View Full Version : Not able to cum during sex but bj and hj no problem.
TheArtist
29-09-2012, 05:01 PM
Hi bros, I am finding it difficult to cum during intercourse. As I am pumping the girl, I feel tired from the movements. When the girl is riding me, I do not like the weight on my groin area and my little bro goes soft quickly.
However, I can cum easily on bjs and hjs. Does anyone else have this issue or is there something wrong with me... Thanks!
Big Sexy
29-09-2012, 05:28 PM
sound like it is all mental..
i would even suggest you stick to just bj and hj
you will have lower risk of contacting hiv/std..:D
However, I can cum easily on bjs and hjs. Does anyone else have this issue or is there something wrong with me... Thanks!
HarryPotter
29-09-2012, 10:34 PM
No offence, bro. May be down there too loose already. La kopi.
Bomohsg
30-09-2012, 10:52 PM
I agree it should be in the mind. If you're not too excited about the gal, you may need some additional "excitement" to make you ... eh ... more excited:D
Kolat
01-10-2012, 10:38 AM
I agree it should be in the mind. If you're not too excited about the gal, you may need some additional "excitement" to make you ... eh ... more excited:D
Yes you are right bro.
Foreplay and stimulation before going to Fj.
Hope bro TheArtist enjoy his sex.
Black_Hawk_Up
01-10-2012, 12:51 PM
did you PCC too often? that might have make your didi less sensitive.
Max77
01-10-2012, 01:04 PM
change different position, not being to ejac easily during intercourse might be a blessing instead. u might wanna set goal to climax her to orgasm a few time which will be quite rewarding
as for that cowgirl problem, its lies with the girl, not the cow. she has to grind instead of actually slam down hard with her butt
Mountain
02-10-2012, 03:04 PM
Try missionary position alone and use lubricant oil.
see see only
02-10-2012, 11:34 PM
OMG .... TS,
Look like you watched too much AV ... did you ? If your answer is yes ... then stop watching too much AV ;)
Harden
03-10-2012, 02:31 AM
u need a sex doll~
Putin
05-10-2012, 01:53 AM
watched too much AV ... did you ? If your
answer is yes ... then stop watching too much AV ;)
This not easy to do, got withdrawal symtoms one :D
Wizrd
07-10-2012, 01:53 AM
Three issues here...
Tired from pumping...you need to exercise more...good sex depends on a reasonably fit body...get your cardio and strength for endurance up...
Cannot cum from sex...what does your partner say about this? If she doesn't mind and enjoys the sex...continue to please her with sex, then ask her to HJ or BJ for you after she has had her fun...win win..
How about doggie? Lie her down on the bed, you stand by the bed to enter her? Spooning position? Go read sex manuals for more positions...try them out and see how...
Good luck...:)
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Putin
09-10-2012, 03:44 AM
How about doggie?
This also seems to work for me as well :)
yeongmsc
11-10-2012, 02:44 PM
Hi bros, I am finding it difficult to cum during intercourse. As I am pumping the girl, I feel tired from the movements. When the girl is riding me, I do not like the weight on my groin area and my little bro goes soft quickly.
However, I can cum easily on bjs and hjs. Does anyone else have this issue or is there something wrong with me... Thanks!
My suggestions,
1. Reduce masturbation to once or twice a week.
2. Go for a clean massage prior to sex. Personally I find foot massage cheap, relaxing & effective.
3. Pull back foreskin for greater arousal.
4. Ask partner to foreplay w balls, nipples or ears
5. If still cannot, more extreme measures incl jg (but no release) prior to fj w regular partner.
6. To test if still can cum during fj, try above on another non-regular. If this works, it means it's a mental thing & regular partner not as stimulating as other partners or compared w in the past.
7. Another method u can try is for gal on top. Ask her to squeeze her knees hence her virginal is tight around ur dick. V slowly but tight rock up & down. This shd simulate hj. When high arousal is reached, ask partner to increae tempo or more aggressive. If partner is tired, roll while maintaining ur dick in her virginal so tt become man on top.
Hope above helps
ahtat77
11-10-2012, 03:47 PM
you could be suffering from ED,able to cum but unable to stand for long and di di is not hard enough for penetration.my advice see a doc.:)
alexander81
13-10-2012, 08:20 PM
This is good advice.. Thanks bros
LoverSon
20-10-2012, 01:22 PM
Hi all bros,
Yes, I encountered this problem occasionally too.
I remember banging this girl for 10 mins non-stop and my whole body is covered with sweat and I still cannot cum! I was too tired to go on while my dick is still solid rock... In the end, have to clean up and ask her to BBBJ me until I cum :(
kgbkgb
23-10-2012, 09:01 AM
Hi bros, I am finding it difficult to cum during intercourse. As I am pumping the girl, I feel tired from the movements. When the girl is riding me, I do not like the weight on my groin area and my little bro goes soft quickly.
However, I can cum easily on bjs and hjs. Does anyone else have this issue or is there something wrong with me... Thanks!
it means yr cock not firm enough. how old r u?
badder
24-10-2012, 08:26 PM
Could be many factors. These are what I could think of in your situation as it was somewhat similar to me.
How do you masturbate? Conventionally or non? If conventional masturbation, it could be because of lack of excitement, stress or tired. These few reasons can be solved. Increase the foreplay, destress yourself before sex and don't force yourself to sex when you are tired even if the dick is standing.
If you are masturbating out of the norm, which I doubt so since you are able to cum with a hj then it is time to switch to a normal hand masturbation.
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