seeking wad to do next -_-

[fabiann]

its between me and my soon to be gf.. i was with her once.. and some how or rather, after a year or so we managed to contact back...

the problems lies here.. actually we were going to USS for the halloween ytd and she insisted she call her frens along.. so i am ok with it.. so she went to buy another 2 more tickets from her fren..

end up her frens did not wanna go.. and i get all the blame for no reason.. so i juz kept quiet before things get really worse.. and then she asked me "u not happy wad leh?" so i kept saying nth for abt 7 or 8 times till she kept forcing me to say it.. so i juz fire at her thru sms and there is when she throw her temper and said lets not go USS.. i no mood to go...

so we did not talked till today.. till she sms me.. all she kept saying was, i will leave u alone and dont bother u already... and while she was smsing me all this.. she had a fight with her family.. AND again i got fired for no reason...

so i told her that since we nv go ytd to USS why not we go today.. she said she want to go back office and do her work.. WTH~

i juz kept so called pestering her saying aiyah, dont think so much abt ur family la. lets chill out.. and she does is throw temper and said, she will change her number and close down her FB acct.. -__- (childish right?)

so i am seeking from experts in here to see wad shld i do abt it.. she has a very very foul temper and a NV LOSE attitude, and even she is in the wrong she will still throw temper... and always expect me to know wad she is thinking.. ( she thinks im GOD) ..

PS she is 27 this year, but dont u think she dont look like 1?

feel free to advice

thanks to all...;)

[sammyboyfor]

feel free to advice



Should be "feel free to ADVISE.".

"Advice" is a noun.

[ch18]

Ignor her for now........

[alan0338]

if she is chio then just bonk her until u sian then dump her, if her body is fabulous and skills in bed is superb, also bonk her till u sian liao then dump her, if she rich, then lan lan, dry up her $$$ liao then dump her ... overall is still dump her :D

[fabiann]

if she is chio then just bonk her until u sian then dump her, if her body is fabulous and skills in bed is superb, also bonk her till u sian liao then dump her, if she rich, then lan lan, dry up her $$$ liao then dump her ... overall is still dump her :D

Haha.. Bro I like ur answer.. Last time tgt bonk Liao.. Now haven't yet.. But it's really pissing me off.. But I still know I love her..

[cash88]

Now only gf, still can change new want. If wife then LAN LAN have to give in to her la. But from what I see, the situation will sure get worse as time went by. So sometime is better to cut short the pain (长痛不如短痛).

[goodpartner]

But it's really pissing me off.. But I still know I love her..

So far you've told us what you hate about her.
Then, what about her that makes you "love" her?

I agree with alan, keep her around for sex until you find another new one, then dump her.

[fabiann]

Actually bro if u asked me wad do I love her abt.. Seriously I also dunno.. In this so called relationship, only she can throw temper.. I can't.. If I do, I will get back-fire.. I want to give up.. But ya, as some of u guys will say I'm a loser that I cant give up... Zzz

[goodpartner]

Actually bro if u asked me wad do I love her abt.. Seriously I also dunno..

Is that her body in your avatar pic?
Maybe that's why...

[fabiann]

Is that her body in your avatar pic?
Maybe that's why...

Bro I'm wishing too. But It's not lo.. I also dunno wad to do with her.. Damn

[SwingSwingSwing]

You should know best what you want. Take our advice with a pinch of salt and the final decision will still lies on yourself. :)

[goodpartner]

I also dunno wad to do with her.. Damn

U already got so many adviCe here on wad to do next -_-
So just do it!

If that's not her body & If I were you, I'll give her one TIGHT SLAP and make sure she turns 3 rounds. But that's just me :D

[alan0338]

be careful hor, sekali she just taking u for a ride, must be fast fast to get her on the bed again so tat wont waste ur efforts to be her punching bag :D

[fabiann]

Haha.. I doubt she will let me bed again.. But seriously, shld I juz stay on and see wads gonna happen? Or I juz stop contacting her for good.. But I'm juz afraid I will be the loser to find her back again..

[alan0338]

Haha.. I doubt she will let me bed again..

then cut loss liao la, dun be a good guy la,gd guy always kena bully de especially when meet tis type of weird gals :D

[cash88]

Nobody can tell u what to do with her. Is u, how u want it to be. If u choose to be with her then u must also accept her bad temper. If u choose giving up then go find new one loh. Ask yourself what u really want

[wantanabee]

in my.view, shes seeking for support instead of throwing.temper at you. it's the principle of reinforcement. perhaps i like to see things on the brighter side. try standing alongside her and observe how long n the level of her throwing temper. all she can do is talk, if i isn't wrong, she didn't say u are to shoulder responsibility for whatever the problem is.

[fabiann]

maybe ba.. she is juz trying to get my attention for certain stuffs.. but i cant take it is everything she does means RIGHT... even she is wrong she will juz wait for me to say sorry.. wtf

[ben1215]

if she is chio then just bonk her until u sian then dump her, if her body is fabulous and skills in bed is superb, also bonk her till u sian liao then dump her, if she rich, then lan lan, dry up her $$$ liao then dump her ... Overall is still dump her :d

yes,yes,yes
best<best<best>solution

[fookydud]

maybe ba.. she is juz trying to get my attention for certain stuffs.. but i cant take it is everything she does means RIGHT... even she is wrong she will juz wait for me to say sorry.. wtf

my ex gf was like this. i dumped her after 3.5 years of enduring. painful and i still miss her after 3 months :(

just follow you heart TS. do what u tink u should do. dont need to ask for help here. a relationship is about the 2 of u

[goodpartner]

my ex gf was like this. i dumped her after 3.5 years of enduring. painful and i still miss her after 3 months :(


The saying that goes like this is very true:
If u love her, let her go.
If she returns, she's yours.
Otheriwse, it never was.

If such GF wants to leave u, all these tempers are just excuses.

If she really want to be with u, but just needed attention or patience, dumping her (letting her go) will be your chance to redeem a better-behave girl if she [initiate] patch back with you. That's where/when u set the record straight.

I got a feeling that TS is the one clinging on to this r/s instead.

[fabiann]

Bro cannot say cling la.. I also dunno wad can I do.. She dOnt usually text or call me after the whole incident..

[goodpartner]

its between me and my soon to be gf...

the problems lies here..

...she insisted she call her frens along..
...and i get all the blame for no reason..
...she kept forcing me to say it..
...she throw her temper...
...she had a fight with her family..
...AND again i got fired for no reason...
...and she does is throw temper...
...close down her FB acct.. -__- (childish right?)
...she has a very very foul temper and a NV LOSE attitude...
...and even she is in the wrong she will still throw temper...
...and always expect me to know wad she is thinking...
...PS she is 27 this year, but dont u think she dont look like 1?


Bro cannot say cling la.. I also dunno wad can I do.. She dOnt usually text or call me after the whole incident..

If she is still not yet your GF, make sure you find all possible way to 1) bed her first, then 2) dump her. That's what you can do.
My advice is consistent with most every other advice here :D

Never mind who cling who.

p.s. again if it's me, I'll give her one ti... nebermind...

[peter69on]

Havent started already got problem.
2 way communication is very important. Both parties must be allow to
bad tempered each other. If it is always one way direction.
I really doubt it will last.

to be honest. I seem a few scenario like yours. Its always one way direction. The guy always think they can handle and manage. But in the end. Everything just collapse. But they are worst that you. Most of them is divorce. But during dating time already is like that. but they still go for the dive.

Maybe...just tried and look for others. Give yourself another chance to find a better match

[abchow]

HI TS ,
Dump her ! There is no reason for u to hold on to this relationship if its one sided . U get all the shit whenever there is problem or stress . Take it like a man and walk out on her and never look back.
Good luck!!

[sibaysong4u]

If she is still not yet your GF, make sure you find all possible way to 1) bed her first, then 2) dump her. That's what you can do.
My advice is consistent with most every other advice here :D
.Try all patterns Anal, CIM,COF,COB before you dump her.

[cookiemonsta]

ULTIMATUM!
decision making time
sit her down, lay down your terms
explain why you're unhappy with the situation
'change your attitude sister! or its over'
but you have to mean it
otherwise this move means nothing
this is your clutch to save this not-fully-developed-relationship

good luck!

[fabiann]

Yea, most of the ppl here are right... Juz happened another time juz now.. She dig up all the past.. Wtf.. She juz simply wanna win.. And she said ya I'm only treating u like this only.. Bcuz I don't trust u at all.. That's why we broke up last time.. For now I'm juz a girl with an attitude.. Zzz

[wantanabee]

time to show her you got an attitude too! no joke.

[cash88]

Woman alway say I forgive you but in her mind they never forget about. According to her style, she will alway bring out the past and the situation will only get worse as time went by. The longer the relationship the more problem she will bring out. By that time, the relationship not only affect your personal life but also your work, as u r unable to concentrate on your work. A relationship is just like opening a partnership company. When u found a good partner, it will help u a lot. But if u found a bad partner, the whole company will closed down. Think carefully before u make your decision on still wanting to be with her.

[see see only]

Bro TS,

Man as we are born to be … like to conquer woman. And woman love to be conquered by man as well …… but sometime they will try all sort of nonsense to test your patient once a while :rolleyes:

Be patient when they came out with all the nonsenses and let her be, but remember to tell her off in your own way when she is about to cross your line. And most importantly if she does not come back and sayang you after you told her off, you better understand that it is simply means she does meant to be conquered by you …. (let some other men do it)

So bear with it and leave her, if she then comes back begging you for forgiveness … you can consider but must remember to spell your rules to her clearly. She is yours to conquer then :D

Btw most fantastic relationship i seen for years, are those with the man conquering the woman in a gentleman way :cool:


but if you really cant get the better of her in any way ... you better give up :o


O ya ...... something to add on .... never let a woman love you becuase you treated her super well .... she will never stop asking for more. Man will suffer 100% in such cases ......

[goodpartner]

A relationship is just like opening a partnership company. When u found a good partner, it will help u a lot. But if u found a bad partner, the whole company will closed down.

I second that!!! :):D

[wells]

What is yours are yours....you know the result soon.:D

[RealEstateGuy]

its between me and my soon to be gf.. i was with her once.. and some how or rather, after a year or so we managed to contact back...

the problems lies here.. actually we were going to USS for the halloween ytd and she insisted she call her frens along.. so i am ok with it.. so she went to buy another 2 more tickets from her fren..

end up her frens did not wanna go.. and i get all the blame for no reason.. so i juz kept quiet before things get really worse.. and then she asked me "u not happy wad leh?" so i kept saying nth for abt 7 or 8 times till she kept forcing me to say it.. so i juz fire at her thru sms and there is when she throw her temper and said lets not go USS.. i no mood to go...

so we did not talked till today.. till she sms me.. all she kept saying was, i will leave u alone and dont bother u already... and while she was smsing me all this.. she had a fight with her family.. AND again i got fired for no reason...

so i told her that since we nv go ytd to USS why not we go today.. she said she want to go back office and do her work.. WTH~

i juz kept so called pestering her saying aiyah, dont think so much abt ur family la. lets chill out.. and she does is throw temper and said, she will change her number and close down her FB acct.. -__- (childish right?)

so i am seeking from experts in here to see wad shld i do abt it.. she has a very very foul temper and a NV LOSE attitude, and even she is in the wrong she will still throw temper... and always expect me to know wad she is thinking.. ( she thinks im GOD) ..

PS she is 27 this year, but dont u think she dont look like 1?

feel free to advice

thanks to all...;)

Braddah, she seems spoiled prima donna type and you are more or less her servant. Braddah, but because of pussy you stay with her. Am I right? Braddah, so you seem pussy whipped by her? Braddah, this is a relationship probably leading to spousal abuse. Braddah, in this case I think she will cause you physical harm when very mad.

[Gunblader]

relationship is suppose to keep both parties happy, positive and enjoying companionship. eventually flower will blossom and both will marry happily n start a family.

not like your situation. everytime argue and quarrel for minor n no reason. bro, like n love is different. feeling sorry for her n making her as ur gf is different. u can still care for her as a friend in the future.