can you stand bad tempered girl? [tagged]

[ryajon]

my own experience, regardless of how pretty she is, i just cant stand a girl who shouts, complains, gets angry everyday over small matters like didnt off the switch socket after charging the hp for 1 hour. It is good to save the environment but I just think getting mad over these things are ridiculous

[orchideous]

crazy.. but personally I wouldn't want to be with someone bad-tempered so I wouldn't want to be a bad-tempered girl myself.

[prccuntlover]

bad tempered girls is a total turn off
i prefer wen rou ti tie xing:D

[sbftiankon]

bad tempered girl = fuck and throw

Bro can I add on- bad tempered girl = fuck and throw unless very rich :D:D

[SingViet]

When i was younger, used to have a Singaporean gf. Pretty, nice figure and very horny. Lots of sex with her, but her temper sucks big time. Super bad tempered. When i wanted to break off with her, she locked me in her apt, brought a knife out and threatened me. damm.... i quickly sweet talked her, took the knife away and threw it away. Immediately had another round of good sex. Left the apt after that. Next morning, called her from office and told her that i wanted to break up. Seems like a lot of singaporean ladies are spoilt and bad tempered. :(

[k_fed]

When i was younger, used to have a Singaporean gf. Pretty, nice figure and very horny. Lots of sex with her, but her temper sucks big time. Super bad tempered. When i wanted to break off with her, she locked me in her apt, brought a knife out and threatened me. damm.... i quickly sweet talked her, took the knife away and threw it away. Immediately had another round of good sex. Left the apt after that. Next morning, called her from office and told her that i wanted to break up. Seems like a lot of singaporean ladies are spoilt and bad tempered. :(

Totally agree bro. Most singaporean ladies are bad tempered maybe because of being spoiled through the years. My gf used to be like that for 3 yrs. U need lots of love and conditioning to change them. If they cant change its better to leave.

[rs07]

No way for me to have a temperamental gf. There's a lot of fish in the ocean. Just search for a better one....good attitude, bubbly, cheerful and nice. Why u need to suffer?...if she is very pretty and she think that she can get guy anytime...u also can do it man.

[newhere]

For short term gf or f-buddy still okay so long as both know where we stand. Sometimes the bad temper can add spice on the bed when you feel less guilty giving her a "good" one.

Never for long term relationship though. When she pretty, maybe still can over look it for the sake of good sex. But when she is old and haggard then what? Divorce and get owned by the Women's Charter? I don't think so.

[badbad76]

can't go long with bad tempered girl.... my ex wife is very bad tempered person....divorced with her.

[Castrol]

normally bad temper girls are pretty.
the good natured are the not so pretty ones.

thats why i go for big boobs girls, they usually have a big heart. :D

[DrPussy]

Bro can I add on- bad tempered girl = fuck and throw unless very rich :D:D

adding bit more: rich bad tempered girl = free fuck and fuck and throw :D:D

[tanhockgin]

When I scanned thru SBF today and stumbled upon this title, it immediately reminded me of my days with my exgf.

Exactly like what most of you said. Pretty, sexy and bold. Aggressive sex. But what a temper.

She used to be so jealous when a friend commented on me. She would think that I would want to go after her fren. Initially, I was shocked. Never been treated like this before. It almost came to physical assault. She would scream, cry, throw anything she could get her hands on. But, I could only take so much and I pinned her down almost like in a wrestling match. She was literally immobilised. She screamed and yelled till she was out of breath and quite down.

Finally I learnt that she had an abusive childhood. She was very rebellious and recented her dad from fooling around blatantly. She confronted her dad only to get beaten up.

Over the years, the anger has been building and with that comes insecurity.
I believe that you would need to get to the root of the problem if you really love the person. As for me, I threw in the towel. It's exhausting and their burden becomes yours.

Are you prepared to handle it?

TGH

[angmoguy]

maybe if you treat her with a bit more respect, she wouldn't get mad with you all the time. it takes two hands to clap. before whining about someone else's behavior look to yourself.

[LoveAngel]

normally bad temper girls are pretty.
the good natured are the not so pretty ones.

thats why i go for big boobs girls, they usually have a big heart. :D

Not true .....
Good natured ones can be pretty & patient too.
Small boobs girls also have big heart.
Like me! Good natured, small boobs, pretty, sexy and big big heart!! :p

But seriously, as a woman, I speak. One shd never indulge in bad-tempered-ness. Regardless how angry or mad, respect to the man's ego is impt, especially in public places. There's beauty in patience and gentleness. :)

[LoveAngel]

Bro can I add on- bad tempered girl = fuck and throw unless very rich :D:D

TO add: bad tempered girl = they fxxk you & they throw you ... unless you'll very rich!! :D

[blohsg]

Castrol : Size of the bosom is proportional to the size of the HEART ? Which biology class did you get that idea from ?

I feel those who're well endowed means they have more than your hands can handle ;) and that applies for the ladies and gentlemen.

[blohsg]

LoveAngel : so which area would you roughly categorise yourself ?

[quorq]

Regardless of how gd or bad looking they are. Most gals will be temperamental when they hit the time of the month.

[Bonkee]

Being bad tempered is fine but not when she:
- cannot hold a constructive argument when she erupts.
- practically fault finding, having legendary mood swings.
- expects to win all the time w/o rime or reason.
- expects you to give in all the time.
- takes forever to simmer down.
- always brings up the pasts and nitpick on you.
- constantly judging.
- refuses to have heart to heart talk that is calm and open.
- tries to mould you into what she thinks her partner should be.
- the list goes on.....

Happens in my previous relationship... what's the point? Be friends better...

Feel free to disagree to what I said... : )

[abchow]

HI TS ,

I am sure all of us come across man and woman having a arguement in the open etc .. or maybe woman scolding a man in the open/ public ..

If you can recall there is one youtube video which shows a woman hitting a man beside the car.. hitting at his groin..

http://youtu.be/xm0KeZ-GaOU

That kind of attitude is uncalled .Worst case scenerio is the man kept quiet and let the woman keep shooting arrows..

This kind of woman shld be kept in a zoo and not let her run around freely.

I always tell my partner do not scold or nag in the open especially when there is relatives or friends around.
If you do this , you are not giving face to the man.

So always talk to your partner and educate them on this. Woman needs to understand this " man's ego " thing and not let them run over u. Big matter can talk and become small matter. Small matter become loving matter.

:p

cheers.

[huatah087]

which man able to stand bad tempered girl. Unless she is very very rich. Then I might endure for the sake of it. :D

[devil81]

Totally agree bro. Most singaporean ladies are bad tempered maybe because of being spoiled through the years. My gf used to be like that for 3 yrs. U need lots of love and conditioning to change them. If they cant change its better to leave.

yo bro totally 1000% agree bro most singaporean ladies have a bad tempered n buy think did nt think her money or her bf 1 la but most singaporean ladies no money they ask her bf lo so far i noe la cos i dun have a gf 4 20 year liao n did nt go 4 singaporean ladies lo sian la so far i noe all singaporean ladies all see money,handsome n got car or nt lo sian la

[Simpleboy]

haha nice one bro

[mkgd]

Dear TS, i think bad temper is subjective, why do i say so? Some girls show bad temper when they are having a bad day, going through tough times, etc, whereas, some are bad tempered by nature.

One very important thing i learnt is in every relationship, there must be mutual respect and we need to be considerate towards each other. NEVER force your loved ones, be it your GF, wife or friends to do things against their will and throw your temper anyhow, anytime you like over small things - This will definitely put strain on the relationship and problems will slowly build up eventually. Don't wait till its too late..

[leecs]

Can only be treated as fk & fk off.......

[Rickey]

.. personally I wouldn't want to be with someone bad-tempered so I wouldn't want to be a bad-tempered girl myself.

Not true .....
Good natured ones can be pretty & patient too.
Small boobs girls also have big heart.
Like me! Good natured, small boobs, pretty, sexy and big big heart!! :p

But seriously, as a woman, I speak. One shd never indulge in bad-tempered-ness. Regardless how angry or mad, respect to the man's ego is impt, especially in public places. There's beauty in patience and gentleness. :)

So fortunate to hav 2 sweet & good-natured sisters here who are so considerate towards us guys & respects us ! :) By her remarks, Sis LA shows she is indeed a lovely woman who understands & appreciates us men a lot !...esp like her remarks "There's beauty in patience and gentleness." ..their partners must be very lucky to hav them...

[niteowl]

my own experience, regardless of how pretty she is, i just cant stand a girl who shouts, complains, gets angry everyday over small matters like didnt off the switch socket after charging the hp for 1 hour. It is good to save the environment but I just think getting mad over these things are ridiculous

Maybe u hit her on a bad day, she needs to vent her frustrations. Anyway, we were all born to be different, if all good tempered then I think world coming to D-day soon :p

[drekman]

No, not at all. I will tell her to fuck off.

[Impurfact]

Definitely NO.

[eQuipment]

any woman who doesnt know how to respect another being & uses her cb-mouth to her advantage can go f**k spider.

there r tons of submissive girls out there waiting to serve the man for all that she's worth.

[loveWNBA]

my own experience, regardless of how pretty she is, i just cant stand a girl who shouts, complains, gets angry everyday over small matters like didnt off the switch socket after charging the hp for 1 hour. It is good to save the environment but I just think getting mad over these things are ridiculous

sounds like a typical Sg gal....to be exact, sounds like my ex-wife!

[yoichi]

bad tempered is one of the character in my blacklist. :D

[Ash080]

Chanced upon this thread and some of bros
exeriences brought back memories. My last
gf gave me the best times of my life when
she was not inflicted with one of those spells
of sheer madness. She was very loving, caring
and v v passionate in bed. But her dark side nearly
drove me to IMH. A slightest comment would trigger
off the bouts of extreme rage. Threats of suicide and
even violence were quite common. One
innoculous comment abt someone not close to her
would start a inquisition why I was siding that person.
I was emotionally drained after each saga. I lived with
constant fear of her rage and outbursts. Went to see
a shrink and download the hellish episodes on him. His opinion
was the lady was suffering from Borderline
Personality Disorder - though he could confirm without
a dignosis in person.
I am not saying all the Bros' GFs featured in
this thread is a case of PDI - Personality Disorder
Individuals. This may require professional
consultation. But if the lady is yr wife, and u still love
her v much, u may want to cosider getting some help for her.
She is also going tru uncontollable sufferings and
mental torture (probably more than u) - it is really not her
fault as she simply cannot control her behaviour. Inside this
person is probably kind hearted and loving. If she
is suicidal, u shld not wait and try to bring her to
see a shrink. This affliction is so rare some shrinks don't
even diagnose correctly. U will have to find the
a shrink who have seen such cases before otherwise
u will be wasting yr money and putting yr wife in greater
harm.
If the lady is just yr GF - and if u have a high
tolerance for her rage and unresonable
behaviour, do enjoy her passion and the good times
when she is not in rage.
Sorry for the long winded post. Pls don't zap -
I am a newbie and try to give my 2 sens to
those who may not understand the tragedy they
are going tru. Good luck!

[Ash080]

Chanced upon this thread and some of bros
exeriences brought back memories. My last
gf gave me the best times of my life when
she was not inflicted with one of those spells
of sheer madness. She was very loving, caring
and v v passionate in bed. But her dark side nearly
drove me to IMH. A slightest comment would trigger
off the bouts of extreme rage. Threats of suicide and
even violence were quite common. One
innoculous comment abt someone not close to her
would start a inquisition why I was siding that person.
I was emotionally drained after each saga. I lived with
constant fear of her rage and outbursts. Went to see
a shrink and download the hellish episodes on him. His opinion
was the lady was suffering from Borderline
Personality Disorder - though he could confirm without
a dignosis in person.
I am not saying all the Bros' GFs featured in
this thread is a case of PDI - Personality Disorder
Individuals. This may require professional
consultation. But if the lady is yr wife, and u still love
her v much, u may want to cosider getting some help for her.
She is also going tru uncontollable sufferings and
mental torture (probably more than u) - it is really not her
fault as she simply cannot control her behaviour. Inside this
person is probably kind hearted and loving. If she
is suicidal, u shld not wait and try to bring her to
see a shrink. This affliction is so rare some shrinks don't
even diagnose correctly. U will have to find the
a shrink who have seen such cases before otherwise
u will be wasting yr money and putting yr wife in greater
harm.
If the lady is just yr GF - and if u have a high
tolerance for her rage and unresonable
behaviour, do enjoy her passion and the good times
when she is not in rage.
Sorry for the long winded post. Pls don't zap -
I am a newbie and try to give my 2 sens to
those who may not understand the tragedy they
are going tru. Good luck!

[shctaw]

I usually do not stand.

I will lie down and ask that bad tempered bitch to give me a bbbj.:cool:

[Stud00]

Had an experience before...
Dated this gal.. and she seems to be an angel.. after getting attached, she turned into a devil.. rude and nasty to everyone.. taxi drivers etc.. seems she has anger management problem. End of the day, i dumped her.. because i see no future in the relationship. TRUST me, you do not want to marry someone with anger problem.. i would say, it's kinda similiar to marrying adolf hilter.. :X

[Ash080]

Those bros who had left GFs (with PDI) early are the fortunate ones - they are others who did not understand what they were getting into and continued with their GF out of love and thinking they can help or meet their GF needs (emotionally and financially).

BPD (Borderline Personality Disorder) individuals can be initially quite enticing and such relationships started off with an intense and passionate fun in bed (or in the car). BPDs can exert tremdous charm, sexual appeal and seductive aura. Deep passion pervades her behaviors and can be quite ensnaring. Her seductive qualities comes from a profound need and vulnerability that initially have its own appeal to you. She controls you with intense emotions and behaviour extremes that can be appear quite captivating. (She would initially sucked your small head and give you "out of this world" type of delight before she sucked emotions out of your big head until you could not function normally).

A BPD will control and manuiplate you with extreme intensity of her passion, rage and emptiness.

As you unwittingly become more involved with your her there appear to be no way to exit the relationship. By then you are probably a nervous wreck, your life is a chaos and you feel you are going insane and lost all sense of control and ability to reason. You could be overpowered in a chaotic relationship that she will not let go (usually she will threaten to jump down from an HDB block if you leave her) or you feel compelled to help her or she would call your OC or boss to destroy you if you do not comply.

Here are some warning signs bros should look out for:

Strong attraction to her sexuality, passion, neediness, despair or emptiness ( her sexuality and passionate nature was the initial draw; follow by her helplessness in her life sucked me into her psychotic world);

Confusion in the chaos of the relationship (my life was turned upside down and I looked forward to those days when I was not with her; I had 5 accidents during the period and it was a miracle I did not kill someone on the road)

Fear of her extremes (I feared her presence not knowing when she would be triggered into her dark moods; she raged and kept me up from 7 pm to 3 am just because I did not look at her when she greeted me!).

Anger or guilt (I had exteme anger at her and at the same time feeling guilty that I could be the cause of her insanity; I also thought it was punishment from God for my transgression; I released my anger on my car to recover myself)

Lost the sense of reasoning when you are with her ( I had to abandon all my normality and try to do anything no matter how stupid to serve her needs and avoid flash points)

Moments of passions interspaced with bouts of rages and possible violence (my ex scratched my face and tore my shirt with her nails)

If you do not TOTALLY agree with her, you are against her (my conversations with my ex were with extreme caution and care to avoid senseless disagreements)

She looks at situations and people in either "Black" or "White" - there is no between. Either you are for her or against her.

Despite your proven trustworthiness, she believes she will abandon her at any moment because she is so evil or because you are deceitful (she said she would jump from her block if I stop seeing her)

She idolise you as perfect one day and then degrades you as the scums of the earth the next witout any overt reason (my ex called me the best lover she ever had one day and belittled me the next; she said I was the most kind hearted man she knew and poured her wrath on me as if I am her worst enemy the next day)

For those bros who are trapped in this situation and feel helplessness and would like to seek help, PM me your questions and I will try to assist.

Actually there are a lot of different type of PDIs in Sg - in your office or social or love life, you would proabably encounter other types such as NPD (Narcissistic) with ego so large it could not fit a door; PA (Passive-Aggressive); ASPD (Antisocial).

I read somewhere 3 to 5% of our population suffering from mental disorder. MOE has acknowledge more students are afflicted with mental illness and is trying to train teachers to identify the problem early. We can have a separate thread on PDIs - but then this is a rather niched topic and may not be of interest to bros.

Cheers...

[Oldman66]

bad temper woman, good in sex hor