknown just backed off and then let it go... in retrospect, various reasons came into mind, etc self-delusional i.e. she is not that good, sometimes, she is not pretty enough, no feel, sometimes even silly reasons like lazy or tired...
I know many bros going to kill me for starting this threat especially when sometimes it seems so hard to get girls, but this threat is just a wondering out loud for me and hope all the bros here can share your views and thoughts on this?
Let me start with a few on my own.
Cooked Goose that fly away
-Few years ago, met a pretty hunan girl that was a few years older than me online in shenzhen that was divorced but a very sucessful business woman, exchanged pictures, then arranged to go for sushi lunch, then we went out to sea. The thing is that at this point in time we didnt even know each other for more than 48 hours, but she dared to pick me up from my apt in her A6, then we drove out to the yacht club in nanao. All these while we were quite clickable, hugging and very comfortable. However, perhaps at that time from too many kills, i feel bored that this is just going to be one of the kills. After dinner out at sea, she let me drove the car back to her apartment as she drink too much. Then she showed me her house. It is almost 100% sure that its going to be a goal, but for some reason i acted blur when she showed me her house and listened to all her CDs then I left without any action. The next 2 days, she picked me up and we went to romantic place to dine and each day, she would sms me about interesting things she saw. At that point in time, I have a wife, 3 SB in SZ, 1 BJ, 2 SHA excluding HK and other places so to me this was like just another score...
on the 3rd day, she asked me directly what do I want and seriously i didnt know how to answer. In retrospect, perhaps she is tired of the game coz on the 4th day, she told me she found someone else and that she is going away for business trips soon. We lost contact afterwards
I started thinking about this topic when I saw some pictures of herself as volunteers treating Tibetan Children she sent in my laptop. Now I think she was such a nice person, why didnt I treat her better, felt like I should have treated her better and prehaps she was disappointed at being so open and positive yet I was so experienced in emotion and so careless with her. Many emotions come by, perhaps she finds me too immature then? Perhaps. Anyways I got her number, perhaps I should call again the next time I am back.... maybe I even regretted not eating the cooked gooses
Another recent times was when I was at MBS just 2 weeks ago for a few drhinks with a MILF customer also a few years older than me, we were talking about some business but 1 thing let to another and before long i was holding her hand and drinking at the same time. She did not pull back and was not shy when i brought her up to Ku De Ta to party... when it ends at 3pm, I could have brought her to my hotel and score, but something just tells me to let it go and I just send her back to her hotel room.... now I realized many body language was open invitations but I just don;t care at that time... She is such a nice girl too with good heart, elegant and proper, trusting too. Told her her life story including with her husband even how her body works/ She is coming to Singapore again in 1 months time, perhaps this time I will not let the chance pass in waste.
Maybe the name of the threads should be "The many regrets in life..."
Dear bros, anyone have such experiences to share?
What could be the reasons that we let go knowing that its all in the bag?
Technically isn't this like "wasting" in a way?
Hope to hear more and perhaps learn about human nature as a whole and also to better deal with such missed chances in future...
Was just back from Bangkok thinking about how many times we could have gone for the kill but then for some reason unknown just backed off and then let it go... in retrospect, various reasons came into mind, etc self-delusional i.e. she is not that good, sometimes, she is not pretty enough, no feel, sometimes even silly reasons like lazy or tired...
I know many bros going to kill me for starting this threat especially when sometimes it seems so hard to get girls, but this threat is just a wondering out loud for me and hope all the bros here can share your views and thoughts on this?
Let me start with a few on my own.
Cooked Goose that fly away
-Few years ago, met a pretty hunan girl that was a few years older than me online in shenzhen that was divorced but a very sucessful business woman, exchanged pictures, then arranged to go for sushi lunch, then we went out to sea. The thing is that at this point in time we didnt even know each other for more than 48 hours, but she dared to pick me up from my apt in her A6, then we drove out to the yacht club in nanao. All these while we were quite clickable, hugging and very comfortable. However, perhaps at that time from too many kills, i feel bored that this is just going to be one of the kills. After dinner out at sea, she let me drove the car back to her apartment as she drink too much. Then she showed me her house. It is almost 100% sure that its going to be a goal, but for some reason i acted blur when she showed me her house and listened to all her CDs then I left without any action. The next 2 days, she picked me up and we went to romantic place to dine and each day, she would sms me about interesting things she saw. At that point in time, I have a wife, 3 SB in SZ, 1 BJ, 2 SHA excluding HK and other places so to me this was like just another score...
on the 3rd day, she asked me directly what do I want and seriously i didnt know how to answer. In retrospect, perhaps she is tired of the game coz on the 4th day, she told me she found someone else and that she is going away for business trips soon. We lost contact afterwards
I started thinking about this topic when I saw some pictures of herself as volunteers treating Tibetan Children she sent in my laptop. Now I think she was such a nice person, why didnt I treat her better, felt like I should have treated her better and prehaps she was disappointed at being so open and positive yet I was so experienced in emotion and so careless with her. Many emotions come by, perhaps she finds me too immature then? Perhaps. Anyways I got her number, perhaps I should call again the next time I am back.... maybe I even regretted not eating the cooked gooses
Another recent times was when I was at MBS just 2 weeks ago for a few drhinks with a MILF customer also a few years older than me, we were talking about some business but 1 thing let to another and before long i was holding her hand and drinking at the same time. She did not pull back and was not shy when i brought her up to Ku De Ta to party... when it ends at 3pm, I could have brought her to my hotel and score, but something just tells me to let it go and I just send her back to her hotel room.... now I realized many body language was open invitations but I just don;t care at that time... She is such a nice girl too with good heart, elegant and proper, trusting too. Told her her life story including with her husband even how her body works/ She is coming to Singapore again in 1 months time, perhaps this time I will not let the chance pass in waste.
Maybe the name of the threads should be "The many regrets in life..."
Dear bros, anyone have such experiences to share?
What could be the reasons that we let go knowing that its all in the bag?
Technically isn't this like "wasting" in a way?
Hope to hear more and perhaps learn about human nature as a whole and also to better deal with such missed chances in future...