When your wife cheats on u...

[hellogirls]

I am just curious how bros out there feel? when u find out your wife cheats on u.

Tot i will be mad, but no. When she confessed to me, instead i felt pretty excited about it. I have a hardon, but too bad she did not want to go into details...:(

Will try to fish out more and share here....anyone interested?

[DreamOfLust]

1st to camp here... it will be difficult to dig the info but im sure you wanna know the details

[Golden Path]

How yr wife cheat on u? Scandal

[relic88]

well, it happened to me.... didnt want to lose her, end up got back together and she promised not to do it again.... recently she cheat on me again on the same guy. i choose to act blur as i really love her too much to leave her. bros out there might be thinking i have no backbone or the "pride" of a man. but trust me when it really happened to any individuals out there who love their wife as much as me, you might just do the same

[naturegreen]

well, it happened to me.... didnt want to lose her, end up got back together and she promised not to do it again.... recently she cheat on me again on the same guy. i choose to act blur as i really love her too much to leave her. bros out there might be thinking i have no backbone or the "pride" of a man. but trust me when it really happened to any individuals out there who love their wife as much as me, you might just do the same

Why not invite him for a threesome?

[dexster]

well, it happened to me.... didnt want to lose her, end up got back together and she promised not to do it again.... recently she cheat on me again on the same guy. i choose to act blur as i really love her too much to leave her. bros out there might be thinking i have no backbone or the "pride" of a man. but trust me when it really happened to any individuals out there who love their wife as much as me, you might just do the same

bro let it go la...she will keep cheating on u...u can tahan arh...

[blk437]

well, it happened to me.... didnt want to lose her, end up got back together and she promised not to do it again.... recently she cheat on me again on the same guy. i choose to act blur as i really love her too much to leave her. bros out there might be thinking i have no backbone or the "pride" of a man. but trust me when it really happened to any individuals out there who love their wife as much as me, you might just do the same


But i really agree with what u say. When it never happen, we can say we can let go... but when it really happen, it will be another story...

[G.T.O]

Generally.. I say generally...
Men will fall prey to an undeniably beautiful & sexy ONS chance or affair from seduction, coz Men has 2 heads.
It will probably take a 10-100 romps before he has feelings for this babe, feelings that can even trump that for the wife.

Attached women do not fall prey to temptation no matter how sexy, suave, eloquent, smooth talker temptation is at 1st attempt.
Of coz there're women out there with high drive who can ONS anytime. If not, it'll really take some effort for Mr Temptation to
work on her before he gets her on bed. By the time she lets him into her (1st insertion hor), u can be sure he has at least a
corner space of her heart le (unlike man...can fuck & forget name some more).

So they say... When women cheat, it's different.
Love is all binding and blinding. It conquers anything. If it's true love you have for a cheating wife, then it's true love
you have INDEED, even after reading this. To leave her or not, there's no right or wrong answer. It's your life with hers.
If she TRULY still love you, anything is possible, even taking Mr T. off her heart (after some time).

As for me, I really cannot imagine if my woman cheat on me. Really. Totally. Coz women see sex so differently from us men.
They enjoy sex in ways we cannot even imagine coz we're just not biologically wired like them.

My RMB wujiao worth...

[dianxin]

a leopard will never change its spot

[n30n]

Generally.. I say generally...
Men will fall prey to an undeniably beautiful & sexy ONS chance or affair from seduction, coz Men has 2 heads.
It will probably take a 10-100 romps before he has feelings for this babe, feelings that can even trump that for the wife.

Attached women do not fall prey to temptation no matter how sexy, suave, eloquent, smooth talker temptation is at 1st attempt.
Of coz there're women out there with high drive who can ONS anytime. If not, it'll really take some effort for Mr Temptation to
work on her before he gets her on bed. By the time she lets him into her (1st insertion hor), u can be sure he has at least a
corner space of her heart le (unlike man...can fuck & forget name some more).

So they say... When women cheat, it's different.
Love is all binding and blinding. It conquers anything. If it's true love you have for a cheating wife, then it's true love
you have INDEED, even after reading this. To leave her or not, there's no right or wrong answer. It's your life with hers.
If she TRULY still love you, anything is possible, even taking Mr T. off her heart (after some time).

As for me, I really cannot imagine if my woman cheat on me. Really. Totally. Coz women see sex so differently from us men.
They enjoy sex in ways we cannot even imagine coz we're just not biologically wired like them.

My RMB wujiao worth...

IMO:

Just like what the other thread is about cheating women, i guess there's has to be some push factors in the r/s with the husband that led her to be vulnerable to form bonds with other men. That guy would be in charge of fulfilling the missing dept in the husband-wife r/s. So even if the husband and wife patch back, in her lifestyle, that guy is still reinforced to be in charge of that "department".

The husband has to realise what is the missing part he is not fulfilling in her, and he has to work extra hard to recondition her lifestyle, so that she can fully trust the husband can provide that need. On her part, she need to work on giving chances to hubby, and receiving his aid to recondition her.

So even if that guy got a corner in her heart, it's not all too late!

[zunbo]

...leave her

[buhl]

didn't wanna believe it years ago when she left that it was cos of her affair with a much richer older man...not long after she packed up n left.
7yrs later (last year)...I stumbled upon the truth, felt numb, we've since gone our separate ways...didn't find it a turn on in anyway bro
Her cheating tore our family apart n I lost my son :(

[hilltower]

Easy to leave when you have no kids but if you have kids then you have to think of them and find some way to compromise....

[adzeman]

Please share. Thanks.

[hellogirls]

My wife was a little surprise when i was not angry. Instead i just smile at her, hiding my excitement, and told her if that is the case what she is going to do about it.

Guess she was not prepare for it, maybe she expected a fight or a scolding. She looked puzzled, kept silent, then she moved up and snuggled into my arms. My excitement grew...

She buried her face in my tummy, so near my crotch think she can feel my hardon. We didnt talk, just kept silent. Enjoying the closeness that has been lost a long time ago.

I could sensed she is crying, and i let her be, let her emos out, to be relieved. Its like time stood still for that moment.

[2centsworth]

Guess she was not prepare for it, maybe she expected a fight or a scolding. She looked puzzled, kept silent, then she moved up and snuggled into my arms. My excitement grew...

Perhaps she was waiting for you to start a fight, for you to give up hope on her and then she can use the fight as a reason to go over to the other guy. Having being scolded, she might feel less guilty about straying if she feels she has sort of been punished by being scolded, called names etc.

Your reaction might have puzzled her but is it a just temporary reprieve for the marriage? Is the reason why she strayed still there? If so, she might still leave you to be with the other man. So what's your future stand on this? It's ok for her to stray as long as she returns home at the end of the day? She might wish to build her future with the other man in mind.

[GentlemanPirate]

Generally.. I say generally...
Men will fall prey to an undeniably beautiful & sexy ONS chance or affair from seduction, coz Men has 2 heads.
It will probably take a 10-100 romps before he has feelings for this babe, feelings that can even trump that for the wife.

Attached women do not fall prey to temptation no matter how sexy, suave, eloquent, smooth talker temptation is at 1st attempt.
Of coz there're women out there with high drive who can ONS anytime. If not, it'll really take some effort for Mr Temptation to
work on her before he gets her on bed. By the time she lets him into her (1st insertion hor), u can be sure he has at least a
corner space of her heart le (unlike man...can fuck & forget name some more).

So they say... When women cheat, it's different.
Love is all binding and blinding. It conquers anything. If it's true love you have for a cheating wife, then it's true love
you have INDEED, even after reading this. To leave her or not, there's no right or wrong answer. It's your life with hers.
If she TRULY still love you, anything is possible, even taking Mr T. off her heart (after some time).

As for me, I really cannot imagine if my woman cheat on me. Really. Totally. Coz women see sex so differently from us men.
They enjoy sex in ways we cannot even imagine coz we're just not biologically wired like them.

My RMB wujiao worth...


I agree with u totally...... Well said....

[acidicavex]

Bro if you 2 still have that love in you do sort help. The saying goes when a married woman cheat it is not just a simple case of she is high sex or horny.
It is normally they have open their heart & open feeling out and it is being pinch off bit by bit like a sponge cake with the ants nibbling and carry away small pieces away.
Don't wait till by the time they have completely finish nibbling than you panic where is your favourite piece of sponge cake.

[Sancus]

My wife was a little surprise when i was not angry. Instead i just smile at her, hiding my excitement, and told her if that is the case what she is going to do about it.

Guess she was not prepare for it, maybe she expected a fight or a scolding. She looked puzzled, kept silent, then she moved up and snuggled into my arms. My excitement grew...

She buried her face in my tummy, so near my crotch think she can feel my hardon. We didnt talk, just kept silent. Enjoying the closeness that has been lost a long time ago.

I could sensed she is crying, and i let her be, let her emos out, to be relieved. Its like time stood still for that moment.

Thankfully, did not happen to my wife but I had a similar experience with my first gf. She was surprised that I was not livid and she also snuggled up to me. I then pretended to be slightly angry and pressed her for more details. As she let out the details bit by bit, I got more and more excited. Must say it was one of the best make-up sex I ever had. Really strange feeling though as I thought I would be fuming mad.

[hellogirls]

Thankfully, did not happen to my wife but I had a similar experience with my first gf. She was surprised that I was not livid and she also snuggled up to me. I then pretended to be slightly angry and pressed her for more details. As she let out the details bit by bit, I got more and more excited. Must say it was one of the best make-up sex I ever had. Really strange feeling though as I thought I would be fuming mad.

yaya, the best make-up sex ever! She gave me the best blow job of my life, insisted to make me CIM, open and show me, then swallow them. While i still was in the high, she went at my dick again.

This time it takes her a long while to make it hard, but she was insistent. Soon, she began to ride me when i was ready. And her moans and expression was such a whore, but it was very enjoyable.

I squeeze her breast hard and left marks but she was not angry. She bend down suck my nipples somemore. And i have never done 2 shots with her, and i was still hard as rock after a good 20mins.

Seeing me losing interest, she went on all fours and offer me to poke her ass, which i have always wanted....

[DreamOfLust]

yaya, the best make-up sex ever! She gave me the best blow job of my life, insisted to make me CIM, open and show me, then swallow them. While i still was in the high, she went at my dick again.

This time it takes her a long while to make it hard, but she was insistent. Soon, she began to ride me when i was ready. And her moans and expression was such a whore, but it was very enjoyable.

I squeeze her breast hard and left marks but she was not angry. She bend down suck my nipples somemore. And i have never done 2 shots with her, and i was still hard as rock after a good 20mins.

Seeing me losing interest, she went on all fours and offer me to poke her ass, which i have always wanted....

blessingS in disguise huh? :D

[water123]

Thats why she cheat in the first place? Cos u never really understand her sexual needs? U are not able to unleash her wild side, which she felt trap inside her, suffocating her...

[Presto6969]

Generally.. I say generally...
Men will fall prey to an undeniably beautiful & sexy ONS chance or affair from seduction, coz Men has 2 heads.
It will probably take a 10-100 romps before he has feelings for this babe, feelings that can even trump that for the wife.

Attached women do not fall prey to temptation no matter how sexy, suave, eloquent, smooth talker temptation is at 1st attempt.
Of coz there're women out there with high drive who can ONS anytime. If not, it'll really take some effort for Mr Temptation to
work on her before he gets her on bed. By the time she lets him into her (1st insertion hor), u can be sure he has at least a
corner space of her heart le (unlike man...can fuck & forget name some more).

So they say... When women cheat, it's different.
Love is all binding and blinding. It conquers anything. If it's true love you have for a cheating wife, then it's true love
you have INDEED, even after reading this. To leave her or not, there's no right or wrong answer. It's your life with hers.
If she TRULY still love you, anything is possible, even taking Mr T. off her heart (after some time).

As for me, I really cannot imagine if my woman cheat on me. Really. Totally. Coz women see sex so differently from us men.
They enjoy sex in ways we cannot even imagine coz we're just not biologically wired like them.

My RMB wujiao worth...

Very well said... ;)

[relic88]

i really admires bros out there that can just leave his wife when shits happened. many of times i tried doing that but still let the soft side of me take over.... i guess they were right when they say the hardest pain one can experience is attachments.

i seriously think the biggest problem is that when u are having sex with ur wife and you cant help thinking of the imagines of the other guy doing her. if bros out there can manage to overcome that barrier, nothing is impossible

[SiliconVibrator]

can forgive but u can nvr forget what she has done........ my opinion.

[GrieGzEters]

i really admires bros out there that can just leave his wife when shits happened. many of times i tried doing that but still let the soft side of me take over.... i guess they were right when they say the hardest pain one can experience is attachments.

i seriously think the biggest problem is that when u are having sex with ur wife and you cant help thinking of the imagines of the other guy doing her. if bros out there can manage to overcome that barrier, nothing is impossible

Bro, I think I kinda know how u are feeling when the soft of you take over. My ex gf always have the princess mindset but I always give in due to my soft side plus I love her alot( I know this is not related to TS topic ) Til one day I cannot take it anymore and end things with her, that is when I experience the hardest pain is to cut away the attachment.

For your second point, though I am not married yet, still I know that if I have having sex with my wife knowing she cheats, I would start thinking of the other guy doing her, I will go crazy. It could be the ego inside me acting up, thus making me feel lousy that I could not satisfies her needs and another guy is taking my place. I really salute to bros out there who can overcome it.

Just my 2 cents worth of thought...

[GrieGzEters]

Generally.. I say generally...
Men will fall prey to an undeniably beautiful & sexy ONS chance or affair from seduction, coz Men has 2 heads.
It will probably take a 10-100 romps before he has feelings for this babe, feelings that can even trump that for the wife.

Attached women do not fall prey to temptation no matter how sexy, suave, eloquent, smooth talker temptation is at 1st attempt.
Of coz there're women out there with high drive who can ONS anytime. If not, it'll really take some effort for Mr Temptation to
work on her before he gets her on bed. By the time she lets him into her (1st insertion hor), u can be sure he has at least a
corner space of her heart le (unlike man...can fuck & forget name some more).

So they say... When women cheat, it's different.
Love is all binding and blinding. It conquers anything. If it's true love you have for a cheating wife, then it's true love
you have INDEED, even after reading this. To leave her or not, there's no right or wrong answer. It's your life with hers.
If she TRULY still love you, anything is possible, even taking Mr T. off her heart (after some time).

As for me, I really cannot imagine if my woman cheat on me. Really. Totally. Coz women see sex so differently from us men.
They enjoy sex in ways we cannot even imagine coz we're just not biologically wired like them.

My RMB wujiao worth...

This is so true, perhaps that the reason why woman feel more gulity about cheating than guys. Afterall, they are more emotional.

Sometime, after reading so many threads in SBF, I kind of come to this conclusion, every man inner most desire is to seed as many women as possible and evey woman inner most desire is to get seed by as many men as possible (that why they behave like a whore when totally immerse in sex).

This is just my personal point of view, I apologise if any fellow samsters esp ladies samsters find it offensive.

[Headwindbro]

Come and stay in China, see a brand new world, pretty faces and plenty of choices.

But of cos...if she keep on doing that on you...maybe something wrong with you?


well, it happened to me.... didnt want to lose her, end up got back together and she promised not to do it again.... recently she cheat on me again on the same guy. i choose to act blur as i really love her too much to leave her. bros out there might be thinking i have no backbone or the "pride" of a man. but trust me when it really happened to any individuals out there who love their wife as much as me, you might just do the same

[water123]

Sometimes things happen for reason beyond our understanding. Therefore accepting and making the best of it. Nothing will change if no one is willing to change. Hang on to the stubborn and suffer alone. Or adapt and accept, no need to know every damn reason is key.

Ego or no ego does not make u a better man, or make her dont cheat. So just enjoy :D

[AC_Milan]

My wife was a little surprise when i was not angry. Instead i just smile at her, hiding my excitement, and told her if that is the case what she is going to do about it.




bro, can show her pic first before you carry on with your story ? :confused:

if she is a hippo then i better remove my tent immediately :rolleyes:

tks bro ;)

[RedOmega]

Bro, if you enjoy ts feedback on his telling us his problems do enjoy your stay. What has it gotta to do with how his wife figures is? Share your experiences and advises if have. Looks to you so important? Why so shallow! Better you remove your tent and leave. :confused:

[hellogirls]

Bro, if you enjoy ts feedback on his telling us his problems do enjoy your stay. What has it gotta to do with how his wife figures is? Share your experiences and advises if have. Looks to you so important? Why so shallow! Better you remove your tent and leave. :confused:

Very nice of u. TQ

bro, can show her pic first before you carry on with your story ? :confused:

if she is a hippo then i better remove my tent immediately :rolleyes:

tks bro ;)

Cannot show her pics lah. She has wholesome looks, not very pretty. Rounds eyes and a good 36b+. my fav is her butt, but no longer exclusive.

[Red_Wine]

bro, can show her pic first before you carry on with your story ? :confused:

if she is a hippo then i better remove my tent immediately :rolleyes:

tks bro ;)

What the hell u wana to see his wife's pic?? What motive u hv?!! U are just another bloody bastard! How abt look at yr own bloody face 1st in the mirror before u look at other pple's wife?

[relic88]

Come and stay in China, see a brand new world, pretty faces and plenty of choices.

But of cos...if she keep on doing that on you...maybe something wrong with you?

I wish i could just leave this place and start anew in a new country. Im just too busy with my work now and well, i guess i couldnt just leave and like like that.

Bro trust me there is nothing wrong with me, i think she is just bored of me and fall in love with another guy. This is actually common among married couples, some of my friends are trapped in the same situation as me. Althought one of them manage to man up and end his 4 years of marriage and i envy his determination.

[AC_Milan]

Bro, if you enjoy ts feedback on his telling us his problems do enjoy your stay. What has it gotta to do with how his wife figures is? Share your experiences and advises if have. Looks to you so important? Why so shallow! Better you remove your tent and leave. :confused:



Then what about you watching people's wife naked body, you not lau tiko and shallow meh :mad:

You worst than me, at least I'm a gentleman don't surf those thread watching at those naked body !!!!

Your tiko eye looking at people's wife thread is HERE (http://sammyboysexforum.com/showthread.php?p=7399525&highlight=#post7399525).

So now I asked you "Looks to you so important meh" ? :rolleyes:

If looks not so important then why the fuck you looked at someone wife's naked body for fuck ???

Somemore you left a tiko comment there, said "slurp" HERE (http://sammyboysexforum.com/showpost.php?p=7399525&postcount=918).

You lau tiko "RedOmega" kiam kan you, can't even behave yourself & control your tiko urge yet still have the guts to criticize me, look at yourrself first before you criticise others, kay poh kiam kan !!! :mad:

[AC_Milan]

What the hell u wana to see his wife's pic?? What motive u hv?!! U are just another bloody bastard! How abt look at yr own bloody face 1st in the mirror before u look at other pple's wife?


eee........you balless computer warrior, always jump into the fight when someone start criticize me then you quickly join in the fight :rolleyes:

to spar with me one on one you no balls wan, eeeeeee...........balless Red_Wine always waiting sideline to pick my balls :D

eeeeeeeeeee.........bo lam p.... :D

[Red_Wine]

eee........you balless computer warrior, always jump into the fight when someone start criticize me then you quickly join in the fight :rolleyes:

to spar with me one on one you no balls wan, eeeeeee...........balless Red_Wine always waiting sideline to pick my balls :D

eeeeeeeeeee.........bo lam p.... :D

Lol, me comp warrior? Then how abt u? Then leave down yr contact nos to me & i contact u then see whether howbig are yr balls? How?

[hellogirls]

For many years i have known she is a serial cheater, even when we are dating. She cheated with me on a casual dinner meeting, when she was dating her ex bf, who is macho, good looking, well off. Funny, i look like a nerb, oversize type. That was a hot hot occasion by itself. Totally unexpected.

I got hooked on her blowjob, cos her lips are sensual and thick, and she likes to give head and swallow. After the ex left her, she cling onto me. I knew she was looking for a better choice while using me. Well, to me its better than nothing, so i didnt mind.

We are being known as a couple, and joined others in outings and functions. There was once when we went to a dancing club and she disappeared. Couldnt find her anywhere so i went looking. And not to my surprise, she was with one of the guy in our group, at the back stairways. I did not make my presence known, instead watch as she give him head. I was excited watching the actions. Finally she makes him cum but she kept sucking him till he pushes her away. He cant get hard again to continue the fuck job and end up has to finger her.

Could tell she was annoyed from the body language. So i realised the main reason she likes about me. I could stay hard after cumming.I could stay hard and fucked her till she has multiple orgasms, which i think most guys cannot provide so she kept hanging on me. :)

I like being with her. I like her smiles. Her very tendering manners. Never to expect she is doing all this. Well, i am addicted to her mouth, and she is to my stamina. So we end up getting married.

[colorwolf888]

Bro u don't need to feel bad about why u married that slut, who doesn't marry his wife if not for the hot sex ahah.. Most guys r just like u n u need not be paranoid n feel bad that u cannot resist the slut who is your wife :D

[RedOmega]

Haha... That's all you can muster? Dont need type so much! Words dont hurt me. You can comment all you want behind the comp. I do what I do. I tiko i admit. That what this forum is all about. I don't deny! I dont come here and act all holy want to see bros wife pics and even must your class standard? Respect others for others to respect you. You not tiko? Want to talk big, we can meet pm me if you want. I meet you and we can trash it out. Gentleman to gentleman.
Anyway, I won't be going into a pointless charade with you and reply to your next comment if any. I believe you will.
If you are man enough Pm me!


Then what about you watching people's wife naked body, you not lau tiko and shallow meh :mad:

You worst than me, at least I'm a gentleman don't surf those thread watching at those naked body !!!!

Your tiko eye looking at people's wife thread is HERE (http://sammyboysexforum.com/showthread.php?p=7399525&highlight=#post7399525).

So now I asked you "Looks to you so important meh" ? :rolleyes:

If looks not so important then why the fuck you looked at someone wife's naked body for fuck ???

Somemore you left a tiko comment there, said "slurp" HERE (http://sammyboysexforum.com/showpost.php?p=7399525&postcount=918).

You lau tiko "RedOmega" kiam kan you, can't even behave yourself & control your tiko urge yet still have the guts to criticize me, look at yourrself first before you criticise others, kay poh kiam kan !!! :mad:

[Red_Wine]

Bro, just ignore this kind of person. I doubt he got the ball to meet up. He is just another lonely soul who looking for attention. He is very sick. Pardon him. If he not tiko & he is so holy, every night came bk from work & surf sbf for what? Lol.

Haha... That's all you can muster? Dont need type so much! Words dont hurt me. You can comment all you want behind the comp. I do what I do. I tiko i admit. That what this forum is all about. I don't deny! I dont come here and act all holy want to see bros wife pics and even must your class standard? Respect others for others to respect you. You not tiko? Want to talk big, we can meet pm me if you want. I meet you and we can trash it out. Gentleman to gentleman.
Anyway, I won't be going into a pointless charade with you and reply to your next comment if any. I believe you will.
If you are man enough Pm me!

[callmebad]

you addicted to her mouth and she addicted to your stamina and yet she still cheat?

she must have a very high sexual appetite!

[AC_Milan]

Haha... That's all you can muster? Dont need type so much! Words dont hurt me. You can comment all you want behind the comp. I do what I do. I tiko i admit. That what this forum is all about. I don't deny! I dont come here and act all holy want to see bros wife pics and even must your class standard? Respect others for others to respect you. You not tiko? Want to talk big, we can meet pm me if you want. I meet you and we can trash it out. Gentleman to gentleman.
If you are man enough Pm me!

Bro, if you enjoy ts feedback on his telling us his problems do enjoy your stay. What has it gotta to do with how his wife figures is? Share your experiences and advises if have. Looks to you so important? Why so shallow! Better you remove your tent and leave.


Then what about you watching people's wife naked body, you not lau tiko and shallow meh :mad:

You worst than me, at least I'm a gentleman don't surf those thread watching at those naked body !!!!

Your tiko eye looking at people's wife thread is HERE (http://sammyboysexforum.com/showthread.php?p=7399525&highlight=#post7399525).

So now I asked you "Looks to you so important meh" ?

If looks not so important then why the fuck you looked at someone wife's naked body for fuck ???

Somemore you left a tiko comment there, said "slurp" HERE (http://sammyboysexforum.com/showpost.php?p=7399525&postcount=918).

You lau tiko "RedOmega" kiam kan you, can't even behave yourself & control your tiko urge yet still have the guts to criticize me, look at yourrself first before you criticise others, kay poh kiam kan !!! :mad:


My intention to shame lau tiko like you to let all the bros know how shameful you are :D

So the story is mind your own fucking business first before you criticise me :mad:

Wah seh, you can criticise me i cannot criticise you arh, buay song now, talk pai kia now huh, PM me then we shall see who is stronger, make sure you don't give a fake number !!!

[AC_Milan]

Lol, me comp warrior? Then how abt u? Then leave down yr contact nos to me & i contact u then see whether howbig are yr balls? How?

eee.........you balless eee.............everytime join in the fight when someone criticise me, you need more balls to support you then you dare to talk to me eeee...........................never see you spar with me one by one eeeee..........:rolleyes:


cantonese say : mo lan chak yong :D

[AC_Milan]

Bro, just ignore this kind of person. I doubt he got the ball to meet up. He is just another lonely soul who looking for attention. He is very sick. Pardon him. If he not tiko & he is so holy, every night came bk from work & surf sbf for what? Lol.


eee.......clone king, how many clones do you have huh eee..........? :rolleyes:

use your own nick lah, your own nick also dare not use yet you still want to criticise people hiding behind computer, now who is the one actually hiding :rolleyes:


i don't seek attention unlike you, eee........talk cock sing song eee...........:rolleyes:

[hellogirls]

you addicted to her mouth and she addicted to your stamina and yet she still cheat?

she must have a very high sexual appetite!

High sex drive, yes. But she has the emotional satisfaction of cheating even though she still is unable to find the one who can truely rule over her. And along the way she may have discover the thrill of pure animal sex hunting like many bros here.

Thats why she always comes home, lol and suck my dick before i pound her hard again and again.

I have always known she has been cheating, even she does not realize that i knew. I am excited after she got fucked and came home high and unsatisfied. She will give me the best sex money cannot buy. She now even allow me to fuck her butt hole, and its fast becoming sm sessions....

[2centsworth]

And now we know.

When your wife cheats on u... the husband is so happy that he comes to the forum to write a story.

Unexpected twist. :p

[Red_Wine]

eee.........you balless eee.............everytime join in the fight when someone criticise me, you need more balls to support you then you dare to talk to me eeee...........................never see you spar with me one by one eeeee..........:rolleyes:



cantonese say : mo lan chak yong :D


Spar with u one to one? U another Steven Lim? Hahaha

[hunter2005]

well, it happened to me.... didnt want to lose her, end up got back together and she promised not to do it again.... recently she cheat on me again on the same guy. i choose to act blur as i really love her too much to leave her. bros out there might be thinking i have no backbone or the "pride" of a man. but trust me when it really happened to any individuals out there who love their wife as much as me, you might just do the same

bro, feel sad hearing this.. to be frank if i have concrete evident saying that this happen, most likely i will get a div... but like what many other bros say, when thing never happen, is easy say than done.

i know myself, one thing for sure, i will never forget what she did with the other guy or or even guysssss.. instead of letting my thoughs torturing me for the rest of my life i might summon up the courage to leave her n move on with my life. i will jus accept it n move on cause i myself sometime also fuck ard, eat outside so what right i have to fight with her, scold her, call her slut etc...

this society is sick n beyond cure... everyone is jus fucking around behind each other back... jus to see who can hide it better, spot faster... haiz.... :(

guy just for lust... fuck release n go, for gal different.. emotionally attach but that doesnt give man a gd reason to fuck ard.. :cool:

[relic88]

Bro, you are so damn right. I myself fk ard outside also. Which is why i am not mad at her, and instead im just feeling shitty. Im glad ive receive lots of good advises coming from more experienced bros out there... And ill bear in mind all the kind advises. Right now, Im genuinely thinking about getting a div. But i dont know where to start with her ( as she doesnt know that i knew she is fooling around again).

Word of advise to bros out there, if you are in the same situation as myself. Dont lie to yourself. If a girl cheats you once, there will be twice, and so on... Never drag a problem or run away from it, and prolong the pain for yourself. Its always right to be self-fish than self-less. Love yourself more.




bro, feel sad hearing this.. to be frank if i have concrete evident saying that this happen, most likely i will get a div... but like what many other bros say, when thing never happen, is easy say than done.

i know myself, one thing for sure, i will never forget what she did with the other guy or or even guysssss.. instead of letting my thoughs torturing me for the rest of my life i might summon up the courage to leave her n move on with my life. i will jus accept it n move on cause i myself sometime also fuck ard, eat outside so what right i have to fight with her, scold her, call her slut etc...

this society is sick n beyond cure... everyone is jus fucking around behind each other back... jus to see who can hide it better, spot faster... haiz.... :(

guy just for lust... fuck release n go, for gal different.. emotionally attach but that doesnt give man a gd reason to fuck ard.. :cool:

[callmebad]

I'm a divorcee, I initiated it because I didn't see the point of hanging on anymore, it is not due to 3rd party.

For your case, both are cheating on each other, should you choose to go separate ways, try to talk things calmly over, no more blaming who is right or wrong, and see if you can have a friendly breakup

For my case, was easy, my marriage was short, no kids, breakup was easy. But the sad thing, she still wanted to squeeze as much as she can out of me before she left.

Really hate it, that damn Women Charter (just like a sword hanging over every guy's head) , gives women the license to bankrupt the men who make the wrong decision to marry someone.

For your case, since she cheated on you and if she demanded a lot from the divorce settlement, try to get some evidence of her cheating, so you can try to plead with the judge for a 'smaller damage' using these evidences. Discuss with your lawyer about this.

Things really get nasty, messy and ugly when man and woman fall out with each other.

Really if you're rich, better to have those pre-nuptial agreement to control any future financial damage.

[n30n]

Bro, you are so damn right. I myself fk ard outside also. Which is why i am not mad at her, and instead im just feeling shitty. Im glad ive receive lots of good advises coming from more experienced bros out there... And ill bear in mind all the kind advises. Right now, Im genuinely thinking about getting a div. But i dont know where to start with her ( as she doesnt know that i knew she is fooling around again).

Word of advise to bros out there, if you are in the same situation as myself. Dont lie to yourself. If a girl cheats you once, there will be twice, and so on... Never drag a problem or run away from it, and prolong the pain for yourself. Its always right to be self-fish than self-less. Love yourself more.

Isn't this double standard?

You cheat on her, then she won't feel shitty also?
Then now she cheat on you, u want to call breakup.

Now you two on equal footing, as well HTH discuss what you two really want.
An open option marriage, or you two want to work on something further, or just part ways...

[hellogirls]

And now we know.

When your wife cheats on u... the husband is so happy that he comes to the forum to write a story.

Unexpected twist. :p

I dont fuck around outside. Yes she do fuck with another guy, but not any guy. I feel excited knowing someone lust over her again and again. At the same time, he make her someone i can enjoy better, especially now she always let me cim once, fuck her cunt shoot inside, fuck her ass cum inside, then she still offers to rub me to sleep. So good. :)

[water123]

http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=283190

Read here, mayb u can join tat club :)

[wtwtwt]

She hope that you will forgive her.. so she willing to satisfy things that you want to do on her... Feel bad for the betray, feel good for you to get a new sex life...

[hellogirls]

Nothing to feel bad about anymore. She will not change because i m upset. Now i am into swinging, since she likes to be fuck by another man, i might as well fuck the other man's wife.

[analog]

Nothing to feel bad about anymore. She will not change because i m upset. Now i am into swinging, since she likes to be fuck by another man, i might as well fuck the other man's wife.
Hey Bro Hello Girls:

I think you've made the best of things here and if it works for you, go for it. Swinging could work for you as a couple so that is great!

All the best bro.

Cheers,
jim

[sulphur]

Nothing to feel bad about anymore. She will not change because i m upset. Now i am into swinging, since she likes to be fuck by another man, i might as well fuck the other man's wife.

Yeah I believe swinging is a healthier choice for you guys. At least it is not cheating but a joint activity.

I always believe there are two main emotions in wives being laid by other guys. One is jealousy and loss of exclusivity which lead to anger. Another one is proud that wife is attracting the world and kinky feeling which leads to harddoooons.

Do what your emotions tell you. Make the best out of it. If your kinkyness and pride for your wife outweighs your jealousy, go for the swings.

[jameschong1]

[QUOTE=callmebad;7433134]
Really hate it, that damn Women Charter (just like a sword hanging over every guy's head) , gives women the license to bankrupt the men who make the wrong decision to marry someone.
==========
stop blaming the WC! U are the one who cheat in the 1st place, commit
adulty, go against any religion, any woman including a prostitute wife will punish u. stop blaming the WC.
dare to tao chiak, be brave to admit your mistake & accept punishment.

[hellogirls]

Isn't this double standard?

You cheat on her, then she won't feel shitty also?
Then now she cheat on you, u want to call breakup.

Now you two on equal footing, as well HTH discuss what you two really want.
An open option marriage, or you two want to work on something further, or just part ways...

The double standard is the Women's Charter

[BigInStone]

bro,she cheated on u twice.tats like giving u a slap on the face....and u can have a hardon after she cockulded u TWICE???

either u are into hot wifeing or u seriuosly enjoy being cockulded....watever it is,i suggest u record it down and keep the vids.

u never noe when u need the vids in court when she finally dump u for the other man...

[hellogirls]

I dont mind she dump me la. Wat choice do i have? Enjoy while i can.

[freefuck]

I think it common that many wife cheat behind her husband. Few year ago, I know a girl who is a FL and later became FB. We meet once a while now and then. Last year, she got marriage. Barely a week later, she ask to meet me coz the hushand cannot satify her needs, and also my help to release the stress during marriage ceremony. Now on pregnancy, and want to meet me after she deliver her bady..

[GP123]

Most women cheat, esp those who drinks n party. For sure they did. Else how did I bang so many lol

[stone08]

For many years i have known she is a serial cheater, even when we are dating. She cheated with me on a casual dinner meeting, when she was dating her ex bf, who is macho, good looking, well off. Funny, i look like a nerb, oversize type. That was a hot hot occasion by itself. Totally unexpected.

I got hooked on her blowjob, cos her lips are sensual and thick, and she likes to give head and swallow. After the ex left her, she cling onto me. I knew she was looking for a better choice while using me. Well, to me its better than nothing, so i didnt mind.

We are being known as a couple, and joined others in outings and functions. There was once when we went to a dancing club and she disappeared. Couldnt find her anywhere so i went looking. And not to my surprise, she was with one of the guy in our group, at the back stairways. I did not make my presence known, instead watch as she give him head. I was excited watching the actions. Finally she makes him cum but she kept sucking him till he pushes her away. He cant get hard again to continue the fuck job and end up has to finger her.

Could tell she was annoyed from the body language. So i realised the main reason she likes about me. I could stay hard after cumming.I could stay hard and fucked her till she has multiple orgasms, which i think most guys cannot provide so she kept hanging on me. :)

I like being with her. I like her smiles. Her very tendering manners. Never to expect she is doing all this. Well, i am addicted to her mouth, and she is to my stamina. So we end up getting married.

Bro, can give tips on your endurance? Alot
Of men can't take the pain after ejeculayion to continue...

[littlepok]

[QUOTE=callmebad;7433134]
Really hate it, that damn Women Charter (just like a sword hanging over every guy's head) , gives women the license to bankrupt the men who make the wrong decision to marry someone.
==========
stop blaming the WC! U are the one who cheat in the 1st place, commit
adulty, go against any religion, any woman including a prostitute wife will punish u. stop blaming the WC.
dare to tao chiak, be brave to admit your mistake & accept punishment.

haha seems like a public enemy. if u so holy what u doing here?

sometimes i wonder how big a man's ego is. screw outside is fine, wife tio screw outside is sky drop type of big thing.i must admit one is to ease off, another is finding love through sex.

women usually got 1001 reason/excuse to justify why they got another guy outside (99% blaming on the husband), saying they cause it direct/indirectly. actually is just loads of bull.

btw as mentioned by another bro on pre-nup agreement, it is not valid in singapore i think. any lawyers care to comment on that?

cheating wives are a man's greatest nightmare, good luck to other bros and hope will never kanna it. on the other hand, reciprocate and appreciate your wife/gf more. usually u bonk outside (safely), when u see them u will treat them much better. good for relationship and no pressure over low sex drive partners. what a wonderful job sammyboy is doing to families out there!

[stone08]

We got to allow pre-nups in sinkapore...if not double whammy when a wife cheats on you..
Cuckolded + financial ruin
Of cuz the second pt doesn't apply if you are rich..

[fictionman]

I dont fuck around outside. Yes she do fuck with another guy, but not any guy. I feel excited knowing someone lust over her again and again. At the same time, he make her someone i can enjoy better, especially now she always let me cim once, fuck her cunt shoot inside, fuck her ass cum inside, then she still offers to rub me to sleep. So good. :)[/QUOTE]

I don't knw to laugh or cry by yr attitude....

[hellogirls]

I dont fuck around outside. Yes she do fuck with another guy, but not any guy. I feel excited knowing someone lust over her again and again. At the same time, he make her someone i can enjoy better, especially now she always let me cim once, fuck her cunt shoot inside, fuck her ass cum inside, then she still offers to rub me to sleep. So good. :)

I don't knw to laugh or cry by yr attitude....[/QUOTE]

u can either laugh or cry. Who cares the fuck what u think abt my attitude. Now i get to fuck my wife good good after she had her fun, and also occasionally that MAN's wife, both her cunt and ass. Ha, that man did even knew that when i bring her out one on one.

[fictionman]

u can either laugh or cry. Who cares the fuck what u think abt my attitude. Now i get to fuck my wife good good after she had her fun, and also occasionally that MAN's wife, both her cunt and ass. Ha, that man did even knew that when i bring her out one on one.[/QUOTE]

But now I'm not laughin or cryin but confuse bro...

U say u dont fcuk ard outside but u say this..."and also occasionally that MAN's wife, both her cunt and ass"...???

[BigInStone]

pre-nup is invalid in sgp no matter where in the world its signed.period.

and if the legal proceedings are executed in sgp,u can be damn sure WC will kick in.

so to protect urself frm financial ruin,make damn sure u have no assets in sgp...and if u have,liquidate it and stash it somewhere where she cannot get her hands on it.if she and the courts dun noe abt it,u dun have to share it.

always always get the dirt on her.videos are the best.

last but not least,do not allow her to execute the divorce in sgp,u lost the moment u comply with sgp's court order to appear in court...thats where they can impound ur passport(if u are a flight risk)and do the necessary legal actions to get a hold on all of ur assets.

jus remb sgp courts do not comply with the laws of other countries,jus like other countries do not give a damn abt sgp laws.so as long u are not in the country and u have not committed crimminal offence,there is no reason for the sgp courts to demand other country to extradite u....

why else do u think ang mohs who beat up taxi uncles to hospital can get away with mocking sgp courts?

[analog]

Bro Hellogirls:

The only thing you have to worry about is STDs....which of course, condoms don't really protect you from.

If youplan to carry on this lifestyle with your lady, you'll have to be check regularly.

She should be having a pap smear every 3-6 months to check for HPV and chlamidya. Cmlamidya is treatable with antibiotics, HPV is not. HPV is gross to you bro, warts and all, but to her it could be deadly, it causes cervical cancer.

Cheers,
jim

[GP123]

u can either laugh or cry. Who cares the fuck what u think abt my attitude. Now i get to fuck my wife good good after she had her fun, and also occasionally that MAN's wife, both her cunt and ass. Ha, that man did even knew that when i bring her out one on one.

But now I'm not laughin or cryin but confuse bro...

U say u dont fcuk ard outside but u say this..."and also occasionally that MAN's wife, both her cunt and ass"...???[/QUOTE]

Well, he only fuck tat man wife in return la bro. I think he adapt to the situation , else wat u expect from him, get upset and kill himself? can't u see it's double payback? Wah Lao.

[hellogirls]

u can either laugh or cry. Who cares the fuck what u think abt my attitude. Now i get to fuck my wife good good after she had her fun, and also occasionally that MAN's wife, both her cunt and ass. Ha, that man did even knew that when i bring her out one on one.

But now I'm not laughin or cryin but confuse bro...

U say u dont fcuk ard outside but u say this..."and also occasionally that MAN's wife, both her cunt and ass"...???[/QUOTE]

Bro Hellogirls:

The only thing you have to worry about is STDs....which of course, condoms don't really protect you from.

If youplan to carry on this lifestyle with your lady, you'll have to be check regularly.

She should be having a pap smear every 3-6 months to check for HPV and chlamidya. Cmlamidya is treatable with antibiotics, HPV is not. HPV is gross to you bro, warts and all, but to her it could be deadly, it causes cervical cancer.

Cheers,
jim

Bro wat is hpv? But if I get it then damn sway loh. If she get, then mayb karma. Lol

[jackass347]

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hpv

Human papillomavirus (HPV) is a virus from the papillomavirus family that is capable of infecting humans. Like all papillomaviruses, HPVs establish productive infections only in keratinocytes of the skin or mucous membranes. While the majority of the known types of HPV cause no symptoms in most people, some types can cause warts (verrucae), while others can – in a minority of cases – lead to cancers of the cervix, vulva, vagina, penis, oropharynx and anus.[1] Recently, HPV has been linked with an increased risk of cardiovascular disease.[2] In addition, HPV 16 and 18 infections are strongly associated with an increased odds ratio of developing oropharyngeal (throat) cancer.[3]
More than 30 to 40 types of HPV are typically transmitted through sexual contact and infect the anogenital region. Some sexually transmitted HPV types may cause genital warts. Persistent infection with "high-risk" HPV types — different from the ones that cause skin warts — may progress to precancerous lesions and invasive cancer.[4] HPV infection is a cause of nearly all cases of cervical cancer.[5] However, most infections with these types do not cause disease.
Most HPV infections in young females are temporary and have little long-term significance. Seventy percent of infections are gone in 1 year and ninety percent in 2 years.[6] However, when the infection persists — in 5% to 10% of infected women — there is high risk of developing precancerous lesions of the cervix, which can progress to invasive cervical cancer. This process usually takes 10–15 years, providing many opportunities for detection and treatment of the pre-cancerous lesion. Progression to invasive cancer can be almost always prevented when standard prevention strategies are applied, but the lesions still cause considerable burden necessitating preventive surgeries, which do in many cases involve loss of fertility.

[hellogirls]

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hpv

Human papillomavirus (HPV) is a virus from the papillomavirus family that is capable of infecting humans. Like all papillomaviruses, HPVs establish productive infections only in keratinocytes of the skin or mucous membranes. While the majority of the known types of HPV cause no symptoms in most people, some types can cause warts (verrucae), while others can – in a minority of cases – lead to cancers of the cervix, vulva, vagina, penis, oropharynx and anus.[1] Recently, HPV has been linked with an increased risk of cardiovascular disease.[2] In addition, HPV 16 and 18 infections are strongly associated with an increased odds ratio of developing oropharyngeal (throat) cancer.[3]
More than 30 to 40 types of HPV are typically transmitted through sexual contact and infect the anogenital region. Some sexually transmitted HPV types may cause genital warts. Persistent infection with "high-risk" HPV types — different from the ones that cause skin warts — may progress to precancerous lesions and invasive cancer.[4] HPV infection is a cause of nearly all cases of cervical cancer.[5] However, most infections with these types do not cause disease.
Most HPV infections in young females are temporary and have little long-term significance. Seventy percent of infections are gone in 1 year and ninety percent in 2 years.[6] However, when the infection persists — in 5% to 10% of infected women — there is high risk of developing precancerous lesions of the cervix, which can progress to invasive cervical cancer. This process usually takes 10–15 years, providing many opportunities for detection and treatment of the pre-cancerous lesion. Progression to invasive cancer can be almost always prevented when standard prevention strategies are applied, but the lesions still cause considerable burden necessitating preventive surgeries, which do in many cases involve loss of fertility.

Thanks. Wat abt Herpes? Can u still hv sex with that female if she carries it?

[fictionman]

Thanks. Wat abt Herpes? Can u still hv sex with that female if she carries it?[/QUOTE]

Bro...Why don't confront yr wife & ask her to end her sexcapades wz others & I hope both yr lives will be healthier & safer fm any disease...As a fellow bro, I hope you guys sort it out peacefully....

[hellogirls]

Thanks. Wat abt Herpes? Can u still hv sex with that female if she carries it?

Bro...Why don't confront yr wife & ask her to end her sexcapades wz others & I hope both yr lives will be healthier & safer fm any disease...As a fellow bro, I hope you guys sort it out peacefully....[/QUOTE]

lol, confrontation and sorting out works?

[fictionman]

Bro...Why don't confront yr wife & ask her to end her sexcapades wz others & I hope both yr lives will be healthier & safer fm any disease...As a fellow bro, I hope you guys sort it out peacefully....

lol, confrontation and sorting out works?[/QUOTE]

Then I give up bro...Since u like yr wife to be fcuk by others, then it's yr choice...But I do sincerely wish u well in yr future...Take good care of yrself bro...I'm outta here

[forumer]

Just curious, in Singapore if a married couple divorces due to the wife cheating, does the husband still have to pay maintenance? Split his assets?

[hellogirls]

lol, confrontation and sorting out works?

Then I give up bro...Since u like yr wife to be fcuk by others, then it's yr choice...But I do sincerely wish u well in yr future...Take good care of yrself bro...I'm outta here

Ya la, if have choice i also dont want. Wat to do? Married a slut, lol. Now his wife seems to like my dick more, think i outlast him much longer. So too is my wife. His daughter has also behave adnormally when i bump into her.

[analog]

Thanks. Wat abt Herpes? Can u still hv sex with that female if she carries it?

Whatever she gets, she'll give it to you bro!

this is the problwm with all this group sex stuff...i mean its damn erotic and all that but, there is no free lunch, you ALWAYS pay.

There is no such thing as safe sex.
Most stuff on Youtube is crap, especially the 'pro-choice' stuff. You follow their advice you'll get AIDS.
Google this:
condomreport.pdf

You'll get a summary of a confernece from the National Institute of health in the USA, this is the REAL info.
Its dry reading (science is always dry reading) but all facts, no opinions, just facts.

Condoms protect you from HIV with 85% effectiveness....like palying russian roulette with a single bullet in a six shooter, same odds.

6-7 other STDs are covered. Your wife can give them all to you and, she could die. HPV is an inconvienient pain for men, for women it can lead to cervical cancer. HSV1, HSV2, etc...yuk!

You need to talk to her.

Cheers,
jim

[water123]

Whatever she gets, she'll give it to you bro!

this is the problwm with all this group sex stuff...i mean its damn erotic and all that but, there is no free lunch, you ALWAYS pay.

There is no such thing as safe sex.
Most stuff on Youtube is crap, especially the 'pro-choice' stuff. You follow their advice you'll get AIDS.
Google this:
condomreport.pdf

You'll get a summary of a confernece from the National Institute of health in the USA, this is the REAL info.
Its dry reading (science is always dry reading) but all facts, no opinions, just facts.

Condoms protect you from HIV with 85% effectiveness....like palying russian roulette with a single bullet in a six shooter, same odds.

6-7 other STDs are covered. Your wife can give them all to you and, she could die. HPV is an inconvienient pain for men, for women it can lead to cervical cancer. HSV1, HSV2, etc...yuk!

You need to talk to her.

Cheers,
jim

Talking to her is aldy useless. LOL. What matters most is not whether she dies or i dies. Its aldy a dead situation. Anyway, having sex with her seem to be my obligations, so she said, as long as we stay married. And nothing wrong to her bf as she is also fullfilling her wife duties...LOL

[chnhubby71]

In the open society, most couple are open up to talk when a marriage do not seem to go on the right track at times and hope it can savage the relationship.

To some, they are more open to accept than condemn the action of someone whom they really love each others.

There is a good and bad opinion on this matter but that subject to the feeling and acceptance level on the party involved.

As per my opinion, if you can accept your wife to have a relationship with someone prove you really love her and wanted to see her enjoy what she is doing as long as she is willing to tell you the truth of what is happen rather than a lie.

This can be proven your sex life had been improving when she talk about how she enjoy and have fun with the other party.

Even with more chatting and sharing, you might become one of the swinger in here to share your wife with others in times to come.

Wish you good luck.

[hellogirls]

Well, seem like many bros share same problem with me. See how la. I dont like to be a swinger actually. I only enjoy fucking that man's wife in return, now i have just fucked his daughter, felt great to do a double on him, lol.

[axxo]

you seem like a candidate for gay. it's weak behaviour to accept another man's dick to penetrate your wife's hole. you should be fucking ashamed of yourself as a man.

In the open society, most couple are open up to talk when a marriage do not seem to go on the right track at times and hope it can savage the relationship.

To some, they are more open to accept than condemn the action of someone whom they really love each others.

There is a good and bad opinion on this matter but that subject to the feeling and acceptance level on the party involved.

As per my opinion, if you can accept your wife to have a relationship with someone prove you really love her and wanted to see her enjoy what she is doing as long as she is willing to tell you the truth of what is happen rather than a lie.

This can be proven your sex life had been improving when she talk about how she enjoy and have fun with the other party.

Even with more chatting and sharing, you might become one of the swinger in here to share your wife with others in times to come.

Wish you good luck.

[uxorious]

Just curious, in Singapore if a married couple divorces due to the wife cheating, does the husband still have to pay maintenance? Split his assets?

Yes. But if you know who that guy is the court can ma.ke him pay you damages and costs