Any Bro can help?

[joscklee]

Hi Bros,

A good friend of mine is facing a problem which seems difficult to resolve: he met a PRC from MP years back but she was caught by AV shortly. This PRC returned and my friend still contact with her, found out she's a divorcee in China with a son. May say my friend blinded or zhong kam cheng, he ROM and even applied for her son to Sin. Now more trouble starts coming, she is unable to get PR and can only rely on LTVP to prolong her stay here (including her son) my friend is not well oiff and is worse after marrying this PRC and becoming step father. This woman starts showing her true colors, tellig my friend how fast her sisters in Sin got their PRs, and why he's so incompetent. It's too late to regret now, many friends including had persuaded him not to bring that wiomam here but he won't listen.

Any Bro has good idea how to handle this woman and son now?

[shctaw]

Last time fake marriage can get PR. But some PRC go around spreading the method. Now the new PRC cannot get PR easily.

Your friend invite trouble to himself. Base on my personal experience with PRC. You have to be ruthless against them otherwise they have control over you. Have to get rid of them quick.

Next thing ........ The PRC will blame your friend for getting them in SG. Mark my words.

[joscklee]

Thanks for the suggestion Bro, I shall ask my friend to be ruthless if tat PRC gets overborad, now he has 'endorsed' her and son, it's almost confirm they will demand long term maintance even they willing to get lost..

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

I'm not able to speculate specifically on why "your friend" getting involved with a "super sales buy 1-get-1 油瓶仔 free" and "helping a PRC man to rasie his son" in the 1st place. There is a very high possibility that all 3 of them are still in constant contacts. :(

No amount of talking, experience, education, reasoning or advice can get "him" to listen cos it's stage III of a cancer cell :o

[2centsworth]

Just curious, if he didn't listen then, what makes you think he will listen now? Just let him suffer lah. He knew what he was signing up for when he married her what. Things are just going accordingly as planned. Everyone has his right to choose his happiness. If he finds joy being scolded, let him be lah.


Although all said and done, the PRC did show you her weakness. Her son. Target her only weakness. Her love for her son. Tell the PRC to behave. LTSVP still allows her son to be educated in Singapore. A bi-lingual education is what a lot of PDMM come here for right? So if he doesn't even renew her LTSVP, her son's future will suffer too. Remind her of that. 1 last thought, you mean if she did get PR, her true colours won't show ah? Will still show right? Your friend will still end up scolded by her and then 'scolded' by his friends.

Personally, I hope she doesn't get PR. Too many rude and noisy PRC in Singapore liao. Our Singapore government is really useless. AV changed rules to 2 ic rule in a lot of budget hotel to target the PRC vice trade. Then ICA so easily give the PRC ladies PR status. End up, we are just 'legalising' their stay here. Don't believe... consider this. Last time, the ladies massaging you in MP (those with HJ endings) tend to be social visit pass holders. If they are caught, banned from re-entering Singapore for a while. Now, the PRC girls at the MP... almost all got PR. Catch already also can't deport them.

What AV do, ICA un-do.

[rauldon]

just divorce the bitch sua

[xxking]

Just curious, if he didn't listen then, what makes you think he will listen now? Just let him suffer lah.

What AV do, ICA un-do.

Well said bro.

Confirm she can not get PR lar, as she has bad records in ICA :p

But if she stay here less than 3 year, then she can not get the SG maintenance fee. Suggest your friend to consult lawyer before do any stupid thing,

Anyway, he deserve the trouble, maybe more ... no one can help

[joscklee]

Thnx for every Bro for their inputs. Ya my friend's sufferibg now & also wold like to take this opportunity to tell every Bro out there- dun be blinded by PRC's sweettalk, dun be soft-hearted towards them & in this case worse- 'buy 1 get 1 free'

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

.....my friend's sufferibg now.....

Her motive is quite obvious to obtain PR status. From I read from your post, it does seem quite tough for your "friend" to toughen up his heart. Normally a soft hearted person is a patient person. So in the meantime, he should keep a close tap on his finance, stealthy and gradually park/hide his warchest (money) somewhere either into his parent account or someone he can trust. Be patient, the PRC will perform some side actions if she realised she is unable to obtain PR here. Get her an iphone to track her movement or install hidden cam in the house to collect evidence if things turned north. Just be extremely cautious cos there are many wicked and evil PRC women in town. :o Sometimes we make mistakes but that doesn't mean that we should accept it whole heartedly like a helpless sheep waiting for wholesale slaughter.

[RealEstateGuy]

Hi Bros,

A good friend of mine is facing a problem which seems difficult to resolve: he met a PRC from MP years back but she was caught by AV shortly. This PRC returned and my friend still contact with her, found out she's a divorcee in China with a son. May say my friend blinded or zhong kam cheng, he ROM and even applied for her son to Sin. Now more trouble starts coming, she is unable to get PR and can only rely on LTVP to prolong her stay here (including her son) my friend is not well oiff and is worse after marrying this PRC and becoming step father. This woman starts showing her true colors, tellig my friend how fast her sisters in Sin got their PRs, and why he's so incompetent. It's too late to regret now, many friends including had persuaded him not to bring that wiomam here but he won't listen.

Any Bro has good idea how to handle this woman and son now?

It's easily handled by getting a divorce.

[wells]

She has a AV record in ICA, how is she going to get PR status? It will be extreme difficult to obtain that status furthermore he's not the father of the child.

I heard ROM withthin 12months can divorce Immediately. Later after 12 months need to wait a few years of separation before can officially divorce. Some bros here please clarify further.

PRC season player is hard to deal with and will climb ontop you and shit. Cut things off and say goodbye to her.

[Ken79]

Who asked your fren to try to marry a whore that's also a single mom.
Even she get her PR she will work in such places or jobs behind your fren's back, all she wants is money.

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

Who asked your fren to try to marry a whore that's also a single mom..

IMHO, many of these ex-WL/FL PRC ghosts have perfected their surface job, many local men were not awared of any "hidden" baggages till it's too late. I have seen at least 4 such cases among my circle of friends and business associates :o It is very unfortunate that some of these men carrying with them hopes of these ghosts will change for the sake of their marriages

I fully understand we should not judge a book by its cover and people shouldn't be judged by how they look or their origins but be judged by their actions. It is also advisable that we do not judge PRCs women by what they appear like to us at 1st, it is necessary to get to know them and "read" them before one jump into the marriage bandwagon. Something very powerful evil agenda can be inside them and one might end up jumping into a pool of piranhas, left with bones and the bones being chewed up by a pack of Hyenas behind. :(

[joscklee]

My friend even burnt all his savings buying resale flat & now holding 3 jobs to make ends meet, and her bl**dy son need to study angmo class 1st or else he wont know what teachers talking when go P1 next year....

Winner is that PRC's ex- got free f**k and dont need raise son

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

My friend even burnt all his savings buying resale flat & now holding 3 jobs to make ends meet.....

My final piece of advice: Only your friend know what's he's seeking with this twlight marriage cos he has made his life choice and has selected to walk this path of fire. One can only do so much for a friend without directly getting oneself involved in his family affairs. Just be ready to help him if he ever needed your help both financially and emotionally. As a friend, one NEVER EVER tell him "I TOLD YOU SO" when he is down and out ;)

[joscklee]

My final piece of advice: Only your friend know what's he's seeking with this twlight marriage cos he has made his life choice and has selected to walk this path of fire. One can only do so much for a friend without directly getting oneself involved in his family affairs. Just be ready to help him if he ever needed your help both financially and emotionally. As a friend, one NEVER EVER tell him "I TOLD YOU SO" when he is down and out ;)


Thnx for ur advice Bro. My friend now suspect tat PRC in still contact her Ex in hometown.... it's possible a conspiracy between them

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

Thnx for ur advice Bro. My friend now suspect tat PRC in still contact her Ex in hometown.... it's possible a conspiracy between them

IMHE of what I have seen in reallife cases, helping a PRC man to raise his son is like feeding a dog and this dog guarding otherpeople house. End of day, he will goes back to PRCland using what he gained and benefited from here to perform his filial duty to his PRC father!!!! :o It is different from raising an orphan cos there will be no emotional attachment or whatsoever goodwill if you help to raise a WL/FL PRC step family. :rolleyes:

[xxking]

IMHE of what I have seen in reallife cases, helping a PRC man to raise his son is like feeding a dog and this dog guarding otherpeople house. End of day, he will goes back to PRCland using what he gained and benefited from here to perform his filial duty to his PRC father!!!! :o It is different from raising an orphan cos there will be no emotional attachment or whatsoever goodwill if you help to raise a WL/FL PRC step family. :rolleyes:

ya, worst is, the mon will still go back fuck her ex-bf, and may send $$ back to her ex-bf when the kid dont need $$ anymore :D

[RealEstateGuy]

Brother its not the manly thing to do but if:
1) she is still in contact with her ex
2) your friend has little financial assets
and especially if in addition to 1 and 2,
3) she is still fucking her ex

your friend would be a fool not to walk away via divorce. I know its a bad thing to do to walk away from raising a child but he is not yours. If you have no emotional attatchment to him then walk away from the situation.

your friends time and effort is best expended on pursuing a family of his own rather than raising one for someone else.

in the end the kid will be a SGean and immigrate his biological dad to SG for a reunion among the three of them living in your friends home after they boot him out.

Use common sense.

[joscklee]

That's my friend's worries... Even that PRC now in SIN, my friend cant f**k her everyday as that bl**dy son sleep in same room as them

[RealEstateGuy]

That's my friend's worries... Even that PRC now in SIN, my friend cant f**k her everyday as that bl**dy son sleep in same room as them

If he just wants to have sex everyday then why not just use the FB option? I mean no strings attatched as its purely a sexual thing.

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

That's my friend's worries... Even that PRC now in SIN, my friend cant f**k her everyday as that bl**dy son sleep in same room as them

You faster make plans to kick them out of your house.

Seems like no love kinda marriage!

It's like training a dog: Commands & Trainings.;)

If she make noise or out of control just tell her: TSST! TSST! TSST! :D

[GLHunter]

Thnx for every Bro for their inputs. Ya my friend's sufferibg now & also wold like to take this opportunity to tell every Bro out there- dun be blinded by PRC's sweettalk, dun be soft-hearted towards them & in this case worse- 'buy 1 get 1 free'

I ever encountered a PRC tried to hook me with "buy 1 get 2 free" package. Somemore apply pestering tactics.

I banned her calls + sms after she activated some serious bombardment, she also LL.. :D

[joscklee]

I ever encountered a PRC tried to hook me with "buy 1 get 2 free" package. Somemore apply pestering tactics.

I banned her calls + sms after she activated some serious bombardment, she also LL.. :D

If only my friend as clear-headed as you.... now he's like digging his own 'grave'

when they f**k mid of night, cannot even moan as that bl**dy son sleeping above them may hear

[RealEstateGuy]

If only my friend as clear-headed as you.... now he's like digging his own 'grave'

when they f**k mid of night, cannot even moan as that bl**dy son sleeping above them may hear

Seems like your dont give a shit about the kid do you? Seems like you are using her for pussy and shes using you for money. Quid pro quo. Both of you seem like losers IMO. Except you are both intending to have the other holding an empty bag. She wants to strip you of your assets and leverage your SG nationality into immigration of her hubby while you are trying to get as much pussy as you can before this happens. So who's zooming who? Ironically her real husband is just sitting back watching the movie unfold and he is the real winner as doesn't give a shit about her or the kid either. Am I wrong?

[joscklee]

Ya my friend didn't know this bl**dy son bring so much problem, just hope my that PRC will not betray him

[batty]

Hi joscklee. I wonder if your friend's PRC wife is really divorced? She has lied to him already. Try to find out if she is still in contact with her PRC ex(?)husband. Good luck to your friend.

[qlogic]

That's my friend's worries... Even that PRC now in SIN, my friend cant f**k her everyday as that bl**dy son sleep in same room as them

your friend live in single room house? why not separate them in different room or another place? or he don't have enough $$

[Schenker]

Ya my friend didn't know this bl**dy son bring so much problem, just hope my that PRC will not betray him

Hope is the worst thing that you/your frd can ever rely on. :D :D

[Asia1]

Hi joscklee. I wonder if your friend's PRC wife is really divorced? She has lied to him already. Try to find out if she is still in contact with her PRC ex(?)husband. Good luck to your friend.

She should be divorced otherwise can not ROM, but you can not control her connection to her ex right. if the ts's friens accept her so he should prepared to accept all her past and actually he can not do anything abt it.

[joscklee]

your friend live in single room house? why not separate them in different room or another place? or he don't have enough $$

Ya my friend had $$ problem, it's a 3 room flat and he need to rent out one of the rooms to top up monthly instalments..

So no choice that bl**dy son has to sleep with them in same rooman or cannot ask him f**k off to the living hall right

[batty]

Hi joscklee. Your friend can suggest to his step son that it is stuffy, hot or cramped in the small masterbedroom. And see it is so breezy in the living room at night. Move a light mattress into the living room for his step son to sleep on Saturday nights only. Make it sound fun. Give him a small reward. Later increase it to a few more nights a week.

[joscklee]

Hi joscklee. Your friend can suggest to his step son that it is stuffy, hot or cramped in the small masterbedroom. And see it is so breezy in the living room at night. Move a light mattress into the living room for his step son to sleep on Saturday nights only. Make it sound fun. Give him a small reward. Later increase it to a few more nights a week.

Hi bro batty,

Thnx for ur suggestion, I tell my friend see if it helps