Is Gangbang really enjoying for a lady?

[sharon]

This is my thread,Is Gangbang really a good thing for a lady? wont she be suffering? i hope this isnt popular here in SG

[badboyxtreme]

Why not u try sharon? You will find out from 1st hand experience, n i bet you will long for future sessions

[sharon]

well since you answer it,why not you plan it event? i am sure many other ladies who are seek to have fun will join in,doesnt have to be me eh.

[Rated-R]

well since you answer it,why not you plan it event? i am sure many other ladies who are seek to have fun will join in,doesnt have to be me eh.

Those ladies who participated in it...most likely have enjoyed it. Just go to the chatroom and ask bro undertable and his girls.

Those who have not, such as yourself, will be skeptical I suppose. :)

[badboyxtreme]

We do have our regular events sharon. Old samsters should kno badboy and his lovely partner too. Why not i plan another session n u join us? Drop me a msg if u are interested. Don't have to reply here if u wanna be discreet abt it.

[4Dguru]

Sis, u can try with a dildo or vibrating egg first..... once u have multiple orgasm ... u will like gangbang :p

[valkyrierune]

Sis, u can try with a dildo or vibrating egg first..... once u have multiple orgasm ... u will like gangbang :p

lol.. if addicted den siao liao :p

[sta1100]

Hi Sharon

It a mix answer, if you looking at a innocent lady she won;t enjoy gangbang, unless she a slut or open minded. Again most husband at this forum won;t allow their GF/Wife been screw by other guy, unless the guy are also open minded. It take 2 party to agreed.

[ac171]

This kind of question is very subjective. It all depends on whether the girl is open minded enough to accept being fcked by a few guys at one shot or not. Ask an innocent girl who have not tried gangbang before she might tell you it's dirty or disgusting but who knows she might fall in love with it after she tried it for herself.

One very good example is our local porn star Annabelle Chong. Didn't she become a porn star after she's being gang raped?

[xiedaz]

This kind of question is very subjective. It all depends on whether the girl is open minded enough to accept being fcked by a few guys at one shot or not. Ask an innocent girl who have not tried gangbang before she might tell you it's dirty or disgusting but who knows she might fall in love with it after she tried it for herself.

One very good example is our local porn star Annabelle Chong. Didn't she become a porn star after she's being gang raped?

My wife enjoys the gang bang very much. Its not just the physical side of it that she enjoys, but also the "naughtiness" of being mounted by different guys one after the other. That turns her on as much as anything. She gets so turned on by being "naughty" because in general life she is very modest and demure. But sometimes she likes wild no string attached sex. I am happy to see her enjoy herself, and she is happy knowing that i like to watch her in action. Different people have different ideas, and lots of peoples have hang ups about what a woman/GF/wife can do/should do etc. But for us, sex is sex, and love is love. Sex is a natural physical function. I feel great love for my wife watching her gang banging, but I also find it very sexy and I enjoy having my turn also. She really enjoys the physical and mental stimulation of the gang bang, and loves that I am open minded enough to allow her fantasies and mine to be tried, without being judgemental. I am turned on seeing her in action, so its win-win. The only rule that we have in relation to this is that we discuss what we first discuss what we want to happen, and we do it together. No activity is done without the others consent and support. We are both lucky to have the same attitude to sex and love I guess.

[sharon]

this is really cool,i guess guys like you all are so much experience.good ! i am learning more haha

[sharon]

you are really cool to share your wife,and i am sure my bf will chop me if he even knows i am here and i doubt it that he will even share me with other guys and seeing that i got ........ by many guys!lols

[4Dguru]

lol.. if addicted den siao liao :p

If addicted, den ho say liao . Many bros here would like to invite her to their party:p

[High till Dry]

you are really cool to share your wife,and i am sure my bf will chop me if he even knows i am here and i doubt it that he will even share me with other guys and seeing that i got ........ by many guys!lols

u will never know. perhpas your bf is a seasoned chiongster & even a senior samster here :D

[xiedaz]

you are really cool to share your wife,and i am sure my bf will chop me if he even knows i am here and i doubt it that he will even share me with other guys and seeing that i got ........ by many guys!lols

Yes, perhaps many guys have the double standard. They want to experience lots of women, but they want their wife or girlfriend just for themselves. Thats fine, whatever works for each couple. The main thing is that the couple talk openly and honestly about what they want and like, and come to agreement on how they intend to conduct their relationship. I am happy to watch her getting sexual pleasure from other men. It works fine for us.

[sharon]

smiling this is really a hot topic

[Jumpstack]

Seriously,sis..why dont u try one?..

[bowwowhkt]

Do u want to be gangbanged by guys now?^^ haha u must be feeling so horny

[ManInAction]

Next question to ask urself, will u enjoy sawing ur man doing any lady in front of u?

Gang bang is ready subjective, guess couple must have the same mindset. If both are very jealous type and want each other for themselves only, then they will love to have one and another for the rest of their life..

I went to tcss session and saw those gang bang couple, they are actually more loving. Guy or woman, will like the wanted feeling, make u feel like u still have market value. Swinging allow couple to fullfill each other fansty without any guilt!! The fact is, u can share such indicent with the closest people in ur life, where more secret is there to hide? Many time, couple distant because of all the dark secret each have and dare not share..

[xiedaz]

smiling this is really a hot topic

yes it is hot topic Sharon, here's what it looks like while its happening....
http://x.fap.to/images/full/47/352/352185554.jpg

[undertable]

Yes, perhaps many guys have the double standard. They want to experience lots of women, but they want their wife or girlfriend just for themselves. Thats fine, whatever works for each couple. The main thing is that the couple talk openly and honestly about what they want and like, and come to agreement on how they intend to conduct their relationship. I am happy to watch her getting sexual pleasure from other men. It works fine for us.

It works the same for us. One thing we get from our activities is "No more Secrets". The trust we built is solid.

Next question to ask urself, will u enjoy sawing ur man doing any lady in front of u?

Gang bang is ready subjective, guess couple must have the same mindset. If both are very jealous type and want each other for themselves only, then they will love to have one and another for the rest of their life..

I went to tcss session and saw those gang bang couple, they are actually more loving. Guy or woman, will like the wanted feeling, make u feel like u still have market value. Swinging allow couple to fullfill each other fansty without any guilt!! The fact is, u can share such indicent with the closest people in ur life, where more secret is there to hide? Many time, couple distant because of all the dark secret each have and dare not share..

We agree and We believe all couples will agree to this post too. Truly words of our hearts.

Those ladies who participated in it...most likely have enjoyed it. Just go to the chatroom and ask bro undertable and his girls.

Those who have not, such as yourself, will be skeptical I suppose. :)

Hey bro,

Its really not for everyone and yes my gers enjoys it at times. Its not sex actually its the kink of getting it up and exploring it together. In sex arena too many ppl felt that they are alone even though attached with a partner, We aint following that. We shared and are proud enuff to say that we know each others' desires best.

[ManInAction]

Dear undertake,

I was at ur tcss section at orchard tower then, thank for inviting me to it and see for myself...

[unsung80]

you are really cool to share your wife,and i am sure my bf will chop me if he even knows i am here and i doubt it that he will even share me with other guys and seeing that i got ........ by many guys!lols

keep it discreet. :D

[tryherout]

If the participants Queue Up, why not.

[valkyrierune]

If addicted, den ho say liao . Many bros here would like to invite her to their party:p

Lol will i b in e party too ? Lol

[acidicavex]

Well it not for the weak heart of a person who get jealous easily. It all
In the mind and whether how far can u accept it.

Example the guy or gal is open to it but at the end of he or she start complaining why the partner never do that for them this and that.

Human all are double standard someone I once knew said she will not allow her man to touch another woman. But she wouldn't mind her man share her in a 3some or gangbang. It like a one way traffic who which guy will agree??

So I Thot is it all depend on the person mindset and how it begun and whether when the time come stop will he or she be able to control? It is rather addictive i must say. As a ex-colleague whom is into such swinging lifestyle. Always looking for fresh kink to get into. One of his sexcape even involve paying a trans to get involve and I believe he still add such kinky spice into his open r/s with his gal. Although he said it was a of off trying with a trans but the way he talk about it was like he is so digging into it.

Have fun gal

[stevex]

gang bang definitely is a joy for body in most time. but for mentally ,its depends on your education or your self mind boundary. if you not restricted by your own mind boundary,it will definitely great joy. i have a friends too,she encounter a very bad experience when she was 20(i guess),she being raped by a group(4 to 5) malay guy. At the point of being raped,she infact feel the joy(body),but mentally she feel so sad and think "how can this happened to her?"... but,ever since,she addicted to gang bang and sex. ... every human there is a wild beast inside,just that whether we lock it,tame it,or control it. all we need is just to let the beast unleash sometimes,lock at most time,control it. in discreet manner.:D

[sharon]

i cant believe this,in fact she is enjoying being rape?my goodness

[sharon]

if she is attached,i cant believe that her bf came to know about this,4 to 5 guys bang her?

[ManInAction]

gang bang definitely is a joy for body in most time. but for mentally ,its depends on your education or your self mind boundary. if you not restricted by your own mind boundary,it will definitely great joy. i have a friends too,she encounter a very bad experience when she was 20(i guess),she being raped by a group(4 to 5) malay guy. At the point of being raped,she infact feel the joy(body),but mentally she feel so sad and think "how can this happened to her?"... but,ever since,she addicted to gang bang and sex. ... every human there is a wild beast inside,just that whether we lock it,tame it,or control it. all we need is just to let the beast unleash sometimes,lock at most time,control it. in discreet manner.:D

Our mind can do alot of wonderful things, that why some bad ass can live happily even the fact is, their happiness is built on many othe sorrow which they had brought.

Interesting perspective, physically enjoying while mentally destress...definitely in a great stage of confusion, the animal inside us..I still feel sorry that such thing happen to her

Hmm.. Aren't we human animal too? We are evolve from animal without the ability to differently right and wrong, to one that could, from an animal which cannot control it animal nature to one it could.

In old spiderman movie, there a saying, great power mean great responsibility, which you people prefer? Great power or great pleasure?? Let the animal loss!!

[ManInAction]

if she is attached,i cant believe that her bf came to know about this,4 to 5 guys bang her?

My dear gal, why care so much how the bf feel, is the victim feeling that we should be more concern rite...

If the bf really love her, the only feeling he should have is to love her more, help her out of this terrible situation. There will be plenty of people to feel sorry, but not the bf, feeling sorry doesn't mean understanding...

Well, only when something major happen, you can see the color of the person...if the bf feel very angry about those guys who rape her, do he have the time and thought to shower more care, concern and love on her? What the reasons behind his angryness? Because those guys hurt his beloved one or because those guys "dirty" something his? I know of people who just left the victim..

Anyway, u seem like a nice gal, always thinking about ur bf feeling.. Cheer

[xiedaz]

Well it not for the weak heart of a person who get jealous easily. It all
In the mind and whether how far can u accept it.

Example the guy or gal is open to it but at the end of he or she start complaining why the partner never do that for them this and that.

Human all are double standard someone I once knew said she will not allow her man to touch another woman. But she wouldn't mind her man share her in a 3some or gangbang. It like a one way traffic who which guy will agree??

So I Thot is it all depend on the person mindset and how it begun and whether when the time come stop will he or she be able to control? It is rather addictive i must say. As a ex-colleague whom is into such swinging lifestyle. Always looking for fresh kink to get into. One of his sexcape even involve paying a trans to get involve and I believe he still add such kinky spice into his open r/s with his gal. Although he said it was a of off trying with a trans but the way he talk about it was like he is so digging into it.

Have fun gal

Loving communication and understanding is important if the couple is going to embark on this sort of lifestyle. Each couple has to work out their own rules and limits. For us, my wife enjoys multiple guys, but is not comfortable with me being with other women, so we have agreed that I dont play with other women. Now some would see this as "one way traffic", but we dont as i enjoy watching my love in action, and i get all that i want from her.
I do agree with your comment about it being addictive. We have to be quite disciplined not to let things get out of control. We have lost control in the past, and it resulted in poor outcome, so now we try to limit ourselves to a few gang actions per year.

[sharon]

i hope that this thread is always alive,hoping more guys will join in here.

[sharon]

seems like guys are not really into this topic? lols:)

[comsec]

sharon, my wife and I went thru the same doubts and frankly we are still not comfortable with gang bangs. We have over the years developed a very close relationship with 2 other couples. Once a month. Sometimes we meet as 2 couples and sometimes as 3 couples in each others house. All 6 of us enjoy it and no jealousies. Only rule is the woman must be done to in front of her husband and no no separate one to one outings.. My wife allow me to do to the other 2 ladies , but she must be there. That is committment ! Hope this helps.

[chnhubby71]

Swinging or having sex infront of each other spouse do enhance the excitement and jealousy of each other to prolong the sex fun.

[senja88]

seems like guys are not really into this topic? lols:)

Sharon, we are interested on the action part and not the talking/dissection part. anyway, wrt your topic, we cant really answer on the ladies' behalf, can we?

hope to hear from you soon on the thread topic :D

[bochapsing]

... every human there is a wild beast inside,just that whether we lock it,tame it,or control it. all we need is just to let the beast unleash sometimes,lock at most time,control it. in discreet manner.:D

fully agreed. i always believe tat there's a devil (beast) and angel in each of us, which of them will become more powerful and rule will depend on individual...
and due to our society and environment, most of us dare not let go ourselves from all the "external restriction" and unleash the beast which may be the most natural side of ourselves..

For us, my wife enjoys multiple guys, but is not comfortable with me being with other women, so we have agreed that I dont play with other women. Now some would see this as "one way traffic", but we dont as i enjoy watching my love in action, and i get all that i want from her..

sharing the same thought, it doesn't matter that other might view it as "1-way traffic", most impt thing is our love one is happy... good that your wife accept the idea, enjoys herself and at the same time u r happy as well

We have over the years developed a very close relationship with 2 other couples. Once a month. Sometimes we meet as 2 couples and sometimes as 3 couples in each others house. All 6 of us enjoy it and no jealousies. Only rule is the woman must be done to in front of her husband and no no separate one to one outings.. My wife allow me to do to the other 2 ladies , but she must be there..

wow... u r so lucky to find 2 couples who share the same "interest"...

[colorwolf888]

Great thread with great insights! Keep it up learned Samsters! :D

[Badlover]

sharon, to me, i personally never tried in before so i cant really answer you. but to me, i can imagine it happening. but i feel so that watching people doing it, n personally experience it is totally different. maybe its nice n exciting watching it happening, but when it happen on yourself, its not really that nice. personal 5 cent opinion. (:
best luck

[sharon]

hi all guys,me too have not try this But it does at some point come across my mind thinking what will it be like to be surrounded by so many ....? was it really fun? and of course it take alot courage and certain openess to do it.plus what happen if those guys are really great F...ker?lol

[sharon]

unleashed the devil lol

[Badlover]

hahah. having fantasy is normal. i too have the same thinking at times how nice it is but to actually experience it, take tons of courage like you said. (:

[Darina]

This is my thread,Is Gangbang really a good thing for a lady? wont she be suffering? i hope this isnt popular here in SG

Can't answer you from direct experience myself but there are some ladies who enjoy it.

If they enjoy the attention from a few guys or maybe one guy is not enough for them so why not?

[sharon]

yes i agree with Darina! keep it up

[long]

hi all guys,me too have not try this But it does at some point come across my mind thinking what will it be like to be surrounded by so many ....? was it really fun? and of course it take alot courage and certain openess to do it.plus what happen if those guys are really great F...ker?lol

my fb finds it really arousing, but it kinda screeching stops there at fantasy stage. post gangbang can be akward i guess...when the hormones shut down:eek:

[Valentino_t77]

I never done that before, but I dont mind start with sharon :p

[wondergal]

I feel that it is a personal opinion and attitude for both men and women.

I enjoy and want multiple orgasms which some individual men can't do for me on their own so a gangbang surely gets me what I want to enjoy.

[asdfghjkl]

i also never try before with a gang, i mean really like a gang and not 2 or 3 guys.. wonder how it is like? :o

[Botakhead]

Gang bang is a continuous action in series and tandem to the action itself, there is no short break in between, multiple orgasm will be achieved and the pain and pleasure all mixed up, sweat, cum, saliva.......smell so intoxicating that you could not be able to handle after the session is over, usually lasts more than 2-3 hours at 1 go.:p

[DreamOfLust]

Yes, perhaps many guys have the double standard. They want to experience lots of women, but they want their wife or girlfriend just for themselves. Thats fine, whatever works for each couple. The main thing is that the couple talk openly and honestly about what they want and like, and come to agreement on how they intend to conduct their relationship. I am happy to watch her getting sexual pleasure from other men. It works fine for us.

Nice.. its not always easy to find girls who can accept things like this

[westendgirl]

Gang bang is a continuous action in series and tandem to the action itself, there is no short break in between, multiple orgasm will be achieved and the pain and pleasure all mixed up, sweat, cum, saliva.......smell so intoxicating that you could not be able to handle after the session is over, usually lasts more than 2-3 hours at 1 go.:p

thanks for the description. sound like a lot of hard work. :D

[Sneaky85]

Well I have been quietly reading about the events and experiences that people have around in here.

Personally, it is enticing sometimes but the thought seeing your girl being banged by other guys? It is definitely not for me. I do agree sometimes, I have thoughts have having a few girls at one go, like a king if you know what I mean? Or even like those porn shows. But sharing my girl? Nah. Even if she wasn't mine, seeing what I have being shared is not enjoyable for me. I might end up with the constable even before the gangbang ends.

Sometime it saddens me to be seeing some girls ending up as FLs when they are so good looking. Did money killed them? I seriously have no idea. My thoughts are quite mixed, but I have never gone off track or veered into the dark. Still loyal to my girl but I do read up a lot in this forum.

Just my two cents.

[Botakhead]

To do 'a good job', you need to work hand in hand together with all participants, making sure everypart of the action is ongoing until the end of climax had been reached.:D

[LiKiSi]

I feel its all team work, no one just wants to climax themselves but making sure the other party climax as well

[n30n]

Loving communication and understanding is important if the couple is going to embark on this sort of lifestyle. Each couple has to work out their own rules and limits. For us, my wife enjoys multiple guys, but is not comfortable with me being with other women, so we have agreed that I dont play with other women. Now some would see this as "one way traffic", but we dont as i enjoy watching my love in action, and i get all that i want from her.
I do agree with your comment about it being addictive. We have to be quite disciplined not to let things get out of control. We have lost control in the past, and it resulted in poor outcome, so now we try to limit ourselves to a few gang actions per year.

Wow, lucky you two are a nice match. Care to share how things got out of control, and how you redeem yourself?

I've thought about it, and thinking that my bf is a horny boy, i thought he would have fantasy of 3p and such. But apparently no.
Just thinking about me with other guys kills his mood. And i guess i'll be jealous if he goes with other woman.
In my imagination, MMF seems doable(if bf agree or is not involved), FFM whereby the M is not my bf seems doable too. I canot imagine having to fight over my bf's attention with another woman, probably due to insecurity issues.

From a woman POV, i was thinking won't the ladies feel insecure after the man had tasted other pussy? What if the man prefers other lady than her own? What if the man lost interest in sex with wifey, and wana pursue others? What if the good old 1-1 sex doesn't satisfy anymore?

[HisPrecious]

Would the gal be satisfied with just one partner after the gangbang?
Since she agreed to it...I'm assuming not rapre gangbang kind
It seems interesting to have a group of guys eager to pamper and licking oneself simutaneously yet i wonder if one would worry about the wetness of her love hole...

[Botakhead]

This lies within the individual's inhibition and self control. If you've fallen into the trap, unconciously, you'll never be able to satisfy or be satisfied by 1 to 1 sex anymore, that is why most females who are (addicted easily) able to muti-orgasm. For guys, if uncontrolled, you end up with a much weaker body, less performance power, after sumtime (especially where the others cock are better conditioned than yours).

Gang bang is a social behaviour, everyone involved usually agreed unconditionally on what to do and what not to do, no love involved, just pure lusts and lots of it.

1 to 1 sex is about 2 persons intimacy with each other, touching of skin, holding hands, rubbing body, etc. You got to have faith in each other in order to have sex with love poured into it.

End of the day, it depends on you yourself.:)

[henry_ang10]

Not forgetting the risk of STDs.. with so many involved, chances of catching will definitely be higher.

[Botakhead]

Gang bang usually are done with protection. Unless otherwise agreed upon, if not who will answer for being a daddy? If done without proper consent, that is GANG RAPE:p

[maxman]

Like food appetite, I know that some women can have very big sexual appetites that a single man may not be able to satisfy. Think of it as having a single plate of chicken rice but never feeling full enough, and having to also order a plate of duck rice, fishball noodle, nasi lemak and roti prata. Get the idea?

It can be frustrating for such women if they can't be satisfied on a regular/frequent basis, maybe due to her man's older age, lack of stamina, premature ejaculation (due to worry, stress, relationship arguments, sexual preferences that are in his favour but not in her favour), etc. The causes of sexual dissatisfaction are not simple, and can require medical or psychological professionals to diagnose.

I ever had an ex that wasn't easy to satisfy, and did consider permitting a 3some with an ex, so that she could feel "full". I also know of women who want longer sex, maybe with 2 men or more at a time, but some don't quite know how to go about setting up such an event in a safe manner while others feel dirty or guilty having such thoughts and stop themselves.

[tubbyt]

Sharon,

It really depends if one is going in as an individual or with a partner.
If it's individual then you need only consider what you wanna do or get from the experience.
If you are going in as a couple, then both need to openly talk abt it and consider what is the objective and what are the possible situations that may arise.

The folks here have put forward varied points of view and are generally valid. But the point of view that will ultimately be of most relevance is your own.

Just my 2 cents

[luv2suck]

not so sure abt gang bang but had tried 3some with 2 men - my bi bf and a male colleage. it was so shiok having 2 dicks at same time - one in mouth the other in my cunt. maybe i shld consider graduating to foursome someday.

[Power-Guy]

Sharon, depend on each individual. Some like it and some don't. Depending on your own comfort zone. If you want to find more, maybe you can get your answer from 'Annabel Chong' :D

[unsung80]

I wonder has Sharon get her gangbang of 5 men? heehee...