Worried after an ONS incident!

[hotty]

few days back i had an ONS w a gal from pub, and something serious happened!. i m so stupid!.. DRUNK!


we had intercourse for abt 30 mins... we were so into it and... i cant even feel that my comdom is torn, i did cum inside her pussy too. tot my condom on !!!, i m so afraid i might get HIV from her.
i was told from my friend, that gal slept w most of the guys in that pub b4... i m in big trouble now!. wad shld i do now?. anyway i m currently 23m, which clinic should i go for checkup?. i m so paiseh and afraid to face all this trouble.. REGRET. i dun think i will do it again!.

bros pls advise wad shld i do now.
argh!...

[asdfghjkl]

wait for one month then go for checkup..

[wubai]

few days back i had an ONS w a gal from pub, and something serious happened!. i m so stupid!.. DRUNK!


we had intercourse for abt 30 mins... we were so into it and... i cant even feel that my comdom is torn, i did cum inside her pussy too. tot my condom on !!!, i m so afraid i might get HIV from her.
i was told from my friend, that gal slept w most of the guys in that pub b4... i m in big trouble now!. wad shld i do now?. anyway i m currently 23m, which clinic should i go for checkup?. i m so paiseh and afraid to face all this trouble.. REGRET. i dun think i will do it again!.

bros pls advise wad shld i do now.
argh!...

btw which pub did u went to?wat's d name of the gal?

[tittyhawk]

Most common STDs have an incubation period ranging from few days to months. HIV being the longest to detect.

If after the intercourse, and you didnt see any miscomfort on your didi, go for generalized STD checkup which is available at most GP.

For a more thorough checkup, must visit the CDC liao.... :)

[bongster]

Read my signature!!!

[nickwch]

few days back i had an ONS w a gal from pub, and something serious happened!. i m so stupid!.. DRUNK!


we had intercourse for abt 30 mins... we were so into it and... i cant even feel that my comdom is torn, i did cum inside her pussy too. tot my condom on !!!, i m so afraid i might get HIV from her.
i was told from my friend, that gal slept w most of the guys in that pub b4... i m in big trouble now!. wad shld i do now?. anyway i m currently 23m, which clinic should i go for checkup?. i m so paiseh and afraid to face all this trouble.. REGRET. i dun think i will do it again!.

bros pls advise wad shld i do now.
argh!...

Now nothing much u could do now but to wait n go for a test. Test shd include HIV as well as the standard STD tests...cos STD if untreated will lead to serious problem later...so dun only focus on HIV...infact...for one time exposure..chances of getting HIV is lower than STD...Dun worry too much (I know might not be easy)..but really...only thing now u can do is wait n be tested. Gd Luck.

[yojimbo]

hello there
what has happened has happened, now what you can do is to hope that all turns out well.
HIV can be detected only after 3 months, so perhaps u shd visit the DSC clinic 3 months later. meanwhile check for any physical changes in ur genitals, and of course, try not to worry too much

[ayako]

Chances of getting HIV are actually quite low. Actually the chances of the girl getting HIV and diseases from you is higher. Are you clean by the way? If you get HIV, then next few days may get flu like sickness. Better see a doctor to get some relief. 6 months later go to DSC Clinic for HIV testing. Next time buy better quality condom, then you won't have to wait 6 months for a stupid test to confirm you don't have HIV.

[nickwch]

Chances of getting HIV are actually quite low. Actually the chances of the girl getting HIV and diseases from you is higher. Are you clean by the way? If you get HIV, then next few days may get flu like sickness. Better see a doctor to get some relief. 6 months later go to DSC Clinic for HIV testing. Next time buy better quality condom, then you won't have to wait 6 months for a stupid test to confirm you don't have HIV.

3 mths shd do...most overseas website already using 3 mths as the guideline..can check after three mths....if still worried..6 mths again for peace of mind....

[shawnie]

bro i also have this kind of experiance b4. It so uncomfort actually cos u will be keep thinking about it. Ever since than im not sleeping well.when alone.. i'll just recalled back the incident till i decided to go for the checkup. Luck is with me.. tested negative..phew!! is about afew month now from my last FL or ONS. So my advice to u bro, go check up now.. i mean now! if u felt unrest with yourself. Goodluck!!

[jericho123456]

Chances of getting HIV are actually quite low. Actually the chances of the girl getting HIV and diseases from you is higher. Are you clean by the way? If you get HIV, then next few days may get flu like sickness. Better see a doctor to get some relief. 6 months later go to DSC Clinic for HIV testing. Next time buy better quality condom, then you won't have to wait 6 months for a stupid test to confirm you don't have HIV.



You don?t need a 6 months test. Singapore is making the whole world laugh about their guidelines. Below are some of the guidelines from various governments around the world and see their recommendation for testing. Current test are so sensitive that they can pick up antibodies as early as 21 days. Do a search on Professor Brian Gazzard (He is one of the top HIV researcher in UK) and this is what he says about HIV testing. http://hivworkshop.com/hiv_testing.htm
I really can?t believe that these governments would want to put their citizens into danger of such a deadly virus by telling them a test at 3 months is okie.

The rapid test which dsc use is exactly what WHO, UK and this STD clinic in Netherlands is using. They recommend 3 months as well.

http://www.aidsmap.com/en/news/E01CBDA1-3FA6-4670-81AE-38F706BAACC2.asp

http://www.hivnet.org/HVN/Organisatie/Checkpoint%20Engels/Checkpoint3.htm

After reading all these, the bottom line is sillypore donno anything about this. Read this article.

http://www.fridae.com/aboutus/news041115.php
?Responding to Senior Minister of State for Health Balaji Sadasivan's call for the CDC to do more in Aids prevention and tackle an 'alarming Aids epidemic' here, Dr Leo said yesterday that the CDC did not have the expertise to do the job right now, as its focus had always been treatment rather than prevention.?

From UK

http://www.youchoose.org.uk/#

http://www.hivgum.demon.co.uk/victoria/victoriatesting.html

http://www.roehamptonclinic.com/hiv_services.htm

http://www.show.scot.nhs.uk/gghb/PubsReps/Reports/nhsgg_hiv_report.pdf

http://www.hivgum.demon.co.uk/mw2/general/hiv_2004.pdf

http://www.gumnewcastle.nhs.uk/page.asp?id=1002


From Australia

http://www.sesahs.nsw.gov.au/albionstcentre/Information/HIV_faq.asp

http://www.stdservices.on.net/std/hiv-aids/details.htm

http://www.ashm.org.au/uploadFile/jc_april%20issue.pdf


From USA

http://www.hivguidelines.org/public_html/center/clinical-education/q-and-a/update.htm

http://gmhc.org/hotline/ask/testing_period.html


From Canada

http://www.city.toronto.on.ca/health/aids_resources/pdf/hiv_antibody_test.pdf


From Malaysia

http://202.186.86.35/health/story.asp?file=/2004/12/5/health/9570047&sec=Health


From WHO

w3.whosea.org/LinkFiles/Training_ Materials_voluntary-module2-5-2.pdf


From Hong ####

http://www.info.gov.hk/aids/harmreduction/english/4_2.htm

[handsome1968]

few days back i had an ONS w a gal from pub, and something serious happened!. i m so stupid!.. DRUNK!


we had intercourse for abt 30 mins... we were so into it and... i cant even feel that my comdom is torn, i did cum inside her pussy too. tot my condom on !!!, i m so afraid i might get HIV from her.
i was told from my friend, that gal slept w most of the guys in that pub b4... i m in big trouble now!. wad shld i do now?. anyway i m currently 23m, which clinic should i go for checkup?. i m so paiseh and afraid to face all this trouble.. REGRET. i dun think i will do it again!.

bros pls advise wad shld i do now.
argh!...

which pub? mind to tell us?

[Legionnaire]

just hope u didn't get anything and hope she didn't get pregnant if not congrats to u

[Quill]

few days back i had an ONS w a gal from pub, and something serious happened!. i m so stupid!.. DRUNK!


we had intercourse for abt 30 mins... we were so into it and... i cant even feel that my comdom is torn, i did cum inside her pussy too. tot my condom on !!!, i m so afraid i might get HIV from her.
i was told from my friend, that gal slept w most of the guys in that pub b4... i m in big trouble now!. wad shld i do now?. anyway i m currently 23m, which clinic should i go for checkup?. i m so paiseh and afraid to face all this trouble.. REGRET. i dun think i will do it again!.

bros pls advise wad shld i do now.
argh!...

The chances of your testing HIV positive is low. Do consider taking the test, either at AFA or DSC. Although newer tests have higher sensitivity, the standard rule is for a waiting period of three months. I think you should also exercise extreme caution the next time you're in a similar situation. Alcohol and sex is a lethal combination. Good luck!


Quill

[diesel]

few days back i had an ONS w a gal from pub, and something serious happened!. i m so stupid!.. DRUNK!

we had intercourse for abt 30 mins... we were so into it and... i cant even feel that my comdom is torn, i did cum inside her pussy too. tot my condom on !!!, i m so afraid i might get HIV from her.
i was told from my friend, that gal slept w most of the guys in that pub b4... i m in big trouble now!.Please do not come and tell us you won't do it again.

Your case is a kachang-puteh. Don't worry. You won't so 'sway' to kenna HIV. We will be very happy if you can give us a little treat for those who console you after you have tested your blood neg. :D You must thanks us for giving you advises too.

[CptCum]

bro wish u luck man....hope u dun kana anything bad!!!

[sammyboyfor]

You must thanks us for giving you advises too.

"Advice" not "Advises".

[asknot3]

"Advice" not "Advises".hahaha...common mistake made by many. not knowing difference between a verb & a noun. good or what...this forum got english classes too....lol :D

[Microsoft]

"Advice" not "Advises".

Boss i ah beng ah seng so need u guidance on yinglish. Hehe!

Gong Xi Fatt Chye!! Huat arrr!!!

kekeke :D

PS. Dont zap me hor. :p

[wubai]

You want to find that girl? :D


got to cfm if i oso try the same gal anot..got a ons incident recently from a pub..nw i am worried sick.. :(

[Doggiestyle]

..got a ons incident recently from a pub..nw i am worried sick.. :(

So b4 bro hotty started the thread, u mean to say that u were not worried before?? So that means u had unprotected sex with a partner whose sexual history u knew nothing of, right? Wud it make a difference if he told u that it's the same girl & from the same pub? Be responsible bro. Go do a test! :rolleyes:

[hotty]

yeah i m still around,

OMG so many bros pm me for her contact. i dun anyhow release her name or where she from. sorry.

if any bros keen to exchange/sharing maybe will consider, but anyway i m still strong,. will go for checkup soon!.. haha. keep bonking!.

[Eastpipper]

yeah i m still around,

OMG so many bros pm me for her contact. i dun anyhow release her name or where she from. sorry.

if any bros keen to exchange/sharing maybe will consider, but anyway i m still strong,. will go for checkup soon!.. haha. keep bonking!.

walau!i tot u say won't do it again!still wanna share!
haiz!
Dog still must eat shit!kekeke

[Cheri_Popper]

What has been done cannot be undone! :D

Just pray hard that you dun kanna any kind of STD from the encounter.

I read this from somewhere but can't remember where. No offence meant to anyone! :)

Why Worry?
If you are in good health, there's nothing to worry about.
If you are in bad health, there's 2 thing you worry about.
Whether you live or die.
If you live, there is nothing to worry about.
If you die, there is 2 thing you worry about.
Whether you go to Heaven or Hell.
If you go to Heaven, there's nothing to worry about.
If you got to Hell, there's nothing to worry about too.
As most of your friends are there to welcomed you.
So Why Worry?

[Lexx]

resist to have sex until your report is out..so u won't spread or get anything else. avoid read or watch anything that make you steam. take a cool shower or go exercise if u horny.

it happen to me too. the wl inexperience use tissue to clean the condom. no lubricant so it tore. the wl curse when find out. luckily she only 19 or 20. young n not many customer yet i think. in fact she was more worried about getting pregnant instead of std.

[collin_23]

19 or 20 yrs old does not mean not many customers so safe. U add up the numbers will come up easily to big figures.

Take for instance a few of the WL 's customer did her RAW and b4 that they have already did it with many other women. U go tally up the risk involved lor.

Never judge a WL by its age nor appearance as HIV and other stds may not have any symptoms on an infected person for some time. The only way to safe sex is abstinence till marriage. If u can't tahan than always use a condom.

To newbies who does not know about this std called 'herpes' pls go look under the few herpes threads available. Even with condoms u will still high chance of getting this disease and other skin related diseases. :(

[lesnar]

Raw is War.....Becareful....

[collin_23]

Another way to remind yourself is to watch your alcohol or drug usage if u happen to be using any. When high many accidents do happen. If really want cheong can try the durex featherlight, one of the thinner condoms I find not bad. :cool:

Say no to drugs.

[dragko]

If guy is worried about STD from Raw accident, at least it is only one thing to worried about. For the gal, like what another Bro had mentioned, she have to worried about STD and getting pregnant! Of course, if the guy is attached, and the gal knows where to find him, he also have to worried if she pregnant, will come knowing on his door!

[lament]

if really wanna come out to play then be prepared to face the consequences mah .....

imagine even condon not torn and u have bleeding gums and she have 2, the virus will also spread .....

wanna play then dun scared and thats why i still advocate "RAW IS WAR, WAR IS RAW" .....

[collin_23]

No such thing as legal pros at least go for checkup. All carry high risk. :(