How many times?

[hickeybites]

Can men cum more than once or twice during lovemaking?
Reason I'm asking: hubby loves to cim & I quite enjoy it myself; of cos he returns the favour - one fav position is the 69.
however i really get off with penetration & i prefer actual cock over vibrator
usually hubby is done after cumming once & he does unload quite a bit after cim

any advice/ tips that i can do to make hubby hard again after he cim?
maybe i'm being greedy here... :confused:

[BiRd13]

Can men cum more than once or twice during lovemaking?
Reason I'm asking: hubby loves to cim & I quite enjoy it myself; of cos he returns the favour - one fav position is the 69.
however i really get off with penetration & i prefer actual cock over vibrator
usually hubby is done after cumming once & he does unload quite a bit after cim

any advice/ tips that i can do to make hubby hard again after he cim?
maybe i'm being greedy here... :confused:

I think basing on age, and individual...
One can cum more than 3 times per day or some, even 10 times during young time (20+)

There's many types which can make your hubby hard again...
One of them is taking pills... (Such as revival), but dun think it works for long term wise.

Otherwsie, its exercise

[Ronsee]

My Advice:
Go to a HIGH CLASS Book Store and do some READING up on your question i m sure SBF does not have the answers you seek.

:rolleyes::D

[IwantbustyKim]

Can men cum more than once or twice during lovemaking?
Reason I'm asking: hubby loves to cim & I quite enjoy it myself; of cos he returns the favour - one fav position is the 69.
however i really get off with penetration & i prefer actual cock over vibrator
usually hubby is done after cumming once & he does unload quite a bit after cim

any advice/ tips that i can do to make hubby hard again after he cim?
maybe i'm being greedy here... :confused:

Hahaha..well i noe of friends who mast can shoot more than 5 times in one seating until they shoot blanks....but its not during sex...maybe sex is more exhaustion...

[owl888]

TS, ask ur hubby to control his cum. I tried holding back first shot to enjoy the second shot within an hour :cool:

[hickeybites]

thanks guys for the tips.
er... i prefer this sbf anonymity & am too shy to browse in a bookstore health-sex section alone. have googled too but found some literature a bit clinical. don't want to offend my man by asking & giving him wrong idea - he's a great lover

well we are in our mid-30s.
and i do worry that i'm not pleasing my man enough... i just have this impression that guys can come more than once. few times with ex-fb also proved so -- but on hindsight it was more that he's good.. i remember back with horror that i was quite a lousy lay in the past (very shy & a bit prudish)

[Tenet]

Why not just blow him for about 10 to 15 mins and then climb on him and cowgirl ? Then when he is about to come, do cim.

[Lefegordon]

15 to 25yrs old 10min
25 to 35yrs old 30min
35 to 45yrs old 60min
45 to 55yrs old 120min
55 to 65yrs old 240min

[CawaBunga]

Mid 30s, so about half an hour to an hour rest, a guy can be ready for second shot. But it can be slightly harder to rise up. A girl doing self gratification always gets me up for second shot :p:o;)

[Canoneos]

I'm in my early forties and can cum a couple of times but only if I rest for around half an hour to an hour between. The problem for men is that after orgasm, the penis gets quite sensitive and there is a big drop in sex drive. For me, it takes quite a bit of effort to come the second time and usually requires dirty talk from my wife! Also, with age, I need to abstain for a few days before being able to shoot twice in one session.

[Goldmonkey]

Definitely can. Just let your man rest a bit longer. In the meantime have some foreplay with him. Tease him abit here and there . Play with his dick and in no time his dick should be erected for a second round. :D

[Arnold66SG]

My trick: relax when shooting. If tense up, the feeling is great, but it overloads the nerves. Just relax, the feeling may not be so intense, but after 3 or 4 shots, the feeling builds up.

[yangguo]

Agreed with bro BiRd13, the guy's age plays an important part in the number of times he can cum in one session.

For me, I can cum 2-3 times in one session when I was a teenager but now I usually dont have the mood and "stamina" to go for 2nd round although I am only in late 30s.

[roccotheman]

wait ten to twenty mins after first cum, need to rest one. maybe longer if he tired. dont let him put back clothes after first cum. be naked then play a bit until he hard again.

[missyqueenie]

try letting him rest for 30 mintues before trying to get him up again. Past experience tell me it isnt hard for the guy to do a 2nd time in most cases if you turn him on enough. Somehow u might not be pleasuring him enough actually, try doing a blowjob , must guy cant resist it if you do it correctly

[Tango6six]

thanks guys for the tips.
er... i prefer this sbf anonymity & am too shy to browse in a bookstore health-sex section alone. have googled too but found some literature a bit clinical. don't want to offend my man by asking & giving him wrong idea - he's a great lover

well we are in our mid-30s.
and i do worry that i'm not pleasing my man enough... i just have this impression that guys can come more than once. few times with ex-fb also proved so -- but on hindsight it was more that he's good.. i remember back with horror that i was quite a lousy lay in the past (very shy & a bit prudish)

Be more kinky, tell him you want more during foreplay. if he is tired after first shot, then let him rest a short while then you can slowly rape him.

[whiteangelcsh]

ts, pls allow me to have you multiple orgasm and best of all super duper hard through out the course and you do not need to pay a single cent to enjoy this service.

If you are interested. Pls pm me your contact number and will arrange a hotel or at your place.

Are u promoting urself to be a 'cowboy' or u simply hv no respect for a married woman who is desperately trying to salvage her sex life wif her beloved hubby? Do spend some efforts in reading up TS's background and past postings to understand her more. Cheers and peace, my fren.

[hickeybites]

many thanks to the bros with insights & helpful tips... *blows kiss*

been mulling it over & age/work stress are certainly factors
i guess me feeling randier has also made me more eager to ensure that my man is happy.
the occurrence of multiple orgasms for the guy was never my main priority in the past - at least it didn't occupy my thoughts so much. sigh i'm so so so sorry to ex-bfs & friends - i'm damn lucky to have met really nice wonderful men

anyways thanks & cheers! ;)

[hickeybites]

many thanks to the bros with insights & helpful tips... *blows kiss*

been mulling it over & age/work stress are certainly factors
guess me feeling randier has also made me more eager to ensure that my man is really happy.
the occurrence of multiple orgasms for the guy was never my main priority in the past - at least it didn't occupy my thoughts so much. sigh i'm so so so sorry to ex-bfs & friends - i'm damn lucky to have had experienced nice wonderful men

and yes - me surfing sbf is something like that of a naughty indulgence (like chocolate); not cos i'm looking for anything on the side
anyways cheers! ;)

[Super_Hooligan]

My advice? Keep sucking after he unloads in your mouth. Either that or let hin watch you masterbate and that will get him hard again real quick. You will then be super wet and horny and will climax easily once he penetrates you.

[luckyhusband]

Go read some sexy stories, share your sexual fantasies.

These things get me hard even though i have just cummed.

[CawaBunga]

Keep sucking after unloading may not be a good idea, can cause weakness in most people, some will experience jolts of pain or aches if continue to suck after ejaculation. May take a few hours to recover from my personal experience.

[neb_neb]

try cosplay. my ex used to do that ... works well the first few times:D

[yang punk]

Suck him...fuck him...then let him cim! Works better that way!:p

[whizzard]

many thanks to the bros with insights & helpful tips... *blows kiss*

been mulling it over & age/work stress are certainly factors
guess me feeling randier has also made me more eager to ensure that my man is really happy.
the occurrence of multiple orgasms for the guy was never my main priority in the past - at least it didn't occupy my thoughts so much. sigh i'm so so so sorry to ex-bfs & friends - i'm damn lucky to have had experienced nice wonderful men

and yes - me surfing sbf is something like that of a naughty indulgence (like chocolate); not cos i'm looking for anything on the side
anyways cheers! ;)

I am in my 30s. Twice in the same session with some rest (30 mins +/-) in between is required. It gets sensitive after the first time. Allow him to rest. Maybe he can get you off whilst he recharges. That ought to keep the momentum going.

Have done it 6 times within a 24-hour period but with different partners, repeated over a few days continuously. Not applicable in your case since there's multiple partners involved. Hence, physically and scientifically, it can be done. Psychologically, I am not too sure.

Have fun experimenting. As much as we want to get off during sex, it's also just as exciting, if not more if our partners get off too! Throw your inhibitions out the window, afterall it's between you and your spouse. Life's too short to hold back.

[zuouz1983]

Hi, just share something here.

You can watch porn movie together. Suck the head of his cock. Ask him lying down on the bed to rest while you are doing bj for him. Not doing it when he is very tired. Early morning and mid night is not consider as a good time for him.

Hope it helps.

[edlimmych]

I think alot of bro here also say the same thing.

After cum the 1st time We guys need a rest. With your efforts wanna have the 2nd time I think a guy will always be happy to do it. I myself will feel turn on by the initiation.

So far I can't with my wife. My wife will only do it once and always I am the 1 who initiate the move.

sis, I'm sure you can do it. Gambatte
Cheers

[pizzaboy]

African black ants will do the trick, aft 1st shot it maintains erection & hardness... 1 pill can make u last for abt 20-24 hrs...

[maxpee88]

Hey Sis Hickeybites

I am going to be 50 in a couple weeks time. Pls let me share my experiences and hopefully it will help you with your hubby (lucky him). I am not married - a by product of being cynical over women's behaviour after marriage (ok pls dont zap me...) but I have been a serial dater and I wanted to share this experience and hopefully it will help improve your intimate time with your hubby ok?

I had dated my exGF who is 15 years younger than me. She was an awesome lover and kept me faithful with her (in fact I only found out about SBF after we parted and I was looking to fulfill my own desires) I was in my 40s when I dated my exGF. I am not your usual very fit, flat abs, biceped male. Just the ordinary Singaporean guy you would see on the MRT or bus. Avergae build, in fact slim with a bit of fast food and chip tummy showing. My younger days I still have a throbbing erection even after cumming with my JC girlfriend. Fast forward to the 40's, I cum and then I go flaccid. And yes - there were times my dick was oversensitive and/or I lose the sex drive after cumming.. But I was very sensitive and wanted to please my exGF by giving her more pleasure. We both discussed and agreed not to have a vibrator between us to keep us both closer and intimate.

Over practise - I manage to hold my erection after cumming. And then to my joy and surprise I could hold it more through more and more sessions of practise and have a second cum (altho with lesser volume of seminal fluid)

What I do is that is in my 1st cum, I will relax and also try to hold my muscles to stem the flow of cum. Especially when my exGF gives me a BJ and I CIM into her. The next step is pretty important - because for me, I will quickly stepped off the bed and go and clean up my dick with some cold water towel (I dunno why, but hot water towel doesnt work and quickly deflates it) and then I move back to bed and insert myself into my GF pussy as she lays down. I will lean back and do a slow stroke while she rotates her pelvis. This extra sensory position, actually helps me to maintain my erection. I just continue in slow strokes and soon enough, my dick gets hardened again with a better gorged condition. I would then pull out and rub my head into her clit and then start to stroke it back into her pussy. Repeating this until it become hard. I find that I can last very long n this state and thus allowing my exGF to be able to cum naturally without any aid of vibrator. In fact, it I can last till she cums in her second wave and there are times, I would ask my exGF to tell me when I can release my 2nd load so that we both CUM at the highest peak.

Ok enough of sharing - as I write this - I am getting a hard-on and I have no one to sleep with... ANyway - i hope this helps

[calvintan123]

hmm interesting...sis ur such a cum lover...

well there a few i can share...
1st the internet related products
http://www.semenreloaded.com/ or Vimax Volume Pills to Increase Sperm

effect varies..and personally i did not try....my collegue who tried Vimax claim it works...

2nd method, ask ur hubby take more protein...egg whites are the best cuz meat can make sperm smelly and fishy...to get sweet tasting cum which i read from books and mag...eat more citrius fruits , strawberries are a good choice.

3rd Exercise... espically leg exercises...i talking abt resistence training. nt cardio vascular exercises.Resistence training increase testerones output which is the basic homone a guy need to get horny and well loaded.

cheers
:P

[devan69]

Ya missyqueenie is rite , try to let him rest a while before goin to second shot . And sis u r doin a gd job and I dun think is ur prob cause I can come to 3 shot durin sex provided the gal koes hw to turn mi on

[MrSpermy]

Many factors can affect. Most important of all, it's in the head and I mean the big head.

[hickeybites]

(recovering from flu -- sorry if i sound like i'm babbling & writing a bit incoherent)

thanks for more advice, tips.. very sweet of u bros... thought this thread died already... always glad for more naughty stuff to add into iphone & read during day

quick update: hubby seems more pleased...
i guess it's also cos i'm getting more & more vocal. it used to be almost 100% him initiating or I whisper in his ear "u know u know" (i never really initiated even with ex-bfs. I mean i will show interest while "acting" shy" but i never used to say out loud I want) now it's about 40%+++ of me initiating ~ like surprising him in the bath, showing off new underwear, or just telling him "i want u now" while kid watch tv

as for me being a cum-lover... hmm... not to burst any bubbles here but I'm not exactly a bukkake nympho...
sex is also a mental thing as some bros here have mentioned, and it's the idea/knowledge that me sucking him dry & swallowing can drive him nuts & send to to heaven -- that makes swallowing pleasurable. In my sex-ed haze, I think he tastes creamy. Moreover on days that he wants to cim, he actually makes effort to eat yong tau foo & more fruits + wash super clean + trim; then tells me "I'm on 'tasty' diet today" with that grin >>> how not to cream my panties & blow him out of his mind right?! :D

did ask him if it's cos of me that he can't cum 2x-3x. he apparently prefers the mega built-up & release cos he thinks it's quite 伤身 to cum more than 1x often... is it true? or is he just being nice & not telling truth?
i did succeed once to get him to cum again after abt 30min rest but after that he really pengz for half a day... he really poor thing cos he does seem stressed by work - brings work back & can be on phone conference till late. my bad my bad -- slow in giving him tonics.
he also ask why i've been so eager to keep blowing him.. he loves it but he said he actually likes to be inside me more (yay!)... seems like i got my signals mixed up somewhere... in any case, I'm just going to continue experimenting

well for time being will have to pace ourselves a bit cos kena from parents & in-laws -- 有冇搞錯 "dump" kid unannounced & disappear swiftly only to reappear 3hrs later.
logistical planning required for all factors to align ... longer session for us both to have mulitiple-cummings = daytime cos hubby most energetic then + kid out of house + day have zero/little plans cos hubby must rest after. hahahaaa.... not spontaneous like when we were younger but fun lah in its own way lah :p

again thanks bros *big big smooch thru' mask*

p.s. someone pm to ask if my hubby's gay... hmmm.... i hope not. when recover will pounce on him more to thoroughly make sure :)

[Lionrod32]

Really enjoy reading your posts ... Looks like things are heating up for you and hubby hehehehe ... Do update us on your exciting progress

[freezetheDB]

didnt read the whole thread but

to TS Hickeybites,

my 2cents is after your hubby has unloaded his seeds into your mouth, keep sucking and make him crazy.

Just when he thinks its over and wants to pull out, dont let him. Instead smile slyly and continue twirling your tongue slightly, as if you are sucking onto a lollipop. Talk dirty

Dont give him any stress to be erected. Assure him to relax while u continue to work on his manhood. Let him relax and get turned on again. Take it slow.

Chances are, 1) he slowly becomes rock hard again as he is very turned on and u can proceed to fucking. 2) if his body does not recover as fast, he will still be appreciative (which men wouldn't?) and u still score +points in his heart.

my 2cents

[happywoody]

Moreover on days that he wants to cim, he actually makes effort to eat yong tau foo & more fruits + wash super clean + trim; then tells me "I'm on 'tasty' diet today" with that grin >>> how not to cream my panties & blow him out of his mind right?! :D


buy him cinammon buns ...... ref my other thread "silly" things uttered by FBs.
enjoyzzzzz ;)

[digby]

hey hicky, i must say you your husband is such a lucky person to have a wife doing research on how to make love making more fun and enjoyable.

It not impossible to cum 2 times in a short period of time but it really depends on individual and age i believe.

I'm in my mid 20s now and let me share while i was in my poly days, i came like 6times in 2 hours with my ex gf. I usally turn hard while she lick my balls and till date, licking and sucking my balls has been a turnon so you might want to try that.

Just my humber comment and opinion. Hope your hubby will like it too

[Panda79]

Personal experience to share. It is possible to cum more than once. It is all about the build-up. I am in my 30s so still within the age range as you 2.

When I did it with my OC, I did a trick. Because we did it raw, I would normally shoot outside. When I am about to cum, I would take it out. Let it shoot but grip it abit tighter than the standard hj.

Get him to mentally tell himself that it was just the beginning and stroke it a few times and continue the lovemaking. That is if you have nothing on tomorrow, very tiring.

[arsenal_84]

used to be very close with a thai FL who drain 3 times in 3.5 hrs...it was the most tired sessions of my life and i couldn't think about sex for a week.
is encouraging to know that there are still wifes who are interested in sex after having children.
keep up the good work and may you guys have a long lasting marriage.