cernunnos
16-04-2011, 07:45 PM
This is an email I got from my ex girlfriend... just feel I really really need to share it...
Dear *censored*:
I have had a difficult time, over the past few years, achieving closure of our relationship. It is time for me to seek this. I have gone through the appropriate stages of anger, remorse, sadness. It is now time for me to close this chapter of my life. I am trying to recapture my life and gain a sense of identity back. In my professional life I have done this, but my personal life struggles. For so long I/We were "Apple and *sensor", that it
is hard to gain my own identity back. I am not worried about my career; I
will soon succeed even my wildest dreams. I am just stunted by my personal
life.
I am ready to release you from my life. I also on a weekly basis encounter people who want to tell me about you or have a discussion about you. I do not want to deal with this anymore. I do have a proposal on how to handle this.
I am ready to no longer be forced to deal with your presence. As to how to deal with it, I propose the following:
1. I've heard you have an flat on the West side. You need to move out of the West side of Singapore, this has always been my side of town, I own a house here, and do not rent like you. I grew up here, and always want to live here. I would prefer if you were to leave Singapore all together, but I know this is more than I can ask.I do not want to risk running into you at any store.
2. We should officially divide our friends. Particularly Jim, Jillian, Amy,
and Ed. You should write them, thanking them for the opportunity to be their friend and explain why you can no longer be in contact with them. I can provide you with addresses, if you need.
3. I would like you to not have anything to do with all things with XXX university. I feel I should have ownership of the school since my mother works there and my brother and sisters went there. You are more tied XX JC. This should be where you dedicate your alumni status. I will be involved in XX University. When the time of reunions comes up, I am willing to say that you can have the reunions ending in "0" years and I will take the"5" years. So you can have 10 years and I will take 25 years.
4. I will avoid XX JC contacts. The few guys from the JC I still speak
to on a rare basis, I will not. I will also discourage any of my children I
have from attending XX JC.
I know some of these things seem a bit harsh, but I feel they are for the best. I do not ever really wish to see you again. I know that this will of course happen beyond my control, but I think we should do our best to
avoid what we can.
It is my sincere hope that you understand, and do take the time to respond.
This is my last request of you.
With best wishes,
Apple
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March 31, 2011
Dear Apple,
Thanks for your letter. We broke up 3 years ago. Knowing that and taking into consideration you believe me to be a cold, career focused, ego-maniac,
what on earth makes you think I would take the time to think about you or agree to your proposal? But since I clearly have taken the time to respond, please take a moment to review some comments and counter-proposals I have
1. First, I will have to resist the burning urge to move RIGHT NEXT DOOR
TO YOU. After that deep desire subsides, I will vacate the West side and
return to my roots: The stupid east side, as you used to call it. However, since I was born on the east side and I have east side in my veins you must
abdicate all ties to the North. This includes: Living on the east side, living on the North-east side, walking down malls in the east side, wearing east-pac or east-india apparel or telling your children that the run rises from the east.
1 (B). I was born in Singapore before you were so I should really get to
determine who stays and who goes. In my benevolence I will let you exist
here only within the Jurong area. We will call this the AppleZone. This
should be acceptable for you as your family lives across the street and there is a petrol station, Jurong-point, 7-11 stores and your place of employment. Exceptions can be made with my expressed written consent. You will be required to display a large tag in your windshield giving you permission to travel beyond the AppleZone.
2. I haven't talked to your friends since we broke up. I think they got the
message. However since you are acting that we are still in primary school, please have your friends meet me by the playground at recess so that I can tell them they have big fat heads and they aren't my friends anymore.
Do you agree? _______Yes ________No________Maybe
2 (B). One of the few times you let us do something fun, we visited some of
my family friends in Sentosa. It was about eight years ago. We traveled in their cars and enjoy their chalet Please jot them a note saying you are going to forget that ever happened. Please also offer to reimburse them for the petrol, air conditioning fee, beers and anything else you consumed while you were there. I don't have their address anymore, you can look it up.
3. Please let me know when your father runs for anything.
I'm going to run against him.
3. Christ, I don't have the energy for this one.
4. If any of my friends from JC actually still talk to you, they are f__king fired as friends.
4 (B). I'm not going to tell my kids anything about you. But speaking of kids, it would be okay with me if my son was a drug addict, just as long as he got your kids hooked on it and became their dealer.
In closing, I will never make decisions about my life or my family based on
whether I might run into you at the store. I am now convinced that if we ever do bump into each other, you will spontaneously combust. I wish you
the best of luck find a spouse. Seriously. It won't be easy to find a person who is willing to spend the rest of his life raising children and making decisions based on your crazy-ass proposal to an ex-boyfriend and
your inability to act like a rational human being.
All my best,
*censored*
Dear *censored*:
I have had a difficult time, over the past few years, achieving closure of our relationship. It is time for me to seek this. I have gone through the appropriate stages of anger, remorse, sadness. It is now time for me to close this chapter of my life. I am trying to recapture my life and gain a sense of identity back. In my professional life I have done this, but my personal life struggles. For so long I/We were "Apple and *sensor", that it
is hard to gain my own identity back. I am not worried about my career; I
will soon succeed even my wildest dreams. I am just stunted by my personal
life.
I am ready to release you from my life. I also on a weekly basis encounter people who want to tell me about you or have a discussion about you. I do not want to deal with this anymore. I do have a proposal on how to handle this.
I am ready to no longer be forced to deal with your presence. As to how to deal with it, I propose the following:
1. I've heard you have an flat on the West side. You need to move out of the West side of Singapore, this has always been my side of town, I own a house here, and do not rent like you. I grew up here, and always want to live here. I would prefer if you were to leave Singapore all together, but I know this is more than I can ask.I do not want to risk running into you at any store.
2. We should officially divide our friends. Particularly Jim, Jillian, Amy,
and Ed. You should write them, thanking them for the opportunity to be their friend and explain why you can no longer be in contact with them. I can provide you with addresses, if you need.
3. I would like you to not have anything to do with all things with XXX university. I feel I should have ownership of the school since my mother works there and my brother and sisters went there. You are more tied XX JC. This should be where you dedicate your alumni status. I will be involved in XX University. When the time of reunions comes up, I am willing to say that you can have the reunions ending in "0" years and I will take the"5" years. So you can have 10 years and I will take 25 years.
4. I will avoid XX JC contacts. The few guys from the JC I still speak
to on a rare basis, I will not. I will also discourage any of my children I
have from attending XX JC.
I know some of these things seem a bit harsh, but I feel they are for the best. I do not ever really wish to see you again. I know that this will of course happen beyond my control, but I think we should do our best to
avoid what we can.
It is my sincere hope that you understand, and do take the time to respond.
This is my last request of you.
With best wishes,
Apple
--------------------------
March 31, 2011
Dear Apple,
Thanks for your letter. We broke up 3 years ago. Knowing that and taking into consideration you believe me to be a cold, career focused, ego-maniac,
what on earth makes you think I would take the time to think about you or agree to your proposal? But since I clearly have taken the time to respond, please take a moment to review some comments and counter-proposals I have
1. First, I will have to resist the burning urge to move RIGHT NEXT DOOR
TO YOU. After that deep desire subsides, I will vacate the West side and
return to my roots: The stupid east side, as you used to call it. However, since I was born on the east side and I have east side in my veins you must
abdicate all ties to the North. This includes: Living on the east side, living on the North-east side, walking down malls in the east side, wearing east-pac or east-india apparel or telling your children that the run rises from the east.
1 (B). I was born in Singapore before you were so I should really get to
determine who stays and who goes. In my benevolence I will let you exist
here only within the Jurong area. We will call this the AppleZone. This
should be acceptable for you as your family lives across the street and there is a petrol station, Jurong-point, 7-11 stores and your place of employment. Exceptions can be made with my expressed written consent. You will be required to display a large tag in your windshield giving you permission to travel beyond the AppleZone.
2. I haven't talked to your friends since we broke up. I think they got the
message. However since you are acting that we are still in primary school, please have your friends meet me by the playground at recess so that I can tell them they have big fat heads and they aren't my friends anymore.
Do you agree? _______Yes ________No________Maybe
2 (B). One of the few times you let us do something fun, we visited some of
my family friends in Sentosa. It was about eight years ago. We traveled in their cars and enjoy their chalet Please jot them a note saying you are going to forget that ever happened. Please also offer to reimburse them for the petrol, air conditioning fee, beers and anything else you consumed while you were there. I don't have their address anymore, you can look it up.
3. Please let me know when your father runs for anything.
I'm going to run against him.
3. Christ, I don't have the energy for this one.
4. If any of my friends from JC actually still talk to you, they are f__king fired as friends.
4 (B). I'm not going to tell my kids anything about you. But speaking of kids, it would be okay with me if my son was a drug addict, just as long as he got your kids hooked on it and became their dealer.
In closing, I will never make decisions about my life or my family based on
whether I might run into you at the store. I am now convinced that if we ever do bump into each other, you will spontaneously combust. I wish you
the best of luck find a spouse. Seriously. It won't be easy to find a person who is willing to spend the rest of his life raising children and making decisions based on your crazy-ass proposal to an ex-boyfriend and
your inability to act like a rational human being.
All my best,
*censored*