Who hate this sinking feeling after visiting FLs?

[justwanadoit]

I dun noe, just felt lousy. yep I cummed but I feel lousy

[asdfghjkl]

maybe its because its your first time? :o

[PoundIt]

probably its the lack of chemistry which creates that 'happy feeling' when you ejaculated.
unlike your own gf, who can make you feel more appreciated after sex.

[asdfghjkl]

some men i know feel that way with their gf or wife too.. :o

[Sirrus]

some men i know feel that way with their gf or wife too.. :o

thats kind of sad.....what happen?

[jasdude]

Well, solution is simple. Don't look for one. If you feel guilty don't do it. If you think its not what you want because its a transaction and lack the true feel, get a gf or mistress or sugar.babe or fb.

[nuclearkid]

You went to Petain Road, bro? :D

**No disrespect to other patrons of that district, that remark was borne out a remark a friend made after a vist. He said that place made him feel cheap and dirty...

[spidey7]

Many factors tt u can feel lousy tho u cummed. Tired, lousy Svc, mood nt dere .... Etc. gals cmi but u juz wanna release.

[onlyhuman]

I nv have this feeling b4 leh...can u tell me wat sinking feelings u had?
The gal no service? Or gives u a black face?

[littlepok]

I dun noe, just felt lousy. yep I cummed but I feel lousy

i understand what u mean, i also have same feeling. maybe as some say, no GFE just pump and cum. i also worry about cleanliness of that girl etc. feel dirty and cheap sometimes.

another possible reason is men like the hunting feel and eat your prey. imagine a tiger go into butcher shop and buy meat instead of hunting for it, same analogy. the one u get with effort taste better than u pay for it.

i already stopped finding FL already (seriously it saves trouble of travelling and the $$$). find some good vids and pcc works the same for me.

free time go out hunt for your prey, it will taste better. need an FB also works

[(o)(o) Tuner]

Is it becos you felt dirty?

[songsonglah]

Time to get a girlfriend.

There was a stage where I felt the same too. How not to, when you cheong ktv for at least 4-5 happy hours sessions per week. I know you're talking about booking fl, but the feeling is the same.

At the end of the session, it's like "ok, it's done. 曲终人散" and the feeling of emptiness sets in.

Time to get a girlfriend and find more meaning in life.

[nfiaker]

I get that feeling too, but it's probably from the years of "Pros are bad, dirty" kind of lessons our parents always tell us. After doing it a while there will be a high, then after a while more, back to sianness coz it feels routine.

Then it's a cycle of highs and lows.

[fantasy10]

TS, cos the girl never make u shiok shiok! If she did, u will RTF her also...

[Drooler]

I used to have that same feeling also bro. Let me share with you what was the actual problem.

You thought your body wanted sex and it would be satisfied. But actually, your mind wanted to make love. That's why after the session you don't really feel shiok or the proper word is.... Fulfilled.

Time to find a gf to love

[soothHerOnlyIf]

the grass is always greener on the other side.

visit FLs until sian => woo girls to be their bf and then f**k until sian =>hook up FB(s) and then fuck until sian => visit FLs :o ...

[soothHerOnlyIf]

but imagine come to think of it, if its gf you are f-ing and you can have sex everyday, wouldnt it be much much less expensive compared to f-ing FL on per hour basis?

so TS, get gf better? :o

to all bros, sorry if you feel offended i'm comparing FLs to GFs but I'm only comparing in monetary terms nia.

[nfiaker]

After so many years, I have tried some and failed to get a GF, so now I end up goin gto FLs to sextify me. Women are way more "higher maintenance" in terms of time and effort than FLs, so that is something that has been nagging my mind all this while.

If I can pay for sex, and get it straight away, why do I want to go through monetary /dating pain and emotional pain when I can probably find a good long lasting FL with no strings attached?

Even if no love, but after screw long enough, also have some familiarity. And they cannot refuse your advances either lol.

That said, I do want to have a GF to love. I have never had a chance to feel that ni a steady r/s before.

[LovePotion]

i think partly is becos... dont have the gf type of feeling after screwing them...

[deludedgal]

I used to have that same feeling also bro. Let me share with you what was the actual problem.

You thought your body wanted sex and it would be satisfied. But actually, your mind wanted to make love. That's why after the session you don't really feel shiok or the proper word is.... Fulfilled.

Time to find a gf to love

wa i think so too good point.

[Sootbird]

i only felt my money is wasted after every trip. But i also stop visiting FL long ago.

[asdfghjkl]

FLs are there for forever alone.. else you want them to stay bergin meh? :o

[president86]

Sinking feeling cos u know it's wrong?

Some ppl i know thinks looking for FLs or prostitutes r morally incorrect. But they r freaking awesome!

[littlepok]

but imagine come to think of it, if its gf you are f-ing and you can have sex everyday, wouldnt it be much much less expensive compared to f-ing FL on per hour basis?

so TS, get gf better? :o

to all bros, sorry if you feel offended i'm comparing FLs to GFs but I'm only comparing in monetary terms nia.

gf are higher maintenance lor... some must put up good performance then allow u to screw (with alot of limitations. eh i dont BJ one hor... eh this position can liao la why keep changing? or maybe whatsapp?)

anyway, i think it's good to get a gf then u will realise the beauty of FL. the one u love and the one u screw need not be the same (it make u love her even more, with a tinge of guilt mah)

[AlphaRomeoo]

Actually I get this feeling as well..but only from the FLs in Singapore. That is why I stopped going for the FLs here.

But in Changping China I never really get this feeling. I actually feel happy and am willing to keep going back for more plus their Chinese girls the standard is better and the service is really good. Same for BKK, thailand. I usually make friends with the FLs there as they are young and around my age and studying.

Plus in China, it is 2 hours of massage, and then got cat bath and a lot of other things and sex also.

Here the FL is only just you cum and go.

I think most of the Chinese girls in Geylang here that I see or on personal advert websites advertising are expensive and some also CMI.

So the only country I go for FL is China and BKK. Singapore not worth it to go for FL..

[AlphaRomeoo]

After so many years, I have tried some and failed to get a GF, so now I end up goin gto FLs to sextify me. Women are way more "higher maintenance" in terms of time and effort than FLs, so that is something that has been nagging my mind all this while.

If I can pay for sex, and get it straight away, why do I want to go through monetary /dating pain and emotional pain when I can probably find a good long lasting FL with no strings attached?

Even if no love, but after screw long enough, also have some familiarity. And they cannot refuse your advances either lol.

That said, I do want to have a GF to love. I have never had a chance to feel that ni a steady r/s before.

Why not get a Friend with benefit instead? Just like having a friend and you don't have to pay for sex and no emotional attachment

[alexander81]

i understand what u mean, i also have same feeling. maybe as some say, no GFE just pump and cum. i also worry about cleanliness of that girl etc. feel dirty and cheap sometimes.

another possible reason is men like the hunting feel and eat your prey. imagine a tiger go into butcher shop and buy meat instead of hunting for it, same analogy. the one u get with effort taste better than u pay for it.

i already stopped finding FL already (seriously it saves trouble of travelling and the $$$). find some good vids and pcc works the same for me.

free time go out hunt for your prey, it will taste better. need an FB also works


yeah rite bro!!

[soothHerOnlyIf]

gf are higher maintenance lor... some must put up good performance then allow u to screw (with alot of limitations. eh i dont BJ one hor... eh this position can liao la why keep changing? or maybe whatsapp?)

anyway, i think it's good to get a gf then u will realise the beauty of FL. the one u love and the one u screw need not be the same (it make u love her even more, with a tinge of guilt mah)


I agree there're limitations bro. luckily my ex bbbj me but will say tired very quickly and she's afraid to do cowgirl cos she will feel too high :(

but then depends on what kind of performance gf want from me. if its buying presents and treating good food everyday, yes it's more expensive but if it's sweet talking :D , almost foc lor. can sweet talk till she song song lie on the bed

FL on the other hand allow me many sex positions which I like. I can also choose girls I have difficulties hooking up with in real life. :D

it all boils down to what you are paying for. jus screwing or playing, talking, cuddling and then screwing. makes alot of difference. :o

[nfiaker]

Why not get a Friend with benefit instead? Just like having a friend and you don't have to pay for sex and no emotional attachment

Lol, dunno how, dunno where to find.

Besides, I scared I find FB liao, fall into love trap for nothing, when it is supposed to be just F and Forget.

[bluewater]

I used to have that same feeling also bro. Let me share with you what was the actual problem.

You thought your body wanted sex and it would be satisfied. But actually, your mind wanted to make love. That's why after the session you don't really feel shiok or the proper word is.... Fulfilled.

Time to find a gf to love

well said

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[sunnt]

Guess there are some guy like me out there.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ogoIxkPjRts

Sometimes, we just cant do it, Making love out of nothing at all.

[KongFattChoyHee]

Time to get a girlfriend.


Nowadays, girls got very high demands, cheaper to go for FL, sadly :(

[sgjoey]

No sinking feeling, but it is rather addictive.

If svc is bad, it motivates me to look for something better. If svc is good, I want to repeat the experience.

So either way.... I keep going back. LOL....

[AlphaRomeoo]

Lol, dunno how, dunno where to find.

Besides, I scared I find FB liao, fall into love trap for nothing, when it is supposed to be just F and Forget.

FB and Fwb got a difference leh. Fwb is a friend you hang out with but don't always have sex. So Fwb you don't F and forget. If both stop Fing right you still remain friends. FB is a buddy you just meet up every time for sex only. That one is F and forget.

[brobert64]

Sunnt, Nice one! Making love out of nothing.. haa

Yes TS i have the feeling too.. it's just not fulfilling for the mind.. haiz.. a sg gf is not easy to find too ;s

[nfiaker]

FB and Fwb got a difference leh. Fwb is a friend you hang out with but don't always have sex. So Fwb you don't F and forget. If both stop Fing right you still remain friends. FB is a buddy you just meet up every time for sex only. That one is F and forget.

Wah! Got such distinction?

Laidat not worse for me? Fwb lagi make me wan to take her as GF how? Or she think we in a r/s how?

[AlphaRomeoo]

Wah! Got such distinction?

Laidat not worse for me? Fwb lagi make me wan to take her as GF how? Or she think we in a r/s how?

Ofcourse not every one can be a fwb. You need someone with an open-mind. Don't rush it or jump into it. You have to find someone that will not want you to take her as a GF and want a relationship.

Someone who doesn't want drama or to have emotional attachment but wants a friend and companion and physical attachment and fun.

For me usually I draw the line at the start so as to not complicate things and we both already show our hands at the table and both know what we are getting ourselves into.

Of course if you sleep with those emotional clingy kind of girl then you say can we be fwb if not we don't contact. If they are already glued to you, they will say yes to fwb la rather than not contact you, by the time too late already she fall for you then you're stuck.

Get what I mean?

[Forsyth]

I dun noe, just felt lousy. yep I cummed but I feel lousy

Ahhhh, I feel that way too. Nothing you can do about it, but sometimes there maybe some methods to lessen it.

I like to rtf, whether fls or ktv girls. That way, you get a bit more feeling, not a lot, just a bit more. They won't get ready to leave when act is done, can huddle some, talk some.
But when time to leave the hotel room, don't bring the feelings with you.
2 girls tried to ask things from me, sad, cos like that I stop rtf.

Peace.

[soothHerOnlyIf]

Ahhhh, I feel that way too. Nothing you can do about it, but sometimes there maybe some methods to lessen it.

I like to rtf, whether fls or ktv girls. That way, you get a bit more feeling, not a lot, just a bit more. They won't get ready to leave when act is done, can huddle some, talk some.
But when time to leave the hotel room, don't bring the feelings with you.
2 girls tried to ask things from me, sad, cos like that I stop rtf.

Peace.

bro, they tried to ask what thing from you?

[Forsyth]

1 ask for Iphone, another ask for help with school fees, 2k+.
There was 1 more, ask for birthday gift, branded bag, 1k+ type.

All I rtf at least 5 times.

[asdfghjkl]

sg gals easy to be gf but hard to marry la

[BMW69]

sg gals easy to be gf but hard to marry la

Yeah! I agree. They're more afraid if commitment than guys. Always thought its the other way around

[TonyV]

I also feel quite empty after coming when paid sex. Don't know why :(
But still I still go looking for fls to fulfill my urge

[nfiaker]

Ofcourse not every one can be a fwb. You need someone with an open-mind. Don't rush it or jump into it. You have to find someone that will not want you to take her as a GF and want a relationship.

Someone who doesn't want drama or to have emotional attachment but wants a friend and companion and physical attachment and fun.

For me usually I draw the line at the start so as to not complicate things and we both already show our hands at the table and both know what we are getting ourselves into.

Of course if you sleep with those emotional clingy kind of girl then you say can we be fwb if not we don't contact. If they are already glued to you, they will say yes to fwb la rather than not contact you, by the time too late already she fall for you then you're stuck.

Get what I mean?

I hear you bro. Although my current circle not easy for me to find. And I very r/s noob, skarly not she wan to commit, but is me wan to commit then habiz! :eek::eek::eek::eek:

[QQ00QQ]

After Trying For my First time feel very worry and scare!... my exp is the gal just keep on pumping till you cum everything out that IT!!!!....After that feel quite Emo!

[comm]

I used to have that same feeling also bro. Let me share with you what was the actual problem.

You thought your body wanted sex and it would be satisfied. But actually, your mind wanted to make love. That's why after the session you don't really feel shiok or the proper word is.... Fulfilled.

Time to find a gf to love

haha, quote for truth

also if u feel too tired after sex, its a sign of kidney energy weak

[soothHerOnlyIf]

find gf got use meh? its like finding additional trouble to solve?

find FL is to solve a problem (urge). find gf is to bring tons of problem along to you (with some sweetness maybe)

[TonyV]

I also feel quite empty after coming when paid sex. Don't know why :(
But still I still go looking for fls to fulfill my urge

And I went and did it again. I booked a fl, bought condoms, got room and had 2 shots. After I cum on second shot, I asked myself, why did I do this ?
empty feeling, but sometimes feel cannot help it. self service can only satisfy so long.

[asdfghjkl]

then how, stay forever alone? :o

[SammyNewbie]

Dude,

I went through that problem also. It's because the FL gave bad service.

Bottom line. Not your problem.

I later found out my beloved G9 also started giving bad service when I didn't come back and my Indian friend was right. The moment the FL/WL gives bad service, almost always IMMEDIATELY switch to a different one on the next visit.

Better chance of getting better service.

Picking cheaper WL/FL also gives u better chance of doing more often and finding the one that will give you good sex with regularly.

[SammyNewbie]

Look out for FR and ang pai. And usually if chio bu standing by the road... but alot of people walk pass her without picking her, it's usually because they've all tried before and it's bad.

All I can say is, whether you find girlfriend or paid sex is the same. Will usually have more bad sex than good sex. You just got to move on and keep looking and not go back to the same FL/WL that gave you the bad sex.

At first, you will sian that you lost that money. Then after awhile you will tell yourself, I'll just go when I am horny. And then even when you had bad sex, it doesn't matter cause u were horny to begin with

[SammyNewbie]

I think I just maybe wasted my advice on someone trying to get pity sex XD... but I was this emo before, so I'll give him the benefit of the doubt.

Like I said, take my advice... and change the girl.

And also, I think maybe a hobby/job in your life will help with the empty feeling more than the high from even good sex for about 1 hour. I think I should take your advice and take up guitar lessons on top of tai chi >.<".