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eric_80
29-03-2011, 12:31 PM
Hi, this few mth whenever I had sex with my wife I can feel that she does'nt enjoy it. How can I make her to enjoy in sex. Advices needed.

Frankiestine
29-03-2011, 03:11 PM
Alamak for a moment I thought you meant that your wife haven't been giving you sex. Bro at least relate what you normally do during sex like giving her a pussy lashing etc.

cqueen
29-03-2011, 03:14 PM
Hi, this few mth whenever I had sex with my wife I can feel that she does'nt enjoy it. How can I make her to enjoy in sex. Advices needed.

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Rub&Buah
29-03-2011, 04:14 PM
It is perfectly normal that wife doesnt enjoy on sex after sometime in marriage.Thats why there is sammyboy forum to help your sorrows.:p

adrian82
29-03-2011, 04:43 PM
u can get her to hv sex with other guys if u dnt mind... :P

sammyboyfor
29-03-2011, 05:23 PM
Hi, this few mth whenever I had sex with my wife I can feel that she does'nt enjoy it. How can I make her to enjoy in sex. Advices needed.


Your wife probably enjoys sex. She just doesn't enjoy sex with YOU! :D

My advice is for you to arrange for her to have sex with someone else to see how things go.

yangguo
29-03-2011, 05:37 PM
Your wife probably enjoys sex. She just doesn't enjoy sex with YOU! :D

My advice is for you to arrange for her to have sex with someone else to see how things go.

Wahaha.. You really have a sense of humour!

nosealedfate
29-03-2011, 07:20 PM
Hi, this few mth whenever I had sex with my wife I can feel that she does'nt enjoy it. How can I make her to enjoy in sex. Advices needed.

Lick her chee hoot (Hokkien for clitoris) but make sure it's a good clear direct repeated flicks of the tip of your moist tongue. Tongue tip too dry the chee hoot will feel pain from the dry abrasiveness. Must be wet. How to make sure it's a good clear direct exposure the chee hoot, gently spread up her labias and the chee hoot will be properly expose from the folds of the labias. Don't use too much strength or the labia will be over stretched up then in time to come the labia will be crumpled and unattractive to even look at.... you might even be afaraid to look at it! So do not be too gung ho with the labia spreading. Gently give repeated flicks of the tip of your moist tongue. You must not fall a sleep if it takes too long, you must carry on gving repeated flicks of the tip of your moist tongue. Her chee chwee (pre cum fluid in hokkien) will slowly appear mixing it up with you saliva. You know it when you taste a tad os saltiness. You don't stop here.... whatever you do you just gently give repeated flicks of the tip of your moist tongue. You can count it if you like. the objective to to reach into the withins of her chee hoot and make her feel great. Like that she will probably look forward to you coming home to her warm pussy in bed waiting. Actually it's a god given right for every honest hard working married man to come home to a warm inviting pussy of his wife waiting and keen to be licked after he has had a hard day's work.

kristoa7
29-03-2011, 07:26 PM
Wahaha.. You really have a sense of humour!

Wakaka.There is a saying'a man gotta do,what a man gotta do' lol :D:rolleyes:

konnor
29-03-2011, 07:47 PM
For women, it's all about foreplay - building up the tension and atmosphere leading up to the sex ^^

Canoneos
29-03-2011, 09:31 PM
So what is your modus operandi? Unless you tell us, no one can help you.

paul55ho
29-03-2011, 09:39 PM
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U male or female?

If ur female, can i take u up on that offer? lol

Mitsuki
30-03-2011, 10:48 PM
since she's your wife, try going through the 'dating' process again loh. maybe there's something she NEEDS emotionally other than sex. go give it a try and good luck.

actblur1
03-04-2011, 01:25 AM
It is perfectly normal that wife doesnt enjoy on sex after sometime in marriage.Thats why there is sammyboy forum to help your sorrows.:p

I agreed with you bro. All married women is like that. :mad:

RealEstateGuy
12-04-2011, 04:33 PM
Brother, you probably got married young and didn't date or meet enough women. All women like sex and they need it frequently, more than they care to admit due to social norms and societal expectations. My guess is your wife wants sex but just not with you, at least not anymore. How to change that before she decides to go out and get fucked by someone else? You need to bring romance and appreciaton back into the relatonship. Get back in shape if you are not. Eroticisize your time with her. Take her lingerie shopping. Nice dinners. Instead of watching a movie and eating cheap street food, take her out to dinner at a nice restaurant and book a weekend at a 5 star hotel. Take her on a second honeymoon and rekindle the love and the sex.

cola534
13-04-2011, 01:03 AM
Your wife probably enjoys sex. She just doesn't enjoy sex with YOU! :D

My advice is for you to arrange for her to have sex with someone else to see how things go.

"boss" I dun think is funny! Pple nit advice but end up pour cold water. U think u reply like tt very sa ki?

BigBallMan
13-04-2011, 02:07 AM
Your wife probably enjoys sex. She just doesn't enjoy sex with YOU! :D

My advice is for you to arrange for her to have sex with someone else to see how things go.

Hard Truth :(:(:(

PIAKTHISGIRL
13-04-2011, 03:34 PM
Do roleplaying, more sexciting!

hsbc
13-04-2011, 07:12 PM
Hi, this few mth whenever I had sex with my wife I can feel that she does'nt enjoy it. How can I make her to enjoy in sex. Advices needed.

You may want to try out Germany Drops on her :) Surely she will enjoy to the fullest :)

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jasper10
14-04-2011, 01:55 PM
"boss" I dun think is funny! Pple nit advice but end up pour cold water. U think u reply like tt very sa ki?

Sibei man... I agree with you! Up u two points!

Gentle Beast
14-04-2011, 09:33 PM
Your wife is not enjoying sex and I assume the reason is because she is NOT getting her ORGASMS. Go and get a VIBRATOR, her life and yours will change forever. Trust me!

sbftiankon
14-04-2011, 09:44 PM
It is perfectly normal that wife doesnt enjoy on sex after sometime in marriage.Thats why there is sammyboy forum to help your sorrows.:p

Hehe............bro agree with you, but if your wife still young I not think so, like me I must play XXX video to make her enjoy sex :D:D

sammyboyfor
15-04-2011, 06:40 AM
"boss" I dun think is funny! Pple nit advice but end up pour cold water. U think u reply like tt very sa ki?

It may not be what anyone wants to hear but the sometimes the truth needs to be told.

Self denial isn't going to get anyone anywhere. The only way to resolve issues is to confront reality.

Mich0088
15-04-2011, 07:02 AM
Yo Bro

First mak her feel happy for the whole day, Morning Hug her from the back. Give her a peck. Then ... Sms her in (day time) every odd hour even if she working.... just say she looks ( HOT )when you dont see her...... then lunch you date her for lunch (if u can) or even gv her (A) nice Rose not roses. then dinner give her some jokes then give her a good fake Rubdown. then had some shower together hug hert with rub too.

This will create a good rapo of U then you can attack her. but u will neeed to Lick her more till she HIGH and willing to SUCK u.

GOOD LUCK !!

Canoneos
15-04-2011, 09:41 PM
You need to determine why. Is she frigid? Is she getting it somewhere else? Is it stress or hormonal? Is it you? Until you work that out, how to find a solution?

teteku
16-04-2011, 01:07 AM
Your wife probably enjoys sex. She just doesn't enjoy sex with YOU!

My advice is for you to arrange for her to have sex with someone else to see how things go.
Hi boss,
That is so mean but so true...:(

It may not be what anyone wants to hear but the sometimes the truth needs to be told.

Self denial isn't going to get anyone anywhere. The only way to resolve issues is to confront reality.
Hi boss,
Some people need to learn it the hard way.

Cheers.

Sweetiedreams
16-04-2011, 10:04 PM
I think it does help to share your SOP with here for better advice.
Could it be she's feeling pain from it?
Or was she forced to give u a Bj?
Some women doesn't enjoy sex cos it seems like some men juz bonk their way to their own high heavens and totally forgot to pleasure their partner.
Honestly there's a great difference b/w making love and fucking for a woman.
We can feel the difference.
I've encountered men who just bonk till they climax and totally disregard if u r feeling shiok lo..

nottituck
17-04-2011, 01:30 AM
open you mouth and ask her what she like.

if she act virgin and dont know then try EVERYTHING until she gets a big O.
after that she will want it over and over again.

no 2 women alike, so you need to try different things. need ideas? watch porno.

jameschong1
25-04-2011, 09:57 PM
open you mouth and ask her what she like.
if she act virgin and dont know then try EVERYTHING until she gets a big O.
after that she will want it over and over again.
no 2 women alike, so you need to try different things. need ideas? watch porno.
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it's the skills that count. 1 pattern also shiok for her if u have the skills to do it right.
u stupid to say watch porno. no skills, no power also no effect even if u know all the patterns from watching porno.

angmoguy
05-05-2011, 10:19 AM
maybe you are rubbish at it & she's fed up of your 2 mins of "action" hahahahah.

hsbc
05-05-2011, 05:53 PM
Treat her with Germany Sex Drops la.. she will love to have sex with you every day!! :p

eric_80
12-05-2011, 12:40 PM
thank for all will help. Will try it out.

Boro
14-05-2011, 02:45 AM
maybe she is not in the mood which you and me will encounter too

Koreanlover
22-05-2011, 11:49 PM
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huatah087
23-05-2011, 01:09 AM
Treat her with Germany Sex Drops la.. she will love to have sex with you every day!! :p

what is that bro? Available in sg?:confused:

cqueen
23-05-2011, 01:14 AM
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RealEstateGuy
23-05-2011, 02:00 AM
Hi, this few mth whenever I had sex with my wife I can feel that she does'nt enjoy it. How can I make her to enjoy in sex. Advices needed.

Brother, all women enjoy sex. Some need it more than others but they do enjoy sex. Trust me on that. The key is to make sure she is not sleeping with someone else. If not, you need to bring excitement back into your bedroom. The level should be the same as during your courtship period. Perhaps, you are out of shape? Not focusing enough on foreplay? For women, sex is not just a physical act, there is an arousal aspect to it. Why not take a vacation like its a second honeymoon to rekindle things?

allankok33
17-06-2011, 01:34 PM
It could be due to many reasons for examples low self-confidence about her body after giving birth or it may be due to great stresses at work. Sometimes when we have so many things on hand to handle, we don't think of having sex. This is especially so when woman like to multi tasks and juggle between her roles as a career and family woman. My suggestion to you is to find a good time to talk to her. Share with her your feelings and ask for hers. Then both of you have a clearer picture about each other desires.

oahpekahsom
20-06-2011, 02:03 AM
typical engineer MCP approach, see wife blackface during sex, she dun enjoy sex.....
be nice to her ...surprise her with flowers, dinner away from kids, the rest of family.....or get a couple massage with all the candle works...

no sex attempts till you communicate with her .....see what she has to say.....

after that then you can have great sex

aqcmme
21-06-2011, 02:17 AM
If it only happened recently; check if its work stress or other factors. If not, the bros maybe right - she could be losing interest with you. Or her mind is thinking of someone else.

If this happens after pregnancy then maybe she is depressed or libido went downhill. Taking time to put romance back in like some bros suggest is a good way.

Good luck bro, take care. All the best.

EtherC
23-06-2011, 08:59 PM
The Limbic system of the brain is where we process our emotions and orgasms. Hence if your wife is pissed, the limbic system will be overwhelmed with processing the anger emotion. So before she can enjoy the sex you need to cater to her emotional state first. Buy her favorite food, bring her to where she feels most at ease and relaxed. Feed her chocolate desserts eg brownies, truffles because these induce the feeling of well being in the brain.

Vice versa, if people experience satisfying orgasm, it triggers the emotion of happiness in the limbic system. Happiness and sex is therefore rather co-dependent. Happy people enjoy their sex better and good sex makes people happy.

This also tells us why its almost impossible to separate feelings from sex because they co-reside in the same region of our brains. Unless your mental profile is that of a cold blooded killer.

The truth behind the phrase "Mind Blowing sex".:D