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boyluck
04-08-2012, 01:48 PM
Does your wife restricts sex during pregnancy? My wife is in her early first trimester and she was informed by her doctor no sex is allowed.
Looks like I may be ended up jerking myself alone with my porn. :( Does other brothers feel the agony of not having sex during this period?
I was thinking of looking around for Fuck Buddies or MILF ease my urges of releasing.
Bangster
04-08-2012, 02:43 PM
Fuck the doctor then...she's not pregnant
Coffeecans
04-08-2012, 02:54 PM
I refrained myself from sex when my wife was pregnant too. I didn't have to resort to any FB or any MILF to ease ur urge. It's all in the mind.
For me it was just pcc if you need lo. Cos you would need to consider alot of things before going on a FB or others on the risks. You would not want to have any unexpected problems even before you child is born. For me it was easy cos I devote my time spending time with my wife and also talking to my child in the tummy. Hope it works for you.
No offence just my humble thoughts.
joncheong
04-08-2012, 03:03 PM
There's when WLs and FLs are so needed ... 9 months of no sex, although have not needed, i cannot imagine... scold me a jerk if you want to:cool:
No penetration doesn't mean canot do bj hj all those ma.
Talk with your wife lo.
Doc say no sex. Didn't say no intimacy.
bfreemen
04-08-2012, 03:08 PM
I refrained myself from sex when my wife was pregnant too. I didn't have to resort to any FB or any MILF to ease ur urge. It's all in the mind.
For me it was just pcc if you need lo. Cos you would need to consider alot of things before going on a FB or others on the risks. You would not want to have any unexpected problems even before you child is born. For me it was easy cos I devote my time spending time with my wife and also talking to my child in the tummy. Hope it works for you.
No offence just my humble thoughts.
so why are you in SB forum ?
littlepok
04-08-2012, 03:08 PM
sometimes pcc is better than sex. imagination got no boundaries.
Pahlongie
04-08-2012, 03:19 PM
i m father of two, during my wife pregnancy her doctor say can have sex till 6 mth, and be careful not to sq the baby that all
Littleboy81
04-08-2012, 03:28 PM
i m father of two, during my wife pregnancy her doctor say can have sex till 6 mth, and be careful not to sq the baby that all
I'm also a father of two, i stop sex during the first trimster, after than we have sex till she is 8 months and than stop, funny thing is my doctor says sex is ok but not too hard.
dk1903
04-08-2012, 03:30 PM
Fuck the doctor then...she's not pregnant
bro, i totally agree. fuck the dr since she gave such lousy advice.
i don't think drs have ever advised on absolutely no sex during pregnancy before. just that u probably have to exercise more care than usual. if u take out all the crazy stances, i think the normal routine stuff should be safe.
but try not to get a FB lah. anything that is free may come back and bite you in the ass! u know u won't fall for a FL, because she is only interested in money. but if u fall for your FB, then your family will be at risk of breaking up.
boyluck
04-08-2012, 03:36 PM
My wife is worried that I may hurt the baby during the first trimester and she listen to the doctor as a precaution. She did try to perform blowjob and handjob but soon she got tired.
In the end, I just wank myself alone with her assisting. I knew of that this may not be right to look somewhere else and it is a choice. I thought during pregnancy, a woman should feel the need for intimacy and sex? :confused: In my case, my wife keeps complaining her nipples are more sensitive lately and tend to pee often.
heartkorr
04-08-2012, 03:50 PM
think first tri doc advise to avoid is to stabilise the baby ba, perhaps scared too passionate movement might affect the baby, haha :D
second tri should be ok ba, perhaps positions such as spooning will feel more safe since no direct impact from the top and also your wife can rest her tummy on the bed.
my 2cts worth :D
iceage
04-08-2012, 03:58 PM
Fuck the doctor then...she's not pregnant
Best advice I have heard. :)
kudostoyou
04-08-2012, 04:48 PM
a life is at stake here. At first trimester, its kinda like the more dangerous period. Hence, safer not to do any vigourous exercise (sex included) to avoid miscarriage.
Go look for FL if you really buay tahan loh...else PCC or buy sextoy to sextisfy yourself?
holedriver
04-08-2012, 05:36 PM
Better to pay.
Bangster
04-08-2012, 10:27 PM
Actually the nurse also can, hor?
BigLad
04-08-2012, 11:12 PM
You kena smoke by your wife lah.
daryl76
05-08-2012, 02:39 PM
only reason why doc will ask to abstain from sex during pregnancy is health problems..
there is absolutely no problem having sex during pregnancy in normal circumstances
yang punk
05-08-2012, 05:04 PM
Bro. Did her gynae told you that or is it 2nd hand from your wife? She may be the weak sort so maybe best to let her pregnancy stabilise otherwise there is no harm having sex during pregnancy. Just be more gentle and sensitive to her needs. Later stages she may be even more horny and demand sex from you!
MyMyMine
05-08-2012, 05:58 PM
I am sure she can do bbbj abd hj still right ?
cawca
05-08-2012, 06:00 PM
Sex during pregnancy is mostly safe except for rare situations. To me, there is just a lot of bullshit about it out there including that from doctors and a lot of times from pregnant women.
Just read this to know more : http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/sex-during-pregnancy/HO00140
latishame
06-08-2012, 10:16 PM
first trimester is risky. But starting from 2nd trimester its ok le try talking it out with wife make her comfortable first and do not rush things
absoluticeberg
06-08-2012, 11:05 PM
Didn't have any sex with my wife during first trimester. Second trimester her sex drive shoot up like crazy, then last trimester abstain and say hi to my 2 best friends - left and right hands...
PhariseesYeast
06-08-2012, 11:45 PM
The doctor is right. First trimester is for the baby to stabilize. For goodness sake, please abstain 3 months for your child. It's worth it.
For my first child I had to abstain for almost 18 months because our baby is very fragile (you can't fxck her after delivery due to bleeding). You should consider yourself lucky. My wife doesn't like bj so I only get hj from her occasionally. But as pregnancy deepens, her skin is softer and more smooth and breasts become larger and tender. It really turns me on. At the end of the day, I am happy with masturbation while touching her.
tong_tong
07-08-2012, 01:26 PM
Does your wife restricts sex during pregnancy? My wife is in her early first trimester and she was informed by her doctor no sex is allowed.
Looks like I may be ended up jerking myself alone with my porn. :( Does other brothers feel the agony of not having sex during this period?
I was thinking of looking around for Fuck Buddies or MILF ease my urges of releasing.
My wife is pregnant as well, entering her 2nd trimester. We haven't had sex for around 2 months. Both of us are afraid that we may hurt the baby, although from the books that I read - sex is perfectly fine as long as you don't put much pressure on the spot where the baby is.
Anyway, PCC is the solution for me. I'm afraid I may get something from FLs which may spread to my wife of the baby.
Anyway congratulations to you!!
Or sympathies for you (if it's not planned) :D
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Just kidding!!!
acidicavex
07-08-2012, 01:58 PM
Doc will advise accordingly each woman womb is structure differently. As my Oc gyne explain 1st-2st mths best just go without it. 3rd-5th mth okie to do but no no hardcore no hard banging Passionate soft entry "those was what she said" 6th mths still okie but best stop at 7th-9th mths.
But however my Oc friend young but Body damn week 1 pregency miscarriage on the 2nd mth. 2nd pregnancy miscarriage only the 3rd pregency she successful had a twin.
For her even her pregnancy gyne strictly mention no intercourse. She use the same gyne as my Oc.
Bigtits
07-08-2012, 02:38 PM
guess it will still be healthy to do some light intercourse as its also healthy for the relationship
gocoffeebean
07-08-2012, 05:12 PM
Bro ... once baby come even lagi worse ... maybe become no sex or super few sex session liao.....
gerluvsex
15-08-2012, 10:41 PM
Haha.... First I heard.... Wat I do know is no sex in first trim.... After tat sun b surprise as ur wife will have higher sex drive den u... And sex is good for the relaxing and lubricating the cervix ESP in last trim.... Nearing the del date....only thing is find a comfortable position for ur wife bah:) JY JY
boyluck
18-09-2012, 08:12 PM
Does your wife gets sexually aroused easily during pregnancy? I have tried to suggest other positions but she denied sex and been masturbating alone to release my urge.
Perhaps I should talk to my baby inside her womb to get my wife into the mood?
rashid229
19-09-2012, 11:14 AM
Bro Boyluck, just sharing what i know coz my newborn is just 5mth..
Usually during the 1st trimester dr will ask to refrain.. After the 3rd mth checkup n dr say all is ok with baby n mummy then sexual intercourse is ok but must take note that the wife will feel different coz she will feel sore in the breast n her clits will be a little swollen as months pass. Maybe she is scared or not comfortable with herself... (Preggy women sometimes paiseh hubby see her all swollen n bloated) Give her some confidence and as some bros mention intamacy is a must. Then take frm there..
My wife also same problem .. But after she break the physcology barrier, we had the best anal sex during that few months....
geckoSG
20-09-2012, 01:59 PM
Pregnancy can still have sex... Its relatively safe, just dun do HARDCORE BANGING. If not, its people like myself who will be banging the wives instead.
:D
singacock
30-09-2012, 10:50 PM
Sex during pregnancy is alright and can be creatively fun too unless it's against doctor's orders. I have 2 kids now and throughout both pregnancies, me and my wife were sexually active till about the end of the 8th month.
Mothers to be tend to be a little clumsy during the last trimester but still damn horny. Try to accommodate by trying slightly different styles like spooning or T-Square position. I particularly like sex during pregnancy as the pussy is starting to swell and boobs enlarged in anticipation of the coming delivery. The bodily changes actually arouse both our curiosity and we engage in a lot more oral sex followed by a very satisfying orgasm for both of us.
Pregnant women need attention too so show them appreciation of her bodily changes and she will satisfy you in bed. Continue those kisses, neck massages, stomach rubs, pussy licks, and she will reward you and pump you dry. :D
Alf1977
01-10-2012, 01:03 AM
There's when WLs and FLs are so needed ... 9 months of no sex, although have not needed, i cannot imagine... scold me a jerk if you want to:cool:
Please don't let your woman know of your fling/ONS or you had paid sex with FL/WL, or else you jump off the building with your baby inside for she can't take the betrayal ... Can't you imagine that it's really tough to be pregnant during that 9 months, n her husband still eat out? That goes to show you don't take the mother and child seriously and she might just end her life with the baby...
Unless you want your child to die or wife to commit sucide , please go ahead to fool around when your wife is pregnant..
Wizrd
01-10-2012, 02:04 AM
Please don't let your woman know of your fling/ONS or you had paid sex with FL/WL, or else you jump off the building with your baby inside for she can't take the betrayal ... Can't you imagine that it's really tough to be pregnant during that 9 months, n her husband still eat out? That goes to show you don't take the mother and child seriously and she might just end her life with the baby...
Unless you want your child to die or wife to commit sucide , please go ahead to fool around when your wife is pregnant..
Wah, really so drama meh? I think even lousy movies don't dare to use this line of thought any more...
Maybe I have lost touch but for me and most male friends I know....sex is sex and love is love! And we are fully capable of differentiating the two things...just because I have sex with one woman, doesn't mean I love her and it sure as hell doesn't mean I love my wife/GF/partner any less...
To me at least, sex is like playing squash...me and a friend (ok, for sex, this friend must be female, ok!!!!)...'locked' in a room...we both move around a lot...kinda anticipating each others moves...sweat free flowing...more moving around, making each other jump and twist and roll...after the first few minutes, stop caring about the score and forget who wins and who loses...this keeps going until one or both people are exhausted or satisfied with the workout...go for a shower...change clothes...get a drink together...go home, our own separate homes....
That's exactly the same as sex for me...must I love my squash partner of the day? Nope... Will it make me love yesterday's squash partner less? Nope... Does it mean I cannot play squash with yet another squash partner tomorrow? Read my lips...FUCK NO!!!
Some people may take this sex thing too seriously...but end her life with the baby?...give me fucking break...
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vandark
01-10-2012, 02:22 AM
Better stick to what the doctor said or find sex some outside :eek:
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