partners with low sex drive...has there ever been a successful case?

[bulldog1234]

Have read and seen a lot of such issues happening in marriage and in relationships...infact it happened to me and lead to me and my GF breaking up because it became too frustrating to bear....lead to a lot of quarrels blah blah blah..u know the rest.

anyway my question is, has anyone here ever had a successful case whereby this issue was resolve? (apart from eating out la...) and also is there a scientific explanation for this? seems like it happens very regularly in SG but not so for ang mohs??

what you all think?

[orneryjoe]

Who has the low sex drive? The man, or the woman?

Most women over thirty with children tend to be less interested in sex after some years of marriage. This applies to the Westerners as well. For example, refer to the latest book by Catherine Hakim - Honey, Money: The Power of Erotic Capital. Or read this article - http://www.prospectmagazine.co.uk/2010/03/have-you-got-erotic-capital/ .

If the man, then go for a checkup to rule out physical causes.

[samyboys]

usually is the woman

[RealEstateGuy]

Have read and seen a lot of such issues happening in marriage and in relationships...infact it happened to me and lead to me and my GF breaking up because it became too frustrating to bear....lead to a lot of quarrels blah blah blah..u know the rest.

anyway my question is, has anyone here ever had a successful case whereby this issue was resolve? (apart from eating out la...) and also is there a scientific explanation for this? seems like it happens very regularly in SG but not so for ang mohs??

what you all think?

Braddah, have you had a PI check to see if she got other man on the side?

[bulldog1234]

You have to try to talk to her as i did to make her see your side of the story :)

are you then a successful case?

[MrGreen]

Check out the thread (http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=185736) i started some time back... Till this day, no improvement. I went out for Tom Yam twice liao. Just saw sushi and kimchi also available, damn tempted...

Anyway arrange makan session at JB with my friends next week to fill my appitite... :D

[yankaiftw]

My ex-gf used to have low sex drive, really low to the point when I want to have sex with her, she will think that I'm together with her just over sex.

Try to do something differently, like maybe plan a romantic getaway, try to f her on special occasions in 5 star Singapore hotel, or maybe set up a nice atmosphere in your room with candle light up rose petal on the bed and nice aroma diffuser in the room let her feel comfortable first

Not sure whether it work for u, but it surely work out for me back then


Goodluck bro

[TedDibiase]

Try to do something differently, like maybe plan a romantic getaway, try to f her on special occasions in 5 star Singapore hotel, or maybe set up a nice atmosphere in your room with candle light up rose petal on the bed and nice aroma diffuser in the room let her feel comfortable first


Seems like too much effort :confused:

[cookiemonsta]

i'm no dr phill

in general, all women have different levels of intimacy due to low esteem and are very vulnerable when sharing their inner sanctums with others (even significant others)

men are mechanical and logical types
if we're hungry, we eat
when we're thirsty, we drink
and when we're horny, we find means to release
it just makes sense

women are emotional creatures
they want to feel secure and safe and in most cases desire to be romanced to get into the mood

yes, this requires effort
on the same token, you work hard for your money
and you could easily pay for a punt
if you put in the same effort into your relationship, it could work in your favor

good luck!