View Full Version : what is your secret in bed??
lanceage
13-12-2011, 07:29 PM
ok i got dump by my ex gf a few months ago.(ya big deal... lots of people get dump everyday. found out from her friends that she was sleeping with a few other guys so she can screw herself for all i care). The main thing on why im starting this topic is cause she say i suck in bed( ok now thats a big blow to me.) So now im here to ask for all the grand daddys and big time sex machine if they have any secret technic in bed (from the way i see the other forum, dont think i be able to ask for a great lady to teach me hands on- all of them seem to have special force protecting them in sbf). For all those whos advice is "just take your tool and shove it into that pussy and keep moving in and out till you fire the gun" pls step aside and move to the next topic thx. oh ya and all the sisters are also welcome to post here on wat you like a guy to do in bed great tips for the guys to keep in mind.
Toyota Honda
13-12-2011, 07:41 PM
TS, are you a sexy guy for your girl to want to make love to you? Its like guys see a girl, want to up her. but a sexy kitten thats dressed to kill, you want to up even more.
Do you know y your girl from sleep with other guys? Its not all about sex. Y are you the one being dumped and not the others whom she sleeps with?
bearking
13-12-2011, 07:42 PM
Hey Man!! Im sorry to hear. Just forget about it. U deserve someone else better who know how to appreaciate you as a person. How u perform in bed is just one of the major factor.
If she dun loves you, how much u perform in bed useless.
I would prefer to have cuddle, massage, a kiss after sex would help.
lanceage
13-12-2011, 07:54 PM
well if shes not sleeping around with some other guys cause of sex than i dont know( wont deny that some girls sleep around not just for sex) maybe the other guys more handsome than me. anyway if your officially dating and the girl breaks up with you does that mean that your dump?
anyway back to topic, i hear that lots of girls like foreplay. any good tips on what you like to do during forplay?
jasdude
13-12-2011, 08:08 PM
No one is born a stud ! Fastest way is to consult the video porn section of sbf and learn well . Disclaimer , physical limitations and tolerance is another issue .
cuntarow
13-12-2011, 09:06 PM
well if shes not sleeping around with some other guys cause of sex than i dont know( wont deny that some girls sleep around not just for sex) maybe the other guys more handsome than me. anyway if your officially dating and the girl breaks up with you does that mean that your dump?
anyway back to topic, i hear that lots of girls like foreplay. any good tips on what you like to do during forplay?
A long slow and wet one, anyway mind revealing u and ur ex g/f age. i think it plays a part too
smartke
13-12-2011, 09:09 PM
foreplay, need to know how to; esp on teasin... discover her sensitive part, understand her physical needs & attack on her weak spot! oh ya, timin is also 1 of impt factor. ;)
jus my humble 2 rmb...
jensenklaus
13-12-2011, 09:15 PM
If you could do something like this....you passed n never ever get dumped....you will be the one filtering your sex buddies.....
http://www.cum.com/video/?v=0N7W62QG
Practice makes perfect.....do it more often n start to sharpen your tongue...:p
xxFTOxx
13-12-2011, 09:16 PM
Foreplay my fren...once she gets all horny and wet...then its half the battle won. U need to know her sensitive spots to make her weak :) Next half is the orgasm bit. Put yourself in her shoes...imagine u give her an orgasm and then tats it. She goes to sleep...and u havent had yours yet...sianz right. Same goes for u...give her wat she wants and probably u will have all night of fun cuz she wants u. Thats why its important to REMEMBER her subtle comments and use it. Girls sometimes will tell u what they like so make an effort to do it and thou shalt be rewarded. Oh and love plays a pretty important factor too. My 2 cents worth
Mr_don_juan
13-12-2011, 09:28 PM
ok i got dump by my ex gf a few months ago.(ya big deal... lots of people get dump everyday. found out from her friends that she was sleeping with a few other guys so she can screw herself for all i care). The main thing on why im starting this topic is cause she say i suck in bed( ok now thats a big blow to me.) So now im here to ask for all the grand daddys and big time sex machine if they have any secret technic in bed (from the way i see the other forum, dont think i be able to ask for a great lady to teach me hands on- all of them seem to have special force protecting them in sbf). For all those whos advice is "just take your tool and shove it into that pussy and keep moving in and out till you fire the gun" pls step aside and move to the next topic thx. oh ya and all the sisters are also welcome to post here on wat you like a guy to do in bed great tips for the guys to keep in mind.
Foreplay is important for pentration, so does your stamina. Knowledge of karma sutra positions can make you a sex god as you not need to pull out your penis while switching of various positions. Practise make perfect. The duration of actual penetration should be estimated around 30 mins. she should be flushed over her cheek and neck and look dreamy, she should have several climax. :D
alan0338
13-12-2011, 09:45 PM
is one of the guys ur ex gf is fucking from SBF? if yes then u can pm him and ask :D
Teddman
13-12-2011, 10:10 PM
Hold on a second. I think starting this thread was a wrong move for you.
SHE was the one who was being untruthful and playing around. So why should you even bother BELIEVING her comment about your sexual prowess? In my books, throwing blame is the number one sign of guilt - And she's trying to make you pay for her guilt.
Everyone has their own style where it comes to getting the job done. What to me is important is that you don't just care about being pleasured but also make sure that SHE is pleasured. HOW you do it doesn't matter because it varies from girl to girl. Some like foreplay, some like it hard and fast, some like dirty talk, the list goes on.
YOU not having confidence in your own sexual ability is the only factor that makes you UNSEXY bro.
And always remember this, where it comes to men and women.
A key that can open many locks is called a Master Key.
A lock that can be opened by many keys is a pretty lousy lock.
wally888
13-12-2011, 11:50 PM
Could b a blessing in disguise the relationship ended earlier. Worse if u marry her then she go around sleeping with other men as u cannot sextify her:(
In actual fact, no woman that truly love u will comment on your sexual performance as this would hurt u. For improve sexual performance, just maintain a good lifestyle, good diet and exercise regularly. As for pattern, watch more AV film....but remember dunn DIY too much! :D
cheebeng
14-12-2011, 12:04 AM
sorry to heard that
best part learn how to tease her like start with oral sex first and don't too kan cheong want to put in your brother. If you make her wet until she ask you to fuck her, you already win 50%. Balance another 50% depends on your stamina and long lasting fucking session.
LovePotion
14-12-2011, 12:43 AM
You need to make them move or do the job first, until they are tired then strike back.
Do more push up will help in doggy style. Also it depends, some gal like speed some like feel so you have to do slower.
You need to be good at bed if not she or your future gf will find others or cheat on you.
You should watch more porn instead cuz they are professional. =)
callmebad
14-12-2011, 01:08 AM
There is no one-size-fits-all 'secrets' to please a woman in bed, because sexual preference is a very personal type of thing. Not every woman will respond to the same way to a man's touch, very unlike what you saw on porn.
Most of the time you have to play with your eyes and ears - meaning you have to be attentive of her body 'signals' which will reveal where and how she likes to be touched!
Of course, the most basic and easiest way to make a girl orgasm fast is to work on her clitoris.
If she is not shy, you ask her to masturbate in front of you. After observing her on how and where she touches herself,you can follow exactly the same way she did to herself.
Women are very emotional creature. Before you can get her to feel high in bed, you must do a lot of preparation work outside the bedroom, which require you to meet her feel good,relaxed and comfortable with you - a sort of mental foreplay!
If this preparation work is done well, the remainder 'bedroom activity' should be more smooth sailing!
jensenklaus
14-12-2011, 06:32 AM
Hey bro....i find this comment very meaningful...
A key that can open many locks is called a Master Key.
A lock that can be opened by many keys is a pretty lousy lock.:cool::D
Practice...practice...practice...makes perfect bro....don't cry over spilled milk....go to the cow n milk it yourself....more meaningful.:D
LovePotion
14-12-2011, 07:43 AM
By watching more porn and a gf whom is horny will help. =)
I think knowing how to make out is important, like how to begin with before doing the actual stuff.
For me, i have some trade mark move to make myself special. ^^
woshiedison
14-12-2011, 10:38 AM
She said u suck then how would u rate her is she pretty n sexy n is she gd in sex if she neither pretty nor gd in bed how can she said u n do u thk she would come back to u even if u did improve well i thk she wont even bother she would just continue fucking anyone she met it u who is making yourself miserable by her comment just move on with your life break up only ma just be strong to face it but like i said how u rate her?
geckoSG
14-12-2011, 11:02 AM
TS... why dun you describe how you normal have sex with her, the things you have done? If you only just poke and fire in 5 minute with no foreplay or watever, then she's probably right
BiRd13
14-12-2011, 11:11 AM
Foreplay is important....
Next is skill... and how you perform on your partner...
ie: different position, prolong your cumming, ways to make her sexcited etc...
tantanmoe
14-12-2011, 11:39 AM
No one is born a stud ! Fastest way is to consult the video porn section of sbf and learn well . Disclaimer , physical limitations and tolerance is another issue .
this is one bad advice! sorry bro for being direct.
porn video is for men, does shit for the pleasure of women.
but if you google hard enough, you find sex stories and porn made for WOMEN. those you can learn from.
cuntarow
14-12-2011, 05:33 PM
A long slow and wet one, anyway mind revealing u and ur ex g/f age. i think it plays a part too
To that someone who zap me off 6 for this comment and without leaving your nick only a comment thankyou, i think you are a loser you dare to zap but scared to leaves a nick. and should you think this is offensive to you, i suggest you quit the forum.:)
graywolf
14-12-2011, 06:44 PM
T you should watch more Japanese AV porn movies .
Stud00
15-12-2011, 05:55 AM
ok i got dump by my ex gf a few months ago.(ya big deal... lots of people get dump everyday. found out from her friends that she was sleeping with a few other guys so she can screw herself for all i care). The main thing on why im starting this topic is cause she say i suck in bed( ok now thats a big blow to me.) So now im here to ask for all the grand daddys and big time sex machine if they have any secret technic in bed (from the way i see the other forum, dont think i be able to ask for a great lady to teach me hands on- all of them seem to have special force protecting them in sbf). For all those whos advice is "just take your tool and shove it into that pussy and keep moving in and out till you fire the gun" pls step aside and move to the next topic thx. oh ya and all the sisters are also welcome to post here on wat you like a guy to do in bed great tips for the guys to keep in mind.
Bro Ts, firstly, sorry to hear about this.. i can emphasize with you. The way i see it, basically, you are dealing with two blows here, That she cheated on you and insulted your "manhood"... come on, let's face it, we are all guys and we have egos. But then again, you ain't a pornstar, so you DO NOT have to perform like one. Sex without feelings is just fucking... and Sex with feelings is making love, and when you make love to a gal, it's about connection, you can watch all the porn you wanna, learn all the moves, but end of the day, you would still feel empty without the connection...
Take a break, go for a nice vacation, start hanging around new people.. and please, you do not suck in bed skills, it's just a lame excuse that she's using to spite you.
Just my two cents worth.
woshiedison
15-12-2011, 07:57 AM
Bro Ts, firstly, sorry to hear about this.. i can emphasize with you. The way i see it, basically, you are dealing with two blows here, That she cheated on you and insulted your "manhood"... come on, let's face it, we are all guys and we have egos. But then again, you ain't a pornstar, so you DO NOT have to perform like one. Sex without feelings is just fucking... and Sex with feelings is making love, and when you make love to a gal, it's about connection, you can watch all the porn you wanna, learn all the moves, but end of the day, you would still feel empty without the connection...
Take a break, go for a nice vacation, start hanging around new people.. and please, you do not suck in bed skills, it's just a lame excuse that she's using to spite you.
Just my two cents worth.
Yup if u c wat i wrote on top it almost the same as i told u don bother about her stupid comment too much
whiteangelcsh
15-12-2011, 06:09 PM
All women are the same in bed... Pleasure them first and they'll appreciate u. It's juz tt simple as a secret in bed.
Is it very common for girls to climax during intercourse?
5ag1_Boar
16-12-2011, 02:39 AM
Different people have different chemistry, needs and wants.
I used to think that sex is not so important, as long as we can get along. Went for marriage counselling with by many different organisations: from religious, to talks, to professional therapists. Read up many books also. The big shocking news: Sexual Compatibility IS important in a successful relationship.
Anyways, different people have different needs and wants:
- My first gf and me, studied overseas together. Almost every single day, masturbate each other. No sex, because she believe in keeping it for marriage. I believe we were quite compatible sexually.
- My second gf: I took her virginity... and that was the only time we had sex. Shortly after that, she bumped into her long lost flame and decided that she really wanted to be with him. Sexual compatibility, I would say got potential.
- My third gf and eventually wife. Low sexual compatibility. We did it for sure, but some how I never felt satisfied. There was no passion in our "love-making" and she was conservative in bed. Missionary position only. Tried to introduce different position, she was resistant. Get her to read sex articles in HER women's magazines, etc... no results. When she found out I shaved my pubes, she said "eeeeee". When I walked in on her while she was showering, she felt weird (we already married). Stay-cation at a local hotel, she fell asleep when I tried to seduce her with a full body massage. Honeymoon, I brought her to a nice "children not welcomed" romantic farm stay that had an attached jacuzzi that had floor to ceiling windows that looked out into a private and beautiful rose garden. She was in and out of the jacuzzi in 10 mins... like taking bath (my most epic romance failure ever). After our son was born: in 3 years, can count the number of times on one hand. Almost ZERO sexual compatibility. Outside of sex, we got along very well. All our friends thought we were the perfect couple.
- My fling, eventually fourth gf (my wife divorced me): 101% sexual compatibility. Our record: 6 times in 4 hours, all multiple orgasms for her and 4 orgasms for me. In a few months, we had more sex then I did with my wife in 7 years of dating and marriage. We had the hottest sex I know, yet I could last for much longer then before. She somehow brought out the sex-machine in me immediately from our first time. Till now, the best sex I've ever had is with her. Unfortunately, we don't match on values, morals and principles... one set of very important compatibilities.
- Current gf and fiancée: For this one, I wise up already. I set out looking for good compatibilities at all levels. We have good sex. Not great like with no. 4, but definitely better than average and more than good enough combined with all the other compatibilities we have.
So, after all the rambling, my point is: your ex may say you suck in bed, but another girl in the future may say they love the way you suck their tits. I've had 5 serious relationships and each one varied at the sexual compatibility. Is it because I learnt new tricks along the way? Nope, the graph isn't a straight line from first to current.
As long as you're not the "wham-bam, thank you m'am" type of fucker. As long as you're the type who believes in satisfying your lover before yourself, you should be fine. When you find the right girl, everything will fall into place with little effort. There is no secret leg-softening technique that will succeed with every woman. It's whether your style and her style match. And much of it is the emotional connection too. Even with the "working girls", I get much better sessions when I have rapport with them.
So chill dude. You don't suck in bed. No harm learning new tricks, but they are not the be all and end all.
5ag1_Boar
16-12-2011, 02:52 AM
Is it very common for girls to climax during intercourse?
Errr... in this modern day and age, I would say it's uncommon for girls not to climax during intercourse.
Yes, there are some woman who can't cum during intercourse... usually, I believe, due to some psychological barrier.
I know women who cannot cum from intercourse alone, but can cum if her clit is stimulated at the same time.
Luckily, I've not encountered those among my serious relationships.
yungsern87
16-12-2011, 05:22 AM
treat a lady like a women all the times, yes she might fuck around and have sex with somebody else anytime, but still she is still a lady, everyone got their own needs.
i personally had quite a few partner for sex, and i never mistreated them, i give them a satisfied foreplay, i use soft and med speed of thrusting and most important, treat them with respect, you need them, they need you too.
my best sex partner is an irish, she had a quite big body but a good sex partner, i would give her a nice foreplay, and had her to suck my dick just nice, after a while, i thrusted her nicely and with passion, never rush or screw her rough, afterall, sex is to enjoy, not to cheong like would get a prize.
and another thing, treat a lady with respect, and you will get more from her, try my way slowly, i get to cum inside, outside, into mouth, to face, and to asshole, some of them even get me to cum on the shot glass and drink infront of me and wanted a kiss.
RESPECT! and LOVE, important factor in a love ^^
Errr... in this modern day and age, I would say it's uncommon for girls not to climax during intercourse.
Yes, there are some woman who can't cum during intercourse... usually, I believe, due to some psychological barrier.
I know women who cannot cum from intercourse alone, but can cum if her clit is stimulated at the same time.
Luckily, I've not encountered those among my serious relationships.
I'm barely able to cum with intercourse only.
I remember once i did with me on top, but i think i was able to rub my clit on his body?
Other than then, i wasn't able to.
And quite a few times waiting for it to end.
But regarding sexual compatibility, i think we're great.
Just that sometimes i'm unsatisfied with intercourse only.
I think we can do better though.
5ag1_Boar
27-12-2011, 02:38 PM
I'm barely able to cum with intercourse only.
I remember once i did with me on top, but i think i was able to rub my clit on his body?
Other than then, i wasn't able to.
And quite a few times waiting for it to end.
But regarding sexual compatibility, i think we're great.
Just that sometimes i'm unsatisfied with intercourse only.
I think we can do better though.
Go read up on CAT (Coital Alignment Technique). that might help.
Ummm... does your guy eat you? Can cum from that?
My gf can come intercourse alone if she is on top. But she loves to finger her own clit in other positions... she's impatient. :-p
HunterJ
27-12-2011, 03:21 PM
Honestly, I don't know if I ever made a woman cum with intercourse alone. I can't last for a really long time to stimulate a woman till she cums with intercourse, and I always lose the battle. Max duration say about 15 minutes of intense pumping?
That's why, I prefer to lick my woman till she cums, not only the tongue is working, but also the fingers stimulating sensitive spots. After she orgasms, give her a 5 sec break, and then you start penetration, she will be in heaven all the time. If lucky, she might even orgasm again !!
Don't forget to treat a woman as a gentleman, pamper her even before and after the deed is done !!
Just my 2cents of opinions... :D
5ag1_Boar
27-12-2011, 03:51 PM
Honestly, I don't know if I ever made a woman cum with intercourse alone. I can't last for a really long time to stimulate a woman till she cums with intercourse, and I always lose the battle. Max duration say about 15 minutes of intense pumping?
That's why, I prefer to lick my woman till she cums, not only the tongue is working, but also the fingers stimulating sensitive spots. After she orgasms, give her a 5 sec break, and then you start penetration, she will be in heaven all the time. If lucky, she might even orgasm again !!
Don't forget to treat a woman as a gentleman, pamper her even before and after the deed is done !!
Just my 2cents of opinions... :D
LOL... I think for some guys, 15 mins is actually not bad.
But you have a cool technique. It's like high already then ultra high for your girl.
One trick is to position yourself so that when you thrust, your dick head rubs against the front wall of the vagina. Basically along where the sensitive bumpy bits should be (i.e. the area where the G-Spot should be). That can be achieved by lifting her butt or putting a pillow below her butt... then lower your pelvis so that you thrust upwards. When I shift to that angle, more often then not I'm rewarded with a widening of her eyes and a moan of pleasure.
HunterJ
27-12-2011, 04:05 PM
LOL... I think for some guys, 15 mins is actually not bad.
But you have a cool technique. It's like high already then ultra high for your girl.
One trick is to position yourself so that when you thrust, your dick head rubs against the front wall of the vagina. Basically along.....
Thanks bro. Maybe I'm not well seasoned yet. Must "practice" more !! hehe.. :p Upp you !! (although i can't yet >.< lol)
I tried using a pillow under a woman's butt, but some will complain not that comfortable to lie with a pillow there. But your advice sure will work !! Next time try it out again! :D
5ag1_Boar
27-12-2011, 04:13 PM
Thanks bro. Maybe I'm not well seasoned yet. Must "practice" more !! hehe.. :p Upp you !! (although i can't yet >.< lol)
I tried using a pillow under a woman's butt, but some will complain not that comfortable to lie with a pillow there. But your advice sure will work !! Next time try it out again! :D
Warning: can be quite stimulating for you too... so be prepared. LOL!
HunterJ
27-12-2011, 04:19 PM
Warning: can be quite stimulating for you too... so be prepared. LOL!
warning received !!! I will be well prepared for it !! lol :D
ilovebigtits
27-12-2011, 05:01 PM
A wise woman once told me..."Ask a racer if he can win the race, he would most likely say Yes!, and that's where he already lost the race. Sex is like racing, it's a team sports not just about the Driver or the Tools!" Fxxx her and you are merely a fuxxer, Fxxx the mind and she will always be begging for more!
Cheers!
ILBT
Sirrus
27-12-2011, 08:30 PM
The best advise is understand what the girls wants, likes and dislike in bed.
u have to use empathy and put yourself in their shoes.
Sex is between 2 person or more. Sex is never done alone, if u dont want to care about the other party's feelings then either u find chicken or u wank yourself. simple as that.
No matter what type of technique u learn here it wont help you as long if ur not sincere.
its not consider learning when u cant put it into use or cant use it in a flexiable manner. i hope u understand the meaning of 死读书 this phase right?
mclovin_boy
27-12-2011, 08:44 PM
Make her come first before u. That will make u a better lover & that's my goal whenever I make out, be it with my wife, FB, FLs or WLs. :)
n also foreplay is very important. Always spent the most time in this section.
smartke
27-12-2011, 08:50 PM
The best advise is understand what the girls wants, likes and dislike in bed.
err... minor correction b4 boss come in... it shld b "ADVICE", not "ADVISE". :D
Jolie
27-12-2011, 09:36 PM
Make her come first before u. That will make u a better lover & that's my goal whenever I make out, be it with my wife, FB, FLs or WLs. :)
n also foreplay is very important. Always spent the most time in this section.
I can't agree more on that sentence. It is a huge turn off when a guy cums before a girl. It is even a greater turn off when the girl says,'I'm gonna cum', the feeling builds up and then the guy stops pumping followed by,'ughhh....'then slump on the bed.
Some girls like foreplay. Some don't. Communication is really the key to having great sex - both verbal and non-verbal. You need to be experimental and attentive. Try having foreplay. If she likes it, she will try to reciprocate. If she doesn't, she will try to inch you towards coitus.
You may want to look into other factors as well - ambience, timing, mood.
The horniest period for women generally, is a couple of days after period. I myself is a lot into ambience. Dim lights, few glasses of wine, scented candles and erotic music makes it really sensual. You may want to try.
Many men don't put in enough effort to make sex really 'savoury'.
I.m.Jim
27-12-2011, 09:48 PM
Many men don't put in enough effort to make sex really 'savoury'.
hahahahah , lets have a friendly exchange about this . Women nowdays don't spice men up enough to deserve the savoury treatment from men .
Jolie
27-12-2011, 10:12 PM
hahahahah , lets have a friendly exchange about this . Women nowdays don't spice men up enough to deserve the savoury treatment from men .
Hmmm, it depends on what kind of woman you're talking about. Have you been meeting the shy ones? I don't believe all women are like this.
I.m.Jim
27-12-2011, 10:28 PM
Hmmm, it depends on what kind of woman you're talking about. Have you been meeting the shy ones? I don't believe all women are like this.
Not all women are like that but complacency is the issue . Guys are taken for granted too . So why should I wine and dine and curry favour for love and sex when she ( woman ) is not deserving of it first ?
jolenekoh
28-12-2011, 12:28 AM
ok i got dump by my ex gf a few months ago.(ya big deal... lots of people get dump everyday. found out from her friends that she was sleeping with a few other guys so she can screw herself for all i care). The main thing on why im starting this topic is cause she say i suck in bed( ok now thats a big blow to me.) So now im here to ask for all the grand daddys and big time sex machine if they have any secret technic in bed (from the way i see the other forum, dont think i be able to ask for a great lady to teach me hands on- all of them seem to have special force protecting them in sbf). For all those whos advice is "just take your tool and shove it into that pussy and keep moving in and out till you fire the gun" pls step aside and move to the next topic thx. oh ya and all the sisters are also welcome to post here on wat you like a guy to do in bed great tips for the guys to keep in mind.
the secret technicque to great fucking can be achieved by practice. practice makes perfect. However, the chemistry u have with the partner is the most important. without chemistry, no matter how expert n skillful u r in sex, nth mind blowing will materialize
Reoxy
28-12-2011, 12:32 AM
So why should I wine and dine and curry favour for love and sex when she ( woman ) is not deserving of it first ?
One exception is if the woman is your wife.:D
No Sex - Outside can buy
No Love - Outside can buy
No Peace & Quiet - Nowhere can buy
Reoxy
28-12-2011, 12:33 AM
Double posting
zacarie
28-12-2011, 01:11 AM
Sex, making love, whatever you call it. takes two to do it. a lady could well be moaning just to make it seem like they like it to get it over n done with. So how well do u know tt she is enjoying it?
I feel tt it is respect for both parties, understanding, communication, honesty tt is key to having a good making love session. You may have all the skills in the world. but the way u do it may not be the way ur lady likes it to be. So communication and honesty is key. u dont like it. u tell ur man. be honest about it. it may be embaressing for some. but if ur partner is understanding.. it will definately be no problem at all. Dont do things tt ur lady dont enjoy. And dont ever force her to do so. cause it will do more harm than good. she'll prolly swear off it even. so respect her wishes..
As a partner.. dont just f and go also. no matter how rush for time it is. either dont do it. or have longer period together. And if u are married or attached. dont use ur phone and be msging or reporting to ur other lady.. sucky.. been there.. n the feeling sucks. haha.(off topic.. Sorry :p)
Man seems to be the dominant one in sex. haha. but there sure are some lady out there who leads the game.
zacarie
28-12-2011, 01:17 AM
Many men don't put in enough effort to make sex really 'savoury'.
I would agree with u on this. but at the same time. many woman do take their man for granted.
All these done. mood ambience and all. after tt. the lady says... i'm tired. zzzZzZzZ... the end.They are many woman who doesnt enjoy sex. I got no idea y.. but sad for them..
Sometimes the lady will have to make the move. it cannot always be the guy. and the constant making an effort wine n dine n ambience n all. it can be quite tiring and boring after a while right? it is nice.. but save it for a special occasion.
I think sometimes all tt lead to sex is cause the lady feel it's a need to do so (tt's if sex is on the cards)... Not tt she wants to.
hahahahah , lets have a friendly exchange about this . Women nowdays don't spice men up enough to deserve the savoury treatment from men .
Not all women are like that but complacency is the issue . Guys are taken for granted too . So why should I wine and dine and curry favour for love and sex when she ( woman ) is not deserving of it first ?
No Sex - Outside can buy
No Love - Outside can buy
No Peace & Quiet - Nowhere can buy
like reoxy said .. i guess this is the reason y guys dont do it tt much already.. true?
They pay money. get woman. do have to maintain n upkeep. f and done. tt's y relationships dont last nowadays......
HunterJ
28-12-2011, 09:55 AM
Communication plays a big part between 2 individuals. This communication can come in many forms, not only verbal (telling your partner what you like/dislike), body language communication (using actions and body language), "unspoken" communication (with sounds, grunts, etc.), eye contact, etc.
No doubt, people tend to get lazy and not willing to go the extra mile to please the other party. Not only tied down to day-to-day commitments, but also the extra stress coming from all aspects in life. This is not targeting at man or woman, but both sexes. A classic saying, "it takes two hands to clap".
twentycents
28-12-2011, 10:21 AM
tongue flicks on hood, finger twitches on nipples, maximize skin surface area contact, prior shower,dirty talk,long finger drags along her back,run fingers into hair like comb,wrap single hand around her neck and caress it, tickle back of her knee, breathing into ear, tongue fighting, gentle slapping of bum and last but not least, alternating speeds of thrusts according to her breathing pattern.
If all the above not able to keep her interested, pm me so u can have 4 hands instead of 2.
Gixer
28-12-2011, 10:45 AM
Dude, if shes sleeping around behind your back then you must be doing something wrong. You should have fucked her silly and not been the caring pussy you may have been. Treat them mean, keep them keen.
You should have fucked her in the ass, or done it outdoors. Or long and hard enough that she can't walk. Also, you should know how to use your tounge. Toys, lubes, and feathers, even food or fruits should be used, just don't use durians :p
Overall, she obviously wanted more than what you were giving, sorry to be blunt, but thats the truth.
But seriously, you have to know what she wants, soft and slow or hard and dirty? Some women like to be controlled, others want to control. Every pussy is different, thats why men keen chasing them.
Personally, I would have gone for the down and dirty version, if you get it, you'll never forget it. If you don't, then nevermind, next better player. No point beating yourself up about it or beating yourself off. :D
I'll always remember tying up one girl and fucking her in the ass till she enjoyed it. She couldn't even walk straight after that. She worshipped me like a God after that, just becareful thats she's down with it, otherwise prison can be a real bitch (Or you could be someone's bitch).
Cheers.
Reoxy
28-12-2011, 11:10 AM
If all the above not able to keep her interested, pm me so u can have 4 hands instead of 2.
How come no tongue in asshole?
Nice try but anything without AssRim is meaningless.:D
HunterJ
28-12-2011, 11:27 AM
How come no tongue in asshole?
Nice try but anything without AssRim is meaningless.:D
This reminds me of another thing !!! Not only giving a pussy lick, but also tongue-fuck the pussy !!! :D
TheHornyDevilz
28-12-2011, 12:20 PM
Sometimes, it's the little things that hamper performance.
I usually empty my bladder before any sex. I find an empty bladder actually helps to extend the performance time.
5ag1_Boar
28-12-2011, 12:29 PM
Sometimes, it's the little things that hamper performance.
I usually empty my bladder before any sex. I find an empty bladder actually helps to extend the performance time.
"Like"
The forum needs a "Like" button for posts. I think that will cut down a lot of short posts like this one I just posted. LOL!
ilovebigtits
03-01-2012, 08:59 AM
q@-@P <<< Based on my Research, it says 7 out 10 SG women :( CMI
Misunderstood
03-01-2012, 09:17 AM
q@-@P <<< Based on my Research, it says 7 out 10 SG women :( CMI
I disagree with you,I find 6 out of 10 of them are fantastic in bed. However BRO, maybe you are into SYTs only as I love MILFs only.
q@-@P <<< Based on my Research, it says 7 out 10 SG women :( CMI
Research on? Seems interesting enough if you care to elaborate..
Back to topic, I love to go down on my girl(30min or more no prob). Love the reaction she gives (squealing, hip bucking, squirming, orgasms after moanful orgasms):D. Basically f*** her in both body and mind and have fun doing it. No one can accuse you of being no fun in the sack that way. Currently my issue with my present gf is she gets too sensitive so limits my 'diving sessions' :p
The way I see TS's problem is the girl shifting the blame. Hey ppl do this all the time so they don't feel guilty. Learn from this be a better lover toss the bitch outta your life and meet some better deserving girl.
My 2.5 cents.
hokkien
03-01-2012, 01:10 PM
ok i got dump by my ex gf a few months ago.(ya big deal... lots of people get dump everyday. found out from her friends that she was sleeping with a few other guys so she can screw herself for all i care). The main thing on why im starting this topic is cause she say i suck in bed( ok now thats a big blow to me.) So now im here to ask for all the grand daddys and big time sex machine if they have any secret technic in bed (from the way i see the other forum, dont think i be able to ask for a great lady to teach me hands on- all of them seem to have special force protecting them in sbf). For all those whos advice is "just take your tool and shove it into that pussy and keep moving in and out till you fire the gun" pls step aside and move to the next topic thx. oh ya and all the sisters are also welcome to post here on wat you like a guy to do in bed great tips for the guys to keep in mind.
If its secrets than why ask?:D
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