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soulblader

22-06-2011, 11:13 AM

maninsinsha

22-06-2011, 11:27 AM

All I can say is: She's NOT into you... Move on... :cool:

Ichigo_Kurosaki

22-06-2011, 12:01 PM

That's the thing with people nowadays. Too much msn and sms. Just pick up the phone and call her!!!!
Not free today, tomorrow then ask her when? Next week, next month? Let her know that she's worth the wait without pressuring her. No EMO. Make the date!

If she asked you: Why you want to ask me out? Don't ever say you love to hang out with her, that's all. Just be your cute self! :D

alan0338

22-06-2011, 12:03 PM

ang mor way mata will tell u, make more $$$$ and let the tables turn around, let the gals understand u rather than u go and understand the gals. :D

p/s sometimes some gals just cant click with u, then its time to change target .. :)

guruking

22-06-2011, 01:46 PM

There is no way to understand a gal/lady/woman...they are from another planet :p

Ah he

22-06-2011, 03:58 PM

Is like that 1 bro. In BGR girl zha fit
Married life , we guy zha fit.

Ichigo_Kurosaki

22-06-2011, 04:43 PM

Is like that 1 bro. In BGR girl zha fit
Married life , we guy zha fit.

Let me translate "Zha-Fit" meaning In Control or Dorminant :D

But also need to be careful, if during BGR, the guy is a submissive guy, being controlled and bullied into marriage then after marriage, the girl will be "Zha- Fit" and the guy will "Zha-Lan" :D (Note: Zha Lan = Squeeze balls). Must also keep separate hidden bank acounts and don't let the wife to Zha-$$$$ if not you will have no $$$$ to go HFJ/KTV to Zha-Nin (Squeeze boobs). In the event of any divorce and woman charter, then you "Zha" also don't have (Nothing left);)

soulblader

22-06-2011, 05:05 PM

What shld I do...stop after reject, or keep on continue?

arsenal_84

22-06-2011, 05:25 PM

p/s sometimes some gals just cant click with u, then its time to change target .. :)

not forgetting, if in normal sms/msn conversations can argue already, chances are, these type of girls will be hard to click with even in real-time conversations.
when viewpoints are different as friends, is going to be hard to progress to couple stage.

see see only

22-06-2011, 05:38 PM

Is like that 1 bro. In BGR girl zha fit
Married life , we guy zha fit.

Wahahaha :D

If one guy, both cases the girl zha fit ..... then that guy is a potential big time failure .... si bo :rolleyes:

BTW TS,

I guess it is harder to understand why some guys just dont get it ... if the girls reject your date, - have their reasons for it, be it timing - just got a new bf, be it that she is not short of date partners, be it she not comfortable, be it your writing style did not interest her, be it anything ..... BUT very likely she dont like you :p

Anyway just keep her in your contact list, once a while ask ask and wait for the right timing.

BTW school holiday si bo ???? :o

darren69

22-06-2011, 05:42 PM

Does anyone notice TS is asking a lot of questions ? :rolleyes:

dylanchow

22-06-2011, 10:26 PM

Just tried but dont tried too hard.
Make your own call. If really difficult...dont waste your time....if you got it...it probably wont last long

If the girl like you. very fast on liao. no need so many pattern

Ah he

22-06-2011, 10:32 PM

Wahahaha :D

If one guy, both cases the girl zha fit ..... then that guy is a potential big time failure .... si bo :rolleyes:

Yah agree with u . But nowdays got such guy meh ? Lan lan suck thumb under girl command ? 20 years ago maybe have...

see see only

23-06-2011, 09:48 AM

Yah agree with u . But nowdays got such guy meh ? Lan lan suck thumb under girl command ? 20 years ago maybe have...

Toooooooo many such guys to mention :o

No see does not mean no have .... :D Hahaha i was once a useless and a failure too until she divorced me when i almost brankrupt :(

So now me inssist to zha fit in all cases :D .... the most stay single wont die .......

RealEstateGuy

23-06-2011, 10:07 AM

Everytime I want to ask a girl out she say not free...

How can we understand each other when we don't get together?
and if we don't understand each other, how can we be together?

like that I am walking in circle..

sick of talking in sms and msn...

Brother, you are not alpha enough to capture a woman. Basically you need to flirt but dont ask her out. Get her to think she is not at your level. She will throw hints for you to ask her out. Then you just say I have some time if you wnat to join me or I will be there at say 5 to 6 for dinner and you can have dinner with me. Imply that there are lots of other woman desiring to go out with you and she should get on your schedule to have a chance at romance. Other way is to have the confidence to just say we are going. Women llike confidence not some twit scared to ask her out.

soulblader

23-06-2011, 09:17 PM

How to flirt with girl?

how to be "alpha"?

adver

23-06-2011, 09:24 PM

HCKing

26-06-2011, 03:53 PM

Brother, you are not alpha enough to capture a woman. Basically you need to flirt but dont ask her out. Get her to think she is not at your level. She will throw hints for you to ask her out. Then you just say I have some time if you wnat to join me or I will be there at say 5 to 6 for dinner and you can have dinner with me. Imply that there are lots of other woman desiring to go out with you and she should get on your schedule to have a chance at romance. Other way is to have the confidence to just say we are going. Women llike confidence not some twit scared to ask her out.

wahaha wat am i seeing here? a dickhead acting like a dating guru calling others twit? until nw u still havent posted any pics to support your high class maid FB bullshits.

Empty cannons make the most farts, as always.:rolleyes:

colins

27-06-2011, 05:28 PM

bro soulblader, all you need to do is to cut some of your conversation with this girl and paste it here. Then we have some basis as to what advice is best for you. A good piece of advice is one that can be applied by the person listening to it, likewise as the property agent is able to give quite sound advice (at least to me ah), he should be able to demonstrate it as well (maids dun count, albeit 'high class').

Of cos, other bros can always chip in ok. Learning is always a humbling experience. ;)

abchow

27-06-2011, 05:45 PM

TS , my suggestion is go make lots of money . Then the girls will date u out and u can pick and choose. Why make yr life so miserable now. Focus on how to make the money.

Stud00

27-06-2011, 07:04 PM

Someone once said..

Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus..
:P

I don't know about you, but i rather date my car.. just that, i cant screw my car!! ROFL!!

ChaiTao

28-06-2011, 12:59 AM

Everytime I want to ask a girl out she say not free...

How can we understand each other when we don't get together?
and if we don't understand each other, how can we be together?

like that I am walking in circle..

sick of talking in sms and msn...

Bro,to be frank ,if the girl really into you some time down the road she will come out with you!But if u jioed her many times(for me 3 to 4 times dun come out dun waste time liao) still dun wan come out,no matter what she smsed or msned you all talk cok one!!!!!Try to cheong more,more targets,girl1 dun come out look for girl2...so on ,end of the day surely at least one will come out!If not lower your expectation!That always worked for me!!!:D

xyhan

28-06-2011, 01:33 AM

frivolous_ami

28-06-2011, 01:43 AM

Girls are just another type of species. Why they like that? Why they so like this? No explanation at all. Cos if you can understand, mankind wouldnt have to fight so many worthless wars in history. Truth is there is little logic in how they behave and think.

AmericanExpress

03-07-2011, 01:03 AM

don't get upset over 1 girl :)

adver

03-07-2011, 02:05 AM

All I can say is: She's NOT into you... Move on... :cool:

I agree totally.

r0cksteady

03-07-2011, 03:41 AM

"Cannot meet how to spend time, cannot spend time how to be with each other"?

Hard to understand???

I see it's so easy to understand.

She does NOT want to be with you, bro. That's why she doesn't want to spend time with you. That's why she doesn't want to meet you.

BTW, she replying to your sms... is only out of COURTESY. Not that she likes you or you are so charming. Just politeness. Otherwise you may call her a rude bitch.
Perhaps she is not a rude bitch. Just that she don't like you in the 'special way'.

Why? Nobody knows "why". Sometimes she also don't know. (PLEASE don't go and ask her. Lowers your own standard and shows you as very needy).

Not your fault. Everyone has different criteria to like someone in a 'special way'. For example, some girls can be VERY NICE, SINCERE and SWEET to me, but if got bad breath, I immediately shut off. (May fuck once or twice). Or someone lies to me. End of game. Or small boobs (but depends, some girls are small-chested but attracts me in other ways). Even I don't know the criteria. Like means like, don't like means don't like.

I don't know the celebs now, so I will quote celebs from 10 years ago. For example, Fann Wong VS Zoe Tay. Both pretty. Both nice. Both got their style. But some guys die die love Fann and some guys die die love Zoe.
Do they even know why? I tell you, no one knows 100%. Because they don't even KNOW the celeb. Just by looks can support till argue. Imagine that.
Like means like, don't like means don't like. No reason and no logic.

Don't beat yourself up. You like her doesn't mean she must like you.
She don't like you in a special way doesn't mean you are shit.

You are still you. Just make yourself better and ACCEPT that this world is huge, and there are girls who will not like you in a 'special way', no matter what you do, and move on.

Be happy, bro.

P.S. Once you better yourself and become the best you that you can be, your confidence will soar and you will realise that many people are attracted to you, male and female, just because you are happy with yourself and confident about who you are. From then on, you can just take your time to choose the girls around you, or even if you decide to go and 'chase' a girl, you will be much better equipped that time. Much higher chance of success. Take it easy.

天山童老

03-07-2011, 05:50 AM

What shld I do...stop after reject, or keep on continue?

Actually understanding a girl is not too difficult, if you really dun understand just tell her, if after she explained it to you, you still dun than just pretend you do and skip topic(do it naturally so that she dun notice). By telling her you dun understand at first can psychologically make her off-guard on the white lie coming up next(they can be sensitive to our faking/entertaining due to their brain in-built).

But for your case, r/s is a 2-way flow. Just by you alone want to understand her can get no where. She has to be want to understand you too in order to communicate!

Summary:
1.She has no interest in understanding you and only make use of you to kill her time when she's bored. only in msn and text.
2. From my understanding, she has absoblutely no intention in meeting you at all.
3. I'm curious, since you seldom even chat with her and had nv met her in person(concluding from you say she's nv free to meetup with you), why are you so into her about? She's merely nothing too much of a stranger to you too...
Solution: Find someone else to tackle, someone who's more willing to chat up and meetup with you to start with!

pohh

03-07-2011, 09:18 PM

Depend the chemistry and whether both have a common interest for the beginning stage

Fuckening

04-07-2011, 08:53 AM

newhere

04-07-2011, 06:34 PM

Don't listen to all those alpha alpha stories. If everyone can be alpha, this world will be full of LKY and Hitlers and Ronald MacDonalds, there would be no peace on earth. You'd be tired by acting alpha one day, then falling out of love all that crap will follow. Just be who you are and cast your net wide. Your problem is you only ask one girl, you should have at least 5 girls on your calling list.

wingsafeather

04-07-2011, 10:35 PM

girls arent hard to understand. u're probably not listening/reading between the lines enough. my bets on her not being interested thats all.

Sen5eS

05-07-2011, 09:54 AM

Someone once said..

Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus..
:P

I don't know about you, but i rather date my car.. just that, i cant screw my car!! ROFL!!

hahaha same with the many fishes in the sea ! hahaha you can't screw a fish too hehehe

T/S : she's stringing you along for a good time :D

yoichi

09-07-2011, 01:09 PM

bro, soulblader. most of the bro here has given u the most important advice to u:
move on!

learning how to be success with woman is very 'chim'. to start off, u can seek more detailed advice from some experience bro such as fourhorseman or colins. :p

RealEstateGuy

09-07-2011, 04:42 PM

jenny

09-07-2011, 06:57 PM

There is no way to understand a gal/lady/woman...they are from another planet :p

ha! from which plant? ;) thought that Samsters here are experts in understanding the opposite sex :D

scaredycat

11-07-2011, 05:45 AM

TS sounds like my friend... think i've seen those silly questions in my facebook :p

soulblader

12-07-2011, 01:11 PM

girls arent hard to understand. u're probably not listening/reading between the lines enough. my bets on her not being interested thats all.

I try more than 1 girl..all same result

suteerak1099

13-07-2011, 11:21 AM

lovedoggie

15-07-2011, 03:29 AM

actually, its not too hard to understand girls in this current day & time. some may say that gals dig good looking blokes... well, looks have appeal, but cant sustain. in truth, gals cant accept a guy who pays more attention to his own good looks.

in this material world, the bloke with the fattest wallet & limitless budget is the winner. gals can scream all they want about equal rights & girl pwr & all that crap theories, but when a guy throws LV, prada, gucci at them like snowflakes, the chicks start forming a queue like what u see at KOI bubble tea kiosks.

Damn true. Even thou chicks nowadays earns a lot, they would still prefer guys to shower them with Prada, Gucci, LV etc etc.

Example? I know this girl during my university days. Always got lessons would meet in school for lunch etc, then sit and study together etc. But once graduate, she totally change. Ask her out like trying to beg for rain. I think beg for rain still easier than dating her out. Finally i told myself, fuck it. I am not of zero value, why should i go beg girls to even go out with me. Over a period of one year, my income double that of the national average for my age group.

It is after all that pussy and hole we guys are interested in. Need to make yourselves go through all these shit bo? U might well spend all the time thinking how to make more money for yourselves. In this time and age, relationship, kinship and whatever ship sinks easily one. When all is gone, at least u still got money who will always be loyal to you.

I understand sometime singles guy like me when go out see other guys with chio bu ish sibei dulan n buay tahan. Keep asking why Heaven so unfair:mad: Me is still very dulan with god, heaven n whatever mighty force up there for not giving me the girl i like. But keep feeling dulan also no use lei. You must action mah. Since those mighty forces (assuming they exist lar, since so many pple pray n pray at bugis street) dun want give me wat i want right, then nvn mind lor. I will show them how bastard i can be in using money to play those FL, Whore and whatever u can list. They always say haven't meet the other half is cos time not ripe. But i tell mighty forces, if one day you send me my the other half, me bet both small n big balls i gona treat her like a dog.

shctaw

15-07-2011, 08:22 AM

I am no expert; just from my experience with woman.

I think the problem is you give them too much respect and too much attention.

================================================== =
My secret bible on woman.

Step 1
Treat them like bitch.

Step 2
Never forget step 1.

Step 3
Are you stupid? No step 3; go back to step 1.

================================================== ===

Woman somehow are attracted to Ah Bang or guy whom pretend to be bad. (with or without ANG KONG[tattoo]) They do not like decent man with a 9 to 5 job. (unless they are looking for husband; which in singapore mean you must have at least a car, a HDB (Condo will be better); a MBA (Mega Bank Account$$$) etc etc.

They want to feel advanturous; you can pretent to be CIA agent; KGB or event OKT.

Try that; it works wonder.

PS: IF all fail; maybe you have no luck with woman. Try ladyboy.:D

shctaw

15-07-2011, 08:28 AM

Just remember beauty and the beast.

Ugly man get the beauty. When your look is a handicap; your other instinct take over.

Sweet talk is the best tool.
Talk dirty will be a even better tool.

Talk dirty a bit tricky; you can only talk dirty with your target.
Never talk dirty in front of her friends and relative.

frivolous_ami

15-07-2011, 08:34 AM

in this material world, the bloke with the fattest wallet & limitless budget is the winner. gals can scream all they want about equal rights & girl pwr & all that crap theories, but when a guy throws LV, prada, gucci at them like snowflakes, the chicks start forming a queue like what u see at KOI bubble tea kiosks.
Yea lor, why talk about equality when there are none.

Almost all of them are the same in singapore, whether ft or not. So long as they ve lived in singapore, surely will turn a bit money minded. And the moral of the story is, no money = step aside. Its basically like the animal kingdom. If you got power, all other females will come to you.

Dun need talk about love. Its bs.

mrsg

17-10-2011, 09:04 PM

Yea lor, why talk about equality when there are none.

Almost all of them are the same in singapore, whether ft or not. So long as they ve lived in singapore, surely will turn a bit money minded. And the moral of the story is, no money = step aside. Its basically like the animal kingdom. If you got power, all other females will come to you.

Dun need talk about love. Its bs.

It is even more diffcult to understand WL. lol:D

Ah he

22-10-2011, 12:46 AM

To TS

U r lucky bro. If she is a player, u r fucked and sure kena damn jia lat 1.

If u are really want to serious with her, understand her more before u make any move.

RealEstateGuy

23-10-2011, 03:48 PM

wahaha wat am i seeing here? a dickhead acting like a dating guru calling others twit? until nw u still havent posted any pics to support your high class maid FB bullshits.

Empty cannons make the most farts, as always.:rolleyes:

Loser braddah, direct your anger problems at someone else. It's not my fault you continue to be sexually frustrated. I hope one day you will realize that spending your disposable income (and maybe non-disposable too) on paid pussy doesnt advance your standing in SG society. What a twit.

wantanabee

24-10-2011, 11:37 AM

she might not even want you to know her more. it's hard for her to turn you down directky. but by texts, friendship can still be maintained.