Relationship wif a viet girl....

[teletubbie]

hi bros,

im a newbie and doing contribution for the first time....sharing wif u my experience wif a viet girl lasting a period of abt 4 yrs...im not stranger to the chiong scene but its my 1st time having a relationship wif a WL....

it all started wif me going out wif my new found bro during my reservist...we decided to meet up after our ICT and went to this pub along Gelyang (lots of viet girls).

met this girl...name is TrucH....she's 23 then, chatted n drank...not much happening......considered pretty (to my taste) and normal looking figure...being a seasoned chiongster, i didn't think much abt it, juz another nite out, juz another WL...she has been in sg for only 2 weeks...

3 weeks after, i was at the pub again wif my reservist fren...got myself another girl.....so happen that i see TrucH again....while my girl went to other tables, i gestured TrucH over to join mi.....that's how it started...
on tat nite...she didn't move to different tables...she sticked wif mi the whole nite...i didn't ask why, but i do know she needs to butterfly to make her monies...was oso feeling bored.....asked her for sex when the nite ended....went to the hotel directly across the road...no drama for the first time...juz pay n fuck...but one thing that suprise mi was her boobs...big n firm (how do u post pictures here??)...slurp slurp....can't really tell when she's dress......now some bros will blast me for spoiling market....i paid her 150. reason being so is that she didn't butterfly....

met her on another occasion at the pub...again it was a pay and fuck episode...no drama....paid her 100...yes she did butterfly this time round...

being a cheapskate...i started thinking..hmm...mayb i can fuck her for free....so i decided to try my luck...it was in noon time round....was my day off...called her...was a nice surprise that she's willing to come out even though its last minute...went makan...then we to the hotel...had a good time....right after leaving the hotel...i acted blur n didn't pay her...dropped her at her accomodation...thinking she might ask for money..but she didn't..ended wif a good bye peck instead...heart as shouting out "Victory!!"....damm shiok man...free fuck....so i thought (will reveal more in my later post).

Soon enuf...she has to go back to Viet (visitor pass expire)...i went abt my life and was in the Middle East for a business trip... where i had a present surprise...she called and is coming back to SG...we didn't meet for a few weeks already.....sidetracking a little here..going to the Middle E is boring when night life is concern...knn...some countries in the M.E is dead unless ur talking abt Bahrain and UAE...check out a HC there..knn all indians (no offencs to indian bros here)...cater to the vast population of indians there...Bahrain n UAE is different...can see PRCs there...going back t TrucH

Again we met...at the pub......waited for the nite to end......didn't bed her that nite...went to the beach and chitchat...that where she drop the bomb...saying that she has fallen for mi....and she enjoy being wif mi...i was thinking to myself.."WTF...meet u for a few time only...i did not even try to impress u during our time togather...call u to my table n chitchat only n u hav fallen for me...." she then reassure mi that her words ar truthful....i thought to myself...hmmm...mayb there some truth in it...anyway... i showed her my wife pic tat nite (yes i'm married)...she didn't say a thing...as we were walking back to the car...she said "wei she mo" (why? in mandrain)..."why i'm a married man?"....sent her home and i thought its the end of our story.....nez thing i know is that she's going back to Viet again...we only text each other occasionally then...

Abt 2 months later...she asked mi out....we had lunch....naturally...things ended in bed..sex became more uninhibited...we laughed and joked more...dun noe why...we were getting more comfortable to each other....soon after...our sex session become more frequent n fun...things like licking chocolate off body parts, hanky panky in the car, me breastfucking her, she doing footjob for mi (yes footjob)...and even filming ourselves during sex...anythings goes, but one thing that she dun like is giving mi bj while im standing (mayb i look ugly frm that angle..haha)...dun ask mi why...i've no idea till this very day...all this for FREE...She will go out wif me everytime i asked(100% attendance)...never excuse herself...it was then that i started believing that she truthfully like me...even though im married...

to be contd.....

[Golden question]

Are we expecting some query from u soon haha:p:D

[teletubbie]

no queries expected...juz sharing my journey with a viet girl with the bros here...

[vietnam80]

i sense KC......;)

[xqueen]

seems recently lot of bros kced by viet wls .. Viet wls more attractive ?

[teletubbie]

part 2/4

our relationship blossom....she never talk to me abt money...juz like a normal couple..but this is where the stake get higher. First, is the danger of falling in love wif a WL. The second is my marriage (wife may find out) as we were going out to public places and we may be seen by frens n relatives. To deal wif the first issue, i always reminded myself that she's a WL and not to fall for her. i also tell myself this "live by the sword, die by the sword", meaning to come out and play, be also ready to be played. This help to keep my emotion in check as to not suffer any heartache in the future. I also reminded her that im married, no way we can be togather. In this way, we had a common understanding as all these will come to an end someday. Other than that, all was well. I was the envy of many men when we go to the beach...she's the slim and well endowed type. going to the beach is always fun...she will caress n tease my bro while in water...i will teach her how to swim (gosh wat was thinking then, should be "playing" with her instead rite?). we will stay embrace in the water for long period of time enjoying the sun and each other's company.

All was well....so good that one day before having sex, she suggested not using condom...she said she wanted to feel me....yes...i did the unthinkable...going raw...never in my life hav i chionged wifout protection. the smaller brain was ruling mi at that point in time and i went for it...
Regretted my action and waited for a few weeks before going for a HIV test...doc gave mi a clear and i was a relieved man.

during all these time, i seldom visit her at the pub...i didn't want to see her in other men's arm..i oso didn't want to affect her way of earning a living...i will go to her pub once a while and will not stay long (less than a hour)...i didn't intefere wif her work...while wif mi, her client will call and i will allow her to speak to them on the phone. I didn't insist, but suggested her not sleeping with her client...she agreed (not sure if she meant it)...soon we were having sex without protection thruout the relationship (went for HIV test after we ended, im given the clear - thanks for bros concern)...I practise the withdrawal method...must say i'm proud of my performance (can last 25mins even when raw)...fuck so long that she once bled a little...her frens was laughing at her when she related it to them...

one day, i couldn't contact her...phone was dead...tried contacting her for the next 24 hrs but to no avail....when she finally pick up the phone, i knew something was wrong, the police raided her apartment and she was held overnite at ICA...I picked her at ICA (at ICA, there a side door nez far frm the entrance, looking at it u will know its a high security entrance)...she cried...though she was not caught red handed (working in a pub), she was given a 3 yrs ban...she and her group of frens who were detained hav the red brusies or mark in between their eyes...i ask her why is this so, she refused to talk abt her experience while in detention...I can only speculate its some form of light physical punishment/torture handed out to detainees.

So i begun to see another dark side of their trade...u see, when u become popular, other girls get jealous, they give u away to the police by telling them what your're doing or staying. the intended victim could be my girl or someone in her group she's staying wif. it truth wat some bro say in this forum, viet girls gossip a lot...lots of backstabbing too...girls whom she considered fren will tell me bad things abt my girl...things like she has a lot of client and seeing men behind my bad...it took them wif a pinch off salt and do not dismiss the possibility at the same time...frankly speaking, i never get angry or felt betray when i hear this...i've managed my expectation rite frm the start...

i will post some picture of her in my later post...but will blank out her face to protect her identity.

to be contd....

[teletubbie]

hmm...submitted part two of my story...not published, wondering if i've written something that is forbidden...nevermind...will re-write and submit part two tomolo...

[sammyboyfor]

You're a moron. :rolleyes:

[joew2005]

ya ... u r indeed a lucky guy.

[iLuvVietNam]

INteresting ...

Camping here for more :p

[teletubbie]

erh why call mi a moron? call mi names oso must give reason rite?

[alan0338]

waiting for part 3 and 4 :D

[sammyboyfor]

erh why call mi a moron? call mi names oso must give reason rite?

Anyone who develops an emotional attachment to a WHORE has to be a moron. :rolleyes:

There is no other explanation for doing something so stupid.:eek:

[lugi]

erh why call mi a moron? call mi names oso must give reason rite?

Part 3 & 4 and photos better follow soon.. if not really proven to be moron...:D

[hamsapkwai]

Ok let`s do a poll as to how the ending would be..

1) They ended up happily ever after

2) The girl left him heartbroken and bankbroken

3) He woke up and walked away happily into the sunset

4) None of the above

:rolleyes:

[teletubbie]

Part 3/4 - Good morning Vietnam!

broomm........broomm.......broomm........broomm... .the sound of my car tyre on the hi-way. we'r on the way to night safari..

me: sori...its a long journey frm ur place to the zoo
(truch stayed quiet for abt 30sec)
truch: it's ok...i'm enjoying the car ride...
pause...
truch: i wish this ride will never end....
me: why??
truch: i enjoy moments like this being wif u..
me: (turn and look at her and didn't say a thing)

either she pull a really good one to KC me or she's speaking frm the heart.
i'm sold...i believed her..

you see, when in a situation like this...sometimes there's no right or wrong, good or bad...things in life juz happens.....i'm being called a moron here, i've no issue wif that, cos i both agree and disagree. i welcome comments and question....:) I welcome people offering opinion frm a different perspective....

the above happened before ICA got her...we spend times like these...but like all good things, it will end.

Moving forward...after her release frm ICA, she was allowed to stay for another 2 days (if i dun recall wrong). we spent one nite going to the disco wif her frens (and their bf) and finally i get to meet her client....turn out to be only one fellow....both of us said hi and shake hands and made small talk...soon it was time for mi to go (im a married man). i said bye and left TrucH and her client. yes...i didn't do her on her last nite in SG...I sent her off to the airport the nez day...if i dun recall wrongly, the ICA people were waiting for her inside (after the custom). Who backstabbed (report them to ICA) her or her frens is still a mystery today...there will be more back stabbing in the days to come......

The heat and humidity was overwhelming, I have juz step out of the airport at HCMC. It has been two months since TrucH got deported. We kept in touch and I promiseded to visit her....I managed to arranged a two days business trip and there i was....place look a bit chaotic, there were ppl everyone, how am i suppose to find her...

Someone tap mi on the shoulder, turn around and there she was...nothing drama...no big hugs or tears...she gave mi a shy smile (in jeans n polo shirt)and i return my usual "business looking" smile....

"let's go" she said...held me hand n led mi to the place where she parked her scooter...never in my life hav i seen so many scooters..."wait here"..off she went after paying the parking to the attandent. Nex thing i know, a girl in long sleeve, gloves, helmet, shades and mask stopped her scooter in front of me..."wao..cool" i said to myself...the nez 25mins will b the most terrifying moment of my life...

beep beep!! por por!! scooters, cars, buses were everywhere. amazed at how skillful she is...girls in vietnam hav really got good riding skills....traffic seems to be coming from all direction and yet they can manovuer themselve in and out of the heavy traffic...sometimes even on-coming traffic.....traffic is so haphazard and yet flowing smoothing...i call this organise chaos...

Reach my hotel intact. Checked in....hav a shower and off i go to meet my client in a cab...TrucH stayed behind.

Meet TrucH back in the hotel after work...she prepared foam shower in the bathtub and we chill out there...updating each other what we hav been doing...she hav been taking english lesson and i can see the improvement in her (she showed mi her textbook and the exercise she has done). she has also been going back to her hometown (countryside) to visit her family...i never asked wat she has been doing besides taking english lesson in HCMC....i'll never ask since day one until now, reason is simple, i do not want to know and interfere wif her job...juz as it is in SG.

Nite time came we went for nice dinner....I'm saving all my bullets for the nite, resisting temptatoin thruout the day...makan and a walk is the park is usually wat we do in the evening...we'll sit by the bench and take in the idylic lifes of the vietnamese...children playing "chatek"..running abt the park.....past by the hair salon (wif bright twiligning - sometimes we see it in the barber shop here) wif pretty girls...out of curiosity, i wanted to try...TrucH said ok and waited for mi as i'm being serviced (no hanky panky stuff)...it was after that she said she dun like mi going to these places...i can feel her displeasure....was my first n last...had slow gentle sex for the nite and early morning.....

my subsequence visit to HCMC will always be a two day affair...sometime she will want to mi to stay at her place...she wuant mi to see how her daily life is..her place has only basic stuff, a small fridge, a cooking stove, cupboard bathroom, mattresses and a table wif short legs...used for her studies and eating..no tv..she was sharing it wif another girl whom i oso know while she's in SG .....the hotel (under company expense :)) will only serve to be another location for our sex activities...for each trip, i will give her $300 for all the expenditure....she will hold the pursue string and spend according to the budget i've given her...she does all the paying frm the 300.....we do fine dining or eat in the back alley...it was a wonderful experience, very authentic...never once she asked for money at the end of each trip. upon my return to SG, on my own account, i sent her money to buy a tv.

Sorry for being long winded here...getting sentimental as im writing this...i'll keep our story to four parts..unless bros here dun mind mi elaborating more...do let mi know wat u prefer, i dun mind writing more...

hey....trying to send pictures here..mouse over this icon "insert image" and it prompt me an url for my pics...please advise! sorry i newbie....

to be contd......

[ilovedoggie]

Part 3 & 4 and photos better follow soon.. if not really proven to be moron...:D

Hehe me 3 waitin for part 3&4 and photos!

Keep contributing teletubies!

[teletubbie]

saw this "Posting Rules" at the bottom of the my page say "You may not post attachment". Read the FAQ page but still couldn't understand how to go abt posting pics...enlightement pls!!

[Chris888]

Bro i feel for you. Hope your ok. :D

[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

camping for pics lolx. :D

[elth]

story so short only ? :D

[alan0338]

write more please, nice story ... :) u can use upload house to put the pics :D

[iLuvVietNam]

Hehe me 3 waitin for part 3&4 and photos!

Keep contributing teletubies!

bro doggie ...

ur story also good leh ... so free camp here for other people's story ??

[sucker108]

TS, pls continue

[teletubbie]

one of our sessions...most of our session ar done in budget hotels in Geylang...my fav is the one near lavendar mrt...have a glass wall pool which u can see thru the side.

she was having her period during this session...thus only handjob n blowjob for mi :) will post more pic later (bj part)

http://www.imagefap.com/gallery.php?pgid=83dcc23ef2f200478fd5976a7a287bc2

to be contd....

[lugi]

http://www.imagefap.com/gallery.php?pgid=83dcc23ef2f200478fd5976a7a287bc2

to be contd....

Either your photos have virus or it is the page.... maybe both...

[Golden question]

Either your photos have virus or it is the page.... maybe both...

can see leh,bro ts,pai seh,your girl neh neh look tempting to me:p:D

[ilovedoggie]

bro doggie ...

ur story also good leh ... so free camp here for other people's story ??

troi oi... since when i got story good? :confused::p

i wan to read juicy parts. this is SBF after all. :D

[lugi]

can see leh,bro ts,pai seh,your girl neh neh look tempting to me:p:D

Can see, but everytime I clicked it.. my anti virus programme warned me that there is a threat to my PC...

You have AV programme installed bo? Don just watch AV w/o AV protection.. :D

[ilovedoggie]

can see leh,bro ts,pai seh,your girl neh neh look tempting to me:p:D

TS oi! how come he can see i cannot see? not fair hahaa :D

how come it's a porn gallery? :confused:

TS re-upload can pls???

[ilovedoggie]

TS oi! how come he can see i cannot see? not fair hahaa :D

how come it's a porn gallery? :confused:

TS re-upload can pls???

Updates: can see liao finally after multiple attempts :D paiseh TS... your vb perky boobs... NICE!!! thanks for uploading. up u with my humble 4 pts. ;)

[GotGuts]

Hi TS, was wondering on what reason that she was caught, banned and deported back to Vietnam if she was not caught red handed working in the pub without work permit? What was the evidence produced by ICA for doing so? Pls. tell us if you know.

[alan0338]

wah,looks so round and firm... up u 3 years later :D

[jackbl]

Updates: can see liao finally after multiple attempts :D paiseh TS... your vb perky boobs... NICE!!! thanks for uploading. up u with my humble 4 pts. ;)

see liao damn horny... must go JC to find someone whose boobs similar to hers :D

[teletubbie]

Hi TS, was wondering on what reason that she was caught, banned and deported back to Vietnam if she was not caught red handed working in the pub without work permit? What was the evidence produced by ICA for doing so? Pls. tell us if you know.

I've given a thought to this oso...could they be caught working?
Frankly speaking Im not sure too....she and her frens were caught during day time (while they were resting - raided her apartment)...one of the girls in the group is a china girl (not fren - room mate). They cant be all caught at the same time doing illegal activity outside as they were all staying in the same place.

how the ICA determine a 3 yr ban without proof? any enlightment frm any bros??

[teletubbie]

more pics

http://www.imagefap.com/gallery.php?...d5976a7a287bc2

got this image hosting site frm SBF..sorri if it cause some distress to the bros trying to view them.

part 4 will come before the weekend...lovemaking pics will be nez..cheers..

[teletubbie]

sori...ignore the earlier link...

below is the updated one
http://www.imagefap.com/gallery.php?pgid=83dcc23ef2f200478fd5976a7a287bc2

[Golden question]

I've given a thought to this oso...could they be caught working?
Frankly speaking Im not sure too....she and her frens were caught during day time (while they were resting - raided her apartment)...one of the girls in the group is a china girl (not fren - room mate). They cant be all caught at the same time doing illegal activity outside as they were all staying in the same place.

how the ICA determine a 3 yr ban without proof? any enlightment frm any bros??

ICA can ban any foreigner from entering singapore without disclosing the reason if they suspect anything

[shysaint]

I've given a thought to this oso...could they be caught working?
Frankly speaking Im not sure too....she and her frens were caught during day time (while they were resting - raided her apartment)...one of the girls in the group is a china girl (not fren - room mate). They cant be all caught at the same time doing illegal activity outside as they were all staying in the same place.

how the ICA determine a 3 yr ban without proof? any enlightment frm any bros??

Bro , they are now conducting many house raids in geylang ! ..

IF you search my stories .. i ever told about the house raids story ;)

[KangTuo]

see liao damn horny... must go JC to find someone whose boobs similar to hers :D

today go jc beat mosqitoes... :(

[teletubbie]

Part 4/4

during our time togather, i've got to know her frens as well. these frens includes those who are WL and those who aren't. Her WL fren hav mixed fortunes...one married a viet (set up stall togather), other married a sporean, has a kid now (yes..there are cases of happy ending)....wat's her ending?

abt 1.5 yrs into our relationship, she did try to "strengthen" our bond...it was during one of our session that she held on tight to me wanting me to come inside her...i managed to withdraw at the last min. we spoke after, she want to hav a baby wif mi despite im a married...i told her "no". There's another few occasion that she asked mi to come in her....again i refused.

Bros must be thinking..."wah lucky fellow, Teletubbie has this girl at his feet. He always get what he wants without having to pay a price"...not so fast....

It was abt this time that money issue came...

TrucH: I've not been working since i came back from singapore.
Me: Ur savings depleting?
TrucH: (kept quiet)
Me: Yes I know, I'll give you monthly allowance

It was then i started sending her money....S$500/mth...(to those bro who has a girl in Viet....$500 is enuf). dun send anything more (my suggestion)

other "big" ticket item includes (thruout the period of our relationship)
- $1200 (for her to take course in pedi/manicure(spelling?) lessons
- $800 (emergency need for her family)
- $400 (new mobile phone)

This money thing is no issue to me....its due time that i take care of her...so i thought....

Eight months since i started sending her money. A call frm vietnam came.
Ringggg Ringggg.....Ringgg Ringgg.....
Me: Hello (a call frm vietnam...dun recognise the number)
Lady: Hi...u Teletubbie right?
Me: Yes...who is this speaking?
Lady: No matter who i am. I know ur a good person and treat TrucH well.
I calling to tell u abt her, she has a bf and is getting married soon. Dun be taken in by her. Dun waste ur money, she's has been spending UR money wif her bf.

(feeling a lost of face as i type this....kana KC liao:o)

For the first time, I got a gauge of how emotionally involved am i in this relationship....the pain came...then the hollowness..

However, my motto (live by the sword, die by the sword) served mi well. I snapped out of it by the third day. Thruout the first 3 days, i treated nothing has happened when i hav my daily phone chat with TrucH. I hav no proof oso...

On my second call with the unidentified lady
Me: can u proof to me that TrucH has a bf and is getting married? I pay for the evidence u provide.
Lady: her wedding is in a few months time, i can take picts n send them to u.
Me: oK (TrucH's supposed wedding day came n go...no picts taken)

Remeber my earlier post (abt fren backstabbing each other)? Maybe the Lady really want to help me and not let mi get cheated by TrucH...Maybe they are jealous abt TrucH having monthly and not worry abt livelihood.....

Funny enuf, it was abt this time that our relationship starts to cool....bros who hav Viet girl will noe this "ba xa", "on xa" (spelling?)...she stopped calling mi that....when speaking to her, there was no more laughter frm ...she always spoke in a tone that carry some sadness and is always inquering if i'm well in SG. I also made inquiry frm other sources and they told me the same, that TrucH has a bf in Viet and is getting married soon. The other source also said TrucH is not faithful to me...One day, I finally asked...

Me: i notice we hav not been our usual self when a chat over the phone
TrucH: something wrong?
Me: yes...i got information that u hav a viet bf and is getting married soon.
TrucH: No! who told u tat!!
Me: I got two source of information saying so.
TrucH: No!
Me: I hav no evidence. But if ur getting hav a bf and is getting married, u hav my blessing...
Truch: No, its not true

Our relationship cooled frm then onwards...the trust was broken......some bros who' reading this must be saying...see...kana KC and con liao...But I believe at some point in time, TrucH hav geniue feeling for me. she's has a good heart too...why do i say that?

Once we had a bike accident while in HCMC, the impact knocked us off our bike. Despite the on-coming traffic, she quickly helped mi up and checked me physically to see if i'm ok before checking herself (everything happened so quickly n instintively)...tat's incident one...

incident two, while out togather at HCMC, she was a meter or two behind mi. we walked past this begger (old lady seating on the floor by the road)...sensing she's no longer behind mi, i turned around. I saw her talking to the old lady n giving her money.

Or mayb i'm self deluding...where in actual fact she seeing other men while "with" mi...if so, i can take comfort that in the four years that i know her, she choosen to spend 3 of her birthdays with me (4th birthday juz passed recently), at least im the number one guy.

We drifted, we stopped calling each other like we used to.....i've stopped going HCMC...our relationship die of a natural death....

has been a year since all these happen.....im at peace wif myself...frankly speaking, I never felt anger throughout this episode...juz sadness n disappointment when i first learned abt her alleged relationship with another guy.

Few days ago....

Ringggg Ringing....Ringgg Ringgg....
Me: Hello
TrucH: Hi...how ar u?
Me: Good...been a long time...how ar u?
TrucH: zarss...zarss...zarsss......(bad static sound)...
Me: TrucH...i can hardly make out what u ar saying.....!?
TrucH: Yes...yes....my handphone is spoil....can you buy me a new phone??

A bro hav a poll done on my ending...my i add choice

F) no more....im not gonna get KC again.
E) rebuild the relationship and hav more picts to share wif the Bros in SBF.

last batch of pics
http://www.imagefap.com/gallery.php?pgid=83dcc23ef2f200478fd5976a7a287bc2

[teletubbie]

Oh...want to say thank you for listening.....To all Bros...take care...:):):)

[teletubbie]

dear all,

see that this thread is dead....thus removing all the pics frm the links in this thread

tks..

teletubbie

[Guardsmanwarrio]

Bro teletubby, spent e past 1 hr reading ur postings, I am n e exact situation as u were, any advice for me?

[ilovesingapore]

Why not spend the money on career, wife and kids? They need more of ur attention.

[iLuvVietNam]

Why not spend the money on career, wife and kids? They need more of ur attention.

Spent " Money " :eek: on Career , Wife and Kids :confused:

Do you mean " Time " instead ? ;)

[iLuvVietNam]

Bro teletubby, spent e past 1 hr reading ur postings, I am n e exact situation as u were, any advice for me?

How exactly the same ???

SAME Woman :confused: or SAME Person :confused:

Maybe you can narrate and share your story ... Perhaps we can advice you ... maybe the SAME advice :p

[Guardsmanwarrio]

How exactly the same ???

SAME Woman :confused: or SAME Person :confused:

Maybe you can narrate and share your story ... Perhaps we can advice you ... maybe the SAME advice :p

Firstly, I am a married guy, recently got hooked up with a Vietnamese girl,initially it is only paid sex , she is young fresh sexy and had very strong gfe..
After this encounter , she say she likes me , it is not merely commercial sex , indeed I feel something special about our relationship , not as simple as those fuck and forget type.. We ll exchanged SMS often and I feel that since I am already married , I should not talk feeling with WL , but indeed this girl makes me think otherwise..
Obviously I had Been kced...
What s my next step?

[V|ernar]

Firstly, I am a married guy, recently got hooked up with a Vietnamese girl,initially it is only paid sex , she is young fresh sexy and had very strong gfe..
After this encounter , she say she likes me , it is not merely commercial sex , indeed I feel something special about our relationship , not as simple as those fuck and forget type.. We ll exchanged SMS often and I feel that since I am already married , I should not talk feeling with WL , but indeed this girl makes me think otherwise..
Obviously I had Been kced...
What s my next step?

bang the wall and die , you bonk your wife first time and tell her you want to marry her ?

i bed my no2 1 time and she keep calling me ox til now which i didnt buy that , wake up your idea la ... what can you do ? change wife ?

if you cant , you know what to do

[elth]

Firstly, I am a married guy, recently got hooked up with a Vietnamese girl,initially it is only paid sex , she is young fresh sexy and had very strong gfe..
After this encounter , she say she likes me , it is not merely commercial sex , indeed I feel something special about our relationship , not as simple as those fuck and forget type.. We ll exchanged SMS often and I feel that since I am already married , I should not talk feeling with WL , but indeed this girl makes me think otherwise..
Obviously I had Been kced...
What s my next step?

turn your head back and you will see your 家

[alan0338]

What s my next step?

go find ur true love bro... :D

[Guardsmanwarrio]

Thanks to all bro for advices, I think I know what to do , hehe

[keke]

Thanks to all bro for advices, I think I know what to do , hehe

dont forget to come back here and share your lovely heart-broken story k :D

[V|ernar]

dont forget to come back here and share your lovely heart-broken story k :D

evil le , ppl here think there think liao.. maybe hair also white liao ?

[ilovedoggie]

TS, your story gets me thinking roi. good sharing!

i am waiting for my judgement day to come too... :(

[ilovedoggie]

Firstly, I am a married guy...

What s my next step?

Almost every vn WL i met tells me such thing and sms me everyday ask me go find them... seriously ow to trust them? trust me it's just a sales call. they do the same thing to every customer.

forget about her and go back to your wife. she's waiting for you at home faithfully.:)

just my 2 cent.

[KangTuo]

Almost every vn WL i met tells me such thing and sms me everyday ask me go find them...

i don't recieve any sms / call from any vb to go find them before leh :(
only bring them go bugis or beach

[KangTuo]

Firstly, I am a married guy,

We ll exchanged SMS often

using spare phone?

Thanks to all bro for advices, I think I know what to do , hehe

i think you better delete her number...
stop replying to her sms and she will not sms you after sometimes

[RealEstateGuy]

Braddah Viet people sometimes very sneaky. Be careful.

[KangTuo]

Braddah Viet people sometimes very sneaky. Be careful.

correction to your post...

it should be most of the time very sneaky ;)

[sammyboyfor]

Perhaps we can advice you ...

Should be "Perhaps we can ADVISE you...".

"Advice" is a noun.

[ilovedoggie]

i don't recieve any sms / call from any vb to go find them before leh
only bring them go bugis or beach

haha... u mai geh geh and humble... your hp rings and TN comes in at the rate of 1000rpm all the time.:p:D anh jack will hv random VB slapping his butt everytime... u all the masters *kneel down*

u more power can bring them to beach... can xnn and dam tac them under the moonlight. so lang man wa! they ask me go find them and become their robert only... after a while will dump me one side... :(

typical sales pitching TN from them: e buon wa, e dag o nha nho a, a co muon gap e k, hnay k co khach buon wa, may gio a lam ve, kg co tien cho ba ba ma ma etc... some even call me in the middle of the night and noi TV with me when my brain can hardly work... disturb me sleeping only :mad:

perhaps i shd invest in a spare hp if wan to go play play arnd east side more often...

[tigerking]

just FnF ,the viet babe only love yours money ,they will suck your "blood" dry in term to fulfill their family in vietnam!

[MaMister]

Bro link the pics again leh...

[EmperorLiang]

As the phrase of my buddy said "Sux you dry like a straw!" Personal feel is, save your money for something else. 80% of time and money spent for your case is not worth.. treat it as a past tense or as a memorable experiences! Same for me, i've let go of my girl since long ago. Time to move on and look for another path of enjoyment! hahaha~ Goodluck to u~ bless u! :D

[V|ernar]

correction to your post...

it should be most of the time very sneaky ;)

greedy , stingy , sneaky and lots of plan to chop carrot !

[xyman]

Bro , they are now conducting many house raids in geylang ! ..

IF you search my stories .. i ever told about the house raids story ;)

Bro, after so many lessons, I learn it:

- when a vn girl say 'anh khong yeu em', means you no give her money
- when a vn girl say 'em buon', means she not earning enough and will seek your sympathy to give her money
- no give her lot of money to make her love you, ask her to love you first before taking care of her... Haha.. I used this trick a lot now....

[shysaint]

Bro, after so many lessons, I learn it:

- when a vn girl say 'anh khong yeu em', means you no give her money
- when a vn girl say 'em buon', means she not earning enough and will seek your sympathy to give her money
- no give her lot of money to make her love you, ask her to love you first before taking care of her... Haha.. I used this trick a lot now....

Well done :)

[V|ernar]

Bro, after so many lessons, I learn it:

- when a vn girl say 'anh khong yeu em', means you no give her money
- when a vn girl say 'em buon', means she not earning enough and will seek your sympathy to give her money
- no give her lot of money to make her love you, ask her to love you first before taking care of her... Haha.. I used this trick a lot now....

Guess you another one start to know about VB !

Actually is the same the other way round , em khong yeu anh mean pls come hotel with me , anh buon mean I haven't bonk you enough , I learn from a senior bro a lot , play mind game with them and let them know if they lost you , they will never find someone better !

[Alimi]

Guess you another one start to know about VB !

Actually is the same the other way round , em khong yeu anh mean pls come hotel with me , anh buon mean I haven't bonk you enough , I learn from a senior bro a lot , play mind game with them and let them know if they lost you , they will never find someone better !

I agree with you. WLs/FLs or VBs are gals with common objective to make money for living. If lucky, get married with good men and retire from being WLs/FLs forever - which is slim chance but not farfetched.

By understanding VB's life predicaments and situational behaviors as WL/FL, I find it more reasonable and tolerant when dealing with VBs whom seem to tell many lies just to rip off as much money as possible from their customers, with exception to their true love boy friends and genuine male friends...

[KangTuo]

with exception to their true love boy friends and genuine male friends...

if they see you as a genuine male friend, they will not ask anything (money) you and will not expect you to ask anything (bonking) from them.

as for a true love boyfriend, they will still expect the boyfriend to help them out (money). in return they will be willing to accompany you whenever they are free or whenever you need them.

[V|ernar]

if they see you as a genuine male friend, they will not ask anything (money) you and will not expect you to ask anything (bonking) from them.

as for a true love boyfriend, they will still expect the boyfriend to help them out (money). in return they will be willing to accompany you whenever they are free or whenever you need them.

oh yes , this i agree . VB got true male friend which they never bonk and only talk .. i guess this never happen in singapore ?

[KangTuo]

oh yes , this i agree . VB got true male friend which they never bonk and only talk .. i guess this never happen in singapore ?

it is just like we guys in sillypore knowing sillypore girls thru work, school, streets, online with purely friendship and no sex. many vb working here will still see some guys in sillypore as purely friends...

why it won't happen here in sillypore because most of us guys get to know vb at jc/gl. what is in our mind is just sex and hanky panky stuff. not many of us guys would want to waste time being friends of the vb and get nothing back in return...

but saying so, i still see some vb as true friends after "chua tay" or after some bonking. Ocassionally i will say hi and talk to them. one particular vb is my former number2. :D

most vb i have kc-ed and later chia tay choose not to keep in touch with me already :p

[V|ernar]

it is just like we guys in sillypore knowing sillypore girls thru work, school, streets, online with purely friendship and no sex. many vb working here will still see some guys in sillypore as purely friends...

why it won't happen here in sillypore because most of us guys get to know vb at jc/gl. what is in our mind is just sex and hanky panky stuff. not many of us guys would want to waste time being friends of the vb and get nothing back in return...

but saying so, i still see some vb as true friends after "chua tay" or after some bonking. Ocassionally i will say hi and talk to them. one particular vb is my former number2. :D

most vb i have kc-ed and later chia tay choose not to keep in touch with me already :p

Actually I also have none after I bonk them and left them , they also choose not to contact me again ... Say shit stuff what hurt too deep ... Sometimes I think is rubbish .. Cause can see them hugging other man ! Lol

[KangTuo]

Actually I also have none after I bonk them and left them , they also choose not to contact me again ... Say shit stuff what hurt too deep ... Sometimes I think is rubbish .. Cause can see them hugging other man ! Lol

you good... you left them
usually i am the one being dumped and hurt :(:p
i tell them i am hurt they say i talk rubbish and xao nhieu nhieu because they see me hugging other vb after chia tay.

vb hug other man = they working so need understand
man hug other vb = xao nhieu nhieu

[V|ernar]

you good... you left them
usually i am the one being dumped and hurt :(:p
i tell them i am hurt they say i talk rubbish and xao nhieu nhieu because they see me hugging other vb after chia tay.

vb hug other man = they working so need understand
man hug other vb = xao nhieu nhieu

lol , if i vb also wont believe you.. :D

[jackbl]

when dealing with VBs whom seem to tell many lies just to rip off as much money as possible from their customers, with exception to their true love boy friends and genuine male friends...

if they see you as a genuine male friend, they will not ask anything (money) you and will not expect you to ask anything (bonking) from them.

as for a true love boyfriend, they will still expect the boyfriend to help them out (money). in return they will be willing to accompany you whenever they are free or whenever you need them.

Thanks to all you sifu! :)

[jackbl]

oh yes , this i agree . VB got true male friend which they never bonk and only talk .. i guess this never happen in singapore ?

U wrong! I got bring 1VB to beach twice/thrice but I never hug her..... u can say I m loser but I dun hv those kind of feeling towards her :(

[jackbl]

many vb working here will still see some guys in sillypore as purely friends...

Me lor :(

most vb i have kc-ed and later chia tay choose not to keep in touch with me already

Cos u give them hope nhieu nhieu but later they disappointed with u nhieu nhieu :D ;) :p

[jackbl]

lol , if i vb also wont believe you.. :D

usually i am the one being dumped and hurt. i tell them i am hurt they say i talk rubbish and xao nhieu nhieu because they see me hugging other vb after chia tay.


U see, not only I dun believe.... many here too :D :p

[teletubbie]

Bro teletubby, spent e past 1 hr reading ur postings, I am n e exact situation as u were, any advice for me?
bro..sori for the late reply...been very busy lately...
yes...go on wif her...provided you can
- afford it (money & emotional wise)
- no married

to me, its an life experience....there's no right or wrong...

[V|ernar]

Me lor :(



Cos u give them hope nhieu nhieu but later they disappointed with u nhieu nhieu :D ;) :p

their mind not clear enough to think .. bro KT only give them more thing to think ~ lol

my bx number 2 think i super eng... can come and go VN as i like ... i guess that she thought singaporean work is almost like VN ... eng eng , see see look look .. go home bonk and sleep ~

[jf66312]

their mind not clear enough to think .. bro KT only give them more thing to think ~ lol

my bx number 2 think i super eng... can come and go VN as i like ... i guess that she thought singaporean work is almost like VN ... eng eng , see see look look .. go home bonk and sleep ~

yup...first time i went to VN was shocked to see cafe packed with Execs and working class as early as 2pm... :eek:

guess their work life is not as hectic as in Singapore..

[shysaint]

yup...first time i went to VN was shocked to see cafe packed with Execs and working class as early as 2pm... :eek:

guess their work life is not as hectic as in Singapore..

YEs it might be true working there is less hectic ... their lunch break is at least 2 hrs ...

But then bare in mind .. they wake up early for travel .. some as early as 4am and some 5 am ... anything 6-7 plus .. will be major traffic jam ...

after work might be home at 6-7 plus pm .. coz of traffic jams ..

so we can adapt to this type of cycle ???

i do agree less hectic work do improves family lifestyle and i like that ...

but then travelling to/fro work is a killer !

There is always PRO and CONS ..

[jf66312]

YEs it might be true working there is less hectic ... their lunch break is at least 2 hrs ...

But then bare in mind .. they wake up early for travel .. some as early as 4am and some 5 am ... anything 6-7 plus .. will be major traffic jam ...

after work might be home at 6-7 plus pm .. coz of traffic jams ..

so we can adapt to this type of cycle ???

i do agree less hectic work do improves family lifestyle and i like that ...

but then travelling to/fro work is a killer !

There is always PRO and CONS ..

yup..thats quite true also....just need to find the right balance... ;)

[Golden question]

YEs it might be true working there is less hectic ... their lunch break is at least 2 hrs ...

But then bare in mind .. they wake up early for travel .. some as early as 4am and some 5 am ... anything 6-7 plus .. will be major traffic jam ...

after work might be home at 6-7 plus pm .. coz of traffic jams ..

so we can adapt to this type of cycle ???

i do agree less hectic work do improves family lifestyle and i like that ...

but then travelling to/fro work is a killer !

There is always PRO and CONS ..

yah,pro and cons.It depends on what how one person want.

And dont forget their sun set at 5pm plus and rise early.At 6pm,everything dark already,so they rise earlier and finish earlier,with 2 hour lunch break of course.

[KangTuo]

Cos u give them hope nhieu nhieu but later they disappointed with u nhieu nhieu

my KG vb will be another who will disappointed nhieu nhieu... she is waiting for me to go over vn in mid dec to look for her.. everyday counting down the number of days left. Probably i will just tell her to forget me... :(