Find reason to justify for eating outside!

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Recently one of my colleague somehow get to know that I am occasionally eating outside. He know that I have a long term gf that is cohabiting with me. The problem is, he started counseling me!!! With all the usual good man logic that is trying to tell me, what I am doing is wrong and sinful.

I do tell him, this kind of things are actually somehow common. We play and eat outside once in awhile, but we go home thinking of our other half at home. I dare say that all these years, it is just lust and small bro took over situation. I have never fall in love for those FL before. It is just plain fuck and forget. I love my gf.

But however, I know it is morally not right, and I cannot win the debate with my colleague anyway. I cannot manage to find a reason to win the debate.

Or anyone has any good justification for me to use, to shut his mouth?

What will you bros do in my situation? He is a colleague that I am working with him every day!

I am 30 this year, he is 33 or 34. He is single and I wonder if he is still a virgin...

Thank you Bros!

[superman2006]

You just tell him everyday gives you eat "fish" you also scare.Sometimes go for chicken,beef,mutton..........

[rob_onny]

Tell him weapon need regular maintenance. So, occasional polishing & firing is required. If not, weapon spoilt need a fortune 2 repair.

Also tell him, if he want, u can recommend someone 2 polish his weapon. ;)

[holedriver]

Asked him if he lies or had done amything wrong. Tell him not to measure his wrongs with yours. A wrong is a wrong.

[Cuntworth]

Tell him weapon need regular maintenance. So, occasional polishing & firing is required. If not, weapon spoilt need a fortune 2 repair.

Also tell him, if he want, u can recommend someone 2 polish his weapon. ;)

Wahahahha thats a good one bro!:D

[sta1100]

There is no right or wrong, as long don't get caught. As for your friend who try to brain wash you just tell him you ahve change for the better no more eating outside, or you tell him if GF/OC cannot give you enought live fring area than you need to fire outside.

[tan-tan]

To justify means to admit eating outside.

DIE also no justify! :p

[jack hammer]

It's a personal choice and personal lifestyle thing. He should respect that you have the sense to know what is right and wrong and make your own decision without him imposing his lifestyle choices on you.

Just tell him you are no longer eating outside if it will shut him up.

No need to justify anything.

[feilongg2]

Die die also cannot admit eat outside. You never know what he will tell your other half if you admit. Just say you no more eat outside can Liao.

[pusslicker]

i guess maybe he like your gf?
So he dont want you to hurt her?
Just my guessing.

[threetreasure]

Recently one of my colleague somehow get to know that I am occasionally eating outside. He know that I have a long term gf that is cohabiting with me. The problem is, he started counseling me!!! With all the usual good man logic that is trying to tell me, what I am doing is wrong and sinful.

I do tell him, this kind of things are actually somehow common. We play and eat outside once in awhile, but we go home thinking of our other half at home. I dare say that all these years, it is just lust and small bro took over situation. I have never fall in love for those FL before. It is just plain fuck and forget. I love my gf.

But however, I know it is morally not right, and I cannot win the debate with my colleague anyway. I cannot manage to find a reason to win the debate.

Or anyone has any good justification for me to use, to shut his mouth?

What will you bros do in my situation? He is a colleague that I am working with him every day!

I am 30 this year, he is 33 or 34. He is single and I wonder if he is still a virgin...

Thank you Bros!

maybe u can try do 2 things,

1. no need to justify or explain more... the more u explain, the more he will be interested and keep bugging u...

2. simply say.. "ok i know.. but this is my personal stuff, hope u wont interven.. anyway thanks for ur advice.."

hope after a while he become tired of hearing the same reply from u.. he may stop...

[5ag1_Boar]

Don't debate with him, because frankly, we all know we can't justify this sort behaviour although we indulge in it.

Just say to him "Thank you for the advice, I will think about it. I know you have good intentions, but please stop trying to change me."

If there does not work after a few times, turn it on him. Ask him why he feels so strongly about it? Is it because his girlfriend cheated on him before? Or he cheated on someone and lost her?

Just hope he doesn't think it'll be helpful to tell your gf about it.

[sp150]

I agree with the bros the cannot admit eat outside but u alrdy did. Then ask him if he have seen any cats that don't eat fish :)

[flowbow]

Recently one of my colleague somehow get to know that I am occasionally eating outside. He know that I have a long term gf that is cohabiting with me. The problem is, he started counseling me!!! With all the usual good man logic that is trying to tell me, what I am doing is wrong and sinful.

I do tell him, this kind of things are actually somehow common. We play and eat outside once in awhile, but we go home thinking of our other half at home. I dare say that all these years, it is just lust and small bro took over situation. I have never fall in love for those FL before. It is just plain fuck and forget. I love my gf.

But however, I know it is morally not right, and I cannot win the debate with my colleague anyway. I cannot manage to find a reason to win the debate.

Or anyone has any good justification for me to use, to shut his mouth?

What will you bros do in my situation? He is a colleague that I am working with him every day!

I am 30 this year, he is 33 or 34. He is single and I wonder if he is still a virgin...

Thank you Bros!

Honestly, I will never believe this.

If you truly love your gf, why would you do something that you know would hurt her deeply if she comes to know about it? Just because you have to satisfy your needs with a pussy; just because it is not satisfying enough to do it with your own hand? This is of course assuming your gf doesn't allow you to have sex with her. If she does, and you're still eating outside... Well, you're smart enough to know the point I'm trying to put across.

So I see this is how much you love your gf. :cool:

[Namewee]

I think it is down to the 'bundary' that you used to be taught. Some may think eating out is common. Some may think it is morally wrong

[efftee]

Recently one of my colleague somehow get to know that I am occasionally eating outside. He know that I have a long term gf that is cohabiting with me. The problem is, he started counseling me!!! With all the usual good man logic that is trying to tell me, what I am doing is wrong and sinful.

I do tell him, this kind of things are actually somehow common. We play and eat outside once in awhile, but we go home thinking of our other half at home. I dare say that all these years, it is just lust and small bro took over situation. I have never fall in love for those FL before. It is just plain fuck and forget. I love my gf.

But however, I know it is morally not right, and I cannot win the debate with my colleague anyway. I cannot manage to find a reason to win the debate.

Or anyone has any good justification for me to use, to shut his mouth?

What will you bros do in my situation? He is a colleague that I am working with him every day!

I am 30 this year, he is 33 or 34. He is single and I wonder if he is still a virgin...

Thank you Bros!
Why do you need to find a reason to justify?

Everybody lives their life on their own perception of right or wrong.

Truth is, you are not going to convince him, neither is he going to convince you. It's almost like talking about religion.

My question would be, does your gf know that you are doing such stuff? 2nd thing is, if she finds out, what will happen. If you can answer those 2 questions, and still able to continue with the lifestyle, then that's the way things are for you. No need to convince anybody else any other way.

The question also works both ways. If you know the answer to the above question, then that's your reason to shut your colleague's mouth.

I half agree with flowbow, but half disagree too. For me, if I'm attached, my principle would be honesty and reciprocity. If you can tell your partner, and permit your partner to do the same, then carry on :) Like I said above, different folks different strokes.

Just don't blame your gf if she does the same :)

[Bangster]

That you are actually gay and you have been suppressing your urge to knock him out cold in the toilet and rape him anally.

So have to find an avenue for release. It's either him or you eat outside.

Just pray he is not gay too!

[Baalthaczzaar]

The forbidden fruit will always taste better, for sure! :p

[Bangster]

Honestly, I will never believe this.

If you truly love your gf, why would you do something that you know would hurt her deeply if she comes to know about it? Just because you have to satisfy your needs with a pussy; just because it is not satisfying enough to do it with your own hand? This is of course assuming your gf doesn't allow you to have sex with her. If she does, and you're still eating outside... Well, you're smart enough to know the point I'm trying to put across.

So I see this is how much you love your gf. :cool:

The colleague is here!!!
Lol

[cannon2balls]

If you can't win him, join him. If you can't join him, spoil him. Perhaps he'll change his opinion after his first taste of eating out :D

[LadyInNeed]

If u love ur Gf u must nt eat outside.

[imax88]

Two golden rules

1. Never admit no matter what
2. Never share w non-believer
3. Tell a white lie to shut up the non-believer