What guys consider as "Fair Game"

[AmIyoUrs2kEep]

What will you consider as "Fair Game" when you go after a girl especially when she is attached. WILL you still try to make her yours irregardless or you will back off cos you believe in what goes around comes around.

[warduckie1999]

If the girl really accept you though she is attached, it mean her current bf is unable to give her the happiness feeling.

Or u rather they get married and with no love, no spark?

We only live life once..Enjoy it and as long not married, it's a fair competition!

Even if u do not chase the girl and be a good guy, other guys will just do it.
See if u want to be a saint or make the girl happy lo

[kankachng]

It all depends on situation.

Be careful you might bang into the wall:D:)

[scentbug]

There's always a pull and push factor in situation like this. Nobody will walk away from a happy and blissful relationship. Not unless you're confused and don't know what they really want

[dvilla]

precisely, for myself all my ex gf left mi for another guy. It must be my problem, i figured out. And eventually only one ex gf got married with the guy she ran away with when she was with me.

[WhoUthinkyoUaRe]

girls who left their guy for u, will one day leave u for another guy.. that is what I believe

I support this theory.

[BoinKING]

well, I would consider everything fair game unless there is children involve..
If children are involve, then a fair game would be either she is divorce of separated.

I will not touch a woman who has a child that is an adolescent

[babyrex16]

If their relationship is on the rocks, I believe U can show her your interest in her. But if they are doin well with each other, then I guess U shouldn't. Cos what happens to her BF may happen to U too. :rolleyes:

[PenguinChaser]

Such things, don't play play. I believe in karma man. What goes around comes around. Even if other guys will go after the attached girl, I wouldn't do the same. They get hit back by karma then its their problem. :cool:

Besides that, I definitely agree with this phrase:


What has karma got to do with this? As long as you're not breaking up a family, karna shouldn't even be in the picture.

[SpikeTitan]

Im in this situation now.

Here is my view.

She is attached but since start her BF is not the guy she wants. Our paths happened to cross and since then the two of us have been exclusively close to each other.

I didnt chase her, just validated her actions. I will wait for her to break before I chase. Meanwhile since the both of us are close, I take the opportunity to know her more, like a relationship without commitment.

Karma wise, what goes around come around, I believe it will happen if u manage to break a healthy relationship.

If the girl decided to be with u, let say u are just being the nice guy and didn't chase her, and gave her the attention the BF didn't give, their relationship was shit rock bottom, then I would say good for u

:D

[PenguinChaser]

Karma wise, what goes around come around, I believe it will happen if u manage to break a healthy relationship.


:D

If a relationship is healthy and both parties are very into each other, there is nothing a third party can do. One hand cannot clap. Needs the girl or guy to want out of the relationship.

[wally888]

if both are adults and willing partners, each is seeking own's needs. So there's no issue of fair or not fair. Eventually, both should know that there's future in the relationship........

[Blurgal]

My guess would be women are the same as men... We oso have days where we feel lonely and need that sense of security tat mayb the current guy can't give:)

[DolceD]

Usually if the girl is attached in a happy r/s there is no point to interrupt, like one of the bro mentioned, if the girl is willing to leave another guy for you, the same may happen as well.

[Bangster]

The other party always seems attractive, appealing, worthed lusting after when he/she is still with his/her girlfriend/boyfriend/spouse

It is the lure of the forbidden fruit.

And all those vanish at once, or soon enough, when you managed to get him/her to your side.

Life is cruel many a time

[BuffonLee]

Fair game, all fair game. One day your girlfriend or wife also fair game.

[sootongs]

Cause and effect.

[MoLiHuaCha]

Xian other people or GF prepare to get the same back one day ;)

[onlyhuman]

all's fair in love and war. But only applies to unmarried people hor :D

[<<totally>>]

What will you consider as "Fair Game" when you go after a girl especially when she is attached. WILL you still try to make her yours irregardless or you will back off cos you believe in what goes around comes around.

In BGR the guy with the longest hand win. We are talking about emotions and feelings which cannot be defined in term of numbers. So there is already no fairness in this game.

boy put in how much effort = % of the girls heart < equation dun exist.

In this game is all about how you play your mind games, get her caught by surprises you plan, taking every hints and clues left by the girl through her body language and the way she looks at you, conversation with her sprinkled with jokes, maturity and security that you have.

Attacking bf when he did something wrong, standing by her thinking and slipping through the holes when she is down , sad when her bf cannot be with her.

If I dared to challenge another guy in the game, I am ready for new challengers. Of course covering and fixing the paths that i came through, reinforce my defend and towers.

If I do lost her, i can blame only myself not strong enough to defend the attack and not enough work done to ensure the woman will never leave me in any events.

Lastly you need to see the effort that you used to break the bf away for some but few girls are easily moved when they are showered with $ for example. (no offences to the ladies) That type of loss is predicted so i guessed not much of a loss after all.

[BaoYangYou]

I think all male/female are fair game married, single or attached. Question is not whether we can do it or not but whether it is morally right or not

[pussyslime8]

Go for the second person coz If you really loved the first person,you wouldn't notice another person :o

[Sirrus]

In BGR the guy with the longest hand win. We are talking about emotions and feelings which cannot be defined in term of numbers. So there is already no fairness in this game.

boy put in how much effort = % of the girls heart < equation dun exist.

In this game is all about how you play your mind games, get her caught by surprises you plan, taking every hints and clues left by the girl through her body language and the way she looks at you, conversation with her sprinkled with jokes, maturity and security that you have.

Attacking bf when he did something wrong, standing by her thinking and slipping through the holes when she is down , sad when her bf cannot be with her.

If I dared to challenge another guy in the game, I am ready for new challengers. Of course covering and fixing the paths that i came through, reinforce my defend and towers.

If I do lost her, i can blame only myself not strong enough to defend the attack and not enough work done to ensure the woman will never leave me in any events.

Lastly you need to see the effort that you used to break the bf away for some but few girls are easily moved when they are showered with $ for example. (no offences to the ladies) That type of loss is predicted so i guessed not much of a loss after all.

u dont seems like a very nice guy, guess u never really love anyone before

[jj_jj]

I think all male/female are fair game married, single or attached. Question is not whether we can do it or not but whether it is morally right or not

Fair game is up to anyone to say what it is.
Sometimes the morality question does not come into the picture.

E.g. a couple, married but not to each other, both already do not love their respective spouses any more. They meet and then fall in love over time, both intend to divorce so that they can then marry each other.
Fair game in the name of love?

Another example:

A suitor goes after a lonely married woman whose husband has a long-time mistress. The suitor is willing to wait for her to divorce.
Do we still judge on morals? Whose morals in question then?

In reality, most people who are caught in these situations do not act on it for the sake of their families/careers or wait till the kids have grown up.
The fairytale ending is somewhat elusive or takes a very long detour.

[acidicavex]

Fair?? Nothing is fair in our world
Game?? Mean there is a winner and a loser.

I ain't a believer but somehow the F word as in fate do exist. I don't really think those hocus pocus exist also but again sometimes you can't help wonder.

The only winner is or are those hocus pocus we go to when thing cannot be resolve practically and hoping for a miracles to dropby.