What do gal want? Being friendly to guy and then gave him cold shoulder..

[ang076]

What do gals want?

When gal notice a guy whom she is particularly keen on, and make eye contact with him whenever she run into him, smiled at him sweetly.

When he was queueing for bus, she purposely stood in front of him so that he would notice her.

After sometimes, he responds by initiating chat with her ,saying she was pretty. Next day, she gave him cold shoulder, avoid eye contact with him whenever she run into him. What is that gal up to?

Is she waiting for him to take the first step ?

My colleague is somewhat like that.

[guowei8]

Your colleague or u urself ;d

[I.m.Jim]

Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus . Different planet , different frequencies , different circuit boards !

Bro , no harm trying . Nothing wrong with being friends FIRST . Approach and access upon situation .

[ang076]

I experience this situation and my colleague is a pretty gal dressed in nice clothing.

[goodpartner]

...he responds by initiating chat with her ,saying she was pretty. ...

Your colleague has bad breath and/or has a voice that scare her off lah, so obvious answer. :rolleyes::D

[callmebad]

maybe some kind of misinterpretation or reading the wrong signals
the guy perceived the gal to be interested in him
he is imagining too much
in reality the gal has no interest in him at all

the gal maybe sending out some signals but these were not meant to be for this guy and was meant to be someone else who happened to be always around this guy

[joncheong]

maybe some kind of misinterpretation or reading the wrong signals
the guy perceived the gal to be interested in him
he is imagining too much
in reality the gal has no interest in him at all

the gal maybe sending out some signals but these were not meant to be for this guy and was meant to be someone else who happened to be always around this guy

i agree we guys sometimes think too much or are imagining things...sometimes the girl may be trying to be nice or just friendly and we thought they were interested in us....

i personally experienced such situations before when i was younger...became very close with some girls and fell in love with them...and thought they loved us too...only to find out that they were only treating us as close buddies, nothing more...the truth always hurts...

sometimes i wonder, we won't ever get to understand girls...

[Andylin24]

I also have the same experience , there this I like but she
Treats me as a best buddy that's all . I know
Is time for me to move on

[KevinJacob]

Your colleague has bad breath and/or has a voice that scare her off lah, so obvious answer. :rolleyes::D

HAHAHA BRO NICE 1. Freaking hilarious!!! Up you when i recover power later.

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

What do gals want?

When gal notice a guy whom she is particularly keen on, and make eye contact with him whenever she run into him, smiled at him sweetly.

When he was queueing for bus, she purposely stood in front of him so that he would notice her.

After sometimes, he responds by initiating chat with her ,saying she was pretty. ext day, she gave him cold shoulder, avoid eye contact with him whenever she run into him. What is that gal up to?

Is she waiting for him to take the first step ?

My colleague is somewhat like that.

Bro, I feel you. ;)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KTn4o2Z-vZU

How can I be sure ?
When your intrusion is my illusion
How can I be sure
When all the time you changed my mind
I asked for more and more
How can I be sure

When you don't give me love
You gave me pale shelter
You don't give me love
You give me cold hands
And I can't operate on this failure
When all I want to be is
Completely in command

How can I be sure
For all you say you keep me waiting
How can I be sure
When all you do is see me through
I asked for more and more
How can I be sure

I've been here before
There is no why, no need to try
I thought you had it all
I'm calling you, I'm calling you
I ask for more and more
How can I be sure

Jist ignore her and turn her table around ;)
Good luck! :D

[HunterJ]

Maybe it is just an illusion ~~~ LOL !!!

[DaveC65]

Personally, I feel that she wants to assure herself of her own insecurities. Can she attract a man's attention? Is she attractive? That sort of thing. Once she thinks that she has the 'pulling power' she will try to see how far she can go AS WELL AS test the man to see if he's worth her time. If the man pays too much attention and agrees and panders to her every need then she gets bored and probably contemptuous of him. Is that probably what's happening?

[Reoxy]

What do gals want?

When gal notice a guy whom she is particularly keen on, and make eye contact with him whenever she run into him, smiled at him sweetly.

When he was queueing for bus, she purposely stood in front of him so that he would notice her.

After sometimes, he responds by initiating chat with her ,saying she was pretty. Next day, she gave him cold shoulder, avoid eye contact with him whenever she run into him. What is that gal up to?

Is she waiting for him to take the first step ?

My colleague is somewhat like that.

The answer is simple.

When you start a conversation to a female stranger whom you always see by saying she is pretty, you are perceived as a shallow, lecherous man.

You should start with more basic stuff.

[1stTR]

Interesting...:) Bro TS, I tink ur colleague tink toooooo much liao. When a female dun smile at us, we tink they 'dao'. When they smile at us, we tink they like us. :p

[owl888]

Last nite was drinking kopi with a lady friend in kopishop. She's doing sales and when she saw a potential client she smiled at him. This guy came over and pass her his namecard saying she looks familiar:rolleyes:

I asked my friend she knows him, obviously the answer is no. So my friend, I think your colleague most likely misinterpret the wrong signals, gals smile to u got other ulterior motive :D

[alan0338]

think story is TS have a female colleague who smile at him sweetly la, then when he approached, the female colleague siam him lor... its either the approach fail or the word i want to up u is all over the guys face :D

[nuclearkid]

There are girls who get a kick, albeit a rather sick one, of knowing she has you twisted into a knot. It makes them feel good that they have an influence over you. In future dealings, even if it bites you inside, act nonchalant. Let her know she has no control over you. If you play your cards right, who knows what follows? ;)

Bottomline...never let a girl know she can manipulate you. Always be prepared to walk away and never to grovel!

[Sexy Under]

Bottomline...never let a girl know she can manipulate you. Always be prepared to walk away and never to grovel!

That's the MAN! Respect a woman but not let her rule over you.