ladies wetness , cum more ...

[stel]

need help ....

How do make a ladies to cum more n wetness ?

Hmm .. Recently ... I find that i m not able to come as wet as before .. No idea , wat went wrong ... It seems like i cant satisfy my bf anymore .. He loves the wetness , but now , i cant seem to cum ... Help Help

I have been taking lots of health products , example : lose weight .. does it affect ?

[guowei8]

Den dun satisfy lor ;d

[gtkh2]

Sis

see a doctor.hormonal changes will affect your wetness..

Supplements may do more harm then help. Consult a doctor first

[smartke]

hmmm... isnt it 2 diff things if a ger cant "cum", & a ger cant "get wet"? :confused:

but frm wat i read, it seems tat its the same to ts.

now, i'm 'cuntfused'... :D:p

[stel]

sorry everyone .. its actually the same ...

i m getting deppress .... :'(

hmmm... isnt it 2 diff things if a ger cant "cum", & a ger cant "get wet"? :confused:

but frm wat i read, it seems tat its the same to ts.

now, i'm 'cuntfused'... :D:p

[smartke]

more foreplay... try stimulate each other... at the same time, find out the root cause!
tats wat i can say... cos now u cant even tell wats the caused of ur prob.

try to find out more abt the issues, b4 turnin to gynecologist for treatment. ;)

[mariko]

Perhaps, becoz you are tired of your boyfriend, did you try with other guys before? you may get more excited with other man. Or try something new and exciting like doing in public or dress up theme. May help :)

[stel]

but i will never get tired with my bf ....

he is my Priorty in life ...

[stel]

i guess its my fault .. my problem ...

guess he is not interested in me anymore ...

maybe i cant satisfy him anymore ...

[yen1978]

Mine suggestion is tat diy urself 1st n noe which part of ur body are sensetive simple to say G-spot, tat make u wet.

[stel]

i dont know how to diy myself ...

IS THERE ANYTHING I CAN TAKE ORALLY ?

[HunterJ]

hey sis, don't blame yourself on that. There are many factors that cause this problem.

1. Stress. Maybe your working life is causing too much stress on you, and you are constantly thinking about work and other things. Thus couldn't be aroused and cum.

2. Don't put too much attention to cum. Sometimes, the more you think of cumming, the more you won't cum. Its the same for guys, where the more I try to tahan not to cum, the faster i cum. -_-

3. Is there any foreplay problems between you and your bf? Previously, how did he make you cum? While penetration? Or licking you? Or.. ?? Maybe the "technique" he uses on you is different from before, resulting you to not be able to enjoy.

4. Hormonal changes can result in lack of wetness in your pussy. Last resort, try to consult a doctor.

If he is not interested in you, you WON'T be not wet. Get what I mean? Or maybe you just need to find someone "real" to talk to you, share out your experience, and once you feel better, you might be able to get back the wetness you previously had.

Get into the mood much longer before engaging in actual penetration. Touch each other more, use words to stimulate each other, find your sensitive spots. When he does something that you enjoy very much, TELL HIM, and let him continue it on that.

Hope everything will go well !!! Good luck !! and don't be sad already !!

[yen1978]

Diy mean u touch ur body lor.. Want to take medicine u better consult doctors. Anyway try not to be so tense during ur sex

[smartke]

i dont know how to diy myself ...

IS THERE ANYTHING I CAN TAKE ORALLY ?

yes, put a dick in ur mouth! :D

if u cant get excited (wet) by suckin ur bf, or by him paintin (lickin) u, then i believe u already lost interest in him!

ts, frm ur posting, u seems VERY young. my guess u r only 18, 20 at max.

young ger, u still hv a long way to learn!

[stel]

thanks everyone who offer ur solution ...

guess , i m too tense up ...

yup .. i keep thinking of 'cum' when i doing it with him . maybe thats y i cant 'sum' at all n not enjoying the whole process ...

i will take note , and will try to relax myself.

[stel]

i love to suck for him ... and i guess he loves it too .. but wat other way , can i make him wants more ?

i love to see him get sort of high when i suck him.. play his balls , lick n wet it ... hmmm ...

yes, put a dick in ur mouth! :D

if u cant get excited (wet) by suckin ur bf, or by him paintin (lickin) u, then i believe u already lost interest in him!

ts, frm ur posting, u seems VERY young. my guess u r only 18, 20 at max.

young ger, u still hv a long way to learn!

[smartke]

i love to suck for him ... and i guess he loves it too .. but wat other way , can i make him wants more ?
i love to see him get sort of high when i suck him.. play his balls , lick n wet it ... hmmm ...

pls get the prob right.... the prob is NOT wif him, U r.

[michaelrocksam]

also drink more water and take more vegetables, it may help.

[bearking]

Correct me if im wrong..

When women are aroused, they will become wet. And when they enjoy the process, they will be more wet.
And i always tot that women come by squirting...or some other reaction other then becoming wet??!:confused:

Enlighten me if im wrong...

[astonn]

for me
my wife: need to be highly simulated then will wet, but end up licking her wet instead then do

my gf: just insert she wet liao, the more u hum her, the more she leak of her wetness.

[36F-23-36]

Use lubricant to make yourself wetter loh..

[smartke]

Use lubricant to make yourself wetter loh..

dun think she knows wats is lubricant or wat lubricant to use.

she thot 'cum' is 'wetness', 'wetness' is 'cum'... :eek:

u better teach tis 小妹妹 some 性教育... :D:p

[callmebad]

Probably could be your hormonal fluctuations
Probably could be your dieting or your diet

A way you can try is to do some self-exploration of your body to see how you like to be touched - self-masturbation.

When you're free, you indulge in this sort of self-pleasure to allow you to slowly regain this horny feeling again.

This should help to get back the blood flow to your genitals.

Self-masturbation is less stressful than when you make love and trying to get yourself to cum

When lovemaking, you apply some lubricant as a short term temporary measure before you regain the horny feeling.

As you gradually regain this feeling,you can masturbate in front of your bf to demonstrate to him, where and how you like to be touched.

You may also need some other form of foreplay such as receiving oral sex from your bf.

Get wet is not the same as getting high because some women do get real wet, while others are not so wet but this doesn't mean they don't enjoy sex.

So,you must determine for yourself which category you're in!

[jensenklaus]

Come to me...sure to make you wet....money back guaranteed:D..never fails to get a gal wet...always get wetter....foreplay is the most essential part of having a good wonderful sex or love-making....stop inbetween penetrations n give him a nice bbbj or best of all..go 69...thus making his dick wet.....insert again.....just Relax yourself....lie down...spread your legs...n Enjoy it my dear.:p

[stel]

thanks everyone ...

i will try to relax n touch myself more often ...

maybe, such get a sexy ligeries ?

[n30n]

On the same topic, how to make a girl cum during intercourse?
It's easy from clit, but for inside i don't know how.
All the more i don't know how to squirt even if i want to try.

I can't seems to find the G spot, and he takes long to cum.
So after sometimes of high, it becomes for like waiting to end :(
Is it a psychological thing?

[stel]

i m so so depress .. falling into depression ...

i got the urge to buy those pills from pharamcy ( watson or guardian) ..

[jensenklaus]

What's so depressed....everything could be solved...no need resort to taking pills....no good for your health...everytyme will have to rely on medication....will become addicted....

Most of the samsters here are nice people....sweet n loving sex machines....created to make gals cum with estacy:p:p....

No need to just stick to a lone tree....there are forest out there dat could satisfy you.....of course could make you wet....drip...n flow like river...just move forward n have fun....

Life is short....i always believe in End of this World.....be happy today...who knows what will happen tomorrow....:) No need to feel depressed ;)

[xx038]

Common girl...

Many people keep giving ideas.....

you should talk to some one freely.........

No one can help you on this except you......

Be free...relax and talk to some one...

all the best dear....life is so short and simple and dont make it complicated by worring everyday everyhour

[stel]

really hope , one day , i can get back into shape .. like the wetness i used to have ...

[keiizumi]

Go on a short overseas vacation with your bf. A change of environment may help some time. :)

[phallusman]

Well, sis Stel,

Dun be too obsessed with cum.

The fact is that a vast proportion of women dun cum during sex. Just take it that you just have sex and try to enjoy it, with or without cum. If you cum, that is a bonus and it's great. If you don't, nevermind la - many other sis around the world dun cum so easily.

BTW, how old are you and how long have you been with your BF? Are you getting married or not.

Is there any anxiety about your relationship with him?

I guess there might be some changes in terms of your environment like your job or living condition, your personal physical changes, relationship, family etc.

[crazydog_19]

Sister, I think your BF is getting lazy, he is not doing his job, he only wants to be sexified and forgot about you.

have him to do more pussy licking will help. :-?

[stel]

oh well ..

i guess , he is lazy le .. he only cares for himself .. dont even give a damn on me :(

[HunterJ]

oh well ..

i guess , he is lazy le .. he only cares for himself .. dont even give a damn on me :(

oh no... sounds like trouble is brewing up. find back the spark between both of you !! I'm sure it will be ok !! You can always find someone to talk to, ease out your emotions, and face your problems bravely !! and that someone maybe can be me too !! hehe.. :D

[raftime68]

if u want get very wet, ask him to lick ur pussy and will get very wet, that is my experience as a guy

[deep6161]

oh well ..

i guess , he is lazy le .. he only cares for himself .. dont even give a damn on me :(

There we go.. thats the root cause I think... u already have a feeling that you are ot being pampered enough to get you satisfied. Guys come with dick and gals with brain.. gals like to have emotional attachment to enjoy sex. Guys...hmmm.. anyone anytime.. doesnt matter..

So it is not pills but his attittude is the medicine.. Have an open discussion with him and let him know what you enjoy the most.. You should be open for what you want.. it is your right to get what you want..

you can whisper this during the session... beg, plea whatever you want.. it wil make him aroused and action. guys love begging.. :p

and if he doesnt give what u want dont give him what he wants .. how long is the session for u ? and finally take long time before let him fuck.. cos gals take average 20 mins minimum to cum..

put enough break between doing it again.. when ever I take a break for 1 week , i get mazing response from my wife.. finally sex is not a destination, but a journey..enjoy the journey and not worry about the destination.. and dont think that u always reach destination..

[kylerful]

get a vibrator.

[guy19virgin]

put some water inside. problem solved. :D

[stel]

oh pls .. how can u put water ...

[hihiz]

Lol water will dry you up in no time in fact...

[wolflust]

to me it seems like an on & off thing... sometimes I can get her really wet (only once but dun really know what I did to cause that), most of the time well I would call it moist?

There are times when the petting ended, she is still quite dry...

Lots of factors maybe in play?

[craby125]

i really dun believe if u r been lick..
u wont be wet below, dear...

try talking to him to lick e hell out of u ..so u can feel like a woman again..

[lasupkia]

My gf can get wet easily but damn hard to make her cum. She's different from other girls that i bonked. Maybe there's a problem with blood flow to her clit. I tried different positions and always ask her what she feel. She only feel good with direct fingering on her clit and need at least 20 to 30 mins to cum. I only succeed once. Finger very tired or sometimes change the style a little and her feeling died, had to start over again.

Not sure about TS problem is it similar??

[jolenekoh]

use ur tongue well, n hard throbbing in missionary. or n before tt, sweet talk her

[bearking]

Try to locate the G spot for women. This spot is so sensitive and will cause the orgasm to come again and again. Although it need some skills to locate that bu it paid off with the reward.

After all, it is how u enjoy the process. Perhaps, u should play "try to get hard" on your bf. Let him "eat wind". When he needs it, he will start "playing".

My 2 cents.

[stel]

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[stel]

oh gosh ...


i like this too :

Shunga - Erotic Massage Oil

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[unicel74]

Hi,

Jux my 2 cents worth...

maybe you should ask your BF to give you an full body erotic massage and you in return him a favour.

I went thru all the whole thread... there's too many possible reason for your wetness.

Your partner must do their part to fully enjoy sex. ( Its take 2 hands to clap...)

Try Durex Forplay Gel for a start... available at many place such as ntuc, petrol kiosk etc... there's other similar gel or lubricant available at adult shop island wide geyland chinatown...

Sex is to enjoy Dont be stress and enjoy Sex.

Tease him more play hard to get...maybe that will spice up things a little...
Guys are more easy physically simtulated and satisfied. Ladies are more complex as not only physcial but mental as well. A healthy diet and good rest will also help.

take care. hope your blues will go away this new year.

[ILick56]

anyone care to buy and send to me ?

Eros Silicone Glide & Care Woman Personal Lubricant with Aloe & Vitamin E 100ml

http://www.lilyhush.com/eros-silicone-glide-care-woman-personal-lubricant-with-aloe-vitamin-e-100ml/

Urm, u want us to buy n send to u so that ur bf can sex with u beta n we just be good samaritians?

[stel]

Unicel74 ..

thank you .. hopfully this yar will be a better year ... keeping finger cross

Ilick56...

Yeah .. do gd deeds , will get good deeds in return in time ma :)

[raiders]

need help ....

How do make a ladies to cum more n wetness ?

Hmm .. Recently ... I find that i m not able to come as wet as before .. No idea , wat went wrong ... It seems like i cant satisfy my bf anymore .. He loves the wetness , but now , i cant seem to cum ... Help Help

I have been taking lots of health products , example : lose weight .. does it affect ?

Hi Sis, no offence but did you went for an abortion before? Somehow, I realised that post abortion girls tend not to get wet so easily from my years of playing the field. Hope you find your fountain back soon :)

[5ag1_Boar]

Hi Sis, no offence but did you went for an abortion before? Somehow, I realised that post abortion girls tend not to get wet so easily from my years of playing the field. Hope you find your fountain back soon :)
I've had two girls who I know have aborted before and both are still super wet! So, no co-relation leh...

[stel]

no abortation at all!

[raiders]

I've had two girls who I know have aborted before and both are still super wet! So, no co-relation leh...

Oops, then I guess that it's down to each individual. Thanks for sharing brother :)