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Kinger
31-03-2005, 05:17 PM
Dear All,

I had an request which like to seek you’all the opinion of as it quite urgent.

The line begins on the kind of stuff which starts with money involve again. This is the first time which it’s my first PRC gal which in hometown mention that her parent is sick. At meantime, which is halfway into coming here again and would like to borrow same cash in return; when here. Although I came across a lot of stories by some of you guys outta which had good or bad experience, but still hope to get some suggestions and real life feedbacks or email.

Personally, feels like although this has’nt any beneficial of putting comments to me but hope this will helps rest of you people out there in future of a clearer vision.

Lastly, thanks for all the assistance and comments!

Best Regards

wanderer23
31-03-2005, 05:23 PM
Dear All,

This is the first time which it’s my first PRC gal which in hometown mention that her parent is sick. At meantime, which is halfway into coming here again and would like to borrow same cash in return; when here. Although I came across a lot of stories by some of you guys outta which had good or bad experience, but still hope to get some suggestions and real life feedbacks or email.


Catch no ball :confused:

meng
31-03-2005, 05:25 PM
If you have that spare cash...by all means :D

But, pls lah...these PRC always says that who and who is sick and in need of $$$ urgently.

If you fall into thier KC trap....God bless you.

Pls use your big head and not yr small head to control yrself.

Cheers

naemlo
31-03-2005, 05:35 PM
Lastly, thanks for all the assistance and comments!



How to be not nasty to u. Newbies always complain we r nasty but I just can't control. First of all, your ang mo is either too chim or worse than mine. I dun understand your story. R u saying your ger in China needs money n u want us to advice whether u should send money to her?????? If this is the case, haizzz I thought the forum is full of Aunty Agony threads. Go n read them up.

Doenitz79
31-03-2005, 05:50 PM
Dear All,

I had an request which like to seek you’all the opinion of as it quite urgent.

The line begins on the kind of stuff which starts with money involve again. This is the first time which it’s my first PRC gal which in hometown mention that her parent is sick. At meantime, which is halfway into coming here again and would like to borrow same cash in return; when here. Although I came across a lot of stories by some of you guys outta which had good or bad experience, but still hope to get some suggestions and real life feedbacks or email.

Personally, feels like although this has’nt any beneficial of putting comments to me but hope this will helps rest of you people out there in future of a clearer vision.

Lastly, thanks for all the assistance and comments!

Best Regards

I am an English tutor,do you want to attend my classes for beginners?

Kinger
31-03-2005, 05:58 PM
Thanks all.. My english are mixed...

matrixint2003
31-03-2005, 06:02 PM
[QUOTE=Kinger]Dear All,

I had an request which like to seek you’all the opinion of as it quite urgent.

The line begins on the kind of stuff which starts with money involve again. This is the first time which it’s my first PRC gal which in hometown mention that her parent is sick. At meantime, which is halfway into coming here again and would like to borrow same cash in return; when here. Although I came across a lot of stories by some of you guys outta which had good or bad experience, but still hope to get some suggestions and real life feedbacks or email.

Personally, feels like although this has’nt any beneficial of putting comments to me but hope this will helps rest of you people out there in future of a clearer vision.

Aiyoh better don't play play otherwise will die die.

Kinger
31-03-2005, 06:04 PM
Thanks all....

tarzan69
31-03-2005, 06:09 PM
Bro Kinger,IMHO $$$ issue wat type of feedback u want???either lend or reject her.....if i tell u lend,u dont get ur $$$ back,u will blame me a nt????if i say dont lend,really her parent cannot make it liao die.....(touch wood),u will say i heartless a not????u think twice urself lah,who are we to give u advise on tis???think wat u shld do and tats it! ;)

mahalosux
31-03-2005, 06:11 PM
if she's ur gf.. will u ever use the word 'lend'??? :confused:

if she's u gf.. u wan to lend, u lend.. but my advise is to be careful

if she's jus a 'sex partner', mistress, etc... then dun lend...

plman2002
31-03-2005, 06:13 PM
Thanks all.. My english are mixed...

U see, yr sentence no head no tail one.
dun understand leh. yr English mixed with what??!?!??
if u dun bother to write, then dun write.
just like bro naemlo said, its not we wanna to chak newbies.
u r too much man. :mad:

mahalosux
31-03-2005, 06:16 PM
U see, yr sentence no head no tail one.
dun understand leh. yr English mixed with what??!?!??
if u dun bother to write, then dun write.
just like bro naemlo said, its not we wanna to chak newbies.
u r too much man. :mad:

people no money to study but got money to lend his PRC gf... u lidat chak him, good meh??? :p

Liquid@cid
31-03-2005, 06:26 PM
IMHO, by posting here asking for advise already prove that you doubt her liao, since that's the case why bother to lend ??? Actually i think you already got the ans in you liao lor you just wanna someone to re-re-recomfirm your decision right?? Cos for me, if i really into a relationship, i won't even hesitate to fork out all i have if my girl tells me that same prob, even if she's a PRC, and not posting here and ask others opinions to decide her family's fate, tio bo??

plman2002
31-03-2005, 06:27 PM
people no money to study but got money to lend his PRC gf... u lidat chak him, good meh??? :p

i see him ko lian tai then i chak him.
if not, can't be bothered with him.
haiz~~~~~~~

Rof|maoxz
31-03-2005, 06:29 PM
her parent is sick.

If she's sick, don't you think that borrow from her relatives is better den coming here to work and bring back the $$$? Anyway in china, the family nucleus is very big. Each adult chip in 100-200RMB should not be a problem. Unless you wanna act big time hero and lend her the $$. :rolleyes:

ahpaul25
31-03-2005, 07:04 PM
Dear All,

I had an request which like to seek you’all the opinion of as it quite urgent.

The line begins on the kind of stuff which starts with money involve again. This is the first time which it’s my first PRC gal which in hometown mention that her parent is sick. At meantime, which is halfway into coming here again and would like to borrow same cash in return; when here. Although I came across a lot of stories by some of you guys outta which had good or bad experience, but still hope to get some suggestions and real life feedbacks or email.

Personally, feels like although this has’nt any beneficial of putting comments to me but hope this will helps rest of you people out there in future of a clearer vision.

Lastly, thanks for all the assistance and comments!

Best Regards


Bro, how much she want to borrow from you............ It easy to catch her wonder she lied, 1st you ask what illness her parents have? Then admit which hospital? What the $$ is for? Operate which part? You see how her reactions is? Then you update how her response? You have to play mind games with you. those gers are damn smart 1........ I meet many cases........I know what they want......... ;)

Lowell
31-03-2005, 07:06 PM
Dear All,

I had an request which like to seek you’all the opinion of as it quite urgent.

The line begins on the kind of stuff which starts with money involve again. This is the first time which it’s my first PRC gal which in hometown mention that her parent is sick. At meantime, which is halfway into coming here again and would like to borrow same cash in return; when here. Although I came across a lot of stories by some of you guys outta which had good or bad experience, but still hope to get some suggestions and real life feedbacks or email.

Personally, feels like although this has’nt any beneficial of putting comments to me but hope this will helps rest of you people out there in future of a clearer vision.

Lastly, thanks for all the assistance and comments!

Best Regards

Just a few questions which only you can answer should help you clear this up.

1. Do you really care for her?

Because if you really do, then you should help.

2. Do you have the money?

Well, if you have the money, then go ahead:)

3. Will you miss the money?

There seems to be a chance you won't get it back. So if you will miss the money, then don't.

4. Are you willing to take the risk?

Same thing. There is that risk that she may be taking you for a ride.

Well, if you answer "YES" to all the questions above, then do what you want to.

Above all, remember this....we can give you all the advice/insults/flames you want, but at the end of the day it is your heart and your head which will give you the answer. Do what you want to do, but only because YOU want to, not because of what we say.

groo
31-03-2005, 08:16 PM
...... starts with money involve again. This is the first time which it’s my first PRC gal which in hometown mention that her parent is sick. At meantime, which is halfway into coming here again and would like to borrow same cash in return; when here.....

1. She comes here to work. Aim: $$$$$$.......
2. Cannot get the kind of money she wants in double-quick time, contrary to what her friends told her: Sgp is a land paved with gold. Aim: Con a saw-loh for a lot of $$$$$$ n Quit asap....
3. To get this $$$$$$ in triple-quick time, she'll approach all she comes in contact with, her clients, boss, colleagues, even her own tong-zhi......
4. Scared her story is real and her parent or whoever will actually die if she cannot get the money? That's right, then why come all the way to Sgp instead of finding help back home first? By the time she reached Sgp n try to work for $$$$$$, her relative already pack up to join her ancestors liao!

Sorry, this is a fact of life. They will really even con their own tong-zhi when they are desperate. This is my experience when I was in China. And I have enough $$$$$$ problems of my own: my kids schoolbooks/toys/milk powder, wife's shopping, my car installments, my house installments, my maid's salary, ..... blah blah blah. Oh.... n my vitamin M for HC massages!!! Bwahahahahahahah!!!! :D

Until next time, cheong-ahhhhhhh.............! :p

iloveoversea
31-03-2005, 08:50 PM
Just a piece of info

in China there is no clinic like those in Sin. There are hospital everywhere. though. If ur sick in China and visit these hospital, they won't give you medication but drip bottle and charge you high price. So if you decided to help out be prepared that the need for vit M does not stop here. All after-mdeical care and the tonic is going to cost as well.

twintower
31-03-2005, 09:05 PM
If you want to believe her then lend lah.

But I tell you, this money is "Yo Qi Wu Hui" means down the drain lia.

Jari_Owen
31-03-2005, 09:17 PM
My 2 cents

If money is in your pocket...you have control over it

If your money already in other pocket....you have NO control over it....they want to return will now depend on them....NOT YOU..... :eek:

So you decide

Rof|maoxz
01-04-2005, 06:28 AM
Newcomers please dun quote the whole post, tks.

Optimus_Prime
01-04-2005, 08:33 AM
Sorry, this is a fact of life. They will really even con their own tong-zhi when they are desperate. This is my experience when I was in China. And I have enough $$$$$$ problems of my own: my kids schoolbooks/toys/milk powder, wife's shopping, my car installments, my house installments, my maid's salary, ..... blah blah blah. Oh.... n my vitamin M for HC massages!!! Bwahahahahahahah!!!!

Until next time, cheong-ahhhhhhh.............!

Well said bro... everybody have $$ problems of their own. That's the samurai spirit, Bro Groo "Serve one master only...yourself"..heheh :p

Bro Kinger, If u really want to lent her... you would have done so w/o any hesitation.... and not be here asking 4 advise. Enuff said.

Looksee
01-04-2005, 08:38 AM
dun think u should use the term "lent" as far as PRCs are consant........go out no come back.........can write off liao..........sorry hor, my england also cannot make it 1.......BCT.........

:D

meng
01-04-2005, 08:59 AM
dun think u should use the term "lent" as far as PRCs are consant........go out no come back.........can write off liao..........sorry hor, my england also cannot make it 1.......BCT.........

:D

Mai act act leh....yr ang mo no good me rojak liao... :D

HardRock
01-04-2005, 09:12 AM
Personally, feels like although this has’nt any beneficial of putting comments to me but hope this will helps rest of you people out there in future of a clearer vision.

Lastly, thanks for all the assistance and comments!

Best Regards
Me too can't relly understand what you trying to tell us here. But, if it is regarding the money to PRC gal issue, I think you better think twice before you act. Being a regular PRC cheogster, I suggest you believe only 30% of what they told you unless you have known the girl for a very long time and are comfortable to be with her. Of course, that's also depend on whether you have extra cash or not.

Think carefully before you act.....

Looksee
01-04-2005, 09:23 AM
Mai act act leh....yr ang mo no good me rojak liao... :D


u like tat say me good meh?

btw si mi rojak? chinese or indian rojak?

tonite u cheong XTD huh?

:D

meng
01-04-2005, 09:30 AM
u like tat say me good meh?

btw si mi rojak? chinese or indian rojak?

tonite u cheong XTD huh?

:D

I chinese so i chinese rojak

XTD = now ai mai ai mai = i also dun know...

BTW...you went yesterday to DC har...

Looksee
01-04-2005, 09:34 AM
BTW...you went yesterday to DC har...

no lah, where got? i didn't go.............

:D

i was at TAM

meng
01-04-2005, 09:42 AM
Win liao lor...silience silience go again...haiz..... :(

freelance
01-04-2005, 09:47 AM
What is "her parent is sick"?? which parent? both parents? u mean they have cancer? sore throat? amputation? kidney problem? is the money u lend her for doctor? clinic? hospital? medicine? operation? one time only? repeat treatments? see.....u know nothing about what ur money will be used for.

why don't u find out where she's from....then tell her u have to visit PRC for work trip....say u want to visit her parents at same time to check in on them and give them money....then see what she say.


If she's sick, don't you think that borrow from her relatives is better den coming here to work and bring back the $$$? Anyway in china, the family nucleus is very big. Each adult chip in 100-200RMB should not be a problem. Unless you wanna act big time hero and lend her the $$. :rolleyes:

easyeasy
01-04-2005, 09:49 AM
of course have to say they are sick lah if not you would give them the money mah, sick from what did she tell you, maybe only running nose, cough or sore throat only. if really sick do you think she still have the mood to travel to Sin to ask for money from you without knowing you will give her or not? you also reluctunt to part with you money lah you just want to made use of us to comfort yourself only for not lending her the money, right boh

zhu star
01-04-2005, 09:50 AM
Just a piece of info

in China there is no clinic like those in Sin. There are hospital everywhere. though. If ur sick in China and visit these hospital, they won't give you medication but drip bottle and charge you high price. So if you decided to help out be prepared that the need for vit M does not stop here. All after-mdeical care and the tonic is going to cost as well.
Want o share my experience with bro with similar problems.

Contrary to what many of us thought, it is very expensive for PRC citizen to get first class medical treatment. Yes they will put you on some kind of cheap medication but you have to pay top dollar to really get treated. In my case, the poor gal even have to put alot cash up front plus a big amount for 'kopi' money to the hospital staff just to admit her father.

If any bro is willing to help such gal, I can only suggest to him to visit her sick relative back home and even admit him /her into the hospital to ensure that you are not cheated of your hard earn money, especially when the amount of money is huge. The gal I believe will not object if she really need the help.

iloveoversea
01-04-2005, 10:13 AM
Contrary to what many of us thought, it is very expensive for PRC citizen to get first class medical treatment. Yes they will put you on some kind of cheap medication but you have to pay top dollar to really get treated. In my case, the poor gal even have to put alot cash up front plus a big amount for 'kopi' money to the hospital staff just to admit her father.


Sorry to hear abt the story of yours. but i tot the hospital normally "bo lang" . PRCs normally try not to visit these hospital as hospitals would try to squeeze as much money from you as possible. Know someone who actually got some illness like flu nut hte hospital did not tell him wats his illness and got him to go drip bottle everyday for a whole week.

zhu star
01-04-2005, 10:29 AM
Sorry to hear abt the story of yours. but i tot the hospital normally "bo lang" . PRCs normally try not to visit these hospital as hospitals would try to squeeze as much money from you as possible. Know someone who actually got some illness like flu nut hte hospital did not tell him wats his illness and got him to go drip bottle everyday for a whole week.
PRC will avoid going to the hospital at all cost, they will only visit the hospital only when they are very very ill and in my cases it become terminal illness. The reason is it is very costly to them to get treatment. I spent a small fortune to help her father treated but unforunately my help was too late. I suspect the thinking there is there are so many poor ppl in China, one less won't make any difference especially when it is a old folk.

Btw, it is not only in China that such problem arise but the same thing is happening in Vietnam. Pay first plus kopi money and we will admit your patient for treatment. I suspect the same applied to countries surrounding these two countries.

After witnessing such tragedy, Sg medical system is still the best. (at least they will admit you for treatment and ask for payment later)

Kinger
01-04-2005, 10:44 AM
Bro Kinger,IMHO $$$ issue wat type of feedback u want???either lend or reject her.....if i tell u lend,u dont get ur $$$ back,u will blame me a nt????if i say dont lend,really her parent cannot make it liao die.....(touch wood),u will say i heartless a not????u think twice urself lah,who are we to give u advise on tis???think wat u shld do and tats it! ;)


Thanks! I want to analysis out of all the feedback...

Kinger
01-04-2005, 11:03 AM
Thanks again to all yo outta again! Because I bother
is the reason I posted this.

Just as Comrade PAUL25, is it mind game or what like
the movie like "Internal Affairs".... ?

iloveoversea
01-04-2005, 11:57 AM
PRC will avoid going to the hospital at all cost, they will only visit the hospital only when they are very very ill and in my cases it become terminal illness. The reason is it is very costly to them to get treatment.
Sg medical system is still the best. (at least they will admit you for treatment and ask for payment later)

ya lor. those places only talk abt money. no money no talk.

Niceman
01-04-2005, 12:01 PM
I in need to cash also....in return, I will intro you a chinese meimei to be your gf? can anot?
Just say, your parents also sick, need money for medi, see how long she will stay with you lor

Kinger
01-04-2005, 01:22 PM
Thanks again to all yo outta again!

It's because I concern and bother about this matter so I did a post here.
I may be good in handling certain things but not all. that's why needed
advise from you'all expert to anlaysis at the end... Maybe it's also an experience in life which some people may or not come across.

Likewise example :
Thanks to Comrade AhPaul25 had mention something like mind games or what.

groo
01-04-2005, 07:10 PM
[QUOTE=Optimus_Prime]Well said bro... everybody have $$ problems of their own. That's the samurai spirit, Bro Groo "Serve one master only...yourself"..heheh [QUOTE]

Thanks Optimus_Prime, always appreciate good words from lao-jiaos such as you. :D Been to BHC recently? Any other good HCs to intro? :p

Best regards n cheong-ahhhh......!

Kinger
03-04-2005, 02:36 PM
Thanks all...

Wigan
03-04-2005, 06:51 PM
Hi,

Filipinos g/f is much more safer...they're easy to sian & really gives you good loving tender care....they are very passionate when comes to love making...they talked about forming relationship with you...true...but when you had enough ..just tell her that you were wrong that 'we shouldn't be together in the first place' ....then she'll understand & let you go....a little heart breaking though...... :o

Kinger
04-04-2005, 01:44 PM
Hi,

Filipinos g/f is much more safer...they're easy to sian & really gives you good loving tender care....they are very passionate when comes to love making...they talked about forming relationship with you...true...but when you had enough ..just tell her that you were wrong that 'we shouldn't be together in the first place' ....then she'll understand & let you go....a little heart breaking though...... :o

Merci, Wigan..

Randi_Candi
04-04-2005, 02:48 PM
The line begins on the kind of stuff which starts with money involve again. This is the first time which it’s my first PRC gal which in hometown mention that her parent is sick. At meantime, which is halfway into coming here again and would like to borrow same cash in return; when here. Although I came across a lot of stories by some of you guys outta which had good or bad experience, but still hope to get some suggestions and real life feedbacks or email.

How long n well do you know her?
Wat is she 2 u?

If u had done ur part in SG and she is a nobody then move on
No being heartless cad but the fact is there r bound 2 b some who will go for the soft spot approach

I recently heard of a guy who remitted SGD60k in cash excluding gifts in 6months willingly to a girl.
The gal can lose RMB8k in 1day n has a small white face n she has no feelings for the guy in SG, to her, he is just a carrot :D

sadfa
04-04-2005, 03:11 PM
I recently heard of a guy who remitted SGD60k in cash excluding gifts in 6months willingly to a girl.
The gal can lose RMB8k in 1day n has a small white face n she has no feelings for the guy in SG, to her, he is just a carrot :D

bro, i am tired of all these relationship problems w prc gers.
yup to many of them, men r just carrots n these gers' words CANNOT BE TRUSTED!

this guy give so much money, unless he is a millionaire, this is money down the drain.

sometimes i wonder why spore men really not so savvy n keep on getting chop. wonder when they will learn.

Kinger
04-04-2005, 05:42 PM
bro, i am tired of all these relationship problems w prc gers.
yup to many of them, men r just carrots n these gers' words CANNOT BE TRUSTED!

this guy give so much money, unless he is a millionaire, this is money down the drain.

sometimes i wonder why spore men really not so savvy n keep on getting chop. wonder when they will learn.


Merci, Sadfa..

Kinger
04-04-2005, 05:43 PM
How long n well do you know her?
Wat is she 2 u?

If u had done ur part in SG and she is a nobody then move on
No being heartless cad but the fact is there r bound 2 b some who will go for the soft spot approach

I recently heard of a guy who remitted SGD60k in cash excluding gifts in 6months willingly to a girl.
The gal can lose RMB8k in 1day n has a small white face n she has no feelings for the guy in SG, to her, he is just a carrot :D


Merci, Randi

triplebiatch
05-04-2005, 01:29 AM
my thought for this??

I guess the thread started know his answer all this while, just choose not to believe and hope got some nice "advise" from fellow brother, thus can cheat himself to believing the PRC stories.

thread starter, actually the purpose of this thread is that you hope to see some "positive remark rite"? to assure the PRC stories?

if this intention is true you know i know you are just fooling own yourself, let yourself die sweeter

Kinger
05-04-2005, 11:26 AM
my thought for this??

I guess the thread started know his answer all this while, just choose not to believe and hope got some nice "advise" from fellow brother, thus can cheat himself to believing the PRC stories.

thread starter, actually the purpose of this thread is that you hope to see some "positive remark rite"? to assure the PRC stories?

if this intention is true you know i know you are just fooling own yourself, let yourself die sweeter


Mi scusi, tripleboatch..

No matter the comment is positive or negetive, most of this true events out from experience and belive that some will come across itself.

Personally, feels all the guys posted here are sincere enough and not posting for nothing. Even which is the decision we had choosen in the end, we must face the consequences...

By the way, good comment... Grazie Mille. Addio!

groo
05-04-2005, 08:13 PM
....Personally, feels all the guys posted here are sincere enough and not posting for nothing. Even which is the decision we had choosen in the end, we must face the consequences...!

My 2 cents worth. My dad's friend reached retirement age several years ago, took out all his CPF moneys... got to know a PRC lady... family got wind of it.... quarrels became a daily affair... even his grown-up kids cannot tahan his fucked-up attitude n encourage their mother to divorce him... so they sold the house, divide up all the moneys, went separate ways...

Soon... the cocked-up guy gave the PRC gal almost all his moneys... of course she scooted back to PRC a gal made good on infamous Sgp men's foolishness... he, left with meagre savings, rented a partitioned room in an apartment... the typical cantonese "Yarn-yao-loh, cheen-yao-moh" (meaning "old n poor")... now living day to day n hand to mouth with no family, no job n worrying where the next meal will come from...

THIS IS A TRUE STORY!!! One that i've seen countless times among my dad's friends who are... surprise! surprise! quite highly educated... some even form the old Nanyang University....

So better learn from history or history repeats itself, which usually seems to be the case!!! :(

Randi_Candi
06-04-2005, 10:45 AM
bro, i am tired of all these relationship problems w prc gers.
yup to many of them, men r just carrots n these gers' words CANNOT BE TRUSTED!

this guy give so much money, unless he is a millionaire, this is money down the drain.

sometimes i wonder why spore men really not so savvy n keep on getting chop. wonder when they will learn.
Haha.....its a game they play, if u r into the game then u must know urself n ur player
Once its too often, u can c the traits n tricks

Tat guy? he is a partner in 1 of the more lucrative business involving them but also kena

Its a game of willing n receiving n its a game they play til they wake up, when? When they r broke or heart broken

sadfa
06-04-2005, 11:16 AM
Haha.....its a game they play, if u r into the game then u must know urself n ur player
Once its too often, u can c the traits n tricks

Its a game of willing n receiving n its a game they play til they wake up, when? When they r broke or heart broken

think many involved in it heard the stories b4 but refuse to believe the syt would lie or cheat them or it would happen 2 them, until they kenna.

of course when they kenna, they still refuse to believe n speak up for the syt cos they r shrewd businessmen who shouldnt fall for such tricks.

just like those ah peks n their cpf as said by groo.

if u want to play, always play on your terms. if not, tell them to fuck off!

Castrol
06-04-2005, 11:48 AM
Merci, Sadfa..

"Merci", this is french right?
Vieira always says this to the referee...

i could be wrong though... :D

HC_Cheongster
06-04-2005, 12:15 PM
Its always the same old mistakes made by new pple. :(

Kinger
06-04-2005, 12:21 PM
"Merci", this is french right?
Vieira always says this to the referee...

i could be wrong though... :D

Oui... T.Henry too.

Kinger
06-04-2005, 12:22 PM
think many involved in it heard the stories b4 but refuse to believe the syt would lie or cheat them or it would happen 2 them, until they kenna.

of course when they kenna, they still refuse to believe n speak up for the syt cos they r shrewd businessmen who shouldnt fall for such tricks.

just like those ah peks n their cpf as said by groo.

if u want to play, always play on your terms. if not, tell them to fuck off!


Your right, Randi! Thanks.

Kinger
06-04-2005, 12:27 PM
My 2 cents worth. My dad's friend reached retirement age several years ago, took out all his CPF moneys... got to know a PRC lady... family got wind of it.... quarrels became a daily affair... even his grown-up kids cannot tahan his fucked-up attitude n encourage their mother to divorce him... so they sold the house, divide up all the moneys, went separate ways...

Soon... the cocked-up guy gave the PRC gal almost all his moneys... of course she scooted back to PRC a gal made good on infamous Sgp men's foolishness... he, left with meagre savings, rented a partitioned room in an apartment... the typical cantonese "Yarn-yao-loh, cheen-yao-moh" (meaning "old n poor")... now living day to day n hand to mouth with no family, no job n worrying where the next meal will come from...

THIS IS A TRUE STORY!!! One that i've seen countless times among my dad's friends who are... surprise! surprise! quite highly educated... some even form the old Nanyang University....

So better learn from history or history repeats itself, which usually seems to be the case!!! :(

and "Lo Pou Zao Lou " (meaning "wife away")... Thanks groo..

mahalosux
06-04-2005, 12:29 PM
Just a piece of info

in China there is no clinic like those in Sin. There are hospital everywhere. though. If ur sick in China and visit these hospital, they won't give you medication but drip bottle and charge you high price. So if you decided to help out be prepared that the need for vit M does not stop here. All after-mdeical care and the tonic is going to cost as well.


yah me noe tat too.. need to go hospital drip here and there.. and end of the day.. stil feel as bad as b4... :(

iloveoversea
06-04-2005, 01:53 PM
yah me noe tat too.. need to go hospital drip here and there.. and end of the day.. stil feel as bad as b4... :(

Ya lar, Ya lar. U got no illness go drip for wat??

Later kenna bloated but no means to release how...

iloveoversea
06-04-2005, 01:58 PM
think many involved in it heard the stories b4 but refuse to believe the syt would lie or cheat them or it would happen 2 them, until they kenna.

just like those ah peks n their cpf as said by groo.


Well a lot of Prcs kenna cheated in China to come to Sin, sometimes tens of grands of RMB. So to cover back the cost alone might require them to cheat liao. This truth alone are often overlook by those confident ppl. Thus, these are the ones often kenna con by the prcs.

mahalosux
06-04-2005, 03:24 PM
Well a lot of Prcs kenna cheated in China to come to Sin, sometimes tens of grands of RMB. So to cover back the cost alone might require them to cheat liao. This truth alone are often overlook by those confident ppl. Thus, these are the ones often kenna con by the prcs.

walao.. bro u noe so much..kekekeke.. when free.. come out from kopi.. we share share tips... :D

mahalosux
06-04-2005, 03:26 PM
Ya lar, Ya lar. U got no illness go drip for wat??

Later kenna bloated but no means to release how...

dun u noe.. i m like a sick bird now... :(

jus come back from my MC....

iloveoversea
06-04-2005, 04:01 PM
dun u noe.. i m like a sick bird now... :(

jus come back from my MC....

MC?? sound like MG more leh.....
U sick of wat? sick of Singapore liao issit.

K9696
06-04-2005, 04:20 PM
MC?? sound like MG more leh.....
U sick of wat? sick of Singapore liao issit.

wah bro.. u liktat say my brother.. how can ....!!

Qweekong
06-04-2005, 04:21 PM
Heard he got STD.... you better stay away from him before you kena also.... :D MC?? sound like MG more leh.....
U sick of wat? sick of Singapore liao issit.

mahalosux
06-04-2005, 05:17 PM
MC?? sound like MG more leh.....
U sick of wat? sick of Singapore liao issit.

i on MC lah.. where got MG.. I got 2 weeks never go MG liao leh... :o

sick of s'pore.. definitely.. me wan to go china...kekekeke :D

mahalosux
06-04-2005, 05:19 PM
wah bro.. u liktat say my brother.. how can ....!!

hahaha.. no prob...i noe this joker for almost 10 years liao....he's lidat... :D

sadfa
06-04-2005, 05:24 PM
Well a lot of Prcs kenna cheated in China to come to Sin, sometimes tens of grands of RMB. So to cover back the cost alone might require them to cheat liao. This truth alone are often overlook by those confident ppl. Thus, these are the ones often kenna con by the prcs.

well the ah peks never cheat them. so why should the ah peks get cheated in turn?

groo
06-04-2005, 08:50 PM
Well a lot of Prcs kenna cheated in China to come to Sin, sometimes tens of grands of RMB. So to cover back the cost alone might require them to cheat liao. This truth alone are often overlook by those confident ppl. Thus, these are the ones often kenna con by the prcs.

This is true many years back when they do not know their way around. But now it's so easy and convenient since PRC opened up few years ago. So easy to visit Sgp on visitor pass.

Now some even come here in groups to con... ala the lost handphone scam, black magic stone, magic apples, blah blah blah...

Let me say this: I've come into contact with many PRCs over the years, they can be very ruthless, even to us who have known them for many years and their own "tong-zhi". So what more goondo "harm-sup" old men and ignorant old women. There are so many such old folks in their own country that they take advantage of so often.... :(

So pls dun talk about poor old man or woman or blah blah blah.... Otherwise, they would not be called con-man or con-woman! :mad:

Randi_Candi
07-04-2005, 12:59 PM
Ya lar, Ya lar. U got no illness go drip for wat??

Later kenna bloated but no means to release how...
He likes 2 b poked, tats y he go for the thrill of dripping
Either tat or he was a medic out of course, his wish was to complete the course?? :D

Ignite
07-04-2005, 01:03 PM
Dear All,
The line begins on the kind of stuff which starts with money involve again. This is the first time which it’s my first PRC gal which in hometown mention that her parent is sick. At meantime, which is halfway into coming here again and would like to borrow same cash in return; when here. Although I came across a lot of stories by some of you guys outta which had good or bad experience, but still hope to get some suggestions and real life feedbacks or email.


I kena this problem once.. read my first post here - http://forum.sammyboy.com/showthread.php?t=30378

then read the 2nd post here - http://forum.sammyboy.com/showthread.php?t=30378&page=8&pp=15

mahalosux
07-04-2005, 01:03 PM
He likes 2 b poked, tats y he go for the thrill of dripping
Either tat or he was a medic out of course, his wish was to complete the course?? :D

none of the above.. is jus tat i got this feedback from my gal while u went report sick at the hospital...

zhu star
07-04-2005, 01:07 PM
How long n well do you know her?
Wat is she 2 u?


I recently heard of a guy who remitted SGD60k in cash excluding gifts in 6months willingly to a girl.
The gal can lose RMB8k in 1day n has a small white face n she has no feelings for the guy in SG, to her, he is just a carrot :D
Last monday while having a drink in one of the pub in JC, I overheard one guy telling another guy at the next table tat last year alone he gave/spent more than 100K on a single PRC gal!

Hope he got his money worth.

monster98
07-04-2005, 01:09 PM
Last monday while having a drink in one of the pub in JC, I overheard one guy telling another guy at the next table tat last year alone he gave/spent more than 100K on a single PRC gal!

Hope he got his money worth.

Not surprise........ 1 of our bro here already spend $60K on his prc gf for less than 1/2 year....... :D

Randi_Candi
07-04-2005, 01:13 PM
Last monday while having a drink in one of the pub in JC, I overheard one guy telling another guy at the next table tat last year alone he gave/spent more than 100K on a single PRC gal!

Hope he got his money worth.
Well......there is 1 famous word in the field - 人走茶凉
It means when the person leaves the tea used to serve the guest turns cold too.

In JC, I hv heard of a guy blowing 40k of savings in 1 or 2 mths on a Viet gal 2
At the end of the day its the perceived returns that make them willing to burn their pocket. Til the day when they realised that all was for a spur of fun, its too late 2 turn back

Starting a relationship for long term with the initial offering of huge money only goes 2 show how fragile the relationship is.
C'mon, if a guy can do tat 2 a gal hardly known, wat the gal thks?
Every1 also getting the same treatment? B4 others squeezed him dry, y not Me? ;)

zhu star
07-04-2005, 01:16 PM
Not surprise........ 1 of our bro here already spend $60K on his prc gf for less than 1/2 year....... :D
Crazy ppl, imagine at 100buck for a blonk, he can have 1,000 buck for his 100,000 buck and if he blonk every day with sunday as off days, he needs more than 3 years to finish his quota!

Randi_Candi
07-04-2005, 01:18 PM
Not surprise........ 1 of our bro here already spend $60K on his prc gf for less than 1/2 year....... :D
Hiazzz......even emperors gave up thrones for beauties, its the perceived returns liao

Anyway giving up moni is still betta than giving up loved 1s to find unrequitted love or pain, tio boh? :D

monster98
07-04-2005, 01:33 PM
Hiazzz......even emperors gave up thrones for beauties, its the perceived returns liao

Anyway giving up moni is still betta than giving up loved 1s to find unrequitted love or pain, tio boh? :D

ask your baby......... don't ask me......... :D

acer3939
07-04-2005, 01:36 PM
Aya go find 1 fl bonk lah, good bonk write fr say good! bad bonk write fr complain keke, eat liao also no 'hand tail' mah keke dont zap hoh my brains kena icefire so blur blur dont know i talking keke :D

zhu star
07-04-2005, 01:42 PM
Well......there is 1 famous word in the field - 人走茶凉
It means when the person leaves the tea used to serve the guest turns cold too.

In JC, I hv heard of a guy blowing 40k of savings in 1 or 2 mths on a Viet gal 2
At the end of the day its the perceived returns that make them willing to burn their pocket. Til the day when they realised that all was for a spur of fun, its too late 2 turn back

Starting a relationship for long term with the initial offering of huge money only goes 2 show how fragile the relationship is.
C'mon, if a guy can do tat 2 a gal hardly known, wat the gal thks?
Every1 also getting the same treatment? B4 others squeezed him dry, y not Me? ;)
As a cheongster I meet my fair share of such gals from PRC and Viet. and I must also admit that I am involved in this type of relationship with one PRC and one viet gal!

I do understand that love or any type of relationship with them does not come cheap but everytime they ask for additional money other than those I used to gave them, I will check and find out whether their stories is true or false. I even took a flight back home with my PRC gal when she told me her father is cirtical ill and urgently need money for medical treatment. By doing so I achieve two objective: one is that she know I am checking and cannot lie to me and secondly can score point when u shown concern.

If she doesn't want u to check, then I can only suggest that you leave her! You must have a heart cast in stone if you want to survive in such situation. ( Easier said than done, especially when the small head override the big head!)

K9696
07-04-2005, 03:01 PM
[QUOTE=zhu star]

Bro.. agreed with your point.. to certain extend we man may overlook on certain tricks that may come out from this PRC gals.. we are so busy at times and off guard with these pple then they start to attack you or you may get caught with your pants down....

Overall dun let your emotion/feeling run over you... if you are.. deep deep trouble....$$$$ will starts to down the drain.. (like opening tap water... lau bua teng...)

They are oso good one dun ask anything from you.. <this are all the minority> :)

lawry
07-04-2005, 03:15 PM
PRC dont lend.. they take.. as what SENIOR EXPERIENCED SAMSTER Looksee had said.. if they take.. no return.

If u wish to have a good relationship from her.. give her 2k or less.. tell her this is the best u can get.. 2k = 10k in china.. so that should be it..

or tell her u willing to fly down and see the situation and see what actually happens..

it really depends.. if u wan more of her.. give her.. if u dont wan.. tell her u no money... ask her give u sometime to hunt for money.. and max give her 1k..

but if u dont wan her anymore.. ask her go fly kite..

treat that 1 ~ 2k as prepaid cash for future FOC bonks.. and u will be ok..

u have been with her before.. definately u will know a little bit of her charactor.. is she the money face sort.. this can be a little test... ask her how much she wans?

now in china.. ppl spend money like water.. even between PRC relatives borrowing 5 ~ 20K among each other is pretty common..

do a mental sum now.. when she is with u.. how much u spend on her.. and how many times u bonk her.. is she a good investment? 1 ~ 2 bonk = $100.. go figure out.

Kinger
12-04-2005, 01:11 PM
Once again, thank you very much for all out here the affort of putting comments/suggestions. Will post an outcome of this event.

To be continued.....................