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AndyAntz
13-08-2012, 01:27 AM
Hi all, im newly registered in here..
Been reading alot in here..
Me 27/m/chn and local gf 22/f/chn/A cup has been trying to try MMF and MFF for once. She wanna be fair and go for MMF first..
Anyway, we been talking for quite a few months alr.. no actions yet.. dunno where to start... do not wish to get frenz involved.. avoid embarrassment..
anyone willing to show the roles n lead the way?
honestly... dun scare us.. we new to this.. i dun wanna scare my gf off when she finally agrees now..

wildhunky
13-08-2012, 08:41 AM
Hey bro, ya keen to swing with wild couple? 30m chi and 23f Malay.. We r fuck buddies.. My gal is kinda bi curious. Cheers

devilslayer
13-08-2012, 10:45 AM
Hi bro ur mailbox is full . U will get a PM when u clear ur mail . Thanx

love_111
13-08-2012, 10:56 AM
Bro Ur inbox full. Hope to get Ur reply.thx

cybaster85
13-08-2012, 11:04 AM
Hi all, im newly registered in here..
Been reading alot in here..
Me 27/m/chn and local gf 22/f/chn/A cup has been trying to try MMF and MFF for once. She wanna be fair and go for MMF first..
Anyway, we been talking for quite a few months alr.. no actions yet.. dunno where to start... do not wish to get frenz involved.. avoid embarrassment..
anyone willing to show the roles n lead the way?
honestly... dun scare us.. we new to this.. i dun wanna scare my gf off when she finally agrees now..
Hi Bro
I m interest to join
pm me ^_^ bcoz ur inbox full =="

love_111
13-08-2012, 11:10 AM
bro ur pm is full. hope to get ur pm. cheers

A42L
13-08-2012, 12:17 PM
Bro I'm 22m chinese, hope to help you and your gf out, if you need my girl around I can arrange also :D

keen4swing
13-08-2012, 12:25 PM
Hi all, im newly registered in here..
Been reading alot in here..
Me 27/m/chn and local gf 22/f/chn/A cup has been trying to try MMF and MFF for once. She wanna be fair and go for MMF first..
Anyway, we been talking for quite a few months alr.. no actions yet.. dunno where to start... do not wish to get frenz involved.. avoid embarrassment..
anyone willing to show the roles n lead the way?
honestly... dun scare us.. we new to this.. i dun wanna scare my gf off when she finally agrees now..

Hi there, if you are interested for a swing instead do drop us a pm. We are local Chinese couple 26m and 24f. We are also pretty new to this..

hornyyoungster
13-08-2012, 12:38 PM
bro, i am keen to join your mmf. but your pm is full i cant send you

Lemonpie
13-08-2012, 12:40 PM
Firstly u got to meet up with the other party to discuss what can be done and what cant be done to you or your gf. Must make sure u and your gf like the other party first. If either of u find it hard to accept the other party den u both wont enjoy to the fullest. There must be some things u will hope for during the session. Everyone must agree to the goals and make sure its a enjoyable event. If need more help can pm me. ^^

YOOOY
13-08-2012, 02:14 PM
pictures is all ur girl friend is looking for..
then meet up with the party n state a little rules before getting into action bro.
let me send u my pictures over.
ur pm is full
my email is [email protected]
good looking guy here

darkangel83
13-08-2012, 02:30 PM
Hi bro,
I am 29m 1.74m 73kg chinese.
Let me know if I will have chance for MMF.
Of course we could chat and get to know each other before proceeding, to ensure your gf is ok with me.

nottyfun80
13-08-2012, 03:02 PM
Hi there..checking to see if your inbox is overflowing. I am 30sgM chi 182cm 80kg. I am kinda new to this too but I wouldn't wanna take it too fast too. Suggesting a chat to start with and see how it warms up;) CHeers!

[email protected]. ;)

Best Regards

MrTransform69
13-08-2012, 03:37 PM
Hi,

Are you interested in a couple swap?

We are a married local Chinese couple for 10 years.
He is 37, 180cm, 72kg, fit, straight.
She is 32, 160cm, 53kg, A-cup, straight.

We have experience in MMF but still consider a newbie in swinging. We respect the couple whom we play with and expect the same in return.

We're planning to swing on 31 Aug 2012. Let us know if you and your gf is interested.

Cheers
PS: our email is [email protected]

naturegreen
13-08-2012, 03:50 PM
Hi dude, one of my female friend is also curious about MFF. Wonder if your gf maybe keen. We can come out, chill out and get to know one another first. No obligations.

SamBoy24
13-08-2012, 04:47 PM
Your inbox is full. Hey bro 24m Chinese here 176cm 62kg slim. My email is [email protected] do email me if your gf is interested thanks.

Nannan
13-08-2012, 05:39 PM
Bro i been thru what u are going thru now. i will suggest that u can try to show her more mmf porn and get her arouse to the idea of having one more male and slowly arrange like minded guy to meet out for chilling. from smoking to drinking anything that both of u are more comfortable in =)

if u like to discuss more just pm me since ur inbox is full

Fan2seecpl
13-08-2012, 05:59 PM
Firstly u got to meet up with the other party to discuss what can be done and what cant be done to you or your gf. Must make sure u and your gf like the other party first. If either of u find it hard to accept the other party den u both wont enjoy to the fullest. There must be some things u will hope for during the session. Everyone must agree to the goals and make sure its a enjoyable event. If need more help can pm me. ^^

Agree with the bro here....

Comfort is very important... we may be new to SBF but been in the lifestyle for a while. Pushing the boundaries only comes with comfort. And best if you and your partner already have an understanding of what your limits are and make sure the other couple knows too.

From experience choose a relatively experienced couple if both new then very awkward to start. How we started was we got someone experienced to set the stage that was not pushy.

Just by reading the forum the last few days.. there seem to be alot of seasoned swingers. So not hard to find :)

pussyslime1
13-08-2012, 11:02 PM
wish u luck bro

stevex
14-08-2012, 12:59 AM
Hi all, im newly registered in here..
Been reading alot in here..
Me 27/m/chn and local gf 22/f/chn/A cup has been trying to try MMF and MFF for once. She wanna be fair and go for MMF first..
Anyway, we been talking for quite a few months alr.. no actions yet.. dunno where to start... do not wish to get frenz involved.. avoid embarrassment..
anyone willing to show the roles n lead the way?
honestly... dun scare us.. we new to this.. i dun wanna scare my gf off when she finally agrees now..

your case very similar to me. me also going to start soon right after when i more free:)

undertable
14-08-2012, 02:26 AM
Hi,

Are you interested in a couple swap?

We are a married local Chinese couple for 10 years.
He is 37, 180cm, 72kg, fit, straight.
She is 32, 160cm, 53kg, A-cup, straight.

We have experience in MMF but still consider a newbie in swinging. We respect the couple whom we play with and expect the same in return.

We're planning to swing on 31 Aug 2012. Let us know if you and your gf is interested.

Cheers
PS: our email is [email protected]

Yo bro!!! Yoni? remember us?

Hi all, im newly registered in here..
Been reading alot in here..
Me 27/m/chn and local gf 22/f/chn/A cup has been trying to try MMF and MFF for once. She wanna be fair and go for MMF first..
Anyway, we been talking for quite a few months alr.. no actions yet.. dunno where to start... do not wish to get frenz involved.. avoid embarrassment..
anyone willing to show the roles n lead the way?
honestly... dun scare us.. we new to this.. i dun wanna scare my gf off when she finally agrees now..

Hi there, Dropping over to say hi... Have tons of fun and play safe =)

shenglongba
14-08-2012, 06:22 AM
Hi bro, I am a American Chinese on an expat assignment in Singapore, had some MMF and couple swap experiences before, and I am interested in MMF with you and your gf. we can go out for drinks first and see if we are ok for each other and then decide. My gf is coming to Singapore early Nov, and if we get alone really well, maybe we can considered a 2 couple swinger party later?

anyway, there is no problem for me to lead the way in MMF, let me know.

BTW I am 174cm, 68kg

satisfytim
14-08-2012, 10:56 AM
Any update on this thread? :p

MrTransform69
14-08-2012, 11:12 AM
Yo bro!!! Yoni? remember us?

Hi there, Dropping over to say hi... Have tons of fun and play safe =)

Of course. Who can forget you and your lovely ladies. ;)
Kinda of busy, only can play at certain days now. :(

AndyAntz
18-08-2012, 10:01 AM
Thanks bros for the responses and advices. I talked n discussed with my gf deeper into the topic n even let her see this thread! And she is getting into the idea. Maybe still taking things slow though.. she has some requirements. If u fit, pls pm me..
Mature guy about 30 years old..
Chinese..
What she do and don't will be discussed in PM with suitable bros.. thanks..

Squiffy
18-08-2012, 10:20 AM
Hi. I'm a Caucasian guy that just moved to Singapore from the states and I'm very interested in getting to know you both for some conversations and maybe some fun (if we are all comfortable). I've had an ongoing relationship with a married couple and understand how this can work and be enjoyable. Hope we can connect via PM. Cheers.

AndyAntz
19-08-2012, 07:00 PM
hi bros and sis.. thanks for the PMs and I believed we have replied to some of you with our email to discuss n talk things.
anyway.. sorry for the disappointment if things seems slow n delayed.. like i said, gf is not that ready ready mode.. anyway.. we are both handling this thread now.. and she is actively involved in the planning and ideas n discussion now.. maybe not that ready for real action yet though..
BUT.... we actually had some ideas we consider a stepping stone or learning chances.. we will start by sharing her pictures here n hope to get admired in a positive way n hopeful this boost her confidence of being seen by others..
and also.. we are willing to host in a non-budget hotel for couples or some group actions.. Host.. as in.. we might not be ready to get involved physically.. but.. we can provide the place, and we might just hang around to see the action or maybe have our own action. N for this, we hope that the respect n promise is given that you WONT try to do anything to us or whatsoever.. so if this can be fixed, maybe we can invite you over to our hotel staycation for a few hours of enjoying some actions etc..
thanks...
our email is [email protected]

he is 28 chinese 168cm 57kg
she is 23 chinese 160cm 44kg A cup

AndyAntz
19-08-2012, 11:53 PM
hi all.. thanks for the advises and PMs. I have replied to a few of the bros n couples. Anyway, as an update, I would to apologise for any disappointments that no action is being confirmed so far. My gf is indeed much deeper into the idea now, however still “scared” and “not ready” to go into action.
However, after some consideration, we have a plan or a stepping stone for us. We decided to take things slow and take the first step of maybe taking pics of her and posting them here. This at least helps to remove some “barrier” of being “seen by others”, which is one major worry of hers now. And also, we can host some fun in a non-budget hotel for another couple, or even a group of you. We intend to host it and be around as audiences, and maybe that can in a way let us learn something or whatsoever. We would appreciate if the couple be open n friendly enough to have a chitchat with us before any action, and maybe have a mini FAQ session over drinks with us for my gf to ask some questions etc..
And tentatively, we are now looking at hosting one session on 29/08/2012.. We seek to invite a Chinese couple aged below 35years old. Pls email us at [email protected] if you are a friendly couple and willing to discuss things with us. Thanks
We are a couple of 28m chn and 23f chn..

sammyboyfor
21-08-2012, 05:21 PM
Thanks bros for the responses and advices.

"Advice" is a non countable noun; you do not add an "s" to make it plural.

"Advice" is like "Rice". You say... "Please pass me the Rice." You don't say "Please pass me the rices" because "Rice", like "Advice", is a non countable noun.

There are many other examples. To test your knowledge of non countable nouns, go to English Language Quiz - Countable or Non-countable Nouns (I-TESL-J) (http://a4esl.org/q/j/ck/ch-countnouns.html) and take the test.

AndyAntz
26-08-2012, 12:17 AM
"Advice" is a non countable noun; you do not add an "s" to make it plural.

"Advice" is like "Rice". You say... "Please pass me the Rice." You don't say "Please pass me the rices" because "Rice", like "Advice", is a non countable noun.

There are many other examples. To test your knowledge of non countable nouns, go to English Language Quiz - Countable or Non-countable Nouns (I-TESL-J) (http://a4esl.org/q/j/ck/ch-countnouns.html) and take the test.


Thank you for correcting me n teaching me the correct English over the word
Advice/s. I didn't know I gotta spell check, grammer check, or whatever check in this forum where leh, lah, no go, no meet, etc is so frequently seen in threads / posts. If you are shooting at me juz cos (just because) I'm new in here or you disagree with or dislike my thread or posts, I feel u can tell me in a better way. I truly do not appreciate your English lesson on that. Thank you.

Reoxy
26-08-2012, 12:47 AM
I truly do not appreciate your English lesson on that. Thank you.

Sammyboyfor is the owner of this website.

This is a script. It is an automatic post when it detects this.

Many others have kenaed it before.

FilipMixcpl
26-08-2012, 12:49 AM
swinging need the right people to guide you with comfortability to enter to enjoy. First you can chat or sms with the people you had selected on the phone to understand each others character before arranging for a meet up to chat without obligation or force to enter. That is how I usually arrange before swinging with my wife or g/f

Sandunes
26-08-2012, 10:42 AM
go look for undertable, aka Mac, he should be able to give some good advice. :D

CuriousCouple
26-08-2012, 06:59 PM
go look for undertable, aka Mac, he should be able to give some good advice. :D

Well bro, my wife and I been swinging for a while and we've come across many married couples or those in long term relationships with one another.

I guess the first question you ask yourselves when you get into this is WHY? As in why are you considering this.

It did wonders for my relationship for my wife but it's not a blanket solution for everyone. Firstly, your relationship needs to be really secure and you must be honest with one another in sexual matters.

And then comes the tough part - separating the emotion from physical. Jealousy needs to be checked at the door and it should be in the name and spirit of fun and exploration. If you can't do that you're treading in dangerous territory.

Meeting up with couples in this lifestyle as a couple might help you along or give you some foundation before you get started.

Have fun and play safe!

Cheers
Sir CC

Zennix
29-08-2012, 04:44 AM
Please refer to my thread. Looking for a young couple also.
http://sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?p=7695031#post7695031

Eazy
29-08-2012, 08:36 AM
Hi all, im newly registered in here..
Been reading alot in here..
Me 27/m/chn and local gf 22/f/chn/A cup has been trying to try MMF and MFF for once. She wanna be fair and go for MMF first..
Anyway, we been talking for quite a few months alr.. no actions yet.. dunno where to start... do not wish to get frenz involved.. avoid embarrassment..
anyone willing to show the roles n lead the way?
honestly... dun scare us.. we new to this.. i dun wanna scare my gf off when she finally agrees now..

Bro 26 chn first time also and I drive let me know if we can discuss further. Pm me