Delayed ejaculation.

[Beau]

Hello fellow bros, Ive this problem for a very very long time. I started masturbation at the age of 11 thanks to a girl classmate i known in my primary school. 10 years of masturbation has cause me serious problem in life. I'm unable to cum without my hands. I cant cum standing. I can have active sex with my gf ( which most people can easily rate 8/10 for both face and body ) for 2 hours without ejaculating. Not because she's not tight, skilled or bad. But in fact, i took her virgin and we watch porn tgt and learn how they do it. I'm unable to cum at all. Any guys out there have treatments to recommend? Am i the only one around? I can only cum while tip-toe and with the help of my hands..

[Forza458]

go to the doctor? yes it is embarrassing but no choice bro...

[littlepok]

i guess alot of guys here will say they will up your gf and show u how it's done.

perhaps u should try something else. for example, get your gf to handjob u at your favorite position, get away from using your hands.

then bj u at your favorite position. then hj/bj u while lying down.

the whole point is to gradually make slight changes from your routine position of tip-toe and using hand, u know what i mean?

it's purely psychiatric but unless u get it resolved soon, the woman may get pissed off. for sure u will give multiple orgasm but also with very sore legs (open so big for 2 hrs). they also will feel unsure of themselves for not being able to make u cum with their pussy.

good luck bro. if my lousy method does not work, then find a sex therapist or whatever. sorry no suggestion where

[Beau]

Over the years, i always thought that the girls was the problem. Change different girls but still the same old problem. Visit fl. still the same problem.

Any suggestions on which doctor or sex therapist should i consult?
And their estimated cost as well.. Many many thanks.

[seennoe]

wow, 2 hrs without cumming? you tough guy leh bro... since you can only cum with hj, why not let your gf hj if gf tired after long sex? or you can hj yourself with gf infront naked if tired... or like what you said, see a doctor or therapist.

[Beau]

Do any brothers out there know which clinic should I consult? Etc the locationn

[amuletcollector]

wow, 2 hrs without cumming? you tough guy leh bro... since you can only cum with hj, why not let your gf hj if gf tired after long sex? or you can hj yourself with gf infront naked if tired... or like what you said, see a doctor or therapist.
seems like very serious leh....i think somebody in the Health section might be able to help...

[eozei]

Actually, I don't think that you have a clinical problem. Have you tried not masturbating for a few days before having sex?

The other thing is that sex is a mostly mental thing -- you need to have the same mindset while you're masturbating as when you're having sex. Have you noticed how while masturbating you can stop ejaculating too by just thinking about something different? Try this.

Unfortunately for you, Singapore only has one sexologist (yes, this is a thing). But I really don't think you need to see her.

[LovePotion]

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[owl888]

Frankly have u stopped your masterbating:confused:

[loneyheart]

Agreed w bro owl888 ... TS should totally stop masterbating n stop sex activities for 1 month or 2 ... then let a new born u n find a good chio bu to bonk ... see if u can cum fast n furious :D

[Beau]

Should eat veg for 2months.

Just deleted all my bangbros, mofos, uncensored JAV movies.
800GB off my hardisk. Gonna stop masturbation now.

[bonkster]

Any suggestions on which doctor or sex therapist should i consult?

Just visit a GP near to u n the doctor will refer u to a specialist if necessary. All the best! ;)

Just deleted all my bangbros, mofos, uncensored JAV movies.
800GB off my hardisk.

Could have just passed me your hard disk u know :p

[littlepok]

Should eat veg for 2months.

Just deleted all my bangbros, mofos, uncensored JAV movies.
800GB off my hardisk. Gonna stop masturbation now.

800GB? haha u could be uploading for pocket $ haha... no QC one is it? your room got a few servers (not even HDD).

alternative thought, stop all masturbation and make yourself burst at night (i doubt wet dream is u hj yourself. should be bonking someone la...) then u might subconsciously realise u can cum while bonking.

it's a psychological problem so i will suggest u meet a NLP practitioner who can touch the problem at a subconscious level. remove the phobia and self-limiting thought, solve the problem from the root.

i once went to billy kuek seminar (never go course) but he seem quite good (expensive also) google for more info.

[ah rat]

Agreed w bro owl888 ... TS should totally stop masterbating n stop sex activities for 1 month or 2 ... then let a new born u n find a good chio bu to bonk ... see if u can cum fast n furious :D

Bro,I agree for TS to stop using hands to masturbate.But sex must still continue,he must try to cum during sex.I too encounter this problem many years ago,I masturbate using hands when I still do not have Gf.And I too got problem to cum during sex.I want baby,so using hands to make it cum,then put my dick in her love hole :D I try to cum during sex & I success in doing so.So Ts U must overcome this problem :)

[Beau]

800GB? haha u could be uploading for pocket $ haha... no QC one is it? your room got a few servers (not even HDD).

alternative thought, stop all masturbation and make yourself burst at night (i doubt wet dream is u hj yourself. should be bonking someone la...) then u might subconsciously realise u can cum while bonking.

it's a psychological problem so i will suggest u meet a NLP practitioner who can touch the problem at a subconscious level. remove the phobia and self-limiting thought, solve the problem from the root.

i once went to billy kuek seminar (never go course) but he seem quite good (expensive also) google for more info.

I've once shared bangbros premium accounts in this forum before and stop ever since my account has been zap till negative.

Each video at least 1 gb above. Some 3-4...
Really damn hardcore video collection. I've the whole of money talks uploads also.

[vawn]

I share ur pain bro...
My previous record was a good 3hrs (on and off) till my partner kick me off...
It eventually got very upseting for her as she thought its some kind of emotionally issue.

I cant say much bout u but my problem is mostly psychological.
I unconsciously keep wanting to please her (she's my 1st gf) so much that I end up held back till a point it got numb.
Eventually we over come this problem so dont give up hope :)

What i find useful is to find the rhythm most suitable for u and ur partner.
Explore the position in which ur most comfortable and slowly work on it.
Also feel free to play around different erogenous zone, both u and ur partner, and explore each other's fantasy.
If circumstances allow, (though i'm seriously DONT recommend it) do it without protection...
Hate to say it but it really cuts back the feeling by 50%...
Try to get some ultra line cap like those 0.03cm/mm type if possible

[vawn]

That aside, do cut back on porno...
Porno tends to lead u having false expectation of what it should be and when things doesn't goes the way intended, it can be very discouraging...
Regarding masturbation, i wont ask to totally stop but if u know u gonna do it soon, i suggest go on 'fasting' for about a day or 2...
The anticipations and withdrawal helps to give the kick during the action.

Finally the rest is really patience and understanding, both u and ur partner.
Delayed ejaculation is the 3rd common (perhaps the least common) form of erectial disfunction and lack of common understanding compare to the other 2 which is premature ejeculation and impotency. The important thing is that is not to put blame on anyone and to gain confidence in urself.