pls help me

[JiangZhenDe]

i have just done a stupid thing which is to be video on webcam and blackmailed to western union. She did add me on facebook and she threatens to send to my facebook friends the video. Sgd $500 and let matter rest. I dont really believe it. But what should I do now? Please do scold me but do offer some suggestions. Really desperate now.

[boyzilian]

what did you do on the web cam ?

[yapsg]

There is a thread abt this scam already pls refer to this link

http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=256444

[vanram]

I don't get the full story Bro, but any kind of blackmail is frowned upon in Sillypore.
Don't give in. Get her to send you a sms saying that she wants the money in exchange for the video.
Tell her you need to show a friend who is willing to help you but does not believe your story, or something like that.

Once you have the sms, an email or something written, just take it to the police.
Your exposure is nothing compared to blackmail.

If you decide to give in, it'll never stop.. She may just post it to spite you or ask for more money later.. Trust me, go to the police.


Cheers
Vanram

[notti_boi]

ya man.. I concur with the above advice to go to the police.

unless, she is overseas, then its not much use.

good luck bro!

[jerr143]

Well since u are worried about facebook friends just delete her and change your privacy settings? Worse case is temporary dereg your facebook accout.

[goodpartner]

There is a thread abt this scam already pls refer to this link

http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=256444

That's right... and is this the same SYT mentioned below?
Bro Big2,

Can verify if this is the gal u mention?

http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100002435142288

http://www.tagged.com/profile.html?uid=5459655820

MSN: [email protected]

Maybe we bros can think of something to scam her back...

[JiangZhenDe]

ya it's the same person. mentioned she has a tattoo on her tummy. her email is [email protected]

i believe she has many accounts also. sorry my previous message was typed while i was trying to delay by talking nonsense with her. i managed to negotiate from sgd500 to sgd300. and i actually have to send by tomorrow noon. its a phillipines person. i did show my face initially thinking that i won't for fuck sake do something stupid. but i guess the small head screwed me up. i did show her my tool for a brief moment. like 10 secs? and she actually was my facebook friend long before we talk on msn. we cam after a while and i got videoed by her secretly. i actually saw my full video to make sure she really has it. she ask me to send to the account jacky valdez at phillipines. and she sent me a note document of some of my facebook friends. i have already blocked her on facebook while negotiating with her on msn. and suddenly she seemed not very happy that i deleted and blocked her on facebook. does this mean that she cant do anything about it? if she puts it on youtube also very malu. but youtube will probably flag it as inappropriate after a few days. one bro mentioned that he didnt pay and nothing happened? im really screwed.

[BPITA]

ya it's the same person. mentioned she has a tattoo on her tummy. her email is [email protected]

.

Do you have other info on her else from just a email or bank account ?

[JiangZhenDe]

nope. thats all the infomation that i have about her. i believe as most bros said she is the same person but using different identities. if i deregister facebook will she still be able to send the video to my friends?

[BoinKING]

nope just block her on this account
and deregister, start a new account and block her again.. put your profile to friends only
and watch who you add.

[JiangZhenDe]

nope just block her on this account
and deregister, start a new account and block her again.. put your profile to friends only
and watch who you add.

are you sure? bro i trust you. i really desperate already. immediately i deregister my facebook account. but then youtube all those leh? how?

[stirshit]

you in deep shit bro

[alan0338]

u should have worn a helmet or stockings on ur head when doing something so stupid :D :D

[Jensen Ang]

Bro, this might be a scam. Report to police please.

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

i have just done a stupid thing which is to be video on webcam and blackmailed to western union. She did add me on facebook and she threatens to send to my facebook friends the video. Sgd $500 and let matter rest. I dont really believe it. But what should I do now? Please do scold me but do offer some suggestions. Really desperate now.

1st - I need to scold you not for being stupid, but for mirco-managing your problems cos you are focusing on smaller issues (facebook, youtube etc) instead of the larger concerns -Blackmailing and $$$ Extortion - Root of the problem. :(

As there will be a 1-time verification for the receiver, please work with Western Union and the police to apprehend this serial extortionist :o You be performing a good deed preventing and helping other potential victims which have no avenue to this forum. ;)

[warresg]

report police lor else they too free only noe how to catch loan shark and fl :D

[lmao68]

Bro, please report police. You cannot give in once, you will give in twice. There is no end to this.

[coper99]

yup,jus deregister faceb wil do e trick ts.. or jus face tat bitch wif ur guts,, neva,neva fear her,cos she wil capitalize on tat,. c'mon,u r not goin 2 die even if she reali post ur video online,, u might jus get e break!! :p

[tengsiang]

Report to police pls.

[zeusfist]

report police bro.

[whiteangelcsh]

Juz ignore. They dun hv time to risk things one victim by one victim. Ignore them and they'll move on. The more u converse or negotiate, the more vulnerable u'll be seen to them. Dun let them hv opportunity to advance on u.

[sucker108]

Bro the best way is just ignore, she/he will let go once he/she realize that could not manage to extort any money from u

[Jumpin'Jack]

Thanks for sharing this unfortunate encounter with us.

[weichye]

report police is the best solution.

[sammyboyfor]

i did show her my tool for a brief moment. like 10 secs?

Unless you have a really tiny dicky, I don't see what she has to blackmail you with.:rolleyes:

Men don't have modesty. It says so in the statutes. Most men have no problems walking around naked.

Take pride in your manhood. Tell her to post the video in sammyboyforum.com so that a larger audience can appreciate what you have!:D

[wanderer23]

i have just done a stupid thing which is to be video on webcam and blackmailed to western union. She did add me on facebook and she threatens to send to my facebook friends the video. Sgd $500 and let matter rest. I dont really believe it. But what should I do now? Please do scold me but do offer some suggestions. Really desperate now.

Report and block her. Delete your current FB account and start a new one with a new email simple.

Dun be stupid and waste $500 but then you're stupid enough to webcam yourself naked to a stranger what more can i say? :rolleyes:

[asdfghjkl]

gosh, u need no help. just do nothing. there is no need to report police and pay the party. its two fold. first, u save yourself future trouble. second, she will continue to scam others if you give in to her.

i dun believe she will expose the video and not scare the mata going after her.

[bonkster]

Take pride in your manhood. Tell her to post the video in sammyboyforum.com so that a larger audience can appreciate what you have!:D

If TS becomes a showcase on SBF, perhaps u would be kind enough to grant him special membership to the Private Picture Forum? :p

Well, it's the 10th anniversary after all...a bit of consolation to the poor chap would be nice! :D

[AtlasShrugged]

Report to police!!

[kristoa7]

If TS becomes a showcase on SBF, perhaps u would be kind enough to grant him special membership to the Private Picture Forum? :p

Well, it's the 10th anniversary after all...a bit of consolation to the poor chap would be nice! :D
110% agree.Upz

[cyverine]

Erm, apparently this girl strikes again, [email protected] claiming she is not afraid of police.

[mistake]

i have just done a stupid thing which is to be video on webcam and blackmailed to western union. She did add me on facebook and she threatens to send to my facebook friends the video. Sgd $500 and let matter rest. I dont really believe it. But what should I do now? Please do scold me but do offer some suggestions. Really desperate now.

so bros did she send e videos to any of the victims friends list till now ..?? pls reply i'm e victim also ..

[transgressor]

So many victims.

[guowei8]

Jus a dick. Let her put on youtube.

[mistake]

bro did she really send e video to ur frenz or on u tube ..??

[LightStifler]

Hey. I am a victim too. This happened around last year September and I transfer $300 dollars to her. She did kept her promise and remove the video but this year Jan she ask me for $100 more if not she will post the video. So i transfer again.
I need help on what to do if she really ask for money again.
If that happened I think I will just ignore it and let her do what she wants.

[jolenekoh]

u can be horny but not stupid. those guys who were scammed are obviously horny n stupid

[mistake]

bro did u send her e money ...and after u delete her and block her on face book did she send e video to ur fb frenz ? pls reply ...thanks

[raftime68]

bro r u stupid, sorry for harss. u r a man and stand like a man. she in phili, wat can she do. she also shame wat she have done. as a man we got nothing to be ashame. don be so stupid to bring down ur pride and diginity as a man. my question to u r u married ?

[69wolverine]

For all brothers that r victims, I'm sorry for u guys. I think u all should not give the money to her. 99.9999% she'll ask for more. Bro just tahan and let her post if she want to lor... No choice bro u have to stand ur ground now or forever be a victim.....

[capttiab]

Sorry to hear of bros here getting blackmailed. If you can send me the payee details, I can see if I can trace her/ him if the person is indeed in Philippines. There are now a number of HK, Taiwanese, Korean, Malaysian, Chinese gangs based in Philippines running scams, online gaming, virtual sex dens, etc...

[PassingbyJ]

For those bros that are victims and had paid up, word of advice is to change all your facebook or email accounts. Doubt they are so free to go hunt you down for more. It is easier for them to find new victims.

[callmebad]

I just feel you should close your existing Facebook account and re-register under another account.
Don't pay her a single cent

[maxpee88]

Steady steady bro

be cool.

So far the suggestions from fellow bros have been SPOT ON and HELPFUL.

Ai Chye... Steady steady bom pee pee. Again, all the bros here are helpfully advising you . So don't kay kiang hor.

You already let your small head screw you.

So don't let your ego screw you again.

1. Immediately Unfriend HER and BLOCK HER on facebook.

If I am not wrong, once you unfriend her and block her, she cannot access or see your friends in your FB account. Unless you have other chee-hong goon-du male friends who friended her based on her 'chio foto' and also kena conned or in the process of being conned by her.

And more importantly, if the video appears on your FB or posted on FB, you can lodge a complaint and submit REPORT to the FB administrator of OBSCENE videos and it will be taken off immediately. They will TRACE the person who POST it, not you.


2. Deregister your Facebook Account and re-register again using maybe a part of your name (like if it is Peter Tan, then change to Peter T or P Tan)


3. In the meanwhile, be cool, PLAY ALONG and negotiate down further. Say tat you are not rich and negotiate down to $50. Whatever... just delay and drag the negotiation.

4. If she insists for higher amount, tell her that the condition is that you handover money in person. She can't come to Singapore? Then she must have some friends in Singapore. Ask to meet the friend. Set up the collection and tip off the police and get her friends arrested. Her friend will surely spill the beans on her. This kind of petty low-life criminal (asking only for $300 or $500) easy to duped also la.

Lastly, don't be MORE STUPIDER by handing over the money. Just realize she got the video. What makes you sure she will delete the VIDEO? You fly there to verify meh?

WA LAN........ I just only that day said that in this day and age, still got stupid guys still think can get free fuck on Tagged or SBF and hope to get a Fuck Buddy and then do something stupid like exposing themselves silly.

Please hor, be careful hor...

[Xiao_Zhu168]

im a 'victim' too ... but i just hack care... i ask her she wan to send just send .. dun talk so much... asked for $500.. i 50cents also wun give her...

i just told her off and then del + block her.. after which never heard anything from her again.. no news from my friends that they got any vidz of me too..

so bros.. please dun transfer and $$ to her or whoever for such case,,, they just trying thier luck on one victim to another.. if u just bo hiew her.. she wun waste time sending those clip to ur frenz..she will just jump to another victim and try her luck again...

[SHalone]

nope. thats all the infomation that i have about her. i believe as most bros said she is the same person but using different identities. if i deregister facebook will she still be able to send the video to my friends?

Don't pay it will not end here!
All your guys fren would just laugh it off.
If u have huge rack, this could be your marketing campagin for FB opportunity. Haha.. U would be surprise some of your gal frens would hook u up from now on.
Life goes on, u pay these asshole and they know the scam works and they will do it on more people.

[LovePotion]

I have a customer who got into the same trouble, he reported to the police but they didnt take any action because they will drop the case as long as the IP address is from oversea. So dont bother to look for them.

I read some of the post and ask some of the victim, those bloody pinoy scammer comes from tagged, facebook, or other dating apps. Most of them didnt wired them the money and nothing happens to them.

If you wired them, there will be a second or third round. I think, this alert should put up some where in this forum to warn this scam.

Do not wired her and block her facebook, you use your facebook account, report her account as scam, her facebook will be freeze for 1 week, report twice and she will got freeze for 1 month.

[cereal-killer]

1. If vid was posted in Youtube, it will get deleted if your "third leg" is involved.

2. Read what sammyboy boss said. why worry unless yours is small.
If you're a woman, then there;s some thing to worry about